How To Keep Going in The Face of Adversities with Shonda Carter - 010
Today, I had the pleasure of speaking with my good friend, Shonda Carter. Shonda Carter is one of those "Insanely Gifted" Christians, which makes her the perfect Creative Cattle-prod for her clients. Currently, Shonda is in pursuit of her M.A. in Divinity (Spiritual Formation) and certification in the art of Spiritual Direction.
Let’s dive into her story about how beautiful it is for you to recognize who you are and what your gifts can do, and never let other people have power over you. Start taking those baby steps towards your goal, God is with you. So just KEEP GOING!
[00:01 - 05:53] Opening Segment
Let's welcome our guest, Shonda Carter, to the show
- Who is Shonda Carter?
She is now a walking permission slip for women of faith.
She's a story-teller and now a proud grandmother.
What does it mean for Shonda to work with gifted Christians?
Helping them recognize their gifts
Challenging their comfort levels
[05:54 - 17:58] How To Keep Going in The Face of Adversities
Shonda talks about how she got out of her pretty little box when she was being silenced
Have conversations with God
Facing rejection and not caring
Even if it is baby steps, it is still a forward direction
Shonda talks about her work and what she does
Taking secular things and making them spiritual
Helping women fulfill their purpose
What is a Degree in Christian Spirituality & Formation?
It helps people have a relationship with God.
A spiritual director helps you see God despite your circumstances.
Shonda shares her story of how she got thrown out of her church.
She got criticized for her book.
She got told that "It might be a good message, but you don't have the right to share that message because you are not a pastor."
[17:59 - 30:19] The Fear of Being Judged
Shonda talks about happiness despite trials she had faced
She was misunderstood and hurt
Shonda talks about the beauty of coaching
Shonda talks about having the courage to continue to move forward
Not allowing herself to be offended
"I will not leave the church unless God tells me to leave."
God will give you the ability to handle challenges.
[30:20 - 42:00] Why do we allow people to have power over us?
Shonda shared her earliest moments of being silenced by others
She had always felt like she was being belittled and hushed.
She grew up believing that being quiet was the best.
Shonda weighs in on living as a stereotype.
You are living in a box.
No one escapes this life without having negative thoughts.
[42:01 - 53:16] The Beauty of Seeing Who You Are
The power of seeing the positives
You are you so stop trying to make everyone else like you
You are who you are, and you are powerful
Inspiring people to be better
Trusting the process
Forgive yourself for what you didn't know
Just keep going
[53:17 - 57:56] Closing Segment
Shonda shares fantastic advice
Recognize your steps. Recognize everything that is happening.
Connect with Shonda online. See links below
Final words from Shonda and me
"Sometimes when your gifts don't look like other people's gifts. You don't know how to use them, you don't know where you fit. You're quiet and you crush them down and you think they are wrong because you think it's different." - Shonda Carter
"Not being able to see someone's gift, not being able to see their perspective. That's a blind spot for people." - Shonda Carter
"If you don't see the positive in what can be, you will spiral." - Keisha Shields
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