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WoW 125: On transformation through surrender
Episode 3520th March 2024 • Words of Wisdom • Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT
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Embracing Transformation Through Surrender to God

In today's episode Josh discusses the profound impact of surrendering to God, highlighting how this state of surrender ensures presence, willingness, and acceptance in one's life.

00:00 Embracing Surrender: The Path to Transformation

02:33 The Power of Suffering and Love

03:20 Practices for Abiding in God's Presence

04:48 Reflections and Questions for a Deeper Faith

05:13 Closing Thoughts: The Essence of True Flourishing

About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT

As a Psychoherapist Josh helps people overcome their greatest struggles.

•Founder and CEO of Great Oaks Collective, and it's flagship program Overcome, a 10-Week virtual Intensive Outpatient Program for Christian couples experiencing sexual betrayal and addiction. www.greatoakscollective.com

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Words of Wisdom 125 On Transformation Through Surrender

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Seek to continually be in a

state of surrender to God.

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Being surrendered to God means you

are present, willing, and accepting.

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When you are in a state of

surrender, you are present in

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the moment, connected to God.

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You are willing to receive God's

love and welcome His presence.

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You are His, surrendered fully to Him.

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You are not too hurried

to notice God's direction.

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You're seeking Him each

morning and opening your heart

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to Him throughout the day.

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When you are in a state of

surrender, you are willing to

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do whatever God wants of you.

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You are openly seeking God's

will and direction for your life.

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You are not taking control of your life.

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You are entrusting that

control over to God.

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Instead of being driven by fear

and the unknown, when you are

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surrendered to God, you live in

a trusting relationship with Him.

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The state of surrender is optimistic.

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And open to God, who you trust is at

work, regardless of what you can see.

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When you are in a state of surrender,

you are accepting of suffering.

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You can accept comfort in His

loving presence, as well as

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suffering, loss, and the desolation

of not feeling God's presence.

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You can accept the bitter and the sweet.

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Come what may, you are His.

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Whether you understand why you are

suffering does not ultimately matter.

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What you decide to do in the midst

of suffering is what matters.

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You can open your heart to God.

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You can welcome the highs

and lows of life with a quiet

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acceptance and a courageous faith.

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When you are surrendered, you

don't need things to go your way.

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You can lose yourself to God

and desire only what He desires.

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The furnace of suffering reveals

the treasures of transformation,

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so do not spurn its refining fire.

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Make your highest aim in life

this one simple intention: to be

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in a state of surrender to God.

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Quotes

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The deepest things that I have learned

in my own life have come from the deepest

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suffering, and out of the deepest waters

and the hottest fires have come the

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deepest things that I know about God.

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And I imagine that most of you

would say exactly the same.

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And I would add this, that the

greatest gifts of my life have also

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entailed the greatest suffering.

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The greatest gifts of my

life, for example, have been

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marriage and motherhood.

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And let's not forget that if we don't

ever want to suffer, we must be very

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careful never to love anything or anybody.

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The gifts of love have been

the gifts of suffering.

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Those two things are inseparable."

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By Elizabeth Elliot, in her book

Suffering is Never for Nothing

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" These four practices, silence and

solitude, Sabbath, simplicity, and

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slowing, have helped me tremendously

to move toward abiding as my baseline.

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But to say it yet again, all four

of them are a means to an end.

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The end isn't silence and solitude.

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It's to come back to

God in our true selves.

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It isn't Sabbath.

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It's a restful, grateful life of ease,

appreciation, wonder, and worship.

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It isn't simplicity.

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It's freedom and focus

on what matters most.

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It isn't even slowing.

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It's to be present, to God,

to people, to the moment.

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And the goal is practice, not perfection.

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Multiple times a day I

slip back into hurry.

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The gravitational pull

is overwhelming at times.

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Lately, when that happens, I

have this little mantra I repeat.

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Slow down, breathe, come back to the

moment, receive the good as gift,

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accept the hard as a pathway to peace.

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Abide.

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By John Mark Comer.

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In his book, The Ruthless

Elimination of Hurry.

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Questions.

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What do you need to let go of?

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Will you surrender your greatest

fear and your greatest pain to God?

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What is God asking you to do or to feel?

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Use these questions as a journal prompt

and to guide your prayers this week.

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End note.

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Seek today to be fully surrendered to God.

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It's the only way to true flourishing.

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Live wisely.

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Josh

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