Ever wondered if you should let go of control when your child is making choices that don’t seem right to you?

This is a common question that many conscious parents face, and the answer isn’t always simple. Each parent, each child has their own unique path. But how do you find the balance between guiding them and letting them make their own choices?

In today’s guided meditation, Allowing Free Will, you’ll explore how to honor both your child’s free will and your role as a parent. By connecting to your highest purpose, you’ll learn how to nurture your child’s growth while staying aligned with your own truth.

Join me in this meditation to let go of control and create a harmonious balance between freedom and guidance. 

Affirm your purpose as a parent today:

“Each day, I support my child’s purpose while nurturing my own.”

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Hi and welcome to day four of the Conscious Parenting Challenge.

Yesterday we had a meditation session where we looked at us, we grounded,

we brought in God's sons to be connected with our higher selves.

And then we also did this for our children.

We gave them their own grounding cord and their own higher self

connection with the goal sign.

And then we just rained out the resistance that we were feeling, the hesitation that

we were feeling so what we, in effect, did yesterday was we learned to separate

ourselves from our child's purposes.

So we gave them their free will to be themselves and we gave us the

permission to just be a parent.

To be there, to watch them and support them.

Effectively, we let them be and then we said, okay, I can just be as well.

Now that brings us to a question about ourselves.

Sometimes as parents we can then feel oh, so what's my role?

What the hell am I doing here?

Or what if my child is doing something wrong?

So today, this is what we'll do.

And if you haven't been able to look at some of the previous meditations and you

just hopped in here, that's totally okay.

So go ahead, close your eyes, put your feet flat on the

floor and connect with Gaia.

So Gaia is our Mother Earth.

Gaia gives us life on planet Earth.

And when we connect with her, we really go in and connect in

with the center of the Earth.

Not the top levels not where all the chaos of the planet might still be.

We are going right in, into the calm and the quiet.

This is where Gaia holds a lot of love for us.

Unconditional love.

Just say hello to Gaia, say hello to Mother Earth, and go Hey,

I love you wrapping your hands around me, can we hug again?

Can we have a nice embrace?

Gaia's hands will automatically come up, she will automatically start

connecting with you, you'll notice her connecting with your feet.

She is around.

Your first chakra, she is even around your second chakra.

First chakra is where you would normally sit down, like your bottom and so on.

Second chakra is around your belly button.

So this is where we all tend to hold a lot of Emotions and feelings and

just that whole feeling of safety, connectedness with the earth.

So that's where she's really giving you a tight hug.

And then she's got that embrace right around you, around your whole

body and around your aura layers.

So this is where she's taking away any stress, any anxiety,

any overwhelm, any confusion, any noise that you have in your space.

And then up above you is your own gold sun.

Your own gold sun brings you your highest vibration.

It brings you Your purest gold vibration, your highest growth vibration.

So your truest, purest form as a parent, it brings that to you.

Brings you your purest joy, your purest power, your purest

freedom, your purest affinity.

It brings all of that and it's really bringing that into your space.

Now some of you have started noticing some little shifts over the past few

days, for others it might take a little bit longer and that's absolutely okay.

As you work with these meditations, you are peeling away layers and

layers of energy that are not just built in this lifetime, even

lifetime before, so it's okay.

Relax.

All of this happens.

Don't be harsh on yourself.

You're not doing anything wrong.

The magic is coming.

More and more calmness.

More and more peace.

More and more freedom.

More and more love is coming to you.

So just sit in this nice blissful sanctuary.

Imagine that embrace with the earth, imagine the gold sun really

filling you and feel that love.

You do such a hard work as a parent, being there, providing, doing all

the things, managing your work, your home, everything around it.

This is your chance to receive allow yourself to be nourished

and to be taken care of.

And then do this for your child.

Give them their grounding cord.

Just ask the earth to give them a grounding cord.

Then connect your child with their gold sun as well, so that they

can have their own joy, their own freedom, their own happiness.

Their own connection with the higher self and just watch that.

And as you do this, and we did this a lot yesterday where we just cleared up the

hesitation, the resistance in that space.

And this time what I want you to do is as you're becoming more aware of how you

both are different people, you both have different purpose, just see how the earth.

How Gaia is the same being, she's nourishing you, she's

nourishing your child.

How the sun's there for you, and how the sun's there for your child.

Just notice them with their higher self, just notice them evolving,

or benefiting from the system that already works for them.

They're grounding God.

Their gold sun already works for them, amazing, right?

So you can just sit and look and go wow, okay, I don't have

so much pressure on me anymore.

Wow, my child's already being supported.

And sometimes notice when your answers, when what you want for

your child, when that's a little bit different to what your child wants.

Maybe pick up something that comes in your head.

Imagine that situation where you don't agree with what your child wants.

Just imagine that energy in their space while you're looking at them,

and just ground that for them.

So what you're doing there is you are clearing the energy where they might

be influenced by something that is not in the highest alignment, you're

clearing that noise away for them.

And then just let them have that in its purest form.

Give them that gold sun.

Give them their gold sun of knowingness, give them a gold

sun of good decision making.

And just let them be, just watch them in that space.

And you can be in your space grounding and running your gold sun.

Your child can be in their space grounding and with their gold sun.

And whatever it is that they want to do, you can just let

them see that for what it is.

So let's say if the situation that they desire is different, when you

are grounding that situation, then your child can just start seeing

that situation for what it is.

You don't have to make a decision for them.

And you know what, sometimes they might still want to try it

anyway, haven't you done mistakes?

But just let them see it.

When you ground them, when you give them their gold sun, then you are

connecting them to the higher self.

When you connect a situation, a person with a grounding call and a gold sun,

then you are letting the true colors of that situation or of that person appear.

Then your child can make that decision for themselves.

For now, you have a very handy tool to deal with things when you're not actually

in agreement with what your child wants.

But you're taking a very good step as a parent, trying to be on the

side as your child just steps up and grows up, starts experiencing, starts

making the decisions for themselves.

And wherever you're feeling that hesitation, actually

you can just ground it.

You can just ask Gaia to help you.

You can just ask the gold suns to show your child the right path.

You're doing the right thing.

You're a very good parent.

Congratulations on coming this far.

We finished phase one of these meditations.

This one was just around connecting and understanding your

children, so we finished that.

Now, tomorrow, We will start on this journey around

exploring our own childhood.

How were we?

What are the positive and the negative patterns that we had

and we'll deal with those.

See you then.

Lots of love and heartiest congratulations for coming this far.

You're doing a great job as a parent.

See you tomorrow.