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Is It Regulation Or Ownership? How To Use Both
Episode 64 • 9th October 2026 • The Connection Podcast - Lauren Dry • Lauren Dry
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You leave the breathwork session feeling amazing, and by the next morning the same old pressure has crept straight back in.

In this episode of The Connection Podcast, Lauren Dry, Master Marriage Coach and founder of Rise into Regulation™, sits down with Siamon Emery, a neuro somatic embodiment practitioner and founder of The Embodied Return, to explore whether regulation can become a form of avoidance. Siamon trained at the Bihar School of Yoga in India and is now studying neuroscience at UPenn, and he brings both lenses to the question of whether getting calmer is bringing clarity or raising your capacity to stay in a situation that isn't working.

Together, Lauren and Siamon get curious about what your calm is really telling you, and what your body already knows before a big decision gets made.

You'll hear about

  • Why regulation can quietly raise what you're willing to tolerate
  • How acceptance and resignation each feel in the body
  • What a decision made from clarity feels like compared with one made from exhaustion
  • Why the calm from breathwork can fade by the next morning
  • A five minute body scan to check in with this week

Feeling calm is a beautiful beginning, and it gives you the space to hear what your body has been trying to tell you. When you feel safe enough to own your choices, clarity follows, and that's where ease begins.

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Connect with Lauren

🌐 Learn more about Rise into Regulation™, the skillset for connection, communication, and Nervous System safety in modern marriage.

📱 Follow Lauren on Instagram @lauren_dry

Connect with Siamon

📱 Follow Siamon on Instagram @siamon_emery

📱 Watch Siamon on YouTube @siamonemery

📅 Book a 30 minute discovery call with Siamon here

If something in this episode resonated, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or connect with me on Instagram. I love hearing what lands for you.

Big love,

Lauren x

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