Waiting for the perfect scenario can get in the way of making any progress at all!
Quote for the episode: "There's never going to be a perfect time because action today means that you're probably a little less likely to be eating that snail down the road." (03:50)
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Joseph Okaly:Hello, and welcome once again. Thanks for joining
Joseph Okaly:me today on the Enjoy More 30s Family Finance podcast and our
Joseph Okaly:series, The Financial Parables of Your Life. As you are
Joseph Okaly:probably now accustomed to each week, I'm sharing what may
Joseph Okaly:likely be a somewhat altered version of story that you're
Joseph Okaly:already familiar with. Working in kind of a financial twist to
Joseph Okaly:the familiar because stories are easier to remember than me
Joseph Okaly:badgering on about something or other to do with money. So
Joseph Okaly:hopefully these stories have a better chance of staying in your
Joseph Okaly:mind and staying with you day to day so that you can take some
Joseph Okaly:positive steps forward. As always, before I begin, please
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Joseph Okaly:help as many young families out there that are just like you.
Joseph Okaly:So today please join me for our story, The Master Heron. A heron
Joseph Okaly:was walking sedately along the banks of a stream, his eyes on
Joseph Okaly:the clear water and his long neck and pointed bill ready to
Joseph Okaly:snap up a likely morsel for his breakfast. The clear waters
Joseph Okaly:swarmed with fish, but master heron was hard to please. "No
Joseph Okaly:small fry for me", he said, "such scanty fare is not fit for
Joseph Okaly:a heron." Now a fine young perch swam near. "No indeed", said the
Joseph Okaly:Heron, "I wouldn't even trouble to open my beak for anything
Joseph Okaly:like that." As the sun rose, the fish left the shallow water near
Joseph Okaly:the shore, and swam below into the cool depths towards the
Joseph Okaly:middle. The Heron saw no more fish and very glad was he last
Joseph Okaly:at breakfast on a very tiny snail.
Joseph Okaly:Too many times waiting for the perfect scenario can very much
Joseph Okaly:get in the way of making any progress at all. We wait, we
Joseph Okaly:hold out, "if this could just happen, then then I would be
Joseph Okaly:ready." Now right now today is almost always better than
Joseph Okaly:perfect. This comes up countless times when I'm working with
Joseph Okaly:families. The biggest time is just reaching out in the first
Joseph Okaly:place to making the call. Making that first contact. I'll hear a
Joseph Okaly:lot of "you know, I wanted to save up more before I reached
Joseph Okaly:out. I didn't know if I had enough yet to speak to you, you
Joseph Okaly:know, you probably have much bigger clients." So the question
Joseph Okaly:I always ask is "How do you think those clients got to be
Joseph Okaly:bigger?" With help, right? It's a catch 22 that we think that
Joseph Okaly:you know, we need to have some massive amount to have some help
Joseph Okaly:from an advisor, somebody else out there yet most people that
Joseph Okaly:you would say, "hey, they're doing really well, they have a
Joseph Okaly:lot built up". They probably had help, they probably reached out
Joseph Okaly:to somebody in the first place. And it comes up with other
Joseph Okaly:things too, like life insurance. "Well, yeah, I'm not at my ideal
Joseph Okaly:health right now. So I'll just wait a little bit until I get
Joseph Okaly:there." In the meantime, though, your family is severely exposed,
Joseph Okaly:severely under insured, unprotected, and this mentality
Joseph Okaly:from what I can see or have seen in my job can last many years.
Joseph Okaly:So get out there, get the policy now and then when you get in
Joseph Okaly:better health, go get a new one to replace it. Easy peasy.
Joseph Okaly:Saving towards yourself can be another common example. I just
Joseph Okaly:want to buy this or that first, then then I'll really start to
Joseph Okaly:save I'm still young, right? I have time. Well, you put it off
Joseph Okaly:for a year and then two years and it could be a few $100,000
Joseph Okaly:less you have now for retirement because this money has 30 to 40
Joseph Okaly:years to be growing and building off of itself. $1,000 today is
Joseph Okaly:not $1,000 40 years from now, it's a lot more. So overall,
Joseph Okaly:don't wait to be perfect. There's never going to be a
Joseph Okaly:perfect time because action today means that you're probably
Joseph Okaly:a little less likely to be eating that snail down the road.
Joseph Okaly:Thanks for tuning in today and join us for next week's story,
Joseph Okaly:The Fisherman and the Little Fish. Yes. So some more fish
Joseph Okaly:back to back fish but you know Aesop loved his seafood
Joseph Okaly:analogies. So what can I tell you? I hope you've enjoyed
Joseph Okaly:today's story. Please remember to review and share for others.
Joseph Okaly:And if you need any help, don't hesitate in reaching out. I
Joseph Okaly:probably have helped someone just like you. Until next week.
Joseph Okaly:Thanks for joining me today and I look forward to connecting
Joseph Okaly:with you again soon.
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