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From Resolutions to Intentions: How to Focus on What Matters | S2E082
Episode 827th January 2025 • A Call For LOVE • Linda Orsini
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Resolutions are out. Intentions are in. This week on A Call For Love, I’m sharing a powerful framework to help you ditch the overwhelm of resolutions and focus on what truly matters in 2025.

I’ll walk you through my own 25 for 2025 list and show you how I narrowed it down to the top 5 priorities that will have the biggest impact in my life. You’ll learn why letting go of the rest is the key to success, how to categorize your intentions into personal, relational, and professional goals, and practical tools to make them stick.

Stick around until the end for a heartfelt intention poem to ground you as you start the year with clarity, purpose, and love.

If you’re ready to embrace growth, focus your energy, and create a life rooted in what truly matters, this episode is for you.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The difference between resolutions and intentions (and why it matters).
  • How to create your own 25 for 2025 list and prioritize your top 5 goals.
  • Why letting go of lower-priority goals is a game-changer.
  • Practical tools to stay focused, aligned, and intentional throughout the year.

Remember, this year isn’t about doing everything—it’s about doing what truly matters. Let’s make 2025 a year of clarity, connection, and growth.

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About Linda:

Have you ever battled overwhelming anxiety, fear, self-limiting beliefs, soul fatigue or stress? It can leave you feeling so lonely and helpless. We’ve all been taught how to be courageous when we face physical threats but when it comes to matters of the heart and soul we are often left to learn, "the hard way."

As a school teacher for over 30+ years, struggling with these very issues, my doctor suggested anti-anxiety medication but that didn't resonate with me so I sought the healing arts. I expanding my teaching skills and became a yoga, meditation, mindfulness, reiki and sound healer to step into my power and own my impact. 

A Call for Love will teach you how to find the courage to hold space for your fears and tears. To learn how to love and respect yourself and others more deeply.  

My mission is to guide you on your journey. I believe we can help transform the world around us by choosing love. If you don’t love yourself, how can you love anyone else? Join a call for love. 

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Hello, and welcome to a call for love where we inspire

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you to choose love, peace, and joy over fear,

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stress, and worry. And it's really about embracing growth

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and creating a life rooted in compassion and connection.

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And today, I wanna share with you something that's really been on my heart and

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mind, and that is how we step into

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this new calendar year. Now I do believe that every day

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is a new beginning. But with the turn of the calendar

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to 2025, let's face it, many

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people set resolutions, and that can feel very

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overwhelming. And most of them don't stick.

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I feel it, and I've been there too. But I found a way to set

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intentions that actually work, and it all comes down to

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focusing on what matters most. So in this episode,

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I'm sharing my 25 for 2025 list

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and how I have narrowed it down to my top five

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priorities. And that's the thing. The ones that will really

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truly make the biggest impact this year in your

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life. I also talk about why letting go of some of the

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goals is a good thing and how it helps

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you show up with more clarity and purpose. So stick around

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until the end because I'll be sharing a special intention

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poem that I created to help you start the year

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fresh, feeling grounded, focused, and ready to embrace

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all the good that's waiting for you. So let's begin.

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To start today, I would like to share that every

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year, you know, you hear the one word intention

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or you hear the phrase or you hear something to motivate you, to

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propel you into the next calendar year. And it's really

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about creating a fresh start. But let's face it.

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Most resolutions fade because they're either too vague, which

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I've mentioned on many of the podcasts, or we try

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to tackle too much at once. I've been there too,

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which is why I've shifted my approach to this calendar

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year to set intentions that actually stick,

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and it starts with clarity. So why

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create intentions? So creating a list, I've

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decided to create 25 items in my list because

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I kinda like those synchronicities of numbers. So 25 for

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25. And I think it's really cool that we have

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now entered into and completed a quarter

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of a century. But in any case, creating a

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list isn't about doing everything perfectly,

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really. It's about aligning your energy with what matters

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most and showing up intentionally. It's about clarity

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and not chaos because we can set all these

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intentions. It can become too overwhelming, and

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we really haven't thought them out. So it's

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really about resolutions to intentions.

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That's how I'm shifting my mindset for this year.

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Not resolutions, but really being mindful of my

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intentions, and maybe this resonates with you as well. And,

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of course, I'm recording this at the start of a brand new year.

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However, this is something that you can refocus on

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any quarter of the year, any month, or any

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milestone. So let's divide them into

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categories. That's how I've separated and categorized

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my intentions, and they're under 3 areas. 1st,

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for me are personal goals about nurturing myself,

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my body, mind, and spirit, and then about relational

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goals about deepening the connections with those we care

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about. And then for me and for many of you, maybe

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professional goals about creating impact.

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Now my 25 for 25

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is quite intense. It took me a little while to go through

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them, and I selected 6 for my

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personal growth. I'm not gonna go through them all, but I

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will share with you that some I've already been doing.

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But the main ones that are new for this year,

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and I I phrased it like this, is to honor and celebrate

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my body's evolution with age. You

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know that saying you're not getting older. You're getting wiser.

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Well, I would like to actually put that into practice

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because I am physically getting older,

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and my body is showing it. And I wanna embrace

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it. I wanna celebrate it without criticizing

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it and judging it. And so one of the main practices

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I'm doing this year is I'm going to include weight

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training. And I have a special guest coming

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up who will talk more about that. But I do

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feel I have the agility, mobility, and flexibility

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through yoga and Pilates kinda down pat now,

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and I want to embrace the weight training.

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Actually, my son, Michael, bought me some hand weights this

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Christmas, so I'm ready to go. So

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that was the main item I had for my personal growth.

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The other ones, you know, like, I wanna read 25 books

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for 2025, stay grounded and present with self compassion,

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you know, practice the let them let me, which I will talk

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about further in another podcast theory.

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And, of course, starting my mornings intentionally with

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meditation, a gratitude practice. I like to read in

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spiritually inspiring readings to really ground and

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uplift me. So that's kind of my personal area.

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So you may want to create some intentions.

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I'm not gonna say goals, and I'm not gonna say resolutions, but

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intentions in your personal growth. Okay?

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Things to propel you forward on your journey. But then

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I call the next category relational, and,

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really, it's about friends and family. My main

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one I have 5 in this area, but my main one is

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to remember birthdays and special

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occasions. I have I am blessed with many,

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many people in my life. You know, I have 10 older

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brothers and sisters, teen nieces and nephews,

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and great nieces and nephews. I think we're bordering on, like, 60 now.

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And, I I feel very overwhelmed with

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remembering birthdays. And, of course, I have dear friends

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and clients. So this year, I'm going to try being more

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intentional about remembering these special occasions.

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Now that is the main one. I've chosen just one main one from each

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category. So for the personal was including weight training

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into my health regime and remembering

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birthdays for my relational intentions. But I

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also have, of course, supporting my sons, Michael and Patrick, on their journey,

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spending more quality time and activities with my husband,

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Gord, and taking technology breaks.

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I can get very obsessed about technology

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and wanting to get things done, and so I'm gonna be really

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mindful of that, like, closing the computer, putting my phone away.

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And, you know, we've had a lot of changes in our life recently,

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losing our parents and, you know, our kids getting

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older. And so I would like to create new holiday traditions.

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So those are some of the intentions I have. But as I said,

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my main one I'm gonna focus on is

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remembering birthdays. And then

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for professional, I will dive into that a little later,

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but I do wanna say that when we break down our

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intentions, into these areas, into

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these buckets, personal, relational, and professional,

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it's really about seeing what areas of your life

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need more focus. And for me, it's about

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really noticing and making a shift. You know, it

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could be writing it on a sticky note. It could be putting it in your

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agenda. Recently, I've been buying a full year calendar that I

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put on my wall. I've been asking other people how

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they negotiate through this. And a lot of people say

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they write it down or they put it in their phone. I like

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visuals. I'm a visual learner, so I do like seeing it.

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And if you're anything like me, I am a Vata in terms

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of, Ayurvedic doshas. I need to see it, hear

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it. I have to have it in many places, not just

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one, in order to keep that really in

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my mindset. So as you look at your

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25 items, it's too much.

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25 items is really spreading yourself then. It's

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just like the one word intention. So one word

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is doable. It's something that's in your mindset. Well, if

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you have 25 intentions for 2025,

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it's really overwhelming and a little bit too much.

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So the key here is to write them all

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down and then to take the top 5.

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So I've taken actually, I have negotiated this a little

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bit. I've taken one for my personal, one for my relational,

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and I do have 5 for my professional. And then

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the secret here is, and this is the hardest part,

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is to let go on purpose of the rest.

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And what that means is, and I shared this with my friend Jodi

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Pappas, is you are to write them down and cross them

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out and make sure that you do

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not do them. So it actually works in reverse.

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You have to really create the mindset not to

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do them. So I will give you an example.

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I love creating. Just love creating. And I've been

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intending to write this course for Insight

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Timer. It's an app where I do have meditations on there,

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and I've been wanting to write this course. It would be so much

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fun. I could do a great job, and it gets me excited,

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but it's not in my top five. And

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so I have to purposely say because I get attracted to

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it like a magnet. No, Linda. Don't do it. Another thing

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is is that I love to take courses myself. And

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so I purposely have to say no.

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You're not allowed I say I talk to myself. You're not

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allowed to take another course at this time because

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that's not in your top five. That's not in

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your top five intentions for 2025.

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And so that is the key. When you remember

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this, then you can focus it. There's a great

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book. I don't know who writes it, but it's called Essentialism.

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And what it has is this circle and all these

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arrows around the circle coming like spokes, spokes of

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a bike. And so all these arrows are going away from

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the circle. That's when you have too many intentions.

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So say you have 25, all those arrows are

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focusing away. Well, of course, you can't get very

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far on the spokes. But the less

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intentions you have, then all that energy and

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time is purposely going into your

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top 5, and then you go farther. And

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that's what we want. And so for my professional

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goals, I do wanna go farther. And I've decided,

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of course, a call for love podcast is very important to

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me and my listeners. I've been getting exceptional

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feedback as I celebrate the 2 year mark.

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I'd said it episode 81 and

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82. It was this time 2 years ago

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in 2023 that I created a call

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for love, and it has really filled my life and my heart.

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It's something that gives me purpose and gives

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me joy. And so I'm going to continue that, of

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course. I put that on Apple, Spotify,

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many platforms, and also through Insight Timer.

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But what are my other ones? And so this is what I've decided

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is that just narrowing down my focus is

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retreats. I've been doing them for, oh, I would say

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7, 8 years now, and I love them. So this

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is the first time in 2025 that I'm actually going out of

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country, and we're going to Samara, Costa Rica. It is super

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exciting. It is gorgeous there. Stunning on the

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ocean, walking everywhere, an excursion. Just

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beautiful. If you're interested, you can go to Global

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Wellness Education offerings to retreats,

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or there's a link in the show notes. But in any case, my

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retreats are very important. And, of course, I have retreats

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every year at the retreat house in Ontario, Canada

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on top of Blue Mountain at the retreat house. So retreats

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are part of it. My podcasting is part of it. So that's

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2. The other thing is content

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creation. I love writing, and that's another thing. I

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wanna write a book, but I have to purposely put that

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underneath the 5 because

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that could really detract me from my main goals.

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But I can kinda satisfy that through my

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newsletters and my blogs and creating social

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media presence. And so that's where I've devoted

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my creative artistry is into writing

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for these newsletters, which people read, and I

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receive a lot of insight and feedback

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back, which I truly, truly appreciate. The

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third thing is to continue my in person

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offering. So I do corporate events. I do coaching,

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Reiki energy sound healing, circles of love, and,

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of course, I do my yoga meditation studio classes. So I'm

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keeping that in. That is not new, but it

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is a huge part of my life, and it takes up quite a bit

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of time and energy. So that is included. Now the

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last one, 5, is trainings.

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This year, I consider it a huge

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personal success for me that over the last

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2 years, I have created a meditation manual, and I

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launched a 50 hour meditation

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teacher training. Now this is expand your path to

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peace. And what I've noticed in we are having our

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last weekend coming up, but it's really about

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inner awareness, awakening your higher self. It's self

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discovery, returning to wholeness, all those things that

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lead you back home is befriending yourself. And so it's been

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so successful. And here, once again, my creative writing

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abilities coming in, that, 50 hours was

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not long enough to share all

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that I have learned because I have taken many, many, many

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courses as a meditation guide, yoga teacher,

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Reiki sound master, coach, shamanic practitioner.

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I've dove into so many areas,

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and I'm bringing this all into the course. It's

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not just about meditation. In fact, there's a

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huge component about mindfulness, self compassion.

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And so that is one of the trainings. The other one is I'm going

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to be offering Reiki. Reiki part 1, 2, 3, and

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master trainings where you can become your own

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Reiki energy healer. And lastly, a restorative

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yoga teacher training. So I have decided to take

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my skills from being a school teacher for over 30 years and

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create trainings. And so this is what I invite you to

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do. So you may be retired, and you may not have

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professional goals, but you could call them creative

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goals. Because I feel it's really important

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as we move through the years to have purpose,

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to go from me to we, to give back.

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And so why not call them creative endeavors

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or sharings or whatever it is? Because I have a

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friend. She volunteers at a nursing home. I have other

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people that paint and have created, you could call

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it a side hustle, but they don't have their main career anymore.

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So a passion, a purpose. And so

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I offer you the perspective that

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maybe you want to create something in your life that

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is an offering, a creative endeavor,

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taking up a new skill or passion. I have a friend taking

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violin lessons. I've been dabbling in guitar.

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I love to paint. I love to knit. And so just

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exercising both sides of the brain as

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you navigate through the wisdom years is something that

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you may really wanna consider because we're all on this

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journey, and this is the perfect time. The perfect time is now.

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It's this the only moment we have is now. And so

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what intention do you want to set now? It's

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about creating action steps. So

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taking the biggest intentions that will have the biggest

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impact in your life and making those front and

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center. So this year, it isn't about

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doing everything, but it's about doing what truly matters.

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And by focusing on your top 5, give or take,

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you'll create the space, the energy, and the intention to

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make 20 25 a year of meaningful growth

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because this is what it's all about, is

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not comparing ourselves to others, but comparing

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ourselves to ourselves. And I don't

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really like the word comparing, but it's more of a mindful

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noticing to always step forward in our

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own journey even if it's one more small

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step. Why? You may ask yourself, why is this so

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important? You know, I'm fine the way I am, but, you know, I think it's

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part of the human nature to always be striving and

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growing. The mind always wants that. It always wants to be

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pushing. And so why not navigate it in

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a direction of growth? That is my

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thoughts in any case. And I do believe in myself,

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and I believe in you. I believe in the spirit

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of people that we can really grow

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to be a ripple of love and light to all those who

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come in our path and really raise the collective consciousness.

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Now to end this episode, I would like to share a

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poem that I've written. It's not really a poem. It's more of

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an intention. I call it from resolutions to intentions.

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It's really about embracing newness with purpose and

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clarity, and it goes like this. I am

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ready to welcome new beginnings. I

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embrace love, joy, and vibrant health. I

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trust in the beauty and goodness of life. I

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soften into changes and challenges, trusting they are for

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my highest good. I embrace this time of transition

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with patience and self compassion. I walk toward

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peace and joy, trusting it will show me the best

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path for my life, for my journey. I hold

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space for each day as it unfolds, trusting life's

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greater plan. I know that all is happening for

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me, not to me. I am supported and

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guided, creating a ripple of loving kindness

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out into the world. And so it is. Thank

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you. Thank you. Thank you. This may resonate

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with you. I hope it does. If not, create

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something that inspires you. I actually have this

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recorded on my phone in the morning. I can listen to

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it, and I do have it also on notes on my phone

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in case I wanna refer to it. That along with

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my 5 main objectives and intentions, my

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personal goal my main personal goal and my main relationship

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goal. And so that is how I am

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creating a path for this year.

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Let me know what your thoughts are. Let me know what your

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intentions are for 2025. Maybe you have created

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25 things for 2025 and narrowed them down to

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5. I would be so interested because this is what we do. We

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learn from each other. We're not what what does that say?

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No man or person is an island? Well, that's what

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it is. It's about learning from each other. You can reach out

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to me at lindaorcini@globalwellnesseducation.com,

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or reach out to me on social media at

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Instagram, Linda Orsini Wellness, or on

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Facebook, Linda Orsini, and LinkedIn, Linda

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Orsini. I am wishing you the clarity and

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the compassion to set your intentions

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for this new year. And remember, you can

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always pivot. If it's not working for you in this moment,

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pivot. Rewrite it. You are

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the master of your narrative of your life,

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not in the past, but moving forward. So really make sure

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that the path you're walking in is the direction that you want to

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go. Okay? So from my heart to yours,

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namaste.

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