We spend a lot of time trying to get into relationships. We spend a lot of time thinking and talking about our relationships. But have you ever defined what a successful relationship would be like for you?
Listen in as we discuss the topic from different perspectives and clarify what happy ever after would be for you.
Transcript
I'm not I'm not aware of that. But yeah. Over the night. Yeah. I'm pretty easy going to be honest.
I don't have to see you, you know, all the time.
In other words, not going into retirement.
And I'm just looking at a government crackdown. And so I wrote a book on happiness.
So we got to that first one that comes back to the same thing.
But as you know, this individual individual happiness without a relationship.
And that's that's why I thought you meant what you said, that it doesn't really exist.
Yeah, I know. And all the rest of it. Yeah, I.
No, sorry, I couldn't hear you.
Yes. An activity that said that gives you a transient thing of well-being.
And I think we're about to get some words of wisdom from the Gary.
So then I want to go another level deeper off of what drives selfish behavior.
And then school is like a process of making you fit into the average.
So the first thing I'm going to talk about on flights, you put your own oxygen mask on first.
And that's what it's supposed to be. Yeah.
We all have to find our own path.
From what it is, and we don't trust, that's if we can trust ourselves. That would be a.
We're speaking to somebody who is just a rebel.
And you mentioned taking care of the physical self before.
I wouldn't. And you were behind him pushing him?
Well, I think it was karma certainly wouldn't there wouldn't be much sympathy for it.
Oh, dear. Is anyone got any good jokes whilst we wait? Well, you can sell it slowly.
That's not happiness. So it's it's individual.
We're not doing nothing. We're looking at it from a more positive point of view.
Are not honest with yourself at the outset. Yes, that is you can end up on.
Yes, a good example of how to shift your frame of thinking when watching something.
They did it from an inner congruence.
Can you be yourself regardless of any external.
Reward or loss, you're talking about resilience, Rob.
But how many of us can really hold that line of love for a lifetime and live lives like that?
There's always going to be someone who is going to pry.
Yeah. Thank you. Sorry, Sandra. No, no, no, it's OK, it's OK. You said it. Sorry.
So kind of feel the fear, but do it anyway. I don't know what you think of that.
It's dangerous, isn't it, what we're talking about, there's a definite danger.
Yes, you know what? You're differentiating the different types of fair use and what that is.
So you can then devise strategies to cope with that or.
That's. Yeah, that's completely different.
No, because you're still in a position of danger that you should be less bad if you were.
Maybe to tell you the answer, Zapato, from personal experience.
Oh, that's brilliant. I love it a lot.
And I actually did similar to my boys this week. I couldn't get them to get off the computer.
Yes, temptation or obstacle or addiction or whatever, whatever it may be. Exactly.
If you look at a relationship, it's about can I can I care about Navroz?
But you have to communicate clearly that they understand.
I was thinking that president of the United States would look like selfish, scared and stupid.
Because it looks like it's daylight now.
I take care of you, like I said, and we hope to see you in one piece next week, OK?
I think a little forensically delivered, Christina, everybody, sorry, I was coming off mute.
I want your child to be looked after and also for its place. Mark. Well, thank you, everyone.
So we we're in next week to discuss the idea of treat them mean, keep them keen, true or false.