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Want your presentation to change the way people think?
Then you need the power of the AHA Effect … that moments when everything suddenly clicks, confusion turns into clarity, and people not only understand you, but see the world differently because of what you said.
In this 15-minute special episode of Irresistible Communication, I share the essence of my first book The AHA-Effect. For years, many of you have asked for an English version. This isn’t the full book, but it’s a clear and actionable overview of the core ideas.
🌟 What you’ll learn in this episode:
- What the AHA Effect is and why it matters
- How to spark those moments of clarity for your audience
- Why the right words can shift perspectives instantly
- Practical ways to make your communication unforgettable
⏱️ Chapters:
0:00 Welcome
1:06 Understanding the AHA Effect
2:31 The Power of Being Concise
4:50 Shifting Perspective: Audience-Centric Presentations
7:09 Emotional Drivers in Decision Making
9:44 Challenging Existing Beliefs
14:17 The Path to Aha: A Practical Framework
15:29 Conclusion: Treat Presentations as Sincere Conversations
→ If this sparked an aha for you, share it with one person who would benefit too.
If you’re interested in the full book, this link will get you to your local Amazon store: https://geni.us/aha-effekt
Keep lighting the path,
Michael
Transcripts
Welcome to a special episode of Irresistible Communication.
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:Usually these episodes are just two
minutes long, but today is different.
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:For years, many of you have asked
me for an English version of
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:my first book, the Aha Effect.
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:Michael: That moment where a problem
suddenly feels simple, where confusion
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:turns into clarity, and where people not
only understand you, but see the world
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:differently because of what you said.
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:Speaker: The book itself remains only
available in German, but I've put
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:together something that comes very close.
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:In the next 15 minutes, you'll get a clear
and actionable overview of the book's core
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:ideas, the very essence of the Aha effect.
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:One more note, though.
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:This episode is AI generated
by Google's notebook, ln.
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:The ideas are mine, but the words
and voices you'll hear are not.
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:I wanted to try this format to
make the ideas accessible to you
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:in the simplest way possible.
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:I think it turned out pretty great though.
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:Let's dive in.
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:Rob: Today we're diving deep into
Michael Gerharz' The AHA Effect.
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:Our mission:
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:To give you a shortcut, really, a way
to shift your presentations from just
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:forgettable talks to experiences that
make your audience go, aha, I get it.
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:We're digging into some surprising
bits about communication psychology.
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:Okay, let's unpack this.
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:Hannah: What's fascinating right off the
bat is this distinction Gerharz makes.
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:It's absolutely key.
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:He talks about the wow
effect versus the aha effect.
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:Now the wow, that's sort
of the easy part, right?
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:Big visuals.
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:Maybe some flashy tech makes a splash or
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:Rob: Yeah, like a momentary buzz.
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:Hannah: Exactly.
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:But it's often superficial.
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:It doesn't last.
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:The aha effect, though, that's different.
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:It's sustainable.
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:It needs the audience to
engage intellectually.
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:It leads them to grasp
the why and the how.
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:They can explain it themselves later.
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:It's about changing perception,
not just dazzling them.
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:Rob: That makes sense.
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:Hannah: And it really underlines
that getting better isn't just
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:practice, practice, practice.
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:It's about adopting the
right mindset from the start.
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:Rob: Yeah, I get that.
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:We've all sat through
those wow presentations.
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:Lots of flash maybe, but you walk out
and nothing's really changed for you.
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:It really drives home that a presentation
is this unique window, you know, a
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:chance to get undivided attention
and actually maybe change the minds.
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:So let's jump into the first big
idea, the power of being concise.
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:Gerharz puts it so well.
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:If everything is important,
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:nothing is important.
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:We've all heard that, but he
explains why even seasoned
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:presenters fall into this trap.
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:Often it's this fear, right?
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:Fear of leaving something vital out.
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:Hannah: Or trying to
show how much they know.
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:Rob: Exactly.
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:He uses this great analogy.
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:You're in a supermarket,
staring at a wall of tea.
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:Every box shouts important or bestseller.
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:It's just noise.
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:Instead of helping it overwhelms.
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:You end up grabbing anything just
to get away or maybe nothing at all.
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:The one message that might have
actually helped you is lost.
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:Hannah: If we connect this to how
people process information, it
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:shows why only what sticks matters.
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:Your audience, whether they mean
to or not, they edit ruthlessly.
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:They'll basically chop down everything
you say to maybe two or three sentences.
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:That's it.
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:Rob: Wow.
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:Just two or three?
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:Hannah: Yeah.
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:Which brings us to this brilliant idea.
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:Gerharz highlights Henri
Nannen’s Kitchen shout.
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:The Küchenzuruf.
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:Picture Opa Hans reading the paper.
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:He finishes an article, turns and
shouts to Oma Erna in the kitchen:
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:“Erna, Bonn raised taxes again.”
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:Rob: Huh?
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:I can picture that.
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:Hannah: That single simple
shout, that's the core message.
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:That's what sticks, that's what he'll
remember and maybe tell his buddies later.
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:Rob: It's about boiling it
down to its absolute essence.
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:Hannah: Precisely.
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:And the crucial part is you, the
presenter, you have to decide
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:what that kitchen shout is.
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:You need to define it for your audience,
because if you don't, they'll pick
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:something themselves and it might not
be the message you intended at all.
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:You lose control.
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:Rob: The source makes a strong case that,
look, no topic is too complex for this.
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:Think about JFK and the
moon landing back in '61.
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:His goal wasn't some
dense multi-page document.
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:It was incredibly simple, powerful.
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:Land a man on the moon and return
him safely before this decade is out.
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:Everyone got that.
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:Hannah: Crystal clear.
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:Rob: Right.
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:Gerharz quotes Saint Exupery: Perfection
is when there's nothing more to take away.
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:He even gives Hemingway's six word story:
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:“For sale.
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:Baby shoes.
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:Never worn.”
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:Extreme conciseness.
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:So how do you actually
develop a good kitchen shout?
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:The advice is practical.
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:Say it naturally as you're talking
to a friend, not running ad copy.
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:Hannah: Keep asking:
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:Rob: Is this the absolute most critical
thing they need to walk away with?
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:Whittle it down.
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:One, maybe two sentences.
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:Like a tweet almost.
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:That's your target.
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:Hannah: That focus is paramount.
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:Rob: Okay.
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:So once we've really nailed that
core message, the next big shift
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:Gerharz talks about is perspective.
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:And here's where it gets really
interesting for a lot of us, I
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:think, 'cause the default mode often
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:is talking about ourselves, what
we did, what we find fascinating.
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:It's like that friend
back from vacation, right?
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:You get the hour long saga about
the lost luggage, the flight delays,
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:every single breakfast buffet item.
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:Hannah: Oh yeah, we all know that person.
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:Rob: You tolerate it from a friend
maybe, but your presentation
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:audience, they're definitely not
there for your holiday snaps.
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:Hannah: This is such a common blind spot.
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:You absolutely have to distinguish
what's interesting to you versus what's
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:actually interesting and relevant to them?
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:Gerharz gives this perfect example.
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:Michael Dell, back in '07,
launching the Latitude XT laptop.
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:This was just after the iPhone
made multitouch a big deal.
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:Dell's team had done this
amazing engineering work to
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:get multitouch on a laptop.
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:He was clearly proud.
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:But what did he show first?
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:Rob: Let me guess.
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:Something super technical.
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:Hannah: Bingo.
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:An engineering test screen
full of diagnostics.
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:He was focused on the how, the
technical achievement, not the what.
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:What could customers do with it?
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:Rob: It perfectly illustrates John Caples'
point, which is also in the material.
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:Bad ads often happen because people are
so wrapped up in their own performance,
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:they forget to tell us why we should buy.
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:Hannah: Oof.
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:That hits home.
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:Rob: Yeah.
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:Hannah: It's the shift from look how
great our product is … to look what
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:great things you can do with our product.
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:Rob: Exactly.
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:It reframes everything.
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:Hannah: It really hammers home
that presentations aren't for us,
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:they're for the audience to help
them get where they wanna go.
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:I love the bit about Professor
Donald Saari and his "who cares?"
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:principle, encouraging students to
actually interrupt and ask that.
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:Rob: And he stops and explains
why it matters to them.
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:Hannah: As presenters, we
need that mindset built in.
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:You have to care, genuinely care about
where the audience feels the pinch,
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:their actual problems, their needs,
even the ones they haven't voiced yet.
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:Because fundamentally, people
buy solutions to their problems.
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:Your job isn't data dumping.
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:It's making it super easy for them
to see the connection, to find
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:their answers in your message.
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:It means putting their interests
smack bang in the center.
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:Always ask, what problem does this
audience actually have right now?
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:Why are they even listening?
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:If you can't answer that clearly,
you're probably off track.
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:Rob: But it's not just logic is it?
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:Which brings us to another
really fascinating area.
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:The source explores emotions.
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:The hidden drivers, what
Gerharz calls the real reasons.
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:Let me ask you this,
just as a simple example.
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:Why do people pay, say, 13
Euro for a Moleskine notebook?
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:You can get two perfectly decent
ones for three down the road.
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:Rationally it doesn't
quite add up, does it?
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:Hannah: Right?
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:And that's the exact question
Gerharz uses to open this up.
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:The real reason isn't just the paper
or the elastic band, it's the story,
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:the connection to Van Gogh, Picasso,
Hemingway, that whole legacy, which they
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:actually put in a little leaflet inside.
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:Rob: Ah, the story they tell themselves.
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:Hannah: Exactly.
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:Creative people buy products
for creative people.
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:People buy it because it fits their
self-image or the image they aspire to.
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:It feeds their internal
narrative about who they are.
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:Rob: So it's identity aspiration.
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:Hannah: Yeah.
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:Rob: Not just paper.
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:Hannah: Absolutely.
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:And this leads straight to what
Gerharz calls decision blindness.
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:It's how our brains work.
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:We often make an emotional choice first.
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:Then, like instantly, we build this
perfectly illogical story to justify it.
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:Rob: Post-rationalization.
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:Hannah: Right?
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:He mentions that jam tasting study.
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:People confidently explained why they
preferred the one they haven't chosen.
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:They created the reasons afterwards.
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:It backs up JP Morgan's famous line:
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:A man always has two
reasons for doing anything.
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:A good reason and the real reason.
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:Rob: Okay.
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:The good reason is the
logical one we tell everyone.
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:Hannah: And the real reason is
often emotional, tied to fear,
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:ambition, status, saving face.
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:Rob: So what does this all mean for
us, putting a presentation together?
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:It means we have to dig deeper.
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:Ask what's really driving
my audience emotionally.
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:It's usually not just
the facts and figures.
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:It might be fear of falling behind, desire
for recognition, needing to save time,
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:avoiding hassle, making their boss happy.
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:Hannah: Well, those human things.
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:Rob: Yeah, so it's not just what
you say, it's who's listening.
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:And how their own internal story,
their emotional state shapes
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:how they even hear your message.
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:Hannah: And this loops back to something
that sounds obvious, but we forget.
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:What matters most to people?
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:Themselves!
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:Their problems, their
future, their standing.
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:They want praise, they wanna
avoid trouble, save money, look
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:good, get ahead, have less stress.
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:These are the currents underneath.
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:The real insight here is that
understanding who they are, their
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:role, their worries, their beliefs,
the context is way more critical
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:than just reciting features.
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:Facts are safe.
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:They feel comfortable to deliver.
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:Rob: Right, less risky.
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:Hannah: But tackling those real
reasons … that takes empathy.
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:It takes effort.
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:You need to figure out which of
your good reasons actually connects
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:with their real reason right now.
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:Rob: Okay, this next
part really pushes us.
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:The source argues that very
effective presentations, they have
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:to challenge existing beliefs.
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:They need to shake things up a bit.
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:Think about Steve Jobs unveiling
the MacBook Air in:
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:Before that, the common wisdom was
laptops needed DVD drives, lots of
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:ports, that was just how laptops worked.
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:Hannah: Totally.
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:It was the standard.
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:Rob: Jobs had to break that belief.
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:He had to make people accept that
thinness, portability could actually
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:be more important than those things.
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:And pulling it out of that envelope,
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:Hannah: that visual was key,
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:Rob: it created that moment of Wait, what?
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:It directly challenged the
status quo in people's minds.
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:Hannah: And Gerharz is
pretty blunt about this.
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:He says, if your presentation doesn't
challenge or change the audience's view,
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:somehow, it's basically a waste of time.
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:He even references JFK again:
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:The only reason to give a
speech is to change the world.
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:May be a bit dramatic,
but the intent is clear:
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:Aim for impact.
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:Rob: It's about creating change.
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:Hannah: Your goal is to bring them to
what Gerharz calls the point of no return.
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:He uses this analogy of a woman
finding a suspicious note from
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:Anna in her partner's pocket.
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:In that instant, everything shifts.
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:What was maybe ignored or unseen,
becomes glaringly obvious.
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:She can't unsee it.
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:A decision, some kind of
decision is now inevitable.
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:Rob: Wow.
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:That's powerful.
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:So in our presentations, we're trying
to create that kind of clarity.
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:Hannah: Exactly.
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:That moment where they see things
differently, understand the
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:implications, and they can't just
go back to thinking the old way.
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:Even if they choose not to follow
your specific recommendation,
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:their perspective has shifted.
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:Rob: So the question for us is:
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:What belief needs to change?
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:What do they need to
realize to hit that point?
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:It's about making the old way
feel, well, obsolete or inadequate.
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:Okay, so let's tie this all together.
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:How do we actually take the audience
on this journey to the aha effect?
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:Gerharz uses this neat idea from
improv theater, you know, where two
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:people build a story, one line each.
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:You quickly learn your idea of the
story isn't always your partner's.
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:You have to listen, adapt,
meet them where they are.
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:Hannah: Yes, and that applies
directly here because your story
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:is not your audience's story.
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:It's such a crucial point.
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:People accept ideas or buy things
when they fit into the narrative they
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:already tell themselves about their
life, their challenges, their goals.
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:Rob: Right.
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:It has to resonate with their world.
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:Hannah: Which is why the audience is
always the hero of your presentation.
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:Yeah.
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:Not you, not your product.
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:They're tuned in because of
their problems, their needs,
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:their hopes for a better outcome.
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:The aha effect, that's
the moment they think:
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:Ah, he's talking about me.
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:This is my situation.
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:I hadn't seen it like that before.
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:That personal click is everything.
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:Rob: So we need to become
like audience whisperers.
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:Constantly trying to see from
their side, get their unspoken
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:needs, use their language.
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:Hannah: That's a good way to put it.
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:Rob: But there's this interesting
tension Gerharz points out.
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:It's about doing it right, not pleasingly.
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:He gives examples like Eddie Van Halen's
eruption solo or the first iPhone.
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:These weren't products of focus
groups asking, what do you want?
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:They came from a deep understanding
of unmet needs, delivering
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:something unexpected and superior.
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:Hannah: Exactly.
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:If you only aim to
please, you aim too low.
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:You get incremental
improvements, not breakthroughs.
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:The real challenge is discerning
those deeper needs they might not
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:Rob: And this loops us
back again, doesn't it?
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:To emotions being key for
actually convincing people.
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:Hannah: Absolutely.
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:Gerharz shares that incredible Bill Gates
Ted Talk story from:
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:Remember that?
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:Rob: Vaguely.
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:Didn't he do something dramatic?
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:Hannah: He released mosquitoes right
there in the auditorium to make this
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:powerful, influential audience feel
personally affected, even for a moment.
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:He said, there's no reason only poor
people should have this experience.
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:Rob: Whoa.
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:Okay, that's memorable.
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:Hannah: He made them feel vulnerable,
then empowered them as potential
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:heroic fighters by showing solutions.
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:It underlines Jill Bolte Taylor's point:
We aren't thinking creatures who feel.
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:We're feeling creatures who think.
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:Decisions start with emotion.
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:Rob: So it's not just abstract facts,
it's gotta connect emotionally.
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:Feel real.
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:Hannah: Yes.
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:Emotions are tangible.
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:They link to real worries, real
hopes, the audience's self story.
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:I need to solve this.
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:I wanna look competent.
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:I wanna avoid risk.
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:Look, you need both, facts and
emotions, but the order matters.
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:Emotion creates the pull, the relevance,
the initial yes in their gut, okay?
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:Then the facts come in.
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:They provide the logic, the justification.
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:They help the audience build their good
reasons to support that gut feeling.
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:The aha effect is when
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:it all clicks together.
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:The emotional pull aligns
with the rational argument.
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:That's the point of no return.
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:It's true conviction, not
just surface level persuasion.
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:Rob: This really does
build into a clear path.
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:Gerharz actually lays out
five steps, doesn't he?
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:Kinda a roadmap to get there.
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:Hannah: Yes.
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:He calls it the Path to Aha.
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:It's a practical sequence.
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:One, pick up the audience.
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:Start where they are, get their world,
their context, make them feel seen.
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:Ah, he means me.
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:Rob: Okay, direct first.
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:Hannah: Two.
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:Show the problem.
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:Gently reveal a flaw or friction in their
current way of thinking or operating,
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:maybe something they hadn't noticed.
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:A hidden cost, a missed opportunity.
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:Make it resonate personally.
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:Rob: Make it relevant to them.
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:Hannah: Three.
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:Offer the solution.
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:Now deliver your kitchen shout.
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:Simple, clear, concrete, aim
for that initial gut reaction.
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:Yes, that makes sense, even
if they still have questions.
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:Rob: The core message.
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:Hannah: Four, provide good reasons.
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:Now you bring in the logic.
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:Answer the “Yes, but…” questions.
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:Give them the evidence, the justification
they need to support that initial yes.
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:Build the rational case.
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:Rob: Yeah, I get that.
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:Hannah: And five.
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:Seal the deal, guide them to
that point of no return, make the
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:Lead them to that final aha.
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:Okay?
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:If that's my situation, then this
really is the solution to me.
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:The decision feels inevitable.
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:Rob: That's a really clear framework
going from connection to conviction.
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:When you pull all this together,
it really paints a picture of a
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:different way to present, doesn't it?
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:It's more, well, patient, maybe.
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:Humble.
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:Definitely respectful of the audience.
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:It's demanding on us
as presenters for sure.
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:Hannah: It takes more work upfront.
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:Rob: But it feels more rewarding.
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:It values the audience, builds
trust, aims for real change.
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:It's about actually making people smarter.
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:More capable.
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:Hannah: And it boils down to
truly caring about your audience.
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:Rob: Yeah.
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:Hannah: Asking what they actually
need, not just what they say they want
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:or what's easy for you to tell them.
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:Like Anke Tröder says, presenting
means talking to people.
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:Treat them like a good friend
you genuinely wanna help.
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:Rob: Listen hard, be honest.
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:Hannah: Yeah.
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:And have the courage to give them what
will actually improve things for them.
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:Even if it's challenging.
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:It takes effort, absolutely.
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:But that's how you earn respect.
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:That's how you actually move the needle.
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:So here's something for you,
our listener, to think about.
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:If you treated your very next presentation
like a truly sincere conversation with
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:a friend, someone whose wellbeing you
genuinely care about, what's the one
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:single thing you'd immediately change
about how you prepare or deliver it?
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:Michael: That's it for
this special episode.
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:I hope it gave you a taste
of The Aha Effect and sparked
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:some aha moments of your own.
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:If it did, I'd love for you
to share it with someone who
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:might find it helpful too.
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:Keep lighting the path.
