Gift biz unwrapped episode 361,
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:weird making money,
Speaker:doing what I love.
Speaker:Isn't that the point Attention gifters bakers,
Speaker:crafters, and makers pursuing your dream can be fun.
Speaker:Whether you have an established business or looking to start one.
Speaker:Now you are in the right place.
Speaker:This is gift to biz unwrapped,
Speaker:helping you turn your skill into a flourishing business.
Speaker:Join us for an episode,
Speaker:packed full of invaluable guidance,
Speaker:resources, and the support you need to grow.
Speaker:Your gift biz.
Speaker:Here is your host gift biz gal Sue moon Heights.
Speaker:Hi there.
Speaker:It's Sue and thanks for joining me here today.
Speaker:Are you like me?
Speaker:I'm getting antsy for spring to come last weekend.
Speaker:We set the time ahead.
Speaker:So we lost an hour,
Speaker:but I'm so looking forward to what's coming next.
Speaker:Every once in a while,
Speaker:I can even smell spring in the air.
Speaker:It'll be a bit yet before we can open the windows
Speaker:and let that fresh breeze in,
Speaker:but it's coming.
Speaker:What's also coming is tax season.
Speaker:And if you haven't already,
Speaker:you have no choice,
Speaker:but to turn your attention to numbers,
Speaker:your financials,
Speaker:to be exact,
Speaker:I know,
Speaker:I know bringing this up,
Speaker:prompts a little anxiety in me too.
Speaker:You may have experienced,
Speaker:or for sure you've heard stories about the nightmares of taxes.
Speaker:Some ignore the numbers all year and now have to gather,
Speaker:recreate, record and report all of their financial activities.
Speaker:And if this is you and you owe taxes that you're
Speaker:unprepared for well,
Speaker:that can send you scrambling our conversation today touches briefly on
Speaker:taxes. So if you're thinking you'll continue to avoid this topic
Speaker:a little while longer,
Speaker:stay tuned.
Speaker:What we really dive into is the five reasons we tend
Speaker:to avoid numbers.
Speaker:You may find some insight here for yourself as we go
Speaker:along. And of course,
Speaker:then we talk about what to do about all this too.
Speaker:The other big thing we cover is something usually left out
Speaker:of financial conversations.
Speaker:How your business numbers transfer over to affect your personal life.
Speaker:Obviously there's income you make from your business for living expenses,
Speaker:but it's more than that.
Speaker:Taking control and planning out your complete financial strategy,
Speaker:no matter how large or small the numbers are that you're
Speaker:working with can enrich your life more than you can even
Speaker:imagine Today.
Speaker:It is my pleasure to introduce you to Erin Bridgeman,
Speaker:as a money management and mindset.
Speaker:Coach Aaron empowers female entrepreneurs to design a business that is
Speaker:not just profitable,
Speaker:but actually grows their personal wealth.
Speaker:Born with an entrepreneurial spirit.
Speaker:Aaron cut her chops by scaling her photography business to over
Speaker:six figures.
Speaker:In two years,
Speaker:affording her the capital to begin funding the real estate empire.
Speaker:She and her husband.
Speaker:Now run note the word empire they're ever passionate about supporting
Speaker:women as they uncover their own potential and earning power.
Speaker:Aaron works with female business entrepreneurs to not just scale their
Speaker:business, but to use it as a means for building personal
Speaker:wealth while she's not working with our clients or finding her
Speaker:next investment property,
Speaker:Aaron can likely be found vacationing around the world and spending
Speaker:quality time with family,
Speaker:friends, her husband,
Speaker:and her daughter,
Speaker:Aviva Aaron,
Speaker:welcome to the gift biz on reps podcast.
Speaker:Yeah, I'm so excited to be here.
Speaker:Thank you.
Speaker:So You are like the perfect mix of business information that
Speaker:can kind of get us all a little bit anxious and
Speaker:product experience.
Speaker:So that's going to be really fun to talk about.
Speaker:Yeah. I love the blend of being a nerd and being
Speaker:a business and being a creative and having that spirit to
Speaker:It's going to be fun to talk about,
Speaker:but before we're going to do that,
Speaker:I have to do something.
Speaker:That's been a tradition here on the show.
Speaker:And that is to have you describe yourself in a creative
Speaker:way through a motivational candle.
Speaker:So if you were to envision a candle that really speaks
Speaker:and resonates everything,
Speaker:Aaron, what would the candle look like?
Speaker:I love this question.
Speaker:I've been thinking about this.
Speaker:So, okay.
Speaker:My candle is a part of a candelabra,
Speaker:which I think is important to note because I always surround
Speaker:myself with people and whatever,
Speaker:if it's my social circle,
Speaker:if it's in the business world,
Speaker:if it's my clients that I'm impacting,
Speaker:I've never burning alone.
Speaker:I'm always burning with others.
Speaker:And that's really important to me.
Speaker:And also a swirled color.
Speaker:Like the wax is all swirly and there's glitter in it,
Speaker:but I like to be creative and have a ton of
Speaker:fun. And the scent that goes off from the candle is
Speaker:just this really like earthy kind of chill.
Speaker:Cause I'm really working on tapping into my intuition and embracing
Speaker:flow. And so that's what I got for you.
Speaker:You've got a lot of levels go in there,
Speaker:Aaron. Oh boy,
Speaker:I've got to tell you,
Speaker:I love the part.
Speaker:The candelabra really threw me a little bit in the beginning.
Speaker:Like where in the world is she going with this,
Speaker:but working with others.
Speaker:Right. So often I think that we feel like,
Speaker:especially if we're an expert in our area that we should
Speaker:know everything and we can't possibly know everything working with others,
Speaker:collaborating and then also asking for support,
Speaker:I think is really important.
Speaker:Yeah. I'm all about that.
Speaker:Yeah. And multi-colored yes,
Speaker:because that's where you get your finance and products together.
Speaker:Got That.
Speaker:So definitely a lot to dig into here,
Speaker:but let's talk a little bit,
Speaker:I'm really,
Speaker:really interested to hear the product side of your past.
Speaker:So share a little bit about that with us.
Speaker:Yeah. So as you shared in my intro,
Speaker:I was a photographer at the beginning and as I started
Speaker:bridging into really impacting entrepreneurs and doing coaching,
Speaker:I created something called the bridge box,
Speaker:which was filled with products made by female entrepreneurs.
Speaker:And so I created a subscription box through that and wow,
Speaker:that was just so fun to get,
Speaker:to have a physical item that you knew was like shipping
Speaker:out into the world.
Speaker:And people were going to receive on our doorstep,
Speaker:happy mail is one of my favorite things ever.
Speaker:And so that was a really fun thing to be able
Speaker:to create and put into people's hands.
Speaker:And two,
Speaker:I've worked with clients who are product based and in the
Speaker:future, my dad and I are actually working on this is
Speaker:kind of like not out in the public yet,
Speaker:but we're working on launching a design align.
Speaker:So that would be product based as well.
Speaker:Oh, very cool.
Speaker:So the product avenue just keeps coming back and interjecting itself
Speaker:in your life one way or Goes Out,
Speaker:comes back,
Speaker:goes out,
Speaker:comes back a little Bit.
Speaker:What year were you doing the subscription box?
Speaker:Oh, that's such a good question.
Speaker:I think it was probably,
Speaker:it was like three years ago.
Speaker:Oh, okay.
Speaker:So almost well,
Speaker:I'm trying to think of fit that in because you know,
Speaker:subscription boxes are all the,
Speaker:are you right now?
Speaker:Yes. So right in the beginning or maybe after it's kind
Speaker:of taken off a little bit was when you started dabbling
Speaker:and doing yours.
Speaker:Yeah. People were like all about the subscription box.
Speaker:You were subscribing for everything.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:I think people still are,
Speaker:you know what I mean?
Speaker:We subscribe for our razors and for our groceries and for,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:it's not the cons box,
Speaker:but yeah,
Speaker:I think,
Speaker:and this is typically my target of buyer loved the subscription
Speaker:box and being introduced to new businesses.
Speaker:The thing that's nice about that is people were already accustomed
Speaker:to the idea now of a subscription where when you catch
Speaker:kind of the wave in the beginning,
Speaker:you're having to educate people on the value of it.
Speaker:And then also the value of your products,
Speaker:but subscriptions like let's face it.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:people were doing subscriptions to health,
Speaker:clubs and apps on their phone,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:all of that.
Speaker:Why not merge over to a product based Yep.
Speaker:Makes all the sense in the world.
Speaker:And then now you also have a real estate overlay here
Speaker:too. Yes.
Speaker:So back in the day when we had been scaling our
Speaker:photography business,
Speaker:my husband and I,
Speaker:we always say that we call our money soldiers and we
Speaker:always want our soldiers to be working for us.
Speaker:And we had saved up at the time,
Speaker:a lot of money for us.
Speaker:It was $18,000
Speaker:from our photography business.
Speaker:And we said,
Speaker:we could pay off one student loan with this,
Speaker:or we can buy an investment property that would pay off
Speaker:all of our student loans over a period of time.
Speaker:And that was back in 2014 and we jumped in and
Speaker:we have been evolving since then.
Speaker:And really in the past year,
Speaker:we've scaled an entire company to build our real estate empire.
Speaker:Wonderful. And is that where you really got the experience and
Speaker:the knowledge and the expertise of your financial side?
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:what, not really how I got that is more with all
Speaker:the coaching work I've been doing with women over the past
Speaker:five years.
Speaker:So I've been a business coach for about five years and
Speaker:I was really focusing on helping people with pricing strategy,
Speaker:helping them with sales strategy and marketing and mindset to really
Speaker:help them increase their business revenue,
Speaker:whether they were service-based or product-based.
Speaker:And as I kept doing that over the years,
Speaker:I saw a consistent pattern of a need for support with
Speaker:women, particularly around money,
Speaker:both mindset and management,
Speaker:particularly with creatives who tend to be pretty intimidated by numbers
Speaker:and data's and spreadsheets.
Speaker:And yet they were lighting me up.
Speaker:I'm like creating all these spreadsheets and seeing how much it
Speaker:can help that woman.
Speaker:And so that has what is just evolved into really honing
Speaker:into this money mindset and management side of things.
Speaker:Sounds great.
Speaker:And one of the reasons why I was very,
Speaker:very interested in talking with you is I know you've worked
Speaker:with a lot of product based businesses,
Speaker:so, you know,
Speaker:the financial end of that and where we tend to get
Speaker:stuck, what have you seen with some of the people that
Speaker:you've worked with,
Speaker:the candle makers in the painters and jewelry makers,
Speaker:all of that,
Speaker:where do you see they're getting stuck on the financial end?
Speaker:I see a couple of common themes.
Speaker:One is really understanding the pricing of their products.
Speaker:So looking at all the different ways that you need to
Speaker:think about the cost of your product,
Speaker:whether it's the actual physical material,
Speaker:the time,
Speaker:and getting a very clear and accurate number on that.
Speaker:And of course I have spreadsheets for us to do that
Speaker:with the product based businesses and really aligning.
Speaker:Okay. So what do you want your hourly rate to be?
Speaker:Because your hourly rate,
Speaker:isn't just in making the product it's in all the work
Speaker:you do to sell the product and go to the markets
Speaker:and all that kind of thing.
Speaker:And so really helping people get an understanding of when you
Speaker:sell that candle,
Speaker:what is your profit for that and about what is your
Speaker:hourly rate when you kind of put all the numbers together?
Speaker:So I think that's really important.
Speaker:Yeah. And this is an area where we so under price
Speaker:ourselves as makers,
Speaker:we don't put nearly right price tag on our time.
Speaker:And I think it's because we do this so easily or
Speaker:it used to be a hobby that we did for fun.
Speaker:So if we did it for fun,
Speaker:how could we possibly charge for the time now that we're
Speaker:a business,
Speaker:but you have to.
Speaker:Absolutely. And what happens is,
Speaker:is like,
Speaker:just like what you're saying,
Speaker:most people who are product based businesses,
Speaker:they kind of fell into it.
Speaker:It wasn't like they were,
Speaker:I want to be an entrepreneur.
Speaker:So I'm going to like,
Speaker:go start making this.
Speaker:They made them for wedding favors or they decided that they
Speaker:weren't going to hire someone to do it.
Speaker:They were going to do it,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:different things like that.
Speaker:And then all of a sudden now they're like,
Speaker:oh, people will,
Speaker:the market's actually paying me for this.
Speaker:So I could actually make money from this.
Speaker:And I love it so much.
Speaker:So I feel weird making money,
Speaker:doing what I love.
Speaker:Isn't that the point,
Speaker:Yeah. The transition can be hard.
Speaker:You're right.
Speaker:Cause it was for a long time,
Speaker:one thing,
Speaker:and now it's turned into something else for profit.
Speaker:Right. And then there's obviously there's that component of it.
Speaker:And then there's also just like this worthiness around money.
Speaker:And do I deserve that?
Speaker:Will people pay that,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:the scarcity mindset.
Speaker:And so that's why I love to dig into the money
Speaker:mindset of things and really understanding your own money journey and
Speaker:then doing the work to understand like,
Speaker:okay, well what would the market play?
Speaker:And what would your ideal client pay so that you can
Speaker:confidently raise your rates,
Speaker:knowing that it's going to do well in the marketplace.
Speaker:Yeah. You also take the whole money concept into a whole
Speaker:different level,
Speaker:which is really what I'd love to dive into today because
Speaker:you talk about,
Speaker:and I teach on this too,
Speaker:like making sure that your business is profitable.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:all the things we've just talked about,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:the product,
Speaker:making sure to account for your time,
Speaker:all of that,
Speaker:but you're also taking it to now.
Speaker:Let's just not have a profitable business.
Speaker:Let's talk about your personal wealth.
Speaker:Yes. I love talking about this.
Speaker:I could talk about it forever.
Speaker:I think a lot of times as coaches and as you
Speaker:see like the education field with businesses,
Speaker:it's really focused on like,
Speaker:how do we increase our business revenue?
Speaker:A lot about business revenue.
Speaker:Sometimes we get to profitability,
Speaker:which is obviously those are important things,
Speaker:but if we aren't taking our business and really hoping that
Speaker:transfer into our personal lives,
Speaker:we're kind of missing the point of the business.
Speaker:And of course there's different seasons in business where you need
Speaker:to be reinvesting back in.
Speaker:But then there comes a time where we have to make
Speaker:that switch and we have to get really conscious and strategic
Speaker:about taking our business and making it impact our personal life.
Speaker:And a really big way.
Speaker:I see entrepreneurs struggling with this is not paying themselves a
Speaker:consistent salary.
Speaker:They often pay themselves last.
Speaker:They kind of close their eyes and hope and you can't
Speaker:be proactive when you're being so reactive with how you're paying
Speaker:yourself. It's definitely a mindset thing.
Speaker:And I think you also,
Speaker:I'm guessing this is probably how you teach,
Speaker:but you'll have to share and tell me is you have
Speaker:to make a plan for it.
Speaker:Like, I'll see a lot of people coming in and maybe
Speaker:they're going to start a business out of their handmade product
Speaker:because they have a desire for something like they have a
Speaker:nine to five job already,
Speaker:but they're making a product on the side.
Speaker:They're recognizing that they could probably make some money off of
Speaker:that. Maybe a friend even mentioned it to them and suggested,
Speaker:gosh, you should be selling.
Speaker:They maybe go to a craft show and see that indeed
Speaker:they can make some money,
Speaker:but then it's toward something like a family trip or they
Speaker:want to get the house repainted or something like that.
Speaker:And it seems to me that when that actually can happen,
Speaker:then the light bulb comes on and it's like,
Speaker:oh, so my handmade product and money I'm making off of
Speaker:that really can affect my life.
Speaker:So now how could I do it in a bigger way?
Speaker:And that's what I see you focusing on is the bigger
Speaker:way. Absolutely.
Speaker:So I always say piles of green cash are not very
Speaker:motivating. And so if we don't have a specificity that we're
Speaker:putting our dollars towards,
Speaker:it's just like,
Speaker:what's the desire of fulfilling through this money.
Speaker:And so what I love to do is help people get
Speaker:very clear on their personal goals,
Speaker:whether that is just general lifestyle improvements,
Speaker:whether that means debt,
Speaker:payoff, savings plan,
Speaker:working towards getting money to work into investing.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:some of your people maybe are right at the place where
Speaker:they're trying to decide if they can make this their full-time
Speaker:job. Can they quit that nine to five and really put
Speaker:it all into their side hustle and you can get really
Speaker:clear on that with numbers and knowing,
Speaker:okay, how much do I need to live?
Speaker:What is my monthly budget?
Speaker:Okay. And then what would my business have to be able
Speaker:to pay me to fulfill that lifestyle?
Speaker:Or what would I need to do?
Speaker:Okay. I have $20,000
Speaker:of student debt.
Speaker:Okay. We can get a lot of times people have debt.
Speaker:They don't even know how exactly how much or they want
Speaker:to buy this dream house,
Speaker:but they don't even know maybe exactly what the down payment
Speaker:is for that.
Speaker:And when we get super drilled in to that,
Speaker:and then we see,
Speaker:okay, how can our business,
Speaker:the profitability of it start to go towards those personal desires.
Speaker:You're going to be way more motivated to make that happen.
Speaker:Okay. So everything you just said there,
Speaker:I think are things that we I'm speaking generalities of course,
Speaker:but a lot of us just put blinders on because you're
Speaker:telling us now we need to look at the numbers.
Speaker:Exactly. And a lot of times I think we,
Speaker:maybe I'm really being general here when I say we,
Speaker:but I'm just thinking of things that I've encountered and seen
Speaker:with other people is they'll look at some numbers,
Speaker:but not the complete picture.
Speaker:Like they'll look at,
Speaker:oh, well,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:I just made $3,000
Speaker:off a show this weekend.
Speaker:Well, that's fabulous.
Speaker:But did the show cost 5,000
Speaker:or did it cost 1000?
Speaker:So how much did you really make off the show?
Speaker:Not just top line revenue And not just that,
Speaker:but also like how much did it cost to make the
Speaker:product and then how much time did it take,
Speaker:you know?
Speaker:Okay. Then you can really make a decision on whether that
Speaker:was a good market or not.
Speaker:Yeah. So what was your true,
Speaker:true profit when you get down to it?
Speaker:Exactly. I think we've kind of framed the problem here.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:the problem is we're not always looking at our numbers.
Speaker:There's huge opportunity out there with your handmade product,
Speaker:but we need to be able to form that bridge to
Speaker:go across.
Speaker:So could you put in some simple terms,
Speaker:maybe some concrete steps of how we do that.
Speaker:It sounds like you start with the pricing,
Speaker:right? Knowing the pricing of your product.
Speaker:Well, this is what I'd love to start with.
Speaker:I love being really concrete and really tangible.
Speaker:I know that's helpful for your audience.
Speaker:Very helpful.
Speaker:Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker:I would ask,
Speaker:talk about first,
Speaker:like what you touched on about like,
Speaker:we fear the numbers,
Speaker:we're avoiding the numbers and I've kind of brought it down
Speaker:to, there's like five different reasons why we are often avoiding
Speaker:our numbers.
Speaker:And so the first step I would say is to kind
Speaker:of figure out which one of these is you,
Speaker:because awareness around that is going to be the key to
Speaker:start stepping into different action.
Speaker:So sometimes we say we have what our numbers,
Speaker:because we're not a numbers person.
Speaker:I hear women say this a lot.
Speaker:Oh, you're just not good at math.
Speaker:I'm a numbers person.
Speaker:And I love to just totally push against this and say,
Speaker:nobody is born knowing numbers.
Speaker:Nobody is born knowing math.
Speaker:This is a skill that you can attain.
Speaker:And so if you're kind of using that as an excuse
Speaker:or as a label,
Speaker:I would say,
Speaker:okay, let's get some tools and get some coaching education that
Speaker:will help you feel supported in becoming a numbers person.
Speaker:Yes. And what I'm finding with numbers for business is we're
Speaker:not talking about algebraic equations like you used to do in
Speaker:school, you know,
Speaker:the X's and the Y's and calculus and everything else.
Speaker:We're talking about some pretty basic math.
Speaker:And then what that story tells you,
Speaker:what the numbers create for you.
Speaker:I think we just overwhelm ourself when we say math and
Speaker:I'm one of them,
Speaker:I'll say it,
Speaker:I fall into that.
Speaker:I'm not a numbers girl,
Speaker:but you know what I've learned to be because I have
Speaker:no choice.
Speaker:Yes. It's a skill.
Speaker:And when you move from making jewelry for fun to making
Speaker:it into a business right away,
Speaker:you are now making it about money,
Speaker:about numbers,
Speaker:about that.
Speaker:And so you've got to learn that skill.
Speaker:Okay. So I didn't mean to stop you,
Speaker:but I think a lot of people fall into that category
Speaker:and listen,
Speaker:it's adding and subtracting and hopefully it's a lot of numbers
Speaker:being added,
Speaker:But that's another story.
Speaker:Okay. Okay.
Speaker:So reason number one,
Speaker:you're not a numbers person.
Speaker:Number two,
Speaker:you're afraid.
Speaker:So you're actually afraid of maybe what you will see.
Speaker:So I think this is so interesting because with knowledge comes
Speaker:power and with the lack of knowledge comes fear.
Speaker:And so if you're afraid you're going to see something bad,
Speaker:it would be better to see the bad thing sooner.
Speaker:So you can correct it versus scale a super like non-profitable
Speaker:business. So I think that's really important to remember maybe somebody
Speaker:avoids because numbers have defined them in really unhealthy ways in
Speaker:the past.
Speaker:Maybe it's a triggering thing,
Speaker:whether it's the number on the scale or the number of
Speaker:followers on Instagram or whatever the case is,
Speaker:you just kind of have this toxic relationship with numbers.
Speaker:Maybe you think it doesn't really matter,
Speaker:which is probably the biggest issue if you,
Speaker:which I don't think most people would honestly say they're rubbing
Speaker:up against this because they know it matters at some level.
Speaker:And then sometimes it's not having the correct tools,
Speaker:not knowing you.
Speaker:Well, it isn't over complicated.
Speaker:If you didn't intend to go into business,
Speaker:it can be hard to think through exactly.
Speaker:Okay. How much do,
Speaker:what do I calculate for taxes?
Speaker:And how do I remember to include everything that I'm going
Speaker:out and how do I see cashflow in our business and
Speaker:different things like that.
Speaker:And so then you have a tool problem and you just
Speaker:need to have the right tools.
Speaker:And so I just wanted to start with that.
Speaker:Cause I feel like you brought that up.
Speaker:That's a really concrete sort of list to think through where
Speaker:do I fall into and then what can I do about
Speaker:that then?
Speaker:Okay, perfect.
Speaker:So I've captured them,
Speaker:but I only have four,
Speaker:not five.
Speaker:So see where I fell off here.
Speaker:Okay. Not good at math being afraid,
Speaker:thinking that it really doesn't matter and not having the right
Speaker:tools. What did I miss?
Speaker:You missed like numbers have defined you in like toxic ways
Speaker:before. Yeah.
Speaker:So a whole mindset thing.
Speaker:It might even be just subtle comments that were brought up
Speaker:in your childhood money.
Speaker:Doesn't grow on trees,
Speaker:or we can't afford that.
Speaker:Or any of these like subliminal things that you may not
Speaker:even know that you're affected by that.
Speaker:Yes. And that is a huge part of it.
Speaker:Right? We,
Speaker:your listeners have been alive for 20,
Speaker:30, 40 years and we have these messages that we've been
Speaker:putting on repeat that is forming our subconscious.
Speaker:And so when I work with people,
Speaker:I love for us to dig into what is your money
Speaker:journey? What has been your story around money?
Speaker:What have you been taught by society,
Speaker:by your peers,
Speaker:by your parents and what of it is good that we
Speaker:want to keep amplifying?
Speaker:And what is that is that we need to rewire.
Speaker:Right. And you know,
Speaker:if you don't look at this,
Speaker:it doesn't go away.
Speaker:It's still sitting there.
Speaker:So whether you don't feel like you have the skills in
Speaker:terms of the knowledge,
Speaker:whether you're just afraid to face those numbers,
Speaker:whether you aren't sure or you say to yourself that maybe
Speaker:it doesn't matter,
Speaker:all of these things doesn't mean that it doesn't go away.
Speaker:So if your numbers aren't set properly,
Speaker:you're still walking down the road to the same thing,
Speaker:whether you're recognizing and seeing and looking at the numbers or
Speaker:not Exactly.
Speaker:I love how you put that analogy.
Speaker:That's perfect.
Speaker:Okay. So we have to figure out how to look at
Speaker:our numbers.
Speaker:And I don't know if I want to go there.
Speaker:Totally. Aaron,
Speaker:you tell me because I really,
Speaker:really want to dive into some tax conversation because I feel
Speaker:like it's appropriate this time of year.
Speaker:We're sitting here in March,
Speaker:as people will be listening to this and taxes are right
Speaker:around the corner.
Speaker:So I'd like to dive into that conversation,
Speaker:but do we need to start somewhere else first?
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:I think it's all combined.
Speaker:So part of knowing your numbers is knowing your tax number.
Speaker:And a lot of times that is something that's neglected,
Speaker:especially early in business.
Speaker:And you take that $3,000
Speaker:that you just made up the market business revenue,
Speaker:and let's say 1500 of it is actual profit.
Speaker:And you've got to remember that you owe 30% of that
Speaker:to the government.
Speaker:And so really I used to say,
Speaker:when I was shooting weddings based on my tax percentage and
Speaker:whatever, it's like,
Speaker:oh, I shot three or four weddings for the government this
Speaker:year. Just like really understanding that is a significant expense for
Speaker:us as business owners.
Speaker:So really what we're saying is let's say that 3000 you
Speaker:take, let's say half of that,
Speaker:even including your time and your cost of goods and all
Speaker:of that,
Speaker:you had 50%.
Speaker:So let's say it's 1500 then that you have,
Speaker:that's not really true because a portion of that is going
Speaker:to go in taxes,
Speaker:Right? And if we keep kind of doing it,
Speaker:we do an average,
Speaker:we'll say 30% of that is going to taxes and then
Speaker:$450 is going to taxes.
Speaker:So you take that right off of your $1,500.
Speaker:And that is what you get to put in your pocket.
Speaker:So something that was $3,000
Speaker:is now $1,050.
Speaker:Okay. So I know this happens and you probably see this
Speaker:all the time.
Speaker:Erin is,
Speaker:we don't really think about it until it becomes right now,
Speaker:tax time.
Speaker:And maybe this is the nightmare.
Speaker:Okay. We've reinvested any money that we've made,
Speaker:not accounting for money that we're going to need to pay
Speaker:in taxes.
Speaker:And now all of a sudden we do our taxes and
Speaker:we see that we don't have the money to cover what
Speaker:we're going to.
Speaker:Oh Yes.
Speaker:And that happened to me about five years ago.
Speaker:And I had an $18,000
Speaker:tax bill that I had missed.
Speaker:Well, congratulations,
Speaker:because that means you had some good earnings,
Speaker:Right? It's like,
Speaker:that's a good sign and not so good right now.
Speaker:And sometimes we predict our tax payment off of previous years
Speaker:over not accounted for the fact that we just with our
Speaker:revenue, which was our goal.
Speaker:And we didn't double our tax payment and I'm on a
Speaker:mission with everybody that I work with that they'll never be
Speaker:surprised by a tax bill in the future.
Speaker:And so one thing I have people do is inside of
Speaker:my money matrix system,
Speaker:we estimate your tax percentage based upon your previous year.
Speaker:And then every month based on the profitability of your company,
Speaker:it will show you exactly how much you need to set
Speaker:aside in for taxes.
Speaker:And I have a system where I recommend having six different
Speaker:bank accounts,
Speaker:some for personal,
Speaker:some for business.
Speaker:And one of those is your tax account.
Speaker:And so every month,
Speaker:based on the profitability of your company,
Speaker:you're putting that aside right away.
Speaker:And so you put that into your tax business account.
Speaker:So it's not even something that you can see as an
Speaker:operating money for you.
Speaker:It's set aside.
Speaker:And many times as you're moving from being earlier on into
Speaker:business, into maturing,
Speaker:your accountant or bookkeeper or whatnot,
Speaker:is going to recommend that you start to pay quarterly taxes
Speaker:and I'm going to recommend it to,
Speaker:of course,
Speaker:like I say,
Speaker:I'm not a financial planner.
Speaker:I'm not an accountant.
Speaker:I'm not those things,
Speaker:but just seeing like habit and,
Speaker:and how this sets you up.
Speaker:Well, it's helps you plan and not have this crazy,
Speaker:huge bill that you haven't planned for us.
Speaker:Yeah. And having the peace of mind that it's already covered,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:you have a system in place,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:that it's covered,
Speaker:okay. Back this up for a second for us first.
Speaker:And I think a good way to talk about this would
Speaker:be someone who's just starting because everyone,
Speaker:if when you're listening,
Speaker:you can figure out an interject where you are along the
Speaker:journey based on how big your business is or how long
Speaker:you've been in business,
Speaker:et cetera.
Speaker:But if someone is just starting out,
Speaker:what would you suggest as the right way to set up
Speaker:financially? Aaron will be answering this question after a short pause
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Speaker:So, okay.
Speaker:I want to say for your listeners who are starting right
Speaker:at the beginning,
Speaker:one of the first things I want to,
Speaker:because, you know,
Speaker:I do work with people who are further along in their
Speaker:journey, but many times we're undoing things that like could have
Speaker:been, you know,
Speaker:if we were doing this in the beginning,
Speaker:it would have been great.
Speaker:So your listeners who are at the beginning have an advantage.
Speaker:And so I need to recommend that you have CFO meetings
Speaker:with yourself and at the beginning,
Speaker:maybe to get in a rhythm like every week.
Speaker:And in that case,
Speaker:you will be looking at your numbers.
Speaker:You will be whether you're starting scrappy with an Excel spreadsheet
Speaker:at the beginning,
Speaker:but you are inputting what your revenue has been,
Speaker:what your expenses has been so that you can see your
Speaker:profit. And that's really easy.
Speaker:That's revenue minus expenses equals your profit and that you're updating
Speaker:your Excel spreadsheet or whatever you're using to be able to
Speaker:see that.
Speaker:And then a safe,
Speaker:take 30% of your profit.
Speaker:You can make a formula for that and put that into
Speaker:a business account for taxes.
Speaker:And every month you'll want to assess the profitability of your
Speaker:business for that month.
Speaker:Start to see trends,
Speaker:things like that,
Speaker:but right away through just surname,
Speaker:I think you have to know those numbers in order to
Speaker:make any sort of decision,
Speaker:like, okay,
Speaker:I can afford to buy more wax or I can afford
Speaker:to invest in this piece of equipment.
Speaker:You have to be working off of real numbers,
Speaker:not just the money in your pocket.
Speaker:Yes. Okay.
Speaker:I agree.
Speaker:And Aaron,
Speaker:I'm going to tell you a story that is going to
Speaker:make you turn white.
Speaker:Okay. If you've been listening to the podcast for a while,
Speaker:you may have heard this story before,
Speaker:but there was a point in time.
Speaker:Now this is several years back now that I was working
Speaker:with someone who had a brick and mortar shop,
Speaker:and we got onto the conversation about finances.
Speaker:I was doing an audit of her whole business,
Speaker:and here we go,
Speaker:she was hand penciling,
Speaker:her sales on a piece of paper.
Speaker:And that was it.
Speaker:That was all she was doing.
Speaker:Are you white?
Speaker:Oh my gosh.
Speaker:Yeah. That makes,
Speaker:gives me sort of like heart palpitations.
Speaker:I know because I'm like,
Speaker:first off you have no idea where you're at and you
Speaker:have a lease.
Speaker:So your overhead costs are much larger than if you were
Speaker:at home.
Speaker:But also heaven forbid what if you were to get audited,
Speaker:you have no trail at all.
Speaker:So I like the idea if you're starting scrappy an Excel
Speaker:spreadsheet, but I would way rather have someone right away invest
Speaker:in some type of a system.
Speaker:We need a system.
Speaker:And I'm just going to say QuickBooks,
Speaker:cause that's what I'm most familiar with and would recommend,
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:when we were talking earlier about adding and subtracting,
Speaker:you don't even have to do that.
Speaker:If you've got it set up,
Speaker:you just have to put in the numbers when they come
Speaker:in or in QuickBooks case,
Speaker:many times it'll just funnel in,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:you can set it up to funnel in,
Speaker:Right. And that whole,
Speaker:you just have to enter it or you just have to
Speaker:look at it.
Speaker:That's why I say right from the beginning,
Speaker:you should be doing your CFO meetings where you have time
Speaker:every week so that it's not like,
Speaker:oh, now you have to enter a ton of things because
Speaker:you haven't done it for a month.
Speaker:Right. It's much easier and probable to do one week at
Speaker:a time and just stay on top of it then to
Speaker:kind of let yourself get buried with something that already overwhelmed
Speaker:you. Right.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:So Aaron,
Speaker:we get a bookkeeping system in place,
Speaker:whether it's an Excel spreadsheet,
Speaker:whether it's QuickBooks or a similar system and enter in,
Speaker:like you were saying every single month or week,
Speaker:we know however you want to do it,
Speaker:but on a regular basis,
Speaker:have a meeting with yourself.
Speaker:I think that also helps us get familiar and more comfortable
Speaker:with the numbers too.
Speaker:Absolutely. If we're doing,
Speaker:if we're putting them together and eventually as you get bigger,
Speaker:maybe you'll have someone else take over your bookkeeping.
Speaker:Like I did.
Speaker:Thank God.
Speaker:That was a day of joy and celebration when I was
Speaker:able to do that.
Speaker:But you know what?
Speaker:I did it myself for a long,
Speaker:long time,
Speaker:which helped me really understand the numbers,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:and profit and loss statements and all of that.
Speaker:But so we want to do all of that,
Speaker:but what type of record keeping should we be doing?
Speaker:Like, do we need to save all of our receipts?
Speaker:If it's already logged into QuickBooks or something,
Speaker:Your accountant's going to tell you to save your receipts,
Speaker:right? Because if you get audited,
Speaker:that's going to be something that you're going to need to
Speaker:have. They're going to be able to,
Speaker:and an accountant is going to be,
Speaker:and a following accountant on Instagram,
Speaker:like doing stuff like that,
Speaker:creative accountants is going to be really helpful.
Speaker:They put out a ton of amazing tips and helpful things
Speaker:for you to know and understanding maybe different jargon or different
Speaker:particular nuances of the law and stuff like that.
Speaker:So that you can feel like you're crapping yourself and doing
Speaker:things right.
Speaker:But from my understanding,
Speaker:you're going to want to keep organized receipts.
Speaker:You know what I did in the very beginning,
Speaker:this was with a business that I don't have any more.
Speaker:I merged it.
Speaker:Won't go into my business story here.
Speaker:But when I first started on my own,
Speaker:I joined the chamber,
Speaker:wanted to be part of networking groups and rubbed shoulders with
Speaker:other people.
Speaker:And one of the people there was an accountant.
Speaker:And so what did I do?
Speaker:I sat down with them,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:we had a little,
Speaker:I didn't pay,
Speaker:I think I might've done a trade or they might've done
Speaker:it for,
Speaker:I don't even remember.
Speaker:And we talked all this through,
Speaker:like, what do I need to set up?
Speaker:How should I set up?
Speaker:What should I not be forgetting things like keeping receipts,
Speaker:any questions that I had.
Speaker:So that's an opportunity if you're part of a chamber who's
Speaker:there, who could answer a question for you or put you
Speaker:on the path.
Speaker:And sometimes that might be at a charge and it's worth
Speaker:it to get it set up properly.
Speaker:Aaron, it sounds like that's some of what you provide,
Speaker:right? Just getting things going properly.
Speaker:Absolutely. And a part of like,
Speaker:what makes me different from a bookkeeper or an accountant,
Speaker:you need both at a certain stage,
Speaker:I believe.
Speaker:And I love for people,
Speaker:your P and L sheet.
Speaker:That's what you're creating for the IRS.
Speaker:That's accounting for every dollar every month.
Speaker:That's what you're going to need to submit for taxes.
Speaker:So having a bookkeeper,
Speaker:having yourself do that is very important.
Speaker:And then you give it to your accountant,
Speaker:but that's just like one piece of being the CFO of
Speaker:your company.
Speaker:And so what I love to teach people and where I
Speaker:move people to is really helping them understand what is not
Speaker:just working cause PNL sheets and stuff like that.
Speaker:It's very retroactive.
Speaker:It's very like I've spent the money and now I'm allocating
Speaker:for it.
Speaker:Maybe I'm looking at what I used to do or what
Speaker:I used to spend seeing trends,
Speaker:but what about really like thinking of the present to the
Speaker:future? And so I like to help people start to really
Speaker:see, okay,
Speaker:start to create projections for their business so that they're automatically
Speaker:going to then work to make more money,
Speaker:start to see they be able to make really clear decisions
Speaker:on, I do have the ability to outsource this now because
Speaker:I can see based on my numbers that I have room
Speaker:for that.
Speaker:And I'm going to be able to allocate that towards hiring
Speaker:someone or towards hiring a bookkeeper or investing in that piece
Speaker:of equipment.
Speaker:And so those are things that no bookkeeper can do or
Speaker:accountant can do this and stuff that you have to do.
Speaker:And so that's what I love to help people do is
Speaker:to really like understand their numbers,
Speaker:create projections,
Speaker:analyze the numbers,
Speaker:figure out how do you make yourself pay a consistent salary
Speaker:and how do you up that salary?
Speaker:And that's the business side that I love.
Speaker:And then a piece of the conversation we haven't really touched
Speaker:on so much as all the personal stuff.
Speaker:And I think that's something that is needed.
Speaker:And that I love to talk about is you also need
Speaker:to be the CFO of your personal life,
Speaker:not just your business.
Speaker:And we spend a lot of time talking now about like
Speaker:your business numbers and all of those things,
Speaker:and that's important,
Speaker:but the whole point is to take your business summers and
Speaker:bring them into your personal life.
Speaker:And so I have a system where I teach,
Speaker:how do we understand your personal numbers,
Speaker:your personal goals put real actual numbers to that and then
Speaker:have the numbers from your business transfer over to your personal
Speaker:life. And so just want to say that,
Speaker:cause I think that's a really big piece of this that
Speaker:we want to develop beyond just the beginning and the basis
Speaker:of P and L seats and things like that.
Speaker:I love that.
Speaker:And really what you're doing here is forming a full picture.
Speaker:Like you're talking about,
Speaker:you have real estate investments and you're doing coaching.
Speaker:You're your money mindset,
Speaker:coach. Right?
Speaker:All different types of things for hand made creators.
Speaker:It might be you have a nine to five.
Speaker:So you have revenue coming in from there.
Speaker:You may have your partner,
Speaker:who's making money.
Speaker:So that's coming into the personal account.
Speaker:If you're merging all of your money together,
Speaker:then you have your handmade business merging in.
Speaker:So that's how you get your full picture of your personal
Speaker:life finances,
Speaker:right? It all is coming together.
Speaker:Yeah. And that's the income part.
Speaker:And you can't know the income of your personal life unless
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:your business numbers.
Speaker:So that's why we dial that all in.
Speaker:And if we start to do things like projections and strategic
Speaker:ways of allocating money to increase profitability,
Speaker:to increase revenue,
Speaker:then we can start to increase your income to yourself,
Speaker:increase your personal salary.
Speaker:And so you got to do all that in the business
Speaker:side, but then the financial personal side is yeah.
Speaker:Knowing all the different revenues that are coming in and getting
Speaker:a clear picture and then understanding your current monthly budget.
Speaker:A lot of people I work with like very successful people
Speaker:don't know how much they need to live.
Speaker:And so really understanding what that is.
Speaker:And then what is the upscale version of that?
Speaker:What is the next step,
Speaker:next level?
Speaker:What are you wanting to walk into as a wealthy woman
Speaker:and then understanding your short-term savings plan so that you're saving
Speaker:all year for Christmas or you're saving all year for your
Speaker:home improvements or your car maintenance and that's those aren't accidents
Speaker:you're prepared and then also creating a long-term financial plan.
Speaker:And so that's where I talk about five different areas where
Speaker:you should create long-term goals.
Speaker:Each person's a little bit different,
Speaker:but based on that is your first goal to pay down
Speaker:debt. Is it to create a bigger savings?
Speaker:Is it to start investing?
Speaker:Whatever is it start to be more generous?
Speaker:Is it about like large lifestyle improvements?
Speaker:Those are kind of the five areas we look at and
Speaker:we assign dollars to those goals.
Speaker:And so if your listeners are full-time entrepreneurs,
Speaker:they are not given handed a 401k,
Speaker:they're not handed a retirement plan.
Speaker:And so while you,
Speaker:for sure,
Speaker:want to make the present work and make sure that you're
Speaker:living the life that you can,
Speaker:and you're cashflowing that lifestyle.
Speaker:You also want to think about your future.
Speaker:Yeah. And the earlier you start thinking about your future,
Speaker:the better when I was in corporate,
Speaker:I did any matching programs that I could because I didn't
Speaker:ever see that money to the point we were talking about
Speaker:earlier, if you just put it aside in a separate account
Speaker:or wherever it's going to go,
Speaker:you don't feel like you ever had it to be taken
Speaker:away. You've earned it,
Speaker:but it's sitting in somewhere else.
Speaker:And that has served me so well even to this day.
Speaker:And it didn't have to be a lot taken out at
Speaker:that point.
Speaker:It didn't even hurt.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:I didn't feel like I was making any type of a
Speaker:sacrifice. And as I started seeing those numbers grow and then
Speaker:the ability when it became fully vested or whenever I had
Speaker:access to the money to be able to reinvest watching those
Speaker:numbers grow is so rewarding.
Speaker:And knowing that you have a plan for the future,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:I'm getting closer to retirement now.
Speaker:So if I were to start now versus having started,
Speaker:then I wouldn't have been as far along we were starting,
Speaker:then it was pretty effortless to do.
Speaker:But having said that,
Speaker:and you heard me hesitate for a second,
Speaker:it's never too late to start.
Speaker:Right. So no matter where you are,
Speaker:if you're not doing it yet,
Speaker:get started Right.
Speaker:Start now it's better than starting later.
Speaker:Yeah. So I love the five areas and I love the
Speaker:idea of talking about long-term goals.
Speaker:I heard you speaking about,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:a give back component there to a cause you care about,
Speaker:or whatever of course retirement is we were just talking about
Speaker:or debt,
Speaker:payback, whatever your goals are.
Speaker:Yep. So I teach five just to be really clear.
Speaker:So your audience can hear that it's debt paid down savings
Speaker:plans, and there's two levels of savings.
Speaker:Whether it's like emergency savings,
Speaker:you need to have that.
Speaker:And then the longer term savings generosity.
Speaker:So how do you,
Speaker:maybe you're wanting to use the power of money to give
Speaker:back in a certain way.
Speaker:And so your goal is to make more money is really
Speaker:around that.
Speaker:And I think that's a very important thing.
Speaker:And then investments and then significant lifestyle improvements,
Speaker:whether that's upgrading your home or getting the boat or whatever,
Speaker:those are the five kind of financial longer-term goals.
Speaker:I like people to look at.
Speaker:And obviously depending on where you're at in your money journey,
Speaker:certain things are going to be more important than others.
Speaker:Sure, absolutely.
Speaker:And so how do you work with clients?
Speaker:Is it group coaching with the concepts?
Speaker:Is it one-on-one share with us a little bit about that?
Speaker:Yeah. So I run a,
Speaker:something called the wealthy woman intensive.
Speaker:It's an eight week group coaching experience where we go through
Speaker:both mindset and really dig it out of a whole money
Speaker:mindset, sort of journey people go on through journaling and different
Speaker:activities and group coaching teaching that I do.
Speaker:And then I also go through our,
Speaker:my money matrix system,
Speaker:which is a system that covers both being the CFO of
Speaker:your business and your personal life.
Speaker:And so there's lots of good spreadsheets and nerdy things that
Speaker:are designed for creative.
Speaker:So they're very approachable.
Speaker:And so in eight weeks we get,
Speaker:you dialed up both in your mindset and in your management
Speaker:and you get to use those tools then for years to
Speaker:come. And so within that program,
Speaker:there's the ability to work with me a bit more one-on-one
Speaker:or to do more of the,
Speaker:just the group route.
Speaker:And then after that people choose to kind of work with
Speaker:me sometimes in a more one-on-one high touch capacity.
Speaker:Okay. Wonderful.
Speaker:And what would you say with people who come to you
Speaker:in the beginning?
Speaker:How are they in the beginning?
Speaker:And what's that transition when they pull out of your classes
Speaker:have gone through the group coaching class,
Speaker:what's the value been to them?
Speaker:And I will say this is a newer offering.
Speaker:So I am actually just getting ready to,
Speaker:you're starting again tomorrow are new,
Speaker:but I've been doing this work with people one-on-one for years.
Speaker:And I've just kind of evolved into more of a group
Speaker:program. I would love to maybe share a couple of actual
Speaker:client stories if that's okay.
Speaker:Cause I feel like that helps people relate.
Speaker:Yeah, that'd be great because I'm interested in the value of
Speaker:doing this because,
Speaker:and my motivation here is someone who's listening.
Speaker:Who's like,
Speaker:yeah, yeah.
Speaker:I buy in.
Speaker:I understand.
Speaker:I understand.
Speaker:And then we get off and are all done with this
Speaker:podcast and it kind of gets forgotten.
Speaker:So I think understanding the value and what this helps you
Speaker:with inside your life could be really,
Speaker:really interesting to listen to.
Speaker:So yes,
Speaker:if you have a few examples,
Speaker:I'd love to hear them.
Speaker:Yeah, I'll do that.
Speaker:So I think we have these dreams inside of us.
Speaker:And many times the dreams inside of us are tied to
Speaker:money. Whether it's,
Speaker:I want to go full-time into this business or I want
Speaker:to retire my husband,
Speaker:or I want to have a bigger home or for all
Speaker:the kids that want to have or whatever the case is,
Speaker:what a lot of those junior lava schools all have a
Speaker:monetary value attached to them.
Speaker:And so a lot of times,
Speaker:so a couple of clients stories.
Speaker:So one client I worked with got a year and a
Speaker:half ago,
Speaker:her vision was,
Speaker:she wanted to retire her husband.
Speaker:She went to be able to bring him home.
Speaker:She has four kids.
Speaker:And so at that point it felt like a very far
Speaker:off dream.
Speaker:And within about a year of working together,
Speaker:we were able to make that dream a reality.
Speaker:And that was through this type of work,
Speaker:through her belief,
Speaker:in what she could bring in,
Speaker:in her company.
Speaker:She was stretching herself at a number of like 6,000.
Speaker:And she's tripled that number since the time we've worked together,
Speaker:we're together a couple of years now,
Speaker:but not only that though,
Speaker:she understood her numbers and her cashflow in our personal numbers
Speaker:and her business numbers and why her husband was bringing in
Speaker:and what she would need to do in her company to
Speaker:bring in that.
Speaker:And she was able to like,
Speaker:not only increase her business revenue,
Speaker:but know all of the facts to retire her husband.
Speaker:I just jumped for joy for that.
Speaker:That's amazing.
Speaker:You hear stories like this and the truth is this doesn't
Speaker:just happen overnight.
Speaker:It only happens with a plan.
Speaker:Absolutely. And that's what you're doing is you're providing,
Speaker:you're looking at the unique situation of anyone that you're coaching
Speaker:or have them look at it.
Speaker:If it's in a group coaching environment,
Speaker:right. Understand where they are,
Speaker:think of what their goals are,
Speaker:all your goals that you were mentioning and then figuring out
Speaker:a plan to get there and not just wishing that it'll
Speaker:happen. And when I say a plan like I'm very practical
Speaker:and these tools are very specific.
Speaker:So it's like literally seeing here's your overflow from your personal
Speaker:life. We have $790 this month and we've strategized your financial
Speaker:large goals.
Speaker:And we know where to put the $790 and we're literally
Speaker:putting it onto the next tab of the spreadsheet.
Speaker:And it's calculating it,
Speaker:showing you how much you've progressed towards that goal.
Speaker:And just to get really specific.
Speaker:And it's understanding your business enough to see,
Speaker:okay, we can actually see cashflow based upon your actual book
Speaker:and your projections.
Speaker:And so we know it's going to be safe in two
Speaker:months for you to move your salary from 4,000
Speaker:to $5,000.
Speaker:And so let's put that extra thousand into our personal side
Speaker:of our matrix.
Speaker:Oh, now we have the next month we have $1,580
Speaker:leftover. Okay,
Speaker:we're going to put that towards this particular financial goal.
Speaker:And so it's very drilled in and very practical.
Speaker:It's not this,
Speaker:it becomes right.
Speaker:We take it from this hopeful,
Speaker:ideal thing to a real goal,
Speaker:with a real number,
Speaker:with a real plan to get there,
Speaker:Which is so exciting because you already see how the future
Speaker:is achievable.
Speaker:You see the numbers on the paper.
Speaker:Yes. What the one gal,
Speaker:this is another really fun story from the last program.
Speaker:They had been her and her husband and her son,
Speaker:her little boy had been looking for their next house for
Speaker:like a year with an in the market's crazy here in
Speaker:Indianapolis. And so for a whole year,
Speaker:they're like getting really discouraged.
Speaker:And I mean,
Speaker:obviously we talked to him just a little bit because I'm
Speaker:in real estate so I can empathize.
Speaker:And she said at the end of the,
Speaker:where as you're wrapping up the program,
Speaker:she was like,
Speaker:I just have to say this.
Speaker:I have to say that because of the work we did
Speaker:in this program,
Speaker:I am able to know that I can build my dream
Speaker:home, that we can afford it.
Speaker:And she's working with a builder currently and they're building their
Speaker:dream home.
Speaker:She was like,
Speaker:if I didn't do this work,
Speaker:I would have never known me because I've done this.
Speaker:I would have never stepped into this,
Speaker:but I know.
Speaker:And so cool.
Speaker:Like we do the mindset work where she's been writing down
Speaker:her future manifestation of this particular for her office,
Speaker:her room with French doors and like natural light,
Speaker:just beaming in.
Speaker:And she's like,
Speaker:the builder is working with me to make that very room.
Speaker:I know I'm just like,
Speaker:this is why I do this work.
Speaker:It's real women having real breakthroughs.
Speaker:And I think too,
Speaker:I want to say like the mindset component is so huge
Speaker:and women coming onto calls and being vulnerable and crying.
Speaker:And one of the women in last group was talking about
Speaker:how she's like,
Speaker:wow, I didn't know.
Speaker:I had so much like mindset stuff around money.
Speaker:And she's like,
Speaker:as I'm drilling into this,
Speaker:I'm noticing how my mom treated herself and how my mom
Speaker:treated herself with money.
Speaker:And I am running up against the same sort of thing
Speaker:where I'm having this worthiness complex,
Speaker:where I'm like,
Speaker:well, I'm not worthy.
Speaker:She really wanted to buy a Peloton and she knew she
Speaker:could afford it,
Speaker:but it was as she dug into it,
Speaker:why was she was having resistance?
Speaker:It was around this worthiness that she had been modeled,
Speaker:but her mom just sacrificing wasn't worthy of things like that.
Speaker:Wasn't worthy to be splurged on.
Speaker:And she was living that out and she was like,
Speaker:I do not want to live that out from my daughter.
Speaker:Right. And so I'm drilling into this wordiness and really seeing
Speaker:where is this coming from and how can I retrain myself?
Speaker:And of course she bought the Peloton and that's amazing,
Speaker:but what's more amazing is the work that she did to
Speaker:like start to really receive worthiness.
Speaker:And that's even more why I do this work.
Speaker:Is that personal transformation that happens for women.
Speaker:Beautiful. Yes.
Speaker:I love that.
Speaker:I'm just going to go back.
Speaker:Cause I just want to reference what you were saying also
Speaker:with this last example,
Speaker:is that so often,
Speaker:like let's go with the home improvements,
Speaker:right? You feel like you spend the money and it's like,
Speaker:gosh, I hope I could afford this because you haven't looked
Speaker:at your numbers.
Speaker:And so you're throwing money and saying,
Speaker:I'm just going to figure it out one way or another.
Speaker:And so you're so stressed thinking about whether you can afford
Speaker:it, that you don't even really enjoy what's happening along the
Speaker:way. Yes.
Speaker:And aren't excited and appreciative and looking forward to it.
Speaker:You are initially,
Speaker:but then you're like crap because it's going to bankrupt me.
Speaker:Like I don't even know,
Speaker:or how much do I even have available that I can
Speaker:spend. And all of that gets wiped away.
Speaker:It sounds like with the type of things that you're teaching,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:and the way it goes from business to personal,
Speaker:to fulfilling the goals in personal and moving forward.
Speaker:So, so much value there.
Speaker:Aaron, I love it.
Speaker:Oh, thank you.
Speaker:Yeah. You get to be in the driver's seat,
Speaker:right? This is you starting to really say like,
Speaker:yeah, you're going to build a house and your dream house.
Speaker:You're going to step into that with confidence and with knowing,
Speaker:Hey, I can afford it.
Speaker:I'm a boss.
Speaker:I've got this,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:versus like,
Speaker:geez, I hope closing your eyes and open.
Speaker:And Brian,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:that's very different vibe and energy And setting it a different
Speaker:example for the future for your children as well.
Speaker:Yes. I always say this and I think this is like
Speaker:wealthy women will change the world.
Speaker:And that's why I do this work.
Speaker:And I believe that statistically,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:that women are more altruistic when it comes to money.
Speaker:But I also say that because wealthy women,
Speaker:the work that we have to do internally in order to
Speaker:come at numbers differently and money differently,
Speaker:it creates a changed woman.
Speaker:And also I like to blow it out to even a
Speaker:bigger picture of like,
Speaker:this is a societal movement.
Speaker:This is a change.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:it wasn't a hundred years ago,
Speaker:less than a hundred years ago,
Speaker:a woman can open a bank account by herself,
Speaker:less than a hundred years ago,
Speaker:a woman could have her own credit card.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:we're very like if we look at society and what women
Speaker:have been up against us,
Speaker:stepping into this new version is not just for us and
Speaker:not just for maybe the generation that comes after us,
Speaker:but it's about something much bigger.
Speaker:And I just love to like,
Speaker:show that so that people can like step into this with
Speaker:like real belief in what they're doing.
Speaker:We were talking a little bit about some of the things
Speaker:you have coming up.
Speaker:Do you want to share that with us?
Speaker:Sure. I would love to.
Speaker:Okay. So this is Erin middle of March.
Speaker:So I would love for people to sign up.
Speaker:You can get on the wait list so you can sign
Speaker:up for the wealthy woman workshop.
Speaker:This is a three day intentional kind of program where it
Speaker:that's totally free where we talk through,
Speaker:how do we think plan and show up like wealthy women.
Speaker:And I'm super action-oriented there's video trainings.
Speaker:There's worksheets.
Speaker:We do it as a group.
Speaker:It's really fun.
Speaker:So I'd highly recommend your audience doing that.
Speaker:And then also there's a free,
Speaker:wealthy woman checklist that helps you get really just kind of
Speaker:all the things that we talked about.
Speaker:Although floating things about bank accounts and knowing this and that
Speaker:and your personal business it's all very organized for you there.
Speaker:So I'd highly recommend that your audience grab that A good
Speaker:first step into getting to all the things we talked about,
Speaker:even if you've been very focused on your business finances before,
Speaker:but making that leap and merging it,
Speaker:how your business finances affect your personal and then adding in
Speaker:that layer of goals,
Speaker:where else online would you send people to go and see
Speaker:more about you?
Speaker:Yeah, so I'm most active on Instagram,
Speaker:so you can find me and follow me there.
Speaker:It's Erin underscore Bridgman.
Speaker:My name is spelled different.
Speaker:Cause my parents have to do that to me,
Speaker:I guess.
Speaker:So it's Erin E R I N N underscore Bridgman B
Speaker:R I D G M a N.
Speaker:Perfect. And of course that will be in the show notes.
Speaker:So if you're out driving,
Speaker:walking around,
Speaker:aren't able to make note of that.
Speaker:You can always access the show notes for that as well.
Speaker:Aaron, this has been absolutely fabulous.
Speaker:Thank you so much for coming on the show today,
Speaker:sharing with us all of your knowledge expertise and some concepts
Speaker:we really haven't talked about before that can enhance our life
Speaker:overall. It was an honor.
Speaker:Thank you so much.
Speaker:Interesting discussion.
Speaker:Yes. Even though it's important to separate your business numbers from
Speaker:your personal finances for documentation purposes,
Speaker:let's face it.
Speaker:We're in business ultimately to add to our personal accounts when
Speaker:those dollars crossover their potential to add to the quality of
Speaker:your life and your future is something certainly not worth being
Speaker:left to chance.
Speaker:Next Saturday,
Speaker:we're talking with an ex pat mom who has turned her
Speaker:creative skills into over 10,000
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