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Why I Believe the Key to Success Is Serving Your Employees First with Benjie Craig
Episode 7129th May 2024 • Push to be More • Matt Edmundson
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In this episode of the Push To Be More podcast, Matt enjoys a captivating conversation with Benjie Craig, a Silicon Valley business leader who shares his unique perspective on the power of servant leadership. Benjie discusses his journey from growing up in Pakistan to running a successful contracting business in the Bay Area, and how his experiences have shaped his leadership philosophy.

Discover:

  1. Why Benjie believes that prioritizing employee development is crucial for business success
  2. How a CEO's willingness to perform any task, no matter how small, can transform company culture
  3. The importance of creating an ecosystem where employees coach and mentor each other
  4. Strategies for navigating the ups and downs of the construction industry while keeping your team engaged and motivated
  5. How Benjie's multicultural background has influenced his approach to leadership and fostered a deeper understanding of diverse perspectives

Throughout the episode, Benjie emphasizes the significance of empowering your team and serving their needs to unlock their full potential. He shares practical examples of how he has implemented this philosophy within his own company, Jemby, and the positive impact it has had on employee morale, productivity, and overall business success.

Benjie also delves into his personal practices for staying sharp and focused as a leader, including the power of starting each day with a walk, working with his hands to process thoughts, and intentionally creating space for recharging.

Whether you're a seasoned business leader or an aspiring entrepreneur, this episode is packed with valuable insights on servant leadership, employee empowerment, and building a thriving company culture.

Don't miss this engaging conversation with Benjie Craig, and discover why he firmly believes that the key to success lies in serving your employees first.

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Hello and welcome to the Push To Be More podcast

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We're going to do it.

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We're going to dive into another deep exploration of what fuels

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this journey called life.

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Oh yes, we are.

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And joining me today.

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I'll I've got an exciting guest, Benjie Craig, from Jembe, all

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the way over in sunny California.

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Now we're going to be diving into his unique life experiences, the

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hurdles he has had to push through, the way he recharges his spirit, and

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what steps he's taken to be more.

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Yes, now don't forget you can find the detailed show notes and a complete

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But you might be thinking, why on earth would I want to do that?

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But let's talk about Benjie loves helping people discover their

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purpose in life, whether at work or in the local neighborhood, running

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his own contracting business.

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He is the go to guy when it comes to electrical needs.

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Oh, yes.

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At home, he is a dedicated husband and the proud dad of two adventurous boys,

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which sounds very ominous, doesn't it?

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Welcome to the show, man.

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Great to have you on.

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How are you doing?

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Doing

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so good.

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Thank you for having me.

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Oh, it's great to have

Benjie Craige:

you here.

Benjie Craige:

Two adventurous boys.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah, two adventurous boys.

Benjie Craige:

We actually just took them to Thailand and Singapore last month and we got

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to explore there a little bit and they also love to adventure on Minecraft and

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Roblox and other games online as well.

Matt Edmundson:

So they like the real world and the virtual world, right?

Matt Edmundson:

Yes,

Benjie Craige:

they do.

Benjie Craige:

Excellent.

Matt Edmundson:

How old are your kids?

Benjie Craige:

I've got a 16 year old and a 13 year old.

Matt Edmundson:

Oh, good ages, man.

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Yeah, really good ages.

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Yeah, love that.

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My boys are a little bit older.

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My eldest is 22.

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My youngest boy, who's my middle child, is 20.

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So just a few years further on.

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Yeah.

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Good ages.

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They sort of transition from just being kids to being people you just love to hang

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around with mates, that kind of thing.

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So that's pretty cool.

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Do you have shared interest in sports or are you like cricket and they

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like, I don't know, American football?

Benjie Craige:

I love most sports.

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I do love cricket.

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And we can watch it online here.

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So it's good, but usually really not good times of the

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day to watch it, unfortunately.

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And I actually went to a rugby game last weekend.

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Some friends of mine, their son was playing in a game, so it was a lot of fun.

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But my boys really aren't that into sports.

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So we went to watch a soccer game or football game last weekend.

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They enjoyed it, but, they weren't like crazy about it.

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They'd rather be home doing other things.

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So yeah sports isn't the common thing, but I think traveling

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is a big common thing for us.

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And

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so have you always been a traveling guy?

Benjie Craige:

So I grew up I was born in Switzerland and I grew up in Pakistan.

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My parents worked with a relief and development organization over there.

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Then when I graduated high school, I moved here to the States and one of my goals was

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before I had kids was just to leave the U.

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S.

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once a year and just get out and reset, refocus, make sure, my

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priorities are in the right places.

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And now that my boys are growing up.

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We're not living overseas.

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We're living here.

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We're living in a very diverse place, which is amazing.

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But I also want them to see different parts of the world as they're

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growing up just to have a little bit of a different perspective.

Benjie Craige:

That's great, man.

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What was it like growing up in Pakistan?

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For me, it was normal.

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I didn't know anything else.

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I only grew up in Pakistan.

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But it was really good people, very hospitable there.

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And I think what it did was give me they call it a third culture kids.

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So you're not in your home culture and you're not part of their culture.

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You're in this like third culture thing.

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And so I think it helped me just understand different perspectives and

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things and especially being here in the Bay Area, it's a very diverse area

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as I'm interacting and working with people, I can put myself in their shoes

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in a lot of ways and see things from a different point of view which I think

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has really helped me in my business.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

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Yeah.

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No doubt.

Matt Edmundson:

I'm just curious, so you grew up in Pakistan, so third

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culture kid and you were there your whole life until you were graduated

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high school, which is what, 18?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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That.

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Do you go back to Pakistan or have you they're all sort of fond memories.

Benjie Craige:

The last time I was back was.

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2003.

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So it was a while ago.

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I've been to India and Afghanistan more recently.

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We were actually planning to go, we were thinking about going to Pakistan this

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year, but plans changed and we ended up going to Thailand and Singapore instead.

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So I do want to go back.

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I really want to show my boys Pakistan.

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It's just finding the right time to do it.

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Yeah.

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It's

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interesting.

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Cause I spent, when I finished college here in the UK when I was

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18, so sixth form as we like to call it, because, we like to have

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different names of things, don't we?

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So when I finished sixth form, I actually went and lived in North Carolina.

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So I went to your country and one of the great things in life for me was

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in 2018 so Josh, my eldest, would have been 17 at that point and Zach was 15.

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I got to take them to North Carolina and I got them to, they finally got over there.

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They got to see all these places that Dad talked about.

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They finally got to meet most of the people that Dad talked about,

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the ones who hadn't passed away.

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And then a few years later so was it two years ago now, I took my daughter

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over to North Carolina as well.

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So she got the same tool, the same, this is, I did some voluntary work in

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a children's home out there for a year and took them around the children's

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home and all that sort of stuff.

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But I think it was really, obviously I love going back because lots of memories

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and stuff and connections there, but I think it was just really good for the

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kids to see all these sort of magical places, all these places that dad

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talks about maybe in a magical way.

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Because I lived there in a time when everything was

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magical, if that makes sense.

Benjie Craige:

Yep.

Benjie Craige:

No, that makes sense.

Benjie Craige:

I think traveling and seeing places just put so much more together.

Benjie Craige:

I've taken my kids to Turkey and to we went to Boston.

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My sister lived in Maine and just seeing some of the historical sites and

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different places, and then, when you read about it, you now have a picture

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in your mind oh, I know what it looks like, and hearing stories, I've told

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my kids stories about growing up in Pakistan, and they have pictures in their

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minds, but it's not the real picture, and then, once you really see it, I

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think that just adds so much more to it.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah,

Benjie Craige:

that's awesome.

Matt Edmundson:

I can.

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I think my kids would say that it was great.

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I don't think it's a place they would have chosen to go

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on holiday if that makes sense.

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And North Carolina, barbecue probably though.

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Yeah, very good barbecue.

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Absolutely very good barbecue.

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And there's a drink you can get in North Carolina and you can only get

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in North Carolina called Cheerwine.

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It tastes a bit like Dr.

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Pepper.

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It's a soft drink.

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And it's made in Salisbury, North Carolina.

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And so every now and again, we would get it back at home.

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People would ship it over to me from the States.

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And so when that we, I took him around the Cheerwine Factory and all

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these kinds of things that they do.

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They finally got to see and put places, do you know what I mean, to all the stories,

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because, if you're like me, Benjie, you like to tell the story, probably the same

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story four or five times, because they've heard this before, but then when they

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see it, it's a different thing, isn't it?

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Yeah, it definitely is.

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So the travel thing where if one of the things that intrigued me about when I

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lived in the States, North Carolina, was obviously growing up in Europe is

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a very different experience in many ways, because you're even more so now,

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Europe is on your doorstep, I would regularly fly over to France or we

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would go to Spain or so on and so forth.

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We went to the States a few times when I was growing up.

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One of the things that intrigued me about North Carolina was actually

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the amount of people at the time, now bearing in mind this is in the early

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90s, we're going back a few years.

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One of the things that intrigued me was how many people who hadn't travelled

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outside of the continental United States.

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In fact, how many people actually hadn't travelled out of their

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own state was quite significant.

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I think that's obviously changed a lot with the world.

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But, if anyone's listening to this, And listening to you talk about travel and

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growing up in different cultures, where is the one place on earth everybody

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should go and visit, do you think, that they should make it a point to travel to?

Benjie Craige:

Boy, that is really tough.

Benjie Craige:

I really like the San Francisco Bay Area.

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Come check it out.

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It's diverse, all kinds of foods.

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It's really good.

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I think of the places I've been, I really enjoy Turkey.

Benjie Craige:

I think great food, great culture.

Benjie Craige:

Went to Antalya.

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My parents lived there for a little bit and Istanbul was pretty cool.

Benjie Craige:

Then I think Thailand is a really good place too.

Benjie Craige:

I really enjoyed Thailand.

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Again, great people, great food.

Benjie Craige:

I think you can say that about most places, but so far for my family,

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Thailand and Turkey have been the top two places that we've really enjoyed going.

Benjie Craige:

Very good.

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Both beginning with T.

Benjie Craige:

That's right.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Now I've been to San Francisco a few times.

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In fact, on the trip with my daughter, we went to San Francisco.

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We did we flew into LA, hung out with some friends in LA for a few days,

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got over the old jet lag, rented a car and drove from LA up to San

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Francisco up the Pacific Coast Highway.

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That took us a week to do.

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And we had the best time.

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It was such a memorable time.

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And this was a sort of dad daughter trip.

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It was just me and my daughter, my wife, my boys, they were at home.

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It was just great time, just one on one time.

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And when we got to San Francisco and bearing in mind, I'd been there

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before, there is a place that I never knew existed and we stumbled across

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it somewhere on one of the piers.

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Pier, you've got all the different piers, haven't you, down in San Francisco?

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And there is this retro arcade place where they've got all arcade games

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and pinball games and stuff like that.

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And I saw it and I said, so we have got to go in there.

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Maybe they've got some of the games when I was a kid, none of this sort

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of newfangled stuff that I can't play, like FIFA I just can't do it.

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And so I said, let's go have a look inside.

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And they had all like pinball machines from the 40s and the 50s.

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And I heard the Star Wars theme playing.

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And I was like, this is magical.

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And I said, so I said please tell me they've got that game.

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They've got, they, oh, and I was, I got so excited and I went around the corner and

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the thing that was playing the Star Wars thing was not the game I had in my mind.

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It was like a Star Wars pinball machine.

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And I was like, oh, I was a little bit disappointed.

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I'm not going to lie.

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We carried on walking around and then I turned around the corner,

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but there it was, the machine that I had in my head in the first place.

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It's the old Star Wars Atari game.

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It's like a vector graphics game where you get to fly around the

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death star and try and blow it up.

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Anybody who grew up in the eighties will know what I mean.

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I spent many an hour down at the local arcade playing this game.

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And let me tell you, muscle memory is a real thing.

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I played that game and smashed it first game and I was loving it.

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So I said, I took my daughter, I said to my daughter, here's some cash.

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We're here for the next few hours.

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I'm playing on this game and she's got some video of me getting

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very excited playing this game.

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And it's the only video game that I've actually beat my daughter at.

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So you should go check that out.

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I think it was Pier 49.

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I can't remember, but if I ever go back to San Francisco, I am going there again.

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In fact, it got so serious Benjie, that I went online to see if I

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could buy that game, that machine and have it installed at our

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warehouse, but I've yet to find one.

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If anybody out there knows of the old, original sort of Star Wars Atari game

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that's for sale, or even a sort of a mock up of it, a sort of a fake one.

Matt Edmundson:

I'm interested.

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Reach out and let me know.

Matt Edmundson:

So how did you how did you end up back in San Francisco from Pakistan?

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Is that where your parents originally were from or is it just

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happenstance that you were there?

Benjie Craige:

We live in a town called Fremont, California.

Benjie Craige:

It's like the fourth largest fourth largest city in the

Benjie Craige:

San Francisco Bay Area.

Benjie Craige:

We're actually the largest, or we've got the largest, most manufacturing

Benjie Craige:

jobs in the state of California.

Benjie Craige:

So we, the only reason why we're really not on the map is because we don't

Benjie Craige:

have a sports team or an airport.

Benjie Craige:

If they had one of those, our claim to fame is Tesla's headquarters is here.

Benjie Craige:

Not headquarters, but their main factory.

Benjie Craige:

But my dad grew up in the Bay Area.

Benjie Craige:

And so when we came back from Pakistan, we moved to this area.

Benjie Craige:

And just reconnected into life here and I worked as an apprentice

Benjie Craige:

electrician and went to college and university after that while I was

Benjie Craige:

working as well and just jumped in.

Benjie Craige:

I think there were a couple different things including a faith

Benjie Craige:

community here that we joined that we wanted to be a part of.

Benjie Craige:

Fantastic,

Matt Edmundson:

so the family's settled there now.

Matt Edmundson:

So let me ask you a question, I mean we call the show Push To Be More and

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obviously one of the questions that we like to ask people is, in terms of

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areas that you have had to push through, what is maybe one or two of the biggest

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challenges that you've faced in life?

Matt Edmundson:

I mean it sounds like you've got lots of opportunity for challenges with all

Matt Edmundson:

the, living in different nations, but maybe I'm being presumptuous there.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah, I think I think one of the big things just starting your own

Benjie Craige:

business is just the stress that comes with how much or how little work you have.

Benjie Craige:

When I started the business, there was, I could see it on a weekly cycle.

Benjie Craige:

One week I'm stressing out about, I don't have enough work for the guys.

Benjie Craige:

And then the next week goes, we're stressing about, I've got too much.

Benjie Craige:

How am I going to get everything done?

Benjie Craige:

And then there's just this constant battle and then there was there's this

Benjie Craige:

point that I just realized you know what I am going to have to let that go because

Benjie Craige:

otherwise, it's not going to be good for my health or the people around me because

Benjie Craige:

I'm just pushing it on everybody else.

Benjie Craige:

And it's amazing how work comes in.

Benjie Craige:

There's construction, they call it feast or famine, right?

Benjie Craige:

You either have too much or not enough.

Benjie Craige:

And it's learning how to balance that and manage through the company.

Benjie Craige:

But just watching how you do the pieces that you can do

Benjie Craige:

and you can't really do more.

Benjie Craige:

And then as you go forward and you've built relationships watching

Benjie Craige:

the work come in and fill the schedule.

Benjie Craige:

Sometimes just at the last minute of the day, you find work for

Benjie Craige:

the next day, things like that.

Benjie Craige:

Not holding that too tight like that I was just reading a quote the other

Benjie Craige:

day that said, when you worry you're actually worshiping the problem.

Matt Edmundson:

Oh,

Benjie Craige:

I

Matt Edmundson:

Like that I do like that when you worry you're

Matt Edmundson:

gonna worship the problem.

Matt Edmundson:

Okay.

Matt Edmundson:

Sorry, I interrupted you.

Benjie Craige:

Oh, no, you're good So and at Gemby, we say we're a learning

Benjie Craige:

company, so everybody who's coming in, we're learning and growing together,

Benjie Craige:

teaching each other, and right now in this season, I've got a really amazing team

Benjie Craige:

who's picking up, and everybody who's here, we've trained from the beginning.

Benjie Craige:

My estimator started out as apprentices, and they've worked their way up.

Benjie Craige:

And then now they're, designing things and estimating and looking for

Benjie Craige:

new customers and things like that.

Benjie Craige:

And right now in this season, I'm slowly stepping back and letting them

Benjie Craige:

take the lead roles to build everything because I just think it's so cool.

Benjie Craige:

It's so important to, as people are growing, to give them the

Benjie Craige:

runway to move forward, right?

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

And not be the bottleneck.

Benjie Craige:

Not be the bottleneck.

Benjie Craige:

The bottleneck.

Benjie Craige:

Don't be either.

Benjie Craige:

That would be a good thing.

Matt Edmundson:

Exactly.

Matt Edmundson:

There you go.

Matt Edmundson:

It's interesting you talk about there's a lot . I'm curious in the sense that

Matt Edmundson:

you, worry is worshipping the problem, it's a great quote, is worry something

Matt Edmundson:

that you've had to deal with and is it something you still have to deal with?

Matt Edmundson:

Is it because you come across people with different anxiety levels, I

Matt Edmundson:

think, especially when running your own business, there is that natural

Matt Edmundson:

anxiety of where's the money going to come from and all that sort of

Matt Edmundson:

stuff, which you do get occasionally.

Matt Edmundson:

But I think entrepreneurs are a breed of people that can either

Matt Edmundson:

just ignore that or just pretend it doesn't exist, which is probably

Matt Edmundson:

not that healthy in a lot of ways.

Matt Edmundson:

But then you get the other type one, something I'm noticing more

Matt Edmundson:

and more, especially in the modern age is actually anxiety is quite

Matt Edmundson:

crippling for a lot of people.

Matt Edmundson:

And I'm curious as to where you are on that scale.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

Think it's important to know how to like kind of work through your anxiety

Benjie Craige:

and process those things, right?

Benjie Craige:

Like a lot of, the fear is not going to go away.

Benjie Craige:

It's how are you going to work through or push through that fear?

Benjie Craige:

And how can you have peace going through these hard times

Benjie Craige:

and being nervous about things?

Benjie Craige:

We had a job a couple of years ago.

Benjie Craige:

It was really complex and we had this massive shutdown that

Benjie Craige:

had to happen in 36 hours.

Benjie Craige:

We were basically taking the main switchgear of an electrical of

Benjie Craige:

this building out and replacing it and it basically everything had to

Benjie Craige:

go for it to happen in that time.

Benjie Craige:

And I think like there was a lot of nights leading up to that,

Benjie Craige:

just waking up, worrying and just going do we have everything right?

Benjie Craige:

And things like that.

Benjie Craige:

But it made me have to work through okay how do I keep myself calm?

Benjie Craige:

How do I be a peaceful presence?

Benjie Craige:

Because the strongest heartbeat kind of sets, sets the pace in the room.

Benjie Craige:

And so what I've seen with my guys is when things aren't really going

Benjie Craige:

well on a job, and they're like, hey, we need you to come help.

Benjie Craige:

Can you please help?

Benjie Craige:

I'll come to the job site, and I won't jump into the

Benjie Craige:

hardest, most difficult thing.

Benjie Craige:

The first thing I do, first check in on all the guys, say hi, and then

Benjie Craige:

I'll start cleaning the job site.

Benjie Craige:

And if they need me to go get parts, I'll go get parts, all of that stuff.

Benjie Craige:

But then by making the job site clean and organizing all of the parts,

Benjie Craige:

all of a sudden the anxiety level of the space starts coming down.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

Because things are organized, it's safer.

Benjie Craige:

And then the guys are doing most of the work themselves and they get it done.

Benjie Craige:

Now, I'll jump in wherever I need to, but I'm going to take the lowest task

Benjie Craige:

and just clean the space and create the environment where we can bring the

Benjie Craige:

anxiety level down and move forward.

Benjie Craige:

And that brings a calming presence to everybody.

Benjie Craige:

That's really powerful,

Matt Edmundson:

too, because I, what I love about this story, Benjie, is

Matt Edmundson:

actually, you're the CEO, and quite often out of hubris sometimes, just out

Matt Edmundson:

of happenstance, just without thinking about it, quite often as the CEO, we

Matt Edmundson:

don't come in and do the lowest task.

Matt Edmundson:

If that task needs doing, we usually question why it's not

Matt Edmundson:

been done, if that makes sense.

Matt Edmundson:

Especially if we've got people working for us like why is your desk a mess?

Matt Edmundson:

Why is this a mess?

Matt Edmundson:

Why is that not sorted out?

Matt Edmundson:

And it's interesting in the times of stress, what you're, just by coming

Matt Edmundson:

in and cleaning up the site, I can see how that would reduce anxiety and

Matt Edmundson:

you can, I can see the benefits of it.

Matt Edmundson:

But what intrigues me is the fact that actually you're willing to do that.

Matt Edmundson:

That you're willing to just, no, I'm just going to go clean.

Matt Edmundson:

I know I'm the owner and I know a whole bunch of reasons why I shouldn't have to

Matt Edmundson:

do this, but this is what I'm going to do.

Matt Edmundson:

Is that something that is intentional in you?

Matt Edmundson:

Is that something that you set aside, or does that just happen

Matt Edmundson:

to be the way it was one day?

Benjie Craige:

No, it's intentional.

Benjie Craige:

I want the guys to see that I'm not above anything in the company.

Benjie Craige:

Because if I'm going to ask somebody to do something, it's something

Benjie Craige:

that I'm willing to do myself.

Benjie Craige:

And it's not what you say, it's what you do.

Benjie Craige:

If I remember one of my guys tells this story.

Benjie Craige:

I came on in the job site and it was like a second day working for us.

Benjie Craige:

I came on in the job site, started talking to the guys.

Benjie Craige:

I hadn't met him yet.

Benjie Craige:

And so he's just Hey, can you jump in and help me do this?

Benjie Craige:

And we worked together.

Benjie Craige:

I did a couple of things and then I moved on to something else.

Benjie Craige:

And then somebody else came up to him.

Benjie Craige:

It was like, Hey, that was the owner.

Benjie Craige:

And so he tells that story a lot of that made a big impression on him

Benjie Craige:

where I was willing to just jump in and help where asked instead of going,

Benjie Craige:

Oh, no, here, let me get somebody else to do that for you or something.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

But I think it's so important to model it and because then you're

Benjie Craige:

creating that culture of, no, nobody's above any task, right?

Benjie Craige:

Because if we're all on it, if we're all a team together, we're

Benjie Craige:

all willing to pull our own weight, just help to get things done.

Benjie Craige:

And it's not a silo or a hierarchy or anything like that.

Benjie Craige:

Because typically in the trades, you've got the journeymen who, they'll do all of

Benjie Craige:

the fun stuff, and then the apprentices end up sweeping up and stuff like that.

Benjie Craige:

But really not a big fan of that hierarchy model I want it to be a little bit more

Benjie Craige:

flatter where we're all willing to learn from each other and work together and

Benjie Craige:

help each other move forward and grow.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah, that's

Matt Edmundson:

really powerful.

Matt Edmundson:

And like you say, I imagine that tells a story a lot to

Matt Edmundson:

your guys that work with you.

Matt Edmundson:

And it's something that I'm conscious of myself, like one of the

Matt Edmundson:

warehouses we have, the warehouse that we have here in Liverpool, we

Matt Edmundson:

just had some racking installed.

Matt Edmundson:

And so I said to my wife on the, it was getting done on last Friday, And

Matt Edmundson:

I said to my wife, I said, Oh, I'm just going to go to the warehouse.

Matt Edmundson:

Just make sure everyone's okay.

Matt Edmundson:

Ordinarily I wouldn't be in on a Friday, but I'm just going to go

Matt Edmundson:

and make sure everyone's okay.

Matt Edmundson:

And I'm just going to sit quietly in the corner and it will all

Matt Edmundson:

be quiet and it'll all be fine.

Matt Edmundson:

And I was getting some, I'm going to get all this done.

Matt Edmundson:

And I reeled off a list of things, my little to do list to my beautiful wife.

Matt Edmundson:

Came back, my wife said to me, she said, how did you get on?

Matt Edmundson:

I said I didn't get any maths do list done.

Matt Edmundson:

And she's like, why not?

Matt Edmundson:

I said, because I picked up a brush and I was picking up boxes

Matt Edmundson:

and I was moving stuff around with the guys in the warehouse.

Matt Edmundson:

Because it, like you, I just think you can't be above these things, right?

Matt Edmundson:

When it's crazy like that, you just got to get in, you've got to muck

Matt Edmundson:

in and go, come on, let's do this.

Matt Edmundson:

And sometimes you have to lead by example, don't you?

Matt Edmundson:

And it seems to work out better when you do.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

And I think part of it.

Benjie Craige:

My dad says I do Umbwa, which is managing by walking around.

Benjie Craige:

And one of the things, one of the things I love doing is just going up to

Benjie Craige:

people's desks or, out in the field what are you working on and how can I help?

Benjie Craige:

What are the roadblocks that you need help with to keep moving on your stuff?

Benjie Craige:

So my number one customer is my employees, right?

Benjie Craige:

They're the ones serving the customers, but I'm the one serving them.

Benjie Craige:

So how do I help them get roadblocks out of their ways so

Benjie Craige:

they can continue moving forward?

Benjie Craige:

Because if I create a company that everything has to go through me or I'm

Benjie Craige:

the, the bottleneck, as I said before, then it's going to break at some point

Benjie Craige:

but if I can be the one supporting them and empowering them and helping them

Benjie Craige:

move things forward, Then it's scalable.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

No, I love that.

Matt Edmundson:

Love that.

Matt Edmundson:

And it's so true, actually.

Matt Edmundson:

And I, do you find then by doing that, Benjie, that you end up working later?

Matt Edmundson:

Because all the stuff that you maybe should have been doing when you're

Matt Edmundson:

helping out the guys doesn't get done.

Matt Edmundson:

And so do you find you work more longer hours to try and get

Matt Edmundson:

all of that sort of stuff done?

Benjie Craige:

I don't see that.

Benjie Craige:

For what I see, what's on my plate, what I need to be doing is supporting them.

Benjie Craige:

If there's things that are on my plate, maybe they need to be

Benjie Craige:

on somebody else's plate, right?

Benjie Craige:

What's on my plate and what are the things that only I can do, right?

Benjie Craige:

As the owner empower, as the owner coming around and empowering the people.

Benjie Craige:

That's the only thing that the owner can do, right?

Benjie Craige:

Whereas, doing paperwork or different things like that.

Benjie Craige:

A lot of that can be done by a lot of people.

Benjie Craige:

Now, there's certain things that only I can do.

Benjie Craige:

Let me prioritize those things.

Benjie Craige:

I've got a notepad here that I use and it's basically got

Benjie Craige:

four quadrants on it, right?

Benjie Craige:

It's got Important, not important, urgent, not urgent, right?

Benjie Craige:

And one of the quadrants is if it's not urgent and not important I wrote like the

Benjie Craige:

thing on my notepad says empower others.

Benjie Craige:

So that means let me train somebody else to do it.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

So that I'm not doing it.

Benjie Craige:

So there's a whole bunch of things.

Benjie Craige:

Or sorry, they're urgent, but not important.

Benjie Craige:

So like they need to get done, but they don't need to get done by me.

Benjie Craige:

And so how do I continually not put things on my plate that maybe they're easy for

Benjie Craige:

me or I want to do, but they take my time, but it isn't the best use of my time.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

That takes a lot of discipline though, right?

Matt Edmundson:

The, with the old, I think they call it the Eisenhower matrix, don't they?

Matt Edmundson:

The one that you're talking to.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, that is what it is.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

And so I, it's, that takes a lot of discipline because sometimes I find I

Matt Edmundson:

don't know if you're like me at all, but sometimes I just think to myself, It's

Matt Edmundson:

probably just easier if I just do it.

Matt Edmundson:

But then I looking back, you go you said the same thing over the last three years.

Matt Edmundson:

You've said the same thing 30 times.

Matt Edmundson:

You should have, if you going back, if you had trained someone

Matt Edmundson:

right at the start, you'd have been a lot better off these days.

Matt Edmundson:

But I can find myself in a situation where I'm just like, I'm just going to do it.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

That's the easiest thing.

Benjie Craige:

And sometimes our tasks You really enjoy doing, but if you start looking at your

Benjie Craige:

ROI on your time, then the amount of time to develop somebody now and the

Benjie Craige:

amount of time that they can do it.

Benjie Craige:

I think things just go really well for the last few weeks, I've actually been doing a

Benjie Craige:

remodel on my house, and there's a couple pieces that I've been working on, and I

Benjie Craige:

actually have not been in the office much the last few weeks, and so I'm letting the

Benjie Craige:

whole team run with everything, and I'm able to focus on getting my house done.

Benjie Craige:

It's where I want it to be because the company is able to run by itself but

Benjie Craige:

that's intentionally taking those things and developing them for the people

Benjie Craige:

around them versus me holding them.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah,

Matt Edmundson:

no, I love it.

Matt Edmundson:

I love it.

Matt Edmundson:

I there are times when I go away and actually quite often these days now,

Matt Edmundson:

which I think is a beautiful thing.

Matt Edmundson:

I can go away, and the company when I come back is in a

Matt Edmundson:

better place than when I left.

Matt Edmundson:

And you go, that's really interesting.

Matt Edmundson:

That's very helpful.

Matt Edmundson:

Thank you for that guys.

Matt Edmundson:

But Michelle, who runs our operations and also to some extent Sadaf as well,

Matt Edmundson:

who is a mutual friend of us will say to me, listen, I know on your notepad,

Matt Edmundson:

you've got 40, 000 good ideas that you thought about when you were away.

Matt Edmundson:

Because when I get space, I'm really, I can get very creative in my thinking.

Matt Edmundson:

I'm like we could do this, or we could do that.

Matt Edmundson:

And if we change this to this, it's going to work so much better.

Matt Edmundson:

They're like, can you please just for the next two weeks, don't tell us anything.

Matt Edmundson:

Let's just carry on.

Matt Edmundson:

And if it's still there in two weeks, let's have a conversation about it.

Matt Edmundson:

Because I found that, or they found actually, when I came back from these sort

Matt Edmundson:

of times away, that I would just bombard them with so much it was very hard to keep

Matt Edmundson:

up with it and to take it all on the chin.

Matt Edmundson:

I don't know if you suffer from that same thing but that's one of the big things

Matt Edmundson:

I now have to watch out for, having a company that I can step away from, is that

Matt Edmundson:

when I come back, I don't get too excited.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah coming up with new ideas is always fun.

Benjie Craige:

And and then, there, there's the my wife went to a conference where they

Benjie Craige:

talked about the wow and the how, right?

Benjie Craige:

She's a big how person, I'm a big wow person, right?

Benjie Craige:

And so the wow is imagine if we did this, and then the next question is how?

Benjie Craige:

And I think there's times to go okay, this is a wow meeting.

Benjie Craige:

We're not implementing it.

Benjie Craige:

Let's just what if and finding places to have that, and then kinda

Benjie Craige:

keeping them there and letting people know okay, this isn't happening.

Benjie Craige:

This is just a time to talk about ideas.

Benjie Craige:

And I think over time as a company develops it's fun when the wow

Benjie Craige:

ideas start coming from the staff.

Benjie Craige:

And they're the ones going, Hey, what if?

Benjie Craige:

Yeah I've got a lady in my office and she messaged me at the beginning of

Benjie Craige:

last week, and she said, Hey can I do something for all the moms who work here,

Benjie Craige:

and to do a little Mother's Day thing?

Benjie Craige:

Yes, yesterday was Mother's Day here in the States.

Benjie Craige:

And I'm like, Yeah, go for it.

Benjie Craige:

And so then she messaged back going what's my budget?

Benjie Craige:

And so I responded back what do you think your budget should be?

Benjie Craige:

And then she gave me a number.

Benjie Craige:

I said, okay, go for it.

Benjie Craige:

And then and then she went and did it, took care of it, had like

Benjie Craige:

everybody in the company sign the card and had a little gift basket

Benjie Craige:

or something for him and did it all.

Benjie Craige:

And that was so beautiful, right?

Benjie Craige:

Like, how do we let them do it all, right?

Benjie Craige:

We don't always have to have the best ideas and when they start

Benjie Craige:

coming up with ideas, then you really know people are bought into

Benjie Craige:

it and they're owning it, right?

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, absolutely.

Matt Edmundson:

No, I'm loving this.

Matt Edmundson:

It reminded me of something we did years ago called Smocks.

Matt Edmundson:

This was something we did in one of our warehouses.

Matt Edmundson:

There was a lady that worked for me at the time called Nicola, who

Matt Edmundson:

affectionately as a family, we call Lala, because our kids, when they

Matt Edmundson:

were younger, couldn't say Nicola.

Matt Edmundson:

So they just called her Lala.

Matt Edmundson:

So the name stuck as it would.

Matt Edmundson:

And beautiful lady.

Matt Edmundson:

We're still very good friends to this day.

Matt Edmundson:

But when she was working with me, she would just have an idea after idea about

Matt Edmundson:

how to make their experience for the customers better, and we were shipping

Matt Edmundson:

out hundreds of boxes every week.

Matt Edmundson:

And so we, we came up between us with this idea of SMOCS which was an acronym

Matt Edmundson:

for sexy moments of customer service.

Matt Edmundson:

And we basically said to Nicola, listen, you've got to, this is your budget.

Matt Edmundson:

I can't remember what it was, but this is your budget.

Matt Edmundson:

It was a nominal budget.

Matt Edmundson:

And during the month, you can spend that budget however you want to

Matt Edmundson:

spend that to create a smock, right?

Matt Edmundson:

You do what you want to do, here's your budget, here's, you don't, you

Matt Edmundson:

know the company, you know the values, you don't need to clear everything

Matt Edmundson:

through me, because we understood at heart, we knew what, the kind of stuff

Matt Edmundson:

she'd come up with before was great.

Matt Edmundson:

And so that's what she did.

Matt Edmundson:

She just would go out and spend money every month and buy things

Matt Edmundson:

to put in these boxes that she was just sending out from the warehouse,

Matt Edmundson:

doing the picking and packing.

Matt Edmundson:

And it transformed what would be quite a mundane job in something quite

Matt Edmundson:

extraordinary because she started to get to recognize customer names and she would

Matt Edmundson:

put in the boxes, handwritten notes, put in gifts, put in Starbucks, gift cards,

Matt Edmundson:

all kinds of stuff that she thought, tried over the years and I loved it because I

Matt Edmundson:

never knew what she was up to from one day to the next but I could tell you the

Matt Edmundson:

reviews on the website, they certainly told you although one time, I'll never

Matt Edmundson:

forget it, we got an email from somebody saying I opened up my box and we were

Matt Edmundson:

selling beauty products at the time and she was like, I opened up my box and I

Matt Edmundson:

think I found part of somebody's lunch here, because Nicola had put chocolate

Matt Edmundson:

in the box and not really explained why the chocolate was in the box,

Matt Edmundson:

which I thought was hysterical.

Matt Edmundson:

But yeah I love that when it comes from the from the staff that's awesome, man.

Matt Edmundson:

That's awesome.

Matt Edmundson:

So where's the, what does more look like for you?

Matt Edmundson:

Where's the business going over the next few years?

Matt Edmundson:

That's

Benjie Craige:

a good question.

Benjie Craige:

So I'm continuing to build and develop the staff and really they're

Benjie Craige:

doing a lot of it themselves.

Benjie Craige:

They're coaching and developing each other.

Benjie Craige:

I love building ecosystems, right?

Benjie Craige:

And like one of my guys on Sunday, no, Saturday, just took

Benjie Craige:

his journeyman test and passed.

Benjie Craige:

And so that was really exciting.

Benjie Craige:

Because one of my other guys was the one coaching and mentoring him, right?

Benjie Craige:

I wasn't doing it.

Benjie Craige:

It was somebody else, right?

Benjie Craige:

And now we've got levels of people coaching and developing other people

Benjie Craige:

versus me coaching and developing.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah, right?

Benjie Craige:

It's building a system.

Benjie Craige:

Think, Are we going to be at 50 people or, are we going to hit some

Benjie Craige:

revenue number or something like that?

Benjie Craige:

I think we have to see how the economy goes, but like I can continue building

Benjie Craige:

my ecosystem, whatever size it is.

Benjie Craige:

And I'm not trying to create a massive company that's going to take over the

Benjie Craige:

world, but I'm trying to create a company that builds and empowers my people, right?

Benjie Craige:

Our vision is cities and people are empowered.

Benjie Craige:

And then our mission is how we build lasting relationships.

Benjie Craige:

So lasting relationships with our customers, lasting relationships with our

Benjie Craige:

employees and with our vendors, right?

Benjie Craige:

And like right now things are really slow in construction in the Bay Area

Benjie Craige:

and we're, we've got about half the guys in the field as we normally do.

Benjie Craige:

So we're in a smaller spot, but what we're focusing on right now is How do we

Benjie Craige:

develop and build our team so that when the next wave comes, we're ready for

Benjie Craige:

it and we can scale and take that work.

Benjie Craige:

Now that said I am a builder, not a maintainer.

Benjie Craige:

So I'm also working on another product, which is a, that's where my new ideas

Benjie Craige:

go into a new product where once, once I've got a team fully built, I'm

Benjie Craige:

developing a piece of software to help contracting businesses run their business.

Benjie Craige:

If you think of the economy most people in America work for a

Benjie Craige:

small business, 500 or smaller.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

Now, if you look at the news, it seems like everybody works for, some

Benjie Craige:

massive company, but that's not true.

Benjie Craige:

And so how do we help the small businesses thrive?

Benjie Craige:

How do we help small businesses thrive?

Benjie Craige:

Contractors thrive.

Benjie Craige:

And I think through a set of tools that we're building that helps

Benjie Craige:

you run your business, I think we can help small contracting

Benjie Craige:

businesses be a lot more healthy.

Benjie Craige:

And then alongside that, I want to working on doing some

Benjie Craige:

coaching and developing as well.

Benjie Craige:

Bringing those pieces of helping people find their purpose

Benjie Craige:

and help them really thrive.

Benjie Craige:

That sounds awesome.

Benjie Craige:

That's a picture forward.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, absolutely.

Matt Edmundson:

And you're getting into software development and that's a whole different

Matt Edmundson:

world of pain right there, right?

Matt Edmundson:

But fun.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah, it's, it, what I'm realizing is that

Benjie Craige:

there's so much that I don't know,

Matt Edmundson:

right?

Benjie Craige:

I'm like, I started one business.

Benjie Craige:

How hard is it gonna be to start another one?

Benjie Craige:

And I'm finding all kinds of new things and I find okay,

Benjie Craige:

I am strong here and here.

Benjie Craige:

I'm not strong here and here.

Benjie Craige:

I need bringing other people in.

Benjie Craige:

And so we've been developing the software for about six years now.

Benjie Craige:

And we've got a couple of customers and over the next couple of years, it's now

Benjie Craige:

to take it from the idea of something that we're run, our company fully runs

Benjie Craige:

on, and then help other companies be able to use it and implement it as well.

Matt Edmundson:

It's interesting how that works.

Matt Edmundson:

At PodJunction, we developed some software for the podcasts that we run

Matt Edmundson:

and it was all in, in house really.

Matt Edmundson:

And I'm a big fan of podcast podcasting as everyone knows, but I do five or

Matt Edmundson:

six different podcasts and we and there were things that were common

Matt Edmundson:

things that we thought if we could just have a piece of software that

Matt Edmundson:

did this, it would be really helpful.

Matt Edmundson:

And so we had it developed.

Matt Edmundson:

And so it's it's interesting, isn't it, when you develop something out of your

Matt Edmundson:

own needs and now we just need to make it, I think function and look better

Matt Edmundson:

because for us, I was never really that bothered about what it looked like.

Matt Edmundson:

It was more the function side of it.

Matt Edmundson:

But now we're do we take this to market?

Matt Edmundson:

Cause it's quite interesting what we've done.

Matt Edmundson:

So we'll just have to trade notes.

Matt Edmundson:

On taking software to market and figure that out.

Matt Edmundson:

What do you do to fill your tank?

Matt Edmundson:

How do you recharge your batteries?

Matt Edmundson:

Because, you've got two companies, two adventurous boys, do a fair bit of

Matt Edmundson:

traveling obviously married, they're in the Bay community, you got, the ups

Matt Edmundson:

and downs of the construction industry.

Matt Edmundson:

So how do you stay sharp?

Matt Edmundson:

How do you stay on top of you go?

Benjie Craige:

I love to start my day out with a walk.

Benjie Craige:

I do about a half hour walk every morning.

Benjie Craige:

It's one and a half miles.

Benjie Craige:

Just walking around the neighborhood, seeing what's going on, seeing some

Benjie Craige:

of the neighbors, things like that.

Benjie Craige:

And that kind of starts my day.

Benjie Craige:

I start with I've walked a little bit, I've moved around and got some fresh air

Benjie Craige:

and kind of been able to meditate on a few things and process through what's

Benjie Craige:

on my mind and then step into things.

Benjie Craige:

Like I said, I love traveling.

Benjie Craige:

That's my passion.

Benjie Craige:

That's one way I love filling my tank.

Benjie Craige:

But then actually working on the house is something I love doing.

Benjie Craige:

I mentioned I'm in the middle of a remodel.

Benjie Craige:

The I think with my, I've got a little ADD, a little dyslexia,

Benjie Craige:

just enough for the to have it.

Benjie Craige:

And I find when I'm doing things with my hands.

Benjie Craige:

It helps me think and process things.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

And so as I'm working on something, I'm able to focus.

Benjie Craige:

I love the idea of being able to sit down with a notepad and do some

Benjie Craige:

serious thinking and stuff like that, but that doesn't work for me.

Benjie Craige:

I just sit there and go I'm wasting my time.

Benjie Craige:

But if I'm building something with my hands, it doesn't take a lot of mental

Benjie Craige:

energy, but I'm doing something physical.

Benjie Craige:

And then I'm really able to focus and process and think through things.

Benjie Craige:

So sometimes, if I've had a frustrating day at the office, I'll just go

Benjie Craige:

clean the warehouse, and I'll be able to process through what I need to

Benjie Craige:

think, because I'm doing something physical, and that actually distracts

Benjie Craige:

my brain enough to be able to focus.

Benjie Craige:

So those are some of the ways that I just engage and process through things

Benjie Craige:

I need to, or if things are really tough, just, take your breather.

Benjie Craige:

Go on a walk, you had a hard meeting or something?

Benjie Craige:

Just go take a walk.

Benjie Craige:

For a couple of my people when it's the first time that they've been involved

Benjie Craige:

in letting somebody go, I say, Hey, alright, just go take a half hour.

Benjie Craige:

Get a breather.

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

And then let's come back to it.

Benjie Craige:

Because, let's get back to a good healthy space and then be able to move on.

Benjie Craige:

Because when you've got 10 tense moments, you need to be able to recharge.

Benjie Craige:

And I think we're all going to get hit, we're all going to go down, right?

Benjie Craige:

But it's You know, how fast can we come back up, right?

Benjie Craige:

Like when something hard happens, is it going to take

Benjie Craige:

you three days to bounce back?

Benjie Craige:

Or is it going to take you a couple hours or something like that?

Benjie Craige:

And how can you find the right ways to recharge to be the best for your team?

Benjie Craige:

Because if you're mad, that's coming out at somebody, right?

Benjie Craige:

And that's not going to be that's not helpful for the team.

Benjie Craige:

So how can you get to a space where you can process what's going through and then

Benjie Craige:

be able to move on with what's going on.

Benjie Craige:

Very good.

Matt Edmundson:

Very good.

Matt Edmundson:

I liked one of the things that one of the good things that

Matt Edmundson:

came out of COVID wasn't it?

Matt Edmundson:

I don't know for you, but for me was just because you were cooped up so

Matt Edmundson:

much more that actually going for the walk was a really good idea, and

Matt Edmundson:

it was a habit that we all got into.

Matt Edmundson:

And just literally a sort of three or four minute walk from my is quite a nice park.

Matt Edmundson:

And it's got a sort of a I guess it's about a 1K track, so just short of a

Matt Edmundson:

mile, all around when you walk around the park, which is not bad for in the city of

Matt Edmundson:

Liverpool, but quite often during COVID, you would see people walking around the

Matt Edmundson:

park, doing all the Zoom calls, walking around with their iPhones in front of

Matt Edmundson:

them or whatever, just doing the calls.

Matt Edmundson:

And I used to be one of them.

Matt Edmundson:

And the other thing that I did was I have an app on my phone called Day One.

Matt Edmundson:

Which is like a journaling app and you can do the thing now, can't you, with

Matt Edmundson:

the iPhone where there's that little microphone on the keyboard and you

Matt Edmundson:

push it and you dictate an effect and it transcribes as you're going along.

Matt Edmundson:

And I would just open up day one and I would just start talking

Matt Edmundson:

and the iPhone would transcribe whatever I was saying straight into

Matt Edmundson:

my journaling app and I found for me it was a brilliant way to journal.

Matt Edmundson:

Trotting around the park, talking into my phone, no one cares because

Matt Edmundson:

they just thought I was on a Zoom call, got headphones in so no one

Matt Edmundson:

really thought any different of it.

Matt Edmundson:

It's all brilliant.

Matt Edmundson:

Accepted behavior that you're going to talk to yourself if

Matt Edmundson:

you've got headphones in now.

Matt Edmundson:

One of the things I have noticed though is and it's not just the

Matt Edmundson:

people that I see, it's me included, is there are less and less people in

Matt Edmundson:

the park doing less and less walks.

Matt Edmundson:

It's like that behavior, that habit has slowly started to disappear again.

Matt Edmundson:

A few years after COVID and I keep, I said it to my wife the other day, I

Matt Edmundson:

keep thinking to myself, I must start doing that thing again, where I walk

Matt Edmundson:

around the park, I do calls walking around the park, I don't need to be in

Matt Edmundson:

a computer, in front of a computer all the time, Zoom records every call now.

Matt Edmundson:

You can just have the whole thing transcribed, I don't need to take

Matt Edmundson:

notes and so on and so forth.

Matt Edmundson:

And I like the fact that you're doing that.

Matt Edmundson:

You still got that habit.

Matt Edmundson:

Was that something you discovered in COVID or is that something you've always done?

Benjie Craige:

I started a little bit before that but COVID was a

Benjie Craige:

real help and, I took a lot more calls walking during COVID because

Benjie Craige:

I was bored of being in my house.

Benjie Craige:

And my front porch actually ended up being my office because with two kids

Benjie Craige:

on online school and my wife working as well, our house filled up pretty fast.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

But I think creating rhythms is really important, I think.

Benjie Craige:

And for me, waking up, I read a little bit, meditate, and then walk, right?

Benjie Craige:

And just spend some time just resetting.

Benjie Craige:

And there's days that I don't do it, I miss it those days.

Benjie Craige:

And I want to, I get back to it.

Benjie Craige:

And we can't get more time and so we end up our time gets

Benjie Craige:

sucked up in all kinds of things.

Benjie Craige:

And so how are we going to use our time intentionally and create

Benjie Craige:

some space for us to recharge.

Benjie Craige:

And then we actually have something to do.

Benjie Craige:

Give others, right?

Benjie Craige:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

If we start at zero, then we may not be best for the people around us.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Benjie Craige:

It's that whole

Matt Edmundson:

sharpening the so thing, isn't it?

Matt Edmundson:

And I totally agree with you and it's what I've noticed for me, those habits

Matt Edmundson:

are easy to let go of when life gets busy.

Matt Edmundson:

And actually probably when life gets busy there, the some of the

Matt Edmundson:

key habits I should keep doing.

Matt Edmundson:

And it's easier to sit here and say that, and it's another thing

Matt Edmundson:

to do something about it, isn't it?

Matt Edmundson:

I'm aware of time, man, and I feel like we're just getting started in

Matt Edmundson:

many ways, but if people wanted to reach out to you, if they wanted to

Matt Edmundson:

connect with you, maybe they're in the Bay Area, maybe they just need some

Matt Edmundson:

electrical work doing and they're in the Bay Area but whatever it is, how

Matt Edmundson:

do, what's the best way to do that?

Benjie Craige:

I'm on all those socials, B E N J I E.

Benjie Craige:

Craig CRAIG You can find me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, any of those places.

Benjie Craige:

Just message me and we can chat.

Matt Edmundson:

Fantastic.

Matt Edmundson:

We will of course link to Benjie.

Matt Edmundson:

With an ie.

Matt Edmundson:

In the show notes, which you can, you'll get on the podcast app, whatever

Matt Edmundson:

way, whatever you are listening to they'll be in there as well.

Matt Edmundson:

Follow the links go connect with Benjie and say, how's it Benjie, listen

Matt Edmundson:

man, it's been an absolute joy to connect with you and chat with you.

Matt Edmundson:

Love to hearing your thoughts.

Matt Edmundson:

Love to hear what's going on with the company as well.

Matt Edmundson:

And one day maybe we'll get to connect in person.

Matt Edmundson:

Sad thinks you're a really cool person.

Matt Edmundson:

By the way, Sadaf's the producer of this show, if you're listening to you, again,

Matt Edmundson:

who's Sadaf, she produces this show.

Matt Edmundson:

As you will hear me say in the end credits, but she's

Matt Edmundson:

Oh yeah, Benjie's coming on.

Matt Edmundson:

He's a really cool guy.

Matt Edmundson:

So she's a big fan.

Matt Edmundson:

Thank you so much for having me.

Matt Edmundson:

It's been great.

Matt Edmundson:

No, it's been fantastic.

Matt Edmundson:

Brilliant.

Matt Edmundson:

Wow.

Matt Edmundson:

Thank you again, Benjie, for coming on.

Matt Edmundson:

That wraps up another invigorating conversation.

Matt Edmundson:

A massive round of applause.

Matt Edmundson:

Oh, I can do this.

Matt Edmundson:

Hang on.

Matt Edmundson:

Let me do this.

Matt Edmundson:

Yes, there we go.

Matt Edmundson:

Big, massive round of applause for joining us.

Matt Edmundson:

And Shedding Light on his inspiring journey has been great.

Matt Edmundson:

Huge thanks also to today's champion sponsor Podjunction for all you

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change makers out there contemplating podcasting as your new vehicle

Matt Edmundson:

of expression and connection.

Matt Edmundson:

Do check with them.

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Do seriously check with them.

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com and check out actually Sadaf has just started her own little podcast

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called Podjunction, which is brilliant.

Matt Edmundson:

Actually do check that out.

Matt Edmundson:

Now, remember, keep pushing to be more.

Matt Edmundson:

Don't forget to follow this show wherever you get your podcasts

Matt Edmundson:

from, because we've got some more great conversations coming up and I

Matt Edmundson:

don't want you to miss any of them.

Matt Edmundson:

And in case no one has told you yet today, let me be the first.

Matt Edmundson:

You are awesome.

Matt Edmundson:

Yes, you are created.

Matt Edmundson:

Awesome.

Matt Edmundson:

It's just a burden you have got to bear.

Matt Edmundson:

Benjie's got to bear it.

Matt Edmundson:

I've gotta bear it.

Matt Edmundson:

You've gotta bear it as well.

Matt Edmundson:

Now push to be more is brought to you, like I say by PodJunction

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for transcripts and show notes.

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Push to be more.com and a big kudos to the team that makes this show possible,

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which is the legendary Sadaf Beynon on who we were talking about and also Tanya

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Hutsuliak and also shout out to Josh Edmundson for the fantastic theme music.

Matt Edmundson:

So from Benjie and from me thank you so much for joining us.

Matt Edmundson:

Have a fantastic week wherever you are in the world.

Matt Edmundson:

I'll see you next time.

Matt Edmundson:

Bye for now.

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