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Ep.35 From heartbreak and being unemployed to happiness and fulfillment.
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Today enjoy this wonderful chat I had with Clinton Johannsson.

He went through so much pain and disappointment and was able to pull himself out of the funk and into success and happiness

In this Interview Clinton will share very precious tools that he used to get himself to a better place

VERY VALUABLE FOR EVERYBODY out there who feels discouraged and powerless at times.

Today Clinton is helping many people out there with their finances.

He is a fabulous networker and truly cares about a persons literacy and wellbeing when it comes to : financial health

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Hello, hello, and welcome to the Borealis

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experience. I'm so happy to be spending some time with you

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today. And very excited to be sharing an interview with mouse.

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He wants to share his story how he was stuck in pain and misery

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and depression for so long. But then got out of it step by step

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and is now living a life where he attracts more and more people

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that are in alignment with him. He has a job that fulfills them

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and make him feel really good. He's able to help people when it

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comes to their finances. And yeah, was able to get out of the

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struggle. And I reached out to him, because I feel it's very

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valuable to hear stories like that, especially when you are

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still stuck in pain and misery. Or if you feel better, but you

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want to find like minded people. This is what my platform is

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about. I'm all about showcasing or Yeah, picking out guys that I

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feel are awesome role models, people that if I had kids, I

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want them to look up to. There's too many bullies and aggression

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out there who are in power and in focusing and putting our

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attention on. Good guys. So to say guys who went through

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hardship, and are living from the heart now, I feel we can

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make this world a better place. So here we go, mouse. It's your

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show from now on. And, yeah, share your story with us where

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it all began.

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Sure. I mean, first of all, thanks for having me. It's

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awesome. I've listened to a couple of your podcasts. And I

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really liked them so far. So appreciate you having me on

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today. So I'm looking forward to spending some time with you.

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So I guess we'll start

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a long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away. I grew up in a

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mall town of 600 people, so v ry small hick town, farmer

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own.

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And I, you know, had a really good growing up, but you know,

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nothing too bad or nothing like that. I played lots of sports

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and hockey, you know, lots of outdoor activities, all that

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good stuff. up to the age of 16. You know, I got into

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skateboarding and snowboarding. So I kind of quit hockey, I had

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some, you know, issues there. I was always picked on in high

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school. You know, I was the skateboarder kid in town, or you

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know, people that were you know, had money or preppies, we call

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them anyways. I mean, I was always nice and friendly, but I

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didn't you know, I wasn't in part of that clip kind of deal.

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So I was kind of like the black sheep, which was fine. I was

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okay with that. I was I had a happy growing, growing up all

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that good stuff. And then, when I was 18, you know, I decided to

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go to go to college somewhere. And I didn't really think about

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it. I just knew I was really good with numbers. I did really

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well in high school, I was an honor student in most classes,

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and really good with numbers and stuff like that. And I like to

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draw, not that I was an artist, but no drawing on the computer

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and drafting and stuff like that. So I was interested in

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that. So I went jumped straight into high college from high

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school, went to Nate and Edmonton and I took design

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adopting engineering. And I got a job as a mechanical engineer,

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technologist. And later on I you know, I did that for 16 years,

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and I became a professional technologist. So that was great,

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but we'll go jump back a bit there to my younger years. So

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you know, when I moved to Edmonton, I actually got really,

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really good at snowboarding. And I got recognized. So I got a

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couple store sponsors within Edmonton, you know, I go to all

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the contests, jump contests and handrail contests in Edmonton,

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and then I would probably get the top five every time. One

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year I actually went every single contest I went in, which

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was pretty cool.

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I went into some contests in Jasper and ferny and Lake

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Louise, those areas I placed first tied for second and third.

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And some of those so like I said, I was I had a really

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successful career, you know, snowboarding and it was really

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fun, but you know, it didn't pay the bills. So I always had my

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serious career as a mechanical engineer, technologist. And

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things are going great. You know, I was having a good time

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in my young 20s I go to the bar, I'd meet lots of people. I spent

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a lot of time on the bar. I won't lie. But you know, I

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played a lot of pool so I wouldn't go to the bar to drink

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and party I'd go to play pool pretty much but I went a lot so

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I did end up getting really good that pool and I play in a pool

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league right now as well.

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But I, you know, my young 20s I had a great life, you know, I

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was unstoppable, felt undefeated, I was, you know,

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great health, um, and life was good. And then, you know, I fell

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in love with a girl younger.

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That didn't turn out how heartbroken I was. I'm a very

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emotional reactive person. So you know, I wear my heart on my

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sleeve. So I had my heart broken at a young age. And then around

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age 25, I had another girl that I fell in love with, that didn't

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turn out very well. And I mean, some friends got involved, and

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it was not a good situation. So I kind of stepped away from from

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dating.

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And then, you know, a couple years later, like, 1015 years

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later, I reconnected with a girl. And we started dating

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again, and she had a child and she's someone I really liked

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beforehand. It just didn't work out. So I gave her a second try.

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Um, this happened around 2015 when oil crashed.

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So I ended up by, you know, mean her data for two years. And it

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didn't end very well, you know, she was that type of person. I'm

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not, no, I don't want to sit here and badmouth anybody, it

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just, she just wasn't a good person to me or anything in my

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life. She was very

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negative, and kind of, I don't know, like I said, I don't want

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to bad mouth here. But after that relationship, you know, I

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was heartbroken. And I kind of think I had some type of post

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traumatic stress syndrome come from that, because anytime I met

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a girl, like, four months later, I met a girl and I just I get

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bad anxiety to my stomach. And I start to feel like throwing up

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and stuff, and I got to get out of that situation. So I didn't

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handle dating very well. So I just stayed single, because the

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best way to avoid drama is staying single. I mean, I I've

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always wanted to fall in love. But I found the pain of having

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my heart broken was way worse than any love I've ever felt. So

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to me, being single and staying away from girls, maybe hobby, if

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I, if I, you know, became happy, learn to be happy with myself

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being single. And you know, I've always liked being with a girl

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like my ex girlfriend, like we were together every single day,

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we were best friends. And that was great. But the pain of you

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know, not her not wanting me ever again kind of deal and her

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moving on and stuff. I just couldn't handle it. Um, at that

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time, the oil crashed, and I was laid off after 16 years with my

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job. So I wasn't in a very good emotional state.

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Our economy in Alberta was the worst it's ever been since I've

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ever been alive.

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We've had some bad times. But this is the worst because I went

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two years for searching for a job and couldn't find nothing in

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life. You

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know, I even look for work in other fields. But because of my

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experience, and the wage I was working before and my workflow

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background, you know, they were saying, why do we hire you if

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you're just going to jump back into the oil when it picks up?

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Because that was the thought going around? Right?

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So I couldn't find a job for two years. So I mean, I did leave

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with a severance package for my job. You know, I was debt free,

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financially good. I had a mortgage and a nice car. But I

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couldn't find work for two years, I got a nice severance

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package. So I use this smartly. I was always good with money.

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And finances. Like I said, I was debt free. And then during that

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two years of not working, I you know, I was looking for work, I

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sent over 200 job applications probably had about 12 or 13

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interviews, maybe things just weren't going my way. So I

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pretty much spent two years doing nothing but saving money

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looking for work. And I'm staying away from people I just

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I wasn't very sociable anymore. I was that type of person, I'd

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love to see my friends and family, I would talk my ear off.

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Whenever I see them. I was just that social, sociable type of

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person. But those years when I was when I had a heartbreak and

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loss, my joy just didn't feel like talking to anybody. So I

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became a hermit. And I mean, which was great because you

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know, it was gave me time to heal. Although, you know, my

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finances kind of dwindle, I start going into debt, because I

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couldn't find work. And life just I didn't know what to do.

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Um, I wasn't like too concerned about it. But I knew I wasn't

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heading in the right direction. So I started looking at other

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opportunities. And my mom was helping me out. She works in

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finance. She's a bookkeeper. And she came across this one ad for

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a finance career. And she wanted to check it out. And before she

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sat down with them and found out what it was all about, she

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invited me to come.

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So I went check it out. And it was a financial broker,

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financial advisor, and to be 100% honest, so with my

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engineering career of 16 years, probably after about eight or 10

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years, I started thinking like, do I really want to be doing

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engineering the same job for the rest of my life? Like I didn't

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get a promotion, I kept getting, you know, more money, more

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responsibility, but I pretty much did the exact same job for

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16 years. So I was getting old.

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You know, what am I going to do with my life and I mean, I

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wasn't looking

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changed, I was just having these thoughts and I, you know,

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started the dream, what would I like to do, if I ever found the

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ideal job, and I've always liked helping people like meeting and

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talking to people. So I came up with an idea to start a company

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like Google.

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So instead of you typing in searching for things, you could

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just call me. You know,

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if I knew a plumber, or I knew, you know, I had so much

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experience in my life, you know, driving around the city, the

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fastest way to get here, there, I always thought it would be a

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good idea that I could, you know, if someone wanted any type

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of advice, like, they could call me, but, you know, I was just

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daydreaming kind of deal. Um, and then, you know, I got laid

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off, which was, to me, it was the best thing ever, I felt like

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this big weight lifted off me because I knew I was getting a

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severance package. And I wasn't sure if this was the job or, or

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type of career I wanted to do for the rest of my life. And I

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found out shortly after that, that that job that I was with

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for 16 years, you know, the oil industry was a very poisonous

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atmosphere, very negative.

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But I didn't realize that I didn't know I always thought I

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was a positive person. But you know, at that point, people

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started saying that I was being a little bit negative, and I

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didn't know, you know, didn't know what's going on. So

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anyways, whenever I found this new career, and I thought it was

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great, because it actually had a lot of the ideas in place that I

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wanted to do when I was brainstorming at my old job.

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With my new financial job, you know, I'd cover many areas in

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finance. Um, you know, like, I do so many different things that

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I'm kind of like your one stop shop for everything financial.

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So now, I had that idea of giving people advice. If they

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needed something, they could just call me. Now I am that

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person. They need advice on anything financial, you know,

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I'm an expert now, so I can help them, which is great. But

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another part of my business, too, is meeting people

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networking. So I just like meeting other people, not

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necessarily for business, but just to make connections, but by

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making connections with other people's and their businesses.

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When I talk to a client and say, I'm sitting down doing some

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finances, but I never say Oh, your your kitchen isn't

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finished, what are you doing or doing some renovations, like,

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Hey, you know what I know a guy that can help you. And so that

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idea of being the go to person helping people out was just,

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this is just awesome. So I've really loved my career. I've

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been doing it for almost four years now. Now another thing

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about this career that I like is it provided a very positive

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motivational atmosphere 100% 180% different are no 180

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degrees different from my engineering job. And the

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negative poisonous environment. This is you know, you bring

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people up honestly, if you're not our office, and nobody high

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fives you within five minutes is weird. Like, that's the type of

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positivity people always happy to see, you know, if you need

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help people there. So just being getting out of the bar scene

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hanging out with a lot of those acquaintances, I thought were my

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friends. You know, they were not necessarily driving me down, but

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they weren't really serving me any greater purpose. Now, with

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my new career, you know, I'm hanging out with very successful

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people, people with dreams, people, visions, people that

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want to make a difference in the world. I started realizing, hey,

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you know, that was how I used to think. So now, no, being just

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around different associations was first step for me of healing

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and being better. Now, I just, you know, I had a place to be I

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belonged, I was starting to get happy, I was actually, you know,

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I tell this within my company all the time, you know, I've

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changed my life. I've been happier now than I've ever been

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in my entire life, which is awesome.

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But that's only part of it. So within my company, you know,

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we're always developing and looking or looking for good

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people. Because we want to develop leaders, you know,

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people to be role models, or, you know, if you're going to be

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running a business and running a team of people, you've got to

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be, you know, a very good person of credibility, you know,

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integrity, all that good stuff. So personal development within

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my company is highly recommended. So we do lots of

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classes, lots of teaching, you know, recommendations on stuff

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like that. So I got into personal loans. So first of all,

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I hated to read books, I hated reading period.

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So reading books tend to struggle. So I didn't do that

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for the first couple of years of my business. Um, they kept

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bugging me and I kept saying, Oh, I get it all. But I said,

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the reading aspect, so I didn't do it, you know. And then

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finally, I started finding books that I wanted to read, not

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necessarily, you know, the act of reading, but the stuff in the

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books that I'm going to learn and I started to like that a lot

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more than the actual act of reading. So now I like reading a

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little bit better. Like I was painfully I'd read 10 pages and

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probably an hour, an hour and a half, because I kind of have a

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little bit of ADHD maybe a little bit. So I read a couple

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pages and forget what I was thinking. So that's why I've

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never liked reading. But now that I'm liking the information

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I'm reading about and taking it in, I'm starting to really like

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reading. So I've been reading a lot of personal development

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books, a lot to do with my business, my industry, but a lot

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of it has to do with mindset, too.

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Our company, we don't just help people with lifestyle or with

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finances, we help them with lifestyle. So you know, if if

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they aren't eating healthier stuff like that, you know,

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that's the type of stuff we don't, you know, we are not paid

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to do that. But that's the type of lifestyle that we're,

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what's it called, that's the type of lifestyle they want us

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to have. Because it doesn't, you know, you're not happier when

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you eat healthier, and all that good stuff. So, you know, I

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started reading books and getting better at that. And then

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I read a couple books that changed my life.

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There they are books by Dr. Joe dispenza.

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The ones called becoming supernatural. So read them in

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the wrong order. I read becoming supernatural. And I'm now on a

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book called breaking the habit of being yourself.

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And they talk about it's the science behind meditation and

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why it works. Which was awesome. You know, I always thought

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meditation like and I'm not religious, I don't really

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believe in spiritual stuff. Although I've had weird

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encounters, where now I'm starting to believe it, but in

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these books, explains the science behind them. And I'm a

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science and numbers guy. So it relates a lot to me. So now I

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understand, you know why meditation works. And all this

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stuff, I started to be more aware of my brain is changing my

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mindset, and a different person. In doing so with reading his

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books, he teaches you how you can become trapped in a past

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present loop, meaning you're letting your your past emotions

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and memories influenced the way you feel now, and that manifests

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some of the same stuff in the future. So if you're negative

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attitude, you're gonna manifest negative stuff, it's because

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you're trapped in a kind of tight, weird loop. So I started

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to understand that and started to, you know, learn the science

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behind why that happens, I'm not going to go into too much

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detail, because there's a lot to it. It could be confusing, but

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you know, just first step is being aware. So the kind of some

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summarize, or kind of what I got from these couple books so far,

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is

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once you become aware of what you're thinking and what you're

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doing, you can actually control your future, you can control how

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you're going to feel so the way that it works is most people

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live in survival mode. They're not aware that you know, their

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brain is so powerful, they just live on survival instincts.

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Survival Mode is what it's called. It's you know, that's

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living with your past memories, emotions being attached to your

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past, and all that stuff. So what it does is it changes your,

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your circuitry in your body to do the same, some of the same

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that you did in the past. So now that you're now that I'm aware

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of my mindset, and that I can actually break these habits of

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being my old self, I can learn how to create a new future.

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So just being happy. You know, gratitude. Meditation has been

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wonders for me. And I, like not lying at all. I started

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meditating in November, and I seen instant results in my life.

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I started attracting good things in my life. I was had that

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mindset for years where I thought, you know, this world

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sucks. Why is everything bad always happened to me? Stuff

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like that. I was like, not that I was a victim. It was more

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like, why'd Why am I living in life in hardmode.

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And I just had those thoughts. But now after starting

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meditating, I'm starting to learn how to manifest and bring

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good things into my life. And things are starting to roll

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really well now. So like I said, My business is way better than

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it's ever been, and we happier than I've ever been. And I'm

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just so grateful for all the books that I have read. And you

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know, I'm looking forward to the books I'm going to read. I'm

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looking forward to meeting my future self, because I know now

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that I'm on the right path now that I've learned how to dream

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again, how to, you know, have a vision and goals for the future,

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I'm going to achieve them and now I feel you know,

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unstoppable, I feel happier, more in control of my life than

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I've ever been. And it's great. You know, the biggest thing

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about having a good life is you got to be you got to be thankful

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you got up gratitude, you have to project happy thoughts in

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your brain, you got to kind of force yourself to be happy. Does

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that tell you break your phone can be native, once you start

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getting into the habit of that, you know, you'll be happier,

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life will get better. But you got to continually work on it.

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It's not something you can leave because if you let your life go

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back to autopilot, you know, you'll pull back to those same

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things. You always have to you know, put effort into being

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happy, being positive, make a difference in the world. You

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know, you can't just make yourself be happy, but you can

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prepare yourself for the day. So my meditations I do them first

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thing in the morning.

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I'm very reactive person. So what my meditations helped me do

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is all are first of all, you know, think about things in the

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future. I want to be healthy in the future. Be grateful for the

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future I'm going to have but also it prepares me for the day.

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So, you know if I got to drive somewhere and be like, Oh,

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great, I gotta go into city traffic. Someone's going to cut

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me off. I'm going to get road rage and get mad. You know, so I

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prepared

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myself for the day, you know, negative things are gonna

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happen, just be happy, don't worry about it. And now you

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know, I'm a little bit less carefree if I go driving, I'm

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you know, instead of giving that guy a finger, I'll be like, Oh,

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he must be having a bad day. And oh, wait, you know what, you

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just change your mindset. Because once you change your

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mindset, your life starts falling through with the same

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stuff. So,

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um, yeah, I guess that's kind of most of it.

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I'm not sure if I missed anything else, or anything like

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that. But yeah, that's kind of the gist of my story so far. So

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this is so beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing all this.

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And being vulnerable here with us,

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is very inspiring, and empowering. And I can also see

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how you're becoming more resilient with your practices.

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With the experiences you attract into your life now, you will be

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able to trust again and one day, soon, probably be able to open

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your heart again and be open for dating, maybe not that it should

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be a goal. But it can be something that you want to try

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out again, and then with a different Yeah, mindset with a

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different approach mindset.

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Yeah.

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So you talked about the books that you read that changed your

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mind about meditation? How was it for your family, your family

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sounds like, very supportive of you like from the beginning, but

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they must have noticed the change.

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I think I want to talk about

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feeling lonely at times with the new part like that you have you

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said acquaintances that kind of fell off? Because maybe they

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couldn't relate to you anymore? Or you to them? How was it

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within your family? Did they see Oh, yeah, this is what needed to

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happen. And this is good, or was it scary for them at times?

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Well, for them, it was more they were going through their own

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stuff. So it wasn't like we were very supportive of each other.

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We're like, we just weren't aware of each other.

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Um, now that I live in the city, you know, I live two hours away

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from most of my family, so I don't see them as much anymore.

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So yeah, there's, there's not much to that they're I mean,

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they're, they are doing their own struggles, and I'm trying to

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help my mom my best with, you know, everything I've learned,

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like when my mom is going through some stuff right now,

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and I'm thinking the stuff that I'm reading right now, would do

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her very well. Um,

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so I'm starting to now that I read these books, and they've

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changed my life. Now I want to, you know, give these books to my

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families and friends who might, you know, I think might need

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them and stuff. So,

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yeah, yeah, that's beautiful. And everybody heals at their own

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time. I know, for myself that I used to get very impatient when

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I saw someone in pain, and they just didn't want to read that

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book. And they just didn't want to be aware of their toxic

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behavior that was kind of self destructive.

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Like, we can only offer and communicate and maybe live by

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example, and then see what other people do. And they will heal

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and grow at their own time.

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So if we think about people who are listening, who might just go

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through depression, or being laid off, what is the tool? Or

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what is the, like, advice, closing advice that you would

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love to give them in order to not give up?

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Yeah, so I mean, maybe my situation is a little bit

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different from others, because I do know, you know, some mental

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illnesses Can't be helped.

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Some people need to go on medication and stuff. But before

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you make that diagnosis, you know, check your environment,

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check the people you're hanging out with which associations, you

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know what, because it'll probably a lot of them are

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negative,

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aren't serving you any well. So first of all, check out your

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association.

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And then second of all, you got to be aware of

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your own consciousness in this world. So what I mean by that is

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you got to be aware that you're hurting or you're a negative

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person, or you're doing this or that you got to be aware of all

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the bad trades, because the first step to changing or

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getting better is first being aware and pointing it out. So

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maybe you got to do some self reflection, you know, why, you

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know, why? why are people negative to me all the time? or

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Why do I seem negative all the time? You just you got to figure

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that out? And then once you figure it out, then you can you

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know, of course correct, or try and figure out why it's going on

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kind of deal. So I mean, the biggest thing I've learned in my

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life is pretty

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First off, you know, because I do get a little bit of anxiety,

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sometimes, you know that feeling of helplessness, helplessness.

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But what helps me is, you know, you're not in any immediate

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danger. The biggest lesson I've learned in my life is patience.

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You know, even with a breakup with my ex girlfriends, or

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whatever, Time heals all you will be, you will get better,

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you won't die, things will get better just take time, you just

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got to allow yourself that time.

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You got to allow yourself to heal, you got to figure out

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what's wrong, understand it, and then take the steps to heal. And

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a lot of it a lot of is change. I mean, if you're doing the same

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things all the time, you're attracting the same things in

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your life, maybe there's something in your life, you need

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to change.

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So that's a big thing. And a lot of people are just scared of

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change, they don't want to change or it's uncomfortable. I

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mean, I'm not saying we I don't like change, it takes a lot of

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energy to change something. So if something doesn't need to be

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changed, I just don't want to deal with it. Right? I don't

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want to change it. But, you know, some things do need to

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change. And you do need to understand it does take a lot of

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time, a lot of energy to change. So you know, just be patient,

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give yourself time.

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You know, try to be grateful for what you have right now, that

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helps a lot. A lot of the stuff I've been eating kind of shows

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the power of projecting positive thoughts into your brain. So

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it's like tricking your brain into being happy ahead of time.

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And then eventually your brain will be open to that, and you'll

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just be happy.

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Yeah, very good. Very good advice. Thank you so much for

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making the time today and sharing your story and the tools

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that you use to feel better and be a beautiful, confident human

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being not out there helping other people. Thank you, for my

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listeners to supporting our show here and sharing and reviewing.

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I'm always curious to hear what you think. And yeah, just leave

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a comment or a review. And I will be out there very soon

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again, and maybe Clinton audience mouse will be

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on with financial support, I was thinking of making an episode

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with you, where you can share maybe a couple things that

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you've learned that people can just start using right now and

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being more financially healthy.

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Yeah, that'll be great. Because I mean, you know, looking at

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your financial health, it's almost the same as your

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lifestyle, your your mindset and stuff, you know, yeah, you've

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got to be aware of where you're at. And if you want to have a

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better future, you got to start putting effort into it. So I

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mean, you know, well, we can get into that later. But it's, you

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know, I think it's the same way if you're your lifestyle, as

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your finances, you know, your financial health, you got to put

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some effort into it. You got to be feeding good things into your

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finances in order to you know, create wealth and protect your

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wealth.

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Well, thank you so much for listening to this beautiful

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interview with Clinton Johansen here. And I'm excited to be

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posting a new interview with him soon where we talk a little bit

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more about financial health. I think we can all learn a little

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more about money, how money works and how we can make money

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work for us. So have a beautiful rest of your day. And we will be

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out there very soon again. Thank you.

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