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Memories, Wisdom, and Marriage Advice From Nearly a Century of Living with Harold and Marlys Ostrem
Episode 476th August 2026 • Cultivate the Ordinary • Travis and Jessie Vangsnes
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In this special episode, Travis interviews his 96-year-old grandfather and 97-year-old grandmother, sharing stories and memories from their lives and the lessons they've learned across nearly 100 years each! They've also been married nearly 78 years!

Harold and Marlys Ostrem share about growing up, their marriage, life on a North Dakota farm, and so much more! Their stories move between hardship and humor, from surviving the Great Depression and brutal winters to laughing about courtship, family memories, and the small, funny details that make a long marriage last.

Alongside beautiful reflections on faith, family, and resilience, they also offer practical marriage advice and share about what keeps them going. What a gift their insights are!

In this episode:

  • The early lives during the Great Depression and the hardships faced on the farm
  • How immigrant roots from Norway influenced their family and values
  • Memorable stories from childhood, including school experiences and farm life
  • Marriage advice after 78 years together, emphasizing patience and teamwork
  • Insights into historic weather events, including severe blizzards and tough winters
  • Their perspectives on raising a large family and the importance of faith and community
  • Reflections on aging, legacy, and how they wish to be remembered
  • The significance of continuous learning, even at 97, demonstrated through poetry and genealogy projects

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