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#163. What If Leadership Isn't About Being in Control?: Surrender, Stewardship, and Servanthood
Church Leadership Episode 163 • Bonus Episode • 6th October 2026 • Our Urban Voices • Dr. Alfonse Javed
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Lasting leadership does not begin with charisma or ambition but with surrender, stewardship, and servanthood.

Dr Margaret Diddams and Dr Shirley Mullen coauthored Tried and True: The Countercultural Virtues of Christian Leadership, which draws on John Wesley as a wise and surprisingly relevant leadership tutor for cultivating courage, humility, and hope for leadership that can last a lifetime.

https://www.ivpress.com/margaret-diddams

https://www.ivpress.com/shirley-a-mullen

https://www.ivpress.com/tried-and-true

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:

  • Relevancy of John Wesley's Leadership Style
  • Healthy Organizations Need Healthy Leaders
  • Lasting Leadership Begins with Surrender, Stewardship, and Servanthood

ABOUT THE GUEST:

Dr Margaret Diddams is an industrial-organizational psychologist, leadership consultant, educator, and editor of Christian Scholar’s Review, whose work explores how Christian faith shapes leadership, character, and human flourishing. Having served in higher-education leadership, including as provost of Wheaton College, and in the corporate world at Microsoft, she brings both scholarly depth and practical experience to the question of what faithful leadership requires in complex institutions. She is coauthor, with Shirley Mullen, of Tried and True: The Countercultural Virtues of Christian Leadership, which draws on John Wesley as a wise and surprisingly relevant leadership tutor for cultivating courage, humility, and hope for leadership that can last a lifetime.

Dr Shirley Mullen served for four decades in the world of Christian higher education, most recently for 15 years as the President of Houghton University. She has earned doctorates in both history and philosophy. In retirement, she has served on several boards, and continued her mentoring of young leaders, as well as speaking and writing. Her book, Claiming the Courageous Middle, came out from Baker Academic in 2024.

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TIMESTAMPED SHOWNOTES:

00:37 - Introducing Dr Margaret Diddams and Dr Shirley Mullen

04:38 - Collaboration on their new book, Tried and True

06:34 - Relevancy of John Wesley's Leadership Style

08:07 - Mission and Organization Beyond John Wesley

09:35 - Healthy Organizations Need Healthy Leaders

10:27 - ...cultivate mission continually

11:37 - ...drift or unhealthiness when the leader look for affirmation

13:08 - ...healthy leaders have to care for themselves and their families

15:35 - Lasting Leadership Begins with Surrender, Stewardship, and Servanthood

16:27 - ...grounded in surrender to the Holy Spirit

16:42 - ...caretaker entrusted with a treasuer

17:10 - ...servant leadership

18:30 - Surrender in Everyday Leadership

19:08 - ...the opposite of surrender

19:28 - ...why am I leading?

20:00 - ...leading for a purpose

20:27 - ...we don't add to God's glory

20:59 - ...doing things FOR God vs time WITH God

21:23 - ...Lead in such a way that increases dependence on God

23:12 - Thinking Like a Steward

24:00 - ...past into the present into the future

24:52 - ...humility

25:37 - ...knowing when to let go

27:20 - ...freeing role of stewardship

28:11 - Living Out Biblical Servanthood

28:38 - ...what is the leader a servant to?

29:29 - ...servant to a larger mission and nurture the people

29:53 - ...passivity masquerading as empowerment

30:16 - ...focus on what needs to be done; give away the credit

30:52 - ...leadership is US

32:34 - ...servant-prophet

38:02 - Surrender, Stewardship, and Servanthood Work Together

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