Sex Spoken Here BDSM, Power Dynamics in Relationships and the
reality of 50 Shades Part 2
Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and
this is Sex Spoken Here. As this podcast contains adult material, if
you don
’
t have total privacy you might want to wear headphones.
Today we are continuing our discussion about BDSM and power
dynamics in relationship. If you have not heard part one, please go
and download it from iTunes of
https://the-intimacy-coach/podcast
.
Last week we focused on some definitions and an introductory
discussion around where we found power dynamics, power
exchange and BDSM.
Joining me to start our discussion into these areas and to delve into
some of the theory is Dr Kevin Boileau, psychoanalyst and
philosopher to speak on this topic. It
’
s good to see you Dr Boileau.
We started by talking about reflection and Dr Boileau made the point
that there is direct reflection where you think about your thoughts
and a pre-reflective and preconscious space where you act on
intuition and there is flow and spontaneity. We spoke about this
being so especially when you are exploring anything that involves
extreme motivation as sexuality does.