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How to get UNSTUCK
Episode 1036th February 2025 • This Daring Adventure • Trista Guertin
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In this episode of This Daring Adventure podcast, I introduce my new three-month coaching program, Unstuck.

I share the inspiration behind the program and discusses the four core pillars: self-concept, cognitive mastery and emotional resilience, relationship with self, and future self, and I explain how these pillars help individuals overcome fear, self-doubt, and inaction, leading to a more intentional and fulfilling life.

KEY MOMENTS:

00:36 Introducing the Unstuck Program

01:10 The Push and Pull of Change

03:11 The Importance of Coaching

05:58 Understanding Your Mindset

13:52 The Four Pillars of Unstuck

17:23 Self-Concept and Cognitive Mastery

18:54 Emotional Resilience and Relationship with Self

27:10 Defining Your Future Self

28:37 Taking Bold Action

34:18 Conclusion and Next Steps

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You’ll gain the tools, skills, and self-trust to confidently navigate life’s challenges and coach yourself long after the program ends.

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Speaker:

Welcome to This Daring Adventure podcast,

where we work on bridging the gap between

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where we are and where we want to be in

order to live a bigger and bolder life.

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In this podcast, we will provide

inspiration, tips, and skills

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you need to make your life the

adventure you want it to be.

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Here's your host, mindset mentor

and life coach, Trista Guertin.

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Trista: Hey, hi, everybody.

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Welcome back to This Daring Adventure.

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Today, I wanted to share a bit about

my new program, Unstuck, with you.

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It's my new three month coaching

program, and I'm excited to tell you a

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little bit about it, just so you get an

overview and tell you a little bit about

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the next steps, if you're interested.

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As I said, it's called Unstuck.

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It is a three month coaching program

that includes 12 private sessions

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with me, each 50 minutes long.

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And I also wanted to give you a bit of

the background as to why I created it.

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And, when I started coaching, I learned

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And it gave me not only a completely

different way of looking at my life,

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but for showing up in my life and it

helped me to have this perspective

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that the possibilities existed,

that my capacity was unlimited, and

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that I didn't have to stay the same.

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And I think we all have this kind of nudge

inside of us that, Pushes us as human

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beings to, to evolve and to grow and to do

things differently and to try new things.

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Otherwise, we wouldn't

have evolved as a species.

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We would have just been still living

in the caves, not exploring, not

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taking adventures, not learning

and growing and inventing things.

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So we all have this inside of us, but

we all respond differently to it, and

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part of that has to do with the way

we grew up, with the way we've been

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socialized and programmed, and the

way our primitive part of our brain

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operates, because the primitive part

of our brain is trying to keep us

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alive, it's trying to keep us safe.

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And it's risk adverse.

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It doesn't want to change.

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It doesn't want to try anything new.

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It doesn't want to learn anything new.

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And it certainly doesn't

want to expend any energy.

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So we have this push

and pull inside of us.

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You want to go out, you want to try

new things, you want to do something

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different, but then you've got this

fear and the doubt and the overwhelm.

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Pulling you back and saying,

Oh, that's a little bit risky.

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It's safer to stay where you are.

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It's safer to play small and

just keep things the same instead

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of striking out and risking.

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Your brain thinks it's doing you a

favor and keeping you safe, but in

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actual fact, it's just holding you back.

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It is just keeping you playing.

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small.

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So that's some of the things that we

work on in coaching and I think that's

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one of the most important things that I

learned and that I share with my clients

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is that you don't have to stay stuck and

that you can outgrow a life and that it

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makes sense that your life doesn't fit you

anymore, especially when we reach midlife,

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our purpose, our situations change, our

interests change, and It's okay, it makes

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sense, it's normal, but it can be really

challenging to move forward, to decide

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what it is we want, and to create it.

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So this is what my program is all about.

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Now for me, I was in a job, in

a relationship, in a situation,

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and that I was unsure of.

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That I was not satisfied.

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I was actually very deeply frustrated

and just at my wit's end when I signed up

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for coaching and it really did help me to

think differently, to feel differently,

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and to show up differently in my life.

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And this has to do with my mindset.

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And the way I manage my mind and what

I'm thinking, it has to do with how I've

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learned how to be with my emotions and to

allow and to process them and to generate

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the ones, the emotions that I do want.

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And then to take aligned action, take

massive action, to take bold action, to

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create goals and to go after what I want.

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Now I'm still human.

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Which means I'm still subject to all

of the emotions, negative, positive.

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I still get frustrated and I still have

my moments of doubt and whatnot, but

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I don't stay stuck in them anymore.

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And that's the beauty of coaching.

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You don't have to stay stuck.

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And I teach you and help you to

get unstuck for good, because once

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you have these tools, you will

start to move yourself forward.

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And once you have a coach, you have

that support, someone to walk with

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you and support you and show you

things that you can't see on your own.

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You cannot read the label from

inside the box, or a hairdresser

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cannot cut their own hair.

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You need the help when you're in those,

that mindset, when you're in those

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thought loops and you're thinking the

same thoughts that got you to this point.

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You need some help to change those

and you need some help to process

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those emotions and give you that

accountability to take action.

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But okay, let's dive in and let me

tell you a little bit about my program.

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I have been working with women

who have been feeling stuck.

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And they're feeling a great deal of

overwhelm and fear and frustration.

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They feel like they're not doing it right.

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They feel like maybe there's

something wrong with them.

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And there's definitely a very strong

internal struggle going on there.

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And that's very normal.

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As I mentioned, it happens,

particularly in midlife, but

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it can happen at any point.

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But, it could be because you're

just searching for a purpose that

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you feel like maybe you don't

have or that you want to change.

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Maybe you're going through a

divorce or some sort of breakup.

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Maybe you want to switch careers, you want

to switch jobs, you want to switch cities.

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Maybe it's all of the above sometimes.

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And that's okay.

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This is very normal to

get stuck and be unsure.

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And It's a part of our human

experience, nothing has gone wrong,

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but it's just knowing the right tools

and skills and getting the right

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support to move you through that.

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And we, again, have that

push and pull inside of us.

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And I say, if you're feeling like you're

meant for more, it is because you are.

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We experience the fear and the

doubt because we have this push,

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this nudge inside of us to do

more and to challenge ourselves,

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but our brain will hold us back.

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And what happens is that we land up

spinning in circles because we have

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the same beliefs, the same habits,

the same values, the same thought

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patterns that we've had for many years.

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And it's your thinking and those beliefs

that got you to where you are today.

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Not a bad thing, not a good

thing, just what it is.

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But if you want to make changes,

you have to change your thinking.

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You have to change the way you're feeling

and you have to change the action.

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But the root cause always comes

down to what you're thinking.

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And how is it affecting your

emotions, and how is that, in

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turn, driving your actions?

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So We need to have that awareness,

and we need to have that clarity.

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it's your thinking that got

you to where you are today.

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And if you want to change, if you

want to move yourself forward, if you

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want to go after that next big goal,

then you have to change your thinking.

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You're going to have to feel

differently, and you're going to have

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to show up differently in your life.

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And that's what coaching does for us.

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Basically what happens is we believe all

of the thoughts that our brain offers us.

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And it offers us a lot of thoughts.

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It's up to 60, 000 thoughts per day.

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Most of them are the same from the

day before and the day before that.

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Most of them, they're not true.

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They are not helpful.

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And so when that happens, we need to

have that awareness of what's going on.

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Because we just tend to believe

those thoughts that our brain

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offers us, and they in turn become

beliefs, which can be very limiting.

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Because again, they're not true.

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And we base them on things that we've

held onto for Decades, something that our

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mother said to us when we were five, or

something that a teacher said to us when

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we were 12, or an experience that we had,

maybe we failed a French class and so we

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believe that we can't speak French, that

we can't learn languages, or that we're

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always going to have to watch our weight,

or money and success is a struggle.

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We pick these things up along the way.

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And we hold on to them and

when we believe them, it has an

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impact on the way we show up.

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so we really need to be aware of

what's going on, otherwise, we

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will remain trapped in a life that

no longer fits us and that we're

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stuck and not able to change.

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And that results in a deep

sense of dissatisfaction.

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Feeling like there, there should be more.

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That we're missing out on something.

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That there is a lack of

direction and clarity.

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We have no idea what we want

next or how to find out.

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We maybe have a fear of wasted time.

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Worrying, stressing that if we don't

act now, we'll just spend another

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five to ten years in the same place.

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And I think that's very

common that happens.

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We become exhausted emotionally

because we're overthinking everything.

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We're second guessing ourselves

and we just feel drained from

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all the stress that we're putting

on and going on in our minds.

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There's a loss of confidence.

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We don't trust ourselves to

make the right decisions.

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There may be some guilt and some shame.

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There's a lot of messaging, especially to

women, about being selfish, for wanting

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more, when maybe we already have so much,

which will keep us from taking action.

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And then there is the fear of

regret, a panic of staying stuck,

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which is starting to feel worse

than the fear of making a change.

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And this isn't just an inconvenience,

this is an identity level crisis

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that will affect every part of

our lives- career, relationships,

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joy, happiness, and our future.

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So this is why we want to solve for this

now, because I see some women coming back

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year after year, not taking the action,

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not getting the help and the

support that they need and

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remaining in the exact same place.

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time does pass very quickly.

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And if we don't take the action

to make the changes that we want,

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we risk waking up five years

from now in the exact same spot.

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but then we just have even less confidence

and energy and excitement for life.

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We lose the connection with ourselves.

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Our relationship with ourselves is one

of the most important relationships

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we will ever have, but we just

land up doing what's expected of

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us instead of what we truly want.

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And we live a smaller, quieter life

convincing ourselves that this is

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enough when deep down we know it's not.

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And then we use Netflix and we use

shopping and we use wine and we use

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drugs and we use whatever it is, food,

ice cream, chips, to numb ourselves

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so that we don't have to feel that

feeling and just make it through

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another Friday night on the couch.

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We may be watching other people reinvent

themselves or build new careers and find

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new passions, while we ourselves stay

stuck thinking that's not for us, that

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it's not possible for us, when in fact it

is, but we just don't know how to do it.

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And We can start to feel, especially

in midlife, that we've run out of

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time, that it's too late for ourselves.

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And so this is why you want to take

action and you want to move forward

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and start to open up the possibility

and tap into the capacity that you

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have to create whatever it is you want.

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You have someone to show you the way.

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And instead of reacting to everything

that's going on in your life, or your

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world, in your mind, you can get a

different perspective, you can get

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that shift, and you start to live a

life that is more aligned with what you

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want, and you become more intentional.

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You become more purposeful in a way

that you are able to decide what it is

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you want, go after it, and create it.

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You're no longer just overthinking and

not taking the action that you want.

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The work that I do at UNSTUCK is based

on four pillars, I have designed, for

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each session, something that I will teach

you about, a tool, a skill, a concept,

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that You will be able to use for the rest

of your life But it is based on these

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four pillars that I think are core to

not just getting ourselves unstuck But

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really just living life to the fullest

and if that's what you're interested in

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This is the work that you want to do.

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The first pillar is our self concept

It has to do with what we're thinking

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about ourselves, what we believe about

ourselves, the story that we tell about

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ourselves, about our life, about our

past, about what's possible for us.

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It's based on our habits,

our values, our beliefs.

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And it goes unexamined for years, decades.

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It is things that we picked up when

we were children, when we were young

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adults, as we've gone through life.

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Nothing wrong with that per se.

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But it may no longer be serving us.

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It may not be helpful.

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We start off as children with brains

that are still maturing and still

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becoming more sophisticated, and they

just absorb everything around them.

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And it's trying to make sense of things

the best it can and to keep us safe.

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But, as we get older, as we develop,

as we become adults and have greater

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capacity, greater maturity, greater

sophistication to take care of ourselves,

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we have to examine some of these things

and decide whether we want to keep them.

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Otherwise, we are just holding on

to them and they will hold us back.

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So we need to develop new beliefs.

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We need to tell ourselves a story

about what's possible for us and

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our past that is serving us, that

is helpful, that is strengthening.

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We want to consciously choose our

values so that they can help us to

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make decisions on the actions that

we want to take on a daily basis.

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And we want to develop new habits

so that they are helping us to move

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forward and to achieve our goals.

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We really want to examine the story

that we're telling about ourselves

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about what we can do and what

we can't do and how hard it is.

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A lot of these things may be unconscious.

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And

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We really want to bring those out and

examine them and understand that The more

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empowering the story that we tell about

ourselves and what's possible for us, the

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better we will be in moving towards that.

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Because when you're telling a

story to yourself about how you've

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failed, how what's possible is

simply based on what you've done

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before, your brain, you believe that.

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And then it keeps you stuck.

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It will hold you back.

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Because your brain won't look, You

won't try to do anything differently.

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You won't try anything new.

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You won't try to do more.

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Next, we want to look at our

cognitive abilities, which goes

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back to understanding and having an

awareness around what we're thinking

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and our mindset and why our brain

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is offering us those thoughts

and what we can do about it.

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Having that awareness, having an

understanding of how it impacts us, how it

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impacts our emotions and how it drives our

actions and how important our mindset is.

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Again, just like the story that we tell

about ourselves, we want to be really

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clear on what we're thinking and learning

how to do some of the daily work to

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clean that up, to make sure that we

have this awareness of what's going on

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in our minds, whether it's helpful and

whether we want to think something new.

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You need to manage your mind.

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Otherwise it will manage you.

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Our brain, that primitive part

of our brain is like a toddler

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with a knife, as my coach said.

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It needs to be supervised.

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It needs to be managed.

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Otherwise it will focus on the negative.

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It will tell you all of the problems.

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It will keep you stuck in that fear

mode that isn't going to serve you.

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So you want to clean that up

and then decide intentionally

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what you want to think.

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All of those 60, 000 thoughts

per day are not helpful.

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They're not true and we

want to clean that up.

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Then we want to look at our emotions

and our emotional resiliency.

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The cognitive mastery, looking at the

mindset and what we're thinking and

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the emotions that we feel go together.

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They are hand in hand and they

are just equally as important.

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We want to learn how to be

with our emotions because we're

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not taught how to do that.

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Most of us are either reacting, we're

resisting, or we're trying to numb

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ourselves to not feel the emotions.

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We want to be able to experience those

emotions knowing that we're safe,

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knowing that nothing has gone wrong,

knowing that they are just a part of our

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human experience, and that we can move

through them, some faster than others.

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It's not a game, it's not to see

how quickly we can get through them,

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but Certainly, the less we resist

them, the more we allow them, we

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facilitate their passing through us.

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Just experience them.

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Because what you resist persists.

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when we resist these emotions that

we're feeling, they do persist.

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And in fact, they do grow stronger.

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And the key getting through any

experiences to allow those emotions,

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because everything we do or don't do

is based on an emotion that either we

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want to feel or we're trying to avoid.

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And if you want to grow, if you want to

take yourself to the next level, you want

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to be able to experience those emotions.

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So you're not giving into the fear.

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You're not giving into the doubt.

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You're not giving into the overwhelm.

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You can face disappointment.

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You can face rejection.

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You can face anger and get through

it to the other side and keep going.

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We also want to be very clear about how

your thoughts are creating these emotions.

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We're not taught that.

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We think we are experiencing emotions

based on what's going on in the world,

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but in fact, it is our interpretation

of our circumstances and our

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thoughts about those circumstances

that are creating our emotions.

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So cognitive mastery, the

mindset work, And the emotional

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resiliency go hand in hand.

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We want to learn how to be with those

emotions, not be at the effect of them

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and understand how our emotions are

going to drive our actions or inactions.

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We want to expand our capacity to

experience all of the emotions.

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And this is what we learn in coaching

so that we're not just sitting around

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watching 10 hours of Netflix, eating

pints of ice cream, drinking bottles

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of wine, shopping online, playing games

for hours or whatever it is that has

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a net negative effect on our lives.

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We learn how to be with these emotions

and then ultimately we learn how to

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generate those emotions in order to

fuel the actions that we want to take.

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A lot of my clients come and they are

feeling like they, they don't take

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the actions that they want to take.

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Maybe they finally make a decision

about what they want, but they can't

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show up and ultimately take those

actions to move themselves forward.

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This is because of what you're

thinking and what you're feeling.

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And once you get a handle on that

and you have the tools and the skills

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to understand what's going on and

then Intentionally create those

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thoughts and feelings for yourself.

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That's when you move yourself forward

And then we can learn how to create

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determination and motivation and

excitement and joy for ourselves.

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We're not depending on

external circumstances.

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We know that this is something

that we create for ourselves.

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And then the willingness to feel any

emotion combined with this conscious

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decision making are two of the best

skills that you can learn because when

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you decide that you're going to do

something big, you're going to change

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your life, you're going to change careers,

you're going to change your jobs, you're

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going to change your relationship.

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Something big and amazing.

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It's going to bring up all of this emotion

and you will want to avoid feeling it.

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And then you will stay stuck in inaction,

you're going to go back to deciding not

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to do those things again, but if you

make a big decision about your life,

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and you're willing to experience all

of that emotion that comes with it,

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that's when you're going to change.

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That's when you're willing to feel the

discomfort of change because you don't

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make it such a big deal That's when

you create the life you want That's

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when you get unstuck and you know how

to repeat this process over and over

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again So that you're never stuck again

the third pillar is your relationship

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with yourself, which, as I mentioned

previously, it's the most important

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relationship you will ever have, and this

is the foundation on which we build the

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lives that we want and become the people

that we want to become, and it includes

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something just like liking yourself.

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Have you ever asked

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Do you like yourself?

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question too, and They've never thought

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about it before, and when they do think

about it, they don't like themselves.

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how are you going to create anything

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in your life that you truly want if

you don't like yourself, if you don't

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have the self confidence, if you don't

have the self love and the self trust?

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that you can have your own back, you

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can take care of yourself, and you will

not be looking externally to fill the

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voids that exist, you're not looking for

someone to to value you or appreciate

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you or support you, you can ask for

those things and you may receive them,

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but they are not the blocks to creating

the life that you want and becoming

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the person that you want to become.

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You can evolve, and you can grow,

and you can take on new challenges,

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and you know how to support

yourself through the process.

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Because the fear, and the doubt,

and the overwhelm, and the

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disappointment will come up when

you're going after something new.

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Now you know how to manage your

mind, you know how to be with your

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emotions, and you'll know how to

support and love yourself through it.

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You will have that self trust, and this

is important because otherwise you will

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not be able to go to that next level.

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And why do we want to

go to that next level?

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that we cover in Unstuck, having

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that purpose to see what's

possible for myself and my life.

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I want to see what I'm capable of.

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And that's why we're here.

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That's why we have this opportunity.

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Let's see what we can do with it.

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But If you do not support yourself,

then you will not manage your mind,

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you will not be with your emotions, you

will not be intentionally directing your

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mind and your thoughts to create the

emotions you need to take the action,

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and then when something comes up, you

will beat yourself up, you will judge

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yourself, you'll criticize yourself,

and you will not enjoy the process.

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just convince yourself not to continue.

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But if you can love yourself through

that, then you have all of the power.

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so the first pillar is self concept.

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The second pillar is the cognitive

mastery and emotional resilience.

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The third pillar is your

relationship with yourself.

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pillar is the future self.

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And the future self is some of the most

interesting work we can do because that's

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where we really clearly define what it is

we want and who it is we want to become.

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Most of the time people go

through life, if you ask them

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what they want, they don't know.

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They probably haven't thought about it.

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They haven't spent any time there.

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They don't know.

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And if you don't know what you want,

you're certainly not going to create it.

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And you land up just reacting

to your circumstances.

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You land up reacting to your life.

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And your life just

takes you where it will.

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And you land up just living the same

year after year, the same day after

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day, without any intentionality,

without any direction, without

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any focus, without any purpose.

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Some people are happy with

that, and that's okay.

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That's their prerogative.

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But if you want more, then you need

to be able to define what it is you

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want and who it is you want to become.

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You want to decide intentionally,

and then you have the tools and the

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skills that you've learned in the other

pillars to move yourself forward and

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support yourself through that process.

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The future self work keeps you focused.

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it keeps you setting goals for yourself.

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Moving yourself forward, you have

a plan, you have a direction, so

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that when it comes time to take

aligned action, you're able to

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figure out what it is you need to do.

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You're able to figure

out what the steps are.

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So what we do in Unstuck is that when we

find ourselves in a life that no longer

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fits us, that we are no longer comfortable

in, that we are no longer satisfied

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with, that we know we want more, we want

to make significant changes, and we're

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going through some sort of transition.

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This program is designed to help you get

that clarity and to give you the tools and

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skills you need to move yourself forward.

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You'll get that clarity

around what it is you want.

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It will develop the calm with

the cognitive mastery and

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the emotional resilience.

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You will have that certainty that you

can support yourself and have that

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relationship with yourself and grow

and change and have your own back

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throughout, and you will learn how to

develop the confidence that you need

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and therefore, you will have the tools

and skills to take the aligned action,

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to move yourself forward, without

spending years of overthinking or regret.

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And this process will require you to

forget everything you think you know about

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what you need to do to change your life.

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But you'll learn this process and I

guarantee you will never feel stuck again.

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We get to the root cause.

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What is our social programming?

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What are our values?

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What are our habits?

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What are our limiting beliefs that we

have picked up and kept through the years?

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What is the story that we're telling

ourselves that is keeping us stuck?

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And we'll clean that up.

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Your brain is so powerful.

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It is one of the most powerful tools that

we have, but most of us are not aware.

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And I'm not a neuroscientist,

so I'm not going to pretend to

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tell you that I'm an expert.

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But just having that basic

understanding and starting to use

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it intentionally is everything.

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That's when we really start

to make significant changes.

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Because it is our current thinking

that got us to where we are now.

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And so we want to stop

giving in to the fear.

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We want to stop doubting ourselves.

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We want to start taking that action.

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We have to change our thinking.

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Learning these tools and skills

will create lasting change.

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We're not just addressing the action.

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Many times people set out to make a

change, and they're so focused on the

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action that they're taking, but they're

not aware of what they're thinking,

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and what they're feeling, and what's

going to drive that action or inaction.

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This process doesn't take a lot of

time, it's not complicated, but it is a

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process that you need to learn and you

need to practice and it is something

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that you will practice for the rest

of your life Which I think is really

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exciting and really fun because the

possibilities are endless and you will

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have that support to move you forward.

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Coaching literally is one of the

best investments you can make in

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yourself and in your brain and in

your future I have been getting

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coached for the past five years.

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I get coached regularly.

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I plan to get coached for the

rest of my life because I know

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that having this support is key

to creating the life I want.

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Just because you have a human brain,

and as long as you have a human brain,

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crappy thoughts are going to come up.

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Situations will happen.

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But you don't have to be at

the effect of all of those.

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You don't have to believe those thoughts.

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And the better support you have and

the better tools and skills that

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you have to think intentionally,

to have that awareness and think

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intentionally, the better off you will be.

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So if you're feeling like your life has

plateaued, if you're feeling like you're

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stuck in overthinking, you're unable to

make decisions, you're unable to take the

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actions that you say you want to take.

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If you're feeling disconnected

from yourself and from your life.

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And if you're struggling with your

confidence and constantly doubting

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yourself, this is the work you want to do.

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This is where you want to be.

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And this is why I created Unstuck.

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You are not alone.

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This is part of our human experience.

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What is happening to

you is perfectly normal.

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There's nothing wrong with you.

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You're 100 percent worthy.

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You can do this.

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You can make the changes that you want.

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You just need the right support.

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you can start to live your

life more intentionally and

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create whatever it is you want.

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Unstuck, three months, 12 sessions,

private one to one sessions with me on

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a weekly basis to learn these pivotal,

important, amazing tools and skills

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that you want to create the life,

ultimately, that is inside of you.

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Becoming that person that is inside

of you that you know you want to be.

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We're going to uncover

what's keeping you stuck.

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Create your purpose and your vision

for your life and then start taking

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aligned, empowered, bold action.

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We're going to look at your

thoughts, your beliefs, the

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patterns that are holding you back.

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And we're going to start to

shift your focus from what's

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missing to what is possible.

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To what you think your ability is,

to what your capacity ultimately is.

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The possibilities are endless.

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And we're going to teach you how to

start to think about what it is you

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want, create that powerful vision that

excites you and brings you energy and

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joy, and move you forward with purpose.

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It's a lot of fun.

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It's very powerful work.

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If you're interested in learning

more, you can head over to my website.

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The link will be in the show notes.

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and when you're ready, I invite

you to sign up for a free 50 minute

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private coaching session with

me to try coaching for yourself.

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Learn about the program and by the end

of the call you'll have clarity on why

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you're stuck and what to do next and how

to stop waiting and take bold action.

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Let's talk about where you are and

what you might want for yourself.

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These sessions are fun.

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They're informal.

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They don't require you to prepare anything

in advance and it's just an opportunity to

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take this work and to learn more about it.

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Alright, so that's what

I have for you today.

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thank you so much for listening

Thank you for being here.

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I am so excited to share

this work with you.

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Head over to the show notes, take a

look at the website, sign up for a

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free coaching session, and let's talk.

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This work is life changing, I promise you.

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So take the time, invest in yourself,

and Let's see what's possible.

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Remember, you don't have to stay stuck.

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And if you're feeling like you're

meant for more, it's because you are.

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All right, I'll see you

in the coaching session.

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Bye.

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Thank you for listening to

this daring adventure podcast

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with your host Trista Guertin.

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We hope you enjoyed the tips

and conversations on how to

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get excited about life again.

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As always, you can head

to tristaguertin.com

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for additional resources and to

book a one on one coaching session.

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You can also follow Trista on

Instagram at tristavguertin.

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Don't forget to subscribe, rate,

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