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Intimate relationships: how to get out the stuck places and grow the goodness with Tobin Zivon
Episode 126th June 2022 • The Sexy Life Podcast • Sarah Rose Bright
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I love this conversation with Tobin Zivon, who has been nick-named the “couple’s whisperer.” I did some 1-1 sessions with Tobin when I was hunting to find out why my intimate relationships never worked. Working with Tobin was a crucial piece in my healing jigsaw and I’m excited to share with you his wisdom, sensitivity, humour and passion. 

In this rich conversation we explore the territory of intimate relationships, including why relating can be so challenging,  the patterns that kill relationships, ways to deal with charged emotions and triggers, what to do when you are stuck in the dynamic where one partner wants deeper intimacy and the other doesn’t want to or doesn’t know how to, what makes for a thriving relationship and how to grow more of the good stuff, powerful questions to invite vulnerability and connection,  what Tantra is, how to explore a deeper quality of sexual intimacy and listen to the end and you get an opportunity to practice tantra as you listen to the podcast, as Tobin guides you in a beautiful practice.  

If you are wondering why you are stuck in certain patterns around relationships or curious about what it takes for a relationship to thrive, this conversation has gems that are for you whether you are single, dating or in a relationship.


  • Why relating can be so challenging for people
  • How our wounds meet with another 
  • What the ‘bandwidth of familiarity’ is, how you can get stuck there and how to move out of it
  • The patterns that kill relationships
  • Ways to deal with charged emotions and triggers
  • What to do when you are stuck in the dynamic where one partner wants deeper intimacy and the other doesn’t want to or doesn’t know how to 
  • The limits of non violent communication 
  • Why its important to take responsibility for what’s not working in your relationship 
  • Why its important to have a guide to support you in your relationship 
  • What makes for a thriving relationship and how to grow more of the good stuff 
  • Powerful questions to invite vulnerability and connection 
  • What Tantra is
  • How we are designed to be tantric beings
  • How to explore a deeper quality of sexual intimacy 
  • Listen to the end where you get an opportunity to practice tantra as you listen to the podcast, as Tobin guides you in a beautiful practice. 


Tobin Zivon has been wholeheartedly dedicated to spiritual awakening and to serving others in the flowering of their highest potential for over 30 years.  Author of books “The Art of Mindful Living” and the forthcoming “Allies in Awakening: Living the Truth of Unconditional Love in Intimate Relationships,” he has been described as “The Ultimate Guide… A rare, exquisite blend of Therapist, Coach, Spiritual Teacher and Tantra Master all wrapped into one.”


He has worked with thousands of individuals and couples to help them break through stuck patterns and painful dynamics, helping them to find their way into a more fulfilling and connected life of authentic liberation, love and relationship satisfaction.


RESOURCES FROM TOBIN

On Tobin’s website you can download a free e-book, Emotional Alchemy and find details about his private work and online courses:

https://tobinzivon.com

Find Tobin on Facebook and message him to join his group, The Art of Awakened Relationship 

https://www.facebook.com/tobin.giblin


RESOURCES FROM SARAH

Sign up to Sarah’s newsletter for pleasure mapping, a free guided practice

https://www.sarahrosebright.co.uk/guided-pleasure-mapping/

Book a free consultation with Sarah  https://calendly.com/sarahrosebright

Ignite Your Sexuality, a 10 module self study course for women 

https://www.sarahrosebright.co.uk/an-online-course-for-women/


Find Sarah online  

Website www.sarahrosebright.com

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosebright/

Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sarahrosebrightsexcoach

Youtube  http://youtube.com/c/sarahrosebright

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ABOUT YOUR HOST

Your podcast host, Sarah Rose Bright is a Sex & Intimacy coach and the creator of Intimate Sexuality. Sarah is on a mission to help women and couples to love and celebrate their sexuality, create healthy and happy intimate relationships and find their pleasure, playfulness and passion for life.




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