088: The Unexpected Loneliness of Parenting Teens // Tiffany and Allyson from The Sisterhood Podcast
It\'s TEEN MONTH at 3 in 30, and I’m so excited to kick it off with two of my motherhood mentors, Tiffany Sowby and Allyson Reynolds, who I met about seven years ago when I worked for the organization Power of Moms.
The transition into motherhood and the different stages of it often comes with unexpected loneliness. As our children get older, their needs change, and they need us in different ways than they did when they were young.
Tiffany and Allison have 9 children between them, ranging in age from 21 down to 10 years old, and according to them, \"What is hard when kids are little is easy when they’re older, and what is easy when they’re little can be challenging as they get older.\"
Today, Tiffany and Allyson are sharing three takeaways for combating \"the unexpected loneliness of parenting teens\":
Find friends in real life you can trust. Unlike so much of the parenting advice that comes through social media, sharing the heavier things requires privacy and connection.
Seek out resources that are available, including professional help. Book, blogs, and podcasts are easier to find for moms of young children, but they are still out there for moms of teens! And everyone needs a therapist!
Enjoy the good. Even though your teens aren\'t with you as often, it is truly FUN when they are: in these years, you get to develop your friendship with them and see their unique personalities emerge.