In this episode of This Daring Adventure podcast, I introduce my new three-month coaching program, Unstuck.
I share the inspiration behind the program and discusses the four core pillars: self-concept, cognitive mastery and emotional resilience, relationship with self, and future self, and I explain how these pillars help individuals overcome fear, self-doubt, and inaction, leading to a more intentional and fulfilling life.
KEY MOMENTS:
00:36 Introducing the Unstuck Program
01:10 The Push and Pull of Change
03:11 The Importance of Coaching
05:58 Understanding Your Mindset
13:52 The Four Pillars of Unstuck
17:23 Self-Concept and Cognitive Mastery
18:54 Emotional Resilience and Relationship with Self
27:10 Defining Your Future Self
28:37 Taking Bold Action
34:18 Conclusion and Next Steps
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UNSTUCK is a transformational 12-week coaching experience designed for women who are ready to break free from overwhelm, frustration, and self-doubt for good.
You’ll gain the tools, skills, and self-trust to confidently navigate life’s challenges and coach yourself long after the program ends.
With personalized 1:1 support, actionable strategies, and sustainable change, this program will empower you to step into the life you truly want.
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Welcome to This Daring Adventure podcast,
where we work on bridging the gap between
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:where we are and where we want to be in
order to live a bigger and bolder life.
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:In this podcast, we will provide
inspiration, tips, and skills
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:you need to make your life the
adventure you want it to be.
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:Here's your host, mindset mentor
and life coach, Trista Guertin.
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:Trista: Hey, hi, everybody.
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:Welcome back to This Daring Adventure.
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:Today, I wanted to share a bit about
my new program, Unstuck, with you.
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:It's my new three month coaching
program, and I'm excited to tell you a
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:little bit about it, just so you get an
overview and tell you a little bit about
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:the next steps, if you're interested.
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:As I said, it's called Unstuck.
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:It is a three month coaching program
that includes 12 private sessions
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:with me, each 50 minutes long.
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:And I also wanted to give you a bit of
the background as to why I created it.
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:And, when I started coaching, I learned
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:And it gave me not only a completely
different way of looking at my life,
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:but for showing up in my life and it
helped me to have this perspective
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:that the possibilities existed,
that my capacity was unlimited, and
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:that I didn't have to stay the same.
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:And I think we all have this kind of nudge
inside of us that, Pushes us as human
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:beings to, to evolve and to grow and to do
things differently and to try new things.
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:Otherwise, we wouldn't
have evolved as a species.
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:We would have just been still living
in the caves, not exploring, not
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:taking adventures, not learning
and growing and inventing things.
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:So we all have this inside of us, but
we all respond differently to it, and
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:part of that has to do with the way
we grew up, with the way we've been
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:socialized and programmed, and the
way our primitive part of our brain
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:operates, because the primitive part
of our brain is trying to keep us
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:alive, it's trying to keep us safe.
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:And it's risk adverse.
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:It doesn't want to change.
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:It doesn't want to try anything new.
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:It doesn't want to learn anything new.
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:And it certainly doesn't
want to expend any energy.
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:So we have this push
and pull inside of us.
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:You want to go out, you want to try
new things, you want to do something
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:different, but then you've got this
fear and the doubt and the overwhelm.
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:Pulling you back and saying,
Oh, that's a little bit risky.
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:It's safer to stay where you are.
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:It's safer to play small and
just keep things the same instead
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:of striking out and risking.
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:Your brain thinks it's doing you a
favor and keeping you safe, but in
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:actual fact, it's just holding you back.
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:It is just keeping you playing.
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:small.
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:So that's some of the things that we
work on in coaching and I think that's
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:one of the most important things that I
learned and that I share with my clients
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:is that you don't have to stay stuck and
that you can outgrow a life and that it
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:makes sense that your life doesn't fit you
anymore, especially when we reach midlife,
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:our purpose, our situations change, our
interests change, and It's okay, it makes
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:sense, it's normal, but it can be really
challenging to move forward, to decide
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:what it is we want, and to create it.
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:So this is what my program is all about.
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:Now for me, I was in a job, in
a relationship, in a situation,
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:and that I was unsure of.
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:That I was not satisfied.
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:I was actually very deeply frustrated
and just at my wit's end when I signed up
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:for coaching and it really did help me to
think differently, to feel differently,
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:and to show up differently in my life.
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:And this has to do with my mindset.
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:And the way I manage my mind and what
I'm thinking, it has to do with how I've
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:learned how to be with my emotions and to
allow and to process them and to generate
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:the ones, the emotions that I do want.
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:And then to take aligned action, take
massive action, to take bold action, to
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:create goals and to go after what I want.
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:Now I'm still human.
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:Which means I'm still subject to all
of the emotions, negative, positive.
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:I still get frustrated and I still have
my moments of doubt and whatnot, but
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:I don't stay stuck in them anymore.
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:And that's the beauty of coaching.
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:You don't have to stay stuck.
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:And I teach you and help you to
get unstuck for good, because once
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:you have these tools, you will
start to move yourself forward.
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:And once you have a coach, you have
that support, someone to walk with
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:you and support you and show you
things that you can't see on your own.
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:You cannot read the label from
inside the box, or a hairdresser
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:cannot cut their own hair.
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:You need the help when you're in those,
that mindset, when you're in those
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:thought loops and you're thinking the
same thoughts that got you to this point.
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:You need some help to change those
and you need some help to process
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:those emotions and give you that
accountability to take action.
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:But okay, let's dive in and let me
tell you a little bit about my program.
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:I have been working with women
who have been feeling stuck.
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:And they're feeling a great deal of
overwhelm and fear and frustration.
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:They feel like they're not doing it right.
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:They feel like maybe there's
something wrong with them.
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:And there's definitely a very strong
internal struggle going on there.
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:And that's very normal.
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:As I mentioned, it happens,
particularly in midlife, but
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:it can happen at any point.
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:But, it could be because you're
just searching for a purpose that
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:you feel like maybe you don't
have or that you want to change.
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:Maybe you're going through a
divorce or some sort of breakup.
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:Maybe you want to switch careers, you want
to switch jobs, you want to switch cities.
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:Maybe it's all of the above sometimes.
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:And that's okay.
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:This is very normal to
get stuck and be unsure.
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:And It's a part of our human
experience, nothing has gone wrong,
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:but it's just knowing the right tools
and skills and getting the right
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:support to move you through that.
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:And we, again, have that
push and pull inside of us.
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:And I say, if you're feeling like you're
meant for more, it is because you are.
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:We experience the fear and the
doubt because we have this push,
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:this nudge inside of us to do
more and to challenge ourselves,
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:but our brain will hold us back.
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:And what happens is that we land up
spinning in circles because we have
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:the same beliefs, the same habits,
the same values, the same thought
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:patterns that we've had for many years.
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:And it's your thinking and those beliefs
that got you to where you are today.
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:Not a bad thing, not a good
thing, just what it is.
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:But if you want to make changes,
you have to change your thinking.
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:You have to change the way you're feeling
and you have to change the action.
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:But the root cause always comes
down to what you're thinking.
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:And how is it affecting your
emotions, and how is that, in
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:turn, driving your actions?
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:So We need to have that awareness,
and we need to have that clarity.
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:it's your thinking that got
you to where you are today.
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:And if you want to change, if you
want to move yourself forward, if you
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:want to go after that next big goal,
then you have to change your thinking.
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:You're going to have to feel
differently, and you're going to have
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:to show up differently in your life.
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:And that's what coaching does for us.
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:Basically what happens is we believe all
of the thoughts that our brain offers us.
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:And it offers us a lot of thoughts.
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:It's up to 60, 000 thoughts per day.
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:Most of them are the same from the
day before and the day before that.
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:Most of them, they're not true.
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:They are not helpful.
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:And so when that happens, we need to
have that awareness of what's going on.
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:Because we just tend to believe
those thoughts that our brain
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:offers us, and they in turn become
beliefs, which can be very limiting.
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:Because again, they're not true.
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:And we base them on things that we've
held onto for Decades, something that our
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:mother said to us when we were five, or
something that a teacher said to us when
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:we were 12, or an experience that we had,
maybe we failed a French class and so we
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:believe that we can't speak French, that
we can't learn languages, or that we're
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:always going to have to watch our weight,
or money and success is a struggle.
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:We pick these things up along the way.
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:And we hold on to them and
when we believe them, it has an
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:impact on the way we show up.
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:so we really need to be aware of
what's going on, otherwise, we
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:will remain trapped in a life that
no longer fits us and that we're
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:stuck and not able to change.
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:And that results in a deep
sense of dissatisfaction.
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:Feeling like there, there should be more.
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:That we're missing out on something.
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:That there is a lack of
direction and clarity.
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:We have no idea what we want
next or how to find out.
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:We maybe have a fear of wasted time.
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:Worrying, stressing that if we don't
act now, we'll just spend another
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:five to ten years in the same place.
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:And I think that's very
common that happens.
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:We become exhausted emotionally
because we're overthinking everything.
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:We're second guessing ourselves
and we just feel drained from
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:all the stress that we're putting
on and going on in our minds.
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:There's a loss of confidence.
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:We don't trust ourselves to
make the right decisions.
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:There may be some guilt and some shame.
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:There's a lot of messaging, especially to
women, about being selfish, for wanting
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:more, when maybe we already have so much,
which will keep us from taking action.
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:And then there is the fear of
regret, a panic of staying stuck,
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:which is starting to feel worse
than the fear of making a change.
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:And this isn't just an inconvenience,
this is an identity level crisis
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:that will affect every part of
our lives- career, relationships,
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:joy, happiness, and our future.
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:So this is why we want to solve for this
now, because I see some women coming back
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:year after year, not taking the action,
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:not getting the help and the
support that they need and
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:remaining in the exact same place.
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:time does pass very quickly.
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:And if we don't take the action
to make the changes that we want,
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:we risk waking up five years
from now in the exact same spot.
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:but then we just have even less confidence
and energy and excitement for life.
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:We lose the connection with ourselves.
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:Our relationship with ourselves is one
of the most important relationships
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:we will ever have, but we just
land up doing what's expected of
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:us instead of what we truly want.
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:And we live a smaller, quieter life
convincing ourselves that this is
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:enough when deep down we know it's not.
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:And then we use Netflix and we use
shopping and we use wine and we use
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:drugs and we use whatever it is, food,
ice cream, chips, to numb ourselves
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:so that we don't have to feel that
feeling and just make it through
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:another Friday night on the couch.
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:We may be watching other people reinvent
themselves or build new careers and find
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:new passions, while we ourselves stay
stuck thinking that's not for us, that
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:it's not possible for us, when in fact it
is, but we just don't know how to do it.
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:And We can start to feel, especially
in midlife, that we've run out of
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:time, that it's too late for ourselves.
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:And so this is why you want to take
action and you want to move forward
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:and start to open up the possibility
and tap into the capacity that you
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:have to create whatever it is you want.
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:You have someone to show you the way.
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:And instead of reacting to everything
that's going on in your life, or your
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:world, in your mind, you can get a
different perspective, you can get
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:that shift, and you start to live a
life that is more aligned with what you
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:want, and you become more intentional.
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:You become more purposeful in a way
that you are able to decide what it is
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:you want, go after it, and create it.
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:You're no longer just overthinking and
not taking the action that you want.
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:The work that I do at UNSTUCK is based
on four pillars, I have designed, for
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:each session, something that I will teach
you about, a tool, a skill, a concept,
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:that You will be able to use for the rest
of your life But it is based on these
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:four pillars that I think are core to
not just getting ourselves unstuck But
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:really just living life to the fullest
and if that's what you're interested in
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:This is the work that you want to do.
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:The first pillar is our self concept
It has to do with what we're thinking
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:about ourselves, what we believe about
ourselves, the story that we tell about
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:ourselves, about our life, about our
past, about what's possible for us.
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:It's based on our habits,
our values, our beliefs.
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:And it goes unexamined for years, decades.
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:It is things that we picked up when
we were children, when we were young
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:adults, as we've gone through life.
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:Nothing wrong with that per se.
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:But it may no longer be serving us.
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:It may not be helpful.
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:We start off as children with brains
that are still maturing and still
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:becoming more sophisticated, and they
just absorb everything around them.
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:And it's trying to make sense of things
the best it can and to keep us safe.
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:But, as we get older, as we develop,
as we become adults and have greater
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:capacity, greater maturity, greater
sophistication to take care of ourselves,
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:we have to examine some of these things
and decide whether we want to keep them.
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:Otherwise, we are just holding on
to them and they will hold us back.
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:So we need to develop new beliefs.
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:We need to tell ourselves a story
about what's possible for us and
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:our past that is serving us, that
is helpful, that is strengthening.
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:We want to consciously choose our
values so that they can help us to
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:make decisions on the actions that
we want to take on a daily basis.
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:And we want to develop new habits
so that they are helping us to move
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:forward and to achieve our goals.
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:We really want to examine the story
that we're telling about ourselves
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:about what we can do and what
we can't do and how hard it is.
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:A lot of these things may be unconscious.
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:And
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:We really want to bring those out and
examine them and understand that The more
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:empowering the story that we tell about
ourselves and what's possible for us, the
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:better we will be in moving towards that.
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:Because when you're telling a
story to yourself about how you've
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:failed, how what's possible is
simply based on what you've done
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:before, your brain, you believe that.
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:And then it keeps you stuck.
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:It will hold you back.
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:Because your brain won't look, You
won't try to do anything differently.
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:You won't try anything new.
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:You won't try to do more.
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:Next, we want to look at our
cognitive abilities, which goes
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:back to understanding and having an
awareness around what we're thinking
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:and our mindset and why our brain
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:is offering us those thoughts
and what we can do about it.
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:Having that awareness, having an
understanding of how it impacts us, how it
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:impacts our emotions and how it drives our
actions and how important our mindset is.
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:Again, just like the story that we tell
about ourselves, we want to be really
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:clear on what we're thinking and learning
how to do some of the daily work to
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:clean that up, to make sure that we
have this awareness of what's going on
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:in our minds, whether it's helpful and
whether we want to think something new.
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:You need to manage your mind.
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:Otherwise it will manage you.
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:Our brain, that primitive part
of our brain is like a toddler
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:with a knife, as my coach said.
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:It needs to be supervised.
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:It needs to be managed.
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:Otherwise it will focus on the negative.
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:It will tell you all of the problems.
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:It will keep you stuck in that fear
mode that isn't going to serve you.
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:So you want to clean that up
and then decide intentionally
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:what you want to think.
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:All of those 60, 000 thoughts
per day are not helpful.
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:They're not true and we
want to clean that up.
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:Then we want to look at our emotions
and our emotional resiliency.
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:The cognitive mastery, looking at the
mindset and what we're thinking and
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:the emotions that we feel go together.
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:They are hand in hand and they
are just equally as important.
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:We want to learn how to be
with our emotions because we're
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:not taught how to do that.
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:Most of us are either reacting, we're
resisting, or we're trying to numb
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:ourselves to not feel the emotions.
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:We want to be able to experience those
emotions knowing that we're safe,
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:knowing that nothing has gone wrong,
knowing that they are just a part of our
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:human experience, and that we can move
through them, some faster than others.
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:It's not a game, it's not to see
how quickly we can get through them,
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:but Certainly, the less we resist
them, the more we allow them, we
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:facilitate their passing through us.
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:Just experience them.
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:Because what you resist persists.
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:when we resist these emotions that
we're feeling, they do persist.
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:And in fact, they do grow stronger.
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:And the key getting through any
experiences to allow those emotions,
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:because everything we do or don't do
is based on an emotion that either we
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:want to feel or we're trying to avoid.
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:And if you want to grow, if you want to
take yourself to the next level, you want
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:to be able to experience those emotions.
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:So you're not giving into the fear.
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:You're not giving into the doubt.
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:You're not giving into the overwhelm.
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:You can face disappointment.
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:You can face rejection.
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:You can face anger and get through
it to the other side and keep going.
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:We also want to be very clear about how
your thoughts are creating these emotions.
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:We're not taught that.
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:We think we are experiencing emotions
based on what's going on in the world,
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:but in fact, it is our interpretation
of our circumstances and our
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:thoughts about those circumstances
that are creating our emotions.
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:So cognitive mastery, the
mindset work, And the emotional
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:resiliency go hand in hand.
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:We want to learn how to be with those
emotions, not be at the effect of them
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:and understand how our emotions are
going to drive our actions or inactions.
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:We want to expand our capacity to
experience all of the emotions.
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:And this is what we learn in coaching
so that we're not just sitting around
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:watching 10 hours of Netflix, eating
pints of ice cream, drinking bottles
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:of wine, shopping online, playing games
for hours or whatever it is that has
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:a net negative effect on our lives.
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:We learn how to be with these emotions
and then ultimately we learn how to
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:generate those emotions in order to
fuel the actions that we want to take.
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:A lot of my clients come and they are
feeling like they, they don't take
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:the actions that they want to take.
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:Maybe they finally make a decision
about what they want, but they can't
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:show up and ultimately take those
actions to move themselves forward.
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:This is because of what you're
thinking and what you're feeling.
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:And once you get a handle on that
and you have the tools and the skills
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:to understand what's going on and
then Intentionally create those
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:thoughts and feelings for yourself.
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:That's when you move yourself forward
And then we can learn how to create
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:determination and motivation and
excitement and joy for ourselves.
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:We're not depending on
external circumstances.
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:We know that this is something
that we create for ourselves.
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:And then the willingness to feel any
emotion combined with this conscious
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:decision making are two of the best
skills that you can learn because when
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:you decide that you're going to do
something big, you're going to change
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:your life, you're going to change careers,
you're going to change your jobs, you're
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:going to change your relationship.
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:Something big and amazing.
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:It's going to bring up all of this emotion
and you will want to avoid feeling it.
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:And then you will stay stuck in inaction,
you're going to go back to deciding not
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:to do those things again, but if you
make a big decision about your life,
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:and you're willing to experience all
of that emotion that comes with it,
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:that's when you're going to change.
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:That's when you're willing to feel the
discomfort of change because you don't
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:make it such a big deal That's when
you create the life you want That's
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:when you get unstuck and you know how
to repeat this process over and over
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:again So that you're never stuck again
the third pillar is your relationship
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:with yourself, which, as I mentioned
previously, it's the most important
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:relationship you will ever have, and this
is the foundation on which we build the
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:lives that we want and become the people
that we want to become, and it includes
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:something just like liking yourself.
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:Have you ever asked
yourself that question?
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:Do you like yourself?
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:I've had clients who have asked that
question too, and They've never thought
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:about it before, and when they do think
about it, they don't like themselves.
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:And so this is the starting point, because
how are you going to create anything
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:in your life that you truly want if
you don't like yourself, if you don't
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:have the self confidence, if you don't
have the self love and the self trust?
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:With all of these, you ultimately learn
that you can have your own back, you
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:can take care of yourself, and you will
not be looking externally to fill the
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:voids that exist, you're not looking for
someone to to value you or appreciate
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:you or support you, you can ask for
those things and you may receive them,
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:but they are not the blocks to creating
the life that you want and becoming
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:the person that you want to become.
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:You can evolve, and you can grow,
and you can take on new challenges,
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:and you know how to support
yourself through the process.
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:And that's when you become unstoppable.
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:Because the fear, and the doubt,
and the overwhelm, and the
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:disappointment will come up when
you're going after something new.
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:Now you know how to manage your
mind, you know how to be with your
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:emotions, and you'll know how to
support and love yourself through it.
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:You will have that self trust, and this
is important because otherwise you will
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:not be able to go to that next level.
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:And why do we want to
go to that next level?
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:For me, it comes down to a purpose.
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:And definitely this is something
that we cover in Unstuck, having
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:that purpose to see what's
possible for myself and my life.
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:I want to see what I'm capable of.
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:And that's why we're here.
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:That's why we have this opportunity.
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:Let's see what we can do with it.
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:But If you do not support yourself,
then you will not manage your mind,
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:you will not be with your emotions, you
will not be intentionally directing your
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:mind and your thoughts to create the
emotions you need to take the action,
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:and then when something comes up, you
will beat yourself up, you will judge
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:yourself, you'll criticize yourself,
and you will not enjoy the process.
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:And in fact, you will just go back and
just convince yourself not to continue.
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that, then you have all of the power.
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mastery and emotional resilience.
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relationship with yourself.
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pillar is the future self.
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interesting work we can do because that's
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we want and who it is we want to become.
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through life, if you ask them
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you're certainly not going to create it.
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to your circumstances.
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takes you where it will.
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year after year, the same day after
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without any direction, without
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that, and that's okay.
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to be able to define what it is you
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and then you have the tools and the
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pillars to move yourself forward and
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a plan, you have a direction, so
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aligned action, you're able to
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out what the steps are.
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:So what we do in Unstuck is that when we
find ourselves in a life that no longer
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in, that we are no longer satisfied
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to make significant changes, and we're
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:This program is designed to help you get
that clarity and to give you the tools and
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:You'll get that clarity
around what it is you want.
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:It will develop the calm with
the cognitive mastery and
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:You will have that certainty that you
can support yourself and have that
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and change and have your own back
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develop the confidence that you need
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and skills to take the aligned action,
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spending years of overthinking or regret.
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forget everything you think you know about
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guarantee you will never feel stuck again.
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:What are our limiting beliefs that we
have picked up and kept through the years?
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:What is the story that we're telling
ourselves that is keeping us stuck?
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we have, but most of us are not aware.
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so I'm not going to pretend to
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understanding and starting to use
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to make significant changes.
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that got us to where we are now.
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giving in to the fear.
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:Learning these tools and skills
will create lasting change.
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:We're not just addressing the action.
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change, and they're so focused on the
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not aware of what they're thinking,
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going to drive that action or inaction.
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:This process doesn't take a lot of
time, it's not complicated, but it is a
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need to practice and it is something
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:that you will practice for the rest
of your life Which I think is really
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possibilities are endless and you will
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:Coaching literally is one of the
best investments you can make in
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your future I have been getting
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:coached for the past five years.
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:I get coached regularly.
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:I plan to get coached for the
rest of my life because I know
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:that having this support is key
to creating the life I want.
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:Just because you have a human brain,
and as long as you have a human brain,
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:crappy thoughts are going to come up.
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:Situations will happen.
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:But you don't have to be at
the effect of all of those.
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:You don't have to believe those thoughts.
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:And the better support you have and
the better tools and skills that
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to have that awareness and think
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:So if you're feeling like your life has
plateaued, if you're feeling like you're
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make decisions, you're unable to take the
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:actions that you say you want to take.
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:If you're feeling disconnected
from yourself and from your life.
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confidence and constantly doubting
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:This is where you want to be.
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:And this is why I created Unstuck.
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:You are not alone.
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:This is part of our human experience.
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:What is happening to
you is perfectly normal.
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:There's nothing wrong with you.
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:You're 100 percent worthy.
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:You can do this.
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:You can make the changes that you want.
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:You just need the right support.
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:you can start to live your
life more intentionally and
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:Unstuck, three months, 12 sessions,
private one to one sessions with me on
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:a weekly basis to learn these pivotal,
important, amazing tools and skills
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:that you want to create the life,
ultimately, that is inside of you.
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:Becoming that person that is inside
of you that you know you want to be.
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:We're going to uncover
what's keeping you stuck.
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:Create your purpose and your vision
for your life and then start taking
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:We're going to look at your
thoughts, your beliefs, the
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shift your focus from what's
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:missing to what is possible.
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to what your capacity ultimately is.
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:The possibilities are endless.
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start to think about what it is you
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:want, create that powerful vision that
excites you and brings you energy and
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:It's a lot of fun.
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:It's very powerful work.
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:If you're interested in learning
more, you can head over to my website.
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:The link will be in the show notes.
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:and when you're ready, I invite
you to sign up for a free 50 minute
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me to try coaching for yourself.
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:Learn about the program and by the end
of the call you'll have clarity on why
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:you're stuck and what to do next and how
to stop waiting and take bold action.
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:Let's talk about where you are and
what you might want for yourself.
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:These sessions are fun.
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:They're informal.
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:They don't require you to prepare anything
in advance and it's just an opportunity to
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:Alright, so that's what
I have for you today.
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:thank you so much for listening
Thank you for being here.
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:I am so excited to share
this work with you.
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:Head over to the show notes, take a
look at the website, sign up for a
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:free coaching session, and let's talk.
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:This work is life changing, I promise you.
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:So take the time, invest in yourself,
and Let's see what's possible.
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:Remember, you don't have to stay stuck.
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:And if you're feeling like you're
meant for more, it's because you are.
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:All right, I'll see you
in the coaching session.
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:Bye.
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:Thank you for listening to
this daring adventure podcast
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:with your host Trista Guertin.
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:We hope you enjoyed the tips
and conversations on how to
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:get excited about life again.
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:As always, you can head
to tristaguertin.com
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:for additional resources and to
book a one on one coaching session.
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:You can also follow Trista on
Instagram at tristavguertin.
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:Don't forget to subscribe, rate,
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:Thanks again for tuning in
and we'll see you next time.