Nelson Tressler is Dr. Brad Miller’s guest on Episode 145 of The Beyond Adversity Podcast. 

Nelson Tressler’s life was sent into a tailspin when in a fit of rage his grandfather murdered a police officer. This was among many adverse life events which devastated Nelson’s personal, professional, and business life.

He talks to Dr. Brad about hitting the bottom in his life and then choosing to make a series of life-altering decisions that transformed his life and led to success in his personal life with a successful marriage and to achieve profound professional success in the world of Real Estate.

His process of choosing not to be defeated by circumstances and instead become a product of your choices.

He outlined his story in his book “The Unlucky Sperm Club: You are Not a Victim of Your Circumstances but a Product of Your Choices.”

He reveals to Dr. Brad the decisions and the process that he now teaches in his process “6 Months 2 Success.” The 6 Months 2 Success Program instills the belief that most people are only a few key ingredients away from being able to fulfill their goals and live the life of their dreams. The I.G.O.T.S.M.A.R.T.E.R.™ Goal Achievement Program gives goal-setters those missing ingredients - making ALL THE DIFFERENCE. The I.G.O.T.S.M.A.R.T.E.R.™ Program not only allows you to know what you truly want, but it gives you the tools, knowledge, and support to actually achieve your goals.

Furthermore, Nelson has created a mobile phone app “The I Got Smarter” app

 https://igotsmarter.com/ which implements the goal elevation process taught in the “6 Months 2 Success” program https://www.6months2success.com/

This is a fascinating story of one of many who was able to navigate personal adversity and achieve success who now offers his experience and teaching to help others achieve their goals in life. 

It's all about taking consistent positive action and seek to persistently make progress. Don’t ever give up. Nelson shared this quote with Dr. Brad “Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.”

The Beyond Adversity Podcast is Published weekly by Dr. Brad Miller at DrBradMiller.com for the purpose of helping people navigate adverse life events (death, disease, divorce, depression, debt) and emerge to a life of peace prosperity, and purpose.

Dr. Brad Miller

April 2021

https://www.6months2success.com/

https://igotsmarter.com/

Dr. Brad Miller here on beyond adversity, where

the podcast is helpful to you to overcome adverse conditions in

your life. And to come out to a better place a place of peace,

prosperity, and purpose. And it's my privilege to have folks

to join me on this podcast who have had their own share of

overcoming and dealing with navigating adverse conditions in

their life. And to come out to a better place and then to be able

to teach you how you could do do likewise such as the case with

Nelson Tressler, our guest here today he has the process or the

course, six months to success, calm the numeral six months,

numeral to success, calm and the app the I got smarter.com app

and in this process, he is going to share with us the the really

devastating many ways background that he comes from and his

family life and personal life to develop a process where he's

been successful in the business world and other aspects of life,

and can teach us some things to help you to navigate adverse

conditions in your life. And are we Welcome to Beyond adversity.

Now. So Tresor, welcome.

Thanks for having me, Brad. I appreciate

it.

Well, it is awesome to have you and just look in

your background, you've developed several successful

businesses and a process here that folks can connect up with

and but it's my observation and reading your story that you

really come from just some really, some difficult

circumstances in your life. And if you don't mind, I just like

for you to take the floor for a few minutes. Nelson to share a

little bit of your life story a little bit. What got you to this

place today?

Sure. Yeah, I've got quite the origin story.

My mom became pregnant with me when she was 15 years old. And

while she was pregnant with me, her father, who was the local

trash collector in a small town, drove into the town square,

spotted two police officers stuck a gun out the window and

open fire on those police officers killing one and

critically wounding another. And eventually, my grandfather was

captured and brought to stand trial where he was facing the

death penalty. And during his trial, my mom got up and

testified to the jury, that the reason that her father had shot

and killed that police officer was that that police officer had

raped her. And she was now pregnant with his baby, who was

me. And my mom's testimony work. My grandfather's first trial

ended in a first in a hung jury. The second trial, they took the

death penalty off the table. And my grandfather was found guilty

and sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of

parole, which he ended up spending 40 years in prison. And

essentially, you know, went to prison leaving behind his family

of 15 children, and including my mom, and now me to kind of live

in the wake of, of those consequences. And then, you

know,

that takes your breath away, right there. Your

story, but that there is just like, devastating My goodness.

But please continue.

Yeah, I mean, my life didn't get any

easier from that, you know, of course, being, you know, having

a 15 year old mother. But eventually my mom turned 21. And

she met a man who eventually would become my stepfather. But

come to find out he was an alcoholic, very emotionally and

physically abusive to me and my mom, almost on a daily basis.

Eventually, my mom had four more children with my stepfather. And

because of the lifestyle that they're, they were living a lot

of the basic needs, and my siblings fell upon me as the

oldest. My mom would, would rather me stay home and help

with the kids instead of go to school and, and I hated school.

You know, and I remember it my fourth grade year of looking

down at my report card and seeing that I had strayed F's

and that I would be repeating the fourth grade. And I probably

missed 50 or 60 days of school that year. I couldn't read, I

couldn't write, I can't spell. And the following year, they

placed me into special ed to try to get the help that I needed.

And so that's kind of where my schooling went. And then

eventually, one day my stepfather was walking home

drunk from a bar. There was somebody else who was driving

home drunk from that bar and ended up hitting and killing

him. And it was at this time that my mom, she has five kids

now. My youngest sister was just born. I think she's three or

four months at this at time, but as hard as my mom's life has

been to this point, you know, losing my stepfather no matter

how abusive he was left my mom, really with no hope. My mom had

dropped out of school in the eighth grade, she had never

worked outside of the home. And here she is left alone to raise

five small children. And it's at this time that she decides that

she can't do it, and that she attempt suicide. And

fortunately, she was not successful. But whenever she was

released from the hospital, it was at this time that she

decided she couldn't care for all five of us on our own. And

that's when I went to go live with my grandmother who is the

wife of the man who shot and killed the police officer. And

as I said, she has 15 children, some of those children are still

living at home, when I go to live with her. And because my

grandma was a saint, she was also raising four or five other

grandchildren at the time for various reasons. And so I go to

live with her. And for the first time, I don't have to worry

about somebody coming home drunk and beating me or my mom, I

don't have to worry about waking up to take care of babies and

2am feedings. And the one role that my grandma did have is she,

she wasn't high on education. But the one thing that she did

expect was that you were going to go to school, and and that

was probably for her own sake, you know, having 15 kids, that's

probably your only break is when your kids go to school. So I

started to go to school on a regular basis. And I started to

kind of reflect upon my life and the direction that it was going.

And then one day, a counselor from the local university came

to our school, and we had an assembly and she kind of talked

about the things that you needed to do to get into college. And

for the first time, I started to think, you know, what, what if I

can go to college, and, you know, I thought at the time that

would solve all of my problems. And you know, what it's like,

whenever you set a goal, or you start to think of something

that's going to be hard, that voice in the back of your head,

starts to scream at you all the reasons that you shouldn't even

think about doing that. And I remember thinking, you know,

Nelson, you're in special ed, you can't read, you can't write,

you can't spell of my mom's family of those 15 children,

only two had ever graduated from high school. And, you know, I

started thinking to myself, Nelson, you're gonna be lucky to

graduate high school, let alone go to college. But, you know, I

saw where my life was heading. And this was the one thing that

I could kind of focus on to see a better future for myself. So

from that day on, I started to kind of do the things that I

thought I needed to do, that would get me to college, and 12

years after that, four different universities, fours in, in the

Air Force to get money to go to school, eventually became that

first person in my family to graduate from college, and get

that college degree.

What a powerful witness to a devastating life

growing up, and then making the influence of a person in your

life and then making a really life changing decision about

college. And given your background, a lot of people get

stuck there. Nelson, you know, people get stuck into

circumstances you were talking about and don't make it out. And

you did. And you've had some success in the business world.

And before we go a little bit further and your, your story,

just tell us a little bit about what types of businesses you've

been involved with, and how, what what the point I want to

make is that you've evolved out of college into having some

success in your life. So tell us a bit about what type of things

you've been involved with.

Yeah, so I was fortunate enough to get a

job right out of college in the commercial in commercial real

estate industry. And I've done that for the last 20 years. And

it was fortunate enough to become the top salesman in the

in the retail division worldwide for a top five firm, multiple

times. So I've had some great success there. I've also started

other businesses, I've started children's daycare center in Las

Vegas and built that to one of the largest chains in Las Vegas.

And then was also fortunate enough to build one of the

largest pet resort chains in the country, you know, privately

held pet resort chains in the country, and was able to sell

both of those businesses. And you get to that point in your

life. You know, I don't ever envision myself propping my feet

up and and watching sunsets. That's just not in my DNA. And

so I was thinking, Okay, what do I want to do with the rest of my

life? And for the longest time, that story that I just told the

only person who knew that story Was my wife, I ran from that

story, I joined the Air Force to get out of that small town I

never, you know, went back, I've gone back to that small town,

but I never went back there to live because of everything that

kinda I had to go through. And I talk a lot about that in my book

beyond lucky sperm club. And now that you guys know my story, you

kind of know where that title came from. But nobody knew about

that. Those circumstances, none of my friends not even like my

children, because I had run from it, it weaken me to think about

that. And I started to kind of reflect Why did I live that type

of life? Why was I placed into those circumstances. And I came

up with, you know, the reason that I was there, I made it out

of that. I've been able to overcome those circumstances.

And I became obsessed with goals and personal development after

that first big goal of graduating from college. And I

determined at that time that I was wanted to spend the rest of

my life to help other people realize that they're not a

victim of their circumstances, that they're a product of their

choices. And I started the new business, I got smarter, which

is an app. And it's the program that I've kind of perfected over

the last 20 years, as I've, you know, worked on goals and worked

on personal development and becoming a better version of

myself, I saw where I failed at goals and where I needed to a

little bit of help. And the program that's out there with I

got smarter. Essentially, patches, all those holes in

helps people fulfill their their dreams and their goals. Because

the one thing I realize is we don't have a knowledge problem.

When it comes to fulfilling our goals. We know what we need to

do, we have an execution problem, we just don't do what

we know we need to do. And that's what I got smarter does

is it helps you do the things that you know you need to do

when you need to do them. Yeah,

very good. Because what you said to them, I think

is so key there, you've you made some choices that led to some

new directions in your life. And now you're looking to make some

choices to view contributor to other persons to help them to

implement these areas. And we're bombarded by knowledge all the

time. And most people have at least a sensibility about, about

what it takes, you know, for instance, are you given when

people talk about New Year's resolutions and so on goal

setting above the basic ones are weight loss, and you know, make

more money and to have better relationships. And yet, many

people, you know, by the time February rolls around, they have

fallen off and all those things are overeating, their

relationships are still messed up and then move deeper in debt.

And yet, so they know what to do, but they don't do it. So

what you're sharing with is, is the actions to take and has to

go with those choices. And, and I'm curious here for out of your

own life, and then what you teach in your, in your in your

courses, and in your app and your your application process.

Let's talk a bit more about this area of choices. I like to call

it bold actions, because I think they have to break a pattern,

you know, we have to break our pattern of where we are kind of

stuck in some areas, people People often use that

terminology of being stuck on kind of stuck on my life on the

grid, we're spinning my wheels and so on. What would you say

are some of the dramatic bold choices that you took and that

you advocate people take to break these patterns?

Yeah, I think it all comes down to

choice. And in my book, The on lucky sperm club, I talk about

kind of the hand that worked out and I look at that is a lot of

people feel like they've been dealt Erol hand whether it be at

birth, or whether they what circumstances they find

themselves in now. And what I talk about is the one the one

way, you know, in poker, you only get you know, to discard

your cards one time, and then that's the hand you're stuck

with. But life is just like that. The only difference is is

life, you get to discard your hand as many times as you want

if you don't like your hand and the way that you do that is

through the choices that you make. If you want different

circumstances, what you need to do is start making different

choices. And the problem I think that a lot of people have when

it comes to choices is they want everything to be perfect before

they make that choice. They want all those traffic lights to be

green before they head down there, you know on their journey

and and that almost never happens. So what we advocate is

take that first step don't wait for all the lights to turn

green. Chances are you know what one choice you need to start

making today. That will get you closer to where you want to be.

And what whether that's weight loss, whether that's your

relationship, whether it's financial, those three key

points that you touched on, we all know what that first step

can be. In a lot of times what it's like is it's like walking

through fog is you can't see but maybe two or three feet in front

of you and thick fog, but when you take that first step you You

can see two or three feet further, and you take another

step you can see. And that's what happens when you act now

and you make those choices is you might not know exactly what

needs to happen next week or next month. But as you continue

to make those choices, that vision opens up to you. And all

you have to do is keep making those correct choices. And, you

know, your life will drastically go in the direction that you're

making those correct choices to do.

But nothing happens if we stay still. And we have to

choose a direction and take some steps forward. Even if we have

to alter the direction you got to keep moving. That's part of

what I think in my life, you got to keep moving, keep going. So

yeah, and we also need to realize that

we're not looking for perfection here, none of us are going to

live a perfect life. We're looking for progress. And if we

have that mindset, that you know what I know, I'm going to fail,

I know I'm not going to be perfect. I know I'm not going

to, you know, do absolutely everything that I can do. But,

you know, tomorrow, I'm going to be a little bit further ahead or

a little bit closer to where I want to be. And next week, I'm

going to be even closer next month, I'm going to be closer,

is it going to be a perfect month? Probably not. But we need

to have that long term perspective, we kind of talked

about goals, and we talked about that in our program is those

people who are successful in life, they have that long term

perspective, they see where they want to be next month, next year

and five years and 10 years, and they realize that it is a

process. And they realize that there's going to be abin flows

and peaks and valleys, but they know where they want to be in

that long term. Yeah,

progress over perfection is a part of what I

teach as well, I love that it's a part of your of your process

as well. And you you did mention something there Nelson, I found

very interesting, you talked about you know about the fog and

about the putting one step in front of another and how you're

not going to have airbelt you're not every, every brick of yellow

brick road is always going to be lined up in front of you never

signed it in front of you. But we have to take a step. And I'd

like to stones call that a step of faith or you know, going out

into the unknown, taking a risk risk, and you kind of get your

ROI involved, what your what your I mean, your your your risk

reward is what I'm trying to say not so much ROI. But let's talk

a little bit about about that process is any part of your

process you're dealing with, you're talking about here

involves some sort of a sense of drawing on a power higher than

yourself, you know, that sometimes we have the inner

life, which helps drives us with tons of we need to draw

resources. And for some folks, that's religion, some folks

that's meditation, some folks that some other form of

emotional support, is any part of your process involves a

calling upon a greater power to empower you.

Yeah, I'm a very spiritual person and have a

strong faith. But I allow people you know, in that program, you

know, that's a hot button. And some people want that in their

lives, and some people don't, I wanted in my life, I have it in

my life, I feel like it's a huge impact in my life. And I again,

I talk about my conversion story in my book, The on lucky sperm

club. But in our program, what we allow you to do, and I think

this is one thing that's very unique, and helps tons of people

is we allow people to invite what we call a success partner

through the app. And in that app, you see real time what your

success partner is doing. In the program, we have what we call a

morning ritual, and a more a morning routine. And that's

going through and we give gratitude every single day, we

review our goals every day, we learn success principles every

day. And then we kind of figure out what we need to do every day

for our three goals that we're working on. And when you finish

that morning routine, your success partner gets an alert

that says, hey, Nelson finished his morning routine. And Brad,

if you and I are partners. Now you can say kudos to me and

communicate with me through the app. But what that also says is

Brad, if you didn't do your morning routine, Oh, I got to

get mine done because Nelson gets it done. And what we found

is you're 95% more likely to follow through and do the things

that you said you're going to do if you have that success partner

who's there in the trenches with you, helping you and supporting

you to see it through to the end, and you're also there for

them. So it's that mutual benefit of you guys are in those

trenches together working towards those goals.

So it holds you accountable and builds community

builds a important personal relationship. It's not just some

sort of a paper planner or electronic Gizmo. I mean, it

involves an app on your phone. I know but but it involves people

to read what I wanted to get with you I I just have a real

belief that powerful relay ships are what fuel life change, you

know, we have to be given some emotional up, you know emotional

energy that comes from relationships. And just like you

to say more about that either in your own personal life, you know

how that was impactful to get you to where you got, you know,

you, you mentioned some really challenging negative

relationships that you had to overcome. But I think for a lot

of us, we can be fueled by positive relationships and

Nandan. Any more you want to say about how that is implemented,

then in your program?

Yeah, I mean, I think you look at

anybody that you look at and feel like they're successful.

And I guarantee you, they, they didn't do it alone, none of us

do it alone, we always have that support network, those people

who are encouraging us, those mentors that are kind of showing

us the way, but I'll tell you, when when I was young, I didn't

have a lot of mentors or a lot of positive role models. And the

one thing that I did was, I didn't really know where I

wanted to go. But I knew absolutely where I didn't want

to end up. And I kind of did the things that I needed to do to

get away from that. So if you feel like you don't have those

positive role models in your life, start making those

choices, to get away from where you want to be. And I think a

lot of people get hung up on that, because they don't have

that positive role model in their lives, they really don't

have that person to look at and try to mirror their their

movements and their actions. But just make those those actions

and those choices to get away from what you know, you don't

want to do. But But in our program, yes, we have a

community that you're going to be like the people that you hang

out with, I mean, there's been all kinds of studies about that,

that your incomes going to be the average of the five people

that you hang out with your mental abilities are going to be

the the five people that you spend the most time with. So

community is so important. And you need to get into that good

community that shares the same values and the same standards

and the same, you know, aspirations that you have. And

what you find is that community, kind of the tide raises all

ships, when you get in that right community, and you start

surrounding yourself with like minded people, what you'll find

is that energizes you and gives you those emotions that you need

to get through those tough days. So I would absolutely stress

that everybody find a community, wherever that is, whether it's

in person, you know, which is a tough thing to do now with the

pandemic. But you know, there's tons of online communities. I

mean, we have our community at I got smarter, and Nelson

Tressler. And just huge benefits from that, and I couldn't stress

it enough. You

know, the part of that process of building

community is, you know, there's the interpersonal ones that you

mentioned, which are important. And sometimes that can be family

or other communities, you could be even, you know, the guys you

play basketball with at the Y or whatever, this kind of thing.

But it also can even be, I believe, even virtually not only

through Facebook groups, that kind of thing, but even through

great books, and through things like that, and through tape

programs, and maybe a program such as yours, where you can

start to be inspired by the work of others and speak into your

life. And I just think it's important that we build these

relationships, and implement them. And that's what I want to

talk to you about now is the implementation part of it.

Because I think as you mentioned here, Nelson, that is a part

that is a unique approach that you have, in many ways to many

other kind of life planning or processes that you know, there's

lots of goal setting type of books and processes there. I've

been through much of myself, and as well as apparently you have

as you've been developing. Let's talk about the implementation

piece. And what I told you about is, you mentioned a morning

routine and an evening routine and how the accountability

piece, let's talk about discipline, about habits about

the cognitive piece, how you imprint this on yourself,

because what we do know, my own experience and others is that

oftentimes we talk about goal setting and things like that.

And we are able to go with it for a while, but then it gets

hard and it drops off. Tell me what, tell me about the

disciplines, habits, processes procedure, the cognitive part

about your program about what you believe.

Yeah, so the first part of our program we

call our self assessment, and that's about getting crystal

clear on really what you want in life. And I think that's one of

the major issues when people fail with their goals. And, and

we're not talking we're talking 95% of people fail at their

goals within the first couple months. So if you feel like you

haven't done well with goals, you're not alone and that's why

I saw I need for, you know, this program I got smarter. But we,

we become crystal clear on what we want, we also become crystal

clear on what we're going to have to do to achieve that goal.

And a lot of people think that they want to be wealthy. But

what they realize is that they're not willing to either,

you know, sacrifice their relationships, if it's going to

take that sacrifice their health, if it's going to take

that. So we make sure one you know what you you want, and then

to you understand the price that you're going to have to pay for

that. And then there's a lot of things that we've baked into our

program to help you every single goal that we have has a self

imposed positive reward, as well as a self imposed negative

consequence that you're going to do whether or not you meet that

goal, and your your success partner can help you stay

accountable to that. But a lot of our minds, we either run

towards pleasure, or we run away from fears or discomfort. So

we've built that into the program. And, you know, it can

be fun things like you know, what if if I'm not able to get

to my target, wait, I'm going to dress up in a leotard and sing,

you know, girls want to have fun on my Facebook page and post it,

you know, so there's things like that, we also go as far as

allowing your success partner to jump in there and put in and

also a negative consequence, if you are not able to reach it.

And you might be willing to kind of let yourself down and say,

You know what, I'll just get on YouTube and saying, you know, I

don't want to do it, but, but if I'm, if I'm willing to put my

neck on the line that you're going to meet this, chances are,

you're going to do everything that you can to make sure that I

don't have to follow through with my consequence. So we've

baked those things into it. I think another problem with a lot

of programs out there is they have annual thinking, they want

to set a goal for what you're going to do next year or five

years from now. And our minds don't wrap around those things.

There's not that sense of urgency. And then we've all just

got through 2020, we all know how much the world can change in

a year or a few months. So what we've done in I got smarter is

we have huge goals, goals that are going to take years and five

years and 10 years. But what we do is we break every goal down

into a 30 day sprint. And we work on those goals in small

bite sized pieces. And then we we evaluate and then we readjust

every 30 days. And your mind really knows what it needs to do

to hit that goal in 30 days from now. And if something comes up,

in our program, people aren't throwing up their hands and

giving up until next New Year's, they they're looking at that 30

day sprint, they've either done well, or they haven't done well.

But then you have that option to evaluate. And then you have

that, you know that responsibility to kind of

readjust and go at it again without losing months or even

years at a time.

Yeah, there's I think he made some really

interesting points there. And I just kind of thinking about some

phrases that I've kind of used my own life. And one of them is

the Christmas planning panic, which he recalls Christmas rolls

around. And you realize you have some panic in your life about

several areas. Sometimes it's about I haven't done my

Christmas shopping or whatever, that kind of stuff, it also has

to do with I just haven't accomplished what I thought I

would and you try to get it all done. And you know, the last

party super just doesn't work that way. Because you've let

things go too much. And that's goes to the other piece of

things that is you, as I've sometimes termed it, the

Comfortably Numb club, where you just kind of stay stuck. And

you're just kind of numb and you just kind of zone out whether

it's watching TV or internet or whatever. And you don't take the

action and you have live with regret and remorse and all those

things and, and too many people are stuck there. And I think

this past year 2020 we had a lot of folks who were found

themselves in this pandemic situation where all of a sudden

your life hit them like a ton of bricks. Some people responded by

saying Okay, I'm going to take this time and do something with

it. Other people just were kind of just kind of shocked into

numbness again. And what I'm hearing you say here is there's

practices and processes that you can implement with your program

that can help us to do that. And I'd like to see talk to you now

for distributor to about the evidence of that. What I mean by

that is you've got this just your program six months to

success, the I got smarter app, and your your book. So that

means that you've probably got some new people who have

impacted in your programs and that is like to hear a little

bit about either success or a story or stories about some of

the folks who have implemented your process and how it made

some difference to them. Do you have a good story for us?

Oh yeah. Yeah, there, there was a

gentleman who joined our program. He had been unemployed

for maybe nine, maybe 10 months. And this was, this wasn't this

year, this was the previous years, struggled, was depressed,

you know, just was not in a good place really in any area of his

life, and joined our program, got the support came to the

community, really dug in for the first time, and determined what

he wanted with his life want, what he wanted with his goals,

and was able to, you know, within, within three months, he

found like his dream job, he had lost like 15 or 20 pounds, the

relationships that, you know, at his family level, were better

than they had been in, you know, a decade. And all that was is he

just started to live life with focus again. And what he

realized was, again, you know, with my book, he wasn't a victim

of his circumstances he was, he was a product of the choices

that he started to make. And what he started to do was, as

he, as he kind of got through the program, and every day that

he put behind him, he started to build up that momentum. And he

started to believe in himself. And he started to realize that

he was in control. And I think a lot of times people, they feel

like, the reason that life is hard for them has been because

of outside forces. And as soon as we start assigning our

problems, our issues, our happiness, to outside forces, we

give away all that control, because there's nothing that we

can do if we're assigning it to other people, places or things.

And as soon as he took responsibility for his happiness

for his goals, and for his life, and he realized that he was in

charge, that's when he started to build that momentum. And, you

know, it's been over a year now, and his life is drastically

different. And his health is better than it's been in two

decades, his relationships are better than they've been in a

long time. And he's, you know, still working at a job that he

loves and loves to go to every day. Awesome. Awesome. That's

good. Great to hear. And that raised me around

to what I wanted us to focus in now on the folks who may be

listening to our voices here today. And you know, target of

what beyond adversity about is about helping people who have

experienced some adverse conditions and help them to come

out a better place I like to call it peace, prosperity and

purpose. But you provide us some tools and resources, of course,

and book and so on. So what are people going to find? Let's say

there is someone who's kind of stuck, or they're in that numb

place. And they've heard your story now, what are they going

to find it your websites and on your app that they can apply to

their life?

Yeah, I think you know, my book, the

unlucky sperm club, you're, you're not a victim of your

circumstances, but a product of your choices, I think that's a

great place to start. Because I think that kind of jerks a lot

of people out of that victim mindset that they're stuck in.

And they realize that there's people who are out there and

very hard situations that figure out a way to do it. So I think,

you know, the book is going to give you some inspiration, some

motivation. And then the program and the app I got smarter is

going to give you that plan that's going to give you that

program, it's going to give you that the knowledge and the

support, and the tools to finally follow through with what

you know you need to do in order to accomplish your goals. And in

that community will encourage you to stick with it. Because

success is not an event. And I think a lot of people feel like

you know, if I just make it here, everything's going to be

better. Success is not an event. It's a journey. And in fact,

success is a journey that never ends, we're always should be

striving to become that better version of ourselves. Because in

our program, the AI stands for the individual, you know, that

person staring back at you in the mirror every single day.

Everything in your life will you know reflect what type of person

you are, what type of choices you're making, and what type of

person you're becoming. And we start with that and everything

kind of funnels to that person. That's what we're constantly

working on. Because the only way that you're going to achieve

those goals is that you're going to become the person who can

achieve those goals. So we're always working on that person,

that individual Awesome.

Well, you've heard it here now folks. The good

people have DB audit versity audience that and Elsa Trusler

has some things to offer to you and you can find him at I got

smarter, calm, that's the app and six months To success.com

and it's been our pleasure here today on beyond adversity to