Bryan Reeves is a former US Air Force Captain turned Author, Coach and Speaker.
He has triumphed through multiple dark nights of the soul after hurling himself into the transformational fires of intimate relationships over and over again.
Bryan now coaches men, women and couples in creating thriving lives and relationships and has worked alongside Rev. Michael Beckwith, Marianne Williamson, Deepak Chopra, The Oracle of Tibet, Don Miguel Ruiz and others.
He is a regular blog contributor to The Good Men Project, Elephant Journal, Raw Attraction Magazine, Sexy Conscious Awake and more.
And his book “The Sex, Flirting, Dating, Hunting and Hoping Diet” is available on Amazon.
Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra
[spp-tweet tweet="Get beneath the level of the complaint."]
Tripped Up in a Partnership
When Bryan was in a relationship with a woman and she said to him, “When I’m angry, I just want you to hold me.” He always thought that when she was angry, she was like an exploding bomb and that was the last thing he wanted to hold. Then he learned that she was asking him to hold her in her upset and his world changed.
The “DUH” moment that changed your partnerships forever
Years ago, Bryan did not know how clueless he was at that time. Now, he is no less clueless. He just knows that he’s clueless. The awareness of how clueless he is creates space to be real with his partner now.
Proudest moment in partnership
When Bryan has been able to support his partner in doing what it is that they feel called to do, even when it seems to run counter to his interests.
Current Partnership that Has You Excited
His partnership with his coach that is shifting him from living in a mindset of fear to living in a mindset of love
What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?
Getting out of his head and realizing that his feminine partner just wants to feel connected.