You stand in front of a mirror and the person looking back is the confident version. Not a stranger, just you with the volume up.
About 12 minutes, no music, just a quiet voice.
Notice the posture, notice what the eyes are doing. Then the lines, and you have to mean them. I believe in my abilities and decisions. I am worthy of respect and acceptance. Challenges are opportunities for growth. Confidence is not something we build from nothing. It is already in there being ignored.
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Welcome to your morning meditation for confidence and self-belief.
Steven Webb:As we begin, find a comfortable seated position, whether on a chair or a cushion, it's totally up to you.
Steven Webb:And just allow your body to relax and become aware of your breath.
Steven Webb:And when you're ready, you can gently close your eyes or just soften your gaze to a few feet in
Steven Webb:front of you.
Steven Webb:And we'll take a moment just to acknowledge that this is a start of a new day. A fresh canvas
Steven Webb:where you have the power to paint your own story.
Steven Webb:And as you're aware of your breath, you don't need to do anything with your breath.
Steven Webb:Just breathing calm Breathe out, relax.
Steven Webb:Your body knows how to breathe.
Steven Webb:Just the same as your body knows how to relax. It's
Steven Webb:a matter of just giving it permission.
Steven Webb:Time to relax.
Steven Webb:Time to be calm.
Steven Webb:Time to be still in this moment.
Steven Webb:And this is a wonderful meditation that... Gives us the confidence and self-belief to take through the day with us.
Steven Webb:Whatever we're facing today, it might be work or it might be a busy day with family, whatever it is,
Steven Webb:we can visualize ourselves with
Steven Webb:a little confidence and more self-belief. And
Steven Webb:if we do this meditation five or six days in a row, maybe slightly more, totally up to you.
Steven Webb:And just feel it seep into every part of your life.
Steven Webb:You have the confidence and self-belief within you. It's just growing it and untapping it.
Steven Webb:So start by bringing your attention to your natural breath.
Steven Webb:Feel the air as it enters and leaves your body.
Steven Webb:And as we're opening our awareness of the current space and the current moment, there's no need
Steven Webb:to change your breath. There's no need to do anything with your body. Just allowing it to do what it
Steven Webb:does.
Steven Webb:Your body knows best
Steven Webb:as you sit in awareness, feel the weight of your body grounding you.
Steven Webb:Feel the connection to the earth below you.
Steven Webb:With each breath, sense a wave of relaxation washing down from your head to your toes.
Steven Webb:You may even notice the sounds around you getting quieter.
Steven Webb:Now in this state of just being and very relaxed, let's start building your inner confidence.
Steven Webb:Visualize yourself standing in front of a large mirror.
Steven Webb:And in this reflection, see yourself not just as you, but as a confident version of you.
Steven Webb:Self-assured person. The person you are becoming. The
Steven Webb:person you need to be.
Steven Webb:Notice your posture.
Steven Webb:Notice how your eyes reflect the self-belief.
Steven Webb:And there's a slight smile of contentment maybe on your face.
Steven Webb:Of how proud you are of yourself.
Steven Webb:And as you're holding this image, repeat these affirmations. Silently or out loud. It really doesn't matter.
Steven Webb:But
Steven Webb:you've got to really believe it. And what does it look like? What does it feel like? What does it
Steven Webb:look like from the outside? And what does it feel like from within? And
Steven Webb:the first one is, I am capable and strong.
Steven Webb:I am capable and strong.
Steven Webb:I believe in my abilities and decisions.
Steven Webb:I believe in my abilities and decisions.
Steven Webb:I am worthy of respect and acceptance.
Steven Webb:I am worthy of respect and acceptance.
Steven Webb:Challenges are opportunities for growth.
Steven Webb:Challenges are opportunities for growth.
Steven Webb:I believe in myself and I am a positive force in my life and in the lives of others around
Steven Webb:me.
Steven Webb:I believe in myself. I am a positive force in my life and for the lives around me.
Steven Webb:And if you bring your awareness back to your breath, back
Steven Webb:to your relaxed body,
Steven Webb:as you're breathing in calm even out relaxed,
Steven Webb:Just imagine breathing in confidence.
Steven Webb:And as you breathe in confidence, breathe out anything that's holding you back.
Steven Webb:And notice how calm the outside world is. Notice how calm the place you're in is.
Steven Webb:Notice how calm your mind is.
Steven Webb:And notice how much your heart and your body feels confident and feels ready for the day ahead.
Steven Webb:And as we near the end of this meditation, let's really anchor and nail down these affirmations.
Steven Webb:And you can do it on the in-breath. It really helps to really instill it within your body.
Steven Webb:May I be confident.
Steven Webb:May I trust in myself.
Steven Webb:May I embrace the day with positivity.
Steven Webb:May I be confident.
Steven Webb:May I trust in myself.
Steven Webb:May I embrace the day with positivity.
Steven Webb:And at any point today you can return to any of those three affirmations. Just
Steven Webb:before you step into the room or go to where you might feel sometimes you lack that confidence, just
Steven Webb:put your hand on your heart and go, may I be confident. May I trust myself.
Steven Webb:And let the words really be your shield and strength as you step into the day.
Steven Webb:Now gently bring your awareness back to the room.
Steven Webb:Wiggle your fingers and wiggle your toes. Wiggle your arms and stretch out and
Steven Webb:just recognise that feeling of being ready. Gently open your eyes and as you carry this feeling of
Steven Webb:confidence and self-belief with you, remember you are equipped with all you need to face a day.
Steven Webb:Wishing you a wonderful day ahead. I'm Steven Webb and this is one of the meditations from the podcast Inner
Steven Webb:Peace Meditations. Thank you for your support and I really do wish you more confidence and more self-belief
Steven Webb:for whatever you're facing today. If you want to listen to my other podcast or support this podcast,
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