Gift biz unwrapped episode 216 it was just too much.
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Speaker:Hi there,
Speaker:it's Sue and thanks for Joining me here today.
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Speaker:Okay. Who are my bakers out there?
Speaker:The episode this week is especially for you,
Speaker:but Juliette serves up sweet lines like nobody's business for all
Speaker:businesses, from talking about balance to scaling and support,
Speaker:it's an entertaining and educational batch of advice.
Speaker:Any handmade business owner can save her.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Maybe that's a little corny,
Speaker:but I've got to get you prepared for Juliet.
Speaker:You'll understand what I mean right away.
Speaker:Oh, shall we just get started?
Speaker:Glad to do it.
Speaker:Pleasure to introduce you to Juliet Galeo of Cakery chat.
Speaker:Juliet is all too familiar with the love hate relationship many
Speaker:sugar artists have with cocaine.
Speaker:After starting a career in cake decorating 10 years ago while
Speaker:starting a family,
Speaker:she found herself alone,
Speaker:frustrated and unhappy doing the things she loved most.
Speaker:Juliette's love for sugar.
Speaker:Art swelled after competing and winning three consecutive metals.
Speaker:The toll of working from home alone and doing it all
Speaker:herself, however,
Speaker:was depleting the creative,
Speaker:loving and social beam.
Speaker:She truly is after meeting so many Cakery just like her.
Speaker:She wanted everyone to know that they are not alone and
Speaker:has committed to helping those in the sweet community believe in
Speaker:themselves and their dreams.
Speaker:Juliette's weekly Wednesday YouTube show and podcast kickers,
Speaker:chat are filled with wisdom sprinkles to help sugar professionals with
Speaker:everything from mindset marketing and the encouragement needed to compete and
Speaker:stand out in the industry.
Speaker:Juliet, welcome to the gift biz unwrapped podcast.
Speaker:Thank you so much for having me.
Speaker:I am so looking forward to our chat and although this
Speaker:isn't cross Steen and Kay,
Speaker:I have a question for you about candles and I know
Speaker:you know it since you've listened to the show,
Speaker:but I like to have you describe yourself through a motivational
Speaker:candle. So if you were to share with us what color
Speaker:it is and what the quote or motto would be on
Speaker:your candle,
Speaker:what would it look like?
Speaker:So I absolutely love this idea.
Speaker:So Mike handle,
Speaker:I know everybody's probably thinking teal.
Speaker:It has to be teal cause that's our branding.
Speaker:But no,
Speaker:it's actually more of a glowing orange,
Speaker:pink and magenta and red center.
Speaker:Of course it's filled with love.
Speaker:So when you light this candle,
Speaker:I want you to be filled with love and remember that
Speaker:you are enough in front of that candle would say I
Speaker:am enough because love has to start with love in yourself.
Speaker:And of course being the complex being that I am on
Speaker:the other side it would say all you do is do,
Speaker:do, do and that's just a whole bunch of doodoo.
Speaker:Seriously, that's a riot.
Speaker:It really comes from the fact that we try to value
Speaker:ourselves by doing so much and the minute that we have
Speaker:some free time to ourselves will,
Speaker:we don't feel like we're worthy and I don't want you
Speaker:to feel that way.
Speaker:That's a whole bunch of dude who let that premise go
Speaker:live life with intention and know that everything you do either
Speaker:is towards your goal or away from your goal and there
Speaker:is a time for rest and that should be part of
Speaker:your whole plan.
Speaker:You know?
Speaker:I think a lot of us are challenged with that and
Speaker:I'm thinking as you're saying this,
Speaker:it's probably part of just being an entrepreneur and wanting to
Speaker:build something for yourself that like,
Speaker:cause I know I don't think I can sit in a
Speaker:chair and not multitask.
Speaker:I'm not sure I know how to do it.
Speaker:And I know it's important to your point that you should,
Speaker:so I need to work with the doodoo.
Speaker:Apparently It's real.
Speaker:It really is important.
Speaker:I think it's a way,
Speaker:if you acknowledge it and know that it's there,
Speaker:it does take hard work because if that's how you're wired
Speaker:as I am and for many generations,
Speaker:that's how we've been wired to just keep going.
Speaker:The thing is what will happen is you'll burn out and
Speaker:that thing that you love of most will be the thing
Speaker:that you Tate.
Speaker:Yeah. Wisdom.
Speaker:Sure. What do you call them?
Speaker:Wisdom of sprinkles.
Speaker:Wisdom. Sprinkles.
Speaker:But while we're on this point,
Speaker:I don't think I can say this enough and we have
Speaker:talked about it before,
Speaker:but there's a difference between doing,
Speaker:doing, doing and then doing tasks that can actually build your
Speaker:business. And it's important.
Speaker:There always has to be a little bit of both.
Speaker:This is kind of a spin off of the whole working
Speaker:in your business versus on your business theory.
Speaker:But so often we think we're busy because we're doing so
Speaker:much, but then we're not seeing more sales coming in or
Speaker:the phone ringing more or whatever it is because we're so
Speaker:busy working on something.
Speaker:But it's not necessarily something that's leading us to a goal.
Speaker:Absolutely. So we have to be careful with that.
Speaker:We can't get stuck in the do-do.
Speaker:How about that?
Speaker:That's a great one.
Speaker:I like that one too.
Speaker:Don't get stuck in the do-do.
Speaker:I have a five-year-old and a nine year old,
Speaker:so like everything is potty talk in my house.
Speaker:So yeah,
Speaker:that's probably where it came from.
Speaker:But yeah,
Speaker:don't get stuck in that.
Speaker:You don't have to be the one to do everything as
Speaker:an entrepreneur where you think that because it's the beginning.
Speaker:Sure. In the beginning you do have to have your hands
Speaker:and fingers dipped and everything,
Speaker:but as you get proficient in what it is that you
Speaker:do, that excellence,
Speaker:that thing that you can only do and nobody else can,
Speaker:you need to start outsourcing some things and start looking at
Speaker:things from a higher level so that you can move ahead.
Speaker:Otherwise you're going to be stuck working in your business and
Speaker:not on your business and your won't move ahead.
Speaker:You want move ahead and you've limited your business then because
Speaker:there's only so much one person can do And then it'll
Speaker:just build up into resentment and then you're going to be
Speaker:like, you know what?
Speaker:I don't want to do this anymore.
Speaker:Let's move on.
Speaker:Yeah, I know firsthand well.
Speaker:Yeah, and that's okay.
Speaker:And you know,
Speaker:maybe some of our listeners here,
Speaker:it would be like,
Speaker:gulp that to me.
Speaker:Well guess what?
Speaker:It's okay.
Speaker:You learn and then you make adjustments.
Speaker:And I often have to watch myself because it's so much
Speaker:easier to gravitate to things that are easy and comfortable to
Speaker:do versus the challenging things that often are the things that
Speaker:are going to advance your business forward.
Speaker:It's hard work to rest,
Speaker:relax, and rejuvenate.
Speaker:It is hard work,
Speaker:especially if it's not part of your habits.
Speaker:It's not part of your habit,
Speaker:so if it's not part of your daily habit to rejuvenate,
Speaker:relax, or even meditate,
Speaker:it's just as important as water.
Speaker:It's just as important sleep,
Speaker:and yet even those things fall to the wayside because you're
Speaker:so busy doing,
Speaker:doing, doing,
Speaker:doing. They can't do that.
Speaker:The first thing you do,
Speaker:wake up in the morning,
Speaker:you grab your phone and you see how many likes you
Speaker:have on something.
Speaker:Oh my God,
Speaker:that burns a hole in my heart.
Speaker:Please don't do that to yourself and your mental state.
Speaker:You need to get back into your own center and speak
Speaker:to yourself.
Speaker:Absolutely. All right,
Speaker:well let's practice what we preach and not get stuck here.
Speaker:Yeah, let's this,
Speaker:we could talk the whole time on this,
Speaker:right? Share with us how you got into cake decorating,
Speaker:so the first portion of your sweet career,
Speaker:if you will.
Speaker:Absolutely. I was always some type of artist,
Speaker:crafter type of personality and believe it or not,
Speaker:I went to school for business communication and graphic design.
Speaker:So as a graphic designer,
Speaker:as far as baking those concerns,
Speaker:that was just something we did at home and it was
Speaker:just a Rite of passage in our family.
Speaker:You were ready to be a wife to somebody,
Speaker:if you will,
Speaker:when you knew how to bake very well.
Speaker:And in my teenage hood,
Speaker:my cookies started to get more complex and one day my
Speaker:mom handed over the mixer to me and said,
Speaker:okay, now you're in charge of the holiday cookies from now
Speaker:on in.
Speaker:And that was like the biggest diploma I could ever get.
Speaker:So you didn't feel like that was work,
Speaker:like she was sending that over to you were happy about
Speaker:it? It was like a status symbol in the family kind
Speaker:of Status symbol.
Speaker:My mom,
Speaker:the perfectionist,
Speaker:I mean she is Mary Poppins reincarnated and she literally gave
Speaker:me the mixture and trusted me with it.
Speaker:And as a matter of fact,
Speaker:I believe she might've said something,
Speaker:you'd do them better anyway.
Speaker:Whoa, huge deal.
Speaker:So I've always done cookies and cookie platters for the holidays,
Speaker:Easter and Christmas.
Speaker:Like that was my thing.
Speaker:That was my therapy from school.
Speaker:I loved it.
Speaker:I loved the monotonous,
Speaker:we used to say tedium is my medium.
Speaker:The tediousness of trying to make each cookies the same.
Speaker:It's therapeutic.
Speaker:I loved it and I still do love it.
Speaker:And then one day my inlaws moved into a new house.
Speaker:I didn't know.
Speaker:What do you give somebody that has everything?
Speaker:I said,
Speaker:you know what?
Speaker:This guy buddy Valastro cake boss has been making cakes on
Speaker:TV. I've been watching challenge on food network all the time.
Speaker:Like that was my pastime,
Speaker:I guess.
Speaker:I said,
Speaker:you know what?
Speaker:They make it look so easy.
Speaker:Let's see.
Speaker:I've never made a cake before,
Speaker:but here I go.
Speaker:But this is how I do it.
Speaker:First head first,
Speaker:and I baked the cake.
Speaker:It was,
Speaker:okay, I'm kind of picky.
Speaker:And then all of a sudden my hands manifested this cake
Speaker:with a house made of rice Krispie treats and the tree.
Speaker:And I'm like,
Speaker:how did I do this?
Speaker:I posted it on Facebook.
Speaker:I mean if you look at it now,
Speaker:it's really like what?
Speaker:It's like a little kid do it,
Speaker:but I couldn't believe that I did it,
Speaker:but believe it or not,
Speaker:from that little cake,
Speaker:somebody called me and my second cake was a commissioned cake
Speaker:right away that they asked me to make a cake for
Speaker:an event and then it just went from there.
Speaker:So you know what's cool about your story,
Speaker:Juliette, is you felt it internally,
Speaker:you felt that spark internally and then also you got confirmation
Speaker:when someone saw it on Facebook.
Speaker:So it's like two things coming together at once for a
Speaker:perfect union.
Speaker:It was.
Speaker:It really was.
Speaker:It was really incredible.
Speaker:And I think I was really lucky with that.
Speaker:And social media just started to get hot at that time.
Speaker:I definitely owe it to social media for getting the word
Speaker:out. Question for you.
Speaker:So someone calls you and you saw that you were liking
Speaker:what you were doing,
Speaker:but now I'm sure you weren't expecting someone to call and
Speaker:commission you for work.
Speaker:No way Did you react to that and what did you
Speaker:do about pricing?
Speaker:Cause this isn't even on your radar.
Speaker:Okay. So they called me and of course this was like
Speaker:a family.
Speaker:This is family who asked me to do it and I'm
Speaker:going to be honest with you,
Speaker:it was my second cake that I did.
Speaker:I said,
Speaker:pay me whatever you want.
Speaker:That's okay.
Speaker:That's how you start,
Speaker:right? Yeah,
Speaker:because I didn't know what they were family.
Speaker:I'm like,
Speaker:I've always baked and just gave it away anyway and this
Speaker:is my second cake ever.
Speaker:Are you kidding me?
Speaker:Like I'm sure it took me a week to make the
Speaker:cake like that.
Speaker:Okay. Like that.
Speaker:It's my second cake that's not going to work longterm for
Speaker:sure. Right.
Speaker:It's supposed to be a business thing.
Speaker:It's just,
Speaker:I know it took a lot of work to do and
Speaker:I wasn't really expecting anything.
Speaker:I was just grateful that somebody asked me to make them
Speaker:a cake and they paid me and it was definitely proportionate
Speaker:to what the work asked for.
Speaker:I don't know about how pretty it was,
Speaker:but it was done because it was a tall order.
Speaker:This is my second cake and I made a round sphere
Speaker:ball on a sheet cake and a soccer ball standing,
Speaker:figuring. Now those people in the sugar world know that that's
Speaker:not an easy thing to do.
Speaker:But again,
Speaker:I jump in head first.
Speaker:Oh my gosh.
Speaker:Hey, I'm still proud of it.
Speaker:I stand by that cake still today.
Speaker:So where along all of this was it that you said,
Speaker:Oh, how about making this a business?
Speaker:The calls started to come in so then there were more
Speaker:calls. Yeah,
Speaker:I guess it really just happened by happenstance.
Speaker:I was going into graphic design.
Speaker:I had my baby at the time and graphic design was
Speaker:kind of being outsourced with a lot more cheaper overseas designs.
Speaker:Brides weren't spending as much on invitations cause that was kind
Speaker:of for my flow and those fancy invitations were going out
Speaker:the door.
Speaker:And people were going digital.
Speaker:So I'm like,
Speaker:Oh man,
Speaker:like what am I going to do?
Speaker:So my artistic layers,
Speaker:if you will,
Speaker:were no longer Photoshop.
Speaker:They were layers of fun done and creating figurines and cakes
Speaker:and things like that.
Speaker:So I got another email from another person and they said,
Speaker:Oh, I saw you did such and such as Kate,
Speaker:do you mind doing mine?
Speaker:So I did another kid's cake and then another kid's cake
Speaker:and I couldn't believe figurines that were coming out of my
Speaker:head. It was really an even till today,
Speaker:to be honest.
Speaker:It's kind of like an out of body experience.
Speaker:You're surprised when you see what you've made.
Speaker:I bet you too,
Speaker:when you go back and look at some of your old
Speaker:designs because you have distance from them now that you look
Speaker:and it's like,
Speaker:Whoa, that was pretty good.
Speaker:Look at that,
Speaker:the, I did that.
Speaker:Yes. And the other side of the coin too,
Speaker:I'm like Pat out.
Speaker:I leave those round edges there and I was proud of
Speaker:that. But now you're more critical too.
Speaker:Of course.
Speaker:Absolutely. But yeah,
Speaker:no Things that I look at.
Speaker:I'm like,
Speaker:you had no training in this whatsoever.
Speaker:And it's like literally manifesting out of your fingers.
Speaker:It is an out of body experience.
Speaker:It's like a trance.
Speaker:You fall into a trance and you turn around.
Speaker:I'm like,
Speaker:who did that?
Speaker:Oh my God,
Speaker:that was me.
Speaker:Oh that's so funny.
Speaker:So your first jobs were people that you knew,
Speaker:friends and family.
Speaker:How long,
Speaker:and this is a perfect demonstration of word of mouth,
Speaker:right? Word of mouth.
Speaker:Social media.
Speaker:Yes. But one thing led to another and you weren't even
Speaker:pushing for that.
Speaker:This just started organically happening.
Speaker:How long would you say it took from people who knew
Speaker:you till you started getting phone calls from people that you
Speaker:didn't know at all you had no connection with other than
Speaker:through somebody else?
Speaker:Like literally in months,
Speaker:like not even months,
Speaker:weeks. Really.
Speaker:My third and fourth cake.
Speaker:Well, cause it happened through social media and the people who
Speaker:were ordering the cakes were still part of a tight community
Speaker:here in New York.
Speaker:So there were part of the Maltese community,
Speaker:which I'm so lucky.
Speaker:I'm married to a gorgeous multisite man,
Speaker:so I guess because they hear my last name is Ghalia
Speaker:that I must be Maltese,
Speaker:but I'm married to one and they just stuck to the
Speaker:community. So I think being into community,
Speaker:being involved with the community,
Speaker:letting people know that you are available there for them.
Speaker:And then people started having babies for cakes.
Speaker:Honestly, a lot of people say that the brides are the
Speaker:moneymakers. I think the kids were the moneymakers for me because
Speaker:at that time I was just kind of just training myself
Speaker:with each cake that came in and I did everything in
Speaker:my power to make sure they were excellent because to me,
Speaker:my clients weren't clients.
Speaker:There were family,
Speaker:so it was really,
Speaker:really important for me to make sure that I give them
Speaker:the top notch business because I was not a shock.
Speaker:To me,
Speaker:a shock.
Speaker:It's a different type of service.
Speaker:It's just a different service Because you're very specialized and customized
Speaker:and personal.
Speaker:Yeah, and personal.
Speaker:Yeah. Versus like a bakery where people are coming in.
Speaker:It's equally as good.
Speaker:It's just a different structure.
Speaker:Absolutely different structure.
Speaker:I was really basically a personal Baker.
Speaker:There you go.
Speaker:Okay. And the other thing that is interesting about your story,
Speaker:the big term in this day is niching down,
Speaker:become a specialist,
Speaker:become known for something and so you were also a specialist
Speaker:as you started to build.
Speaker:I'm quite sure it didn't stay that way but within the
Speaker:Maltese community,
Speaker:absolutely. So that's another thought.
Speaker:Just gift biz listeners based on your product.
Speaker:If you have something within your groups or whatever to focus
Speaker:on that as a way to build because the closer customers
Speaker:can feel to you and feel like you get them quote
Speaker:unquote the more you are going to be the chosen provider
Speaker:of whatever it is that you sell.
Speaker:Absolutely. I would totally reach out to like mommy groups within
Speaker:a certain neighborhood if you are in that neighborhood,
Speaker:sponsor their baseball teams or something like that.
Speaker:And I really believe staying local with your community,
Speaker:social media,
Speaker:and I've said this a number of times,
Speaker:social media is a great tool,
Speaker:but don't be a fool.
Speaker:Don't think that because you have followers and I don't know
Speaker:where it's her nationally,
Speaker:that those are not the people who are buying from you.
Speaker:You really need to start your family,
Speaker:create your community and really make it a community kitchen type
Speaker:of thing.
Speaker:If that depends again on who you're trying to service.
Speaker:If you're servicing brides who are coming from overseas who are
Speaker:coming for a destination wedding,
Speaker:I get that,
Speaker:but again,
Speaker:pay attention to who you're servicing and make sure you create
Speaker:a community around that.
Speaker:Yes, and social media is a part of the whole,
Speaker:really, It's just a marketing tool.
Speaker:It's one marketing tool And so is this just a fabulous
Speaker:quote that I just pulled out of you or have you
Speaker:already said this or have you heard it elsewhere?
Speaker:Social media is a great tool,
Speaker:but don't be it's fool.
Speaker:I've always said that Greg,
Speaker:social media is a tool.
Speaker:Don't be,
Speaker:it's full.
Speaker:Oh my gosh.
Speaker:Well that's going to be a quote that you are going
Speaker:to see on social media with your name under it.
Speaker:Just letting you know right now.
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:Yeah, because People depend on social media and they put their
Speaker:full stock and they communicate with their clients on it.
Speaker:It's not right that they don't own that content.
Speaker:They really need to bring it back home,
Speaker:bring it back home into their newsletters.
Speaker:Make sure you have a database please of your clients.
Speaker:Even if it's a simple Excel sheet.
Speaker:If you don't know what an Excel sheet is,
Speaker:I'm going to break it to in a word sheet.
Speaker:I mean index cards,
Speaker:anything, anything but keeping it all on your whatever,
Speaker:Facebook or your Instagram,
Speaker:I can go on forever.
Speaker:That's a whole other class,
Speaker:a whole other workshop.
Speaker:I'm going to stick with your history,
Speaker:but before we do,
Speaker:you did bring up an important point and give biz listeners
Speaker:at the time we're recording this.
Speaker:This is about a week after Facebook went down for the
Speaker:day. Do you guys remember that?
Speaker:So when this goes live,
Speaker:it'll be like a month ago or I'm not exactly sure
Speaker:when. I swear everyone was up in arms.
Speaker:What's happening?
Speaker:How do I do business?
Speaker:That's the demise of everything.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:everyone totally freaked out.
Speaker:What you're talking about,
Speaker:Juliet, in terms of making sure that you own connection back
Speaker:to your customers is vital.
Speaker:Absolutely. I mean,
Speaker:it is the lifeblood of your business for sure.
Speaker:So any of you guys who had heart stopping moments when
Speaker:that happened,
Speaker:that was a wake up call because that means you need
Speaker:to get things in place.
Speaker:Even your content,
Speaker:especially if I know,
Speaker:and this I think relates across the board with gifters as
Speaker:well, but like sometimes we get so busy in our lives
Speaker:and we post up these beautiful pictures of whatever products we're
Speaker:selling, what have you.
Speaker:Do you still have it somewhere on a hard drive elsewhere
Speaker:other than your Instagram?
Speaker:Yeah. Excellent point.
Speaker:And how are you organizing that stuff?
Speaker:Just remembered like that's just one of the spaces.
Speaker:That's your pinup board,
Speaker:but you got to have it in your filing cabinet.
Speaker:Yeah. Excellent point.
Speaker:So we're back to you and you've done a number of
Speaker:cakes. Now what happens from there?
Speaker:Okay, so I just continually keep on doing cakes and it's
Speaker:fun. I'm growing in my skills and then I had a
Speaker:second baby and thank goodness he was so good.
Speaker:I got back into baking really quick right after that and
Speaker:then I started competing and competing.
Speaker:Really got my sportsmanship out and I said,
Speaker:Ooh, this is fun.
Speaker:Now, did you do that for yourself or to reposition yourself
Speaker:with the in the industry or what was the purpose behind
Speaker:it? I had no idea what I was doing.
Speaker:I said,
Speaker:Oh, this is fun.
Speaker:Let me try it.
Speaker:Oh my God,
Speaker:I'm not good enough to compete.
Speaker:I haven't been through this enough to compete,
Speaker:but listen,
Speaker:you did,
Speaker:right? Yeah,
Speaker:but these are the things that I said to myself and
Speaker:I know so many people out there are saying to themselves,
Speaker:and I competed and I placed gold on my first competition.
Speaker:No way.
Speaker:So like not,
Speaker:I didn't think I was going to win.
Speaker:I wasn't even there with my family.
Speaker:It was of myself,
Speaker:so when they called my name,
Speaker:I was like,
Speaker:huh, Oh my gosh,
Speaker:that's so exciting.
Speaker:I got home and my husband's like,
Speaker:Oh, it's going to be okay.
Speaker:He goes,
Speaker:I want not only wine,
Speaker:you want gold.
Speaker:It was crazy.
Speaker:Crazy. It really wasn't the amount of cakes and competition and
Speaker:I got to learn that there's other people like me,
Speaker:sugar nerds,
Speaker:if you will,
Speaker:and it just ignited a new thing in me and I
Speaker:didn't know that there was another community out there just like
Speaker:that and I could learn more and there were so many
Speaker:more things I could learn And it was validating.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:you then saw that,
Speaker:okay, what my style is recognized in the industry as being
Speaker:good more than good winner status.
Speaker:Yeah. You know,
Speaker:that's a big deal too because a lot of times when
Speaker:we're alone in our K caves or crafting caves,
Speaker:if you will,
Speaker:we are lost alone in our own thoughts and they may
Speaker:or may not be true and I'm not going to say
Speaker:that this gold medal said I was great at what I
Speaker:did, but it just kind of gave me that little spirit
Speaker:say, yeah,
Speaker:I know what I should stick with this.
Speaker:Hey, they stood up and took notice.
Speaker:Yeah. What was a big deal for me?
Speaker:Because the competitive nature that I am,
Speaker:I will never be satisfied with that.
Speaker:Yeah, I placed gold and this is something I need to
Speaker:work with and appreciate that.
Speaker:Yes, I did win something,
Speaker:but to me the appreciation that I had that I had
Speaker:professionals with a professional eye looking at my work,
Speaker:taking the time out of their lives to look at my
Speaker:work that I did in my tiny kitchen was amazing to
Speaker:me. I was so grateful for that and they gave me
Speaker:notes of what was good and how I can improve for
Speaker:next time and that's what I took into the next competition.
Speaker:Love it.
Speaker:Okay, so you're competing.
Speaker:You went on to win two other metals.
Speaker:I know that from your intro.
Speaker:Yup. After Juliette's gold metal status,
Speaker:things started to change.
Speaker:We'll hear what happens next.
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Speaker:for more information So I knew something had to change at
Speaker:home. I live in New York,
Speaker:so I started to get more orders.
Speaker:My work started to get even better by recipes were unbelievable
Speaker:delicious. I used to bake the same way I would bake
Speaker:for my family,
Speaker:not like a bakery.
Speaker:It was all from scratch and the ingredients were all from
Speaker:scratch. Even my font was from scratch.
Speaker:This was unsustainable.
Speaker:If you're going to have a business and actually make a
Speaker:profit, Stay here for a second.
Speaker:Explain that to some people who may not understand why that
Speaker:is. This is a good point.
Speaker:Absolutely. I always say this.
Speaker:If I was going to keep on going with the business,
Speaker:I would have to change a lot of things.
Speaker:Again, I was servicing my customers the same way that I
Speaker:serviced my family,
Speaker:if not better.
Speaker:Everything was homemade,
Speaker:handmade, and it was done all from my hands from washing
Speaker:dishes to getting the inventory.
Speaker:Everything was done by me,
Speaker:solopreneur, and it was just too much.
Speaker:It took too much from my body.
Speaker:It took too much time from my family.
Speaker:He was taken up just too much space in my world.
Speaker:Yes. And then you're also limited because since you can only
Speaker:do so much,
Speaker:it's like putting a lid on the jar of the revenue
Speaker:that you could make.
Speaker:Like there's X amount only.
Speaker:Plus I'm sure if you really looked at the right costs
Speaker:for your cakes,
Speaker:they would be sky high.
Speaker:Correct too.
Speaker:Absolutely correct.
Speaker:So for example,
Speaker:the amount of profit that I should have been making off
Speaker:these cakes were not something that somebody would pay for.
Speaker:So in order for me to actually create a business out
Speaker:of it,
Speaker:you'd have to systemize things and maybe not make the fondant
Speaker:by hand,
Speaker:maybe don't use those kinds of ingredients.
Speaker:Maybe cake is the way to go because some clientele don't
Speaker:have that taste.
Speaker:It's kids not pastry.
Speaker:And I come from a cookie pastry heart.
Speaker:That's where my basis is.
Speaker:So I carry that into my caking because when you have
Speaker:cake, it's a slice of cake and usually have it with
Speaker:food versus when you're having just cookies,
Speaker:you're just taking that one bite and you're almost criticizing.
Speaker:I represented in that one bite.
Speaker:So I make sure that I pack as much love into
Speaker:it, if you will,
Speaker:to make that everlasting tastes or everlasting Mark with you.
Speaker:I carried that on with my cakes and it was just
Speaker:too much.
Speaker:Yeah. In other words,
Speaker:the product was too expensive and it wasn't as profitable as
Speaker:it should have been.
Speaker:In order for me to do that,
Speaker:I would have to systemize things.
Speaker:I hate to say drop my standards,
Speaker:but it would just be a different product.
Speaker:Well yeah.
Speaker:And I'm also thinking that you were attracting a different audience
Speaker:than what your standard was.
Speaker:Cause it sounds to me,
Speaker:correct me if I'm wrong,
Speaker:but it sounds to me if you would have continued,
Speaker:you would have needed to be doing upscale cakes to celebrities
Speaker:who could pay for it or upscale restaurants that had to
Speaker:have specialty cakes and all that because they'll pay thousands and
Speaker:thousands of dollars for those cakes because of the taste.
Speaker:But it sounds like the type of clientele,
Speaker:yes, of course it has to taste wonderful.
Speaker:But they were a lot into your designing talent.
Speaker:Correct. So it was,
Speaker:I hate to say it that way,
Speaker:but maybe it was about the taste of the cake,
Speaker:but it was also about,
Speaker:and maybe more about what it looked like in the impression,
Speaker:the visual impression.
Speaker:Yeah, no apology needed.
Speaker:You're absolutely right.
Speaker:But the thing is that I couldn't let a product out
Speaker:of my kitchen or go through my hands.
Speaker:That wasn't perfect.
Speaker:Cause of course that's my perfectionist in me.
Speaker:So if that product wasn't a hundred percent through with,
Speaker:through, I felt like I couldn't put my name on it.
Speaker:So it helped me back that perfectionism.
Speaker:And that's why I say perfectionism is just perfection is perception.
Speaker:So for that,
Speaker:those months out of my life,
Speaker:those years out of my life,
Speaker:I was holding myself back because I literally could have been
Speaker:making way more money,
Speaker:but I did it because I needed to have that product
Speaker:be a hundred percent through wind,
Speaker:through not even a hundred percent 110% you know,
Speaker:whatever it is,
Speaker:I put so much more effort into it.
Speaker:Yeah. So give business listeners,
Speaker:I want to relate this to everybody.
Speaker:So give biz listeners,
Speaker:this could be for you,
Speaker:making sure that this hand blown glass bead is absolutely positively
Speaker:every single one of them is absolutely perfect or cookie designs,
Speaker:same thing and you should try and stay out of the
Speaker:industry, but gift baskets that the bow that you're putting on,
Speaker:if it isn't absolutely perfect,
Speaker:where every single loop is exactly right,
Speaker:you scrap that bow and start over with a whole nother
Speaker:bow like those are things that cost you money that the
Speaker:client never sees.
Speaker:Now obviously it can't be lopsided like a bow couldn't be
Speaker:lopsided or a glass bead can't be imperfect,
Speaker:but when we go to that styling level That is just
Speaker:taking so much time with perfectionism,
Speaker:it's a good place to self-check because you're losing money in
Speaker:that moment.
Speaker:When you go back and redo and redo and redo.
Speaker:Do, do,
Speaker:do, do.
Speaker:Time is money.
Speaker:And let's say for example,
Speaker:let's go to those bows.
Speaker:Let's say,
Speaker:and this is just an example,
Speaker:I'm not a bowmaker,
Speaker:so I don't know what the lingo is here,
Speaker:but let's say for example,
Speaker:the most perfect bow in the world has eight loops in
Speaker:it, or nine loops in it,
Speaker:and your client couldn't tell if it had five or eight.
Speaker:To be honest,
Speaker:he's happy with two,
Speaker:whatever he's happy with,
Speaker:go for it.
Speaker:If he's happy with the to go with the tube,
Speaker:I know you love the nine Bo nine loop bow.
Speaker:I know that you love that for your satisfaction,
Speaker:but maybe you can tear your stuff and say,
Speaker:Oh, two Lupo is a silver package and a nine loop
Speaker:bull is like a gold package and do it that way.
Speaker:That way you can still do the bows that you love
Speaker:but get paid according to it.
Speaker:Good point.
Speaker:Okay, so the suspense is rising.
Speaker:You're at a crossroads,
Speaker:and so now you've identified this challenge.
Speaker:So what were your options and what did you decide to
Speaker:do about it?
Speaker:I live in New York city.
Speaker:So in New York city we don't have a food cottage
Speaker:law. So I was going to continue with my baking.
Speaker:I would have to open up a studio,
Speaker:which is something I've always dreamt of.
Speaker:Or actually that's the only thing I was thinking is like
Speaker:having a studio.
Speaker:So I'm like,
Speaker:should I open up a studio?
Speaker:Meaning like a commercial kitchen or a bakery or what?
Speaker:It would be a commercial kitchen that you would have to
Speaker:come and see me by appointment because I'm an artist first
Speaker:and foremost.
Speaker:So it wouldn't be something that I would be doing retail
Speaker:on a daily basis.
Speaker:Gotcha. And I have my kids to raise as well.
Speaker:So that would have worked with that.
Speaker:So I was shopping around for that thinking how much time
Speaker:would I need to commit to that because it's another family
Speaker:member, it's another part of your life.
Speaker:So I was in that crossroads.
Speaker:I was still getting pricing and thinking what I should do.
Speaker:And once that summer's Eve,
Speaker:I guess if you will,
Speaker:we were having a barbecue or a gathering with a whole
Speaker:bunch of bakers where we were talking about the baking industry
Speaker:and we were giving each other advice and I was asking
Speaker:people questions as I the curious caker I am,
Speaker:I'm asking people questions and they're like,
Speaker:Oh that's a great question.
Speaker:Everybody's listening in to the questions and stuff like that.
Speaker:And I said,
Speaker:you know what?
Speaker:This is such great information.
Speaker:You guys are so full of great information.
Speaker:This should be put out there and shared with everybody,
Speaker:cause I'm sure everybody else has questions just like this.
Speaker:And my friends were like,
Speaker:Oh well then you should put it out there.
Speaker:And funny enough,
Speaker:I don't know how it happened,
Speaker:but we laughed it off.
Speaker:We left it alone a couple of weeks later.
Speaker:Next thing I know,
Speaker:I'm out there helping out another friend who started putting the
Speaker:information there and that's chef Amy,
Speaker:Laura. And we went on Periscope at the time we went
Speaker:on Periscope and next thing you know,
Speaker:we had a whole bunch of followers asking us people that
Speaker:we know,
Speaker:asking her questions.
Speaker:We were talking about networking and it was such a great
Speaker:chat. Was it perfect?
Speaker:No, our papers were flying all over the place and information
Speaker:was awesome because she kind of brought it home of why
Speaker:it's so important to network and what it can do,
Speaker:not only for yourself but for your business.
Speaker:Right. We call it a Cakery chat from the get go.
Speaker:It was just something that happened spontaneously,
Speaker:so just as spontaneously as I was throwing in into the
Speaker:role of being a cake decorator or sugar artist.
Speaker:Here I am being a host of a talk show And
Speaker:once again,
Speaker:did you have that inner feeling like dang,
Speaker:light goes on.
Speaker:This is what I want to do.
Speaker:Well, I love talking to people.
Speaker:I love getting information from people extracting.
Speaker:I've always been good at that.
Speaker:But when my confirmation,
Speaker:when I said,
Speaker:when that ding moment,
Speaker:if you will,
Speaker:when it said I should keep on going with this is
Speaker:when I saw all the followers,
Speaker:I know the questions and all the emails that Juliet,
Speaker:can you find out how to do this and how to
Speaker:do that.
Speaker:And when I saw that other people needed this community and
Speaker:that we're all alone in our cake cave and this is
Speaker:what I need to drive home and this is so important
Speaker:to me,
Speaker:is that we need to create a community where we love
Speaker:each other or as I like to say,
Speaker:so we can all rise together in the oven like cupcakes.
Speaker:We can absolutely rise together.
Speaker:We don't need to knock each other down.
Speaker:We do not need to blow out somebody else's candle,
Speaker:if you will.
Speaker:All our Kendall's could light and light up the whole universe
Speaker:together. Absolutely.
Speaker:And I think specially because so many people are solo entrepreneurs
Speaker:for sure.
Speaker:As they get started,
Speaker:you do feel alone and am I doing this right or
Speaker:am I enough to your candle?
Speaker:And to have other people say,
Speaker:Hey, I felt the same way.
Speaker:I'm going through the same thing.
Speaker:Keep going,
Speaker:here's what you do.
Speaker:Or here's what worked for me.
Speaker:Just having that comradery and we talk about the fact that
Speaker:social media isn't something you should lean on.
Speaker:Totally. Well,
Speaker:social media,
Speaker:like Facebook groups,
Speaker:groups like this are golden.
Speaker:Absolutely. Give his listeners,
Speaker:if you haven't already found some groups that are in your
Speaker:industry specific,
Speaker:I definitely would do so.
Speaker:And I have to put the plug in here for our
Speaker:group gift biz breeze,
Speaker:which is for all gifters bakers,
Speaker:crafters and makers because I think there is a quality to
Speaker:cross breeding,
Speaker:crafting and making as well.
Speaker:Absolutely. So a maker community like mine,
Speaker:but also a community that's industry specific and those two together
Speaker:are perfect.
Speaker:What do you call it?
Speaker:What? You have a saying?
Speaker:You have all these sweet salesman,
Speaker:but what's your buttercream?
Speaker:Oh, spread love.
Speaker:Like buttercream.
Speaker:Of course.
Speaker:There you go.
Speaker:Of course.
Speaker:But of course.
Speaker:So are you not baking anymore?
Speaker:Okay. So I would love to bake,
Speaker:but I do it on the holidays and I do it
Speaker:only for family.
Speaker:No. So I get those requests like,
Speaker:Oh Julie,
Speaker:cause my family name is Julie.
Speaker:They don't call me Juliette.
Speaker:Julie, do you think he can make me those peaches?
Speaker:And of course with my family it's never just a dozen
Speaker:peach cookies.
Speaker:It's like a tray.
Speaker:I'm like,
Speaker:sure, sure.
Speaker:Well and you kind of have to,
Speaker:since your mom passed the torch to you Basically.
Speaker:And it would drive me crazy if she did it because
Speaker:none of them are even,
Speaker:Oh my gosh,
Speaker:my OCD goes in there.
Speaker:Minor bite-size anyways.
Speaker:Yeah. So mine are a little bit better,
Speaker:but yes.
Speaker:But you know,
Speaker:I think it's really good that you still have hands on
Speaker:in the craft because then you can continue to relate to
Speaker:the audience apps.
Speaker:Cause if you weren't doing something,
Speaker:if you just went into,
Speaker:and I want to talk about what else you're doing with
Speaker:kickers, chat,
Speaker:but if you weren't still somewhat hands on now you're not
Speaker:monetizing that hands on part,
Speaker:I get it.
Speaker:But you're much more relatable.
Speaker:They feel like you understand them too.
Speaker:Oh absolutely.
Speaker:Well, I'm not the chef master Baker.
Speaker:I'm actually not even trained in my craft.
Speaker:I'm trained by the school of hard knocks if you will,
Speaker:but I'm still in the game and I'm not saying that
Speaker:I have everything figured out,
Speaker:but I'm here to support you in what you do.
Speaker:See, I've been supporting a lot of people in different industries
Speaker:in my career while I've been doing,
Speaker:while I've been went to school,
Speaker:I was supporting so many different industries and other solo preneurs
Speaker:and I watched them work so I know what works and
Speaker:I know what doesn't work.
Speaker:Yes. In the beginning when you have your dream,
Speaker:you are working by yourself.
Speaker:You need to start thinking about having a team outsourcing certain
Speaker:things and when you don't have a support system or you
Speaker:have a support system but they don't know exactly how to
Speaker:support you,
Speaker:sometimes it's important for you to either a get a mentor
Speaker:or hire one and I know money is short,
Speaker:but wouldn't you rather not sit there and reinvent the wheel
Speaker:when somebody has already gone through it and is willing to
Speaker:mentor you through certain things?
Speaker:How much more can you accomplish if somebody said,
Speaker:you know what,
Speaker:why don't you do F steps a,
Speaker:B, and C cause you're so busy looking at the pixels
Speaker:of a picture versus the bigger picture.
Speaker:Again, it goes back to working on your business versus working
Speaker:in your business.
Speaker:Absolutely, and I would dare to say that you end up
Speaker:spending more money that way.
Speaker:It's just little chunks of money over time versus investing in
Speaker:someone who can really help you move the ball forward in
Speaker:a big way.
Speaker:Move the ball forward with somebody or you are going to
Speaker:end up getting hurt while trying to move this ball.
Speaker:That's not going to move anywhere.
Speaker:Right. And then there's the uncertainty,
Speaker:am I actually even doing what I should be doing?
Speaker:Is this the right method?
Speaker:All of that.
Speaker:Just having someone who has had the experience.
Speaker:I totally agree with you Juliet.
Speaker:100% yeah.
Speaker:Okay. Tell us more about Cakery chat and anything else you'd
Speaker:like to add to what you're doing today.
Speaker:Absolutely. Well kickers chat is a online community and right now
Speaker:it's on YouTube.
Speaker:So there's a weekly YouTube show and it's a podcast so
Speaker:you can listen in if in case you're baking or doing
Speaker:crafts. So in case you can't watch.
Speaker:And we help bakers a sweet treat makers build their confidence
Speaker:through self-awareness.
Speaker:And as a result they become more confident to be seen
Speaker:and to be able to profit from their passion and help
Speaker:spread love like buttercream within the tribe.
Speaker:And it all relates as far as their business.
Speaker:So the more they grow and help others grow,
Speaker:they too in their own business can grow and apply certain
Speaker:ideas or thoughts or mindsets,
Speaker:which is a big deal cause a lot of people who
Speaker:become makers or crafters or bakers a lot of times fall
Speaker:into it by accident just like I did.
Speaker:Absolutely. I agree with you.
Speaker:I see them every day.
Speaker:And so both on YouTube and your podcast is Cakery chat.
Speaker:So that's where the people will find you.
Speaker:Absolutely. Okay.
Speaker:And then also of course gift biz listeners on the show
Speaker:notes page,
Speaker:I'll have links to Facebook,
Speaker:Instagram, all those good sites for you to know about.
Speaker:So Juliette,
Speaker:I understand you have some gifts for my audience today.
Speaker:Absolutely. If you're a cake or Baker or a sweet treat
Speaker:maker or any kind of maker creative today for you,
Speaker:I have Cakery chat that isn't because I love you there.
Speaker:I are non for your chef coat and also we can
Speaker:do a discovery session just for you where we can talk
Speaker:about the things that you need and maybe line up where
Speaker:you need to go with your business.
Speaker:Cool. So a discovery session,
Speaker:is that a phone call or how does that work?
Speaker:Absolutely. Can get onto a Skype call or a FaceTime call
Speaker:and kind of discuss where you're at with your goals and
Speaker:where you want to go and maybe I can help you
Speaker:realign that with the tasks you need to do to get
Speaker:there. Oh my gosh,
Speaker:that's so generous,
Speaker:Juliet. I really appreciate it.
Speaker:So there are patches for your chef code and there's the
Speaker:opportunity for the call.
Speaker:So how do people get in contact with you for those?
Speaker:Well, you head over to kickers,
Speaker:chat.com sign up for our newsletter and the first two people
Speaker:to sign up for our newsletters will be eligible to get
Speaker:those chef coat badges and Oh,
Speaker:discovery session call.
Speaker:So two people will be winners.
Speaker:So act fast,
Speaker:can't wait to chat with you.
Speaker:Well Juliet,
Speaker:I don't have a cake here to give you,
Speaker:but they do have a gift for you.
Speaker:It's a magical box containing unlimited possibilities for your future.
Speaker:So this is your dream or your goal of almost unreachable
Speaker:Heights that you would wish to obtain.
Speaker:Please accept this gift and open it in our presence.
Speaker:What's inside your box?
Speaker:Oh, Sue,
Speaker:thank You so much.
Speaker:This is something I've dreamt about for a very long time.
Speaker:It's a unified front of humans looking to fulfill their dreams.
Speaker:They're filled with love and confidence and a growth mindset and
Speaker:they have tolerance and compassion for one another and we as
Speaker:a unified front,
Speaker:get to make everything grow and fill the universe with more
Speaker:love. Okay.
Speaker:Can I be the first one at that door to get
Speaker:in? That sounds perfect.
Speaker:Can I come share your gift with you?
Speaker:Literally it's for everybody.
Speaker:Love it.
Speaker:Only with more love in this world.
Speaker:Can we create more things without anything else holding us back?
Speaker:Couldn't agree with you more.
Speaker:Thank you so much,
Speaker:Juliet. Your story is so interesting.
Speaker:I know a lot of it is you say,
Speaker:well, I didn't mean to do this,
Speaker:but this happened and I didn't like everything just naturally progressed
Speaker:for you and of course,
Speaker:yes. In the instance of Quakers chat,
Speaker:it was a definite decision because you were at a fork
Speaker:in the road.
Speaker:It's going to be one way or it's going to be
Speaker:the other.
Speaker:And I kind of feel like the universe decided it for
Speaker:you. It's not,
Speaker:you're right.
Speaker:Again, I didn't mean to be a leader in the industry.
Speaker:I was chosen by my tribe,
Speaker:But you were open to the idea you accepted and saw
Speaker:the information and then took action and move forward.
Speaker:And I think a lot of people either don't have their
Speaker:eyes wide open to it or they say,
Speaker:no, no,
Speaker:no, it couldn't be me.
Speaker:That has to go back to self awareness.
Speaker:It's really important self-awareness and listen.
Speaker:So I want to thank you for being a leader of
Speaker:your community,
Speaker:the yummy butter cream and everything sweet community.
Speaker:So I love that and I thank you so much for
Speaker:sharing everything that you have with us today.
Speaker:Thank you,
Speaker:sir. Thank you so much and I love your program and
Speaker:please continue to spread love like buttercream.
Speaker:See what I mean?
Speaker:Juliet is a riot when she expresses herself and aligned her
Speaker:comments right to her industry and it just naturally rolls off
Speaker:her tongue along with such great advice.
Speaker:I do want to reinforce what she talked about when she
Speaker:was discussing what prevented her from growing her business for a
Speaker:while. I know that this is a place where a lot
Speaker:of people get stuck.
Speaker:As a one woman show,
Speaker:you can only do so much.
Speaker:So I want you to think about whether your at that
Speaker:fork in the road like Julia was,
Speaker:and if so,
Speaker:what steps do you need to take to adjust so you're
Speaker:still advancing towards your goals?
Speaker:Maybe one of the things to consider is what we're talking
Speaker:about next week,
Speaker:which is scaling your business online.
Speaker:I look forward to us all being together then and this
Speaker:week. Let's take Juliette's advice.
Speaker:Let's spread love like buttercream.