Gift is Unwrapped Guest,
Speaker:episode number 397.
Speaker:I Was talking with somebody who has a background in Hebrew
Speaker:languages and they were like,
Speaker:it sounds to me like it's like Ruok,
Speaker:like breath of life.
Speaker:And I was like,
Speaker:that's it.
Speaker:Attention Gifters,
Speaker:beggars, crafters and makers.
Speaker:Pursuing your dream can be fun.
Speaker:Whether you have an established business or looking to start one,
Speaker:now you are in the right place.
Speaker:This is Gift Biz Unwrapped,
Speaker:helping you turn your skill into a flourishing business.
Speaker:Join us for an episode packed full of invaluable guidance,
Speaker:resources and the support you need to grow your gift biz.
Speaker:Here is your host Gift Biz Gal Sue Moon Height.
Speaker:Hi there,
Speaker:it's Sue and thanks for joining me here today.
Speaker:It's the week before Thanksgiving.
Speaker:Can you even believe it's here already?
Speaker:This is one of my favorite holidays and I think I'm
Speaker:set Recipes planned.
Speaker:The first grocery run done.
Speaker:And now I just need to organize the timing of my
Speaker:Turkey making.
Speaker:Extravaganza Included in the guest list this year are three dogs,
Speaker:my new puppy Biscoti,
Speaker:and my daughter's two dogs,
Speaker:Oscar and Bug.
Speaker:So that should be interesting in the spirit of the season.
Speaker:I also wanna take this time to tell you how very
Speaker:much I appreciate you as a podcaster.
Speaker:This show doesn't mean anything without you.
Speaker:Your emails to me on how a particular episode helped you,
Speaker:your downloads that keep me in the top rankings and your
Speaker:participation in doing reviews and joining Gift our Facebook group are
Speaker:all so important to me.
Speaker:Thank you.
Speaker:Thank you.
Speaker:In return,
Speaker:I work hard to bring you guests that will provide information
Speaker:to help your business grow,
Speaker:ideas for getting new customers,
Speaker:ways of doing things differently and more efficiently behind the scenes
Speaker:and even mindset tweaks for you to consider somehow when you
Speaker:hear someone else putting into action the things we talk about.
Speaker:It helps convince you that it's doable and something to consider.
Speaker:Today's guest plays right into this with an extraordinary story of
Speaker:business development.
Speaker:You'll hear how a friend virtually pushed her into business.
Speaker:A surprising affirmation of her products appeal right in the beginning.
Speaker:And probably the most important of all,
Speaker:Stephanie's heartfelt underlying mission that's behind her art.
Speaker:That and more all coming your way right now.
Speaker:Oh my gosh,
Speaker:I am so excited for this episode.
Speaker:I cannot wait for you to meet Stephanie McDermont.
Speaker:Stephanie is the self-taught artist of Canary artwork.
Speaker:She invented what she's Coined,
Speaker:the RUOK technique,
Speaker:which uses her breath and acrylic paint to create bold abstracts.
Speaker:Discovering this talent after a long season of caregiving helped bring
Speaker:her out of deep depression and has given her a new
Speaker:career and purpose along with the world's most supportive husband.
Speaker:She sells her paintings at high end art fairs and galleries,
Speaker:but the most important work she does is to spread the
Speaker:word that art heals and hope is real.
Speaker:Stephanie, thank you so much for coming on the show and
Speaker:welcome to the Gift Biz on Wrapped podcast.
Speaker:Thank You Stu.
Speaker:I am delighted to be here.
Speaker:We are gonna get to know you in a little bit
Speaker:of a different way just to kick everything off,
Speaker:and that is to have you describe yourself by way of
Speaker:a motivational candle.
Speaker:So if you were to envision a candle that just speaks
Speaker:totally you,
Speaker:Stephanie, describe to us what this would look like.
Speaker:So I've been giving this a lot of thought,
Speaker:and I think my candle would look like a gradient.
Speaker:It would be maybe a dark gray leading into like a
Speaker:bright white.
Speaker:And so that when you lit the candle as it's going
Speaker:down, like in life,
Speaker:as I'm learning things,
Speaker:it's letting go of that darkness and becoming lighter,
Speaker:letting go of grief or learning to live with loss,
Speaker:just flowing down into a better,
Speaker:brighter version of myself.
Speaker:Like the process.
Speaker:It's a process.
Speaker:Exactly. And do you have a motivational quote or anything over
Speaker:and above that?
Speaker:Absolutely. My motivational quote that I keep going back to is
Speaker:that you get infinite chances.
Speaker:Oh, that feels so refreshing.
Speaker:Oh, I can't tell you as a rules girl,
Speaker:somebody who really was born this way.
Speaker:But I love to follow rules.
Speaker:I love to have these blocks of things that you just,
Speaker:you don't go past that block.
Speaker:Being able to think about infinite chances,
Speaker:let's say I blew it completely.
Speaker:Well, I used to just stop and now I realize,
Speaker:let's say I was having a bad day and I was
Speaker:mean to somebody and now I will go back to that
Speaker:person, say,
Speaker:I am so sorry,
Speaker:I really blew it and could you please forgive me?
Speaker:And then that block is just totally gone.
Speaker:So it's in any form.
Speaker:Any time you're taking a chance,
Speaker:you can always get another one.
Speaker:This is so great because it's so freeing in the idea
Speaker:that do what's on your mind and think about within reason.
Speaker:Right, right.
Speaker:Don't put barriers on yourself.
Speaker:And as we get into the conversation that I know we're
Speaker:gonna have,
Speaker:cuz it's all about your business.
Speaker:If you didn't take chances or do something different,
Speaker:you would've never come upon the process that you're now known
Speaker:for. Exactly.
Speaker:And just keep taking chances in every aspect of your life
Speaker:because what's the worst that can happen?
Speaker:Somebody says no,
Speaker:great. You get infinite chances.
Speaker:Try again.
Speaker:Do a different venue or a different person or in a
Speaker:different Way.
Speaker:Yeah, or in a different way with your product.
Speaker:Like I'm thinking,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:I talk a lot about,
Speaker:especially in this maker world,
Speaker:there are only so many things that can be made.
Speaker:And we're gonna talk about how this applies to your craft
Speaker:in a second.
Speaker:But someone who's making jewelry,
Speaker:you learn how to make jewelry.
Speaker:Let's just say it's beaded jewelry,
Speaker:just to really define it and niche it down.
Speaker:And I'm doing this for all of us listening,
Speaker:just so that you understand where my mind is going with
Speaker:this. The first thing you learn is how to make jewelry,
Speaker:how everybody else does.
Speaker:And if you stop there,
Speaker:then your creations are just like everybody else's.
Speaker:Exactly. To your point about infinite chances,
Speaker:if you go past the limit,
Speaker:we used to say outside the box,
Speaker:right? Thinking outside the box.
Speaker:It's similar idea.
Speaker:If you go past that,
Speaker:you may happen upon and develop something that is so uniquely
Speaker:your own,
Speaker:which you're going to completely demonstrate here.
Speaker:And that separates you from everybody else.
Speaker:Gives you a story to talk about and makes you truly
Speaker:unique. So this is where I see like these infinite chances.
Speaker:Take the risk,
Speaker:try it out.
Speaker:Maybe it'll work,
Speaker:maybe it won't,
Speaker:but when it does,
Speaker:you've landed on something that's golden.
Speaker:Yes, exactly.
Speaker:Yeah. All right.
Speaker:So how long has Canary artwork been around?
Speaker:So I started painting in 2017,
Speaker:so five years.
Speaker:So five years.
Speaker:Okay. And what did life look like before that?
Speaker:Right. So before that I was married,
Speaker:I have two kids.
Speaker:We, everything was family and fun and we had our own
Speaker:business. And then we had some relatives who were getting older
Speaker:and needed help.
Speaker:So because we had our own business,
Speaker:I was the one with the schedule that was able to
Speaker:take them to doctor's appointments or help them find care or
Speaker:facilities. And I did that with a lot of our relatives
Speaker:for about 15 years until 2016,
Speaker:at which time that season ended.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:when you're taking care of so many people,
Speaker:if somebody passes,
Speaker:you are sad,
Speaker:but you can't let that wave of grief completely engulf you
Speaker:because you've got somebody else that needs to go to a
Speaker:doctor's appointment in two days.
Speaker:So you are just working through all the time and never
Speaker:really stopping to have that season of grief.
Speaker:So when I was able to stop all of that grief
Speaker:just took me down.
Speaker:It was bad.
Speaker:Oh my gosh.
Speaker:And you had multiple people then that you were grieving I'm
Speaker:thinking. Yes,
Speaker:exactly. Oh,
Speaker:I wanna just reach out and give you a big hug
Speaker:right now.
Speaker:I would take it if we could Just even talking about,
Speaker:takes me back to that time because it's so very emotional
Speaker:and that work that if you were a caregiver listening,
Speaker:no, that I would absolutely give you a hug too,
Speaker:because it is the most daunting.
Speaker:It's just,
Speaker:it's mind numbing and backbreaking work that just,
Speaker:it doesn't feel like there's any reward for at the time,
Speaker:except that you get to spend time with your loved ones,
Speaker:which is a huge reward,
Speaker:but it is exhausting is what it is.
Speaker:So you reach the end of that,
Speaker:you're exhausted from years of it.
Speaker:I was full of grief.
Speaker:And what happened was,
Speaker:luckily I have a great support system and my best friend
Speaker:is an artist.
Speaker:She saw I was drowning and came over and had paints
Speaker:and said,
Speaker:look, just paint something.
Speaker:And I laughed at her and said,
Speaker:that's ridiculous.
Speaker:You're the artist.
Speaker:I don't do anything with art.
Speaker:However, I do love her.
Speaker:And I trusted her enough to be like,
Speaker:well, I'll try it and we'll just so I can tell
Speaker:her I did it.
Speaker:That's kinda like appeasing her.
Speaker:Yes. I mean,
Speaker:and also again,
Speaker:exhausted grief stricken,
Speaker:don't really wanna try something new,
Speaker:don't wanna do it.
Speaker:But also,
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:it can get worse.
Speaker:So Right.
Speaker:I took out the pace and I started painting and I
Speaker:could tell that she was onto something because I could start
Speaker:to see these swirling designs in my mind,
Speaker:but I didn't have any of the training or skill to
Speaker:get them from my mind to my hand to the canvas.
Speaker:So I would continually try and I could see it and
Speaker:I couldn't make it happen.
Speaker:So now on top of grief and exhaustion,
Speaker:I also,
Speaker:Stephanie, you get another chance.
Speaker:Exactly. This Is when I found that out.
Speaker:Yeah. Cause what happened was I was trying to make these
Speaker:designs and I kept thinning down the paint,
Speaker:thinning it down cause I wanted it to move in a
Speaker:certain way.
Speaker:And I just,
Speaker:I had that breakdown that had been coming for a really
Speaker:long time.
Speaker:I had one of those moments where you literally just like
Speaker:huff in anger,
Speaker:like, ah.
Speaker:And then I threw the canvas down and I walked away
Speaker:and I went outside and I just curled up in a
Speaker:ball outside of my house and did that screaming,
Speaker:that guttural screaming.
Speaker:And those noises that you make when you're literally naing your
Speaker:teeth because you can't get the words out and just dissolved
Speaker:And you needed to,
Speaker:I think.
Speaker:And it was so cathartic,
Speaker:but it was also a turning point because I literally remember
Speaker:walking back and thinking,
Speaker:well, I can tell Nicole I tried.
Speaker:I can tell her that it got me to this point,
Speaker:but at least I'll never ever have to clean up paint
Speaker:again. Little did you know exactly,
Speaker:Because when I went to go pick up that canvas,
Speaker:it had the exact designs that I had been seeing in
Speaker:my mind.
Speaker:Wait, so had you really created them and you just didn't
Speaker:realize it?
Speaker:Or did something happen while you were doing the breakdown or
Speaker:In that moment of the first moments of the breakdown,
Speaker:I had breathed on the canvas that huff of anger.
Speaker:Oh, Exactly.
Speaker:I wish everyone could see my face right now.
Speaker:Like is that like divine intervention or like,
Speaker:I don't know.
Speaker:I would absolutely chalk it out to a divine intervention because
Speaker:I would've stopped had I not seen the exact design that
Speaker:was from my mind on that canvas.
Speaker:And then I had to look at it and go,
Speaker:wait, how did I do that?
Speaker:I think,
Speaker:did I breathe on it?
Speaker:Did I blow on the paint somehow?
Speaker:And so I reverse engineered it and I thought,
Speaker:yeah, not only did I breathe on the paint,
Speaker:but I can do it this way and this way.
Speaker:And I spent I for probably six months,
Speaker:that's about all I did was learn the different ways that
Speaker:I could make the paint respond to breathing across it or
Speaker:down at it.
Speaker:If I added hot water or cold water to the paint,
Speaker:it would do something different.
Speaker:If the day's humid and you have to have longer for
Speaker:it to dry,
Speaker:you need to tighten up that design so that it doesn't
Speaker:go past what you're trying to do.
Speaker:And then sometimes there are parts of it that you just
Speaker:can't control.
Speaker:And I really feel like that's something that I'm learning is
Speaker:that When you can't control it,
Speaker:it might create something totally different that then allows you to
Speaker:play off of that in a different way also.
Speaker:So that I'm thinking just by way of experience when you're
Speaker:creating, there are probably times when you know and everything works
Speaker:the way you intend.
Speaker:So it all turns out the way you want.
Speaker:But then there's also times when it,
Speaker:for whatever reason,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:whatever variable,
Speaker:shoot, maybe,
Speaker:I don't even know,
Speaker:but I'm gonna guess maybe it's even the temperature in the
Speaker:room where you're doing the blowing,
Speaker:I don't even know what you call it.
Speaker:Well, I do know what your technique is called,
Speaker:but you see what I'm saying?
Speaker:Like it doesn't go the right way until then.
Speaker:It's all an adventure from there.
Speaker:Yes. And then I'm following the paint,
Speaker:then I'm following it to see where it wants to go.
Speaker:So sometimes you're absolutely right,
Speaker:sometimes I can actually execute exactly what I'm looking for and
Speaker:sometimes I get to just see where the paint wants to
Speaker:go and follow it.
Speaker:And that does usually lead me to learning something new about
Speaker:how it works that I can then incorporate the next time.
Speaker:Yeah. Oh my gosh.
Speaker:Okay. So I'm thinking of our listeners and they're probably like,
Speaker:what does this look like?
Speaker:Like I have no idea what they're talking about.
Speaker:What does this look like?
Speaker:People can see an example over on your website,
Speaker:right? Yes.
Speaker:Canary art group.com.
Speaker:Okay. Yes.
Speaker:And we're gonna have all that in the show notes as
Speaker:everybody knows who listens.
Speaker:So you can go peek if you're somewhere right now and
Speaker:you're curious to see.
Speaker:But could you try and explain through audio Oh what your,
Speaker:see this is,
Speaker:I'll give you more than one chance if you have to,
Speaker:but like,
Speaker:because some of your art is,
Speaker:what did you call it in the beginning?
Speaker:Abstract Is abstract.
Speaker:That's the word I was looking for.
Speaker:But then some like I remember seeing some pieces that looked
Speaker:like flowers.
Speaker:It's still the same technique,
Speaker:but so you can actually make things that we relate to
Speaker:in real life that aren't just abstracts in your painting.
Speaker:Exactly. And that's new.
Speaker:That's that learning process going from totally abstract to this summer
Speaker:I really focused on can I make it look like a
Speaker:pedal if I breathe on it this way,
Speaker:can I do that?
Speaker:And really dove into like I made an entire botany collection
Speaker:with leaves and flowers and really enjoyed that that.
Speaker:But yeah,
Speaker:that's something that's new and I'm crazy about.
Speaker:I've enjoyed both.
Speaker:Right. Gives you options.
Speaker:Exactly. And I did.
Speaker:We love all the options.
Speaker:Love the options.
Speaker:All right,
Speaker:so this is so interesting.
Speaker:Have you taken Nicole out to lunch or dinner or done
Speaker:something as a thank you?
Speaker:Cuz she just like,
Speaker:she's the origin of this whole new business you have.
Speaker:OK. And the cheerleader because yes,
Speaker:my husband is amazing and supportive and I think that's integral
Speaker:to the business,
Speaker:but Nicole too is just still right there by this night
Speaker:going, why not?
Speaker:I'll come up with some crazy idea of a show that
Speaker:I wanna do or something that feels really like further reach
Speaker:beyond what I could do.
Speaker:And she's like,
Speaker:but why not?
Speaker:And it reminds me,
Speaker:but you've done all these things,
Speaker:why couldn't you do that?
Speaker:Oh good for Nicole.
Speaker:So important.
Speaker:Yes. So having cheerleaders really important.
Speaker:Oh you Have to.
Speaker:So you were starting to make these creations and seeing that
Speaker:you were enjoying the whole process and the huge added benefit
Speaker:that it got you to a point where you could even
Speaker:do that after all of the depression and all of that,
Speaker:which is totally warranted obviously.
Speaker:At what point then did you start thinking about Hmm.
Speaker:A business?
Speaker:Okay, so very quickly it kind of took off beyond what
Speaker:I ever imagined because cheerleader,
Speaker:Nicole, my best friend,
Speaker:looked at what I was making literally in April of 2017
Speaker:and said and started sending me emails with things I could
Speaker:enter, which at that point I thought,
Speaker:well why not?
Speaker:I really don't have anything to lose,
Speaker:which is not my normal personality.
Speaker:I am terribly risk adverse.
Speaker:But in this stage where you're already kind of low and
Speaker:down, it really did feel like,
Speaker:well, I mean,
Speaker:okay, well just give,
Speaker:What do I have to lose?
Speaker:Yeah, exactly.
Speaker:So one of the things that I entered was the Maow
Speaker:Run Artist series wine label contest.
Speaker:And so I started paying in April,
Speaker:I entered that in May and in July I got a
Speaker:call that I won.
Speaker:So you created the label for their wine?
Speaker:Yes. One of my paintings was a wine label.
Speaker:It was fantastic.
Speaker:Also in that short amount of time,
Speaker:I had a friend of a friend here that I was
Speaker:painting. She came over and saw what I was doing and
Speaker:then purchased two pieces to put in their house and that's
Speaker:all I knew about it at the time.
Speaker:Then a few weeks later she came back and she said,
Speaker:oh, I forgot to have you fill out this paperwork because
Speaker:they'll wanna have it in the show and I'll need you
Speaker:to have signed this paperwork so they can do that.
Speaker:They said,
Speaker:I'm sorry,
Speaker:the show they were actually building a tiny house that was
Speaker:being taped for hgtv.
Speaker:My gosh.
Speaker:So in the first month or two of painting,
Speaker:it was already gonna be on tv and it had already
Speaker:been one contest as an artist,
Speaker:which was insane to me that August they have a like
Speaker:a reveal of the wine label reveal of the painting.
Speaker:I had dinner in a vineyard with all of these people
Speaker:to celebrate me as an artist who started painting in April.
Speaker:This is now August.
Speaker:It was insane.
Speaker:Everything about it was surreal and that's how it took off
Speaker:because I was just hanging onto the back of it going,
Speaker:I wonder where we're going next.
Speaker:It's like that when you follow the paint.
Speaker:I was just sort of following and continuing to enter things
Speaker:and try things and tell people about this and the fact
Speaker:that art can help you heal.
Speaker:I really wanted to talk more about that.
Speaker:And that was the driving force.
Speaker:Like, let's try more.
Speaker:Let's reach more people.
Speaker:Let's tell more people about It.
Speaker:Yeah. So your mission is way more than your beautiful painting.
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:Okay. So I'm gonna ask you a really hard question.
Speaker:Okay. I bet you've never been asked this before,
Speaker:Mr. Okay.
Speaker:What do you think the attraction was like?
Speaker:Why do you think you won the wine label?
Speaker:I think when people connect with my paintings,
Speaker:and not everybody does,
Speaker:people are drawn to a lot of different types of art
Speaker:for a lot of different reasons.
Speaker:But the people who connect to my painting connect to them
Speaker:on such a deep level,
Speaker:they can see that I'm putting my emotions myself literally into
Speaker:the painting and they wanna talk about it.
Speaker:I have people come up and just tell me their life
Speaker:story because of what they've seen in a painting.
Speaker:So I really believe that's how it started was that deep,
Speaker:deep connection that people feel to the painting and then hopefully
Speaker:to me and they get a place to exist in that.
Speaker:Yeah. Is free of judgment and infinite chances exist.
Speaker:Yeah. And the rock technique that you use Yes.
Speaker:Does create such a different result.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:when I saw you,
Speaker:I was attracted to your booth at a fine arts show
Speaker:here in my community,
Speaker:right? Yes.
Speaker:And I was attracted cuz I'm looking at them and it
Speaker:like drew me in.
Speaker:Yes. And I'm not an artist in that way at all,
Speaker:but there was something different about it and I just kept
Speaker:looking and I couldn't figure it out.
Speaker:And then when we started talking and you told me how
Speaker:you did it,
Speaker:I'm still in awe of the whole thing that you can
Speaker:do that.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:I knew that a brush couldn't give the qualities that are
Speaker:in your painting,
Speaker:but the fact that you are using air from your mouth
Speaker:to spread the paint and they're going to go where they
Speaker:may, it is just incredible.
Speaker:So this has nothing to do with your business journey kind
Speaker:of in a way it does,
Speaker:but not totally sure.
Speaker:It must take so much energy out of you to make
Speaker:a painting.
Speaker:It absolutely does,
Speaker:depending on the size of the painting.
Speaker:And the other thing is it's acrylic so it dries fast.
Speaker:So you kind of have to know where you think you're
Speaker:going and make a plan and have everything mixed and ready.
Speaker:So it's once you get to that,
Speaker:the actual physical part of it,
Speaker:it is exhausting in the best possible way because there are
Speaker:only two times when I am really laser focused and I
Speaker:don't have that tape running in the back of my head.
Speaker:I'm actually just doing the one thing and only thinking about
Speaker:the one thing.
Speaker:One of the reasons when I go to the movies,
Speaker:I think it's cuz I'm so visual,
Speaker:I'm stuck in that movie.
Speaker:And the other time is when I'm creating.
Speaker:So there will be times if it's a larger piece and
Speaker:I make really large paintings sometimes that I'll have to remember.
Speaker:Oh, inhaling.
Speaker:That's good too.
Speaker:You need to remember to do the whole breath,
Speaker:not just the exhale.
Speaker:Yeah. So it's very physical.
Speaker:Yeah. And it's wonderful.
Speaker:Wonderful for your body and your soul.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:I just have to ask you this one more question then
Speaker:we're gonna get back on track.
Speaker:You promised to answer me honestly.
Speaker:Absolutely. Okay.
Speaker:Have you ever coughed or sneezed when you're creating?
Speaker:I have not.
Speaker:I imagine that it will come,
Speaker:but because I can make my own schedule.
Speaker:If I'm not feeling a hundred percent,
Speaker:maybe I wait till the next day.
Speaker:Well, but you never know what that would produce.
Speaker:You don't know.
Speaker:Yeah, it might be fantastic.
Speaker:Yeah, it came to mind.
Speaker:I had to know.
Speaker:All right,
Speaker:so you were seeing success right away.
Speaker:I call this validating your product.
Speaker:You're seeing that people are attracted and interested and either want
Speaker:for themselves,
Speaker:in your case,
Speaker:wanting it for a show,
Speaker:buying it,
Speaker:et cetera.
Speaker:So your product was validated before you'd officially even started a
Speaker:business, which is great because then you know that you've got
Speaker:something there.
Speaker:Yes. What were your next steps to start formalizing the business?
Speaker:Right. So we had run our own business for many years.
Speaker:So I am curious,
Speaker:what was that business?
Speaker:It was awnings and signs.
Speaker:Okay. All right.
Speaker:Just that's a side note.
Speaker:That's okay.
Speaker:But you already knew about business development?
Speaker:I knew about business development.
Speaker:Thankfully I knew about if I really turned it into a
Speaker:business that it wasn't gonna be a hobby anymore and that
Speaker:this was going to take a lot of work.
Speaker:So my first steps were,
Speaker:I actually looked for,
Speaker:and this is so important,
Speaker:I knew to look for the people whose job it is
Speaker:to help you to succeed.
Speaker:The people who literally have chosen for their job to want
Speaker:to help other people succeed.
Speaker:You're one of them.
Speaker:Exactly. Yeah.
Speaker:And You can find them at any level.
Speaker:One of the most important things I did was I applied
Speaker:our state,
Speaker:Indiana has the Indiana Arts Commission and they have a program
Speaker:called On Ramp.
Speaker:And it is a literally business training for creatives because I
Speaker:might know some of the business training,
Speaker:but I didn't know it as a creative.
Speaker:And so I applied the first year in 2017 and I
Speaker:didn't get it.
Speaker:And then I applied again in 2018 and got in.
Speaker:And that business training,
Speaker:that model and the people and meeting the people,
Speaker:again, people whose job they chose to do is to help
Speaker:you succeed.
Speaker:So important.
Speaker:I can't speak highly enough about the people and the process
Speaker:and having,
Speaker:there are more people who want you to succeed.
Speaker:They're more cheerleaders.
Speaker:They are people touch points where you can go when you
Speaker:have a question.
Speaker:So look for those people.
Speaker:Listen to your podcast.
Speaker:You can go to a state level or on a local
Speaker:level, the small business association in your town.
Speaker:They can give you demographics of where the people are.
Speaker:That might be your audience for your product.
Speaker:Yeah. And they're happy to help and they have training,
Speaker:free training all of the time.
Speaker:So those were the resources that I looked To.
Speaker:That's interesting that you did it that way given that you
Speaker:had already started a business before.
Speaker:Because the natural thing would be,
Speaker:I know what to do,
Speaker:I'm just gonna go in.
Speaker:But a maker business is different for sure.
Speaker:Absolutely. Okay.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:So did you start by going out to shows?
Speaker:When did you create your name?
Speaker:Tell us about a little of the development part.
Speaker:I wanted to pause this discussion for a second to let
Speaker:you know that I recognize you may be feeling overwhelmed right
Speaker:now. I mean,
Speaker:I bring on great guests who are specialists in their fields
Speaker:and we get into fabulous conversations that you know can help
Speaker:grow your business.
Speaker:So after the show,
Speaker:you have the full intention of grabbing a download,
Speaker:making an adjustment on your website or any number of other
Speaker:ideas that arise as a result of this podcast.
Speaker:But what happens,
Speaker:you get back to your other activities and the momentum you
Speaker:once had gets lost.
Speaker:What you've planned to do is forgotten,
Speaker:then you feel bad because your business is going on as
Speaker:usual without implementing anything that you know would help grow your
Speaker:business. We're just too busy doing all the things like a
Speaker:robot moving from one thing to another without thinking because we
Speaker:have to.
Speaker:I get it,
Speaker:I've been there.
Speaker:But guess what?
Speaker:There is another way.
Speaker:Since I recognized this exact behavior in my own business,
Speaker:I set out to do something about it.
Speaker:And now what works for me,
Speaker:I'm sharing with you.
Speaker:I formalized the process and it's called the inspired daily planner,
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Speaker:First off,
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Speaker:Plus it's not dated.
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Speaker:And that's not all included for each day is a motivational
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Speaker:lost. Think of it as a book and a planner all
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Speaker:It's the perfect solution to truly act and move your business
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Speaker:So if you have a biz bestie,
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Speaker:That link again is gift biz unwrapped.com/inspired.
Speaker:Okay, let's get back to the show.
Speaker:Okay. So yeah,
Speaker:when you start a business,
Speaker:you have to name it.
Speaker:And that was daunting.
Speaker:The label artist had been kind of given to me before
Speaker:I was ready to accept it.
Speaker:And I don't think that I was quite ready to just
Speaker:call it like Stephanie McNair Art.
Speaker:I felt like I need some sort of maybe a shield,
Speaker:something that was,
Speaker:could be me,
Speaker:but representative of me,
Speaker:not my actual name.
Speaker:I don't know why.
Speaker:It's just the way my brain worked.
Speaker:Cause You could have had your name easily,
Speaker:you're the artist.
Speaker:I could,
Speaker:yeah, that could have been it.
Speaker:But when I was thinking about taking chances and working it
Speaker:as a business,
Speaker:when I was thinking back about the steps that it took
Speaker:to even get to this part,
Speaker:and in years before I ever started painting,
Speaker:another friend had given me a book by Glen and Doyle
Speaker:called Love Warrior.
Speaker:In that book,
Speaker:the part that I highlighted,
Speaker:the stance that I highlighted was this.
Speaker:It says,
Speaker:because yes,
Speaker:I've got these conditions,
Speaker:anxiety, depression,
Speaker:addiction, and they almost killed me,
Speaker:but they're also my superpowers.
Speaker:I'm the canary in the mine and you need my sensitivity
Speaker:because I can smell toxins in the air.
Speaker:You can't smell,
Speaker:see trouble,
Speaker:you can't see and sense danger.
Speaker:You don't feel my sensitivity could save us all.
Speaker:And it was from that passage that I really understood more
Speaker:about myself and the type of person that I was born
Speaker:as. I'm just a really sensitive emotional person and was always
Speaker:told that that was wrong or bad or to like take
Speaker:it down a notch again.
Speaker:It was sort of that hiding part.
Speaker:That passage allowed me to see it as a superpower,
Speaker:as something different,
Speaker:as a positive.
Speaker:And I think years before,
Speaker:had I not read that passage,
Speaker:I would never have had the guts or the ability to
Speaker:accept that we get infinite chances and to try to make
Speaker:this a business.
Speaker:So I really wanted to honor that step that happened far
Speaker:before I even ever learned how to paint.
Speaker:And that's how Canary artwork got started.
Speaker:Oh my gosh,
Speaker:that is so interesting.
Speaker:And I love the result too,
Speaker:because Canary has so much meaning because of that passage.
Speaker:Exactly. And also your mission underneath the artwork,
Speaker:but you also have artwork in the title,
Speaker:which is good when you get into the business strategy perspective
Speaker:for SEO and all of that.
Speaker:Exactly. You need to know what I'm making in the business
Speaker:name. Right.
Speaker:But I think this is food for thought for people who
Speaker:are at the juncture,
Speaker:where they're thinking about their business name is to take it
Speaker:in the angle of what's gotten you here,
Speaker:what in your soul is important and is there an angle
Speaker:to incorporate that into your name?
Speaker:It's something to think about for sure.
Speaker:Absolutely. Cause every time I hear it,
Speaker:I'm reminded of the reason I wanna continue to do this.
Speaker:It's very helpful to have that right in the name.
Speaker:Okay. All right.
Speaker:And then did you establish the business as sole proprietor,
Speaker:llc? What did you do right away?
Speaker:Sole Proprietor.
Speaker:Okay. And That's something,
Speaker:the business training that we went through,
Speaker:what is gonna work best.
Speaker:And while I thought I had a handle on it,
Speaker:it's really nice to have somebody who knows exactly what they're
Speaker:talking about,
Speaker:walk you through the different options.
Speaker:But right now I'm a sole proprietor.
Speaker:Okay. All right.
Speaker:Perfect. And now still in this naming stage,
Speaker:yes. You created a whole process.
Speaker:You named the process,
Speaker:which I love that so much.
Speaker:Anybody who has something that's unique to your product,
Speaker:title it so you can claim it as yours.
Speaker:It makes you different for sure.
Speaker:How did this all come about,
Speaker:The naming of the process?
Speaker:Okay, so I was doing this and like we talked about
Speaker:earlier, there are certain words that,
Speaker:like I now call it painted with breath.
Speaker:I usually have to show somebody a picture of me doing
Speaker:it to really explain the process or make it easier for
Speaker:people to understand.
Speaker:But when you're thinking about naming a process like this,
Speaker:you don't,
Speaker:there are words you wanna avoid.
Speaker:You don't wanna use the word blow,
Speaker:you don't want the,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:things like that just aren't a great idea.
Speaker:So it was really difficult and I was really spending a
Speaker:lot of time,
Speaker:how do I call it,
Speaker:to really explain it.
Speaker:And I was talking with somebody who has a background in
Speaker:Hebrew languages and they were like,
Speaker:it sounds to me like it's like ruak,
Speaker:like breath of life.
Speaker:And I was like,
Speaker:that's it.
Speaker:That's it.
Speaker:Breath of life.
Speaker:That is what I'm doing.
Speaker:I'm taking that breath,
Speaker:that God given breath that exists in your belly.
Speaker:And I'm using that to take my emotions out and onto
Speaker:the canvas to share with everybody.
Speaker:It's a really vulnerable place to be.
Speaker:But that ruok technique was born from that place.
Speaker:That is amazing.
Speaker:And I'm so glad that you talked to that person because
Speaker:you would've named it something totally different.
Speaker:Yeah, I think again,
Speaker:that was a Gift.
Speaker:Yeah, it was another gift.
Speaker:Yes, I'm on the right track.
Speaker:People are coming alongside in ways that I had never even
Speaker:imagined. It's that validation,
Speaker:that continued validation that this is the right track.
Speaker:I'm supposed to be doing this.
Speaker:Right. But you also were willing to share Oh Yeah.
Speaker:In that is a level of vulnerability.
Speaker:Yeah. Right.
Speaker:Especially for makers cuz we are actually creating what we're selling.
Speaker:Exactly. And this is a great example of just,
Speaker:there's so much goodness in sharing.
Speaker:First off,
Speaker:you can find new customers,
Speaker:the word word can be spread.
Speaker:But then here,
Speaker:like an example of naming and defining,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:breadth of life.
Speaker:Like that's exactly the whole thing,
Speaker:right? It sums it all up beautifully.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:And so you had initial success.
Speaker:Now how did you start expanding the business?
Speaker:It was the same process.
Speaker:Just more of it applying to more shows,
Speaker:telling more people.
Speaker:It took a couple years before I was ready to do
Speaker:like a fine art fair because there's expense in getting,
Speaker:you have to have something to take your paintings to different
Speaker:cities. You have to buy a tent,
Speaker:you have to buy the walls to put up.
Speaker:I was lucky enough to be able to borrow some of
Speaker:those things at the beginning.
Speaker:That was certainly extraordinarily helpful.
Speaker:But the idea of taking it out and selling it was
Speaker:a process from exhibiting it to now how do I make
Speaker:this? How do I scale this up?
Speaker:And the one I saw you at,
Speaker:you had to be approved to even exhibit.
Speaker:It's not like you could just pay money and be there.
Speaker:Your work had to pass the mustard,
Speaker:if you will,
Speaker:to be Yeah,
Speaker:exactly. The shows that I do are all juried shows.
Speaker:Ok, so that's all You're doing?
Speaker:That's all I'm doing.
Speaker:So you've positioned your pieces at the higher tier fine arts
Speaker:juried shows.
Speaker:Yep, absolutely.
Speaker:So you're applying,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:six months before the show you're spending money to apply and
Speaker:then you're spending hundreds of thousands of dollars to be there.
Speaker:I had to get the whole business marketing and process down
Speaker:to what can I afford to do this year?
Speaker:What is this gonna bring?
Speaker:How is this a benefit to the business?
Speaker:And it was just slow over time.
Speaker:And then C happened and everything just sort of shut down.
Speaker:And for me it was just a waiting game.
Speaker:I was one of those people who lost all creativity and
Speaker:the ability to think things through.
Speaker:So there was some pause right there and I'm glad that
Speaker:I was able to just pause that part of my life
Speaker:for a little while.
Speaker:But there wasn't a business benefit to that for me.
Speaker:So there was slow and steady adding the things that I
Speaker:needed to get to the places where I could find people
Speaker:who wanted to buy my product.
Speaker:Okay. And so with the shows now,
Speaker:do you do shows year round?
Speaker:No. And that is something that is also,
Speaker:it's not new,
Speaker:but me getting rid of that rule that you have to
Speaker:do them year round or that you have to create every
Speaker:day. There are a lot of people that tell you that
Speaker:to stay on top you have to be doing it every
Speaker:day. And while that works for some people,
Speaker:what I finally figured out this year for me is that
Speaker:I work outside because I make such a huge mess with
Speaker:these paintings.
Speaker:So I only work,
Speaker:I've decided this year,
Speaker:but I work from April to October painting.
Speaker:And then the other way that I'm creative is I write,
Speaker:this is the first year I've actually put away all of
Speaker:the paints and set them aside.
Speaker:And so then from October to April I will be writing
Speaker:and being creative that Way.
Speaker:Okay. This is coming out of left field writing.
Speaker:What are you writing?
Speaker:It came out of left field for me too.
Speaker:I'm a big proponent of running a business is so incredibly
Speaker:draining and wonderful and daunting that take little breaks.
Speaker:So one of the things I got to do as an
Speaker:artist, we call them artist residencies and there are different purposes
Speaker:to them,
Speaker:but I and an artist friend went to Paris,
Speaker:Tennessee in February and we talked about in the how I
Speaker:named Canary artwork,
Speaker:that quote starts with anxiety,
Speaker:depression, and addiction.
Speaker:When I got to this residency where I thought I was
Speaker:going to paint,
Speaker:what I ended up doing was writing those stories.
Speaker:I needed to have them live somewhere else than inside of
Speaker:me. And it needed to be even more intimate than the
Speaker:paintings I really needed to have them just exist somewhere else.
Speaker:So that's what I've been doing.
Speaker:I think I've got 12 full chapters.
Speaker:So I guess what I'm doing is writing a memoir I
Speaker:didn't set out to,
Speaker:but I think that's what it's gonna be.
Speaker:And actually just very recently I got accepted to,
Speaker:I can't pronounce French words,
Speaker:but it is a residency in France.
Speaker:I will be there for all of March in 2023,
Speaker:which will give me enough time to then finish and I
Speaker:will have a memoir and I have no idea what will
Speaker:then happen with it.
Speaker:Maybe it's just for me to get it out.
Speaker:Maybe we will go on to see it published or self-published,
Speaker:I don't know.
Speaker:But isn't that exciting that you can do things that you
Speaker:dunno what's gonna happen.
Speaker:Where are you?
Speaker:Where are you gonna be in France?
Speaker:I will be in,
Speaker:it's an hour south of Paris.
Speaker:And if I really need to work on Frenching Asians,
Speaker:cuz I can't even tell you exactly,
Speaker:it's Maren.
Speaker:So it's right on the river but Hour South.
Speaker:Okay. So after this I'm gonna give you some information.
Speaker:I have a very dear friend who lives in France.
Speaker:Her husband is a huge art fan.
Speaker:Like he knows everything about art.
Speaker:They used to do tours and he was an art specialist.
Speaker:Wow. There's something there.
Speaker:She now does French tours.
Speaker:But I'll tell you,
Speaker:Pam, if you're listening to this podcast,
Speaker:you and Stephanie have to talk.
Speaker:I'll tell you all about that afterwards.
Speaker:But oh my gosh.
Speaker:Ok, real quick.
Speaker:This is a perfect example of that.
Speaker:You're on the right track.
Speaker:Yeah, I didn't know that I was gonna talk about that.
Speaker:But talking about that in the flow of the conversation and
Speaker:having that you have somebody for me to be contacted with
Speaker:that is another.
Speaker:Like you're on the right track.
Speaker:Isn't that fantastic?
Speaker:Yeah. And They come every time.
Speaker:And acknowledging those little moments is really,
Speaker:really important.
Speaker:So thank you so much.
Speaker:Well thank you.
Speaker:It's just,
Speaker:it's so exciting.
Speaker:Like I love how when things like this happen,
Speaker:you feel like there's a reason.
Speaker:It just like is crazy.
Speaker:Okay. So this is an interesting concept too because again,
Speaker:you are not doing what seems to be the way,
Speaker:right? You're doing what's right for you by doing your,
Speaker:I'm calling it painting,
Speaker:but we all know at this point it's not painting.
Speaker:Okay? But you're doing your artwork for a portion of the
Speaker:year and now you found another creative avenue for the other
Speaker:portion of the year,
Speaker:which is writing.
Speaker:But all of that sits still under that same umbrella about
Speaker:your mood and depression and mindset and internal feelings and creating
Speaker:something. Yes.
Speaker:And that's why we really need to make sure that people
Speaker:understand all of that.
Speaker:The depression and the moods and everything.
Speaker:Art and any type of creativity.
Speaker:Because as soon as I say art,
Speaker:people say,
Speaker:well I'm not an artist.
Speaker:Well neither was I,
Speaker:but I guarantee you that there is some way in your
Speaker:life that you are creative.
Speaker:So let's use the word creative time.
Speaker:You use your creativity,
Speaker:it engages a different part of your brain and it can
Speaker:absolutely heal and help make better those things that you deal
Speaker:with, whether it's anxiety or depression because you get to be
Speaker:in flow,
Speaker:even if you're just coloring a coloring book or maybe the
Speaker:way that you're creative is organizing your closet.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:there are millions of ways to be creative and anytime you
Speaker:use that creativity,
Speaker:it is healing.
Speaker:It has been proven scientifically.
Speaker:It is healing.
Speaker:So set sign a little time,
Speaker:even if you feel silly.
Speaker:Can you imagine how silly I felt trying to paint not
Speaker:being a painter And you didn't even wanna do it,
Speaker:you were just doing it so Nicole would stop asking you
Speaker:and telling you.
Speaker:Yes, exactly.
Speaker:But I'm telling you,
Speaker:it has changed everything about my life.
Speaker:Everything. It's amazing.
Speaker:Lean into that creativity,
Speaker:art heals,
Speaker:creativity heals.
Speaker:It has the power to change your mood.
Speaker:It has the power to connect you to other people.
Speaker:I can't speak highly enough of just that idea of dive
Speaker:into your creativity for a little bit.
Speaker:Set aside a few minutes here or there,
Speaker:whatever you can spare the rewards you reap from it.
Speaker:The benefits so outweigh that little amount of time that you
Speaker:can put into it.
Speaker:If that's all you got more.
Speaker:If you can't Love it.
Speaker:Oh my gosh.
Speaker:Love, love,
Speaker:love that.
Speaker:I almost wish we would've talked about something else earlier cuz
Speaker:this would've been a great way to end.
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:But I can't cuz I have question for you.
Speaker:Let's, let's go.
Speaker:Ok. At what point then did you put your website up?
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:all of the online presence?
Speaker:How does that Yes.
Speaker:So the website went up too soon.
Speaker:Here's what I would tell You.
Speaker:Oh that's interesting.
Speaker:Okay. Yes.
Speaker:Because I had such immediate success and people kept asking me
Speaker:to see my work,
Speaker:I thought,
Speaker:I've gotta get this website up.
Speaker:I went ahead and I paid it.
Speaker:It's not so it's not a talent of mine.
Speaker:That's ok.
Speaker:You be talented in everything.
Speaker:Yes, exactly.
Speaker:And if you're,
Speaker:you can't focus and do it all.
Speaker:Well anyway.
Speaker:Exactly. So this is one of the things that I did.
Speaker:I rushed headfirst into it.
Speaker:I paid some people to help me make a website that
Speaker:I was never comfortable with.
Speaker:Cuz I didn't know,
Speaker:am I gonna sell on a website?
Speaker:Am I gonna use it for this?
Speaker:I didn't understand what I needed it for other than I
Speaker:just wanna show people my art.
Speaker:And so the people that I worked with,
Speaker:and they were well intentioned,
Speaker:but the people I worked with took it a whole different
Speaker:direction. Whereas if you see it now,
Speaker:and also keep in mind that I am doing it now,
Speaker:so please be kind.
Speaker:I'm still working it out.
Speaker:But so a couple years later,
Speaker:so I started it and just wasn't happy with it ever.
Speaker:Like I just wasn't happy with it.
Speaker:But one of the benefits of going to that on ramp
Speaker:program was it was also a fellowship.
Speaker:So there was a possibility of a grant at the end.
Speaker:You had to apply for it and do the work.
Speaker:But that's when I got a substantial grant and was able
Speaker:to work with somebody else to make a website the bare
Speaker:bones of the website that I was really proud of that
Speaker:had focus and that I knew what I needed for it.
Speaker:Then she taught me,
Speaker:I have the ability to put up the paintings and do
Speaker:that every time I put up a new painting.
Speaker:I'm just so proud of myself that I just couldn't do
Speaker:a little happy dance like you Do because it's online now
Speaker:or because of the painting.
Speaker:Yeah, because it's,
Speaker:I have the ability to change some of the parts.
Speaker:Well and need to because each of your paintings is unique.
Speaker:So if it sells,
Speaker:Absolutely It's gotta go.
Speaker:No one else can buy it.
Speaker:You can see there,
Speaker:it just gets marked sold.
Speaker:But I can do it myself.
Speaker:And then that keeps a portfolio of all of your different
Speaker:Paintings. Right?
Speaker:Exactly. And I treat it more like a portfolio now because
Speaker:I realized if I'm doing the high end markets,
Speaker:they rarely sell online and I'm okay with that.
Speaker:But I need to have something that I send people to
Speaker:so they can see what I'm doing.
Speaker:Right. So that's the purpose of the website now is to
Speaker:have a place where you can come talk to me,
Speaker:contact me on there.
Speaker:I love to talk to people about what I do.
Speaker:As you can tell,
Speaker:please contact me.
Speaker:And then you can see sort of the evolution of my
Speaker:painting and a little bit of kind of where it's come
Speaker:from. What I love to do,
Speaker:where it's going.
Speaker:Yeah. What platform is it on?
Speaker:It is on WordPress.
Speaker:Okay, so it's your very own.
Speaker:Yeah. That's the harder way to go.
Speaker:But you have way more flexibility with everything that way.
Speaker:Exactly as I'm learning.
Speaker:And one of the things that I'll be working on probably
Speaker:this winter where I'm not actually painting will be getting back
Speaker:with that woman and saying,
Speaker:okay, let's tweak it now because it's only been five years
Speaker:as I'm going,
Speaker:I'm learning more about what I want it to look like,
Speaker:what I want to share on there.
Speaker:And there's some things that I need to change that I
Speaker:don't know how to do.
Speaker:So I can go back to her because you get infinite
Speaker:chances and say,
Speaker:Hey, can I pay you to just walk me through these
Speaker:things? And she will.
Speaker:And those contacts just gold,
Speaker:those contacts just gold.
Speaker:Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker:for sure.
Speaker:And listen,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:a website is always a work in progress.
Speaker:I go back to both of my websites,
Speaker:well one more than the other,
Speaker:but update it,
Speaker:adjust it,
Speaker:change it.
Speaker:The feel that I want looks different.
Speaker:Maybe all of that all the time.
Speaker:So it's not like you put a website up and you're
Speaker:Done. Exactly.
Speaker:Ever, ever.
Speaker:And I'm one of those people who really likes to be
Speaker:done and I'm learning,
Speaker:you're just not.
Speaker:You're just never done.
Speaker:It's always evolving everything.
Speaker:But you still have that online presence,
Speaker:which I think is really,
Speaker:really important.
Speaker:It's really important.
Speaker:It gives you,
Speaker:and I think why I jumped head first into it was
Speaker:it gives you legitimacy.
Speaker:People can see that you really mean what you're doing.
Speaker:This is a real product,
Speaker:this is a real technique.
Speaker:This is,
Speaker:I'm really doing this.
Speaker:And you can see where I've been and the things that
Speaker:I've done.
Speaker:But I did,
Speaker:I would say maybe wait until you know a little bit
Speaker:more about,
Speaker:cause I did it months in,
Speaker:I was just super unfocused.
Speaker:Really. Wait,
Speaker:maybe think about it.
Speaker:Think who you wanna work with,
Speaker:think really what you want it to look like before you
Speaker:work with somebody or make it yourself.
Speaker:Just because that focus is important.
Speaker:Yeah. And I think,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:you really do want to still,
Speaker:what we were talking about in the beginning,
Speaker:validate your product because that leads to what your business is
Speaker:gonna be named,
Speaker:which leads to your domain name.
Speaker:And if you get everybody going down one path,
Speaker:cuz you will attract some people.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:you'll tell people about the website,
Speaker:et cetera.
Speaker:And then if you change it later,
Speaker:it's just so confusing and just way more work.
Speaker:I like that idea about delaying.
Speaker:Now what about social media?
Speaker:Okay, so first of all,
Speaker:I had no social media before I started painting.
Speaker:It is not an area where I'm comfortable.
Speaker:I think that because I'm a sensitive person,
Speaker:if I read good things about me,
Speaker:I might get a little too excited or maybe feel a
Speaker:little like,
Speaker:ah, I'm really killing this.
Speaker:Which is good,
Speaker:but not if it's a superficial good then if,
Speaker:but if I would read something bad,
Speaker:it would crush me.
Speaker:So I didn't have social media until I started this.
Speaker:And I just was so excited at the beginning because it
Speaker:was a way for me to take something that was really
Speaker:hard and make it into something that was beautiful.
Speaker:And I really wanted to share that message that Art heals
Speaker:and hope is real.
Speaker:And the best way to do that nowadays is social media.
Speaker:So I am on Facebook and Instagram.
Speaker:It is still one of those things that I sort of
Speaker:struggle with sometimes.
Speaker:How much to share,
Speaker:how not to share,
Speaker:what not to share.
Speaker:The thing that you have to remember about social media is
Speaker:that you do not own that platform.
Speaker:And they can change it at any time in a way
Speaker:that does not benefit you.
Speaker:So that's why I really think it's super important to have
Speaker:a space that is just yours.
Speaker:That website,
Speaker:super important.
Speaker:That's where you say most of what you wanna say.
Speaker:The social media can point you there,
Speaker:but you don't own those platforms and it can be taken
Speaker:away. You just decide to shut it down.
Speaker:Speak in my language,
Speaker:Stephanie, me.
Speaker:Yeah, I mean it's a compliment.
Speaker:It's one of the tools in your toolbox of your Business.
Speaker:Exactly. But your website for sure.
Speaker:I call your website and not if you have an Etsy
Speaker:account. Cuz Etsy,
Speaker:same thing.
Speaker:You don't own the Etsy platform.
Speaker:Right. But when you have your own website,
Speaker:whether it's WordPresses,
Speaker:you're doing Shopify,
Speaker:which is another one of my favorite go-to places,
Speaker:but I have one account on each of those platforms.
Speaker:So we're talking the same things.
Speaker:But that is like your headquarters in the online space.
Speaker:Exactly, Yeah.
Speaker:And so you wanna point people there and that's where you
Speaker:house everything because you have a hundred percent control over that.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:unless your internet goes down.
Speaker:But there's that,
Speaker:there is that.
Speaker:You can't control everything,
Speaker:even though I've tried.
Speaker:Can't control everything.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:So let's look out into the future.
Speaker:Yes. You are going to be starting to write pretty shortly
Speaker:here. Yes.
Speaker:You are on your way to France.
Speaker:Yes. What else can you share with us about your vision
Speaker:as you proceed forward?
Speaker:Well, I will,
Speaker:I'll spend a little time in the holidays with family and
Speaker:not doing much for a little bit of that.
Speaker:But as I'm doing that,
Speaker:what I'm working through for the painting part of the business
Speaker:is I'm taking in,
Speaker:maybe I'm thinking about travels that I've done already or that
Speaker:I'll be doing.
Speaker:I'm letting those,
Speaker:the pictures or the memories of places and people,
Speaker:I'll sort of watch them like a slideshow and kind of
Speaker:take in and really think,
Speaker:oh, I love that moment.
Speaker:What did I love about that moment?
Speaker:And maybe make a note somewhere so that when I start
Speaker:to paint again in April,
Speaker:I'll go back to those notes and go,
Speaker:these are the moments that we're touching.
Speaker:These are the moments that have really meant a lot to
Speaker:me. This is what I learned in France,
Speaker:that river,
Speaker:that watching in March,
Speaker:watching it go from the beginning of March to the end
Speaker:of March,
Speaker:and how the nature changed and started to bloom.
Speaker:These are the things that I'm taking in to enhance the
Speaker:painting process when I start it.
Speaker:So it's never really stopped.
Speaker:Oh my gosh.
Speaker:So would you,
Speaker:or have you thought about putting a little bit of a
Speaker:story behind the painting as to what inspired it?
Speaker:Like adding that element in to the painting on the back?
Speaker:If it is representational,
Speaker:yes. But if it is abstract,
Speaker:no, because I don't wanna get in the way of what
Speaker:people see in It.
Speaker:Good point.
Speaker:Yeah. I might know what it is for me,
Speaker:but it could mean something completely different to you.
Speaker:And I'm not as,
Speaker:I already know what it means to me.
Speaker:Right. That doesn't interest me at all.
Speaker:I wanna know what you see in it.
Speaker:So when people come to my booth or come to a
Speaker:show or an exhibit that I'm in,
Speaker:I really wanna hear,
Speaker:and people really most of the time wanna tell me,
Speaker:which I find fascinating and exciting.
Speaker:They wanna tell me what they see in it,
Speaker:or more importantly,
Speaker:what they feel in it.
Speaker:Yeah. That can lead to those discussions where you actually connect
Speaker:with somebody.
Speaker:And those are the important parts of my business.
Speaker:Yeah, I agree.
Speaker:That's so deep,
Speaker:Stephanie. I love that.
Speaker:I never think of myself as deep,
Speaker:so yay.
Speaker:No, I love it.
Speaker:It's amazing.
Speaker:Oh, I'm so excited to continue watching what you do.
Speaker:And are you gonna come back to the Highland Park show
Speaker:next summer you think?
Speaker:I hope to.
Speaker:Again, it's a juried show,
Speaker:so I'll have to get in again,
Speaker:but that is my plan.
Speaker:You'll get in.
Speaker:I'll track out.
Speaker:Amy, that doesn't happen.
Speaker:No, there is no doubt in my mind that you would
Speaker:get in.
Speaker:I love the community.
Speaker:I love that community.
Speaker:It is warm,
Speaker:it is welcoming.
Speaker:They love art.
Speaker:They wanna come out and talk to you,
Speaker:and it just,
Speaker:it makes my job job a whole lot easier when you
Speaker:have people who want to Connect.
Speaker:Yeah. It's a wonderful community,
Speaker:I have to say.
Speaker:That's why I'm sitting right here in the community.
Speaker:Stephanie, thank you so much.
Speaker:I have so enjoyed our conversation.
Speaker:I knew I would,
Speaker:when I saw you at the booth,
Speaker:there was just something I was attracted to your art.
Speaker:Then you and I started the conversation and I'm so glad
Speaker:that we were able to find time to come on and
Speaker:talk together and share your story.
Speaker:It is incredible and amazing and I wish you so,
Speaker:so much success in the future.
Speaker:And I know we'll stay connected,
Speaker:so that will be wonderful.
Speaker:Yes, please.
Speaker:I would love that.
Speaker:Art Heals and Hope is real Stephanie's message to us all.
Speaker:It's encouraging,
Speaker:uplifting, and full of optimism for the future.
Speaker:I can't think of a better way to close out a
Speaker:show as we head full blown into holiday mode.
Speaker:Happy Thanksgiving everyone.
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