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#148. What Makes Someone Feel at Home? The Spiritual Practice of Hospitality
Church Leadership Episode 14810th March 2026 • Our Urban Voices • Dr. Alfonse Javed
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Christian hospitality is about people and relationships, not just spaces. It goes beyond opening our homes or extending invitations—it’s about cultivating a posture of welcome that reflects God’s presence and generosity wherever we go.

Laura Baghdassarian Murray (DMin, Fuller Seminary) is the director of spiritual engagement and innovation at Fuller Seminary's Center for Spiritual Formation. She is the author of Pray as You Are, serves on the Ministry Collaborative Advisory Board, and previously served at Highland Park Presbyterian Church as the pastor of spiritual formation. Laura is also the founder of the Digital Silent Retreat Ministry, which is rooted in the practice of hospitality to provide brave and courageous spaces for people to connect with God and others.

Dr Laura Murray - Fuller Seminary

Dr Laura Murray - IVPress

Book: Becoming a Person of Welcome

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:

  1. Extending the Welcome and Hospitality that We Have Receive from God
  2. Embodying Hospitality and Being an Example
  3. Hospitality in Different Context

ABOUT THE GUEST:

Laura Baghdassarian Murray (DMin, Fuller Seminary) is the director of spiritual engagement and innovation at Fuller Seminary's Center for Spiritual Formation. She is the author of Pray as You Are, serves on the Ministry Collaborative Advisory Board, and previously served at Highland Park Presbyterian Church as the pastor of spiritual formation. Laura is also the founder of the Digital Silent Retreat Ministry, which is rooted in the practice of hospitality to provide brave and courageous spaces for people to connect with God and others.

RELATED LINKS:

  1. Dr Laura Murray - Fuller Seminary
  2. Dr Laura Murray - IVPress
  3. Book: Becoming a Person of Welcome

TIMESTAMPED SHOWNOTES:

00:38 - Introducing Dr Laura Murray

04:35 - Book - Becoming a Person of Welcome: The Spiritual Practice of Hospitality

05:11 - Definition of Hospitality

05:32 - ...welcome, internal and external

07:36 - ...external protected space

08:13 - ...internal protected space

08:26 - ...God calls Israel to remember her stranger status

10:56 - Growing Up in a Culture of Hospitality

11:47 - ...fluid in hospitality / expectation of visitors

12:58 - ...generosity / guests receives more

13:15 - ...as a child growing up, hospitality can be difficult

14:31 - Product of Two Cultures

17:34 - Extending the Welcome and Hospitality that We Have Receive from God

19:30 - Feeling Welcome and Belongingness in Church

20:38 - ...feeling seen and wanted

20:57 - ...feeling safety and security

21:18 - ...being connected to other people's stories and be themselves

24:56 - How Church Leadership Can Embody Hospitality and Be an Example

25:31 - ...leadership needs to be secure in their own welcome that God has for them

27:07 - ...remembering stranger status

27:20 - ...protections and holding values of the church

27:41 - ...difference between belonging and fitting in

29:31 - Hospitality in the Digital Space

33:36 - Hospitality in the Workplace, While Running Errands, or With Strangers

34:07 - ...slowing down

34:54 - ...noticing

35:43 - ...being curious about people's stories

36:20 - Doable Steps to Becoming More of a Person of Welcome

37:13 - What did the Holy Spirit tell you?

38:10 - Getting in touch with Dr Laura Murray and Finding her books

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