With any new endeavor comes reservations, fears, and uncertainty about the unknown. Finding our ability to persevere and fully embrace our passions, even if there is no model to turn to, can be quite challenging, and requires a level of commitment that takes time to cultivate the passion, the skillsets required to be successful, but more importantly, to contribute your "voice" in this ever-changing world. Continuing our episodes celebrating the individuals that made positive contributions to the podcast and to the business, Your Speaking Voice LLC, Michael Dugan, who has been featured since Episode 2 as our intro/outro voice of the show, joins us. Michael's contributions to not only this podcast, but to the overall world of giving awareness to mental health and daily challenges of chefs, explores the possibilities of getting started today with the support and encouragement of other strong mentors. By challenging yourself, the unknown can be turned into the "known" through positive contributions and enduring opportunities to be seen in this ever-changing world, even if it is with your voice.
Guest Bio
Michael holds degrees in Culinary Arts and Hotel & Restaurant Administration, which initially steered him towards a career in the hospitality industry in Seattle, WA, and Napa Valley, CA. However, in 1995, he transitioned to a successful career in technology while still maintaining his fervor for exceptional culinary experiences and admiration for the skilled chefs who guided him. In May 2021, he shifted gears from the kitchen to the studio and introduced The Voice4Chefs Podcast, aiming to bridge connections with pioneering chefs and imaginative culinary artists where listeners can tune in for an enjoyable, insightful, and flavorful podcast experience.
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Intro/Outro By: Michael Dugan, Podcast Host: Voice4Chefs
Welcome to the podcast where relationships, confidence, and
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:determination all converge into
an amazing, heartfelt experience.
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:This is Speaking From The Heart.
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:Joshua: Welcome back to episode
number 121 of Speaking from the Heart.
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:Today, you already have heard our guest
on many, many, many previous episodes.
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:As a matter of fact, his voice has
been used since episode two to not
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:only open our show, but to also close
our show with each and every episode.
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:I'm so excited to have the
voice of opening and closing
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:Speaking from the Heart, Mr.
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:Michael Dugan, with us today.
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:Michael holds degrees in culinary
arts and hotel and restaurant
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:administration, which initially steered
him towards a career in the hospitality
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:industry in Seattle, Washington.
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:and Napa Valley, California.
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:However, in 1995, he transitioned to
a successful career in technology,
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:while still maintaining his
fervor for exceptional culinary
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:experiences, and admiration for
the skilled chefs who guided him.
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:In May of 2021, he shifted gears from
the kitchen to the studio, and introduced
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:the Voice4Chefs podcast, aiming to
bridge connections with pioneering
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:chefs and imaginative, culinary artists,
where listeners can tune in for an
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:enjoyable, insightful, and flavorful
podcast experience, and I'm excited
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:to have him featured in episode number
two of my episodes featured this month,
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:showcasing individuals that have made
a positive contribution to not only
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:Speaking From The Heart, but also my
business, Your Speaking Voice LLC.
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:It isn't just about the voice that's
behind a microphone, sometimes, when
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:you get to really know them deep down
inside of why they do what they do.
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:It brings a whole other perspective to
the table, not only when it comes to
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:understanding and learning how people do
what they do, but why they do it as well.
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:I think you're going to find in our
interview today with Michael a lot
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:of different things about why he's so
passionate about helping others, but
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:at the same time helpful in ways in
which I would have never imagined, and
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:even at the very end, him sharing with
me why it was so important to help me
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:out starting out with this podcast,
really exemplifies the fact of Michael's
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:character, but also, why it's so
important to mentor others, especially
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:when they need the help the most.
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:But with that, let's go to the episode.
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:All right.
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:We're here with Michael Dugan.
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:Michael, thanks for sharing
your heart with us today.
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:Michael: Honored to be here, Josh.
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:Joshua: Well, I'm honored that
you're here, and people have been
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:wondering since episode one; oh,
episode two, I should say, "Who is
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:this guy that introduces your shows?"
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:Well, here we are.
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:I'm talking to him right now, ladies
and gentlemen, and I'm really pumped
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:because Michael is one of these people
that really helped me get started in my
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:podcast journey, and as I've mentioned
in the beginning of this episode, if
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:it wasn't for people like him, I would
not be doing this, so Michael, thank
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:you so much for taking some time to
talk with me today, because I want to
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:dive into a lot of the things that you
do, and how your career has been so
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:enriching and helping others, because
one of the things that I always put in my
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:episode notes is that you are a podcast
host for chefs and you talk to chefs.
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:Your podcast name is called
Voice4Chefs, so I want to start off
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:with talking about that, and how
you got started with being a chef,
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:because I understand that that was your
original intention setting out in life.
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:Michael: Oh my God, Josh.
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:You know, looking back, I work in
technology now, but if I think back and
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:I take you back and everyone back, I was
probably in my twenties, and when I was
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:in my twenties, I was floundering, and I
was trying to figure out what do I really
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:want to do, so I started out thinking
I wanted to be a marine biologist, and
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:that's a big stretch, but I think we
lived in New Jersey and I was going to
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:community college, and I didn't do so well
in the chemistry class and I just kind
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:of lost my footing, and then my family
moved to Washington state in Seattle, and
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:I remember just floundering and trying
to just get a job, so I ended up working
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:for McDonald's flipping burgers and it
was a very tough time because it's very
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:monotonous job, you know, and I remember
getting a raise, and it was like a 10 cent
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:raise, and I was insulted by the manager,
and I'd been there for six months or eight
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:months or whatever, but a coworker told
me about this place called the Bear Creek
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:Country Club in Redmond, Washington, and
it was opening up this amazing restaurant.
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or five star restaurant, and they were
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:going to have all these interesting
foods from Europe, so I went there, just
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:on a whim, to do an interview for being
like a prep cook, and I knew nothing
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:When I interviewed, I got the job,
and they brought us back to taste
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to experience like what it's like
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:to be in a fine dining restaurant,
and I fell in love immediately.
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:It was like, "This is my calling.
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:This is what I really want to do.",
so eventually, I worked there for I
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took me in the walk in, and he said,
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:I got to tell you the good
news and the bad news.
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keep you, but the bad news is that I
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he said, "I can't pay you, but I want
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:you to become my apprentice and I will
teach you everything about the kitchen.",
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:and this was a rare opportunity, but
I was struggling, financially, and I
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chefs there, right, and I befriended a
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he just created these incredible dishes.
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listeners probably know what pie is,
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pie by grinding the peanuts into creating
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just learning these dishes and creations
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:I was like, "I want to do this.", so I
was living at home, and I'm not proud
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anywhere and I was really struggling,
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and they saw this change in me.
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that's happening in his life.",
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and my life was kind of falling apart,
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the kitchen and I got a purpose, and
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:I don't know if you know what sauteing
is, but sauteing is the concept,
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:right, is that you're flipping food in
a pan, and you might have pasta, you
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:might have vegetables, you might have
something else, and you put it on a
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:You don't use a utensil.
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:Well, in order to learn how to saute,
the chef recommended that I go home and
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:literally put a pan of frozen peas, just
take frozen peas in a pan, and flip them
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did, and they went all over the floor.
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telling you what a disaster, right?
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:I talk about kitchen disasters, but
to me, once I learned how to do
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:that and I learned that technique,
I took a full bag of oranges, right?
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:I took it home, and I opened it,
and I peeled a whole bag of oranges
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:to learn how to peel fruit, because
there's a way that you peel it.
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:You literally take a really sharp
knife, and you got to curve it just
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techniques I got so fascinated by,
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:so eight months later, I came back
to the chef, and this time I took him
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:into the and I said, "Chef Michael.
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:I can't afford to do this anymore.", and
he looked at me and he nodded his head.
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:I go, "I'm living at home.
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:I got to make a living."
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:He goes, "Well, I want to introduce
you to a chef that works at the
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was, I don't know, 20 miles down the
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:He said, "You tell him that he
needs to hire you.", so he did.
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:Then what happened was I literally
ended up being an apprentice at
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:this French restaurant that was a
well known restaurant in Woodinville
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learned how to fillet salmon.
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:I learned how to debone duck.
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:I learned how to make cheesecakes from
scratch, and let me tell you, Josh,
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:I hated cheesecake as a kid, because
the only time I ever had cheesecake
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:was frozen, but once I learned how you
make it from scratch, and the different
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:ways that you can prepare it, and the
sauces that go with it, like fresh
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:It's the simple things about food,
right, but the techniques that I
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was with a sous chef at the Courtyard
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excited because he was going to open
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a very famous restaurant called the
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:Maltby Cafe, and it's like breakfast,
and lunch, and they have dinner, but
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:Well, he went to launch this restaurant
and one day, just out of the blue, I
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Woodinville and I passed the Maltby Cafe,
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:Well, I came into the back of
the kitchen, right, and there
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:was this huge butcher block.
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:You stand at the butcher block,
and people were cutting potatoes,
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:cutting vegetables, stuff like that.
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:It's a giant cutting board, and
people can be gathered around it.
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:Well, there were these kids, they were
like teenagers, joking around, and
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:one of them was holding a knife, and
just literally talking, and almost
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:stabbed his friend, you know, that
they were cutting these vegetables-
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:Michael: And I grabbed the knife from him.
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:I said, " You need to learn how to use
a knife.", and I said, "You almost cut
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:your finger off.", this one guy, and this
other guy; he almost stabbed the other
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:guy, so I was teaching him, and Daryl
looked over and he just gives me this nod.
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:He's like, "Cool, really cool.",
and so I worked with him that night.
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:I was exhausted from my job, cause
I worked in the morning, I worked
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:breakfast, and I ended up staying
with him through the evening.
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:He goes, "I'm going to make you
whatever you want for dinner;
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:lobster, whatever you want, cause
you were helping these guys out.
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:Would you stay for a while?", so I stayed
with him, and then at like 10 o'clock
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:at night, he tells me that they're
opening the next morning the Maltby Cafe.
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:He said, "I know you got to go home,
but I just want to tell you I'm staying
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:I'm going to stay with you.", so
I actually worked with him through
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restaurant the next morning and fell
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kind of my background around cooking.
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:Michael: Yeah.
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:Joshua: From McDonald's, to cooking with
a apprenticeship, and then learning to
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then going to the famous cafe in Seattle,
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for you, Michael, because-
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:Joshua: For helping with other
people that have gone through
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especially nowadays, post pandemic.
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:All I hear anymore is about restaurants
closing because of extreme overhead, and
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:just not being able to have the same level
of business as they used to have, because
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has been, the way that teleworking has
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industry too, because a lot of people
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:I'm kind of curious, because you interview
other chefs on your show about the
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topics, one of them being burnout, which
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some chefs have just worked themselves
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to bring that level of perfection, or
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were doing that sort of work, when you
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what were some of the reasons why you
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then maybe move on, because I noticed,
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career, but I want to hold off on
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:Joshua: I really am interested more
right now about what you've been able to
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this business when I did, I spent about
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believe that I'm not an expert, but I
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:I studied to be a chef.
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:I went to South Seattle Community
College for two years, got a culinary
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degree to become- what I wanted to
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burnout rate is so high, because for
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a minimum wage or a decent
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this.", and I looked at people's
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:Now in the dining room, it's a little
different because the wait staff,
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:A lot of times they work part time,
and the industry may have changed
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work, six hours, instead of eight
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busy times, and then they leave when you
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day, and I knew a lot of people that
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:They could work six days a week, so
if you'd imagine that you're working
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vacation, very shitty benefits,
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that way, and it's gotten better.
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out that there really is a momentum and
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doing that, but as a history, when I
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:Medical and dental were terrible;
very minimal vacation, so you burn
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to, to answer your question.
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:It's like, you become exhausted,
and then mental health issues take
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say worthless, but you feel devalued
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:What it is, is that it's a craft.
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:Cooking is a craft, but you
don't always feel appreciated.
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:There are a lot of really
good restaurants out there.
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:There are a lot of chefs that I've
interviewed that have had amazing careers,
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:and they're the ones that I really love
to interview, because I want to inspire
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:If you're doing this, maybe it's time
to make that change, and move to a
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:different place, or a different area
in your career.", and I get excited
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:when I have some of these chefs on,
and they tell their stories about
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:their success, but there is this
deeper thing that it's a really strong
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:commitment, and you don't take it
lightly, and some people have no choice.
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restaurant business and learn to
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but to wrap that up, I was in Napa
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:I was in a restaurant.
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:I was an assistant manager, and I
remember this night where a waitress
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and she was literally putting in
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:She just flipped it, and I thought
it was like a bug in her hair or
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:something, and five minutes later,
I start walking out to the dining
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:room, and I see this panic of people.
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:I mean, people were getting up and
running out of the restaurant, and.
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:I turned to one of my waitstaff
and I said, "What's going on?",
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and there was a bullet hole that
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:There was a drive by shooting that
we found out, because the cops came
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out, because I was the one in charge.
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home, and literally, I just panicked.
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"I don't want to do this anymore."
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me leaving the restaurant
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appreciated, and I have to deal with the
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morning to talk to my general manager and
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was also like, "What happened?
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:You could have handled this
better, or done this better."
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:I'm like, "Oh my God!
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:I almost got killed.
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:My waitress almost got killed.
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:Somebody else could have got killed.",
and so there's that piece that really,
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moved out of the restaurant business,
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telling these stories about the
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these inner struggles about it.
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out with something that you love the
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want be able to stick with it, but
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:you have stuff like that happen where
people, or things, or events happen
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:where it changes your directory of
whether you want to stay in it or not.
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:I can certainly understand, Michael, like
walking away from it, and I would be-
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:Michael: It's tough.
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:Joshua: Freaked out if we had some-
it's almost the equivalent of having an
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:active shooter happen nowadays, which
unfortunately in the United States, that's
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:happening more than ever before, and it's
happening at workplaces, so even with what
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:you said about being underappreciated,
that would be my final straw too, but
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:if you are then leaving the industry to
go into technology, and then coming back
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find that really interesting because-
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:Michael: It is.
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:Joshua: You're not- You're almost
channeling yourself through these chefs,
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:and being able to do the same thing
that you did a number of years ago.
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:Michael: You caught it.
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:Michael: You caught it.
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:Joshua: Is that really why you do
it is because you want to help these
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:people just as much as they helped you?
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:Michael: So, the real reason, you want
the real reason why I started the podcast?
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:Joshua: Oh, here on Speaking From
the Heart, we always are here about
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:authenticity, so I absolutely love
to hear why you started it, for sure.
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:Michael: All right, so
the door is about to open.
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:I really broke down, because I was in Napa
Valley, right, and I was in California,
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:I didn't have a plan.
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:I just literally quit, and I moved back
home, to Seattle, and what happened was
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:my friend, Scott Edwards, reached out
to me, or I reached out to him, and he
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:was applying, or had started working
for this company that was helping with
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:the launch of Windows 95, the operating
system, and we were just going into a
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:place in the world where we were going
from a different style of computer where
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:people couldn't really interact with it,
to now graphics and visuals and a whole
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:new world of computers, and that was
Windows 95, and I ended up interviewing.
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you're bringing back memories.
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:I ended up interviewing for this job,
and it was to be basically a support
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:tech for the support and the launch
of Windows 95; huge project with this
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:contract company directly connected to
Microsoft, and when I interviewed, I
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:remember they walked me out and they
said, "Well, you failed the tech test."
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:Well, of course I failed the tech test.
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:I didn't have a lot of technical
experience, but I tried, but the other
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:parts of the interview, when I brought
hospitality, and the restaurant business,
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:and dealing with challenges, I blew them
away, and they said, "We want to hire you,
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:but you need to come back in two weeks
and pass this test.", so I studied with my
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:friend, and I really studied, and I really
learned, and I just absorbed everything
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:for two weeks, and I passed the test,
and the next thing you know, I was hired,
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:and I now just made this transition.
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:I forgot all about it, but I made this
transition from working in the restaurant
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:It was the ground floor of opportunity.
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:Now what happened later, after working
there for a couple months, I had a
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:tech lead named Steve, and he passed
away a few years back with cancer,
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:I remember he took me aside
one day and he said, "Mike,
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:you're really good with people.
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:I don't know what it is, but you have
this way of connecting and disarming
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:people that call in, and just calming
them down, and get into the problem.
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:I think you need to be a lead.
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:I think you should stop being a tech,
and I think I want you to be a lead."
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:He goes, "I'm going to take your resume.
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:I'm going to walk it right to the hiring
manager.", and they had a whole bunch
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:of people coming in, interviewing for
this job, and I got the job, so I became
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:a tech lead of like, I don't know, six
technicians or something like that.
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:A couple of months later, I was now a tech
lead of 14 technicians, and eventually,
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all about building a team, motivating
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we're talking about in the beginning.
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and speaking from the heart.
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relationships, and just understanding
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I learned that in the restaurant
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hospitality and technology.
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that, and it was probably during the
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but for me, it was all about people.
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and leverage the technology, but it was
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a team and I loved it, and that's how
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how I bridged the gap between the two.
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because when I hear this, and I hear
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this willingness to learn, when you
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with the needs of a certain job, but
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that make up for all those things.
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:This is what I usually preach
to my coaching clients.
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:I have struggled for so long in my life
about having connection with people,
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foster not only the relationships,
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the determination that I'm setting
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are setting for me what I feel like
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:I want people to realize that there's not
just about what we see on the surface.
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to say, meet a job description, or meet
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piece of paper, or online for that matter,
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:It's about evolving, and seeing that
there's unlimited possibilities to the
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:different modalities that we have in our
lives, whether it is the technological
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a life skill, which I've done plenty
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life skills and why it's important to
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:be able to measure twice cut once, like
those sort of things, but you saying
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:this really exemplifies the fact that
why, first off, this comes full circle
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:for you, because you've been able to
use the technological side that you've
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:developed, which was something that you
didn't learn initially, but bridge the
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now create this awesome medium, I would
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:I mean, do you feel a sense of pride
knowing that you've been able to
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:wrap this all together, because I
feel pretty proud of hearing you say
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accomplish, but I think a lot of people
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:Oh, I just done that.
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:These don't add up to what you need
today.", and they don't think three
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:or fourth dimensionally when it comes
to how you can put these all together.
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:Michael: I think for me, the driving
force, it's kind of interesting, but when
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think back 62 episodes, which isn't a lot
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:for a couple of years, but, for me, it's
a lot, because I have a full time job, and
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:my wife, and we have adopted dog; lots of
things going on, but for me, at first I
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:I'm like, "Oh, I want to have the
celebrity chef on.", right, and what
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:It's about empowering the guest.
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:It's about bringing somebody else on,
and making them feel great, and helping
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the struggles, and the speaking piece,
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makes me feel proud, is when I produce an
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"I can't believe that you just did that."
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listened to it, or it's my family.
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:My sister listens.
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:My mom listens.
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I'm sitting there with imposter
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:They're going to think it's ridiculous.
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:What the hell is he doing?",
right, but when they connected to
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connect to my own family."
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:My mom listens to every episode.
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:My brother listens to every episode.
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:He did a sabbatical for school, right,
and he traveled to the Caribbean and
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:lived there for a year on a sailboat,
so now all of a sudden, I see the
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:Caribbean's listening to my podcast
and I pinged him and I'm like, "You're
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:listening, aren't you?", and he's like,
"Yeah, I am.", you know, and so that
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:brings me great joy and great pride.
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:It's not about, "I'm a podcaster.",
and you're the same, Josh.
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:I could tell immediately
when we connected.
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:You are true and honest, and authentic.
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:I mean, there's just no question, right,
but there are others that you hear about.
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:"It's this intimidating process."
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:I'm like, "That's bullshit."
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:I'm sorry, but it's really about
connecting, and I feel so proud because
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:Our podcast is in 60 countries,
and I just couldn't believe it.
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:It's just going up, but the
relationships are in 60 countries.
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:It's not, "Oh.
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:No, it's the relationships.
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:It's when you meet a follower
that really gets it, right?
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:I have a friend in Indonesia, Chef
Gunawan, and oh my God, he's been
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:in Savoir magazine, which is this
incredible culinary arts magazine.
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competitions, and he's my friend,
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again, and I told him you need to come
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:visit us in Seattle, and we have these
conversations and it's like, "Wow.
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:That's what it's all about for me."
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:Joshua: You are striking something that
I even said to you before we started,
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remember this, we had this conversation
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:too, and my listeners might not even know
this, but this was supposed to be a 90
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:day experiment to see if I could improve
my business, and I said that to you too.
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:I said, "I was going to
do this for my business."
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:That's all I was really wanting to do.
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:I just wanted to get more exposure
for myself, but what turned into a 90
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:day experiment has turned into over
a year now of doing this and it's-
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:Michael: Surprise!
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:Joshua: Yeah, I know.
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:I know, and it's because of people
like you that I have met along the
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:way, which I haven't met everybody
that I've been able to encounter,
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:but many of my earlier episodes were
because of Toastmasters, which you and
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:I have that common connection, which
my audience hasn't heard in a while.
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:Yay, Toastmasters!
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:Michael: Oh, totally.
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:Joshua: Yeah.
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:If you're new to Toastmasters, my
fellow listeners, please check out
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:what I have in the episode notes.
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:You will not be disappointed, especially
since Toastmasters is celebrating
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:its centennial anniversary this year.
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:Michael: That's right.
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:Joshua: But with that said, I've only been
to like 20, 30 countries with what I have
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:as listeners, and these are just spots all
over the place, and I look at my numbers
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:and I think, "Man, I'm not in the top
0.1 percent of podcasts by not even close
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:a margin.", and I see these marketing
people that says, "Well, if you want to
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:get booked, you have to be on the top 1%.
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:Michael: There you go.
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:Joshua: "That's how you get
your exposure.", and I'm
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:like, "That's bullshit."
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:Michael: It is bullshit-
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:Joshua: This is what this is about is
that we can only get connections, Michael,
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:and that's why I'm so proud that, A,
I have had you on this show, and I've
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:finally been able to tell the story of
who you are, and be able to have other
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:people learn a little bit about you, and
maybe go check out your 60 some episodes,
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:because each of those are about quality,
not about quantity, sir, but you make a
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:difference, and that's what's so important
about this, and really, this is where
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:I want to really ask you is what
about doing this- now you wrap in the
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:technology career, you wrap in your
chef career, now you're doing this.
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:What is the proudest moment of being able
to do what you've been doing right now?
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:I'm really am curious.
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time, ever since before episode one,
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a motivation even for you, about a year
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:ago that we were talking about, and I
really am curious what you have to say.
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:Michael: Josh, there are so many things.
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:I am truly honored that you asked me
to do the voiceover for your podcast.
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:I remember you putting it out there,
and my friend Linda said, "Reach out.
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:She told me about this and I was like,
"Wow.", and then you had a whole bunch
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:of people you were talking to, and you
came back to me and you said, "I really
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:want you to do this.", and I was like,
"Really?", He goes, "I like your voice.
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:It connects.", I'm like, "Okay, cool.",
but that's one for sure, but recently,
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:I will tell you there's a couple, and
I'll be really quick about this, but I
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:did an interview that was a referral.
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:You can get a lot of referrals.
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:I was interviewing a lavender farmer.
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:I loved her; Renee, oh my gosh, and
Renee, I said to her, "I'd love to
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:interview some of your people that you
connect with, and I'd love to tell one
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:of their stories.", and she goes, "You
need to talk to Kimberly Pearson.",
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to Kimberly Pearson, oh my gosh.
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:She was incredible, and here's why,
because first of all, I just connected
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:with her immediately, because my
aunt has celiac disease, and my aunt
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:Nancy, who I love so much, is like
one of my heroes in the world, because
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:she's always so positive about it.
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:She's always found a way to flip it
and say, "This is a good way to live
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:your life and you just have to think
differently.", and when I remembered that,
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to her and I said, "Do you know anyone
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:you would like me to interview around
celiac, and these tough, challenging
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:food challenges?", and she didn't
really know, and so I was like, "Okay."
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was going along for two years, right,
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:Well, Kimberly went to cooking
school, so she's a chef, right?
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:She started her own bakery called Rocks
and Dirt Bakery out of Camino Island,
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:which is also in Washington state,
and I just fell in love with her,
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:because her passion is a lot like mine.
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:It's very aligned, but she was
so nervous coming on the podcast,
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:and she goes, "Why are you picking
me?", and I was like, "Oh my God.
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:You have this incredible story!
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:It's just incredible.
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:It's like you are doing these incredible
things to heal people and inspiring them
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:to think differently, how to bake, how to
cook, how to change their life, where they
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:can eat in a better way, and enjoy the
food.", and she's a recipe developer, and
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:I think that would be one of my proudest
moments, because what happened was,
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:she blew up, and she didn't expect it.
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:I didn't expect it, but this other friend,
or somebody that she connected to, wanted
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:to post my podcast on their magazine
online, and they're a celiac magazine,
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:and I was like, "This is pretty cool.",
and she goes, "I just want to honor
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:you, and I want to honor Kimberly.", and
that's the same philosophy I have, right?
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:I don't really give a shit
if I grow that much anymore.
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:What I care about is the connection.
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:What I care about is that maybe something
I do inspire somebody else, right?
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:Maybe something I do with this podcast,
help somebody in their career, help some
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:Am I monetizing?
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:I put a lot of money into the podcast,
right, but my proudest moment to circle
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with her and we connected quite a
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:Valerie, who I'll just give
a shout out to you, Valerie.
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:I love you, and you have supported me
for a long time, even though it was
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:indirect, but we reached out again
recently, and she's going to have
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:Joshua: Wow.
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:Michael: And she has a big Facebook
group, or some other support groups,
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food challenges, and I might not have got
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:She's been a Toastmaster for a long time.
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:I think she's retired now, and she's
just a life mentor for a lot of people,
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:but that whole circle of connections,
all because I dedicated that episode
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random thing, and it just changed the
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:way I saw it all, and really, for me,
the mission of Voice4Chefs is to honor
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:the chef, the culinary artist, the person
that's connected to the chef, that in
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:It's not about celebrity.
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on that gives back to the community.
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:Chef Ed.
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status, right, and my other proudest
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:moment, which I'm hoping is going to
happen because for over two years, I've
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:been really wanting to have this chef
on, and it's Melissa Miranda, and I'll
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:I just watched it today before the
interview, because I was inspired,
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:She runs a restaurant called Musang in
Seattle, and your listeners might've heard
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:of it, because she's very well known, and
what she did was really put Philippine
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:cuisine on the map in Seattle and
literally, I was dining at her restaurant,
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:cause my wife said, "Let's go to Musang."
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:We're sitting at the bar,
because you can't get a table.
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:They have a small restaurant
is very community focused.
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:It's like a house, right,
cause she wanted it to be a
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:It's all about the experience, and
connecting to culture, but, what was so
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times to try to meet her, and try to
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:connect with her, and it's really hard.
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:She's so busy and so popular, but I saw
her in the kitchen and I went, "Oh my God.
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:She's here."
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:Joshua: Wow.
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:Michael: And I was going to go walk
over to her, and she disappeared, and
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:we finished up her meal, and I said,
"Carrie, I need to see if I can find
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:her.", and I walked towards the kitchen,
and then it turned around, and I'm
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:like, "She's right behind my wife.",
at the bar, like right behind helping
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:a server, and I turned around and I
said, "Are you Melissa Miranda?", and
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:she looks at me, and she smiles, and
she goes, "What can I do for you?"
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:I said, "You're not going to believe
this.", and I told her a story about
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:Voice4Chefs, and she looks at me and
she smiles and she goes, "I'll do it."
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:Joshua: Wow.
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:Michael: And I went, "Wow."
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:Now, the rest of the story is that
her pipes just burst, because we had a
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:cold freeze, so they had to close the
restaurant down, but she looked at me,
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:she told me that and she said, "But, I
think I'm going to have some downtime, so
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:let's do it.", so I'm trying to get hold
of her now, and I'm not sure what's going
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:to happen, but really, that's my proudest
moment, cause I've been really wanting
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:to share her story, and not because she's
a celebrity, she is, but because she has
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TEDx talk that will bring you to tears.
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:I guarantee it.
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:Joshua: For my listeners, I'll have
Michael send that to me, and it
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:will be in the episode notes so you
can take a listen to it, watch it,
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:I'll give you my feedback privately, of
course, but Michael, we're pretty much
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:at the end of time, but I want to give
you the last few minutes to pitch your
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:Maybe people are interested in
learning a little bit about you too.
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:Maybe they want to reach out to you,
and have some conversation about your
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:career, and how you ended up doing
what you're doing, but I'll give you
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:the last few minutes, and then I have
some things I want to say before we
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:wrap up to you, directly, so go ahead.
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:Michael: Okay, great.
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:Well, the podcast started
,:
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:Governor Jay Inslee, in Seattle, like
many places around the world, shut
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:down all restaurants for over two
weeks, so people lost their jobs.
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:Chefs lost their careers, and I
woke up one day with the idea that
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:I wanted to give chefs a voice.
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:It took me several months to figure all
this out, and what happened was I came up
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:with the concept, with help from several
others, of Voice4Chefs, and so that name
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:stuck, and that became the podcast is
giving chefs a voice, and so the idea
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:was I was going to interview chefs.
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:I was going to review people around
or connected to chefs, and it
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:started out, if you can believe it,
I literally called restaurants in
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like, "Can I speak with your manager?"
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:"Well, I'm starting this podcast.
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:I'd really love to interview your chef.",
and so what happened was, they would wait.
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:They get back to me in a week and it
would just drag on, and on, and on, and
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:on, but then one day, I went to this
amazing class and with a Toastmaster named
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:Nancy Judden, and Nancy is incredible.
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:She wrote a book called Bye Bye Boring
Bio, and it's all about guest podcasting,
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:and getting on shows, and marketing your
product, or your business, or your voice,
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:your message, and I was so inspired.
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:I did a week long seminar with her,
and then, I was on Clubhouse, and
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:Clubhouse is an audio only app.
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:It's been around for a few years.
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:When I got on Clubhouse, I
fell in love with the idea,
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:but I didn't want to speak up.
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:I didn't want to talk, because you
have conversations on clubhouse.
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:People invite you to speak.
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happened was I met this incredible chef
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:who's a Michelin trained chef named
Chef Mimi, and Chef Mimi introduced
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:me to Food As Religion, and Food
As Religion is a club on Clubhouse
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:that started with 5,200 members.
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:I became an officer and helped
grow it to 8,200 members within
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:I was part of this group.
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:I won't take the credit for it.
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:I really believe Chef Mimi, the
co-founder, and many others, but it
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:helped me grow my podcast, so I went
from five countries, to 20 countries,
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:to 30 countries, to 40, to 50, to
60, and started gathering listeners
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:and connections around the world.
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:What was amazing about it though,
was that I met incredible chefs from
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:around the world, so instead of calling
Seattle, I'm now connecting to Australia.
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:I'm connecting to India, and places
all across the U.S, and so Voice4Chefs
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:is really now a global podcast with
incredible stories from really caring,
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:giving chefs that give back to the
community, and I just think that
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:that's something that I would love your
listeners to check out and listen to.
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:One person I want to give a shout
out to is Chef Maria Campbell,
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:who is a chef out of Philadelphia,
on your side of the country.
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:I'm in Seattle.
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:Joshua: Yep.
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:Michael: Well, chef Maria Campbell runs
a nonprofit called Cooks Do Care, and
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:this really resonated with me, because
all the funding from her nonprofit goes
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:to support people with mental health
challenges in the hospitality industry,
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:and she created this incredible cookbook,
and fundraised over $25,000; I think
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:probably more at this point, but she
really inspired me, and her story is
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:there, and I have so many great stories.
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:I have entertaining stories,
heartwarming stories.
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:Chef Andy Larusso; he's a singing chef.
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:He sings and cooks Italian.
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:He's an epic recording artist and a
chef, and he's traveled all over the
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:world in big casinos doing huge dinner
presentations, and he's my friend and
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:he's my biggest follower, and then when I
interviewed him, he was a celebrity chef.
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:He was on the Donny and
Marie Show back in the day.
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:He was friends with them, and when I
interviewed him, he was my first celebrity
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:and I was nervous, right, but not anymore.
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:At the time, I didn't realize it, but
then we became really good friends.
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:He sung for my wife and her birthday
party, so those kinds of things are part
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:of the culture of voice for chefs, and to
find us, I'm on Instagram @Voice4Chefs.
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:Now, remember too, it's voice,
the number four, chefs, not
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:FOR, but the number four, chefs.
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:I have a website, just voice4chefs.com.
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:I have a private Facebook group that you
can belong to, but the most important
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:thing I want to share is reach out to me.
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:I'd love to have a conversation.
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:If this is something you're curious about.
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:If you know someone that would be a
great guest with a great story, I invite
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:them, but reach out and communicate,
but let me know who you are when
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:you do, and where you heard about
this, from Speaking From The Heart.
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:Joshua: Michael, I have to tell you,
as somebody that has a voice for chefs,
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:you also had a voice for a coach that
didn't know what the hell he was doing.
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:That's me, and you gave me a voice on
this world that I never thought I had,
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:because of some of the starting techniques
and points that if it wasn't for you, I
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:probably wouldn't have been figuring out
a whole community that I could belong to-
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:Michael: I love that.
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:Joshua: That some really silly
questions that probably made no sense
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:whatsoever to me, but made a lot of
sense to others that were struggling.
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:You helped me with getting the intro and
outro out with this podcast, which debuted
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:in episode two, and don't worry, folks,
I'm actually been talking with Michael.
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:We haven't really finalized it at this
point yet, about trying to get a new
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:intro/outro that would include Michael
again, because his voice is also part of
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:the reason why Speaking From The Heart
really exists, but with all those things,
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:what is really, truly important to me is
that you have this intentionality about
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:wanting to help others, and my goodness,
that heart that you have goes so deep,
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:and you don't ask for anything in return.
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:I remember having this conversation
like, "Let me pay you for this
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:and what you're doing for me.",
and you're like, "Absolutely not.
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:I don't want to have it.", and I'm like,
"No, I'm going to.", and I make that
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:promise to you that I will, and I put
that here on the record because, in one
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:way or another, I think that we all have
this wanting to give, and that's what
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:this is about, but I think that when
we are looking at the bigger picture
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:here, what you're doing isn't just about
looking at the chefs and helping them,
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:which there is such a pandemic when it
comes to mental health with chefs, and
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:I think that you're doing some important
work with that, and I encourage you to
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:continue doing that and keep growing
that, but more importantly, Michael.
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:It wasn't for you, there would
be no Speaking From The Heart.
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:I deeply mean that.
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:I think that-
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:Michael: Aw Josh.
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:Joshua: I think that.
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:I think that people would not be
inspired, and I will tell you, I've had
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:people reach out to me saying, "Who's
this guy that does your intro outro?
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:He sounds so good.", and at the same
time, I've had people say to me, "My gosh.
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:My life's been changed because of the
stories that you've had on the show.
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:I really appreciate that too.", and
I'm like, "Well, if it wasn't for my
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:friend, Michael, it also would have never
happened.", so for all those reasons,
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:you are the legitimate and pivotal
voice of this whole entire process.
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:For all those reasons, Michael, thanks for
being on Speaking From The Heart today.
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:It was not only just a privilege, but for
you to be part of this experience with me,
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:words will never be able to express that.
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:Michael: And we're Toastmasters.
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:Joshua: Yay, Toastmasters!
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:Michael: I mean, we're Toastmasters.
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:We should be able to express it in
words, but sometimes when it comes to
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:that kind of emotion, it's really tough.
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:Joshua: Absolutely, and I think that we
work on that technique, nevertheless, but
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:for all those reasons, thank you so much.
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:It was really a privilege
to have you on the show.
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:Michael: You're so welcome, and it's
such an honor, and it's so great
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:to see this show become successful.
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:Joshua: Again, I really want to thank
Michael so much for just being part
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:of this show, and always being part of
this show if you really look at it from
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:that perspective, and providing so much
information for me starting out, learning
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:about how to podcast, learning how to be
able to grow, and the guests that we'll
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:have even go above and beyond what I'm
even sharing with you today, and I'm
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:really excited to be sharing with all of
you what those remaining individuals are,
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:but at this time, I just want to thank
Michael for what he's been to me, to be
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:able to help out, to be able to learn
and grow in this industry, and although
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:I have a lot more work to do, and a lot
more people that I want to reach, I know
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:that he's been instrumental with his
voice to be able to have another voice on
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:Speaking From The Heart, but I will also
put a couple links into the episode notes
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:that he referenced today that will also
help you with some context that he shared.
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:The first thing is being Melissa's
TEDx talk which he talked
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:about Melissa during the show.
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:I'll leave a link in there
in which she did a TEDx talk
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:called, "Building Resilience and
Community In The Service Industry."
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:I'll leave that in the notes, and also
we'll put a link into a very meaningful
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:fundraising effort called Cook Who
Care, so if you're interested in taking
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:a look at either one of those, those
will be available as well, but let's
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:even dig into the fact that Michael
brings a perspective to the restaurant
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:industry that needs to be heard.
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:People that work in that industry
do thankless jobs, and I know that
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:there's plenty of opportunity, in viral
sensation videos, in which people are
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:tipping, and they are giving people that
recognition, but it's not simply enough.
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:Sure, there are people that are terrible,
and they do not do their service that
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:they should, and they, in themselves,
need to check out why they are not doing
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:the level of service that they should
be doing, but if you really think about
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:it, and we peel back all the onions,
all the oranges, and all the sautéing
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:of the peas, you start to realize that
there's bigger areas that we need to
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:focus on when it comes to the mental
health crisis that even affects cooks,
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:managers, and the associated individuals.
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:I love Michael's mission.
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:It's really to help give them that voice,
which speaks to even what I'm doing here,
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:to give people that voice, to be able
to help others achieve the best versions
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:of themselves, the ultimate mission as
to the reason why we started this in the
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:first place, but that age old question
about what is on your heart, going all
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:the way back to episode two, the very
debut of Michael himself, too, on this
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:show, really goes back to the fact that
we need to be able to learn and grow in
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:a variety of different perspectives, and
here's yet another perspective as to why
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:self development, business development,
all these tools that coaches provide,
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:are so important for the overall growth
and the furtherance of moving ourselves
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:forward, but the passion of cooking, it's
something that goes back ages and ages,
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:all the way back to human civilizations
first starting out, because if it wasn't
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:for cooking, if it wasn't for that
pastime, if it wasn't for the creativity
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:that we can have by using various
ingredients, various spices, various types
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:of sauteing methods, cooking methods for
that matter, it wouldn't be able to have
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:the effect, the industry wide trending,
that it has today, but burnout, just
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:like we've had in one of our most recent
episodes featuring Simon Rinne, certainly
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:exemplifies, yet again, they exist, and
not only in these areas, but in areas
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:in which we might often not think about.
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:Do you often feel that your life
comes full circle as a result?
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:To be able to have interactions
with people so that they don't
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:have to live in that area anymore?
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:Let's face it.
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:Michael took a big risk.
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:He stepped out of his comfort zone, and
he was able to help with a variety of
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:different areas, using his tech skills,
to be able to not only reinforce his
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:hard skills, but the soft skills that
come alongside of it, and yet, here we
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:are again, talking about Toastmasters.
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:It's the universal circle in my life
that keeps on coming back around,
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:and it should be a good indicator
for you of how you can keep moving
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:forward, because what motivates you?
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:In Michael's case, what motivates
you to connect with your audience?
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:To engage with them?
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:Who is really listening
to your own content?
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:What is really needed for that
content to be able to push forward
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:the agenda that you're trying to
have, because, there's a right agenda,
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:but also a wrong agenda as well.
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:Is it about reach?
836
:Is it simply about doing a 90 day
experiment to see if it even works,
837
:because let's face it, I know somebody
that did that for their podcast, and
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:if you're just joining us, it was me.
839
:What turned into what was really a 90 day
experiment became so much more for me.
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:It became so much more for my guests.
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:It's become so much more for my
clients, which I refer to them these
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:episodes, but really, it's not about
the selfish aspect of being able to
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:do this, or even putting this out
there, that really counts the most.
844
:It's about helping others, without
any sort of recognition, without
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:any sort of payback, because that's
not what I'm really looking for.
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:Of course it would be really great
to grab a client or two, or make
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:a quick dollar, but we all know
that that isn't what this is about.
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:It isn't about the money.
849
:It isn't about the fame or the fortune.
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:It's about helping others, and flipping
the script, on what really is what
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:is on your heart, because if you can
relate to the engagement today of what
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:Michael and I had, which we have not
talked in person like this for quite
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:a long time, up until this interview.
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:If it shows you today that you can have
this kind of content development in your
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:life with somebody, without even knowing
them very well until just this very
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:moment, then maybe you need to re examine
who you're surrounding yourself with.
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:As a matter of fact,
let's ask this question.
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:Do you have a Kimberly, just as what
Michael even talked about today, that
859
:just help you, even if you think that
they don't help in the first place?
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:Would you be excited for more of a 10 cent
raise, or even opening a chef position
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:at a resort, or being able to mentor some
of the most world class chefs because
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:of your knowledge skills and abilities?
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:I don't know about you, but the fame
and the fortune of a ten cent raise
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:doesn't seem to be really what I'm cut
out to be anymore, and probably for
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:you, not so much as well, but it's not
happening with the snap of the fingers.
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:It takes consistency.
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:It takes building a
network of relationships.
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:It means gaining confidence in your trade.
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:Connecting with things that you
might have never connected before,
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:in terms of the dots, but oh yes, as
you always have heard, it's about the
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:determination, just as what Michael
says every time he opens the show
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:for me that really counts the most.
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:You have to stay determined, especially
in this ever changing world, even for
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:the world of chefs, to be able to have
a voice, to be able to break out of just
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:peeling onions, being able to manage a
kitchen, being able to get your steak well
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:done, but more importantly, being served
a world class meal of epic proportions,
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:and that meal consists of opportunities
that you never thought of before.
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:I don't know where you are in
your life today, and whether this
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:episode goes full circle for you.
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:Maybe these are the things that you
needed to hear from Michael and I's
881
:conversation, but the thing is, you
can have the skills, you can have the
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:motivation, you can have the ability to
have other people listen to your content,
883
:even if you try it out for 90 days.
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:You have to just start somewhere today,
and Michael did that over thirty some
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:years ago, and look where he's at now.
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:He's gotten so far, and I know that
for you, my listeners, it's not
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:just following those footsteps.
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:It's not just about being
mentored by the right people.
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:It's not just about cooking the
right meal for somebody else.
890
:It's about really helping others to
navigate, especially with the interests
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:that we have, to find the path in which
they can be unlocked, to not only see
892
:their true potential, but to be able
to mentor somebody that will help you
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:follow their footsteps in the future.
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:That is the ultimate reward, and
the ultimate opportunity for you,
895
:if you're willing to do it, and
I know you can, if you just try.
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:Again, I'm going turn it over to Michael
as we wrap up here at the end, as I
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:always do, but from the bottom of my
heart, Michael, as you listen to this
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:today, thank you for what you've given me.
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:You have no idea from the bottom of my
heart what it has meant for you to open
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:and end my show, but more importantly, the
friendships that I've gained through this
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:podcast, are ever enduring because of you.
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:Thanks for listening to episode
number 121 of Speaking From the
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:Heart, and I look forward to
hearing from your heart very soon.
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