Gift biz unwrapped episode 241 and you find out what they
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Speaker:Here is your host gift biz gal,
Speaker:Sue moon Heights.
Speaker:Well, hi bear.
Speaker:You too,
Speaker:and thank you so much for joining me here today.
Speaker:Before we get into the show,
Speaker:I have a question for you.
Speaker:How'd your day go yesterday?
Speaker:Maybe a crazy question.
Speaker:I know and yes,
Speaker:you heard me right?
Speaker:If you were to rate yesterday,
Speaker:how much did you get done?
Speaker:How far did you advance toward your goal or maybe in
Speaker:your mind you're saying what goal?
Speaker:Many of you have told me you aren't sure whether what
Speaker:you're doing is the right thing for your business.
Speaker:You're confused that you may be focusing on the wrong things
Speaker:and wasting time and money and you compare yourself to others
Speaker:and feel like you're just not keeping up.
Speaker:Sound familiar?
Speaker:Maybe you find that you're busy all day long,
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Speaker:in the four plus years that I've been doing this show,
Speaker:I've come to know a lot about you and truth be
Speaker:told it's pretty easy because we're a lot of like you
Speaker:take great pride and can talk all day about your products
Speaker:with an interested party in one on one conversations.
Speaker:You can talk about what you make,
Speaker:the story of how you got started and the intricacies of
Speaker:your creation and production methods.
Speaker:These all roll effortlessly off your tongue,
Speaker:right? But then you reach a roadblock talking about these exact
Speaker:same things in a public environment.
Speaker:Now that's an entirely different story.
Speaker:The idea of speaking in public is petrifying to most.
Speaker:Yet. As a small business owner,
Speaker:this is essential to getting the visibility necessary to grow.
Speaker:Whether it's networking,
Speaker:exhibiting at a craft show or doing Facebook lives.
Speaker:You aren't going to go far without the extended exposure that
Speaker:these activities bring and if wholesale or corporate accounts are part
Speaker:of your sales strategy,
Speaker:you'll need to present your business and product in a public
Speaker:forum here to many,
Speaker:I won't say all but many of you will decide to
Speaker:stay small and continue selling only to family,
Speaker:friends, and maybe friends of friends,
Speaker:but the truth is this is only going to get you
Speaker:so far to grow.
Speaker:At some point,
Speaker:you have to display and present your business and your products.
Speaker:This is where today's guest comes in.
Speaker:I've turned to a comedian for some guidance on this issue.
Speaker:Now you might ask,
Speaker:how is this going to help me?
Speaker:You may think comedians naturally have what it takes to deliver
Speaker:one liners and tell stories that end up in that explosion
Speaker:of laughter coming up.
Speaker:You're going to find out that that's not necessarily true.
Speaker:Larry doesn't make tangible and tasty things like we do,
Speaker:but he creates art through entertainment and his profession relies 100%
Speaker:on putting himself in the public eye.
Speaker:Let's turn to him now and find out how he can
Speaker:help us deal with our anxiety around speaking out in front
Speaker:of people we don't know.
Speaker:Really excited to introduce you to Larry bloom with funnier by
Speaker:the Lake comedy now.
Speaker:I have no idea what's going to be happening here,
Speaker:but I know it's going to be a lot of fun,
Speaker:so buckle in and get ready.
Speaker:Larry has been writing jokes and making people laugh his entire
Speaker:life growing up North of Chicago in Wilmette,
Speaker:Illinois. What interest in talent Larry lacked in sports.
Speaker:He made up for it with a passion for the standup
Speaker:comedians and actors from movies and television of the sixties seventies
Speaker:and eighties Larry was a remarkably horrible high school and college
Speaker:student. You guys can guess.
Speaker:I'm reading from his bio that he provided me,
Speaker:so I'm just going with that and he often says that
Speaker:if those years were a book it would be titled fear
Speaker:and loathing on campus.
Speaker:I told you to get ready.
Speaker:Larry's standup comedy Springs from a lifetime of experiences and a
Speaker:view of the world seen through a comedian's filter in which
Speaker:humor can be found in everything and nothing is off limits
Speaker:unless it's not funny.
Speaker:He can be seen performing on stage throughout the Chicago area
Speaker:and through funnier by the Lake comedy Leary has made it
Speaker:his mission to bring live comedy to the North shore of
Speaker:Chicago. Larry,
Speaker:I am so excited to have you on the show.
Speaker:Thanks. So I've warned you.
Speaker:And so you have to be ready for my traditional candle
Speaker:question, which we use to start every interview.
Speaker:And that is if you were to share with us what
Speaker:your all about by way of a motivational candle,
Speaker:what color would it be and what would be the quote
Speaker:on the candle?
Speaker:I don't know what a motivational candle.
Speaker:I'd have never been motivated by a candle,
Speaker:but if I had to pick a color it would normally
Speaker:be blue,
Speaker:like kind of medium,
Speaker:kind of cool.
Speaker:Blue would normally be the color that represents.
Speaker:So I guess that's the color that comes to my mind
Speaker:I guess.
Speaker:Okay. And then the quote,
Speaker:which is like my favorite quote,
Speaker:which is actually from Hunter S Thompson,
Speaker:it's a part of a longer quote,
Speaker:but it's basically buy the ticket,
Speaker:take the ride,
Speaker:which basically means whatever you do,
Speaker:good or bad,
Speaker:you've made that decision,
Speaker:you're in it and you got to go for that ride,
Speaker:see what happens.
Speaker:There you go.
Speaker:I like that.
Speaker:How would you relate that to someone who's starting a business?
Speaker:I don't think you can start a business and actually not
Speaker:have that sensibility because if you go into a business thinking
Speaker:I'm going to do this and it's going to go this
Speaker:way where I want it to go this way and you're
Speaker:not prepared to just take those steps and see where they
Speaker:take you and see what blows up in your face and
Speaker:then you still have to deal with and you still have
Speaker:to go down that road or pick the roads to go
Speaker:down based on what happens.
Speaker:I mean you shouldn't even be starting a business.
Speaker:The people that start with these concrete expectations are almost doomed
Speaker:to failure.
Speaker:I mean I think you know,
Speaker:cause you run a business,
Speaker:I mean there's just absolutely no day.
Speaker:That's just like exactly the way you expect it to go.
Speaker:Right. And I also think you're right because when people start
Speaker:a business,
Speaker:they think everything is going to be smooth.
Speaker:If they've planned enough thought about it,
Speaker:enough took enough classes,
Speaker:whatever it's going to be,
Speaker:that everything is going to be perfect from the get go.
Speaker:And then the second that they meet with resistance or something's
Speaker:not going quote unquote according to plan,
Speaker:then they think,
Speaker:I'm not cut out for this.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:or it's not going to work for me.
Speaker:Where where you're saying take the ride.
Speaker:It is going to be a ride.
Speaker:There's going to be bumpy roads,
Speaker:there's going to be smooth roads and that's what you've kind
Speaker:of bought into when you bought the ticket.
Speaker:That's exactly right.
Speaker:Good. I'm on the ride with you Larry.
Speaker:Okay. Take us back.
Speaker:How did you get into,
Speaker:now I know comedy isn't all that you do,
Speaker:so feel free to share what you want to talk about,
Speaker:but I know we really want to focus on the comedy
Speaker:part as well and give biz listeners.
Speaker:I wanted to do that because that also more relates to
Speaker:what we're talking about here with you.
Speaker:If you're a Potter or any type of a maker.
Speaker:Creating comedy is also making,
Speaker:I thought this was going to be a fun and interesting
Speaker:twist to other things that we're all doing together.
Speaker:Okay, so Larry,
Speaker:take us on back.
Speaker:Tell us how this all happened,
Speaker:How, what happened to the comedy part of my life?
Speaker:Whichever way you want to go with us.
Speaker:Well, I mean we're talking about comedy,
Speaker:we're talking about funding by the Lake.
Speaker:Like you'd read in my bio,
Speaker:I've always written jokes and I've always been funny people my
Speaker:entire life were like,
Speaker:you should be a standup comedian,
Speaker:but I was always enough of just a student of the
Speaker:arts that I knew that it wasn't like when you're at
Speaker:a party and you're standing in a group of four people
Speaker:and you say something funny and then other things happen and
Speaker:people say stuff and then you say something funny and everyone
Speaker:thinks, Oh,
Speaker:you should be a standup comedian.
Speaker:But that's like a huge difference between standing up in front
Speaker:of a room full of people and having to say like
Speaker:30 or 40 or 50 things in a row that are
Speaker:funny. Plus when I was younger I just did not have
Speaker:the personality or fortitude to get on stage and do anything.
Speaker:But then I had an opportunity a handful of years ago.
Speaker:I used to run a business groups.
Speaker:I used to be in front of a groups all the
Speaker:time. There was a standup element to that always.
Speaker:I would always write jokes for those actually.
Speaker:Yeah. I was more excited about writing the jokes to the
Speaker:stuff that actually the business part of it,
Speaker:so I was really accustomed to doing that in front of
Speaker:large groups.
Speaker:I used to like the MC comedy nights.
Speaker:I had done that because that was low risk and you
Speaker:don't expect a lot from,
Speaker:the MC just introduces me.
Speaker:Maybe you throw in a joke or something,
Speaker:but they don't expect you to be the comedian.
Speaker:Then there was a business group I was in and they
Speaker:were doing a comedy night.
Speaker:I asked the venue owner if I could emcee it and
Speaker:he said,
Speaker:well, the people who run the group,
Speaker:we're going to do the emceeing,
Speaker:and he asked me if I could do a set.
Speaker:Now, just to put it in context,
Speaker:I was actually at that point,
Speaker:I was in my mid forties and my dad had just
Speaker:died like a few weeks before kind of suddenly,
Speaker:and he probably had plans for six months out in the
Speaker:next year.
Speaker:And so I was really,
Speaker:living in a life is short kind of a sense and
Speaker:I, I just didn't think I could say no because I
Speaker:couldn't say I want to do it next year cause I
Speaker:was just in a place where next year sometimes it isn't
Speaker:available to you.
Speaker:So then I went on Facebook and I posted,
Speaker:I've just tentatively agreed to do stand up comedy at this
Speaker:place in a few weeks or whatever.
Speaker:And the response was like,
Speaker:yeah, you have to do that.
Speaker:Oh come and see that.
Speaker:That's what people were like very excited for that because they've
Speaker:been telling me to do it for a long time.
Speaker:And then part of the reason I even posted it was
Speaker:like if I post it,
Speaker:I cannot back out at this point.
Speaker:It's a public thing.
Speaker:I mean I can,
Speaker:but I'd feel awful.
Speaker:I'd never live it down in my own head and the
Speaker:thing that I did that was completely ridiculous was like I
Speaker:had been speaking in front of groups so I was really
Speaker:comfortable and I knew how to write jokes and perform jokes,
Speaker:but I had never done like open mics.
Speaker:I'd never done anything in standup comedy like in pure standup
Speaker:comedy and the request was that I do 15 minutes,
Speaker:which is insane to do the first time I normally go
Speaker:to open mics.
Speaker:You do three minutes,
Speaker:you five minutes,
Speaker:you do eight minutes,
Speaker:you do four minutes and you kind of work on what's
Speaker:called your tight five.
Speaker:That's what you wore.
Speaker:You people worked for years to get their tight five to
Speaker:go out and be a comedian and I agreed to do
Speaker:15 minutes and I didn't know any better to know how
Speaker:dumb that was,
Speaker:but I wrote 15 minutes and I did really well,
Speaker:which was kind of amazing.
Speaker:That is so crazy.
Speaker:I want to talk about that some more in a second,
Speaker:but I also want to underline the point that you're talking
Speaker:about here that way back when you were young,
Speaker:people were already saying you were funny.
Speaker:Like that was innately something that was part of you.
Speaker:And I think it's so interesting for all of us to
Speaker:reflect on what do other people see in us that we
Speaker:don't allow ourselves to see.
Speaker:Because it might be a little uncomfortable.
Speaker:It might be scary.
Speaker:You might not identify with it really,
Speaker:but it already is naturally you.
Speaker:That's what I'm hearing from you in the story.
Speaker:Yeah. Though I knew I was funny.
Speaker:I mean that was sort of like my stock and trade
Speaker:and that also got me in trouble and also got me
Speaker:out of trouble a lot of times and just that,
Speaker:Hey, you know,
Speaker:I'm not a big guy.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:physically I'm not a big guy.
Speaker:So you play with what you got to kind of survive.
Speaker:So I've always been funny.
Speaker:I always think of there's a North shore magazine or Chicago
Speaker:magazine article with a,
Speaker:it was an interview with a Harold Ramis from like the
Speaker:nineties they asked him when you were in high school,
Speaker:I think he went to sin or something about it.
Speaker:He was like,
Speaker:when you were in high school were you the class clown?
Speaker:And he said,
Speaker:ah no I wasn't at the class clown,
Speaker:but I was the class clowns writer.
Speaker:I identified with that greatly.
Speaker:Yeah, well we've known each other for a long time.
Speaker:Larry, and I've seen you as the meeting leader in network
Speaker:meetings before.
Speaker:I've seen you with your breakfast groups groups that you've created
Speaker:and you are so comfortable and you are hysterical in front
Speaker:of the groups.
Speaker:And dare I say,
Speaker:I think,
Speaker:and this is a question for you,
Speaker:you were always really relevant and I think that's just what
Speaker:a comedian naturally does.
Speaker:You are really relevant to things that were happening at the
Speaker:time, like in the news and all of that.
Speaker:But you also always almost crossed the line.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:like you had that gasp of factor.
Speaker:I don't know what you'd call it,
Speaker:like I can't believe you just said that type thing.
Speaker:Do you do that intentionally?
Speaker:Is that part of your thing?
Speaker:It's interesting because when I ran the chamber morning breakfast that
Speaker:you were always at,
Speaker:that wasn't my group.
Speaker:I just led it and so I would bring it to
Speaker:a point and then yes,
Speaker:and bring it to a line and kind of inch over
Speaker:it. You know,
Speaker:breakfast of champions,
Speaker:which was full on my group to run and it was
Speaker:mine to do whatever I wanted.
Speaker:I could be a little even more outspoken,
Speaker:but I didn't know what we were there for.
Speaker:But yeah.
Speaker:Here's the thing,
Speaker:and this is,
Speaker:I was just telling the story the other day,
Speaker:which is not going to say the word on your podcast.
Speaker:No, you can't or I have to do an E.
Speaker:That's fine.
Speaker:My wedding speech,
Speaker:I dropped the F bomb and I did it because it
Speaker:was part of a story about how when I first met
Speaker:my wife,
Speaker:when we were introduced and we were out with another couple
Speaker:who introduced us,
Speaker:I was on my best behavior.
Speaker:Like normally I talk like Joe Peshy,
Speaker:like in casino,
Speaker:and I was like,
Speaker:I'm not going to swear,
Speaker:I'm going to be a mention about this.
Speaker:And I wasn't.
Speaker:And we were sitting around drinking and Deborah,
Speaker:who became my wife when she was talking,
Speaker:she like dropped the F bomb really casually.
Speaker:And then my friend's wife was talking and I interrupted her
Speaker:and I said,
Speaker:I look back at Deborah and I said,
Speaker:wait, did you just say Athens?
Speaker:She said,
Speaker:unapologetically. She was like,
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:And so in my wedding speech,
Speaker:I tell that story so that at the end of it,
Speaker:the is so I could say unequivocally with all sincerity,
Speaker:you had me at F,
Speaker:that was the joke and it got a huge laugh.
Speaker:And then people still talk about it today and they're just
Speaker:like, I can't believe you said F in your wedding speech.
Speaker:And I say,
Speaker:how many weddings have you gone to?
Speaker:Oh, Dustin's like,
Speaker:all right,
Speaker:tell me any other wedding speech you remember.
Speaker:And they can't.
Speaker:That's the only one they remember.
Speaker:Oh there you go.
Speaker:Yeah. That's why one part of my other business,
Speaker:which is marketing and branding is always like be memorable.
Speaker:That's it.
Speaker:You gotta be memorable.
Speaker:And so my style,
Speaker:my sort of,
Speaker:the thing that I do is communication is words that that's
Speaker:what I'm all about.
Speaker:And when I'm at a big networking event or something like
Speaker:in one of these chambers where there's a hundred people in
Speaker:the room,
Speaker:I mean you got to say something people are going to
Speaker:remember or it's just in and out one year.
Speaker:Yeah. But you also said something really important too,
Speaker:which is know your audience and know why you're there.
Speaker:Because when you're talking about with the chamber you were a
Speaker:little more reserved,
Speaker:like a little bit of a filter was there.
Speaker:You crossed the line of tad like a toe across the
Speaker:line, but you treated it differently than you treated your own
Speaker:event. Yeah,
Speaker:exactly. So knowing your audience is important.
Speaker:Yeah, and like I just was booked at a show,
Speaker:a comedy show down in Bloomington,
Speaker:normal and central Illinois.
Speaker:That's where I used to live.
Speaker:I went to school there and I went down there.
Speaker:I agree to do the show cause I still knew some
Speaker:people down there so I wanted to go down and do
Speaker:it. But there were just all sorts of jokes I have
Speaker:not been able to do like up here on the North
Speaker:shore that I was able to do in Bloomington normal that
Speaker:they just hang it up and then vice versa.
Speaker:There's stuff that I could just couldn't do down there that
Speaker:it just wouldn't relate.
Speaker:Right. Yeah.
Speaker:I guess I would circle this back to people who are
Speaker:listening know your customer and when you think of email language
Speaker:that you're using,
Speaker:images that you're presenting,
Speaker:et cetera,
Speaker:you want to make sure that you're speaking with things that
Speaker:will be received well.
Speaker:But to Larry's point,
Speaker:I think that also captures attention.
Speaker:So really,
Speaker:really good point there.
Speaker:I see this a lot that when I go to these
Speaker:networking things and the people that have,
Speaker:they've got their nuggets,
Speaker:you got to leave with a nugget and sometimes it's like
Speaker:you have to do this so you shouldn't do this.
Speaker:I don't like when people speak in absolutes like that.
Speaker:That's why you really do have to know your audience and
Speaker:your audiences or your customer base.
Speaker:Actually your audience is your potential customers and then once you
Speaker:actually have them like in front of you at a trade
Speaker:show or on the phone and like a call or even
Speaker:just a networking and you're doing your pitch,
Speaker:I mean you have to respond to,
Speaker:you have to look at their face like how are they
Speaker:responding? Is there a face opening up because they like what
Speaker:you're saying and you can go a little further or is
Speaker:there a brow offering and you know what?
Speaker:They're getting a little upset.
Speaker:You just don't have your pitch and you just lay it
Speaker:out and then just walk away.
Speaker:I mean the people that are responsive or sensitive to who
Speaker:they're talking to,
Speaker:they're just more successful at least from that point.
Speaker:Right. Well like when you're doing your comedy,
Speaker:you can see that cause you're live right in front,
Speaker:you can see what the audience's reactions are.
Speaker:Well, like the first two rows,
Speaker:it could be 500 people in the room.
Speaker:You really only see like the first 25 Okay.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Got it.
Speaker:But I think also like for some of us,
Speaker:if it's emails,
Speaker:you can see what email opens you're getting or how much
Speaker:interaction you're getting on Facebook.
Speaker:You know?
Speaker:So I think your point is really,
Speaker:really well made,
Speaker:Larry, is it's not just throw the information out there and
Speaker:then move on to the next bit of information,
Speaker:put information out and then go back and analyze and see
Speaker:what's really resonating with your audience and then do more of
Speaker:that. Yeah.
Speaker:And I was in my other business,
Speaker:which is,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:branding and marketing and web development.
Speaker:I've always told people,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:your website needs to be responsive to who's,
Speaker:it can't just be just your information,
Speaker:some pretty pictures in your information that just you like to
Speaker:see who's coming to this.
Speaker:There might be three different types of people that are going
Speaker:to come to your site.
Speaker:That could be B to C,
Speaker:there could be distributors,
Speaker:there could be reps who want to work with you and
Speaker:you have to appeal to them and speak their language,
Speaker:take the work away from them.
Speaker:And again,
Speaker:it all sort of ties together and just knowing who you're
Speaker:talking to and being sensitive to that.
Speaker:Yep. And I'm so glad you brought up your website.
Speaker:This is going off course a little bit.
Speaker:We're going to get back onto comedy in a minute,
Speaker:but Larry,
Speaker:I have quoted you at least two or three times in
Speaker:different podcast episodes.
Speaker:Okay. What do you say about your website?
Speaker:Well, I used to have a marketing thing that was,
Speaker:is it the,
Speaker:what type of employee is your website?
Speaker:Yep, exactly.
Speaker:Yeah. What type of employees?
Speaker:Your website,
Speaker:does it sit at home all day doing nothing or does
Speaker:it generate leads and help you succeed or grow?
Speaker:The whole point is that it should be as close to
Speaker:a human representative.
Speaker:It can't be because it's a website,
Speaker:but if you can just cover all those bases about just
Speaker:not just throwing the information in front of people,
Speaker:but actually thinking about who's coming to the site.
Speaker:There's different channels of people and there's different conversations with each
Speaker:of them.
Speaker:Get them to the right conversations,
Speaker:the right information.
Speaker:Your conversion rate is going to be exponentially better because they're
Speaker:getting right to the information that applies to them,
Speaker:like within a click within a second or two instead of
Speaker:like they have to weed through everything that you've got on
Speaker:there and figure out.
Speaker:That's the whole thing.
Speaker:It's like what people never seem to understand.
Speaker:Even big companies with big budgets,
Speaker:they just seem to miss the boat on like you took
Speaker:the web out of it.
Speaker:The technology.
Speaker:Yeah. You would never set up an office or a retail
Speaker:store or a restaurant or something where people came in and
Speaker:had to figure out how you could help them.
Speaker:No. Yeah.
Speaker:They come in and you find out what they need and
Speaker:then you respond to them accordingly.
Speaker:Right. And what I remember you also saying is your website
Speaker:is one of your best employees.
Speaker:Is there 24 seven It's the first point of contact,
Speaker:probably 90% of the time now.
Speaker:Because even if it's somebody you know,
Speaker:a relative,
Speaker:it could be someone you went to high school with,
Speaker:whatever you write into them,
Speaker:this is what I'm doing now.
Speaker:They want to do business with you or they're interested,
Speaker:they're still going to go to your website and check you
Speaker:out. And you may never even have known they've been there.
Speaker:Right. And that's the thing.
Speaker:I have an article on my LinkedIn,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:one of those long form articles and it's something called,
Speaker:I don't get business through.
Speaker:My website is a big fat lie that people tell themselves.
Speaker:And it's because people are like,
Speaker:I don't get business through it.
Speaker:Like they think,
Speaker:well it's like,
Speaker:but no,
Speaker:it's part of an aggregate and you don't know if you
Speaker:don't have a website or if you're not tracking like the
Speaker:activity and conversions.
Speaker:You don't know what sent people away.
Speaker:You don't know what people didn't do.
Speaker:You can only try and get them to do what you
Speaker:need them.
Speaker:Do. People think,
Speaker:I don't get business through my website because people didn't search
Speaker:whatever I sell,
Speaker:find me and then give me money.
Speaker:As opposed to like,
Speaker:well maybe they found you some other way.
Speaker:Maybe they heard about you,
Speaker:maybe they met you,
Speaker:they go to your website and whatever.
Speaker:They're uninspired.
Speaker:The whole idea is it's supposed to inspire and motivate people
Speaker:to do whatever you need them to do,
Speaker:which is give information or give money or make a purchase,
Speaker:whatever the case may be or download information hopefully.
Speaker:Right. Yeah,
Speaker:and I think the point is we need to take control
Speaker:of what actions actually happened by making sure what you were
Speaker:just talking about a little bit earlier,
Speaker:that when people come to the site they can self select
Speaker:what's important to them.
Speaker:And it's very obvious where they should go next and that's
Speaker:all under our control.
Speaker:It's not up to them to figure it out.
Speaker:Yeah. And people don't like the word manipulation because they think
Speaker:it's kind of negative and it's kind of sleazy,
Speaker:but it is a manipulation.
Speaker:You do have to manipulate the people in a certain way,
Speaker:not necessarily in a bad way,
Speaker:but just you need to get them to do what you
Speaker:need them to do to become your customer and what they
Speaker:need to do to become the customer,
Speaker:to make it as easy,
Speaker:less the least time,
Speaker:the less clicks,
Speaker:the less thinking involved.
Speaker:They found your website somehow they're on your website,
Speaker:make it easy for them to become your customer.
Speaker:Right. Or else they'll go somewhere else.
Speaker:If it's too confusing,
Speaker:they'll go somewhere else.
Speaker:Yeah. Even if it's somebody that knows you and likes you
Speaker:and they might not do business with you or go away
Speaker:from your website,
Speaker:not even out of malice,
Speaker:just because they got distracted and they didn't come back.
Speaker:And then they had somebody else on the list that they
Speaker:were checking out and they went with that.
Speaker:And I always tell people,
Speaker:you can hope that they come back to your website or
Speaker:they come back to your website to get your phone number
Speaker:to give you a call.
Speaker:You can hope they come back,
Speaker:but you have to depend on them not coming back.
Speaker:So you have to do everything you can to make sure,
Speaker:whether it's your website,
Speaker:whether it's offline,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:printed collateral,
Speaker:whether it's you setting up meetings,
Speaker:whatever. You have to do,
Speaker:whatever you can to make sure all that happened.
Speaker:Yeah. That you get the most out of that one shot
Speaker:that you can because it might be your only chance.
Speaker:Exactly. Yeah.
Speaker:Alright, let's go back.
Speaker:I want to go back to the funny,
Speaker:we're going to reenter the funny Larry,
Speaker:so we're back to,
Speaker:you made this commitment.
Speaker:It wasn't exactly the best time,
Speaker:but probably it was because if you weren't in that mindset
Speaker:about time is limited because of your dad passing,
Speaker:you may not have committed.
Speaker:Right. And I guess you might say yes,
Speaker:you for sure know you would have tried to delay it,
Speaker:right? Yeah.
Speaker:Again, I can get it to you.
Speaker:Well, I probably would've been like,
Speaker:well maybe cause it was only a few weeks away,
Speaker:so I went,
Speaker:well maybe I'll do it the next one and maybe the
Speaker:next one would have never come.
Speaker:So I do have to say that on that night there
Speaker:were three comedians.
Speaker:There was me,
Speaker:there was another member of this business group that was like
Speaker:an amateur comedian and there was a hired professional comedian who
Speaker:was like the headliner who did 20 minutes or something like
Speaker:that. And I went on first and I just crushed the
Speaker:hell out of it.
Speaker:I'm smiling here,
Speaker:Larry. That's awesome.
Speaker:That's not a brag.
Speaker:That's not a humble brag.
Speaker:Whatever. I mean that is like I tell people all the
Speaker:time, you know what if I did those,
Speaker:it actually I wrote 15 minutes and went about 16 and
Speaker:a half minutes and I have the,
Speaker:I have a recording,
Speaker:I didn't even think to record it.
Speaker:A friend of mine was there with his phone and recorded
Speaker:it. So I do have it,
Speaker:but it's like if I did a horribly,
Speaker:but I just had like two or three jokes land in
Speaker:that entire 16 minutes,
Speaker:I would have been completely hooked.
Speaker:So the fact that I did really well is great.
Speaker:But I think even if just a couple,
Speaker:cause it's also a comedian's personality is,
Speaker:is we're all very needy for that instant gratification,
Speaker:that instant approval.
Speaker:But I will say that evening I went up first and
Speaker:I've just crushed it.
Speaker:The second guy who was like an amateur,
Speaker:he was horrible.
Speaker:And the headliner who was the paid comedian,
Speaker:he bombed so bad.
Speaker:He bombed so bad that he had actually set up a
Speaker:video camera to record the entire thing.
Speaker:And he said he had sent me my clip and he
Speaker:never did.
Speaker:So. Wow.
Speaker:You were the winner of the night for sure.
Speaker:Well, yeah,
Speaker:I didn't really judge it by winning or losing.
Speaker:I just,
Speaker:I did really well and that really was great.
Speaker:And the funny thing is that same comedian,
Speaker:a couple years later after I'd already been doing funny by
Speaker:the Lake,
Speaker:we're doing a ton of shows.
Speaker:Like I've booked like over 200 paid spots a year for
Speaker:comedians now and different shows.
Speaker:And a couple of years ago that guy started calling me
Speaker:and he didn't remember that.
Speaker:And he gives us,
Speaker:yeah, yeah.
Speaker:Would it be on one of your show that I'm a
Speaker:comedian and like okay,
Speaker:some of your clip,
Speaker:whatever and send me his clap and I just kept blowing
Speaker:off until they stopped calling me.
Speaker:That's called karma cause he never sent me my clip.
Speaker:I asked him a few times,
Speaker:he just blew me off.
Speaker:So, Oh yeah,
Speaker:there you go.
Speaker:But I think a good point here also for everyone to
Speaker:think about is even if you're not prepared,
Speaker:think back to Larry's story.
Speaker:Like if you have an opportunity that comes up and you're
Speaker:like, that's too advanced for where I am in my business
Speaker:right now,
Speaker:or I don't have everything in place yet to do.
Speaker:It may be an opportunity that will never come again.
Speaker:So take it even if you're not sure and then just
Speaker:make it happen.
Speaker:Which is what you did Larry.
Speaker:Yeah, you definitely had experience already because you've been up in
Speaker:front of people not to that level yet.
Speaker:Right. But you had not with the more structured now 15
Speaker:minutes versus the five,
Speaker:right. The tight five you talk about,
Speaker:but you took the opportunity and just by your own ambition
Speaker:right now,
Speaker:you probably wouldn't have done it when never would have happened.
Speaker:I'm sure I wouldn't have.
Speaker:And I shared what had just been like,
Speaker:Oh, you know what,
Speaker:there's not enough time to write.
Speaker:I've never done it before.
Speaker:I'll do it the next time.
Speaker:They do accommodate.
Speaker:And actually I don't think they ever did a comedy night
Speaker:after that.
Speaker:So that group,
Speaker:so I would have never had that opportunity.
Speaker:Well there you go.
Speaker:And then I love the fact that you posted about it,
Speaker:that you had no choice then,
Speaker:but to be accountable and to go through with it.
Speaker:Yeah, I was interested to see what people would say and
Speaker:people were just like,
Speaker:that is awesome.
Speaker:I will go to that.
Speaker:You have to do that.
Speaker:But people were just like completely positive about it.
Speaker:And then at the same time I just thought if I
Speaker:post it and then people are like,
Speaker:Hey, whatever happened with that.
Speaker:And I was like,
Speaker:Oh I decided not to do it and I would have
Speaker:felt bad.
Speaker:You would have been disappointed in yourself.
Speaker:Yeah. So it would have been disappointed because that's not necessarily
Speaker:my personality.
Speaker:I usually try and rise to those challenges.
Speaker:So what did you do to prepare?
Speaker:Oh for that first
get yourself psyched up?
Speaker:Obviously there's content creation,
Speaker:all of that.
Speaker:But walk us through what you had to do to get
Speaker:ready for that.
Speaker:I have,
Speaker:I'll tell you,
Speaker:you should do,
Speaker:which I didn't do cause I was dumb like I had
Speaker:mentioned earlier.
Speaker:Okay. If you live in Chicago or New York or California
Speaker:or Texas,
Speaker:I really almost anywhere,
Speaker:but especially as Chicago,
Speaker:you can go to an open mic,
Speaker:comedy open mic in every night of the week there's this
Speaker:plenty. That's what you should do.
Speaker:You should start writing some jokes and trying it out at
Speaker:open mics and the community is pretty welcoming at least as
Speaker:far as I found it.
Speaker:And find it open mic where they're going to give you
Speaker:four minutes or five minutes,
Speaker:something that's kind of easy to kind of wrap your head
Speaker:around. You write some jokes and then that's what you do
Speaker:and you do that like a whole bunch of times before
Speaker:you actually get booked on an actual show.
Speaker:I did it the opposite.
Speaker:I had absolutely no idea.
Speaker:I just went home and I just like,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:I have a lot of jokes about like living on the
Speaker:North shore that I just kind of told just like in
Speaker:passing and conversation and stuff like that,
Speaker:just to make people laugh.
Speaker:So I kind of had that as a starting point and
Speaker:then I did some topical stuff that was going on in
Speaker:the news and then my first step for like the first
Speaker:year, so it was actually,
Speaker:it was pretty dirty,
Speaker:it was pretty blue and it was just fun writing those
Speaker:jokes and saying him out loud.
Speaker:And a lot of it was just like I'd written stuff
Speaker:based on like conversations I'd had.
Speaker:Everything is from like my personal experience.
Speaker:I had a bunch of that and I just kind of
Speaker:put it together as a set and then I've had to
Speaker:write a whole bunch of stuff because I had to do
Speaker:15 minutes as a long time.
Speaker:I mean at least it was back then.
Speaker:Well for joke after joke and story,
Speaker:I'm just thinking probably a lot of the jokes that you
Speaker:have are triggered by something someone's saying or a situation that
Speaker:you're in.
Speaker:But then when you're having to do like a show on
Speaker:stage, you don't have those triggers.
Speaker:You have to figure them out for yourself.
Speaker:So there's timing.
Speaker:How do you flow one into another?
Speaker:Like there's all of that behind it.
Speaker:I'm thinking,
Speaker:Well there's some of it a lot.
Speaker:I wish I can remember the comedian,
Speaker:I've seen this quote before and I just saw recently and
Speaker:I can't remember who it was from,
Speaker:but I agree with this quote and wish I could live
Speaker:up to that standard,
Speaker:which is the comedian was saying that your material is your
Speaker:fallback. So like you go out there and like every time
Speaker:I go to a new venue,
Speaker:a new town,
Speaker:I learned about the town,
Speaker:I drive around it or walk around it.
Speaker:I learned about the venue,
Speaker:I look around,
Speaker:I look at the people in there,
Speaker:I look at what's on the walls,
Speaker:what they're serving,
Speaker:all that stuff.
Speaker:And that gives you a whole bunch of stuff to talk
Speaker:about and joke about it.
Speaker:And then you've got your material.
Speaker:I mean there's been times where I've just been,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:the word is riffing,
Speaker:just riffing or winging it.
Speaker:Basically just kind of talking to the audience and responding to
Speaker:who's in the audience,
Speaker:what's going on in the venue,
Speaker:what's going on in the town,
Speaker:whatever. And then it gets like 10 minutes in and you're
Speaker:just like,
Speaker:hi, I should do some jokes now.
Speaker:You want me to some jokes Because you were in the
Speaker:flow for the first part.
Speaker:Then you go to material if needed.
Speaker:Yeah. And then usually kind of like goes back and forth.
Speaker:The only time I really stick a hundred percent to scripted
Speaker:material is like sometimes there's a show that they do at
Speaker:one of the Xannies around Chicago and it's sort of an
Speaker:audition show and I've been on it a few times and
Speaker:you get six minutes and the whole thing is like,
Speaker:it's gotta be,
Speaker:you can't go over the Booker wants to know if he's
Speaker:going to book for six minutes or 10 minutes or 20
Speaker:minutes that you can stick to your time.
Speaker:That's the most important thing.
Speaker:A second to making the audience laugh.
Speaker:And that's the only time where it's like you really practice
Speaker:it out to the second to make sure that you're going
Speaker:to get through it.
Speaker:Usually a little shorter because you have to allow for like
Speaker:laugh breaks and stuff like that.
Speaker:So you know,
Speaker:like they get six minutes and like I'm going to write
Speaker:something, it's gonna be five minutes.
Speaker:Exactly. So that I know I will not go over six
Speaker:minutes. That's the only time when that's a big issue to
Speaker:it. But other than that,
Speaker:it really is like,
Speaker:and again it is like that in business as well where
Speaker:you have your pitch and you can't just like sit down
Speaker:and just like do your pitch and like not kind of
Speaker:react to respond or maybe like see when people are kind
Speaker:of getting confused or whatever.
Speaker:Or if somebody chimes in,
Speaker:you have to be prepared.
Speaker:I mean that's why I don't really like improv,
Speaker:but improv is a really good thing for people in business
Speaker:because it helps them with that point where they're doing their
Speaker:pitch or they're having a sales call or whatever,
Speaker:and then someone just shifts the conversation or throws a monkey
Speaker:wrench in there.
Speaker:And you have to be able to go from that point.
Speaker:Right. You know,
Speaker:I could see this could relate a lot of people in
Speaker:our audience.
Speaker:I really,
Speaker:really am pushing them to do networking because a lot of
Speaker:people are going to get business right from their local area
Speaker:and when you talk about networking,
Speaker:you talk about the elevator speech.
Speaker:I actually call it an introduction message.
Speaker:People get really nervous about having to do that,
Speaker:so if you have something already structured that could be like
Speaker:what you're saying Larry.
Speaker:The fallback as you were talking about this,
Speaker:I know that I do this with my introduction message when
Speaker:it's my turn to stand up and say whatever I'm going
Speaker:to say about my businesses is I will try to improv
Speaker:like you're talking about spinoff of something that someone just said
Speaker:right before me or something that has to do with the
Speaker:event before I get into my spiel because it just also
Speaker:lightens the mood I think,
Speaker:versus just getting up and being so wrote,
Speaker:I'm Sue Monheit,
Speaker:blah, blah,
Speaker:blah. Right.
Speaker:It gets people's attention.
Speaker:It goes back to what I said earlier.
Speaker:You're in a room with 50 or a hundred people and
Speaker:I've always said that you have a hundred people in there,
Speaker:man. If you're like the fourth person to introduce yourself,
Speaker:nobody's going to remember you.
Speaker:Right, and just personally,
Speaker:I always say that I get a handful of people in.
Speaker:I just start playing the movie,
Speaker:Goodfellas. In my head,
Speaker:I was like,
Speaker:I can't even,
Speaker:I went to a chamber,
Speaker:local chamber event a few months ago.
Speaker:I woke up late,
Speaker:I got there late and I forgot my phone.
Speaker:I didn't even pitch my business.
Speaker:All I said was like I woke up at 10 after
Speaker:seven and I left home without my phone.
Speaker:So I'm really looking forward to actually listening to all of
Speaker:you and learning what you do.
Speaker:Oh, that's fine.
Speaker:Well, and that gives you a little peek into Larry's humor,
Speaker:you guys.
Speaker:Then you know what the next month,
Speaker:because we have those things that just every month,
Speaker:the next month somebody made a comment to me like,
Speaker:Oh, did you remember your phone today?
Speaker:Wow. You know,
Speaker:they actually remembered that.
Speaker:What else did they remember from that meeting of people introducing
Speaker:themselves? You probably know,
Speaker:you know?
Speaker:That's a really good point.
Speaker:Don't worry.
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Speaker:Okay, so a couple of things I just want to highlight
Speaker:from your story so far.
Speaker:The things you should do,
Speaker:not necessarily that you did do right,
Speaker:is to start practicing.
Speaker:Even if it's raw,
Speaker:even if it's uncomfortable,
Speaker:because those first times that you do whatever it is,
Speaker:maybe it's a craft show,
Speaker:maybe it's going to networking events,
Speaker:maybe it's doing comedy on stage,
Speaker:I don't know,
Speaker:whatever it is for you.
Speaker:The first one,
Speaker:go back and listen to my first podcast,
Speaker:like I want to cringe,
Speaker:right? I would never get to where I am now.
Speaker:If you don't go through that really rough and raw stage,
Speaker:you've got to do that.
Speaker:Everyone has to put in their time,
Speaker:so consider it that way and it might be a little
Speaker:bit easier and then prepare.
Speaker:Like Larry,
Speaker:you're saying,
Speaker:you know you were preparing because you knew that was a
Speaker:fallback. I love that.
Speaker:I'm going to use that because it's a great way to
Speaker:think about,
Speaker:you've always got that ACE in your pocket,
Speaker:which is your material or based on your situation,
Speaker:whatever it is.
Speaker:So great points there,
Speaker:but, so then how did you,
Speaker:and I'm thinking back to this event again,
Speaker:how did you get yourself prepped emotionally to get on stage
Speaker:to actually follow through with what you went to do in
Speaker:the first place to get up there?
Speaker:You know what?
Speaker:I have no problem,
Speaker:no stress about speaking,
Speaker:performing in front of a big group.
Speaker:I'd been doing it for awhile just in business,
Speaker:so I had no problem with that.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:again, some people they just can't do it.
Speaker:I don't understand that.
Speaker:I understand fear.
Speaker:I don't understand the fear that they can't overcome,
Speaker:but some people are just like,
Speaker:I can never do that.
Speaker:It's the majority of people actually.
Speaker:Yeah. Most people,
Speaker:I guess it never really bothered me.
Speaker:And I did a string of shows at a Xannies in
Speaker:old town Chicago,
Speaker:which is,
Speaker:that's like the Mecca.
Speaker:That's like the place you want to.
Speaker:I mean it's really cool to be asked to be on
Speaker:that stage and I was driving down there with somebody who
Speaker:had been accommodated longer than me and I actually hadn't been
Speaker:in comedy that long and I was doing ended up being
Speaker:like a series of like four shows over a month or
Speaker:something like that,
Speaker:or a couple of weeks or something like that.
Speaker:He said,
Speaker:Oh, the first time I did Zane,
Speaker:he's here.
Speaker:I was so nervous and I was just like,
Speaker:I didn't want to make them feel bad,
Speaker:but my head,
Speaker:I'm just like,
Speaker:I'm not nervous at all.
Speaker:I'm not intimidated by it at all.
Speaker:Which is weird.
Speaker:You're right that most people would be intimidated.
Speaker:There's all sorts of things.
Speaker:Luckily you know now you got the internet,
Speaker:you can go to YouTube and you can find all sorts
Speaker:of videos about people who can help you,
Speaker:like give you some devices for the challenge of getting up
Speaker:and speaking in front of people who if you're not someone
Speaker:who's comfortable doing that.
Speaker:Again for business people,
Speaker:even if they don't want to be in comedy,
Speaker:they can go to,
Speaker:again like in Chicago you can go to second city and
Speaker:you can take it.
Speaker:Most of the people go take classes at second city.
Speaker:Don't end up being actors or being on SNL or being
Speaker:standup or working standard comedians.
Speaker:A lot of people just use it just to be able
Speaker:to function in business to get that skill of standing up
Speaker:in front of a big group and having that confidence.
Speaker:It's sort of the buy the ticket,
Speaker:take the ride,
Speaker:not being shaken by a heckler or in business.
Speaker:Somebody throwing out some weird monkey wrench question can,
Speaker:I guess if there's one thing that I overcame that I
Speaker:was just talking about with somebody else recently was the point
Speaker:where I used to script it and practice it and if
Speaker:I was driving into the city,
Speaker:I would just go over the set,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:the 10 minute,
Speaker:12 minute,
Speaker:15 minutes.
Speaker:I would just do it over and over again until I
Speaker:knew it wrote,
Speaker:I just know word for word,
Speaker:but the problem that a lot of people have that I
Speaker:had early on is if you get thrown off like somebody,
Speaker:a waitress drops a bunch of glasses or some heckler chimes
Speaker:in or something happens.
Speaker:Going back to the place where you left off.
Speaker:When I developed that skill and it only came from repetition
Speaker:and doing it wrong and watching other people,
Speaker:the time when I developed the skill of like I'm doing
Speaker:my side,
Speaker:I'm doing some bit.
Speaker:Yeah. And then all of a sudden I think of something
Speaker:else or somebody chimes in or a heckler says something and
Speaker:then it gets us all thrown off.
Speaker:Alright, go off on something like five minute kind of ad
Speaker:lib kind of thing or kind of like crowd work or
Speaker:something like that.
Speaker:And then where was I?
Speaker:And then you just go right back to it.
Speaker:When I developed that skill that gave me such a different
Speaker:confidence level of like I don't sweat getting booked,
Speaker:I'm out now I'm just like,
Speaker:okay, where is it?
Speaker:What time?
Speaker:What's the date?
Speaker:I don't worry about it at all.
Speaker:Like I don't have to worry like how much time do
Speaker:I have?
Speaker:Okay, I need to know those 12 minutes.
Speaker:I need to know this 15 minutes.
Speaker:Cause now I know like whatever happens happens.
Speaker:Right. So something made me start thinking while you were talking.
Speaker:So tell me what you think of this idea Larry.
Speaker:So I'm thinking,
Speaker:okay, so you obviously on stage comedy get interrupted.
Speaker:Like you just said,
Speaker:I could also see this applying.
Speaker:Let's say somebody is in a corporate meeting and they're meeting
Speaker:with a company they've wanted to do business with forever and
Speaker:they come in with a presentation and they might get thrown
Speaker:off because someone else walks in the room.
Speaker:It's not going to be structured the way they heard intended,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:like um,
Speaker:million different things could go different.
Speaker:What do you think about this?
Speaker:It's more important to understand and know what your objective is
Speaker:with the audience versus the material you're presented.
Speaker:So what I mean by that is for you Larry,
Speaker:your intention is entertainment.
Speaker:Good time.
Speaker:It's not that you get every single joke out in order.
Speaker:So let's say you got totally thrown off and you just
Speaker:abandoned your script and you ad lib the whole time or
Speaker:improv the whole time,
Speaker:I guess is the way I should say it.
Speaker:The end result is still that you are providing entertainment.
Speaker:People are laughing,
Speaker:engaged for a business meeting.
Speaker:The difference is you're delivering the information or getting information from
Speaker:your potential customer that helps advance towards a sale regardless of
Speaker:whether you get out every little tidbit in your presentation.
Speaker:So it,
Speaker:by looking at what the goal is versus your content delivery,
Speaker:that could be helpful.
Speaker:What do you think about that idea?
Speaker:Well, yeah,
Speaker:I agree with that.
Speaker:Yeah. I mean,
Speaker:you have to focus on the goal.
Speaker:The goal is what you want from the customer,
Speaker:the potential customer or the audience,
Speaker:right? So that's the goal.
Speaker:So like in comedy it's like,
Speaker:Hey, if I just go out and I do my,
Speaker:uh, if you think of the movie the blues brothers,
Speaker:you remember the movie the blues brothers,
Speaker:we've all seen it 200 times.
Speaker:Okay. They go to the country bar,
Speaker:right? And John Belushi's characters like,
Speaker:okay, let's do our standard set.
Speaker:And they just start going into one of their blues tunes
Speaker:and the audience just starts throwing beer bottles at him and
Speaker:booing and throwing stuff at them.
Speaker:And then actually the venue cuts off all the electricity and
Speaker:the lights to the stage and their instruments.
Speaker:What do they have to do?
Speaker:They're like,
Speaker:well, do we know a country song?
Speaker:And they start playing like the handful of country songs that
Speaker:they know.
Speaker:That's a really good example of that.
Speaker:So again,
Speaker:what's the goal?
Speaker:The goal is to entertain the audience and get paid at
Speaker:the end of the day.
Speaker:That was their goal in that.
Speaker:So my goal when I got on stage is like,
Speaker:yeah, I got some bits I love doing the,
Speaker:I have a set,
Speaker:I have like a fail safe that I can always use.
Speaker:Then I know it could take seven minutes,
Speaker:15 minutes,
Speaker:a half an hour or whatever,
Speaker:however much I want to draw it out.
Speaker:But if I get there and other things are happening and
Speaker:there's other things to joke about and there's people in the
Speaker:audience that are worthy of your attention to make everyone laugh,
Speaker:you have to do that and then to get the best
Speaker:end results.
Speaker:So yes,
Speaker:as you're saying,
Speaker:if you go to a business meeting and somebody throws some
Speaker:questions or a comment or again,
Speaker:let's say you've got it all down,
Speaker:but then three people,
Speaker:real important people come in late,
Speaker:they've come in 10 minutes late,
Speaker:you might have to double back.
Speaker:You may have to kind of integrate the previous stuff with
Speaker:the stuff from the point where you're at.
Speaker:Okay, that makes sense.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:because your goal is to make sure everybody in your shot
Speaker:understands what you're selling them so that they want to buy
Speaker:from you and you do have to adjust.
Speaker:It always goes back to like knowing your audience and knowing
Speaker:the room.
Speaker:Yeah. Knowing your material so well that you can adjust it
Speaker:and change it as you need to.
Speaker:But then being really,
Speaker:really in tune with what you just said,
Speaker:the audience,
Speaker:how it's been received,
Speaker:et cetera.
Speaker:Right. So like if like I just said,
Speaker:you're in a meeting and you're doing a pitcher presentation and
Speaker:a few people come in and they're actually really important.
Speaker:They need to know what you just said.
Speaker:You have to make it interesting for the people who are
Speaker:now going to hear it again,
Speaker:you kind of have to break it up.
Speaker:You have to kind of present it in a different way,
Speaker:whatever, but you have to make sure that like the people
Speaker:who just walked in who need to hear what you just
Speaker:said, they get that information,
Speaker:but you don't lose the other people in the room.
Speaker:They don't check out mentally because now you're just repeating yourself.
Speaker:You starting over and your pitch,
Speaker:right. You have to kind of,
Speaker:I mean it's a skill.
Speaker:There's a nuance to it so that in the end you've
Speaker:kept everyone's attention.
Speaker:You've given everybody the information they need to hear and sometimes
Speaker:it's not.
Speaker:I stand up and I pitched to the room,
Speaker:my sales presentation for 10 or 12 minutes or something like
Speaker:that. I just go through it and I sit down and
Speaker:I don't care that a few important people came in late
Speaker:and they didn't hear it.
Speaker:Well, I don't care that I just repeated a whole bunch
Speaker:of it and then everybody was annoyed at me.
Speaker:Like it can't be like that.
Speaker:You have to focus on the goal.
Speaker:That's a great example.
Speaker:Okay, so what's happened from that first night?
Speaker:Where's funnier by the Lake comedy progressed and where is it
Speaker:today? So after that evening,
Speaker:at that venue where I did my first set,
Speaker:yeah, the venue had actually asked me at that point if
Speaker:I wanted to run a monthly open mic,
Speaker:a comedy open mic.
Speaker:So that's what I did that for at that venue for
Speaker:almost two years I read,
Speaker:it was an open mic slash it was like a hybrid
Speaker:of a book show and an open mic sort of.
Speaker:And I did that for awhile.
Speaker:But as I was doing that,
Speaker:I was actually finding other places for myself to do comedy.
Speaker:If I started to get booked places,
Speaker:I was up in the suburbs of Chicago and the Chicago
Speaker:comedian, he gave me some really good advice.
Speaker:He's just like,
Speaker:Larry, do you have a good show here?
Speaker:You do this really well.
Speaker:Nobody knows you're here,
Speaker:you gotta go into the city.
Speaker:You got to meet all the comedians and the producers that'll
Speaker:get the comedians to come up to your show.
Speaker:That'll get the producers to book you.
Speaker:And that's what I did.
Speaker:As soon as I started going into the actual community and
Speaker:not just stay being up here hoping people heard about me,
Speaker:that's when everything started to change.
Speaker:I had to do a couple of things,
Speaker:which is one,
Speaker:I didn't start when I was like 21 or 25 I
Speaker:had to kind of calibrate my expectations.
Speaker:I have a house and a mortgage,
Speaker:kind of an expensive life,
Speaker:so I couldn't just ditch everything and just start bumbling around
Speaker:and doing comedy wherever for gas money and for meals.
Speaker:So I really do think,
Speaker:and I've run a lot of business.
Speaker:I've run my main business for 22 years.
Speaker:I used to run a business for a division of Eastman
Speaker:Kodak, so I know how to start a business.
Speaker:I know how to develop a business.
Speaker:That's sort of where I lean to.
Speaker:I see the opportunity,
Speaker:so I thought,
Speaker:you know what?
Speaker:At the time there was just no like live standup comedy
Speaker:and the North shore North suburbs of Chicago.
Speaker:There had been,
Speaker:but we were just in a place where they're just,
Speaker:there was not happening really except my show in the little
Speaker:suburb I was doing.
Speaker:So like a year into it,
Speaker:I developed funnier by the Lake comedy.
Speaker:It's sort of a sub entity of my main company to
Speaker:start looking for venues and also private events to bring shows
Speaker:to showcases too.
Speaker:And then also just to get myself booked on like private
Speaker:events and fundraisers and stuff like that and also different clubs.
Speaker:You made it off a presence for myself and for funnier
Speaker:by Lake as a hall.
Speaker:You made your own stage really in a market that needed
Speaker:it because I know we love comedy up here.
Speaker:I want it to monetize it because it was starting to
Speaker:take a lot of my time and so I needed to
Speaker:monetize it.
Speaker:So that's how I find venues.
Speaker:So we'll do things like we've got like these long running
Speaker:like dinner and a show comedy showcases that we do at
Speaker:different venues,
Speaker:primarily in the burbs.
Speaker:I just started a couple of things in the city of
Speaker:Chicago. I just started one a couple months ago on the
Speaker:North side and I got one starting this month in the
Speaker:South loop,
Speaker:but it was primarily in the burbs.
Speaker:So that's how I have a partner in some of these
Speaker:and that's how we get,
Speaker:we monetize it.
Speaker:Basically we go,
Speaker:we sell the show basically the due to a venue and
Speaker:hopefully we do it every month and we either do it
Speaker:by a flat fee or a split of the door or
Speaker:however we work it out.
Speaker:And so that actually generates money and it creates a stage
Speaker:for not just me cause I don't perform at every one
Speaker:of those.
Speaker:A lot of times I just produce but it creates a
Speaker:stage for up and coming and existing comedians.
Speaker:And then also it gets me out there and then other
Speaker:producers hear me and then I get booked on stuff.
Speaker:Just my shows that I can just go to hang out,
Speaker:do my set and I don't have any other responsibility whatsoever
Speaker:there. I tell my jokes,
Speaker:I get paid and then I go.
Speaker:So timewise,
Speaker:I won't ask income wise,
Speaker:but time wise,
Speaker:how do you balance that then with your other business?
Speaker:It was kind of a struggle,
Speaker:like how do I do these two things at the same
Speaker:time? And there was a point a couple of years ago
Speaker:where all of a sudden I realized like I had somehow
Speaker:naturally balanced it where I wasn't like interrupting my main business
Speaker:to do stuff for funnier by the Lake.
Speaker:There's a to be done for funnier by the Lake for
Speaker:every event.
Speaker:Cause you know my,
Speaker:I'm a marketing person so that's a big part of what
Speaker:we sell to the venues,
Speaker:which is like,
Speaker:Hey, we do all the marketing collateral,
Speaker:the design,
Speaker:we do a lot of the promotion online.
Speaker:So there's a lot for each event and all of a
Speaker:sudden, and I don't even know there's,
Speaker:I can't even say how by design I did it,
Speaker:but all of a sudden it just sort of like organically
Speaker:I was doing my main business here and I was doing
Speaker:funnier by Lake stuff,
Speaker:like at a separate time.
Speaker:Just didn't interfere.
Speaker:It's and somehow it just kind of shook out that way.
Speaker:Perfect combination somehow.
Speaker:But the investment in time and funny about Lake has been
Speaker:paying off because that's actually been growing and it's exciting and
Speaker:it's fun and it's been growing as a business and I've
Speaker:been getting lots of different opportunities from that.
Speaker:Again, either for funny by the Lake as like setting up
Speaker:shows places or me just getting booked basically and private events.
Speaker:So if you were to look into the future and create
Speaker:the best outcome that could possibly happen for funnier by the
Speaker:Lake comedy,
Speaker:what is that?
Speaker:It would be that I had multiple venues every week doing
Speaker:shows, whether their dinner and shows at restaurants or just straight
Speaker:up showcases and making that being my primary source of income
Speaker:would be great.
Speaker:Now it's growing,
Speaker:it's getting there.
Speaker:We're doing bigger venues with bigger names now.
Speaker:We have a place in Buffalo Grove,
Speaker:suburb of Chicago,
Speaker:the performing arts center,
Speaker:which is a newly rehabbed,
Speaker:the 320 seat theater.
Speaker:And we do that.
Speaker:We fill that up,
Speaker:we make some money,
Speaker:we make decent money.
Speaker:And even after paying the comedians and doing whatever we need
Speaker:to do,
Speaker:there's a place opening up locally.
Speaker:Again, it's going to be a 300 seat theater and they
Speaker:want me to do the booking basically.
Speaker:So, and then production for the comedy end of that and
Speaker:then that more of those things it turns into that's my
Speaker:livelihood at that point.
Speaker:Yeah, I can totally see it flipping,
Speaker:but I think to what you were just saying when we
Speaker:were talking the balance,
Speaker:you'd still want that marketing aspect in there.
Speaker:My main business,
Speaker:which I started like in 1997 I started it when I
Speaker:was 29 years old,
Speaker:had tumultuous couple of years and I haven't really just personally,
Speaker:which took away from my business and I ended up really
Speaker:just working at that business part time.
Speaker:So now I was working at that business part time and
Speaker:working at funny by Lake part time as well.
Speaker:And I had to take care of somebody.
Speaker:So that was just taking a lot of my time.
Speaker:So, um,
Speaker:I started the business when I was 29 and now I
Speaker:have to decide do I rebuild that,
Speaker:that business or do I put all the energy into funnier
Speaker:by the Lake or do I do something else?
Speaker:And it probably ended up being a combination of all three.
Speaker:Do I have the energy I had at 29 to go
Speaker:after business through my main company doing marketing and branding,
Speaker:consulting and content and web development.
Speaker:I don't know if I've got that energy like I used
Speaker:to. I like doing the projects.
Speaker:I like when they come to me,
Speaker:do I have the energy and the interest to pursue it
Speaker:like that or do I shift more of that over to
Speaker:funny by Lake Barre?
Speaker:It's funny because I've been doing this other business for 22
Speaker:years and when people introduce me,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:like networking things,
Speaker:they always introduce me as a comedian Because that's so you
Speaker:Larry. I mean it's so natural.
Speaker:I knew you were from your other first,
Speaker:but there was always that element of humor to you in
Speaker:your personality overall.
Speaker:I totally get that.
Speaker:Well when they know that I do or that I have
Speaker:funny by the Lake,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:I get booked at clubs and I do private stuff and
Speaker:I am a writer and all that.
Speaker:Knowing the two businesses I have,
Speaker:when they introduced me to somebody,
Speaker:like at a networking event or just out when we just
Speaker:run into people,
Speaker:they don't say this is Larry Blum from ATI creative consulting.
Speaker:No, they'd say Larry bloom,
Speaker:he's a comedian and he does a funnier by the Lake.
Speaker:They always introduced me as that.
Speaker:It's almost like where do I put my energy and then
Speaker:what do people even want from me at this point?
Speaker:Think of me as the latter.
Speaker:Not the former.
Speaker:Yeah, But you're good at both.
Speaker:And to your point from the very beginning about being on
Speaker:the ride and changing and not knowing what comes,
Speaker:it's not only what comes to you,
Speaker:but what you want to do.
Speaker:And I think that's what I'm hearing from you is you
Speaker:know, where is your passion now?
Speaker:And I know like a lot of your listeners,
Speaker:it's all about taking your hobby and monetizing it or turning
Speaker:it into a job or a career,
Speaker:a business.
Speaker:The interesting thing is a big part of why I'm becoming
Speaker:more successful with funnier by the Lake is because I'm not
Speaker:just trying to book me at places and I'm not just
Speaker:trying to book shows and just bring comedians.
Speaker:I'm taking what I've done for 30 years basically,
Speaker:which is the branding and the marketing,
Speaker:all of that.
Speaker:And I'm bringing that into the package of what we offer.
Speaker:So like when we go to a new venue,
Speaker:when we decide to do a show,
Speaker:I brand the show,
Speaker:I name it based on the venue.
Speaker:So like,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:we do show it to max and Betty's,
Speaker:we've been doing,
Speaker:we're at the end of the year a traditional Jewish deli.
Speaker:So the show is called the comedy notch.
Speaker:That makes sense.
Speaker:Yeah, Yeah.
Speaker:No, it's beautiful.
Speaker:You're combining two things that you do well and that you
Speaker:have been passionate about and come naturally to you and that
Speaker:makes you very unique onto yourself with that combo together.
Speaker:Yeah. And then you know,
Speaker:so I brand it and then I do all collateral materials.
Speaker:I design it and then you know,
Speaker:I give that to the venue and we can either actually
Speaker:create a printed materials for them to use or they could
Speaker:do it themselves,
Speaker:but they don't have to worry about the design and the
Speaker:branding and they also don't have to worry about how to
Speaker:promote it.
Speaker:I also consult on how to promote the shows.
Speaker:I promoted through my own channels through funny by the Lake,
Speaker:but then how to get them to do it right as
Speaker:well. And that's what a lot of people,
Speaker:especially younger people,
Speaker:they just don't know just because they're younger,
Speaker:they just don't have that experience.
Speaker:So when we're bringing that show to a venue,
Speaker:cause all I deal with it,
Speaker:bring it to venues is all these restaurants they might have.
Speaker:What's the day of the week that you struggle?
Speaker:What day is that?
Speaker:Tuesday, Thursday,
Speaker:Sunday, whatever it is.
Speaker:Yeah, let's do a show there.
Speaker:Instead of having an empty restaurant,
Speaker:let's bring 50 or a hundred people in there and then
Speaker:capitalize on that,
Speaker:promote it before it happens,
Speaker:promoted while it's happening and promoted after it happens.
Speaker:And then now,
Speaker:yeah, they've paid us to do the show,
Speaker:but they've just got exponentially marketing value out of that.
Speaker:Absolutely. And so I guess my,
Speaker:the point I started out with is your audience is trying
Speaker:to segue into taking a hobby or craft and turning it
Speaker:into a job or a career or some sort of business.
Speaker:And it's like you don't just shut off what you had
Speaker:done previously.
Speaker:And I always think back to,
Speaker:there's a book that I recommend to people who when they're
Speaker:in between jobs and they might be kind of worried or
Speaker:flailing and,
Speaker:and there's a book I recommend all the time.
Speaker:It's a very quick read.
Speaker:It's called how Starbucks saved my life.
Speaker:It's about a guy,
Speaker:he's in his sixties everything came very easy to him.
Speaker:He was in marketing and advertising agencies very high up his
Speaker:entire, he was kind of born into privilege and he was
Speaker:always at the top of these firms and then it all
Speaker:fell apart.
Speaker:Like the firm he was with got sold.
Speaker:And his friend who started it was no longer there.
Speaker:And then he got laid off and he had nothing to
Speaker:do. You used to dress up like he was going to
Speaker:work and he would go to Starbucks every day and just
Speaker:sit and he didn't know what to do.
Speaker:And then one day one of the young women who was
Speaker:like the manager,
Speaker:Starbucks was putting up a sign,
Speaker:it was going to be like a job fair Starbucks and
Speaker:she joked,
Speaker:you want to fill out an application?
Speaker:And he said,
Speaker:yeah, actually I do.
Speaker:And so he did that.
Speaker:He ended up working at Starbucks.
Speaker:And the thing that always reminds me of it is down
Speaker:the line,
Speaker:he started using all the stuff he had known as being
Speaker:a marketing and an advertising person to help the Starbucks to
Speaker:create events,
Speaker:to help people who work there with their presentations.
Speaker:And so he didn't just shut off everything he had done
Speaker:previously. He used that in the new phase of his life
Speaker:and his work.
Speaker:And that's what your people have to know.
Speaker:It's not like,
Speaker:Oh, I'm not just chucking my job as an accountant to
Speaker:do a gift business,
Speaker:because you know what?
Speaker:That experience as an accountant is actually going to give you
Speaker:an advantage over somebody who's really good at the gift stuff,
Speaker:but has no idea how to manage the finances of a
Speaker:business and that's going to give them such an edge.
Speaker:And again,
Speaker:to me it's like I get a lot of credit for
Speaker:how I produce and promote the shows and it's because I
Speaker:have a system to do it.
Speaker:And I have a system because I've been doing this for
Speaker:decades. Marketing and creating messaging and branding and creating effective collateral
Speaker:that looks like it's,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:the, when people see it,
Speaker:they know this is a real thing.
Speaker:I want to go to this thing.
Speaker:It's not some ramshackle thing that someone just threw together.
Speaker:Right. I mean this last comment that you just talked about
Speaker:in terms of what's your experience,
Speaker:what else do you bring to the table?
Speaker:It might not look like it connects,
Speaker:but it can be so powerful in terms of your advantage
Speaker:going forward because people don't have the same experience that you
Speaker:do. So that is golden.
Speaker:Larry, thank you so much for that.
Speaker:So how can any of our listeners who want to know
Speaker:more about you or if they're in the Chicago area perhaps
Speaker:they want to come see you perform.
Speaker:Yeah, I'm a really accessible online through funnier by the Lake,
Speaker:so I've got funny about lake.com
Speaker:it's got all the information about what we do as far
Speaker:as like events coming up and also services that we offer
Speaker:because one of the things that we offer is helping people
Speaker:like punch up their presentations and their pitches and their content
Speaker:to make it interesting.
Speaker:So that actually might help your constituents of the podcast.
Speaker:All that can be found as well as clips of me
Speaker:doing some comedy in my bio and all that@funnierbyblake.com
Speaker:you can also follow funny by the Lake on Instagram and
Speaker:Facebook just look up funny by Lake or the links are
Speaker:actually on the funnier by Lake that com website and then
Speaker:also you know if you're a business and you're local to
Speaker:Chicago, the Chicago area and you want to actually be a
Speaker:part of it and you're not funny,
Speaker:you can actually attach your business to sponsoring shows.
Speaker:You can actually sponsor shows which gets you pulled into our,
Speaker:what I always referred to as shameless promotions.
Speaker:I'm a shameless promoter,
Speaker:so if anyone wants to be a part of a show,
Speaker:get some exposure for that.
Speaker:Just even be a part of like the industry of what
Speaker:we're doing.
Speaker:They can actually sponsor shows or if they have a venue,
Speaker:doesn't have to be a restaurant,
Speaker:doesn't have to be an entertainment venue.
Speaker:We've done shows in all sorts of weird spaces where we
Speaker:can set up a show and then that again is just
Speaker:an amazing marketing tool.
Speaker:It gives you a reason to promote your business and get
Speaker:people who don't know your business in the doors.
Speaker:And again,
Speaker:it's something what I preach is it gives you something to
Speaker:promote weight before it's happening,
Speaker:while it's happening and after it happens.
Speaker:So those are all things that you can learn about it
Speaker:funnier by lake.com
Speaker:Perfect. Yeah.
Speaker:And I saw you actually at a yarn shop perform at
Speaker:one point.
Speaker:Yes, We did like a Friday afternoon after hours.
Speaker:That's a good example because I knew the owner of that
Speaker:shop and I walked in there and I always look at
Speaker:every space and see like,
Speaker:Oh, could this be a space we could do something?
Speaker:And the hook for her was she really needed help with
Speaker:getting people to know that our business existed.
Speaker:So they had this community thing where they're doing it on,
Speaker:I think on a Friday or Thursday.
Speaker:I don't know what the day was.
Speaker:It was a Friday night.
Speaker:Friday. Yeah.
Speaker:And so my kind of pitched her was like instead of
Speaker:just doing hors d'oeuvres and drinks that people come in here
Speaker:for five minutes and wander out.
Speaker:Let's do a show here and then,
Speaker:Oh by the way,
Speaker:let's think of a cause a local cause,
Speaker:a charity and we'll make the show taking money for that.
Speaker:So now you've got like three reasons for people to come
Speaker:here. It's part of this community event.
Speaker:It's to get people in your doors in general to watch
Speaker:comedy and it's to support this cause that you want to
Speaker:support. I don't know which one you are at.
Speaker:We did two there.
Speaker:The first one was packed.
Speaker:It was packed.
Speaker:That's the one I was at.
Speaker:And you know,
Speaker:it wasn't a huge,
Speaker:huge venue either.
Speaker:So if you're a brick and mortar and ears perked up
Speaker:at this idea,
Speaker:you don't have to have a huge location either.
Speaker:You can just pack the area you have,
Speaker:I would say Nan,
Speaker:she must've had like 40 60 people there.
Speaker:And it was a small venue.
Speaker:Yeah. And again,
Speaker:it doesn't have to be like a place where you've done
Speaker:events. You don't have to have event lighting or sound.
Speaker:We actually could bring lighting and sound.
Speaker:It's not a big deal.
Speaker:It's just if you have the space to fit a few
Speaker:dozen people that you move some stuff out of the way,
Speaker:you put some chairs down.
Speaker:You know what?
Speaker:When people go to those things,
Speaker:they're kind of prepared.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:people come in,
Speaker:they stand on the sides.
Speaker:I used to do a show in Highland park at the
Speaker:tea house that Billy Corgan owned.
Speaker:I did it for almost three years and there weren't a
Speaker:lot of seats in there,
Speaker:but we filled the place every time and people gladly just
Speaker:kind of stood along the sides and watched the show.
Speaker:Right. You don't have to be intimidated by like,
Speaker:well, this isn't an event space.
Speaker:No. If you've got space,
Speaker:if you have square footage,
Speaker:we can do something.
Speaker:We can create a quote unquote stage area and we could
Speaker:make it look and actually be a show and everyone will
Speaker:have a good time.
Speaker:Oh, gift biz listeners.
Speaker:I want you guys to go back and listen to this
Speaker:last five minutes,
Speaker:like rewind and listen right now and you're going to see
Speaker:Larry pointing out not only with his business but also this
Speaker:outside venue,
Speaker:multiple ways that you can add additional areas of monetization to
Speaker:your business.
Speaker:So this was fabulous in terms of a perfect demonstration.
Speaker:Lots of great ideas.
Speaker:So rewind,
Speaker:come back forward.
Speaker:Larry, thank you so much.
Speaker:This has been absolutely fabulous.
Speaker:I'm so glad we had an opportunity to get together and
Speaker:chat. Well,
Speaker:I appreciate you having me on.
Speaker:Thanks. Okay,
Speaker:gift biz listeners.
Speaker:I encourage you now when an opportunity comes right in front
Speaker:of you,
Speaker:say yes,
Speaker:go to those networking meetings,
Speaker:sign up for a farmer's market or a craft show that
Speaker:you've been thinking about but just haven't conjured up the courage
Speaker:to do.
Speaker:It's all out there waiting for you and you can see
Speaker:just by Larry's example that you not necessarily ready when you
Speaker:say yes,
Speaker:don't wait to be ready.
Speaker:Say yes and then prepare and make yourself ready and I
Speaker:guarantee you miraculous things will happen up next week.
Speaker:We're looking at a product development success story.
Speaker:Do you have an idea brewing in the back of your
Speaker:mind but have no idea how you'd ever get from that
Speaker:idea that you're thinking about to actually holding in your hand
Speaker:the product that you envision?
Speaker:If so,
Speaker:then you absolutely must listen in next Monday.
Speaker:Meanwhile, make it a great week and I look forward to
Speaker:being together again.
Speaker:Then bye for now.
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