EPISODE OVERVIEW

Duration: Approximately 32 minutes

Best For: Trapped entrepreneurs who have built something successful on paper yet feel exhausted, unfulfilled, and disconnected from why they started

Key Outcome: Discover how to align your business strategy with your natural energy type so you can stop forcing methods that drain you and start operating in a way that actually feels good

She had 6,000 customers and a thriving health coaching business. Then she realised she dreaded every single day.

THE BOTTOM LINE

You followed all the expert advice. You studied the marketing gurus, copied the email sequences, implemented the social media strategies. And it worked. The money came in. The business grew. Yet here you are at 5am, staring at your inbox, wondering why success feels so much like a trap.

Stefanie Carlstedt knows that feeling intimately. She spent a decade building what looked like the dream, only to discover she had constructed her own prison. The turning point came when she lost her father to Alzheimer's and could no longer ignore the truth. The business she built was slowly killing her spirit. Human design changed everything. Not because it gave her permission to quit, but because it finally explained why she had been working against her own nature for years. Now she helps trapped entrepreneurs understand their unique energy blueprint so they can stop forcing strategies that drain them and start building businesses that actually feel aligned. The transformation is not about working less. It is about working right.

WHY THIS EPISODE MATTERS TO YOU

When you understand your human design, you stop forcing marketing strategies that exhaust you, which means you can finally show up consistently without burning out

You discover why certain clients drain you while others energise you, allowing you to attract the right people and release the wrong ones

You learn how to structure your days around your natural energy patterns, so you stop fighting your body and start working with it

The cost of ignoring this is another year of wondering why success still feels like a struggle, while your health, relationships, and joy continue to slip away

KEY INSIGHTS YOU CAN IMPLEMENT TODAY

Human design does not put you in a box. It reveals the box you have already put yourself in. When you finally see the constraints you have unconsciously created, you gain the power to step out of them.

Burnout is not about the amount on your plate. It is about the misalignment to what is on your plate. Stefanie does more now than ever before. The difference is that everything aligns with her design. Zero burnout.

You have been outsourcing your thoughts and ideas to experts who do not share your energy type. Their strategies worked for them because of who they are. Following their exact path may be the very thing trapping you.

Your human design reveals your life's work, how you are meant to market, how your voice should be heard, and whether social media is even right for you. Most business owners have been swimming upstream without realising the current exists.

The people around you need to understand your design as much as you do. When Stefanie's husband learned she was a manifesting generator meant to pivot quickly and juggle multiple ideas, he stopped thinking she was scattered and started giving her space to thrive.

GOLDEN QUOTES WORTH REMEMBERING

"Human design doesn't put you in a box. It sheds light on the box you put yourself in." - Stefanie Carlstedt

"Burnout is not the amount of things we have on our plate. It is really the misalignment to the things we have on our plate." - Stefanie Carlstedt

"We've normalised burnout. We've normalised exhaustion. Human design will bring you home to who you were before the world told you who to be." - Stefanie Carlstedt

"If something feels heavy, if it feels off, if you're frustrated, if you're overwhelmed, it's not meant to be like that." - Stefanie Carlstedt

QUICK NAVIGATION FOR BUSY LEADERS

00:00 - Introduction: Why some business owners feel trapped despite their success

03:45 - Stefanie's Story: Building a 6,000 customer business while slowly dying inside

08:20 - The Wake Up Call: How losing her father revealed the truth about her business

12:30 - Human Design Explained: Why this is different from personality tests you have tried

17:15 - The Box You Built: How following expert advice disconnected you from your natural strengths

21:40 - Energy Types and Business: Why manifestors, generators, and reflectors need completely different strategies

25:10 - AI and Human Design: Using technology trained on your unique blueprint

28:45 - The 2027 Shift: Why the era of the individual is here and what it means for your business

31:20 - Conclusion: Your free human design starter pack and next steps

GUEST SPOTLIGHT

Name: Stefanie Carlstedt

Bio: Stefanie is a human design strategist who spent a decade building a successful health coaching business with over 6,000 customers before realising she had been working against her natural design the entire time. After losing her father to Alzheimer's, she discovered human design and now helps entrepreneurs align their business strategies with their unique energy blueprints so they can find success that actually feels good.

Connect with Stefanie:

Website: https://www.stefcarlstedt.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stefanie-carlstedt-22517a2b0/

YOUR NEXT ACTIONS

This Week: Get your free human design chart and starter pack from Stefanie's website. Spend 30 minutes reading about your energy type and notice what resonates with how you have been feeling about your business.

This Month: Identify one marketing strategy you have been forcing that drains you. Test an alternative approach that aligns with how you naturally communicate and connect.

This Quarter: Map the human design types of your key team members and closest clients. Understanding their blueprints will transform how you communicate, delegate, and attract the right people.

EPISODE RESOURCES

Human Design Starter Pack (Free): Includes your free chart, 12 page PDF guide, and 8 part audio training on transforming your business through human design. Available through Stefanie's website.

Free Business Audit Call: Book a complimentary session with Stefanie to identify gaps in your business and explore how human design might help.

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Roy is the founder of All The Power Limited and creator of Elevate360, a business coaching system for entrepreneurs ready to scale without burnout. As a certified Wim Hof Method Instructor and the UK's first certified BOS UP coach, Roy combines AI automation, wellness practices, and business operating systems to help trapped entrepreneurs reclaim their freedom.

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Hey, power movers. I'm here today with Stephanie, and Stephanie

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does something that I've had my chart done, shall we

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say, found it really fascinating. So Stephanie does human design,

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and she takes a different angle on it. She takes

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an angle of how human design can influence and affect

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our business decisions. Yeah. To the podcast. Thank you.

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Thanks for having me. I'm super excited. So tell me,

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first of all, your entrepreneurial journey. Yeah. Where were you

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and then what made you decide to take that step

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that now I'm gonna go and work for myself? Yeah.

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So I've always been someone who never really felt like

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I fit into the mold. I've always felt different. And

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now that I know my human design, looking back, I

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understand why, and I'll get to that in a second.

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But I still follow the normal trajectory of life because

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my parents told me to. That's how society says we're

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going to be successful. So I graduated high school. I

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got the college degree. I even got my master's. I

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got the perfect, quote, unquote, perfect job, and immediately felt

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like I was shrinking, that I couldn't, almost couldn't breathe.

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I just knew that it wasn't for me. And my

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dad was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's pretty shortly

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after I started that job. And that was my triggering

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moment to know that I didn't belong here. Yes, I

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was in debt from school and all the things, but

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I did not belong where I was. And I took

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that as my jumping off point to really lean into

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entrepreneurship and figure out how the heck I can build

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my own thing while being by his side as much

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as I can through the trajectory of that disease. And

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I did. I went headfirst into it. I knew I

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had no other option. I didn't give myself any other

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option. And I built a big business over the next

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10 years. And I lost my dad to Alzheimer's. And

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it broke me wide open to the fact that I

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had built this business. Yes, I had great success. Yes.

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But I was so exhausted, unfulfilled, frustrated. I didn't love

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my business at all. It was not me anymore. And

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so I took that time to really grieve the, basically,

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the loss of a business, the loss of my biggest

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cheerleader and my dad, and I really just allowed myself

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to come home to myself. And it was in that

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time I was introduced to human design. And I thought

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it was fluff. I thought it was another personality test,

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but I decided, why not? I've got it. Figure out

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more about me why I'm feeling like this. And I

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read it and I understood exactly why I've always felt

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the way I felt. And I've never felt so. Heard,

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validated, seen. And I knew that this was

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my calling, to incorporate this into the entrepreneurial space, to

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help people find success that feels good and not go

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through what I went through. That's such a good point,

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isn't it? I've been playing with this idea that businesses

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are like children. Right. Worth a business. We, yeah, we

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don't. Sometimes you buy a business that's like an adopted

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child, but we birth a business. We have an idea

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where we can go out into the world and we

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can fix a problem. Yeah. And then we go in

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to this business and we. We start out and these.

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This baby is now keeping us up all night, right?

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Yeah. Yeah. And it's like, yeah, I can't sleep. I

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don't have any sleep. My life's not my own anymore.

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And then you go, the next day, the terrible twos

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arrive and something happens there, always something happens in those

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first couple of years. If you can survive those first

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couple of years, you're doing well. Yeah. Then we go

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to the teenage years. Yeah. And yeah, at the teenage

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years, it's just hard work. It's just really hard work.

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You've gotta. You've got to have eyes in the back

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of your head. There's always so many things going and

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so many of us get stuck in those teenage years.

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In business we don't have. We don't really know exactly

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what we're doing we've got there. We may be successful,

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but we end up being in a prison that we've

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made. Right. Yeah. And yeah. Yeah, that's interesting because I

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always say that human design doesn't put you in a

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box. It sheds a light on the box you put

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yourself in. So what's happening and what every single one

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of my clients comes to me with is just this

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knowing of more. There's more to this. There's. I have

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more to give. I know it can feel good. And

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what we've done unintentionally is follow the expert guidance,

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the guidance of the people we follow on social media

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from the people that have been up on the stages.

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And we follow them in tiny bits and pieces of

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our business. The marketing, the niching, the way to post

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a specific way or the way to email a specific

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way. And we slowly turn the dial down on how

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we're actually meant to work. Because your human design teaches

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you how you're meant to market, how your voice is

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meant to be heard. How people see you, if social

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media is right for you or not, how you're meant

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to show up on social media, et cetera, et cetera.

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And we have completely bypassed that and looked at everyone

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else outside of us, which disconnects us from the. From

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our body and how we're meant to do things, which

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that is what. Is what causes the burnout and the

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frustration. And what we think of burnout is we

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think that it is the amount of things we have

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on our plate, and it is really the misalignment to

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the things we have on our plate. Because I do

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lots of things in my business every day, and they're

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100% aligned to my human design. So I have zero

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burnout now. I think that's the biggest thing is people

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have outsourced their thoughts and their ideas. That's a really

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interesting angle. Really interesting angle. I like that. Yeah. As

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you're going through that process, what was your first business?

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My first business was health and fitness coaching. Yeah. Yeah.

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And I had. How. What. How big did you get

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yourself? Very successful. Yeah. I had 6,000 customers. I had

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helped hundreds of other people step into the online space,

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and it felt not good. And the thing is, I

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look back and I look at those people that I

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taught to start businesses to, and I taught them the

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same way I learned with the same way I did

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it, which no wonder so many never found success, because

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they. It wasn't aligned to them. And now, going back,

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every single client I work with is completely different, which

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is why I love what I do, because I'm a

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35 manifesting generator in human design, and I am not

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meant to do the same thing every day. It will

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kill me. And I am meant to pivot fast. And

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it actually says, I am meant to build something really

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big, burn it down, and teach with what actually works,

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which is what I'm doing. So it's really cool to

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see it all play out. That's really interesting because I'm

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also a manifesting generator. That's what I do. Yeah. Then

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break it down and teach it. I love that. So

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tell us about that journey. You're in a situation now

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where you've gone from higher revenue, lots of people, very

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busy, and now you're, like, really focusing down. What does

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it look like? It just feels so good and so

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aligned. And the people that I work with now, my

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clients are my people in my other business. Lots of

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the clients that came to me were not my people.

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They didn't. We didn't fit. And that's the Thing also

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with. When you market like your human design says to

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and show up in that way, you bring in people

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that are meant for you and that are aligned with

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you. I think a lot of times in business we

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have clients that we don't love to work with and

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that's not the case for me now, but it was

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in my first business and so I just love the,

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I just love the slower pace of working one on

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one with people to build their businesses aligned with who

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they actually are. It's really fascinating to learn who people

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are. I, the reflectors are one of the energy types

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of manifest or in human design. And I have a

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reflector client right now and she's 1% of the population

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and her business looks so much different than a manifesting

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generator. So it's just really cool to see and watch

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the, their life and their eyes come to life when

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they see, oh, this is actually how I'm supposed to

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do it. And it feels really good. Yeah. I, what

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I do is the problem that I see in entrepreneurs

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is they're so busy, first of all, they don't take

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any time for themselves. So first of all I have

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to give them some space and time with AI and

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yeah, that's really coming into its own at the moment.

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And what's your, what is your kind of experience with

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AI and how are you doing it? And yeah, yeah,

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I, so that's one thing that my clients all get

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when they work with me is a AI that's trained

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on human design and it's shut off from the Internet.

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So I think AI is so amazing and it can

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help you with so many things. I, I saw something

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the other day and it said when I don't feel

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smart, I realize that I graduated high school without

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the use of AI or something like that, but AI

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is just taking off in a good way. I feel

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if you use it for good, there's a lot of

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people that aren't they, they're showing up and not using

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it for good. But if you use it for good

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and you train it in how you speak, how you're

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meant to show up, who your people are, what your

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business is, it can help you tremendously. Yeah. So I

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do work with them, but they're completely turned off from

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the Internet and they're trained in human design. Yeah. And

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it's just. Yeah. So that's the first piece is actually

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let's get some time back. Yeah, yeah. How do you

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show up for yourself? How do you actually ensure that

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your own mental wellness, your own physical wellness that your

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energy is right for today. We have this energy problem

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where we go into the day, we wake up in

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the morning and we're already thinking about yesterday. Yeah. What

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went wrong. And we're thinking about tomorrow, what's going to

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come. And we just minimize our energy. Yeah. Once we.

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The tools that I use that have worked for me

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again, taking that story you were just telling, the breath

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work, the meditation, the cold exposure, and then making sure

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the diet's right, making sure you're. You're doing the steep

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that you need to do all of these kind of

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things. That's been so formative in my life. I interested

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now in how I might inspire people through the human

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design side to do the right things for them. What?

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Yeah. So it's so different from. For other people too.

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And honestly, the more you live in your design, the

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more you like it. It's. You relax and you don't

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grip so hard and you are so okay with being

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you. You don't care about anything else. And that in

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itself will just. The nervous system relaxes and you show

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up authentically. You show up powerfully. You show up in

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the way you're meant to show up. And that in

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itself is just so important to really understand who you

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are. Because what happens is when you, you know, how

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you're saying we are thinking about yesterday already, a lot

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of times we have, right when we wake up, we're

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allowing external noise, external voices, social media, whatever, to

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get into our space. And that will shut off our

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dopamine right away in the morning. So just again, staying

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in your power, staying in your own design and your

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unique. Because your design actually tells you your life's work

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that you're meant to do here. And when you figure

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that out, you just. It's just one. One straight line

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and you just stop outsourcing everything, which is what I

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think creates so much sickness and illness and burnout. Yeah.

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And just interestingly, a lot of the people you work

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with presumably are business owners. And how do you take

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this concept into the rest of the company? How do

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you. We've all done the personality tests and we've all

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done the Myers Briggs or whatever they are, and super

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useful to understand how to communicate with other people. Is

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that something that you get involved with and get the

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best off to do things? How does that work? Yeah,

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I think it's crucial. And the thing, the way that

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human design is different from those tests is that it's.

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Those tests are answered from a conditioned mind, a mind

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that has been through societal conditioning, upbringing Whatever it might

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be. And human design is based on your birth information

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and three months prior to that. So I always say

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it's written in the stars for you. People are. People

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think sometimes it's out there in the beginning until they

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read their charts. I've had at this point over a

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thousand people get their chart and I've had one person

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come back and say, this really isn't me. And she.

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We found out her birth time was wrong. And so

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it's very accurate when you actually give it a chance.

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But yeah. So as far as going into other parts

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of the. Of their business, it go. And the communication

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you talked about. So that's one thing that I believe

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as leaders, if you have a team with your business

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or if you are in any setting where you're a

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leader or you're in a group of people, you. It's

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important to know everybody's human design because we each have

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different strengths in that group. We each have. Some of

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us create superpowers together and which is really cool to

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see. And the communication style is gonna be different. For

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instance, manifestors are very closed off and some people might

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think that they're. They are not warm and fuzzy and

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they did something wrong to them, but that's in reality,

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that's really who they are. And so just knowing that

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about your clients, about your people that you work with

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every day is so important and to prevent just unnecessary

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conflict. And then you can also. You also put it

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in your marketing, in the how, like I said, how

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people see you on the stage of life and the

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people you're meant to help, the qualities that they have

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too. So it teaches you how to market to them.

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So you raised an interesting point there that I've struggled

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with myself. Birth times near the time of day you're

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born and many of us don't have that. So how

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do you get that? I really haven't run across that

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many that don't have it. I have had one person

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who said that she was adopted and couldn't find hers,

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and then my daughter's wasn't on hers. So I had

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to track down the hospital and then the clinic and

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then talk to the right person to get hers. So

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I think it's just a matter of if you really,

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truly want to have this be a driving force in

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your life because it can change everything. Then you just.

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You call people. I don't know. It just depends on

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the circumstances. But I've never had. I have maybe a

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couple people come to me and say, I don't have

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My birth time. But. But if you don't have your

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birth time and if, at least if you know in

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the morning or the afternoon, that's helpful. But it's 100

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accurate if you know your exact birth time. Yeah, Yeah.

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I didn't have my birth time. I was born in

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Zimbabwe. Don't even have phones anymore. My mom didn't. Yeah.

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Yeah. Actually jumped through a whole bunch of hoops to

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try and find one. So I've had. Yeah. And some

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pendulum stuff and. Yeah. And now I think I've got

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it. Yeah. No, that's awesome. Yeah. I think it's. I

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think it is. It is one of those things where

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if you really want to know it, it's got, it's

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somewhere. It's got to be somewhere. Yeah, yeah. Kinesiology

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can see whatever that word is. Yeah. That can tell

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you as well. So there's a whole. There are ways

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and means. Yeah. In terms of your business right now

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you're solo entrepreneur. Do you see yourself growing more than

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this can? How would you do that with what you're

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doing? Yeah. So I want to. In 2026, because I

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am pretty full with my one on one clients. I

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want to do group coaching where I teach. They have.

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I now have a portal where they can have access

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to self study themselves endlessly for their own human design.

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Because I believe that I can't just teach you your

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human design if you're not going to self study and

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really evolve through it because you can read something about

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your design and then a month later you're more evolved

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and you're going to. And it's going to look different

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to you or feel different to you. And so they

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have that. And then I want to create a membership

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too where I do monthly trainings on specific parts of

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human design. Yeah. And I want to get this into

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schools and I have a local group where I do

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like bachelorette parties and bridal parties, group readings and stuff

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like that to help them understand. We make it fun

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so they can see each other better. Yeah. Yeah. That's

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a whole nother angle, isn't it? Relationships. Oh, yeah. I

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end up helping most people with relationships too. They figure

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out what their family's chart is and understand their kids

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and their. Because I believe in order to be successful

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in business you have to know everybody around you and

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they have to know you. There's. My husband knows me

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better. He thought I used to be crazy with all

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these different ideas and changes and pivots and now he

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understands it and it gives me the space so yeah.

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Yeah. We are difficult on our families and relationships. Bounce

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to a new thing. Bounce to a new thing. Change

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around, do. Do ten things at once. Yeah. Yeah. So

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now you go through this process, you build and you

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grow and you scale and I love that idea of

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a membership. Yeah. When are you thinking of launching that?

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What's your plans in 2026 is my, my goal to

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transition to group coaching and I'll still have one on

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one clients but group coaching for everybody else and then

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a membership probably. I don't know. April Ish would be

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my, my timeline. Amazing. Amazing. It's a bright future.

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Yeah. Let's go back to a little bit about. Yeah.

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What do you do for fun? How do you actually.

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How do you make sure you live the life you

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love? Yeah. Right now my kids, sports or everything so

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I just love going to watch them. That's one thing

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that entrepreneurship has gifted me is that my son is

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in middle school right now and their basketball games are

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at 3:30. There's no way I would be able to

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go if I wasn't. If I was at 9 to

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5 going there. We have one today and that's what

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lights me up. And getting outside anytime I can. When

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it's nice out, I want to live somewhere that it's

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nice out all the time. Or you know what's funny?

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I used to live somewhere where it was nice out.

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I lived on. In Durban. On the beach. Yeah. In

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a. On the 13th floor of a building. 30 degrees

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every day. Centigrade, not whatever that is. Yeah. 100 degrees.

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And the thing is when you have that every day.

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Yeah. Yeah. You don't. It's so much. So I actually

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I'm in Seattle at the moment. I live in London.

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The weather's normally. Yeah. Not so great. But I really

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do appreciate it when the song comes out. Yeah, for

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sure. So let's talk a little bit more about where

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the world is at the moment. I love what you're

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doing. I think it's. Yeah. So important if you find

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something. I don't know of anyone else doing what you're

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doing and I've looked around a bit but if you

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find something, you can really make a change. What do

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you see the challenges are for the next year? AI

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by itself is just going to cause such a. A

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strange time. Yeah. We've got all the planets and everything

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doing strange things as well. And then we've got the

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bitcoin, the financial systems and heaven forbid I talk about

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politics, but that's also. Where do you see 2026 taking

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us. Yeah, it's. It's going to be bumpy for a

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little bit, but I'm actually really excited for the ride

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because I know in 2027 is when the new era

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shifts and completely. We're in it now, we're shifting now,

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but the new era is going to be completely shifted

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to this other side where it's more of. We have

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to understand ourselves in order to move the collective forward.

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So that's why education systems are breaking down, that's why

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political systems are breaking down. Pharmaceuticals, medical system, it's all

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breaking down because we can no longer survive as a

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species on the way that this has been created, which

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if you know the history of things. Education was created

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to create workers instead of thinkers to put them on

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assembly lines. And we haven't changed that. And so it's

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time. It's the era of the individual is here. And

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that's why human design is becoming more known. And it's

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important because in order for us to step out of

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what's actually going on around us, we have to know

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ourselves and how our energy works and how we're meant

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to move through the world in order to step out

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of that and become the place where I actually have

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the life's purpose, the incarnation cross of the new era,

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which is rare, but means I'm supposed to lead this.

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And that's why I know I'm here, because I'm supposed

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to lead this new shift from fear and stress

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and where we have normalized burnout, we've normalized exhaustion,

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and into this new era of knowing ourselves. This is

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the age of Aquarius. I don't know, Major, we're going.

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We're going into something that's. Oh, I get AI. Okay.

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Much more about the electronic and about all things that

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can help us more. And I love AI for that.

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And it's this, this evolution that we're going through to.

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To your point, with AI, I see so many people

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using it as a. I can do some emails. Right.

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I can ask a couple of questions. But so much

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more than that in terms of beforehand, we had this.

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Yeah. We had to learn our. Inside our minds. Yeah.

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So we had to get a book or a video

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and we had to consume the whole thing. Yeah. We

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could do an output. And now information is basically free.

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20 pounds a month. $20 a month. You can have

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everything that has ever been written on the Internet. Just.

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Yeah. And we don't know how to use that. And

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so, you know, now the opportunity that I see for

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people is really how do we start thinking in that

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different way? How do we. Yeah, and people will talk

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about prompting and they'll talk about all sorts of things,

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but it's much more than that, I think it's this

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constant idea about I'm gonna better myself. How do I

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better myself? I love learning. I'm always learning. Every day

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I'm learning something new. And yeah, I'm. I'll be picking

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up with you afterwards in terms of my communication style

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because I'm super interested to learn a bit more about

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that and how do I put my information out there

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in the correct way? So I go on to ChatGPT

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or Claude or whichever other one there is, and if

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I ask the question, just help me do a post,

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I get one thing, but if I ask the question,

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my ICP is this, and this is what I'm trying

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to do, and this is who I am. What's the

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best way to bring that across? You know, entirely different

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thing. And. And again, with the problems, you don't even

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need to know what the pro. What the solution is,

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how you fix it. All you need to know is

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what the problem is in the context. Now you have

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access to every expert that ever lived. Yeah, I think

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it's just really an evolution of how, how we think.

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Oh, yeah, for sure it is. And it's helping us

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become, I think, more. What is the word I want

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to use? I don't know what the word is. But

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we're learning to experiment more. We're learning to try different

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things. A lot of the ideas that I've actually created

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products with have come from my chat GPT. And this.

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It started there, right? It started with this idea and

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I was, I would think, oh my gosh, this is

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brilliant. And then I would make changes and stuff like

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that. But I have. Our brains can only do so

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much when we use this other tool in the right

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way. Again, it has to be used in the right

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way, then it can change everything. Yeah, I think you're

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right that using it in the right way is so

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important, because one of the fundamentals that I teach is

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that AI is a yes man, because AI has been

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created in our image. And if you were to first

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meet someone, the first thing you do is try and

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make them like you. So you go to AI and

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you say, I've got this great idea. I'm gonna, you

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know, sell glasses to bars. Yeah, magic idea. And I.

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Yeah, that's a great idea, Roy. So let's work through.

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How can I help you do that? Yeah, but if

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you frame it in the right way and say, listen,

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don't molly cuddle me. Don't be. Be a critical thinking.

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Yeah, this is the idea I've got. Suddenly you get

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a totally different answer. Yeah. Just trying to understand how

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that all ties together and as you say, just use

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it as a tool. And I think AI is a

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60 tool. Yeah, yeah, that sounds about right. Yeah,

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yeah. And really I think that the learnings and lessons

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for me have been I have to be the thought

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leader, I have to maintain my thought leadership in this

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so that you know, I've got a very good conscious

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picture of what I want out of it. Yeah. And

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then. Yeah, it's keeping the rails in, keeping it really

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focused and making sure. Oh no, that doesn't sound right.

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And yeah, I think we're in for a very interesting

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time as we go forward. Yeah, for sure. Yeah, yeah,

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I think, yeah, we've covered some amazing things there. What

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can you offer to people? What do you, how do

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you work? Yeah. Touch with you. Yeah. I want to

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gift you all something because the one thing that I've

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learned about human design is that when you first get

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your human design chart it kind it looks gibberish. You

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don't really know what it means and most people put

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it on the shelf and think, oh that's just another

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personality test, I'll just read it later. And I don't

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want that. So I created, I call it a human

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design starter pack. So you get your for free, you

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get your free chart, you get 12 page PDF and

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then you get an eight part audio that helps you

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understand the different pieces of human design that can transform

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your business. So it helps you really get a sense

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of wow, this can be life transforming. So I always

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want people to start there and I wanted to make

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it free because most people charge for just pass the

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chart or even charge the chart which is my mission

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is to get this out to the world. So that's

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why I'm doing that. Oh, that's amazing. So I'll share

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a link and everyone can go on and do that

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and then. Yeah. If you, if they wanted to work

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with you, just reach out to you from there. Yep.

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On my. In the five part or the eight part

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audio you can't. And then at the bottom of the

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12 page PDF also you can book a free call

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with me which it's just really an audit where I

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take you through specific questions about your business and specific

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areas and we figure out where the gaps are and

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see if human design can transform yours too. I have

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several offers that I help people based on their needs

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at the time. Well, I'll dig into that as well,

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because I'm super interested to find out some more. Yeah.

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Thank you so much for joining me. Stephanie, have you

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got any last words of wisdom for everybody? I think

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just remembering that you are unique, and human design is

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the science of differentiation, and you are unique. You are

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uniquely placed here to do something completely different in the

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world than anybody else around you. So just know that

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if something feels heavy, if it's feels off, if you're

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frustrated, if you're overwhelmed, it's not meant to be like

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that. And I say that human design will bring you

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home to who you were before the world told you

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who to be. So it's just time to unlock it.

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Yeah. Thank you so much for joining. Yeah. Thank you.