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Overcome Speaking Fears For 6-Figure Days with Sylvain Haché
Episode 1053rd December 2024 • Creative Collaborations • Chuck Anderson
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In this episode of the Collaborators Unite podcast, host Chuck Anderson engages in a deep and enriching conversation with Sylvain Haché about overcoming stage fright and leveraging public speaking to achieve personal and financial empowerment. Sylvain, once a chronic stutterer, shares his revolutionary speaking system that transforms individuals into confident, natural speakers. With a focus on personal growth, effective communication, and overcoming fears, listeners are provided with actionable insights, book recommendations to fuel their journey, and an invitation to Sly’s impactful masterclass.

Guest Bio: Sylvain Haché, affectionately known as Sly, is an inspiring figure who has transformed from a chronic stutterer into an award-winning musician and successful public speaking coach. With a background in show business and marketing, Sly has developed a unique system that empowers individuals to speak confidently without the constraints of scripts or stress. Sly passionately believes in making honest people more persuasive, facilitating their journey to influence and financial success.

Key Points Discussed with Timestamps:

1. Transformation through Speaking [02:45]

  • Sylvain shares his personal journey from stuttering to becoming an influential speaker and the development of his innovative public speaking system.

2. Mindset before Speaking Engagements [12:30]

  • The importance of preparing mentally the night before an engagement, avoiding negative self-talk, and maintaining a positive mindset for success.

3. Overcoming Traditional Speaking Flaws [22:15]

  • Sylvain explains why traditional public speaking training is flawed and how his approach builds on inner confidence to enhance message delivery.

4. Key Mistakes Preventing Success [35:40]

  • Focus on the six key mistakes in speaking that prevent financial growth and how Sylvain's masterclass addresses these obstacles.

5. The Lighthouse Metaphor [48:05]

  • Sylvain discusses the importance of clarifying one’s story and effective communication, likening it to a lighthouse that guides and attracts others.

Main Quote Made by the Guest: "Success in speaking isn't about perfect delivery; it's about cultivating confidence from within."

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Alright. Welcome, everybody. This is another episode of the Creative

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Collaboration Show with Chuck Anderson, and this is the show where

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we help you as an entrepreneur, as a business owner,

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as a coach, anyone who, is in a

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business with a big heart and a big mission.

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Part of that is getting your message out there in a big,

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big way, and there is no better way to

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get your message out there than through taking advantage of

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speaking opportunities. And, today's guest,

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is an expert in helping you to

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craft your message and to get that

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message out there in a in a way that can help you to generate some

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big revenue. So my guest today is Sylvain Hache,

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and otherwise known as Sly, and that's my best French

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accent, so that's the best I can do. Sly. But Sly is an

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ex chronic stutterer who has created a new public speaking system

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that turns regular people into naturals without

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scripts, without stress or memorization.

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Clients include international keynote speakers, TV hosts,

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national trainers, and a whole lot more. His

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methods have helped people from 18 to 81. So

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probably that's you if you're listening in. Gets it

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over stage fright, and, his systems have helped replace

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yearly incomes, with 20 minute talks and have

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produced multiple 6 figure days from the stage.

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So that's the bio part. But, Sly, we're gonna have you

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tell your story. So first of all, welcome to the show, and I'm so happy

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to have you here. So great to be here. Thanks, Chuck.

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Yeah. This is gonna be a lot of fun. And, of course, you and I,

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when we get on, we just instantly start laughing and joking

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like we're old friends here. So, it's a real privilege to have you on the

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show. So, you know, no joke when when I say that, you

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know, speaking is probably, you know, the the

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biggest opportunity that somebody on a big mission,

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has to get their message out there. I know it's transformed my

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business, you know, last 25 years,

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at least. Speaking has been a part of it. It was not easy at first.

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It was actually very, very scary. So I did not have you in my

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corner back then, but, so we're grateful to have you

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here and talk about this. So, Sai, I think a great place to start

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is, you know, tell everybody a little bit more about you and, you know, how

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how did it come to be that you're doing this work?

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Man, I'm so happy when I heard you say, Chuck, people with a

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big heart and a big mission. That's that's the whole thing. I

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was in a sauna one day, and I was distilling my

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message. And it came to be that, you know, if we put

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the canned responses on the side here, I basically

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help people have what it takes at the gut level to

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handle the weight of the message screaming to come out of

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their heart with a straight face. Because great

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messages are said to have gravitas.

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Gravitas comes from weight, heaviness, or pressure. So, I come

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from the show business world. Just as there's no use working on the

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delivery of a song if the song sucks.

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So, like, you know all the vocal runs and stuff. If you do the vocal

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runs and the fancy stuff on a bad song, it's still a bad song. But

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a great song sung by an okay singer,

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regular delivery is still good. If we know that

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we'd never work on the delivery of a message

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as the top stack if the message is weak to begin

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with, if the message has no oomph to it, no gravitas. There's no use working

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on your addiction and all that type of stuff and your posture and anchoring

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and delivery. Never mind that. If the message is weak to begin

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with. But there's no use, you listening,

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working on a message, the thing that wants to come out

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of your heart, if we know in advance that the messenger does not have what

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it takes at the gut level to handle the weight of that message.

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That's why we start with confidence first. The public speaking

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has been taught backwards since at least the Sophists in

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ancient Greece. The

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usual train of thought goes something like, Here's what to say.

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Here's how to say it. Now get out there, get laughed at and humiliated

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until you feel confident about that one speech you learned by heart in the beginning.

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Bad. Because then you're screwed. If the timing changes, if the

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audience changes, if anything moves, then you're screwed.

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So we flipped it around. Since I am an

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ex chronic stutterer, I know Chuck was talking about,

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you know, kind of hard in the beginning. Wanting to

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hide in the corner. I get this. I could not even speak like

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stuttering is basically stage fright on steroids.

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So you can't even speak to one person. So since I have the internal

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tools to get over that type of stuff, We start with

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this first. 80% of all public speaking

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problems the umms, the ahs, the forgetting your face, forgetting your

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name, not knowing where you're going, freaking, blanking

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out 80% of all that is fixed if you handle

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the inner confidence issues first. Once you get that,

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which is what's called the gut level, then you can start okay now there's

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a message screaming to come out of my chest. Now you got this. Now you

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can handle that weight of that ice cream cone thing. You

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know? So you don't put a 3rd scoop if you can't handle the first one.

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Okay. You got this. Then you put on the message. Then we layer on the

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delivery. The anchoring, the stage presence, yadayada yada. So

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anyway, that was just before we get started, so people understand that

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there are deeper tools than

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PDF coaching questions that allow you to

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remove what makes you unconfident to begin with. Because

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you're not nervous because

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you're afraid of forgetting your words and being laughed

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at. You're forgetting your words, and you might get laughed

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at because you're nervous. That's the first

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flip. There's so much suffering, Chuck. Public

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speaking has been taught for 1000 of years. Think about this.

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1000 of years. Everybody knows it's the most important skill in the world.

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Chuck says it. Right? It's it's like like think of another

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skill, activity or thing you can do listening to this,

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where you can have a 6 figure day on a regular

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Tuesday without a gun legally.

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And it's not even a big deal. Like 6 figure days. So far our system

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has created 7 and a half 6 figure days. And they're like, woah. Big wow.

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You create 6 figure days. What? It's not even a big deal.

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Think of another activity. Another thing you can put in your agenda

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that by doing this, you can make 6 figures on a

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Tuesday. It's like, yeah. I mean, you're doing the dance. You're you're having fun.

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But it's not like you're breaking industry norms or something. Okay?

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So for 1000 of years, it's been taught because everybody knows it's the most important

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thing. It's the invisible layer of the business world, the invisible layer of

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influence. Think of everybody you follow online, anybody you

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ever respected, they all have mastered

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this. Think of someone you follow

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that's not mastered speaking. I'm a just wait here. We got 20 minutes

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with Chuck. I mean, me and Chuck, we just talk. But while

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you think about this. So it's been tough for 1000 of years. Everybody knows it's

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the most important thing in the world. Yet

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Jerry Seinfeld says it best. Most people would prefer

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to be in the casket than give the eulogy.

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70% of the world's population are terrified of

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it. So could it might just possibly

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be a little crack of an idea that maybe

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there's another way of teaching it? Maybe they've been teaching it

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backwards all this time. That's why I created a new speaking

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system, which doesn't put confidence at the end of the rainbow. Like, Oh my

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God. If I learn the magic words, if I learn what

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to say, and then if I I practice my diction and I do my

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and I learn body language tricks and all

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that type of jazz, then one day at the end of the

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rainbow, I will have, watch out Chuck, watch the

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magic word, confidence.

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People, just put that thing, put the end goal,

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wrap it around, put that in the beginning, and 80%

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of all the problems on the way there get solved in one fell swoop. You

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don't self sabotage yourself. You don't shoot yourself in the foot, and you

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just have a better time doing it. So, Jason, I'm

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gonna get to your first question. What it is that you do?

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Sorry. Sorry. Intro to the answer of the question,

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though. I just have to get it out there, Chuck, because, you know, people are

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suffering, man. I'm not making this up. Like, you know, like, did I make something

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up or what? It's 100% true, and it was

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certainly true for me when I first started,

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with public speaking, and I was deathly afraid of

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it. And there was, and, again, it was not the

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confidence didn't come later because I did so many

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speeches, although I did get better and better as I went. But the

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confidence, the real switch was dealing with some of my

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fears first. And then the entire way that I

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structured my talk, the way I delivered the talk, the way I even

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carried myself was completely different. And it was completely

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by accident or coincidence or whatever. I went through

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a a program that worked on confidence. But then when I was

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able to apply that, I applied that to my speaking. It changed everything.

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So I can relate to what you're saying, and I didn't have, you

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speaking in my ear back then, but I can certainly

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I can look back and go, yes. You know, that was the shift. That was

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the shift. And I would have loved to speak into your ear with

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my French accent, dear Chuck. So the the

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32nd, pitch is that what I do basically is I

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help honest people become more persuasive on stage, on

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camera, and in meetings. Simple. You're honest.

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I make you more persuasive anywhere you need to speak. And then why do

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I do this? Because I partner with them on a rev share basis to create

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6 figure days from the stage. Why honest

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people? Because crooks, bandits, liars and thieves are already

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persuasive. And they're winning.

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You got intelligent, honest people with a message scream. Man,

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come people wait 15 years.

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They want to write the book for 15 years or 10 years and it's like

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a simmer, then it starts to scream, then they come to me. I make them

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more persuasive. Why partner with them on a rev share

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basis? Because that's a good idea.

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But, ultimately, I secretly do this because I believe

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that it might sound a bit cheesy,

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but the world would actually be a better place if everybody

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who has great ideas and wants to do good

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would become more persuasive on stage, on camera, in meetings, in

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life, in business, in politics, on any stage. Imagine

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if the people leading

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were the good guys.

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Exactly. And I don't mean politics or anything. Like, what's what's up to you? I

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I just mean, like, you know, if a genuine, wanting to help.

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So that's the secret intention. Yeah. Well, you know, because that's

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you just described the majority of the people that we work

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with. And, so many of them,

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if if they could only connect with more

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people, if they could only get more clients, they would

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facilitate bigger and deeper transformations.

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And so, you know, so they're all they're looking

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for, you know, rather than serving 10 people, could you serve a 100

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people? Could you serve a 1000 people? Can you get your message out there to

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the people who really need it? And, sadly, I have

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known some great people with with great

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skills for transformation, quit the business and

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go do something else because they could not overcome what

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you're talking about here. So, you know, I think that's a that

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is a big crime. We need to help

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get those messages out there, these amazing people who can help

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other people. And like you say, I don't think it's cliche at all. Make the

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world a better place? Absolutely. Why not? Yeah. Because I work with

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spiritual people a lot. Mhmm. And there's a term

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that they say, they wanna be a lighthouse. And I forget the

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name of the lady. I forget her name. But I heard someone say

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online, you can't be a lighthouse if you can't keep the lights

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on. Mhmm. It's true. For spiritual

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people, just play that back. Mhmm. Yeah. It's true. What the

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what the guy with the weird accent says yeah. What did he say to okay.

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You can't be a lighthouse if you can't keep the lights on.

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So you got it. A 3 step system is get over yourself,

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get your story straight, get the message across. That's the speaking

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part, which needs to be sandwiched, between the marketing part, which is

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have an offer that people want, and find opportunities to sell the name

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offer. Because this is a numbers game, external, and this is an

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internal game. Get over yourself. Get your

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story straight. Get the message across.

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Very powerful. So what,

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what led you here? I mean, I always I get all the questions

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all the time. You know, how, you know, how did you get

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started? How how did you overcome this?

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Because when I share with people that, hey, look, you know, you you are seeing,

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an introvert, and they're like, no. We do not believe

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you. And I'm like, no. It's true. And there was a point where just

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the mere thought of getting on stage where I would

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wake up with terrors in the middle of the night, you

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know, with the with the sweats and just you know, it was a horror story.

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And I'm like, no. No. No. That will never be me. And now,

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it's kind of like a must. In fact, I get excited about

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opportunities, to do that now. So I know what my origin

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story was. What what was yours? What what led you,

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to, that you said some of it already, but, I

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mean, you know, what what did you have to overcome? To

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what led me to speak or what led me to teach speaking?

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Well, both. I guess both. Why don't we and then and then

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we'll and then we'll kinda get into, you know, what what,

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people can learn from that with their own experience because, you know, we wanna relate

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to what what are what is our audience experiencing now, you

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know, and some of the fears and the challenges that they

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have. And I you know, they see that, hey. We're we were

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like you once. Right? Yeah. That that

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that's a problem, Chuck. That's a problem because

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okay. You just said you watched my guitar videos in

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French. Mhmm. K. I have songs on the radio. I'm an

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award winning international touring musician. I got all these awards,

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and I teach that stuff and all that.

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So whenever I talk about that guitar stuff, people say, well, not fair for you.

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You're a rock star. Like, you you you don't get you don't understand.

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You don't get me. Easy for you to say you're a rock

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star. Now in the speaking

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world, well, I wasn't born a rock star. You

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know? So for the music thing,

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that's years of daily

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sacrifice of practicing. The way we do this in the show business is

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simple, Chuck. It's a 15 year process. You

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sacrifice your whole youth. You practice every day like a maniac. Then you

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practice 8 hours a day for 10, 15 years. Then you finally have a song

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on the radio. And then you get interviewed. And they

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say, wow. You make it look so easy. What's your secret? And then you

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say, oh, it just comes to me.

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So that perpetuates the myth, but there's

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decades of sweat, blood, and tears in the background.

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Okay? Mhmm. So in the speaking world,

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people oh, that that's my alarm to stop to to

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take a break. There you go. Yeah. I

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work so much that I put alarms in place so we can't take a break

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now. In the speaking world, now people say, like, you don't you don't

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understand. They look at me like yesterday. I went live and did a

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pitch somewhere. 82% of the audience signed up in less than 5

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minutes. Boom. There's people

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in there thinking, well, I could never do that. That's not fair. Look at this

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guy go. He's he's extroverted.

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Okay. Forward back. Chronic

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stutterer for decades. I could not even ask my mom for the assault at

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the dinner table. As a

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kid. So, Chuck

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Chuck did this. You went so far removed. You went

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such a long way from where you started that the people every and

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in every step, everyone in the lab, there's people there. A 1000000 people here. A

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1000000 people there. A 1000000 people here. A 1000000 people there. Some of them say,

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well, easy for you to say, he doesn't understand me. But

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you were there 5, 7, 12 years ago. The thing is, Chuck,

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you don't even remember how bad it was. You remember the cliff notes.

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You remember the vague feeling,

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but to what point. So I even tried to go in

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regression to remember how bad it was.

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For me, it was so bad that I was doing drugs every day. And alcohol

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as much as possible and junk food and none of just anything to stuff down

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the pain. So I I went so

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far this catapulted me so far from

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that that people that are in that world

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hate me now. Look at that asshole.

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We don't jive anymore. There's always a sweet spot of

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people where you can connect to. The sweet spot

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for the speaking world is someone who

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secretly believes that they can and at the same

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time secretly believes that they can't.

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That's the sweet spot where, okay, now everything is starting to work. If

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somebody doesn't have both, you're screwed. Because if you only

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believe you you can't, you don't do

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nothing. And if you only believe that you can, well, you're already writing books, and

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you're already on stage, and you're already done. So that's just the sweet spot.

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So to give you a quick answer, what

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started me on the speaking, teaching part, and we can go into why

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I started speaking myself in the beginning, but

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the speaking part, because my mentor when

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my mentor called me an idiot the 3rd time, Chuck, it's

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not. It's

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just it broke a switch. Mhmm. First time my mentor called

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me an idiot. Okay? Back

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in the day, do you know Deepak Chopra? I do. Yeah.

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Okay. So the biggest client we had was Deepak Chopra. 2,006,

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7 ish. We started the business in 2,005 ish.

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We were, like all the chakra people, the mindset people, all

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the gurus, the authors, the speakers, the experts, the consultants would come to

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us. We had a mailing list and I was the one writing the copy

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for them. The marketing materials, the copy, the promotions, and the SWOT. So I would

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just create their message. And I created this kind of messaging algorithm because they

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all sound the same. I can't copy paste the same

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message every week to my list. So I had this message and

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algorithm to easily

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make what's unique about you versus you stand out in messaging

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format. We had this thing going on. At this

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time, when I had my spiritual awakening, so it was like 12 hour

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days, 18 hour days of working, and deep meditation. At one point, I was about

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to leave the world, become a monk, live in the mountains, Chuck. I'm not kidding.

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And this mentor of mine told me, what's wrong with you idiot? You're

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not a monk. You're a rock star.

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I was like, oh yeah, I've forgotten about that. So when

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we completed that business, I went and toured the world. I went and played

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internationally, came back, did an album, toured the province and stuff like that.

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Then I started teaching musicians how to not suck on stage.

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So remember, I'm an ex chronic stutterer. Now I turn into a rock

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star with all this big stages and stuff. And I teach musicians

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how to have stage presence. Because it's the same thing as speaking. You have 2

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guitar players. You got 1 guy sitting there in the corner.

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And then and then you got Keith Richards.

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What's the difference? That stage presence. K. Owning

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the room and all that. So I was teaching that to musicians, which was

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doing okay.

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Musicians are not the same crowd as entrepreneurs.

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They have less to gain. In the speaking world, you're listening to me. We work

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together. We create 6 figure days for you. Or, you know, it's

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not a guarantee, but that's the goal. That's

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a realistic goal. For musicians, what

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are you gonna play at your party for the family who has

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this smaller payoff? So the same mentor

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called me, what's wrong with you idiot? Don't teach that to

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musicians. Teach that to

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business owners. Turn my yearly income into my

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monthly income. So, stage presence, principle, confidence and all

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that for entrepreneurs. More intelligent. So I combined

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the messaging algorithm that we had back in the day with the

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Stage President's Principle and I created this speaking system that you can speak

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without stress, no script, no memorization, yadayada. Doing

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good. At the same time, I was

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working 1 on 1 with private clients. I'm doing the whole thing, you know, like

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from the ads to the emails to the call to action to building the offer

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to the follow-up to the pitch to what do you say? Like the whole 9

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yards. And TWICE, I'm healthy Chuck. I don't smoke it, don't drink, I do

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yoga, meditate. I'm a healthy guy.

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TWICE, I'm in my 40s. Twice sitting at that desk

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here, I had a pinching my heart in the afternoon. Like a bad feeling.

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Like pinching. I'm overworking. So I was telling that to the

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same mentor. Man, we're getting great results on the sharing. Like, this

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person got in the program. Standing

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ovation. The first time at 62 years old, funded or held company in 15

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minutes, yet the results. He was like, what's wrong with you idiot?

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You're not charging enough, double the price of that program, remove the 1

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on 1 coaching from that thing, and create a low ticket thing where everybody can

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get without your coaching, and then you do

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the partnership thing only. 1 on 1. So group coaching,

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partnership, and then a low ticket community.

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That third time he called me an idiot is what put me on this path

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to add these layers of things, which for me now,

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Chuck, is such a beautiful thing. And I want you this for your business and

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anybody listening here. Everything you

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do falls under one umbrella of a thing.

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So every operation, every checklist, every

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swipe, every SOP, every messaging angle, everything

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nests itself like Russian dolls because everything is an

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algorithm, not an algorithm, how do you call

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that? Like a HOLOGRAM of

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ITSELF. So I can do it for you,

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we can do it in groups, or you can do it yourself. But either way,

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it's one thing for me now as a beautiful hologram, which encompasses

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my whole life's work up until now in a package that I can

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offer to people so that they can streamline all these

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decades of suffering and get to the result faster.

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So all it took is a mentor to call me an idiot 3 times. I

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mean, the the Only 3. I think mine called me that more

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than once or more than 3. Time I understood the first time. You

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know? It's a classic joke. Yes. The 3rd time I understood the

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first one. Yeah. Absolutely. I love it. It

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probably took me, 10. So there you go.

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You are indeed a rock star, my friend. Or maybe your or

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maybe your mentor was not he he didn't

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say it loud enough. I was like, clear. Like, what's wrong with you,

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idiot? We're wasting our heart. You know?

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I love every word of that. So I

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love the way you structure what you do. Something that

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really stood out to me just there is that you have, you know, the

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low ticket where people can easily

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come and learn from you and build

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that relationship with you. And then you have, you know, the partnership.

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And, you know, and we're gonna talk here in a moment about how

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people can connect with you because I am, hopefully, the

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stories that we're sharing here are inspiring you,

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to take, if you're already speaking, take your speaking to the next

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level and create those 6 figure days. Or if you

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have been thinking about it and, again, you have that heart centered

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message, we want you, to take

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yourself to the next level and start using speaking

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because it will accelerate everything you do in your

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business more than anything else. And, you know, take this from

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2 guys who use speaking, and,

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speaking did not, come naturally, to either

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of us. You know, you grow into who you need to become.

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And so this is you know, that you're you're talking to us at

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the you know, after we've done a lot of work, but you can do that

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work too. What would you say, Sly,

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is for anyone listening in, say, okay. I get it.

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I'm I wanted to do this. What is their next step?

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Depends on the level. If you if you're

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let's take it as what you secretly think at night.

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If if you have a an event tomorrow.

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Okay? I'm thinking of John. Let's say John has

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to speak tomorrow at 10. It says 10 AM or whatever. It has to think

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tomorrow he's speaking. It has more to do

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with what you secretly think as you're going to bed that night before, waking

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up in the morning, you getting to the talk,

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then anything else. If you're secretly

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thinking, who am I to talk to them?

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Who's going to bother? I GOT Really

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NOTHING OF VALUE. WHY DID I DO THIS? THIS IS I

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SHOULDN'T HAVE TAKEN THAT. OR IF YOU LOSE

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SLEEP REDOING YOUR SLIDES LIKE AN IDIOT THE NIGHT BEFORE.

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So then you end up bombing the next day because you lost sleep redoing your

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slides. If that's the situation,

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it's very different than if you go to bed at night the

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night before

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and you're thinking, you know what? I'll take it easy on them.

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Let me take it easy on them. I'm not sure they can handle the whole

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sauce. Well that's a different you

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know, what what's the next that's a different next step. Okay?

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But if I would I've never thought about this, but if I would find a

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common thread between all

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Let me if there was a common thread

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between all of those levels, no matter what level you are, listen to

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this. You're like 6 figure days? Yeah. Shut up. Man, I'm working on 7 figure

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days. By the way, I have not cracked the 7 figure day code yet. I

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know how to do it on paper. I mean, I know how to do it,

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but I have not helped clients do it and all that, so I don't have

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the systems for it. But you can bet your socks that the day

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I have it systematized, my masterclass changes

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from 6 Mistakes That Prevent You From 6

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Figure Days to 7 Mistakes That Prevent You From 7

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Figure Days. So you can know the future here. But

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if there was one common element of the first step

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for any level. It's to step in Just THE

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NEXT SIZE, PHASE, DEPTH OR POWER OF

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YOUR OWN Energetic AURA, BODY, MIND, SPIRIT AND

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SOUL. So you're here and you know that there's

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that next little thing. And you can sometimes you're in the groove. Sometimes

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you're not in the groove. If you're a beginner, it's like, I was kind of

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feeling optimistic. If you're a rock star, like, man,

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35% of the room bought the offer. Come on. Come on now.

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But there's always a next step. For anyone at

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any level, because this is an infinite scale,

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it's to SECRETLY

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allow a bigger

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aura, a bigger energy field, a bigger sense of self, no matter what

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your beliefs are, IN YOUR

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IMMEDIATE PRESENCE. So that it doesn't feel like it's far off

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in the future. You're screwed. If it feels right here, that's

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okay. It's the subconsciously

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stepping into it and merging your current sense of self with that

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next level, like a blend. As As soon as you get that

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in, plus you factor in. Maybe Chuck, they don't know

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this, but you always get a 30% boost called the magic of show

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business. When the lights go on, and people are there alive, and there's something

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happening, there's always that little that kicks in.

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So when you combine your honest to God internal,

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it's okay. Allow me to step into that greatness just a little

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bit smudge mixed with preparation, no matter what your

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level is, multiplied by the 30% boost of

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show business, I believe that could be a across

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the board recommendation.

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I love it. Well, something that stood out to me there, and I

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think this is a good time to talk about it because we I mean,

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we could I could already tell, Sly, that you and I could do this all

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day. And, there's just so much to unpack here. But you mentioned

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your master class. And before we run out of time, I wanna make sure that

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we let people know about that masterclass because,

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other than the brilliant common thread next steps that you

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just, described, I think anyone that

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we're reaching here today should go and

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attend your master class and learn even more from you. So you wanna

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tell them a little bit more about that? Chuck,

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if if if you're listening to this, okay, you let you you know Chuck.

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You like Chuck. I mean, how can you not love this guy? Okay? You listen

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to Chuck. You listen to this. There's a code in the show

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notes, okay, you can use to come in for a master class. It's gonna bring

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the price down to 0. My price can change over time

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Because of Chuck, whatever the price is, it's gonna go down to 0. If you

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don't come there, or at least check the date.

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Look at your agenda for the next 2 weeks. Okay? Whatever it is. I do

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this sometimes once a month or once every 2 weeks. Look at what's

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on your agenda. If that activity on your agenda that coincides with my master

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class will not lead you to have a 6 figure

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day, it just won't. You know, like, I don't know,

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making the dishes or whatever the activity is,

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I don't see a logical reason why you would

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not click on the damn link like you mean it.

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Not a small little click no. Click on that damn thing like you mean it.

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If you're watching this long in the future, it might be called the 7

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mistakes preventing you from making 7 figure days. Right now, it's

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the 6 mistakes. You're gonna learn all 6. That if you just

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avoid these mistakes on your way to 6 figure days, it's gonna go better. But

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Chuck, the main thing, aside from the mistakes and all that and, you

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know, the funny names, I invented a word in September

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2024. I don't know when you're watching this. It's called chronodystopia. And it is

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the one biggest, silent objection

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that people have that prevent them from buying your stuff. John, you're

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listening to this John. You want to sell them your consulting, coaching, or whatever you

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want to be selling them. They have a secret objection. It's called

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Kanudi Sopia. It's a condition of the mind. In that Masterclass, I'll show

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you how to overcome that. Just that alone is worth

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your time to move whatever you had planned in

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your agenda and make some space for that thing, especially since Chuck

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gave you a free code to join.

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And it really couldn't be easier. And if you're watching this on video, just look

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right beneath this video. All of the show notes, the link, the coupon

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code, it's all there. First of all, Sly, super generous. I mean, I can't

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thank you enough. So if you're watching us video,

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it's all there. If you happen to be listening to this on a

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podcast, just go into your phone and the player that you're

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in and all of the notes and the links and the and the and the

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the coupon code is all right there. And, go ahead

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and, like, Sly, this is powerful enough where I

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wanna echo something that's, Sly, that you said, and that is it's

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powerful enough to move your schedule around

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to make sure that you're there. I know

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that, you know, my mentor, 20, 25 years

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ago, somewhere in there, was

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very, you know, confidently

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inviting me to, you know, take the next steps as public speaking,

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and I and and selling from the stage, and it

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transformed me. It transformed my business, and

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Sly is this person that you want to learn from,

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right now. So take advantage of that, and it's a very generous

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offer. So thank you. You're welcome. Can I share a

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message with the with the audience listening to you?

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Guys, you're listening to this, wherever you are. You

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know Chuck. Make it a goal in life if

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you can to someday come on

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the podcast rather than listen to the podcast as well. This

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is a blessing. Such a great experience. Awesome listener. Great

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questions. Great vibe. Well organized. If you can,

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get some results out there. Do come to my masterclass. Do something worth

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talking about. Then come talk about it on the show here with Chug, if you

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can. I would absolutely love that. And, you and I

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get are so blessed to work with some really amazing heart

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centered people with big hearts, big messages, big

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visions for the world, and, and are

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engaged in work that help enhance the lives of

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of our fellow humans. And that is what this is all

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about. Before I let you go,

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I I talk a lot about in my program

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about our business grows only to the extent that we

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grow ourselves. And so personal development and self

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development has been near and dear to my heart. I have some of my

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favorite books that have helped me. So I always ask my guests while I have

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you here, and I can hold you

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captive. If you could share with me just one,

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I'm sure there are many, but one must read book

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that, if if this was the next book someone would

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read, it was, you know, impactful in your life, and it would be

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impactful in their life as well. I guess

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it would depend on the level. So I'll just say any book by David Hawkins.

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Oh. Maybe except Successes for You because he didn't really

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write himself was going a manuscript. But depending on the level where you

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are because some of them are mind melting.

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I remember the eye of the eye. My brain was just freaking out. So depending

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on the level, if you're into personal growth internally,

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any book from David Hawkins and I wouldn't maybe not focus too much on the

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numbers of his scale because he even said, like, I wish I hadn't gone too

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much in the numbers, but the principle itself of the scale of consciousness,

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just brilliant. Yeah. Power versus force, I

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think, is the first one that I ever, read and,

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great place to start. It's the it's the gateway to all

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things David Hawkins. So Crazy. Well, we'll make

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sure we put a link to that in the show notes here as well, and,

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it would definitely be time well spent. If you have not read

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that book, and like we said, it is a gateway to all his other

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work, you know, you check that out. So,

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Sly, thank you. You are amazing. I can't wait to do

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more with you. And, and I'll you know, we're sharing

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this masterclass out with everybody because the people I work with need

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this, and, and we get to work with some amazing people.

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So thank you. Before I let you go,

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to just bring this episode to a a a great conclusion,

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any final words of, words of wisdom or piece of advice you

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wanna leave our listeners here with today?

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Let's all remember, people, that the only

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way to escape the cycle of suffering

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we all seem to be stuck in is for each and every one

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of us to learn to deal with our emotions and our states of

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mind without hurting any

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sentient beings, including ourselves.

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I love that. Powerful, powerful words to end this

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episode by, Sly, thank you. You are so

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generous and just, an amazing human, and I can't wait to

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do more with you. To our audience, thank you for listening

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in. And if you're still here, that means what we talked about here

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today resonated with you. I want you to make sure this time

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was time well spent. I want you to take an action today

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towards something in your business that can move

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the needle forward. And maybe that's something you've been putting off for a

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while. Maybe that's something that we reminded you of while you were listening,

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and maybe it's just very simple. Go and sign up

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for Slice master class because that is gonna be time

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well spent. And in the meantime, keep moving

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forward. Never ever give up on your big dream. You might be just one

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collaboration way, from that breakthrough that

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is gonna take you from here to here in your business. And until next time,

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this has been the creative collaboration show with Chuck Anderson, and we'll see you on

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the next one.

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