In today’s episode, I’m talking about what it looks like to truly apologize. If the apology includes a “but,” it’s usually not a repair. It’s more like deflection and self-protection. If admitting mistakes didn’t feel safe when we were young, of course it’s going to feel hard now. Safety HAS to exist for honesty and accountability to grow!

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In this episode, I cover:

1. What my SM community polls revealed about emotional recognition & apologies in childhood
2. What a true apology is + why “I’m sorry, but…” isn’t real repair
3. How apologies can be used to deflect blame and avoid admitting mistakes
4. Why safety is essential for accountability and honest repair
5. The importance of modeling genuine apologies for our kids
6. Embracing progress over perfection as we heal and do it differently

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Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/truly-apologize

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1. Episode 120: Why Is It So Hard to Admit Mistakes?
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