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Business Building Insights
- Find people who motivate you and see your potential.
- Speaking in person allows you to be seen as an expert and authority.
- The more you do it, the easier it gets.
- As a speaker it’s not about you, it’s about the audience.
- It’s the message that you bring to the audience that makes the impact.
- The benefits of public speaking are brand awareness, personal branding, lead generation & marketing.
- Stick to one to three ideas for your presentation.
- As the speaker you’re the authority and the guide to help the audience.
- Don’t rush the ending of your presentation because that’s what people remember most.
- Finish your presentation with a story.
- Make speaking a part of your marketing strategy.
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You're listening to gift biz on wrapped episode way for it.
Speaker:200 find those people who fan your flames,
Speaker:who encourage you and motivate you and see your potential and
Speaker:know that you can get there.
Speaker:At Tinton gifters,
Speaker:bakers, crafters and makers pursuing your dream can be fun.
Speaker:Whether you have an established business or looking to start one
Speaker:now you are in the right place.
Speaker:This is gift to biz unwrapped,
Speaker:helping you turn your skill into a flourishing business.
Speaker:Join us for an episode packed full of invaluable guidance,
Speaker:resources, and the support you need to grow your gift biz.
Speaker:Here is your host gift biz gal,
Speaker:Sue moon Heights.
Speaker:Thank you so much for joining me On episode 200 yes,
Speaker:you've heard it right.
Speaker:I've been podcasting now for almost four years and something really
Speaker:interesting has just happened over the last couple of weeks.
Speaker:I've had a huge jump in listeners.
Speaker:I don't know why.
Speaker:I don't know if it's the time in,
Speaker:I don't know if people are just finding us.
Speaker:I have no clue.
Speaker:But obviously whenever you're advancing and you're seeing your numbers rise,
Speaker:that is a cause for celebration.
Speaker:If you'd like to help me celebrate,
Speaker:there's a great way that you can do that and that
Speaker:is by going over to iTunes and subscribing and reviewing the
Speaker:show. So here's what happens when you do that,
Speaker:and this is why it's helpful when you subscribe the episodes
Speaker:when they go live,
Speaker:automatically download to your phone so you don't have to worry
Speaker:about missing a single show.
Speaker:And then when you do a review,
Speaker:it also helps get more eyes on this podcast.
Speaker:It's a great way to pay it forward.
Speaker:So other makers just like you can start learning and growing
Speaker:their businesses.
Speaker:Given that I'm celebrating podcasting today,
Speaker:my guest is a perfect fit.
Speaker:After all,
Speaker:podcasting is doing what?
Speaker:Sharing ideas,
Speaker:right? Well,
Speaker:today we're going to be talking about you getting your voice
Speaker:to be heard and sharing your thoughts and your knowledge.
Speaker:I'm going to do Carol's intro in a minute,
Speaker:but here's what you're going to learn,
Speaker:how to put your message out into the world in a
Speaker:public forum.
Speaker:Whether that's standing up and talking at a networking meeting or
Speaker:a BNI presentation or actually doing a formal presentation at a
Speaker:trade show or maybe even a keynote speech.
Speaker:Why not think big?
Speaker:We start with why you should think about doing this in
Speaker:the first place.
Speaker:She's going to talk about how to construct your talk and
Speaker:make sure to listen through because Carol is sharing with us
Speaker:a really valuable free download to help you construct your talk.
Speaker:And finally,
Speaker:the thing that I think is on all of our minds
Speaker:when we think about getting up in front of people and
Speaker:talking the nerves,
Speaker:Carol talks about why get nervous and then the most important
Speaker:thing, how do you overcome those nerves when it's time for
Speaker:you to get up and talk?
Speaker:There are specific things that you can do to calm yourself
Speaker:down and make sure you're presenting yourself the best you possibly
Speaker:can. You have a valuable message to get out into the
Speaker:market and right now,
Speaker:Carol has a valuable message for us.
Speaker:So let's get right to our interview.
Speaker:Carol Cox is the founder of speaking your brand,
Speaker:which helps high performing purpose-driven women entrepreneurs and professionals create their
Speaker:signature talks to grow their business and become recognized as influencers
Speaker:in their fields.
Speaker:So these are talks like keynote addresses,
Speaker:TEDx and business presentations.
Speaker:Carol is the host of the speaking your brand podcast and
Speaker:a sought after speaker and trainer on public speaking,
Speaker:business storytelling and women's leadership.
Speaker:Carol teaches business and marketing classes at full sail university and
Speaker:during election seasons serves as a political analyst on TV news.
Speaker:Welcome to the gift biz unwrapped podcast.
Speaker:Carol, Thank you so much for having me see you.
Speaker:I am delighted to be here.
Speaker:This is going to be a fun,
Speaker:fun conversation.
Speaker:I'm so excited to get into it,
Speaker:but before we get started,
Speaker:I like to ask you my traditional question that everybody answers.
Speaker:So I know this is a little bit different for you,
Speaker:but we're going with it.
Speaker:If you were to share a little bit more about yourself
Speaker:through the image of a motivational candle,
Speaker:what color would your candle be and what would be the
Speaker:quote on your candle?
Speaker:Okay, so because this is who I am,
Speaker:I'm going to go not just with a color but with
Speaker:the smell.
Speaker:Because when you were doing the introduction,
Speaker:I thought,
Speaker:I feel like I need some cookies around here because I
Speaker:know that your audience and the people that you help are
Speaker:bakers and makers and crafters and creators and so I'm like,
Speaker:I feel like I need some cookies.
Speaker:So my candle's going to be probably like a cookie dough
Speaker:color, kind of like a vanilla ish color cookie dough color,
Speaker:and it smells like cookies,
Speaker:like chocolate chip cookies Being hungry.
Speaker:I know,
Speaker:I know.
Speaker:I think it's because it's lunchtime,
Speaker:so I'm ready to eat right now.
Speaker:So that's what the candle would look like and smell like.
Speaker:And the motivational quote that I would have on it,
Speaker:this is one of my favorite ones.
Speaker:I use it in my presentations a lot.
Speaker:It's by the poet Rumi.
Speaker:He was a Sufi poet from hundreds of years ago and
Speaker:his quote is,
Speaker:set your life on fire.
Speaker:Seek those who fan your flames.
Speaker:So find those people around you.
Speaker:Find that community,
Speaker:Sue, you've done that with the community you've created for the
Speaker:people who listened to this podcast is find those people who
Speaker:fan your flames,
Speaker:who encourage you and motivate you and see your potential and
Speaker:know that you can get there.
Speaker:So important to have a support system behind you.
Speaker:Absolutely. Let's dive into your background.
Speaker:And it's interesting because a lot of people when they think
Speaker:speaking, it's like they want to turn and run the other
Speaker:way. Right.
Speaker:So you dove into it,
Speaker:your profession.
Speaker:How did that all come about?
Speaker:I've always enjoyed getting up in front of people and doing
Speaker:presentations. Even back when I was in middle school,
Speaker:grade school,
Speaker:middle school,
Speaker:high school,
Speaker:that was one of the most enjoyable parts of the class.
Speaker:It would be getting presentations.
Speaker:And when I was in high school,
Speaker:I was a member of the speech and debate team.
Speaker:So I went and did that regularly.
Speaker:And then when I was in college,
Speaker:I was in the model United nations club.
Speaker:So we would do presentations and speeches pretending that we were
Speaker:different countries in the UN.
Speaker:And so I've always enjoyed public speaking.
Speaker:I enjoyed the performance aspect of it,
Speaker:but I'm not an actor.
Speaker:I don't have an acting talent,
Speaker:so I can't pretend to be someone else,
Speaker:but I'm happy to share,
Speaker:share knowledge and information and to teach and to train others.
Speaker:And so,
Speaker:but I didn't actually start this business.
Speaker:Speaking of your brand until 2015 prior to that,
Speaker:my graduate degree is in history and then I was in
Speaker:technology. I became a programmer,
Speaker:started to software businesses,
Speaker:worked with all different types of companies from fortune 500 companies
Speaker:to startups,
Speaker:political organizations and everything in between.
Speaker:And so part of that,
Speaker:I would naturally go to conferences.
Speaker:I would speak at conferences,
Speaker:I would do software demos at conferences.
Speaker:So it was always been a big part of what I've
Speaker:done in my businesses and in my career.
Speaker:And I realized that is such an important marketing channel nowadays,
Speaker:especially because our focus tends to be so much online and
Speaker:online is so noisy nowadays that it's easy to get lost.
Speaker:But when you're standing in front of a room at a
Speaker:conference or at a local group,
Speaker:all eyes and ears are on you.
Speaker:You're commanding attention and you're seen as the expert and the
Speaker:authority on your subject matter,
Speaker:which is so much easier to do when you're speaking in
Speaker:person or even on,
Speaker:I know we're going to talk about Facebook live video and
Speaker:other videos too,
Speaker:but then it is just to be just putting content out
Speaker:online of course as a place for both,
Speaker:but I think we've neglected the in-person aspect of our businesses.
Speaker:I think so.
Speaker:Especially when you talk about social media because that's the big
Speaker:bright thing everyone's talking about and we kind of forget the
Speaker:things that have been done before that still are really solid
Speaker:business building tools.
Speaker:Not as many people are doing it so you can capitalize
Speaker:on that because others are not in that space.
Speaker:Good point.
Speaker:I just have to say when you were talking about your
Speaker:background and how speaking and the performance part of it naturally
Speaker:comes to you,
Speaker:I just picture you in grade school or high school with
Speaker:the groups.
Speaker:You know how you used to get together as groups and
Speaker:do a presentation or create something and then it's like,
Speaker:okay, who's going to do the presentation?
Speaker:So I bet you they always turned and said,
Speaker:okay Kerala to you.
Speaker:Yeah I am sure that happened.
Speaker:Or I volunteered myself right away.
Speaker:Right from the start.
Speaker:Like I'd be happy to do that.
Speaker:And everyone else probably side.
Speaker:Yeah. Which means everyone wanted you in their group by the
Speaker:way. So as local business owners and makers as you were
Speaker:referencing before,
Speaker:I think a lot of us,
Speaker:and I also am one who likes to speak,
Speaker:but I'm just thinking on behalf of our listeners,
Speaker:never thought that this would be something that they'd have to
Speaker:think about as a business owner.
Speaker:So let's start with why should they even be considering doing
Speaker:something that for many feels very scary.
Speaker:What's the value?
Speaker:Well, let me address why it feels scary first and because
Speaker:I like the objections out of the way and then we
Speaker:can talk about the value of it.
Speaker:Carol, why does it feel scary?
Speaker:It's scary for a couple of reasons.
Speaker:Number one is that I believe it's the fear of the
Speaker:unknown. When you go up and stand in front of a
Speaker:group of people,
Speaker:whether it's 10 people or a hundred people or 500 or
Speaker:a thousand people,
Speaker:there are so many unknowns.
Speaker:What is the room going to look like?
Speaker:Where are people going to be seated?
Speaker:What is this age going to look like?
Speaker:Where am I going to be standing?
Speaker:How is the microphone gonna work?
Speaker:How are my slides going to work?
Speaker:If I have slides?
Speaker:There are so many questions and because it's not an environment
Speaker:that we're in every day or regularly,
Speaker:we're not comfortable with it.
Speaker:And so that fear of the unknown is what naturally produces
Speaker:nerves. So there's strategies you can use to find out more
Speaker:information about where you're going to speak and see pictures and
Speaker:videos and do visualizations and get more comfortable.
Speaker:So that's one part of it is the fear of the
Speaker:unknown. The other part is really based on our physiology.
Speaker:If we think about it,
Speaker:our brains,
Speaker:even though we're our modern civilization,
Speaker:are still wired from tens of thousands of years ago,
Speaker:and when we're standing in front of a group of people
Speaker:all by ourselves in an open area,
Speaker:we are considered vulnerable and so our physiology,
Speaker:our brain is telling us we should not be standing here
Speaker:by ourselves because if we were on the Savannah,
Speaker:a predator could come easily get us and kill us.
Speaker:Now, I know this sounds really weird,
Speaker:but this is all happening subconsciously in our minds,
Speaker:which is why when you get up in front of a
Speaker:group of people,
Speaker:you get butterflies in your stomach,
Speaker:your heart starts to race,
Speaker:you get a little sweaty,
Speaker:you get short of breath is because your body is getting
Speaker:ready to either fight or flee or freeze is having this
Speaker:physiological reaction with the adrenaline and cortisol because you're feeling very
Speaker:vulnerable standing in that spot.
Speaker:Now I will tell you,
Speaker:the more you do it,
Speaker:the easier it gets.
Speaker:I promise.
Speaker:It really,
Speaker:really does and people tell me this all the time.
Speaker:It's just that unknown.
Speaker:And then getting more comfortable with being in that environment.
Speaker:Your body will start to react differently.
Speaker:And there's breathing exercises and as I mentioned,
Speaker:visualization that you can do to help you get to that
Speaker:point. So for those of you who are listening,
Speaker:who are saying to yourself,
Speaker:I am terrified of public speaking,
Speaker:I dread public speaking.
Speaker:Trust me,
Speaker:I understand where you're coming from.
Speaker:But if it's something that you really want to do,
Speaker:if this is a skill that you want to develop,
Speaker:Oh, you know,
Speaker:it can help you move your business forward.
Speaker:There are things that you can do to get better at
Speaker:it. So I'll,
Speaker:I'll say that.
Speaker:Well, and I think that what you've just said is really
Speaker:important because I think a lot of people will think it's
Speaker:just them.
Speaker:They're the only ones who are so afraid of being in
Speaker:the spotlight in front of a room.
Speaker:And so they must not be cut out to do it
Speaker:because they're so afraid.
Speaker:So just by knowing what you went through,
Speaker:that it's innately there in all of us.
Speaker:I mean that's how we survived in the past.
Speaker:And just understanding that that's where that comes from.
Speaker:Should give people a little bit of comfort.
Speaker:Yes. And also we are our worst critic on ourselves.
Speaker:So if you go up and do a speaking presentation,
Speaker:you probably notice if you had a few fumbles or if
Speaker:you forgot something or if you were nervous.
Speaker:But the audience for the most part probably has no idea.
Speaker:They don't see what you're seeing for yourself and they're not
Speaker:hard on you.
Speaker:Like you're hard on yourself.
Speaker:So keep doing it because you will improve.
Speaker:And here's the primary thing to remember as the speaker.
Speaker:It's not about you,
Speaker:it's about the audience.
Speaker:You have a message,
Speaker:you have something important that you can share to them.
Speaker:You can give them inspiration about how you started your business.
Speaker:You started creating something in your home and now you have
Speaker:a business.
Speaker:There are people in the audience who have a dream to
Speaker:do the same thing and you're giving them hope and inspiration
Speaker:that they can do it too.
Speaker:So we have to remove ourselves a bit from the speaking
Speaker:process. And remember that it's the message that we're bringing to
Speaker:the audience that's making the impact.
Speaker:Yes, I agree.
Speaker:Carol, I don't know if you've had this.
Speaker:I bet you have,
Speaker:and also give biz listeners.
Speaker:I bet you you've seen this too where you've been to
Speaker:a speaking event and someone gets up and they're so anxious
Speaker:and the very worst fear happens.
Speaker:They freeze.
Speaker:They don't know what to say.
Speaker:They want to run off the stage and I remember several
Speaker:times when I've been sitting in the audience and that's happened
Speaker:and all you want to do is reach out and hug
Speaker:that person and just say,
Speaker:it's okay.
Speaker:Just tell me what you're here to say because we want
Speaker:to know.
Speaker:Yes, just start.
Speaker:The first three to five minutes are good to feel shaky
Speaker:because again,
Speaker:your body's kind of getting into the groove and your mind
Speaker:is kicking in.
Speaker:You can get past the first three to five minutes and
Speaker:just keep going.
Speaker:You're going to start getting more comfortable and when I work
Speaker:with my clients,
Speaker:there are strategies that we do in the very beginning of
Speaker:their presentation.
Speaker:When you first start to help build that comfort for yourself
Speaker:so you're not starting cold.
Speaker:Ooh, are we going to talk about those later?
Speaker:Yeah, we can do that.
Speaker:Make a little note.
Speaker:I'm making myself a note.
Speaker:We'll tease the listeners.
Speaker:Keep listening,
Speaker:but to,
Speaker:to your point,
Speaker:so am I podcast speaking your brand.
Speaker:A few months ago I did an episode,
Speaker:it was episode number 92 and it was about a TEDx
Speaker:talk that I gave in 2016 and I had never shared
Speaker:publicly what happened to me when I gave that TEDx talk
Speaker:because as the speaking coach I messed up.
Speaker:It was incredibly embarrassing to me.
Speaker:Of course the audience was fine,
Speaker:but to me I was mortified and knock his chair exactly
Speaker:what happened cause you have to go listen to the episode
Speaker:to get all the details.
Speaker:But it happens to all of us and there's reasons that
Speaker:it happened because of the particular content that I was sharing
Speaker:and a whole bunch of stuff that was going on with
Speaker:me mentally that led to that.
Speaker:But no one's immune.
Speaker:Sometimes things happen.
Speaker:We have to give ourselves grace and know that life goes
Speaker:on. Absolutely.
Speaker:When you go up,
Speaker:if something like that happens and you stumble,
Speaker:let's say,
Speaker:that doesn't reflect on you as a person and who you
Speaker:are. It's just a point in time,
Speaker:right? We're human.
Speaker:Yeah, and so many times,
Speaker:back to the idea that I was talking about where someone
Speaker:gets up there and freezes normally when they actually start going
Speaker:and get in the groove as you were talking about Carol,
Speaker:then the rest of their presentation is awesome and then how
Speaker:great does it feel when you walk off a stage and
Speaker:you've done a good job,
Speaker:you've delivered your message.
Speaker:It's exhilarating.
Speaker:It really is.
Speaker:You get that runner's high because of the endorphins.
Speaker:You get endorphins from speaking as well.
Speaker:Oh, I didn't know that.
Speaker:Oh yeah.
Speaker:Oh, I mean,
Speaker:or at least for people who enjoy it.
Speaker:If you get to the point where you can actually enjoy
Speaker:it and don't feel like you're just tolerating it,
Speaker:you're going to get in.
Speaker:It is,
Speaker:your adrenaline is going,
Speaker:you're excited.
Speaker:You're seeing the connections the audience is making with the content
Speaker:that you're sharing.
Speaker:You're seeing those aha moments.
Speaker:The audience is getting into it.
Speaker:You're seeing the effect that they're having and they're getting excited
Speaker:about what's possible for them.
Speaker:And then you start to realize what a bigger impact you
Speaker:can have other than just the product you're making.
Speaker:Very interesting.
Speaker:Okay, so let's talk now about why someone would do this.
Speaker:Now we've laid the groundwork a little bit about where there's
Speaker:anxiety and all of that,
Speaker:but what would be the value to a business owner to
Speaker:get up and speak in some format?
Speaker:So there's a few different things when we're,
Speaker:one would be to increase your,
Speaker:the brand awareness,
Speaker:so awareness of your business that it exists and what it
Speaker:is that your business does.
Speaker:And then we will come back to that.
Speaker:So I would say number one,
Speaker:brand awareness.
Speaker:Number two would be your own personal brand as the CEO,
Speaker:as the founder,
Speaker:as the creator.
Speaker:So if you want to develop your own personal brand,
Speaker:so have people know about who you are as a leader
Speaker:in your industry.
Speaker:A leader in your community.
Speaker:Speaking and visibility is one of the best ways to do
Speaker:that. And then number three would be for lead generation and
Speaker:for sales.
Speaker:So I would say those would be for your audience,
Speaker:the three primary reasons to do public speaking,
Speaker:your business brand,
Speaker:your personal brand,
Speaker:and then for leads and sales.
Speaker:Okay. So as we think about our marketing Strategies,
Speaker:a lot of people who are listening are on social media,
Speaker:which we've already talked about,
Speaker:are probably doing some type of,
Speaker:well maybe,
Speaker:maybe, maybe not print advertising,
Speaker:They're going out to craft shows.
Speaker:So there's brochures.
Speaker:So speaking is another portion of all of this.
Speaker:It's another way of reaching an audience.
Speaker:So it's not just a one all that's all you do.
Speaker:It integrates in with things that you're already doing.
Speaker:Absolutely. Yes,
Speaker:it is a piece of your marketing and visibility mix.
Speaker:Perfect. Okay.
Speaker:So you were saying you were going to get back to
Speaker:brand awareness.
Speaker:Yeah. So if you think about,
Speaker:so you mentioned that if you're going to a conference where
Speaker:you're going to a trade show or even to a local
Speaker:chamber of commerce or a local business group,
Speaker:if you have someone's flyer or brochure or business card we
Speaker:get all the time,
Speaker:we kind of look at it and what usually happens,
Speaker:it goes onto the corner of our desk or into our
Speaker:bag or maybe even into the trash can,
Speaker:right? Because we look at it and here today gone tomorrow,
Speaker:easily forgotten because we have so much information that's coming at
Speaker:us all of the time.
Speaker:Now think about a speaker who you saw in the past
Speaker:few months or the past year at a conference you attended
Speaker:or a trade show or a business group or networking group.
Speaker:You probably can picture in your mind that room and that
Speaker:speaker at the front of the room talking and maybe you
Speaker:can even remember a bit about what the content would that
Speaker:person was talking about.
Speaker:So you were going to a conference and that person was
Speaker:talking about social media strategies or website search engine optimization strategies
Speaker:or strategies for improving your visibility on Etsy,
Speaker:whatever it happens to be.
Speaker:Now, if you're ready to hire someone to help you with
Speaker:one of those things,
Speaker:that speaker is probably going to come up in your mind
Speaker:first because you have a lot of cues to remember them.
Speaker:You heard them,
Speaker:you saw them,
Speaker:you were physically in their presence versus someone's flyer that you
Speaker:happen to walk by and pick up at a trade show
Speaker:or at an event.
Speaker:So it leaves a much deeper impact.
Speaker:Yes, absolutely.
Speaker:And because as a speaker,
Speaker:you're that expert authority.
Speaker:Now for your listeners who are the makers and the creators
Speaker:and the bakers and the crafters,
Speaker:you may be thinking,
Speaker:why don't do social media strategies on service based business like
Speaker:that? So in that sense,
Speaker:then imagine that you are at a chamber of commerce or
Speaker:you're at a conference and you have the product that you've
Speaker:created and this is what's so great about your audience,
Speaker:Sue, is that they have props.
Speaker:They naturally have hops that they can bring with them to
Speaker:speaking engagements,
Speaker:service based businesses.
Speaker:We don't really have really great props that we can bring
Speaker:unless we make something up that goes with our content.
Speaker:But you all can bring food.
Speaker:People love food.
Speaker:Absolutely. You're bringing examples of your products,
Speaker:you're showing them textures and colors and whatever it happens to
Speaker:be. So that's another way to for people to remember it.
Speaker:And so,
Speaker:and if you share your entrepreneurial journey as your signature talk
Speaker:as a presentation that you're giving,
Speaker:you're helping the audience understand what it is that you do
Speaker:with the product that you make,
Speaker:but they're getting value because they're hearing about your entrepreneurial journey
Speaker:or some obstacle that happened that you got past or how
Speaker:you never imagined that you would end up as an entrepreneur.
Speaker:Whatever your story is.
Speaker:That could be the basis of your signature talk.
Speaker:I'm sure a question is,
Speaker:well, why would I just,
Speaker:I'm just gonna talk about how to bake my cookies.
Speaker:No, like that's probably,
Speaker:I mean there could be a place for that,
Speaker:but that's not what we're talking about.
Speaker:Something bigger here.
Speaker:You're sharing your journey and then the audience sees themselves in
Speaker:you and then they refer you to other people for speaking
Speaker:engagements for leads,
Speaker:for bigger contracts,
Speaker:bigger clients like Sue.
Speaker:I know with your ribbon printing business,
Speaker:you have large clients and big orders and so I'm sure
Speaker:some of your listeners are imagining,
Speaker:well, maybe that's something that I could do one day is
Speaker:increasing to scale will.
Speaker:It's through these relationships and networks that you're going to make
Speaker:by being a speaker that you're going to start getting to
Speaker:those people who are going to help you make that happen.
Speaker:Yeah, I totally agree and I also think within our industries,
Speaker:there's the challenge that there are other people that,
Speaker:let's say someone's a jewelry maker.
Speaker:Well we know there's a ton of people who are making
Speaker:jewelry or cupcake shops or whatever it is.
Speaker:Someone else is already making a similar product that you are
Speaker:making. But by adding that overlay of a story,
Speaker:I think it endears our customers to us and they're going
Speaker:to want to buy from us more because they know our
Speaker:story versus someone who all it is is a name on
Speaker:a card or a name on it.
Speaker:Even a storefront.
Speaker:If they know your story,
Speaker:it's a more personal connection.
Speaker:Would you agree?
Speaker:Oh absolutely.
Speaker:Because not only do you remember it,
Speaker:but then you're,
Speaker:you start to think,
Speaker:well I want to support that business.
Speaker:I want to support that entrepreneur,
Speaker:that founder because I heard their story and I understand where
Speaker:they came from and I believe in them and I'm happy
Speaker:to support them.
Speaker:Versus either a larger company,
Speaker:a larger conglomerate where you could buy a similar product from
Speaker:whatever it happens to be or from someone else down the
Speaker:street who you don't know.
Speaker:So what do you say to somebody who says,
Speaker:I don't have a story.
Speaker:What would my story be?
Speaker:And the way I started it was so easy,
Speaker:so boring.
Speaker:You may think it's boring because you're so close to it
Speaker:and it seems maybe natural or inevitable or just the next
Speaker:step, but if you really went back and looked about what
Speaker:you were doing say the year prior to when you started
Speaker:your business and then what has happened since you started your
Speaker:business. There are way points along the way that are instructional
Speaker:and helpful for other people to hear and then also think
Speaker:about whose stories have you read or have you heard that
Speaker:inspired you and what was it about their stories that inspired
Speaker:you is because they come from a similar background as you
Speaker:did they have similar obstacles?
Speaker:It was it a similar product?
Speaker:Did they start around the same time period as you,
Speaker:so find what stories have been interesting to you and see
Speaker:how those relate to your own story.
Speaker:Love that direction.
Speaker:I was also,
Speaker:as you're talking,
Speaker:trying to think of like what other angles for all of
Speaker:us it could be and it might be things like how
Speaker:you ended up developing this crazy technique that you now use
Speaker:in all your products.
Speaker:That never was around before and you created it.
Speaker:What's the story behind that or funny events that have happened
Speaker:now that you're a business owner that you would have never
Speaker:known behind the scenes knowledge of a business owner that the
Speaker:shop looks great from the front here,
Speaker:the crazy things that happen inside,
Speaker:you know I loved like the messy behind the scenes sneak
Speaker:peaks and stories and that's really good.
Speaker:Not just for speaking in person but also for videos.
Speaker:Whether Instagram videos or Facebook live videos or YouTube videos is
Speaker:not only showing the finished product but showing how it was
Speaker:made showing the behind this.
Speaker:Right? Absolutely.
Speaker:All right,
Speaker:wonderful. So think about stories you guys in terms of what
Speaker:that could look like for you.
Speaker:And now I think I've out that you're going to give
Speaker:us some goodness here on how you get started and motivate
Speaker:yourself. And I'm going to draw this out just a little
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Speaker:So let's say you,
Speaker:You decided,
Speaker:all right,
Speaker:you're part of a BNI group for example,
Speaker:and you are now going to be the presenter for the
Speaker:next meeting.
Speaker:What types of things should someone prepare in terms of content
Speaker:of the presentation?
Speaker:Should they have like a whole written out thing or bullet
Speaker:points or does it depend on personalities or what do you
Speaker:do with that?
Speaker:I'm a proponent of having an outline with bullet points,
Speaker:having a word for word script.
Speaker:Unless you're doing something like a TEDx talk where it's time
Speaker:limited and the content has to be very tight because of
Speaker:the nature of that type of presentation.
Speaker:Other than that,
Speaker:you really don't want to script it out word for word
Speaker:because you're making it more difficult for yourself.
Speaker:Number one,
Speaker:you would have to memorize all that and number two,
Speaker:then you're worried you're going to mess up.
Speaker:You're going to forget us a sentence.
Speaker:You're going to mess up a word and so that's going
Speaker:to add to the nerves so much more so you don't
Speaker:need to script it out,
Speaker:especially for a local presentation or a conference presentation.
Speaker:Do an outline,
Speaker:do bullet points and then you do want to practice it
Speaker:because you want to get comfortable with the material.
Speaker:You want to know am I hitting the time allotment that
Speaker:I have,
Speaker:whether it's 10 minutes or 30 minutes or 45 minutes or
Speaker:what have you.
Speaker:So you do want to do an outline.
Speaker:Now there's a story structure framework that I've created that gives
Speaker:you an outline to follow when creating your presentations and also
Speaker:really for creating your videos or any other type of content
Speaker:as well.
Speaker:So you're not starting from a blank document or from a
Speaker:blank slide cause that's a lot of time where most of
Speaker:us started like,
Speaker:well I don't know what to put first and what to
Speaker:put next and that's where we end and walk away too.
Speaker:Right, exactly.
Speaker:Where it's like,
Speaker:okay, forget it.
Speaker:I'm just going to wing it,
Speaker:move on.
Speaker:I'm just not going to do it or I'm going to
Speaker:wing it.
Speaker:We don't want to do those two options.
Speaker:So Sue,
Speaker:for your listeners,
Speaker:I do have a PDF download that they can get that
Speaker:has a story structure framework in it so they can download
Speaker:this PDF.
Speaker:They can even print it out and then they can follow
Speaker:that framework to create the outline for their presentation.
Speaker:Oh wow.
Speaker:Carol, thank you.
Speaker:Yeah, no problem.
Speaker:We didn't talk about that.
Speaker:That's a surprise to me too.
Speaker:Well I always like to give listeners because it's so nice
Speaker:to have this resource and that's going to be a speaking
Speaker:your brand.com/gift
Speaker:biz. Yes.
Speaker:Biz BIC is where they can download that.
Speaker:Perfect. And this you guys will be in the show notes,
Speaker:so if you're out and about and you don't remember it,
Speaker:just jump over to the show notes and I'll have the
Speaker:link there for that.
Speaker:So exciting.
Speaker:And so that will give us the outline in terms of
Speaker:the first things you talk about and just the whole structure
Speaker:and then we fill in the content.
Speaker:We follow your outline,
Speaker:the framework,
Speaker:Right, exactly.
Speaker:So like,
Speaker:so for example,
Speaker:a lot of presentations,
Speaker:people start off with their bio slide,
Speaker:you have your title and then you do your introduction about
Speaker:me, about yourself,
Speaker:about your company.
Speaker:And that's what you should not do.
Speaker:You should not start by talking about yourself and your bio
Speaker:and your background and instead to,
Speaker:because the audience doesn't have context yet as far as why
Speaker:they should care about you or about the company that you
Speaker:started in that you run.
Speaker:You have to start with why are they there?
Speaker:What's in it for them?
Speaker:What are they trying to achieve?
Speaker:You start there,
Speaker:what's getting in the way of what they want to achieve,
Speaker:what are those obstacles?
Speaker:And then you bring in,
Speaker:here's who I am.
Speaker:I've faced similar obstacles cause I wanted a similar goal and
Speaker:now we're going to talk about how to get there.
Speaker:Okay, so why should they listen to you?
Speaker:So what's in it for them?
Speaker:The obstacles that have probably come up before that have prevented
Speaker:that. And then the piece on you is the credibility play
Speaker:of why are you the one to share with them,
Speaker:how to overcome whatever That issue is.
Speaker:Exactly. And then you go into the details of that,
Speaker:of the actual content,
Speaker:what the audience can do,
Speaker:maybe three key ideas,
Speaker:usually not more than three because we don't remember things when
Speaker:there's too much content.
Speaker:So break it down into three things and then the story
Speaker:structure framework has all of this as well as some other
Speaker:additional detail that will be helpful.
Speaker:And so that's for content.
Speaker:Now for a BNI group,
Speaker:probably you have a shorter amount of time in that than
Speaker:you would say doing a breakout session at a conference.
Speaker:So what we've just talked about here would be like for
Speaker:an hour presentation or 45 minutes an hour or something like
Speaker:that. Yeah,
Speaker:anywhere from like 30 minutes to an hour would be good.
Speaker:I like conference or a chamber of commerce group or something
Speaker:like that.
Speaker:If you're doing a networking where maybe you only have five
Speaker:or 10 minutes,
Speaker:then really you still want to do the same thing where
Speaker:you start with what does the audience want,
Speaker:why are they there?
Speaker:What's their goal was preventing them from getting there?
Speaker:Your credibility and then you're really just sharing one key idea,
Speaker:one key point to help them versus sharing a lot more
Speaker:content because too many times we feel like we need to
Speaker:brain dump everything we know to the audience in 10 minutes
Speaker:or 30 minutes or an hour and we can't.
Speaker:It's not physically possible to do that and then the audience
Speaker:gets overwhelmed,
Speaker:so instead stick to one to three key ideas.
Speaker:I think that makes so much sense because I've seen so
Speaker:many times and listened to speakers and they've said a lot
Speaker:of words,
Speaker:but when I walk away,
Speaker:I have no idea what the message was or what to
Speaker:do with it.
Speaker:Oh, okay.
Speaker:Or what to do with it.
Speaker:Yeah. How to apply it yourself to whatever it is that
Speaker:they're related to.
Speaker:How can you actually take it and then apply it to
Speaker:what you're doing?
Speaker:So I've seen it conference sessions where they say 20 ways
Speaker:to promote your podcast or 20 ways to promote your business.
Speaker:Well, I'm not going to do all 20 because I don't
Speaker:have the time or the resources to do that.
Speaker:All 20 are probably not relevant to where I am in
Speaker:MMI business or my podcast or whatever it happens to be.
Speaker:So tell me instead,
Speaker:what are three things I should be doing based on where
Speaker:I am and how do I actually go about doing that
Speaker:and what impact is it going to have?
Speaker:So more is not always better.
Speaker:Correct. So hearing 20 things because it seems like it's better
Speaker:cause it's 20 really the three things are better.
Speaker:Yeah, because then you get to analysis paralysis.
Speaker:I don't know which one you to do or I've already
Speaker:tried five of those and they didn't work well.
Speaker:Yeah, they didn't work because they probably,
Speaker:they probably weren't right for you as a speaker,
Speaker:you're the authority.
Speaker:You're the guide to help the audience to figure out what
Speaker:is the right next step for them.
Speaker:Beautiful. Carol,
Speaker:you wouldn't have known this necessarily,
Speaker:but we've talked a lot in the past about offering too
Speaker:many options for your products.
Speaker:So too many sizes,
Speaker:too many colors,
Speaker:too many options.
Speaker:Instead of thinking that,
Speaker:well then there's something for everybody actually confuses people and people
Speaker:will walk out the door.
Speaker:So we've had that conversation already about product selection and as
Speaker:you're growing your product,
Speaker:the base of what you're offering,
Speaker:but so here,
Speaker:applying it in speaking makes total sense.
Speaker:Yes, we need guidance.
Speaker:I mentioned before,
Speaker:there's so much information that we get all day long.
Speaker:There are so many decisions we have to make as creators,
Speaker:as business owners,
Speaker:that when it comes to certain areas that are not our
Speaker:areas of expertise,
Speaker:we're looking for someone to give us that guidance to tell
Speaker:us, okay,
Speaker:here are some different options,
Speaker:but the best one for you is probably option a and
Speaker:here's why and here's what to do next.
Speaker:Tell them in no uncertain terms exactly how to do it
Speaker:then too.
Speaker:Yes, and make the steps really small.
Speaker:I think also as you're explaining,
Speaker:if it's something that has some type of structure to it,
Speaker:because I think when we're so close to our content,
Speaker:we will leave gaps that someone can't follow.
Speaker:You know they fall off because they don't know from one
Speaker:step to another.
Speaker:Right. The gap is too big for them to leap across.
Speaker:They need your guidance,
Speaker:but they also need you to build a little bridge.
Speaker:What is it?
Speaker:A rope bridge.
Speaker:Like a little rope bridge,
Speaker:but a gap can't be too big because the rope bridge
Speaker:won't work for some metaphors here.
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:It works perfectly,
Speaker:But it's really true because I think what's so obvious to
Speaker:us isn't always obvious and that's where things fall short.
Speaker:Yes, and there's a balance there because you don't want your
Speaker:content to be too basic or too simplistic that it becomes
Speaker:boring because the audience is already knows it or familiar with
Speaker:it. So obviously you want to get a good sense of
Speaker:who's going to be in the audience before you create your
Speaker:presentation so that you align your content level with what the
Speaker:audience needs.
Speaker:So you don't want to go too basic.
Speaker:So your content should have some depth to it.
Speaker:Even if some people in the audience are at the beginner
Speaker:level, they're probably going to be some people in the audience
Speaker:who are intermediate or advanced and they'll appreciate you having some
Speaker:depth to your content.
Speaker:Okay. All right,
Speaker:perfect. So we know we're presenting next week.
Speaker:We've got the plan all set because we've downloaded your framework.
Speaker:We filled it all in.
Speaker:We're feeling really good.
Speaker:We've practiced,
Speaker:We are ready now.
Speaker:The day comes,
Speaker:we're driving to the event and we're freaking out.
Speaker:Yes. Now what help Carol?
Speaker:Hell yeah.
Speaker:Listen to some songs that you really like,
Speaker:like your power songs or you're like get into the right
Speaker:kind of mindset.
Speaker:Get into the mood songs,
Speaker:like really pumped yourself up in the car on the way
Speaker:there or in a hotel room and your headphones or what
Speaker:have you.
Speaker:So do that.
Speaker:And do some visualization and some breathing exercises as well because
Speaker:we tend to start taking shorter,
Speaker:shallower breaths when our nerves kick in.
Speaker:So you really need to be mindful and to really do
Speaker:those deep breaths because that's going to physically calm down our
Speaker:bodies visualization.
Speaker:So imagine yourself standing in that room.
Speaker:So either if you're at a conference,
Speaker:go check out the room ahead of time.
Speaker:If you're as a BNI group or a group that you
Speaker:go to,
Speaker:you know what the room already looks like.
Speaker:So imagine yourself in that room.
Speaker:Imagine yourself delivering your presentation,
Speaker:your talk,
Speaker:your pitch.
Speaker:So imagine yourself doing that.
Speaker:Like actually see yourself.
Speaker:See the people in the room did that.
Speaker:And then when you actually get to the event,
Speaker:sometimes speakers make the mistake of going and hiding somewhere.
Speaker:So going and hiding into another room or kind of standing
Speaker:off and not talking to people because they're nervous or they
Speaker:feel like they have to not talk to anyone until after
Speaker:the presentation.
Speaker:But then you should actually go talk to people,
Speaker:talk to people in the audience because first of all then
Speaker:you'll see familiar faces when you actually are standing up because
Speaker:you'll recognize people shaking someone's hand or hugging them,
Speaker:whatever the appropriate,
Speaker:depending on how well you know the person that you're saying
Speaker:hello to,
Speaker:but shaking someone's hand actually releases oxytocin in our bodies and
Speaker:oxytocin is that feel good hormone that we get and so
Speaker:shaking someone's hand releases.
Speaker:That also helps to calm down our systems and I like
Speaker:to chit chat with people in the audience beforehand because then
Speaker:I will refer to them during my presentation so I'll say
Speaker:something like,
Speaker:Sue and I were talking before we got started and she
Speaker:mentioned that one of the things that's been going on in
Speaker:her business is that she's seeing whatever it happens to be
Speaker:that's related to my content.
Speaker:So now the audience is more engaged because you're showing that
Speaker:you're making the content relevant to them.
Speaker:Sue, you sit in the audience are just going to be
Speaker:beaming because you got mentioned by the speaker and now you
Speaker:have a stronger connection with that speaker and the speaker has
Speaker:a stronger connection with some of those people in the audience.
Speaker:You're going to see them out there smiling.
Speaker:They're going to be more likely to participate.
Speaker:When you ask the audience questions.
Speaker:Sue, because I mentioned you,
Speaker:you'll probably raise your hand and volunteer some information if I
Speaker:ask a question cause that's how then you get that audience
Speaker:engagement going.
Speaker:Perfect. Okay,
Speaker:so here's the summary power songs.
Speaker:So you're revving yourself up kind of spiritually,
Speaker:I guess you will.
Speaker:Like you're really the mindset is there,
Speaker:visualization, deep breaths,
Speaker:and then talking to your audience beforehand and those handshakes.
Speaker:I didn't know that there was some physiological effect There.
Speaker:That's really interesting,
Speaker:Carol. All right,
Speaker:and so then you go on to stage and then you
Speaker:just get started with however your presentation is going to start.
Speaker:And again,
Speaker:I just want to remind everyone what Carol said way in
Speaker:the beginning,
Speaker:which is it's okay to be a little bit nervous as
Speaker:you're getting started and you'll get into your groove after the
Speaker:first few minutes.
Speaker:The point is just to get started.
Speaker:Yes. And now I know we teased the audience earlier about
Speaker:what are some strategies they can use at the beginning of
Speaker:their presentation to help them with the nerves.
Speaker:Do you want to talk about that now,
Speaker:Sue? Love to,
Speaker:yes. Okay,
Speaker:so I like to pull the audience in the beginning,
Speaker:so ask them questions,
Speaker:especially at conferences where we don't really know who the audience
Speaker:is going to be,
Speaker:what level they're at or what type of business they have
Speaker:or whatever it happens to be.
Speaker:So I'll do a show of hands questions.
Speaker:I'll even have the audience members stand up if this applies
Speaker:to you or stand up if you are this or that,
Speaker:especially if they've been sitting for awhile and you need to
Speaker:kind of get their blood moving.
Speaker:And so I'll have them do that.
Speaker:I'll have them do the show of hands.
Speaker:Questions. I'll even have some people shout out answers from the
Speaker:audience. There's a couple of reasons why to do that.
Speaker:Number one is that you're getting a sense of who is
Speaker:in the audience so you can tailor your presentation a bit
Speaker:for them as you go along.
Speaker:And the second thing is because now you're not starting cold.
Speaker:You're not starting with,
Speaker:Oh my gosh,
Speaker:I have to deliver my first line.
Speaker:I have to remember it.
Speaker:It has to be perfect.
Speaker:I don't want to stumble over it.
Speaker:Instead you walk up,
Speaker:ideally someone has introduced you before you came up to the
Speaker:front of the room or onto the stage.
Speaker:You come up and say,
Speaker:hi everyone.
Speaker:Great to be here.
Speaker:Let me start off with a few questions so I can
Speaker:get a sense of who's in the room and then you
Speaker:do the show of hands.
Speaker:By the time you do that,
Speaker:it's been a few minutes.
Speaker:You're moving around,
Speaker:your hands are moving around,
Speaker:you've been walking around,
Speaker:you're getting out some of that nervous energy,
Speaker:and then now you can launch in to the main part
Speaker:of your presentation.
Speaker:I've done my fair share of speaking and one of the
Speaker:things that I found works really well for me and I'll
Speaker:be interested in your opinion,
Speaker:Carol, is I have very well-rehearsed my very first line,
Speaker:like I know word for word what my first line is
Speaker:going to be.
Speaker:Now, do I change it maybe as I'm up there maybe,
Speaker:but I never,
Speaker:because I used to,
Speaker:I never struggle with the very first line.
Speaker:I found that to be really helpful for me.
Speaker:What do you think about that?
Speaker:No, that's great Sue.
Speaker:If that works for you,
Speaker:then keep doing it.
Speaker:Yeah, because I just think polling the audience,
Speaker:pulling the audience.
Speaker:Okay. You can only do that so much.
Speaker:What if you haven't found anything to roll off of and
Speaker:then you're not sure how to start,
Speaker:like how to get started,
Speaker:Right? Yes.
Speaker:If that works for you,
Speaker:that's great.
Speaker:For me,
Speaker:having something memorized is probably is not my particular style,
Speaker:but this is what I do when I work with my
Speaker:clients is we figure out what do they feel comfortable with,
Speaker:what is going to work for them,
Speaker:and then we create that for them.
Speaker:Okay. And then what about ending?
Speaker:Is there special or some thoughts on how to finish so
Speaker:that your talk stays memorable?
Speaker:Yeah, so you definitely want to finish strong and not feel
Speaker:rushed. So whatever time a lot and you've been given,
Speaker:so you've been given 45 minutes,
Speaker:I recommend then your presentation content being around 35 minutes and
Speaker:not pushing it to the 45 minutes when you're creating or
Speaker:when you're practicing it.
Speaker:The reason is because you may end up starting late because
Speaker:the sessions are going over time and now you don't have
Speaker:45 minutes anymore.
Speaker:You have 40 minutes or something happens and there's a microphone.
Speaker:It has to get readjusted or something like that.
Speaker:So you want to make sure that you practice for less
Speaker:time than you're allotted because you don't want to rush your
Speaker:end game because you're ending.
Speaker:The audience is going to remember the ending more so than
Speaker:anything because that's the most recent thing and too many times
Speaker:Indians also become summaries of what the presentation just was.
Speaker:It's fine to summarize towards the end of your presentation what
Speaker:it was,
Speaker:but you really want to end your presentation on a story.
Speaker:Ideally a story that connects back to something that you talked
Speaker:about in the beginning of your presentation.
Speaker:So you were tying everything up with a bow.
Speaker:So the beginning is related to the ending.
Speaker:You want to end with a story or something inspirational,
Speaker:something that's going to lead the audience that they too can
Speaker:do what it is that you just talked about and the
Speaker:impact that it will have on them.
Speaker:So you want to end with that story.
Speaker:Then close your thank you's and close and then you can
Speaker:open it up for questions afterwards.
Speaker:If you do have a Q and a time built into
Speaker:your session.
Speaker:And the other thing that you want to do after you
Speaker:finished your story and after you do your thank you before
Speaker:you open up for Q and a is I use feedback
Speaker:forms and my clients,
Speaker:I'll use feedback forms when they go and speak and the
Speaker:feedback forms give you feedback on your presentation,
Speaker:but they're also a tool for lead generation.
Speaker:So in that PDF download that I mentioned,
Speaker:Sue, there's also the feedback form template and how to use
Speaker:it along with that story structure framework in there so that
Speaker:listeners can get both of those.
Speaker:Perfect. So that's a way that they can reconnect with you
Speaker:if they're excited about your product.
Speaker:Maybe even though you're not selling during this presentation,
Speaker:store locations,
Speaker:whatever it is,
Speaker:Right? Referrals for other speaking invitations,
Speaker:referrals to be on people's podcasts.
Speaker:It could be that maybe you want to do a workshop,
Speaker:whatever it looking for,
Speaker:you can customize that feedback form to get the information back
Speaker:that you want.
Speaker:Perfect. All right,
Speaker:great. So now another question because I have to do it
Speaker:cause you are the pro Carol.
Speaker:What if we have some experienced speakers who are listening right
Speaker:now and they've been thinking a little bit about a Ted
Speaker:talk. Can we talk a little bit about why you would
Speaker:consider a Ted talk and then a little bit of the
Speaker:experience in terms of how to find out if you qualify
Speaker:and then how all that works.
Speaker:Sure. So why to do a Ted talk or a TEDx
Speaker:talk, it's really about your personal brand because it is such
Speaker:a well known platform and Ted is such a well recognized
Speaker:brand that you now become associated with that when you become
Speaker:a TEDx speaker.
Speaker:So it's your personal brand is also because you can share
Speaker:your message to a much wider audience because you're going to
Speaker:be doing your talk at a local TEDx chapter,
Speaker:but then that video gets uploaded to YouTube on the TEDx
Speaker:talks and YouTube channel,
Speaker:so people all around the world can end up seeing your
Speaker:talk so you can share your message much wider.
Speaker:I had a client of mine,
Speaker:her name is Tammy lolly.
Speaker:We worked together on her TEDx talk that she did in
Speaker:June of 2017 and she's a money coach and she has
Speaker:a very powerful personal story about what happened in her family.
Speaker:And she shared that as part of her TEDx talk and
Speaker:around this idea of money shame and what happens with money,
Speaker:shame and families.
Speaker:Well, it ended up that her story was so powerful.
Speaker:Her talk was so powerful that the parent company,
Speaker:ted.com chose her talk to appear on their homepage and the
Speaker:homepage space is limited.
Speaker:They don't pick every talk around that happens around the world.
Speaker:Well, they selected hers and her talk now has over 1.5
Speaker:million views on it.
Speaker:Wow. Because of that prominence that the national Ted organization gave
Speaker:it and she now gets clients and people contacting her from
Speaker:all over the world who've heard her talk and been impacted
Speaker:on it.
Speaker:So that's the reason to do the Ted talk.
Speaker:Now, Ted talks are really,
Speaker:they're very unique as far as the structure,
Speaker:the key idea,
Speaker:how to do them.
Speaker:I have a number of podcast episodes that I've done on
Speaker:my podcast related to Ted talks and TEDx talks,
Speaker:how to find your idea,
Speaker:what types of ideas are what are considered Ted worthy ideas.
Speaker:So that's probably the best resource for your listeners to go
Speaker:to because it would probably take us 30 minutes more to
Speaker:go through to talk about what makes a good Ted talk
Speaker:idea, how to structure one,
Speaker:how to find places,
Speaker:how to get selected,
Speaker:how to apply all of that.
Speaker:So I covered all those topics and a number of my
Speaker:episodes. What would you say is the time investment to do
Speaker:something like that?
Speaker:If we're all business owners and we're very involved in the
Speaker:day to day,
Speaker:is it even worth trying to do that if we're so
Speaker:busy? That's a really,
Speaker:as a personal preference.
Speaker:As I mentioned,
Speaker:my client,
Speaker:Tammy lolly,
Speaker:she probably spends,
Speaker:I don't know,
Speaker:100 hours over three months working on it as far as
Speaker:content and practicing and preparing all of that.
Speaker:Was it worth it to get 1.5
Speaker:million views?
Speaker:Yes. Obviously there's no guarantee that you're going to get that.
Speaker:But, so I would say yes.
Speaker:Other clients that I've worked with have not spent a hundred
Speaker:hours on it,
Speaker:but I would say a minimum.
Speaker:I'm trying to think.
Speaker:I just coached some speakers for TEDx Orlando that happened a
Speaker:few months ago and total they would practicing and all of
Speaker:that. They spent,
Speaker:Oh, probably at least 40 to 50 hours over a period
Speaker:of a couple of months.
Speaker:That doesn't sound like too long actually.
Speaker:It's manageable,
Speaker:I would say is manageable as long as you start early
Speaker:and you don't try to do it all within,
Speaker:say a month.
Speaker:Right. Alright,
Speaker:well, yes.
Speaker:So I'm going to direct people over to Your podcast,
Speaker:speaking your brand,
Speaker:and then they could probably just search for TEDx talks or
Speaker:Ted talks or something to find the episodes.
Speaker:That would be good because I know there's a whole structure
Speaker:behind it.
Speaker:You have to apply and then when you're accepted,
Speaker:they still want to see,
Speaker:you have to actually do it live in front of them
Speaker:several times before the real performance,
Speaker:right? Oh yes.
Speaker:And you would want to do that.
Speaker:It's way more of a performance than a talk,
Speaker:I almost would say Yes,
Speaker:exactly, and really for those,
Speaker:for the TEDx talks,
Speaker:most of those are scripted.
Speaker:Pretty much word for word because of the tight time limit
Speaker:and you can't ad lib.
Speaker:You can't really go on tangents cause the time has to
Speaker:be right and the content has to be really tight.
Speaker:Got it.
Speaker:Perfect. Okay.
Speaker:Final comments for somebody who's on the edge of their seat,
Speaker:they're sounding like this is a good idea,
Speaker:but tomorrow when they start thinking about it,
Speaker:they're going to say,
Speaker:I'm not sure anymore.
Speaker:Again, what would you say to that person?
Speaker:Try it.
Speaker:You just might like it.
Speaker:Yeah, no,
Speaker:seriously. I would say start local.
Speaker:Start with a group that you already know,
Speaker:that you feel comfortable with and start and reach out to
Speaker:them and say,
Speaker:I'm happy to give a presentation on my entrepreneurial journey or
Speaker:how I started my business.
Speaker:To your members or to your audience.
Speaker:I think that would be valuable to them.
Speaker:You can just start small,
Speaker:start local,
Speaker:and then build up from there.
Speaker:And podcast interviews are actually a great way to start getting
Speaker:more comfortable with your story and with the message and content
Speaker:that you're sharing so you could even start looking for podcasts
Speaker:to be on.
Speaker:There you go.
Speaker:Perfect. Carol,
Speaker:thank you so much.
Speaker:This has been so informative.
Speaker:So on behalf of myself and my listeners,
Speaker:we would like to present you with a virtual gift.
Speaker:It's a magical box containing unlimited possibilities for your future.
Speaker:So this is your dream or your goal of almost unreachable
Speaker:Heights that you would wish to obtain.
Speaker:Please accept this gift on behalf of all of us and
Speaker:open it in our presence.
Speaker:What's inside your box?
Speaker:Ooh, now I can do some visualization of my own.
Speaker:So for the business,
Speaker:speaking your brand,
Speaker:the bigger vision that I have is I really see it
Speaker:as going well,
Speaker:national and going global to provide communication and leadership training and
Speaker:resources for women entrepreneurs and women leaders so that we can
Speaker:see more women in these positions of influence,
Speaker:whether it's in our businesses,
Speaker:on boards,
Speaker:on prominent boards,
Speaker:on nonprofits in the media and politics and government,
Speaker:and providing that leadership and communication skills to get them there.
Speaker:So that's for the business.
Speaker:Now, personally,
Speaker:I would love to coach speakers,
Speaker:women's speakers at the United nations.
Speaker:To me that seems like so rewarding and so fulfilling.
Speaker:So I just imagine myself at the UN building in New
Speaker:York city and I'm helping some of the diplomat or the
Speaker:different NGO speakers who are coming there and helping them develop
Speaker:and create their presentations to have a global impact.
Speaker:Love it.
Speaker:I could so see you doing that Carol.
Speaker:I'm putting it out there.
Speaker:Public Lake and we'll see when you say things out loud,
Speaker:the universe sometimes conspires to make them happen.
Speaker:It's so true.
Speaker:All right,
Speaker:we're going to be watching.
Speaker:Okay. And so we already know about the framework,
Speaker:so that's one thing that people can get from you and
Speaker:also listen to speaking your brand,
Speaker:the podcast,
Speaker:Carol's podcast,
Speaker:and it's on all the podcast platforms,
Speaker:right? Yes.
Speaker:Okay. Is there anywhere else you were direct,
Speaker:some of our listeners to go,
Speaker:You're also welcome to join the speaking in your brand community.
Speaker:It's a private Facebook group now.
Speaker:This is for women speakers and so if you go to
Speaker:speaking your brand.com/join,
Speaker:you can get access there.
Speaker:It's a free private community,
Speaker:but it's a fantastic group of women,
Speaker:speakers and entrepreneurs.
Speaker:They're incredibly supportive.
Speaker:You can go in there and ask questions,
Speaker:get feedback.
Speaker:Sometimes people ask,
Speaker:I'm thinking of,
Speaker:I need to charge for a workshop that I'm doing.
Speaker:What do you think is a good price or what's a
Speaker:good way to phrase this topic?
Speaker:So it's really an excellent resource.
Speaker:Perfect, wonderful.
Speaker:And I'll connect that over on the show notes page as
Speaker:well. Carol,
Speaker:such great information as expected.
Speaker:This was a really,
Speaker:really fun talk,
Speaker:but a lot of really great content and direction for our
Speaker:listeners. So thank you so much.
Speaker:I really,
Speaker:really appreciate your time today.
Speaker:Well, it was my absolute pleasure,
Speaker:Sue. I've tremendously enjoyed talking with you and for all of
Speaker:you who are listening out there,
Speaker:I do hope that for this year going forward that you
Speaker:make speaking as part of your marketing strategy.
Speaker:I couldn't agree with Carol more.
Speaker:I'm going to give you a little bit of a challenge.
Speaker:If you do start speaking this year or if you want
Speaker:to share some of your experiences and you're using some of
Speaker:Carol's techniques and possibly even downloading that framework and following it,
Speaker:let us know.
Speaker:Jump over to gift biz breeze,
Speaker:my free and private Facebook group and we can continue the
Speaker:conversation over there.
Speaker:So I'm usually pretty good at keeping secrets,
Speaker:but I'm spilling the beans.
Speaker:I can't help it.
Speaker:I'm so excited.
Speaker:I just want to tell you guys what I've been working
Speaker:on over the last few months.
Speaker:It's been a little bit of a secret project because I
Speaker:wasn't sure exactly what the timing was going to look like
Speaker:on it,
Speaker:but I can't wait.
Speaker:I have to share with you my secret.
Speaker:Many of you have been following me for a while.
Speaker:Know that I wrote a book that came out last may.
Speaker:It's called maker to master,
Speaker:but that's not what this is about.
Speaker:Although it spins off a similar concept.
Speaker:When I was getting serious about writing that book,
Speaker:there were actually two books that I had in my mind.
Speaker:One was maker master and that truth be told was the
Speaker:harder one to do,
Speaker:but I also was really interested in writing a book that
Speaker:was an inspirational book kind of inspiration a day.
Speaker:I know you've seen those out there where it's 365 inspiring
Speaker:thoughts for your year or something like that.
Speaker:I think very often We get defeated by our own self-talk
Speaker:and we also sway away from core solid business growth values
Speaker:because there's a new social media site.
Speaker:It's available or other things come up that take our mind
Speaker:off of the really important things that we need to grow
Speaker:our business.
Speaker:As things happen.
Speaker:My idea continued to evolve and I came up with the
Speaker:idea of instead of doing a 365 inspiring tips type book,
Speaker:it would be way more helpful for you if it was
Speaker:included in some type of a planner so that every day
Speaker:when you're planning out your day,
Speaker:you'd also then see a tip.
Speaker:If I look at how I work with things,
Speaker:I don't know if I would have a book on the
Speaker:side of my desk and every day look at one day's
Speaker:inspiration and then another days operation.
Speaker:Way better to have everything in one place.
Speaker:Consequently, I have created a planner.
Speaker:It's called inspired a daily planner specifically for you,
Speaker:our wonderful community of gifters,
Speaker:bakers, crafters and makers.
Speaker:I'll be sharing more in the upcoming days,
Speaker:but let me give you a few highlights here.
Speaker:One of the cool things about this planner is you can
Speaker:start any month of the year if you've ever been like
Speaker:me, where all of a sudden in may you decide I
Speaker:want to start doing things different.
Speaker:I want to get myself really organized,
Speaker:but then you go to find a planner and they either
Speaker:start in September going into the next year or you have
Speaker:to buy a year and all the prior months of the
Speaker:year are useless for you because you're all in fee in
Speaker:may with this planner.
Speaker:You can start any time.
Speaker:If you're listening to this announcement in January,
Speaker:you can start it right away.
Speaker:If you're hearing this in may,
Speaker:you can use this planner starting in may.
Speaker:It has monthly and daily layout,
Speaker:so you'll be able to keep yourself really organized and special
Speaker:life enhancing sections.
Speaker:More on that later.
Speaker:It also includes what I've been talking about earlier and the
Speaker:reason I changed this from a book to a planner and
Speaker:that is daily inspiration.
Speaker:Things that you need to be telling yourself,
Speaker:affirmations to get in the right mindset as the owner of
Speaker:your business.
Speaker:Also, business tips and ideas.
Speaker:Some of them you're going to read and you're like,
Speaker:yep, got it.
Speaker:It's cupboard,
Speaker:and then others might give you some pause ideas of things
Speaker:you might want to implement into your business.
Speaker:To further Either solidify or grow What you already have going.
Speaker:That's all I'm going to share with you right now,
Speaker:but I will tell you that we are just weeks away
Speaker:from getting this out to you.
Speaker:I'm going to do a limited first run and if you
Speaker:want to be one of the first ones to know when
Speaker:it's available,
Speaker:jump over to give biz unwrapped.com
Speaker:forward slash add me and you'll get an email when the
Speaker:planner is ready.
Speaker:That link again is gift biz unwrapped.com
Speaker:forward slash add me.
Speaker:There is no time like the present to take the next
Speaker:step on solidifying the dream you have for your business.
Speaker:The new inspired planner could be just the ticket to make
Speaker:it Ensure that that actually happens for you this year.
Speaker:That's a wrap and I want you to know how much
Speaker:I appreciate you listening to the show and supporting me each
Speaker:and every week.
Speaker:We've been talking about how you can get visibility for your
Speaker:business through speaking,
Speaker:but that's not the only way.
Speaker:I have another approach for you of how you can get
Speaker:more attention on your business.
Speaker:We all know more attention.
Speaker:It means more prospects,
Speaker:more customers,
Speaker:and more sales.
Speaker:That's coming up next week on the gift biz on wrapped
