Gift biz unwrapped episode 353.
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Speaker:Your gift biz.
Speaker:Here is your host gift biz gal Sue moon Heights.
Speaker:Hi there.
Speaker:It's Sue and thanks for joining me here today.
Speaker:How's the year starting out for you not going to lie.
Speaker:It's been a little shaky on my end.
Speaker:I'm not wanting to give you just the good and paint
Speaker:a rosy picture because if you're close to me,
Speaker:you'll know full well that it isn't with the new strain
Speaker:of COVID raising its nasty head.
Speaker:Our office has gotten hit again with the virus.
Speaker:So we're making staffing adjustments to ensure that we're not all
Speaker:affected at the same time.
Speaker:Anyway, that way orders can go out.
Speaker:As you would anticipate.
Speaker:Plus the Colorado fires hit our family and the emotional toll
Speaker:on that.
Speaker:Can't be underestimated.
Speaker:I know there are a lot of others across the country
Speaker:who have been impacted by the hurricanes,
Speaker:tornadoes and health challenges too.
Speaker:And my heart goes out to all of us,
Speaker:but still I'm optimistic about 2022 and what the year will
Speaker:hold. Even though it's been a rough start,
Speaker:that is not going to set the tone for my entire
Speaker:year. It's just not how I roll.
Speaker:So let's move into what there is to look forward to
Speaker:shadowy. You'll be hearing a lot about national bakers,
Speaker:crafters makers day all month long,
Speaker:because there is just so much that you can participate in.
Speaker:And I don't want you to miss a single thing.
Speaker:The mid roll of this show will show you many of
Speaker:the details,
Speaker:but if you want all the goods head over to handmade,
Speaker:heals the world.com
Speaker:for a complete review right now,
Speaker:though, I want to dive into the show.
Speaker:I had a chance to talk with a married couple who
Speaker:are experts on selling at markets.
Speaker:Their story is so interesting because they both had this passion
Speaker:as they were growing up.
Speaker:And the combination of their experiences together is really powerful.
Speaker:You'll see what I mean in a minute,
Speaker:but if you haven't considered a craft show before,
Speaker:it's something to seriously think about for this year.
Speaker:It might change everything for you.
Speaker:And I don't know if you've noticed,
Speaker:but even the experts in social media are now changing their
Speaker:messaging and talking a lot more about email and yes,
Speaker:face-to-face selling like we're focusing on today.
Speaker:So without further delay,
Speaker:let's get to this value packed conversation Today.
Speaker:It is my special joy to introduce you to Matt and
Speaker:lane of obsessed with markets,
Speaker:Matt and lane are a husband and wife business partner team.
Speaker:And they come from separate backgrounds.
Speaker:Let me share that with you.
Speaker:As we start our conversation today,
Speaker:lane comes from a retail family.
Speaker:So she grew up on the floor of large retail stores
Speaker:and experienced going to market with her mom and dad.
Speaker:Matt is a welder fitter by trade,
Speaker:who has spent the bulk of his life making sculpting and
Speaker:fabricating anything.
Speaker:He could get his hands on his professional life before obsessed
Speaker:was manufacturing and construction management.
Speaker:They spend their lives now helping makers and artisans understand what
Speaker:steps need to be taken to turn their creative passion into
Speaker:the job they want or the opportunity that they want.
Speaker:Matt and lane.
Speaker:Welcome to the gift biz on wrapped podcast.
Speaker:Hello are so excited to be here.
Speaker:Thank You.
Speaker:Yes. We're very excited to be here with you.
Speaker:I know I'm so excited too.
Speaker:And we are right on the same wavelength in terms of
Speaker:the types of things that we provide our audiences.
Speaker:So I know this is going to be a fabulous conversation
Speaker:For sure.
Speaker:We're super excited to be here.
Speaker:So, and like you just said,
Speaker:we have very similar backgrounds and ideas on things.
Speaker:So I'm excited for this one.
Speaker:Yeah. And we did not talk a lot in the pre-chat.
Speaker:So everything that comes up is going to be original new,
Speaker:which is the way I really like to do it.
Speaker:So it's not like,
Speaker:well, we already talked about this,
Speaker:but now we're talking about it for the mic.
Speaker:But before we do that,
Speaker:I like to do something a little bit different as we
Speaker:start off the show.
Speaker:And that is to have you describe yourself in a creative
Speaker:way through a motivational candle.
Speaker:So I give you guys a little bit of opportunity to
Speaker:think about this beforehand.
Speaker:And I'm curious,
Speaker:are you guys doing separate candles?
Speaker:Are you doing one candle together?
Speaker:We're going to definitely do separate cabinets.
Speaker:Oh, okay.
Speaker:Well maybe there's a story we'll get into about that later.
Speaker:I don't know.
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:We're both very independent thinkers of one another.
Speaker:We work well as a team,
Speaker:but we're very independent as to what we think we should
Speaker:be done or what we Shouldn't be doing.
Speaker:Those look very different.
Speaker:So yeah.
Speaker:Oh, that's exciting actually though.
Speaker:Okay. Since this is a non traditional question,
Speaker:I am going to go the traditional way and ladies first
Speaker:lane. So tell us about your candle.
Speaker:Okay. So this is a motivational candle and I think if
Speaker:I was to choose a color,
Speaker:I would like to try and go something bright and in
Speaker:your face and bold.
Speaker:But my husband would tell me that I'm a complete liar.
Speaker:So my color would have to be black,
Speaker:like stark black.
Speaker:And it's what I'm comfortable with.
Speaker:So my motivational candle would be black.
Speaker:It would be strong.
Speaker:It would be very statuesque.
Speaker:And I think that would be kind of to the point.
Speaker:I'm very like specific,
Speaker:bold to the point black,
Speaker:are you black and white girl?
Speaker:I'm so black and white As black as it gets.
Speaker:I don't Know a lot of people like it,
Speaker:but I'm very blunt to the point.
Speaker:Yeah. But then you people know where they stand with you.
Speaker:They know where you stand on an issue.
Speaker:There's no Jackie and back and forth about a situation.
Speaker:And I actually like that.
Speaker:Yeah. That would be me.
Speaker:Do You have a quote or a saying or anything that
Speaker:goes on the candle?
Speaker:No, I don't think I do.
Speaker:Just to the point.
Speaker:I think it depends on the situation that I'm kind of
Speaker:dealing with.
Speaker:It would probably change to the day.
Speaker:Okay. So I've got to ask you a question.
Speaker:Do you find that this trait with you being very,
Speaker:like you have your opinion and your thoughts and where you
Speaker:stand on things,
Speaker:do you find that that serves you well in business?
Speaker:I think beforehand,
Speaker:I would've thought that this would have been something that was
Speaker:against me,
Speaker:a flaw against me because I'm very,
Speaker:to the point I say things that maybe don't need to
Speaker:be said sometimes,
Speaker:but it's been a very positive thing with my clients because
Speaker:instead of beating around the Bush,
Speaker:when we're coaching and we're discussing things,
Speaker:I can say what's truly happening,
Speaker:the true facts and be very,
Speaker:to the point we don't have to mess around.
Speaker:We don't have to skirt around the issue.
Speaker:So yeah.
Speaker:I feel like it has been a definitely an asset for
Speaker:me. Yeah.
Speaker:And you know,
Speaker:I would say there's a way to say things in a
Speaker:way to say things,
Speaker:right. So you can be to the point,
Speaker:but still be nice and kind Oh,
Speaker:a hundred percent,
Speaker:right? Yeah.
Speaker:It doesn't mean that you're not being that,
Speaker:but it also,
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:when you think of coaching,
Speaker:coaching is time and hours.
Speaker:And if you don't get right to the point,
Speaker:you're kind of wasting money A hundred percent,
Speaker:right. You have limited time.
Speaker:So you need to get to the point,
Speaker:you needed to find the problems In my corporate life.
Speaker:I was in a management position where I talked a lot
Speaker:with my team about the fact that if we're critiquing,
Speaker:there's a way to critique.
Speaker:But a critique is a gift versus thinking things in your
Speaker:mind about how things could be different or what you should
Speaker:be adjusting and never saying anything,
Speaker:but coming out and talking about these things,
Speaker:if you have an opinion in the right way,
Speaker:with the right words,
Speaker:with the right goal,
Speaker:the goal to be beneficial to everybody is like a gift
Speaker:versus withholding information.
Speaker:And I like in our marriage and our professional life,
Speaker:like we literally communicate the same way and everything we do
Speaker:together, but we are all about critique.
Speaker:It's funny when people hear us speak to each other,
Speaker:because we are to the point,
Speaker:like we're not being hurtful,
Speaker:but if one of us required the other one to do
Speaker:something and if it wasn't done the way we needed it,
Speaker:there just sort of,
Speaker:matter of fact,
Speaker:we things to us where we'll say to the other one,
Speaker:like, no,
Speaker:no, this isn't what I wanted.
Speaker:I need it to look like this.
Speaker:And we're very free to speak to each other like that.
Speaker:And it helps so much with our communication in general and
Speaker:the pace that we can do things because we can speak
Speaker:to each other.
Speaker:So Yeah,
Speaker:we're not trying to hurt each other's feelings,
Speaker:but we're able to address problems and issues very quickly.
Speaker:Right. But you're on same page in terms of the understanding
Speaker:of the method and the way you guys are going to
Speaker:communicate with each other.
Speaker:But was it Always that way or did you have to
Speaker:have a conversation to set it up so that you guys
Speaker:would understand each other in this manner?
Speaker:It's always been that way.
Speaker:We have the same personality in some ways.
Speaker:We're very,
Speaker:very, to the point And we're to the point,
Speaker:but like you mentioned,
Speaker:Sue, like there are ways to speak and then there are
Speaker:ways to speak.
Speaker:Like we're not hurtful,
Speaker:but we are to the point.
Speaker:So I mean,
Speaker:we parent,
Speaker:like we do everything like this.
Speaker:If it doesn't serve,
Speaker:like you said,
Speaker:right? Like coaching in particular,
Speaker:this happens to you is with everyone else,
Speaker:right? Like when you're coaching someone,
Speaker:how much do you butter up what's happened or try and
Speaker:make it pretty,
Speaker:as opposed to just saying like,
Speaker:look, I'm going to rip this bandaid off.
Speaker:I got to tell you what I see.
Speaker:Let's work through what you think about it.
Speaker:But this is what I think right now go,
Speaker:Right. You're not serving them if you don't do it that
Speaker:way. Not at all.
Speaker:No. But I think you also have to have those solutions
Speaker:ready for them in those situations.
Speaker:If you're going to say something and you're going to have
Speaker:a critique or you're going to have,
Speaker:this is a problem,
Speaker:you need to be able to follow up with solutions and
Speaker:answers for these people too.
Speaker:Don't push someone off the cliff.
Speaker:Well, and I think so just lastly,
Speaker:on this topic,
Speaker:Sue, cause I'm just thinking about how lane and I communicate.
Speaker:And that's one thing that we do for each other all
Speaker:the time is we never say no.
Speaker:Or we never say that's not good enough if we don't
Speaker:have a clear outcome,
Speaker:like we never get petty with what the outcome needed to
Speaker:be. If we're helping each other.
Speaker:Or if we have an opinion on what something the other
Speaker:person has done,
Speaker:we're never petty about it.
Speaker:We never say like,
Speaker:I don't like that and then never have a rebuttal.
Speaker:We'll say like,
Speaker:okay, I think we should do it like this.
Speaker:Like what do you think about that?
Speaker:I don't think so because I wanted to do it like
Speaker:that. Okay.
Speaker:Perfect. Carry on then.
Speaker:Right. It sounds like they aren't subjective comments.
Speaker:Like I don't like that.
Speaker:Well, what do you even do with that comment?
Speaker:Exactly. Yeah.
Speaker:It's much more productive in terms of the content of what
Speaker:you're saying.
Speaker:That leads to a different solution.
Speaker:Like if you thought it should be done differently or something
Speaker:for you to,
Speaker:to discuss,
Speaker:to see each other's sides,
Speaker:that kind of thing.
Speaker:This is already great.
Speaker:Because one of the things I did want to talk about
Speaker:is how you guys were able to work together so well.
Speaker:So we've already gotten some insight into that,
Speaker:but now I want to move on Matt,
Speaker:let's talk about your candle.
Speaker:What does yours look like?
Speaker:I'm a little more artistic than my wife.
Speaker:So bear with me.
Speaker:I'm very specific on what it would look like.
Speaker:I would have initially said red,
Speaker:cause it's my favorite color,
Speaker:but I feel like a candle I would have would be
Speaker:sort of like a baby or like a powder blue.
Speaker:It would smell like a really strong bergamot,
Speaker:Earl gray.
Speaker:And it would have a quote on it from Bruce Lee.
Speaker:That is like my favorite quote ever.
Speaker:I'm a dedicated martial arts practitioner.
Speaker:And so like,
Speaker:Hey, put a lot of stock and things Bruce Lee said,
Speaker:but my favorite quote is don't pray for an easy life.
Speaker:Pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.
Speaker:That's what my accountable would be.
Speaker:And do you go back and reference that a lot during
Speaker:your professional career or your life In my life?
Speaker:Constantly, constantly,
Speaker:constantly. That's been the one.
Speaker:I think thing that's tied all these different subsets of my
Speaker:life together is that like,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:I think we all have difficult walks.
Speaker:I think we all have hard things to surmount,
Speaker:but we're all given all of our experiences I think are
Speaker:fairly parallel.
Speaker:I think my walk is no more difficult than anyone else's,
Speaker:but I find a lot of,
Speaker:I don't know,
Speaker:peace, I guess,
Speaker:or I find a lot of grace in that line that
Speaker:I don't need it to be easy.
Speaker:I just need enough grace to handle it appropriately.
Speaker:Well, and I'm kind of thinking like when things are tough,
Speaker:then you say to yourself,
Speaker:well, I didn't pray for an easy life.
Speaker:That's exactly it.
Speaker:It's like it sort of buffers me from whining to myself.
Speaker:I think because You know,
Speaker:you're going to have those stumbles in those trials and tribulation,
Speaker:but as long as you're not whining about it and you're
Speaker:seeing the beauty in your life,
Speaker:I think that's the,
Speaker:I really try and embody that also because our life is
Speaker:so busy,
Speaker:right? Like we work together,
Speaker:we have four kids,
Speaker:we live on a hobby farm.
Speaker:It's just everything we do is just like fast and out
Speaker:of control.
Speaker:I feel like I'm constantly asking for grace and constantly looking
Speaker:up in the sky asking for grace.
Speaker:So this quote's a big one to me.
Speaker:Well, and depending on what your beliefs are too,
Speaker:right. We never get more than we can handle.
Speaker:Exactly. Right.
Speaker:Yep. Some days it feels more Well when you're in the
Speaker:middle of it.
Speaker:For sure.
Speaker:Maybe when you're looking back afterwards,
Speaker:you see,
Speaker:oh, well this is why this came upon me or whatever.
Speaker:Yep. Lane,
Speaker:tell me a little bit about,
Speaker:as you were growing up and the large retail stores,
Speaker:give me a little more detail behind that.
Speaker:Okay. So my family started this little Western store in our
Speaker:tiny little town,
Speaker:but they grew it to be one of the largest Western
Speaker:stores in north America at the time.
Speaker:And the most successful at the time and inside this tiny
Speaker:little Western store was a mail order department,
Speaker:a wholesale department,
Speaker:a manufacturing department and a retail floor.
Speaker:And I grew up in this and if I wasn't there,
Speaker:we were at markets and I just kind of went through
Speaker:the whole process with my parents of seeing all these different
Speaker:worlds and divisions of business.
Speaker:And yeah,
Speaker:it was quite an experience.
Speaker:I don't know if I'd say it was the best experience
Speaker:having to live in a retail world your whole life.
Speaker:But I grew up in this world and I had a
Speaker:father that was like,
Speaker:absolutely crazy about education and just pushing and driving all the
Speaker:time, trying to bring in speakers about sales and bringing in
Speaker:people, talking about body language.
Speaker:And so I had all these different people coming into my
Speaker:lives as I was growing up and I was going to
Speaker:school and taking post-secondary learning from all these amazing people and
Speaker:yeah, I fell into this life,
Speaker:but it became something that became such a passion for me
Speaker:as I got older.
Speaker:Yeah. You were kind of getting an education on top of
Speaker:your education.
Speaker:I came back from college and I didn't think it was
Speaker:something that I wanted to do.
Speaker:I took fashion design and display and it came back and
Speaker:I started working for my parents.
Speaker:I realized very quickly that I fell into it.
Speaker:So perfect.
Speaker:Like I loved watching customers,
Speaker:seeing customers,
Speaker:how they interacted and how my staff interacted with them.
Speaker:And it was one of the greatest things that I've been
Speaker:blessed with.
Speaker:I could say,
Speaker:I love that.
Speaker:So you're a real people person too,
Speaker:then Not at all.
Speaker:Oh, interesting.
Speaker:You Know what?
Speaker:It's funny too.
Speaker:I'm socially awkward.
Speaker:Horribly, socially awkward.
Speaker:I believe you.
Speaker:Based on this little conversation so far,
Speaker:I don't believe you.
Speaker:No, I actually have Asperger's it's crazy.
Speaker:I have a very hard time feeling comfortable around people,
Speaker:but my strong suit is I was able to grow up,
Speaker:watching my father and watching these people and watching these experts
Speaker:and being able to see this body language and really like
Speaker:connect with it.
Speaker:And so I just found this passion,
Speaker:this obsession with sales.
Speaker:So now when I'm interacting with people and customers,
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:Cause it's my hobby,
Speaker:it's my everything.
Speaker:And I understand it so well.
Speaker:But if you take me outside of that world and you
Speaker:just kind of walk up to me and we're chatting about
Speaker:everyday life,
Speaker:it's a little bit more difficult for me,
Speaker:but because I love sales and retail and market so much,
Speaker:it's comfortable to me.
Speaker:So it's easier for me to talk about it.
Speaker:Okay. So that's interesting.
Speaker:So would you say in an environment where you feel confident
Speaker:you're comfortable around people and then in other environments that might
Speaker:not have as much structure you're not at a market or
Speaker:something then it's different.
Speaker:Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker:In a business setting I'm comfortable.
Speaker:I'm very comfortable.
Speaker:I can speak in front of thousands of people.
Speaker:I can lecture.
Speaker:I can talk,
Speaker:I can do private consultations.
Speaker:But as soon as I get outside of that other setting,
Speaker:it's difficult.
Speaker:And I think this just shows that we all have those
Speaker:things, that our lives are so different.
Speaker:And there's so many strong suits of everybody has a strong
Speaker:suit. Everybody has something that they're really good at.
Speaker:And for some reason I grew up in this funny retail
Speaker:family that pushed me to learn these weird skills,
Speaker:like who teaches their kids,
Speaker:how to learn body language,
Speaker:but it fit.
Speaker:And it worked.
Speaker:And it was something that I just,
Speaker:I fell in love with.
Speaker:And so,
Speaker:yeah, it's my comfort zone.
Speaker:Okay. You know,
Speaker:and I also think that there are people who automatically have
Speaker:an opinion of themselves and where their skills fall and shut
Speaker:themselves off.
Speaker:Like they decide that they're not good with people,
Speaker:so they could never do sales.
Speaker:They could never have a retail shop.
Speaker:They'll make all these judgements where what you're really presenting and
Speaker:suggesting us all to consider is you may act differently still
Speaker:in a people environment,
Speaker:in different situations you might act differently.
Speaker:So my thinking is,
Speaker:let's not all close ourselves off with such a,
Speaker:I hate to say this line,
Speaker:black and white answer,
Speaker:I guess,
Speaker:observe yourself and see how it is and see where you're
Speaker:comfortable and try and meld that into what you do for
Speaker:your business or what you add more into with your life.
Speaker:Do you think For sure.
Speaker:And that's something we tell our clients too,
Speaker:is like,
Speaker:these are learned skills.
Speaker:These are learned.
Speaker:I didn't just wake up one day.
Speaker:I felt comfortable doing this.
Speaker:It takes a lot for me to look somebody in the
Speaker:eye, but I've learned how to do that.
Speaker:And I can hold that gaze and I can feel confident
Speaker:doing it.
Speaker:I know how to express myself properly,
Speaker:but it's all learned and you can learn how to do
Speaker:things. You just have to be willing to put yourself out
Speaker:there, be willing to fail,
Speaker:be willing,
Speaker:to feel embarrassed,
Speaker:be willing for all of those things that go along with
Speaker:learning. Because if you can get through those,
Speaker:you have something pretty magical at the end of it.
Speaker:If you're open to it.
Speaker:Yeah. And you're challenging yourself to stretch yourself,
Speaker:grow, be bigger,
Speaker:learn more.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:and how exciting and satisfying is that to see when you're
Speaker:successful with something that you thought you could never do before?
Speaker:Exactly. I didn't ever in a million years think I could
Speaker:stand on a sales floor and feel confident and put my
Speaker:shoulders back and know what I'm doing.
Speaker:I never would have thought that,
Speaker:but you can do it.
Speaker:If you can look for the right kind of training and
Speaker:guidance it's anybody can do it.
Speaker:So, So today when you go to market,
Speaker:are you a little anxious before the market opens or are
Speaker:you totally confident?
Speaker:You're We're ready to go.
Speaker:I am a hundred percent ready because this is my comfort
Speaker:zone going to market,
Speaker:working with clients,
Speaker:speaking. I'm great in those areas.
Speaker:But like I said,
Speaker:take me outside and have a normal conversation with me.
Speaker:Oh, it's more difficult.
Speaker:I struggle with those things.
Speaker:Well, Everyone has their own makeup with that.
Speaker:I guess I would say one more question for you lane
Speaker:about the retail shop.
Speaker:Did you make,
Speaker:cause you were talking about,
Speaker:there was manufacturing,
Speaker:everything under the same roof,
Speaker:were you making everything that you sold?
Speaker:Not everything,
Speaker:but I would say a pretty big part of our business
Speaker:was manufacturing and it wasn't just manufacturing for our own business.
Speaker:It was manufacturing for other businesses in our world,
Speaker:in our Western world,
Speaker:we were manufacturing and creating products for other businesses to Like
Speaker:what type of products,
Speaker:just so that we have a visual here,
Speaker:For sure.
Speaker:So we did like strapped goods.
Speaker:So it was like cultures and head stalls.
Speaker:And we did blankets and we did clothing and we did
Speaker:home decor and we did furniture tons and tons of different
Speaker:like avenues.
Speaker:So there was such a diversity of products that we were
Speaker:manufacturing and working with the manufacturers designing and all that kind
Speaker:of stuff that kind of gave me the ability to,
Speaker:when I started going out on my own and running my
Speaker:own businesses,
Speaker:I was able to pull upon all that knowledge from that
Speaker:to be able to jump into my own business and start
Speaker:being able to manufacture and do all that.
Speaker:So it was super helpful.
Speaker:Got it.
Speaker:Okay. And so I said,
Speaker:there was only one more question,
Speaker:but now I have another one.
Speaker:So when you were out at markets,
Speaker:were you selling wholesale to other people to pick up your
Speaker:products? Not when I was going to markets,
Speaker:I've owned my own boutiques online stores and other businesses.
Speaker:So when I was doing it for myself,
Speaker:I was manufacturing for myself and I've actually,
Speaker:we've owned other businesses where we've manufactured and created products that
Speaker:we've wholesaled to other businesses.
Speaker:We've had paint companies,
Speaker:we've had hardware companies,
Speaker:so we've created our own products and then yeah.
Speaker:Distributed it to all around Canada As well as selling directly
Speaker:online. Exactly.
Speaker:Yeah. Direct to consumer.
Speaker:Okay. So you've done it all,
Speaker:which is obviously why you're so successful as you're coaching.
Speaker:And because you've had your hands in all these different avenues
Speaker:of handmade product or manufactured product creation.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:So Matt,
Speaker:let's move on to you for a second.
Speaker:So the thing that really stands out to me,
Speaker:obviously you have the skills of manufacturing with welding,
Speaker:et cetera,
Speaker:but making sculpting,
Speaker:fabricating, what types of things were you?
Speaker:I was making everything they're literally like my brain works so
Speaker:strangely, like I'll see things that I just decided that I
Speaker:need to make.
Speaker:I did that for years.
Speaker:And I mean,
Speaker:like I wasn't making things like I wasn't going to like
Speaker:a hardware store and collecting stuff to put something together.
Speaker:I built my own forge.
Speaker:I built my own cast.
Speaker:So I could like melt aluminum down,
Speaker:make it into a shape and then cut it into what
Speaker:I needed it and then bolted it into other things like
Speaker:I was making.
Speaker:I was really going overboard with what I was making when
Speaker:3d printing became popular,
Speaker:I got a 3d printer.
Speaker:And then I was printing in 3d and sort of rendering
Speaker:all these sorts of things.
Speaker:But as far as manufacturing,
Speaker:I literally SU like,
Speaker:I'd make anything that I could see,
Speaker:but I was very artistic and I was sort of in
Speaker:that artistic vein,
Speaker:I've done a lot of sculptures for people.
Speaker:Actually. One of the thing I used to make all the
Speaker:time was I used to make roses out of metal at
Speaker:a sheet metal.
Speaker:You see them now quite often It would make these sorts
Speaker:of things or like art pieces.
Speaker:That honestly is how like the maker lifestyle became sort of
Speaker:apparent to me.
Speaker:Like, I didn't even realize that you could do this or
Speaker:that people did this.
Speaker:My mum was the principal of the Catholic school.
Speaker:My dad was a police officer in Canada.
Speaker:Like there was a very straight and narrow way that I
Speaker:was supposed to grow up.
Speaker:And as I started making more and more things,
Speaker:I was having more and more people say,
Speaker:can I buy that from you?
Speaker:And I remember it used to shock me that people would
Speaker:want to buy something that I made and it just sort
Speaker:of ramped up from there.
Speaker:And yeah,
Speaker:I started making more and more and sculpting more and more.
Speaker:So were you doing this even when you were littler and
Speaker:like a teenager?
Speaker:Yes. Yes.
Speaker:I was.
Speaker:I've always been sort of driven towards making things or bolting
Speaker:things together or seeing how they run by brain really loves
Speaker:those kinds of things.
Speaker:Like figuring out how something works,
Speaker:but I'm also ridiculous fashionista.
Speaker:I'm a super driven consumer.
Speaker:Like I love brands.
Speaker:I love products.
Speaker:Like I love them.
Speaker:I'm not one of those guys that says I don't want
Speaker:to go to the mall and shop.
Speaker:I'm like,
Speaker:yeah, let's go to the mall and see what's in there.
Speaker:Like let's go to a market and see what's there.
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:I love that.
Speaker:You love that because that was like with me to getting
Speaker:into this industry,
Speaker:the idea of going to a craft show and seeing the
Speaker:types of things that people make,
Speaker:like when I'm going to a show and going in,
Speaker:this is before I got into the business,
Speaker:as it is today,
Speaker:my heart would start beating faster.
Speaker:I was just so excited and had such a love for
Speaker:it that it was crazy.
Speaker:And I tell people,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:if this is something that you physically react to in a
Speaker:positive way,
Speaker:pay attention to that,
Speaker:your body's telling you about things that make you happy.
Speaker:That is such a wise thing to be saying to people,
Speaker:Sue, like most people don't consider those things of what you
Speaker:just said.
Speaker:Like, I mean,
Speaker:most people you ask them what makes you happy?
Speaker:And they're going to regurgitate something,
Speaker:but what you just said,
Speaker:move towards what moves you.
Speaker:And this will all work out.
Speaker:Yeah. But I would say also like you,
Speaker:a lot of people even now still don't recognize that this
Speaker:could be your profession Completely.
Speaker:And there's of course a lot of backlash too.
Speaker:No, I want you to be a lawyer.
Speaker:Oh, you're so smart.
Speaker:You should be an accountant.
Speaker:You're so good with numbers.
Speaker:Yeah. But I don't like numbers.
Speaker:Totally. I know what you mean because that's the house I
Speaker:grew up in.
Speaker:Right. Like my parents,
Speaker:weren't trying to stop me from pursuing things.
Speaker:I enjoyed all they understood was the pattern that you're supposed
Speaker:to come out of the mold you're supposed to come out
Speaker:of. So I loved making things,
Speaker:but I didn't understand even what a business person was.
Speaker:Right. I didn't understand.
Speaker:Like I thought you worked for people.
Speaker:That's what people do for money.
Speaker:Like you're a teacher or you're a police officer or you're
Speaker:a firefighter or you're and that's exclusively sort of what you
Speaker:did. But as I got older and saw that,
Speaker:oh my gosh,
Speaker:like people actually do these things for a living.
Speaker:I remember I was just like floored by it.
Speaker:I was floored that people did these.
Speaker:Yeah. And it's more acceptable now than it ever has been.
Speaker:So for people who are interested,
Speaker:we're living in a great time where you can stretch your
Speaker:creative skills and actually make a living salary off of it.
Speaker:If you want to it's open and available and acceptable.
Speaker:It used to not even be acceptable,
Speaker:I'll go back and forth.
Speaker:Cause I think a little bit sometimes,
Speaker:oh, that's so nice.
Speaker:That cute little hobby that you're doing,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:that kind of Completely,
Speaker:but I think lane can speak to this more,
Speaker:but I find the people that we find are becoming successful,
Speaker:that we're mentoring or that we work with or that we're
Speaker:working directly with.
Speaker:You have that mentality,
Speaker:Sue, that they're like,
Speaker:I love this.
Speaker:I am going to pursue this as hard as I possibly
Speaker:can. And I'm going to make this work.
Speaker:And those people always find a way to make it work.
Speaker:Like they just do Like what you you're big on like
Speaker:law of attraction.
Speaker:And so are we like,
Speaker:that's something that very is like,
Speaker:that's kind of our mantra and our life is,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:law of attraction and how that works.
Speaker:And then we see so many people in this industry and
Speaker:the maker community,
Speaker:the craft community that they're so in love with what they're
Speaker:doing and it's everything.
Speaker:Sometimes you look at some of these businesses and you go,
Speaker:how are you doing this?
Speaker:Like this isn't supposed to work this isn't oh my gosh,
Speaker:this little hobby,
Speaker:like you said.
Speaker:Right. But they put their heart and soul into it.
Speaker:And so much of the success is off of that is
Speaker:off of you just believing in yourself to begin with.
Speaker:I think so.
Speaker:I agree.
Speaker:And to this day there are some clients that I have
Speaker:where I'm surprised that they're as financially successful as they are
Speaker:with the products that they sell.
Speaker:For sure.
Speaker:Now that you say that it goes back to the passion
Speaker:and the determination.
Speaker:And honestly,
Speaker:I have to say also it has to do with the
Speaker:personality overlay that they put on top of the product.
Speaker:People want to buy it because they love them too.
Speaker:Okay. Oh,
Speaker:a hundred percent.
Speaker:A hundred percent.
Speaker:But there's been so many businesses that Matt and I've done
Speaker:like individually together that we just didn't have the passion.
Speaker:We were really good at it.
Speaker:And some of it flops,
Speaker:some of it was great,
Speaker:but it just wasn't what we were supposed to be doing.
Speaker:It wasn't our a hundred percent passion.
Speaker:And it sort of,
Speaker:our life mantra has everything to do with the law of
Speaker:attraction and sort of the marquee people that spoke about it.
Speaker:And we've had a lot of businesses together.
Speaker:Like if you looked at it on paper and I mean,
Speaker:technically it went well because we had the skills to make
Speaker:it go well.
Speaker:But it wasn't one of those things that you,
Speaker:we were so passionate about that we were waking up early
Speaker:and going to bed late,
Speaker:doing it was sort of like,
Speaker:okay, well let's go through the motions and get this thing
Speaker:done and onto the next one.
Speaker:And we really find that the things that we really dug
Speaker:in that we'd love the product.
Speaker:We love the service.
Speaker:We loved what we were doing.
Speaker:It goes exponentially better than just us saying like,
Speaker:oh, well we know how to manufacture.
Speaker:We know what a market we can distribute.
Speaker:Let's do this.
Speaker:Now we see those fall downs.
Speaker:Now that it's like,
Speaker:if you're,
Speaker:I don't know,
Speaker:there's something to this law of attraction,
Speaker:right? If,
Speaker:if you are not on board with what you're doing,
Speaker:I don't think it can work.
Speaker:I don't believe it can work on technicalities.
Speaker:Like you have to support yourself mentally with positive thought and
Speaker:loving it to have it really succeed.
Speaker:I really believe that.
Speaker:That's interesting.
Speaker:And I think that is going to give some of our
Speaker:listeners a pause to think and consider and a question for
Speaker:you here.
Speaker:Did you ever have a product that financially was going well?
Speaker:So on paper,
Speaker:the numbers look great,
Speaker:but you're like,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:we just don't feel it.
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:So the answer is yes to that.
Speaker:Then how do you decide to walk away from an opportunity
Speaker:like that?
Speaker:Where you see the numbers are looking good,
Speaker:people would be like,
Speaker:stay with it.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:for sure.
Speaker:Going back to our pink company,
Speaker:we were doing so well with it.
Speaker:It was something that was working for us.
Speaker:It was selling great in our retail store,
Speaker:it was selling great to our wholesale customers.
Speaker:We were growing it,
Speaker:but we disliked it.
Speaker:We didn't just like the product we disliked what we were
Speaker:doing and the direction we were going.
Speaker:And we're so big on with our kids.
Speaker:We want you to be educated for those mere fact of
Speaker:that. At the end of your grade 12 year,
Speaker:you get to decide what you want to do.
Speaker:That's it.
Speaker:You can do anything you want.
Speaker:And we keep telling them over and over how important it
Speaker:is to do something you truly love do what you love.
Speaker:Everything else will calm you.
Speaker:If you can get through high school and you have the
Speaker:good grades,
Speaker:you can go choose any school you want.
Speaker:You can do whatever you want,
Speaker:whether it's trade school or whatnot,
Speaker:but to be able to choose something that you're so passionate
Speaker:about, it's going to lead you forward.
Speaker:Whether that is that thing that you stick with or it's
Speaker:that thing that drives you to the next thing.
Speaker:But the money,
Speaker:always everything.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:I love money don't we all,
Speaker:but, But not.
Speaker:But I think that we are in a strange position,
Speaker:Sue, and that like where you said,
Speaker:how do you decide if you have a product that's working,
Speaker:if you're going to switch gears or not.
Speaker:So I think that lane and I not in the business
Speaker:world, but in the maker world,
Speaker:we're in a unique position where you don't find many people
Speaker:in the maker world who I think understand from top to
Speaker:bottom, what they should be doing to execute what would make
Speaker:it work.
Speaker:And because we just have those skills,
Speaker:those skills are interchangeable regardless of what you're selling or what
Speaker:you're making.
Speaker:But if you don't love it,
Speaker:it's so easy for us now.
Speaker:Like we have this joke now about our gut feelings.
Speaker:Like we literally will make decisions on gut feelings.
Speaker:Like if we are doing something big and it is without
Speaker:fail, it works for us.
Speaker:Like if we're doing something big and one of us is
Speaker:uneasy about it,
Speaker:if, whether it's weird,
Speaker:it doesn't matter what it is.
Speaker:If it's like a something large we're doing in our life
Speaker:or business life,
Speaker:we'll just pull the plug.
Speaker:If one of us says,
Speaker:like, it doesn't feel good,
Speaker:we're not doing it.
Speaker:And we'll just leave it at that.
Speaker:It's like,
Speaker:no, there's something was wrong with that.
Speaker:If that's the case,
Speaker:but there's been Going through trials and tribulations and flops and
Speaker:All people just pull the pin.
Speaker:Cause you have a gut feeling like we've laid so many
Speaker:decisions and understand like you were talking about that feeling in
Speaker:your body that we're like,
Speaker:no, this doesn't work for us.
Speaker:So onto the next thing.
Speaker:Yeah. Well,
Speaker:I got to say,
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:I believe in the gut feelings and I think you have
Speaker:to balance that out against where your situation is.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:I've had some gut feelings afterwards.
Speaker:It's like I knew before I even started that I shouldn't
Speaker:have done this.
Speaker:And that's helped me to recognize it earlier each and every
Speaker:time. Oh you do though.
Speaker:Right? Like,
Speaker:and that also goes into failures.
Speaker:You go through those failures,
Speaker:those flops,
Speaker:those uncomfortable situations.
Speaker:And you understand for the next time you start feeling those
Speaker:feelings, you start understanding that world in that space you're walking
Speaker:into and you're like this isn't right.
Speaker:I know this.
Speaker:I felt this before.
Speaker:And you're able to address those situations a lot faster.
Speaker:Sure. I see a lot of people in the community who
Speaker:have made something and it have gone to one consumer show.
Speaker:So not to the trade,
Speaker:but direct to consumer and they didn't sell a thing.
Speaker:And so they're like,
Speaker:I can't sell,
Speaker:nobody likes my product.
Speaker:They'll give all the excuses.
Speaker:I can't do this.
Speaker:I'm not put together for this,
Speaker:this isn't something I should be doing.
Speaker:What would you say to that person,
Speaker:Mark your calendar January 21st has been officially declared national bakers.
Speaker:Crafters maker's day actually highlight the entire month because we're celebrating
Speaker:all month long,
Speaker:focusing on the good that handmade products and you as a
Speaker:maker, provide us whether you create as a hobby or have
Speaker:started a business around your craft this day celebrates you.
Speaker:There's lots of ways to join in the festivities,
Speaker:share a special handmade memory with us.
Speaker:Download my free gift,
Speaker:which is an affirmation poster that you can print and display
Speaker:or use as a background on your phone,
Speaker:reminding you every day about the joy that you put out
Speaker:into the world.
Speaker:I also see the giving heart.
Speaker:You have as a maker,
Speaker:maybe you donate handmade items to local shelters or hospitals,
Speaker:or you put on workshop fundraisers or commit a portion of
Speaker:product sales to a special cause here's your chance to highlight
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Speaker:Plus you can get some eyeballs on a charity that is
Speaker:near and dear to your heart.
Speaker:Come at January 21st,
Speaker:we have special 20 minute lifestyle classes.
Speaker:You can attend over on the gift biz,
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Speaker:And if you're aspiring or are already a business owner,
Speaker:there are other festivities planned inside gift biz breeze,
Speaker:which is the free Facebook group.
Speaker:Come join us.
Speaker:There. There is even more,
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Speaker:Hand-made heals the world.com
Speaker:a celebration of you.
Speaker:And now let's get back to our conversation with lane and
Speaker:Matt. You know,
Speaker:I think it's a big misconception when somebody says I've tried
Speaker:everything, it's not working,
Speaker:nobody's buying what we've run into the majority of the time
Speaker:with our S not with ourselves,
Speaker:but with our clients that we're servicing is what usually is
Speaker:happening is one.
Speaker:They haven't tried everything.
Speaker:They've missed certain areas that they may not see.
Speaker:They may not understand how they work and they may see
Speaker:the problems in their businesses,
Speaker:but they're too scared to address them.
Speaker:So that's one thing.
Speaker:And two,
Speaker:a huge problem is people are terrified to sell.
Speaker:They're terrified.
Speaker:They will make product.
Speaker:They will display product.
Speaker:They will do a beautiful market booth or retail store.
Speaker:They'll put everything together and then they wonder why it's not
Speaker:selling because they forgot that huge part of the package and
Speaker:the packages,
Speaker:understanding your customers,
Speaker:understanding what their needs are,
Speaker:understanding how to sell to them properly without being pushy and
Speaker:cheesy and over the top.
Speaker:And then being able to address those customers after.
Speaker:So you,
Speaker:we can utilize them again and have them back and have
Speaker:a relationship.
Speaker:Those are all areas that are missed.
Speaker:So I think to kind of wrap it up,
Speaker:I would say,
Speaker:knowing where your holes are,
Speaker:knowing why product is not selling,
Speaker:not just,
Speaker:it's not selling,
Speaker:why is it not selling?
Speaker:What have we missed?
Speaker:What are you not addressing?
Speaker:What skills can we maybe give you to make you feel
Speaker:more comfortable so that we're doing everything we can to get
Speaker:this product selling And everyone's different,
Speaker:right? Like,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:I'll go to craft shows for example,
Speaker:and someone will have a beautiful table,
Speaker:the displays gorgeous.
Speaker:It's understandable.
Speaker:Everything's priced.
Speaker:It's very clear.
Speaker:They're sitting behind the table on their cell phone.
Speaker:Oh, like that one person,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:another person in another booth is like right behind your back,
Speaker:looking at your,
Speaker:every move,
Speaker:not leaving you alone,
Speaker:for sure.
Speaker:There are different things for different people.
Speaker:No follow up all the things that you're saying.
Speaker:For sure.
Speaker:So to the person who's saying,
Speaker:I've tried this one that doesn't work for me.
Speaker:Your point is you haven't tried everything and maybe focusing on
Speaker:different aspects of selling,
Speaker:which encompasses a lot.
Speaker:Like that's a big thing based on what you were just
Speaker:saying lane.
Speaker:Yeah. And I think asking there's so many places to look
Speaker:for help,
Speaker:but that can sometimes be a negative thing too.
Speaker:And I think looking for the right type of help and
Speaker:people that actually have been in like yourself soup,
Speaker:that you've started a retail business.
Speaker:You've been in that kind of world.
Speaker:You understand wholesale,
Speaker:you understand manufacturing,
Speaker:you understand what markets are,
Speaker:you understand sales,
Speaker:then you can start seeing,
Speaker:like we were saying the holes or the problems,
Speaker:or why is this not working?
Speaker:I think Sue,
Speaker:like the main thing where lane said and what we recommend
Speaker:to all of our customers,
Speaker:like I'll bet this is 90% or 95% of the problems
Speaker:that our clients have or businesses we're working with.
Speaker:It literally is you to a customer sale is the biggest
Speaker:gap. And that's where,
Speaker:like, if it's a sales issue,
Speaker:what we mean by that is it doesn't matter what you
Speaker:are. If you're going to craft shows,
Speaker:like if you're a Soper,
Speaker:a jewelry maker or a woodworker,
Speaker:whatever, I really believe that the biggest thing that you can
Speaker:do for yourself is learn face to face sales,
Speaker:toe, to toe speaking to someone.
Speaker:That's what you need to focus on because so much becomes
Speaker:clear about what you're doing,
Speaker:why you're there,
Speaker:what they want to hear.
Speaker:So many people don't consider what their market wants to hear
Speaker:from them or how their clients or customers speak.
Speaker:This was a huge lesson for me in my own maker
Speaker:life, right?
Speaker:Like I'm a welder and a fitter by trade.
Speaker:I suppose I was 25 years old,
Speaker:26 when I was right in the thick of,
Speaker:I was making things constantly with a huge turnover.
Speaker:But the majority of the people that were buying from me
Speaker:were women that were 55 years old and up,
Speaker:I was speaking a different language than they were.
Speaker:If they came to me,
Speaker:it was easy because I'd say like,
Speaker:well, this is what you like,
Speaker:right? Yeah.
Speaker:This is what I like.
Speaker:But when I'd go to markets,
Speaker:I assumed that people that wanted my stuff were guys my
Speaker:age who were like,
Speaker:oh, I like metal work.
Speaker:And it wasn't at all.
Speaker:So just understanding those basic sales things,
Speaker:but it'll change the entire dynamic of how you do things
Speaker:once you start to understand it.
Speaker:I also think too though,
Speaker:that a lot of like how many times have you heard
Speaker:it Sue that like when you start mentoring or working with
Speaker:clients, they're like,
Speaker:I don't want to say,
Speaker:I don't want to be pushy.
Speaker:I don't want to talk somebody into my product that doesn't
Speaker:want it.
Speaker:I just don't know what to say.
Speaker:And Like Matt was saying,
Speaker:you just have to know the right ways to say it
Speaker:so that you can be comfortable so that your clients can
Speaker:be comfortable.
Speaker:And so that everybody has a great relationship and exchange in
Speaker:words, I should say.
Speaker:Yeah, I totally agree with everything you said,
Speaker:gosh, I wish we were closer to each other because we'd
Speaker:have so much fun together.
Speaker:But I also think that people over think it like the
Speaker:way you're going to find the right words and the right
Speaker:approach is by interacting and figuring it out.
Speaker:You can't script it behind a closed door.
Speaker:And then all of a sudden on the floor magically,
Speaker:it works.
Speaker:You have to kind of walk into what that right approach
Speaker:is by trying it and trying it over and over again
Speaker:Completely. And I have a saying that I say to every
Speaker:single one of our clients and everyone that listens to me
Speaker:about anything with businesses,
Speaker:you have to fail faster.
Speaker:You have to like,
Speaker:you have to embrace failure.
Speaker:If you can't speak to people,
Speaker:you have to be prepared to go to a craft show.
Speaker:And literally in your mind,
Speaker:you have to say like,
Speaker:I'm going to do my best.
Speaker:It will be your best for that moment.
Speaker:And it might go great.
Speaker:But when you look back on that in three years,
Speaker:you're going to be like,
Speaker:wow, that wasn't the best I could have done.
Speaker:But that's the only thing that tempers you is you have
Speaker:to throw yourself into those fires and be like,
Speaker:okay, I can figure this out and I can figure this
Speaker:out. And that's overwhelming because most of the people that are
Speaker:probably listening are like,
Speaker:how do you throw yourself into the fire?
Speaker:But I think those are easy,
Speaker:little baby steps.
Speaker:We baby step our clients through this,
Speaker:especially sales.
Speaker:Cause it's super scary and intimidating,
Speaker:but like,
Speaker:we'll just start with basics like greetings.
Speaker:Okay. Here's some greetings that we would use for your business.
Speaker:Why don't you try these?
Speaker:Let's write them down.
Speaker:Let's try three of them for this market.
Speaker:And let's see how you feel about them.
Speaker:How are we getting interactions?
Speaker:Are people starting to engage with you?
Speaker:What's happening really looking at those things and just starting with
Speaker:that little baby step,
Speaker:then once that's learned,
Speaker:then we go to the next thing.
Speaker:Just being able to discuss your product,
Speaker:et cetera.
Speaker:Yeah. I agree.
Speaker:Baby steps for sure.
Speaker:And some of it can just be saying hi,
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Just engaging.
Speaker:Yeah. If someone's just walking by,
Speaker:Hey, good morning.
Speaker:Isn't it a beautiful day today?
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:if it's an outside show exactly.
Speaker:Or, oh my gosh,
Speaker:I want some lemonade.
Speaker:Where did you get that?
Speaker:No. Right.
Speaker:But they're just basics.
Speaker:And I think people think that they have to be so
Speaker:much more and our favorite is ask them about the weather
Speaker:comment on their clothes.
Speaker:Give them some sort of a compliment,
Speaker:like just easy ones.
Speaker:Like what lane said about the weather.
Speaker:So, and we love this and we say this in particular
Speaker:to our clients that are really sort of reserved.
Speaker:And they're like,
Speaker:they're so nervous.
Speaker:And we say like,
Speaker:ask people about the weather because there are two kinds of
Speaker:people on the planet,
Speaker:people that are going to tell you how great it is
Speaker:outside. And people are going to tell you how gross it
Speaker:is outside without fail.
Speaker:So it's going to start you in a conversation.
Speaker:So ask every single person,
Speaker:regardless if you're inside or outside,
Speaker:how's the weather outside right now.
Speaker:It's always going to be,
Speaker:oh my gosh,
Speaker:it's so gross.
Speaker:Or you know what?
Speaker:It's beautiful outside.
Speaker:There's your introduction.
Speaker:There you go.
Speaker:Yep. For sure.
Speaker:What are you seeing given the last couple of years here?
Speaker:Are you seeing anything changing within the industry?
Speaker:Yes. A lot.
Speaker:We're looking at each other.
Speaker:We're like,
Speaker:This is the biggest thing we've seen.
Speaker:The biggest thing that I've seen is from a builder's perspective
Speaker:when I was making products,
Speaker:my biggest concern was going to shows.
Speaker:I'm so surprised now at like at the amount that we
Speaker:were in a market this weekend SU there was 160 vendors
Speaker:I think.
Speaker:And like it was a full booth show,
Speaker:a full booth Christmas show.
Speaker:They weren't set up just on tables.
Speaker:And there was like 130,
Speaker:140 vendors.
Speaker:And of that 40 had never sold at a market with
Speaker:their products in their life.
Speaker:That number is unbelievable to me,
Speaker:The new businesses popping up and the people that feel that
Speaker:they can do this and that they're supported like that jumps
Speaker:into like this community over competition thing.
Speaker:This theme that we're seeing,
Speaker:that wasn't around.
Speaker:When I was going to markets,
Speaker:taking my product to markets,
Speaker:there was no community over competition.
Speaker:There was a few people that I recognized and you'd say
Speaker:hello, but there was no supporting each other.
Speaker:You was a gunfight.
Speaker:Like, I don't know if it was the same way for
Speaker:you, but it was you guard your products,
Speaker:you guard your business.
Speaker:It was a different world.
Speaker:And now it's amazing because he's women and these men are
Speaker:truly supporting one another.
Speaker:They're guiding one another.
Speaker:They're reaching out to one another.
Speaker:They create groups together.
Speaker:It's absolutely unbelievable.
Speaker:I wish we had this when I was younger.
Speaker:Yeah. Well it just feels so much better.
Speaker:The whole industry feels so much better when we're supporting each
Speaker:other and I've heard two different topics here.
Speaker:One is the sheer number of new people who are deciding
Speaker:something that they create could be a business and I'm giving
Speaker:it a run to see if it's going to work.
Speaker:And then to just the overall support of each other now
Speaker:That's absolutely it.
Speaker:So, but to us,
Speaker:I think we see it as one topic because these vendors
Speaker:like, cause we at this market,
Speaker:we were doing a bunch of filming and we went around
Speaker:and we spoke to every single new vendor and every single
Speaker:one said the exact same thing.
Speaker:I am a part of a hub.
Speaker:I am a part of a group.
Speaker:I'm a part of a,
Speaker:some sort of support structure where they really instilled in me
Speaker:the confidence,
Speaker:the confidence to pursue this.
Speaker:And so it's like this community over competition and the support
Speaker:within sort of this niche of business so much is coming
Speaker:out of the support within the community where before it was
Speaker:like, if you were going to do it,
Speaker:it was like,
Speaker:you really had to sort of bite down on your mouth
Speaker:guard and see if you can make it work where there's
Speaker:so many people now that are supporting what you might possibly
Speaker:want to do.
Speaker:Yeah. You're not in a silo anymore trying to figure it
Speaker:all out.
Speaker:No. And you know,
Speaker:we saw so many new vendors like this year alone,
Speaker:we had a 98% rate of new business owners that were
Speaker:mentoring with us for the year 98% of them were brand
Speaker:new first year never started.
Speaker:And that's kind of what led us into this.
Speaker:Like we came up with a whole bunch of products this
Speaker:year, just for those people,
Speaker:because we saw such an influx of new business owners that
Speaker:had no idea what they were doing.
Speaker:They were trying so hard just to get into this world
Speaker:and be successful.
Speaker:And it's just wild.
Speaker:It's pretty cool to see.
Speaker:It sounds so exciting.
Speaker:I love the interaction between you two.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:it just feels so good to be part of your community
Speaker:must be just absolutely fabulous.
Speaker:We're just like,
Speaker:we are obsessed.
Speaker:So like,
Speaker:we literally are like,
Speaker:we're obsessed With,
Speaker:I heard that word before somewhere.
Speaker:Gosh, put it early.
Speaker:Like it's not a joke that it ended up being like
Speaker:that. Cause like we'll even at this market,
Speaker:we were just out,
Speaker:right? Like we believe in these people and selling their products
Speaker:so much.
Speaker:A lot of it is the maker in me that the
Speaker:didn't know how to do it.
Speaker:I am just determined to find every single person who isn't
Speaker:sure how to sell it up market and give them the
Speaker:skills to do it because you've got it.
Speaker:You have it.
Speaker:It's learnable.
Speaker:It is it's learnable and it just breaks my heart.
Speaker:You know like the question you said earlier with,
Speaker:what do you say to someone who says I've tried it
Speaker:all? Oh,
Speaker:you haven't tried it.
Speaker:I'll just keep going.
Speaker:Just keep going a little bit longer.
Speaker:You will figure it out,
Speaker:but don't give up on it.
Speaker:Don't don't don't don't I agree with you because it's heartbreaking
Speaker:because they've had a dream,
Speaker:they were so excited in the beginning and then they're deciding
Speaker:for themselves that it just can't work For sure.
Speaker:But that's just,
Speaker:it is you don't have to know everything.
Speaker:You are not created to know everything.
Speaker:You were good at making you're good at creating.
Speaker:Maybe you're good at social media or maybe you're good at
Speaker:this element of your business.
Speaker:You don't have to know everything.
Speaker:So don't feel like you have to go outsource,
Speaker:go find,
Speaker:go educate yourself.
Speaker:Absolutely. Talk with me more about obsessed with markets.
Speaker:What it's about,
Speaker:what's included and who it's for.
Speaker:So obsessed with markets is the umbrella that we do everything
Speaker:under, but in particular,
Speaker:we made this last year,
Speaker:like lane was saying with all these new vendors,
Speaker:we were spending so much time on the same topics that
Speaker:we wrote.
Speaker:A hand guide that we called the vendor market hand guide.
Speaker:That's on our website,
Speaker:obsessed with markets.
Speaker:There's 12 chapters in it.
Speaker:And it's the top items I think are the top sort
Speaker:of talking points we were having with clients.
Speaker:Or we were having with people,
Speaker:that markets where we included everything from our own experience about,
Speaker:I think one of the main things we heard from everyone
Speaker:was how do you display at a market?
Speaker:And so we broke down the ways that we display and
Speaker:why we broke down,
Speaker:what you should bring with you And everything in that,
Speaker:like, we really,
Speaker:like, we went into depth with,
Speaker:because my background is like designed display all that manufacturing.
Speaker:So we went into in-depth like Matt said with display,
Speaker:like, how do you actually display to draw customers in,
Speaker:what do you need to do to draw them in,
Speaker:to make them feel comfortable?
Speaker:Where do you need to be displaying your products?
Speaker:What kind of eye level did they need to be at?
Speaker:And then we just kind of hit all those important topics
Speaker:of how do you engage with your customers when they're walking
Speaker:by, without screaming and yelling at them,
Speaker:how do you connect with them when they get into your
Speaker:booth? How do you explain to them,
Speaker:your products without being pushy?
Speaker:How do you connect with them after you have the market?
Speaker:Are you getting collecting their emails?
Speaker:Are you using a topic or card or what are you
Speaker:doing? So we just really focused on this book and then
Speaker:some offshoot books about social media and building a fan base.
Speaker:But it just was more to us about if we can
Speaker:give these people,
Speaker:this little Bible of this hand guide that can fix all
Speaker:their problems in a nutshell,
Speaker:then their lives are going to be so much easier going
Speaker:forward this first year is going to be a piece of
Speaker:cake going forward,
Speaker:if you can build on those skills.
Speaker:Right. Those just those basic skills.
Speaker:Yeah. Yes.
Speaker:I think you've piqued the curiosity of a lot of people
Speaker:who are listening here.
Speaker:Are we able to get our hands on that guide?
Speaker:It's on our website.
Speaker:If you go to obsessed with markets.com,
Speaker:it's the vendor market hand guide is on there where there's
Speaker:a breakdown of everything that's in there on our site,
Speaker:but we find soup with our clients.
Speaker:Like the main thing I think that's really helped them is
Speaker:we've tried so many different ways to coach people and we've
Speaker:tried so many different ways to support them.
Speaker:And I think we really dialed that in with his hand
Speaker:guide. Cause it's a small little thing it's notes,
Speaker:but what we did in it more than anything was give
Speaker:actionable items.
Speaker:And the one thing we keep hearing about from these crafters,
Speaker:these makers,
Speaker:these builders,
Speaker:these artisans that have it is we have a module in
Speaker:particular, literally about sales within those sales chapters,
Speaker:we give a sales script that we use.
Speaker:All it is,
Speaker:is plug and play at every single person that reads it.
Speaker:Every single one without exception has gotten back to us and
Speaker:said, I had no idea that this was sales.
Speaker:I didn't realize that all it was establishing a relationship and
Speaker:asking the right questions.
Speaker:And if that person really is interested,
Speaker:then you keep talking to them.
Speaker:And if not,
Speaker:you just had a nice conversation.
Speaker:It's really helped people to,
Speaker:I think,
Speaker:grab on to this lifestyle and understand it in a way
Speaker:that they're like,
Speaker:okay, I can do this now.
Speaker:Yeah. I love it.
Speaker:Okay so if people want to know more,
Speaker:just go over to your website,
Speaker:obsessed with market and look for the guide and then they
Speaker:can learn more about what's in it.
Speaker:And then whatever happens for them to have access to that
Speaker:information. You bet,
Speaker:and our Instagram or Facebook and our YouTube,
Speaker:we're all obsessed with markets as well.
Speaker:And we've got piles of,
Speaker:And we're coming out with a ton of new videos for
Speaker:our YouTube channel to help market vendors be more confident in
Speaker:market. So we're really going to answer and address a lot
Speaker:of problems that they're having.
Speaker:So we hope that helps.
Speaker:And what is your YouTube channel?
Speaker:Obsessed with Markets also.
Speaker:Now I could have guessed that and I would have won
Speaker:the bet everywhere.
Speaker:Obsessed with markets,
Speaker:right. We're obsessed With market.
Speaker:Perfect. Okay.
Speaker:So we have a listener who recently found the podcast.
Speaker:They make soaps at home for themselves,
Speaker:just for fun.
Speaker:They keep going,
Speaker:gosh, should I try and start a business?
Speaker:Should I not?
Speaker:Should I,
Speaker:should I not?
Speaker:What do you say to them?
Speaker:They've done nothing yet.
Speaker:Other than they love the product that they make and they've
Speaker:gotten compliments on it.
Speaker:Okay. Two things.
Speaker:One get the vendor market hand guide to get Sue's book,
Speaker:because those are going to be your Bibles for the next
Speaker:little while.
Speaker:Get resources,
Speaker:get help.
Speaker:We're all about education.
Speaker:Come on,
Speaker:watch our videos.
Speaker:We're going to put it very basic.
Speaker:We're going to make it super easy,
Speaker:but take a chance on yourself.
Speaker:If you don't take a chance,
Speaker:you're never going to have that feeling.
Speaker:And this feeling is amazing.
Speaker:Being in this community is amazing.
Speaker:So it's so worth it.
Speaker:Try it.
Speaker:I would say to that person that I do research with
Speaker:everything. So if that person is making soap,
Speaker:I'd be clear about what I was doing and who I
Speaker:was trying to reach.
Speaker:And then I would start looking around at what's working for
Speaker:someone else.
Speaker:What could potentially work for me?
Speaker:Is there an opportunity here and actually your book,
Speaker:that was the one thing that laid it out in your
Speaker:books that we were like,
Speaker:oh my gosh,
Speaker:we're the same people.
Speaker:How exactly close we are in thoughts.
Speaker:Really? I love that in your book,
Speaker:you speakable it.
Speaker:Like you listen to your friends,
Speaker:but not necessarily on a business idea or what's happening within
Speaker:your business.
Speaker:And that happens to our clients.
Speaker:So much someone will call us or someone will get ahold
Speaker:of us and be like,
Speaker:my girlfriends love this.
Speaker:My guy,
Speaker:friends love this.
Speaker:I'm ready to go to a market.
Speaker:And we're like,
Speaker:have you tried this out on anybody?
Speaker:Who's a neutral perspective.
Speaker:Have you tested this market yet?
Speaker:Or, I mean,
Speaker:that, that's how every single thing starts.
Speaker:But I think if you're interested,
Speaker:your friends have said,
Speaker:this is a good idea.
Speaker:I would just do a little bit of research and then
Speaker:I would dive in feet first.
Speaker:I'd go to a market,
Speaker:try it out,
Speaker:see where you land For sure.
Speaker:And make sure you have a strong niche because that's going
Speaker:to be a big helper with your business.
Speaker:If you're copying everybody's designs and kind of just following their
Speaker:ideas, it's going to be a lot harder to get noticed.
Speaker:And if you have that exciting niche,
Speaker:that's something that makes you stand out.
Speaker:Then you're going to have a lot easier chance,
Speaker:Right? You don't have to make a better soap.
Speaker:You need to make a different soap Exactly.
Speaker:Or stand for something different.
Speaker:That's exactly right.
Speaker:Like what you just said,
Speaker:you don't have to reinvent the wheel,
Speaker:but you need to know who you are.
Speaker:You need to know what you're offering and you need to
Speaker:keep doubling down on that while concerning yourself with you and
Speaker:not everybody else.
Speaker:Exactly. Oh my gosh.
Speaker:We could talk all day.
Speaker:Honestly. I wish I lived closer to you because that would
Speaker:just be amazing.
Speaker:I already had said that before,
Speaker:and I feel like just the conversation we've had the passion
Speaker:in both of your voices in terms of being part of
Speaker:a community that's so giving and let's face it.
Speaker:So fun.
Speaker:The things that makers create are so individual number one,
Speaker:so beautiful.
Speaker:The heart that comes with it,
Speaker:there's so much passion around it that I can hear it
Speaker:in your voice,
Speaker:how much you love what you're doing.
Speaker:We really want to see this community grow.
Speaker:We're both so passionate about that.
Speaker:It's like,
Speaker:we've talked about this lot.
Speaker:It's like Layne and I have both done marketing and advertising
Speaker:in the corporate world.
Speaker:And it's just not what this is like.
Speaker:This is so much fun.
Speaker:It's so much fun.
Speaker:It's so much fun.
Speaker:Yeah. It's wonderful.
Speaker:And thank you so much for starting obsessed with markets because
Speaker:to your point,
Speaker:people need help so that their dreams don't die and that's
Speaker:what you're providing to the community.
Speaker:And that's also what you've provided here on the show today.
Speaker:So for that,
Speaker:I really appreciate it.
Speaker:Thank you so much for coming on and sharing with us.
Speaker:All of your wisdom,
Speaker:Matt and lane.
Speaker:I really appreciate it.
Speaker:Thanks. So We appreciate you having a son.
Speaker:Okay. So I've jumped over to Matt and Lane's website to
Speaker:check out the craft show and makers market hand guide.
Speaker:It's currently only $7 and covers all the points you need
Speaker:to get started or perfect.
Speaker:Your craft show strategy.
Speaker:You need to take a look at this right away,
Speaker:so it doesn't slip your mind seriously for $7.
Speaker:I would grab it now.
Speaker:And while you're at your computer,
Speaker:remember to go check out all the celebratory events happening around
Speaker:national bakers,
Speaker:crafters and makers day.
Speaker:You can find that over@handmadehealstheworld.com
Speaker:up next week.
Speaker:We'll be looking at Pinterest again to get updates and additional
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Speaker:And I'll see you again next week on the gift biz
Speaker:unwrapped podcast.
Speaker:I want to make sure you're familiar with my free Facebook
Speaker:group called gift is free.
Speaker:It's a place where we all gather and our community to
Speaker:support each other.
Speaker:Got a really fun post in there.
Speaker:That's my favorite of the week.
Speaker:I have to say where I invite all of you to
Speaker:share what you're doing to show pictures of your product,
Speaker:to show what you're working on for the week to get
Speaker:reactions from other people and just for fun,
Speaker:because we all get to see the wonderful products that everybody
Speaker:in the community is making my favorite posts every single week,
Speaker:without doubt.
Speaker:Wait, what,
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