In this week’s episode, we talk about what we had planned for this week. Annnnd how we decided to do something different. Jane discusses how a virus (not Covid) knocked her flat for the past 10 days and Jen talks about how she is feeling an urge to let go of documents, files, paperwork, and more, from her past. There is a real calling to go inward right now, so we are encouraging you all to prioritize self-care, highlight inner reflection, and see what comes up for you.
We refer to the Lee Harris Energy update for January 2022 - links are below.
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Jen Lang:Hi, everybody, and welcome back to another episode
Jen Lang:of no halos here with Jen Lang and Jane Stark. This is our
Jen Lang:first recorded episode in 2022. So it's kind of exciting. And
Jen Lang:we've called it not what we had planned because it literally has
Jen Lang:not been what we had planned. So don't dive into that. What what
Jen Lang:did you not have planned to Jane? That?
Unknown:Yeah, right. Well, as you may be able to tell from my
Unknown:voice, I have been really ill. Since December 30, I think and
Unknown:it's now what January 7, we're recording this is not what I had
Unknown:planned at all. It's not COVID It was some other slew that
Unknown:really took me out. So yeah, Jen and I were just joking about. We
Unknown:had, we did have some episode ideas mapped out and things that
Unknown:we just kind of like, man, we're not really feeling those topics
Unknown:right now. And we've been doing a lot of just kind of inward
Unknown:work and reflecting on what January, you know, has and
Unknown:listening to some of the people that we follow, and what's the
Unknown:energy of 2022. And so we're like, let's just throw it out
Unknown:and go with something that we didn't have planned. And let's
Unknown:share kind of our thoughts on what's what we feel is here for
Unknown:January, February, maybe, you know, energy and what we're
Unknown:picking up on what we've learned from the people that we follow
Unknown:and bring it to you guys. Yeah. So yeah, there's my nasal Lee.
Jen Lang:I'll take over on recording. I think that, uh,
Jen Lang:obviously, Jane, you did not plan to be ill at were as sick
Jen Lang:as you were. And I think, but you told me like we I think,
Jen Lang:hang on, let me back up here. As I riff on these words, so when I
Jen Lang:was boxing with you earlier this week, we sort of made the
Jen Lang:connection that you had had this massage at the end of the year,
Jen Lang:and you had set this intention to release 2021
Unknown:Did I know what I was? What I was unleashing,
Jen Lang:probably a few hours later, your body's like, okay,
Jen Lang:game on, that it's kind of led to that illness piece. And I'm
Jen Lang:wondering if other people who have experienced either illness
Jen Lang:or who had maybe has set an intention to let go of 2021 and
Jen Lang:then became ill, or became sicker than they might have
Jen Lang:been? Or maybe nothing at all happened, we just want to let
Jen Lang:you know that that is completely normal, and that it's not
Jen Lang:unusual. And that that kind of falls into that phrase, or that
Jen Lang:adage of like, be careful what you wish for? Or is it bad
Jen Lang:intention?
Unknown:Can we be really interested because my whole
Unknown:family God is whatever this virus is. But I went down much
Unknown:harder than they did. And I like, I mean, I know, most of
Unknown:us, many of us, aside from those of us who unfortunately, maybe
Unknown:contracted COVID. But aside from that, most of us haven't really
Unknown:gotten very sick in the last two years, because we've literally
Unknown:put ourselves in bubbles, right. But even prior to COVID, I've
Unknown:found like, I have really worked on my immune system. And my
Unknown:health and I felt fairly strong that even when I would get a
Unknown:cold or whatnot that, you know, I would fight it, you know, it'd
Unknown:be typical. And this was like, nothing typical. This was next,
Unknown:like next level. It feels like and I think, you know, I do
Unknown:believe kind of like some of what you said that, you know, it
Unknown:was very the timing of the massage and I've never
Unknown:specifically done this before and I sent a message to Jenna
Unknown:I'm like, you know, I'm going for this massage. It's the end
Unknown:of the year. I'm just really going to sink into, like,
Unknown:releasing everything that I don't need from 2021 and, and I
Unknown:like I set the intention. I went into the massage even when I was
Unknown:in the massage I was conscious about like, kind of like, you
Unknown:know, what was releasing from my muscles and whether like if
Unknown:emotions or thoughts or whatever him up into my head. I'm
Unknown:releasing them. And then yes, promptly started to get sick.
Unknown:Right after that, but it's it's interesting how that can happen
Unknown:and how when we set that intention and just how even
Unknown:like, again, like I say, looking at my family who didn't get they
Unknown:all like, to varying degrees, we all got, you know, got sick, but
Unknown:I just, I'm on day 10 And I'm still, you know, have maybe
Unknown:like, two hours of work in me that like, I can get up and
Unknown:function and then I'm like, Okay, leave me arrest arrest.
Unknown:So, yeah, it's like, it's, it's been a it's been a good practice
Unknown:to surrender and to look and reflect on, you know, what is
Unknown:this? Showing me without overanalyzing it? Yeah. But
Unknown:yeah, definitely not what I had planned, like, New Year's is a
Unknown:blur, I was in bed. I feel like I haven't started my new year,
Unknown:to be honest, which is, is really an interesting space to
Unknown:be into.
Jen Lang:It's kind of like, almost, because I think because
Jen Lang:you've been in this sort of bubble of healing, it's
Jen Lang:stretching out that transition from 2021, to 2022. And, of
Jen Lang:course, also 21 to 2021 to 2022, is, I'm not gonna say it's
Jen Lang:arbitrary, because we've decided to run our lives by this
Jen Lang:calendar. But there's so many other energetics involved that
Jen Lang:are coming for us, I if you if you if you live your life by the
Jen Lang:new moon, the new moon was January 2. And if you follow the
Jen Lang:Chinese calendar, the new moon, the Chinese, the Lunar New Year,
Jen Lang:actually begins January 31, February 1, with the next new
Jen Lang:moon. So I think there's this as we sort of move into January and
Jen Lang:not over planning. There's also something that Dan and I talked
Jen Lang:about was, we don't have an annual plan set up yet, I've and
Jen Lang:I have no desire to put things into a 12 month framework at
Jen Lang:this point in time, I have ideas and, you know, things I'd like
Jen Lang:to see roll out over the next few months. But even when we
Jen Lang:were planning this, you know, this our podcast a couple of
Jen Lang:days ago, we were talking like, I don't want to plan anything
Jen Lang:more than a quarter at a time. So taking a look at January,
Jen Lang:European March and go, these are the things we'd like to talk
Jen Lang:about, but not assigning them a specific date, like this is
Jen Lang:going to be episode 47. This is going to be episode 48. Because,
Jen Lang:as we have learned, all learned from the past two years, it's
Jen Lang:you know, when people were setting their intentions two
Jen Lang:years ago, Nick,
Unknown:no would have no way plan
Jen Lang:before a pandemic. So there is that, you know, I think
Jen Lang:there was a meme running around that said, you know, wherever
Jen Lang:you were in January 2020, wherever you saw yourself in
Jen Lang:December 2020, was not nobody saw. Yeah, like what happened?
Jen Lang:Yeah. And so I think that that's taught us to be more flexible
Jen Lang:and more maneuverable in our outlook, but also less
Jen Lang:structured, like, it's just this goes hand in hand, be more
Jen Lang:flexible and be less structured. So this is kind of what we're
Jen Lang:taking moving forward. And I think that's kind of a primary,
Jen Lang:I'm gonna say a primary message for all of our listeners, is how
Jen Lang:can you be even more flexible, and less structured and still
Jen Lang:see yourself moving towards, I'm not gonna use the word goals,
Jen Lang:because I don't like it's overused, but moving towards a
Jen Lang:place where you really want to be. So absolutely set an
Jen Lang:intention. However, Lego, letting go of the house, be more
Jen Lang:flexible, and allowing a different let me apply structure
Jen Lang:to something, we are applying a way that we expect or want it to
Jen Lang:roll out. So if you take away that structure, and those
Jen Lang:assumptions, then you leave it more possible, like more
Jen Lang:infinitely possible. There are more infinitely possible ways
Jen Lang:that that intention can come to you.
Unknown:Yeah, and I think, you know, I mean, I'm really glad we
Unknown:had started talking about this back in December, you and I, we
Unknown:had done a bit of planning. But we didn't, again, we didn't set
Unknown:firm things. And that's actually really helping me right now,
Unknown:like I was sharing with you earlier that the old me would
Unknown:have struggled with this illness more in the sense that like, I
Unknown:just don't have capacity to do what I can what I normally would
Unknown:be able to do, and I'm kind of really in this full surrender
Unknown:space to it, partly because I literally have to because my
Unknown:body's just not there and I need to focus on my health. But my
Unknown:mind would have been stressing me I would have been anxious, I
Unknown:would have, you know, felt more like, like I'm not going getting
Unknown:stuff done. And like, this just isn't happening. And I'm really
Unknown:in this space of like, okay, so the universe is showing me right
Unknown:now that I need to really move into 2022 at a slower pace, and
Unknown:I'm gonna trust that. Um, and you know, but had we are had,
Unknown:you know, had I set these big goals for January, I would be
Unknown:much more in that space of like, Oh, my God, like, this is not in
Unknown:my plan. And, you know, and so really being able to roll with
Unknown:that a little bit. And it's interesting, you and I both
Unknown:listen to somebody that we follow Lee Harris, who's an
Unknown:intuitive guide, he often or not, often he does monthly
Unknown:energy updates. And so Jen and I had both listened to his January
Unknown:update. And it's right in line with kind of what's going on
Unknown:talked a lot about the energy of kind of January, February,
Unknown:feeding, especially January being about inward and going
Unknown:inward and like down and slowing down. And that yeah, like, well,
Unknown:yes, this is typically a time that by capitalistic social
Unknown:norms. We're all like, hey, time to bake those resolutions and
Unknown:get to the gym and get those big projects launched and do this
Unknown:and do that 30 Day Challenge. Yeah, come out of the gates
Unknown:running. And he was sharing that kind of what he's getting is
Unknown:that, like, this year, that's a hard know, that, you know, we
Unknown:really need to be inward, we need to be reflecting, we need
Unknown:to be going still letting go getting Yes, that was another
Unknown:big theme. That's what I'm taking from this, like,
Unknown:Whatever, I'm shedding like, a huge layer of myself with this
Unknown:illness. And just allowing that to be okay.
Jen Lang:Yeah, I, I love how you summarize that, we'll post
Jen Lang:the link to his energy update in our show notes. And he's just
Jen Lang:one of several people that we both follow or look to for, you
Jen Lang:know, generalized guidance. I don't necessarily listen every
Jen Lang:month, but I just don't feel like it was like, Oh, this feels
Jen Lang:like really good. And one of the things where I've been going, I
Jen Lang:mean, I have a daily spiritual practice that I where I go
Jen Lang:inward, and I, you know, what I'm asking being asked to do now
Jen Lang:is actually go more deeply inward in that spiritual
Jen Lang:practice. So not just drawing my cards and writing a few
Jen Lang:thoughts. You know, for example, today, it was like, sit down
Jen Lang:with a journal, go through this process, and call into these
Jen Lang:concepts. And I think by going inward more often, and in a more
Jen Lang:intentional way, we can actually get to those answers a little
Jen Lang:bit faster than if we just do the surface pieces. So you know,
Jen Lang:how that's reflecting in my real practical world is okay, I'm
Jen Lang:cleaning up my computer harddrive. I'm getting rid of
Jen Lang:documents, files and folders from the past, gosh, like 15 to
Jen Lang:20 years that I used to hang on to these documents, because I
Jen Lang:used to be an admin and I needed multiple copies. And I eat, I
Jen Lang:was in document control. And I worked in the Music Library at
Jen Lang:McGill. So I was always about keeping things organized. And
Jen Lang:now I'm looking back and I'm like, I can go in, I've already
Jen Lang:archive some folders onto an external hard drive. But now I
Jen Lang:want to go back into my current hard drive and go, where am I
Jen Lang:hanging onto information that is no longer relevant? And where am
Jen Lang:I hanging on to that PDF that I downloaded five years ago, when
Jen Lang:I was first starting my business that is no longer relevant,
Jen Lang:because the landscape has changed so much. Well, that is
Jen Lang:the shedding.
Unknown:And I was just gonna say, in doing that, it feels so
Unknown:much like, I really get the strong feeling that that is like
Unknown:an old version of you, that's just ready to just go right.
Unknown:Like when you were sharing how, you know, that's who I was in
Unknown:2008. Because that was my world. That was my part of my work and
Unknown:all the things it's like, and that's not who you are in 2022.
Unknown:And so completely letting that that part of you. Like, go,
Unknown:Yeah,
Jen Lang:it's so interesting. And actually, as you were
Jen Lang:talking just reminded me So earlier this week, I had a
Jen Lang:little bit of like a, I wouldn't say a meltdown. But I had a bit
Jen Lang:of a moment where my husband and I were having a conversation
Jen Lang:around money, but it was also there were some other things
Jen Lang:coming up for me too. And part of this is part of the shedding
Jen Lang:pieces. So I'm preparing music for a recital in March. So in
Jen Lang:two months, I'm singing some music by a German 19th century
Jen Lang:composer named Josephine Lange. And as I was preparing this
Jen Lang:music, I you know, and choosing the songs to prepare. I was
Jen Lang:being reminded of who I was 10 years ago, 12 years ago when I
Jen Lang:was in university finishing up my master's his degree, and the
Jen Lang:methods and ways that I learned that music. And I realized I had
Jen Lang:this moment earlier this week, after that first moment that I
Jen Lang:had been approaching the process as how I used to be, rather than
Jen Lang:integrating that process into all the knowledge and the
Jen Lang:spiritual and intuitive self of that person who I am now. So
Jen Lang:when I actually went and rehearse the music on Wednesday,
Jen Lang:it was fun. And I had a great time. And I could feel that I
Jen Lang:could feel much more a strong sense of the composer and the
Jen Lang:poetry and the music, much more than I did when I was in
Jen Lang:university. And I realized again, too, that this is new
Jen Lang:music to me. And that for the past 10 years, I've been singing
Jen Lang:music that I learned 10 years ago. So yeah, and I've learned a
Jen Lang:few pieces since then. But going into this music and going into
Jen Lang:this German poetry is such a gift now, because I'm like, Oh,
Jen Lang:I can approach it, I can see it with who I am today, rather than
Jen Lang:who I was when I finished my master's degree 10 years ago.
Unknown:Yeah, which is, yeah, and that's a great point, right?
Unknown:Like it's shedding the layers, but it doesn't mean that you
Unknown:have to completely let go all of the things right, what parts of
Unknown:that and those experiences do we want to bring forward into into
Unknown:that next space? I'm curious, just going back a little bit for
Unknown:a sec to this kind of space, we're in this energy, this kind
Unknown:of slowing down and going inwards, you've shared a little
Unknown:bit about how that's playing out for you in terms of some of the
Unknown:cleanup and the purging. You know, it's, it's interesting to
Unknown:look to it, that that energy, and you and I, and how it's
Unknown:playing out very differently for us, right? And because, you
Unknown:know, I can't remember who we're talking to the other day, but we
Unknown:were on a call. And again, I was like, showing up in my not so
Unknown:great form. And, you know, it's like, yeah, I've been kind of in
Unknown:bed for five days and hunker down. And, and Jen was kind of
Unknown:like, I feel great. Like, you know, like, you've got that you
Unknown:do have that energy of the new year where you're feeling really
Unknown:good, you're feeling really rested and replenished. So do
Unknown:you feel that urge to like, kind of get out there and be more
Unknown:gung ho? Or are you still kind of? How was that landing for
Unknown:you?
Jen Lang:Yeah, that's an interesting question. I don't
Jen Lang:feel like I need to pull back at all. Nor do I feel like I need
Jen Lang:to accelerate in the sense of like, make things happen faster.
Jen Lang:But what I am feeling and I think this is reflected in the
Jen Lang:word that came forward for me for this year, his presence. And
Jen Lang:as in being present, both with myself and for our community,
Jen Lang:for our listeners, that presence piece is, is more expansive. So
Jen Lang:having a more expansive presence in however that rolls out both
Jen Lang:for the inward work and for power that is in our current
Jen Lang:physical reality. And so, you know, to bring it back to your
Jen Lang:question. It's not so much the, there is an inward expansive
Jen Lang:presence, that is asking to asking for attention. Right. And
Jen Lang:it's, I think I refer to it earlier in the new year is like
Jen Lang:exploring a release right early, late in last year, was exploring
Jen Lang:the inner verse, As expansively as the outer verse.
Unknown:I love that. And that sums up actually a bit of what
Unknown:Lee was talking about today, too, right? It's yeah, that
Unknown:January is all about the slowing down the inner verse to use your
Unknown:term and the energy and that February's energy is a little
Unknown:bit more outward, external, like, that's the time to start
Unknown:showing up again, and to be out there. So that's, yeah, that's
Unknown:really interesting. And it's, it's interesting to like, as
Unknown:we're talking as reflecting to on how, for me, I felt, I felt a
Unknown:lot of this energy in December, not so much the inner energy,
Unknown:but the preparation, like, you know, like you were sharing that
Unknown:you're in a lot of this purging, there was so much purging energy
Unknown:for me, in sort of those middle two weeks of December,
Unknown:especially where it was like, I'm gonna, like, I need to dig
Unknown:into my finances, I need to, you know, I've got my, like, I've
Unknown:actually finally done my year end, pretty much at year end,
Unknown:I'll be honest, I'm one of those that like, waits till the bitter
Unknown:end to file my taxes every year and it was so nice to be like,
Unknown:No, I'm just gonna, like do this now and get this done so and
Unknown:know that I can start the new year with that clarity. Yeah.
Unknown:And, you know, among a number of other things that that was kind
Unknown:of, it was a little bit for me, it was a little bit more in the
Unknown:doing Energy and it felt really good. Now I'm like that all came
Unknown:to a screeching halt kind of over the holidays with the
Unknown:illness, but now I'm kind of in this surrender of okay, well, I
Unknown:know that that stuff's there, and that I just need to, you
Unknown:know, I just need to sit with all of this, I just need to be.
Unknown:And I think, you know, I get the sense. We know, we're in a very
Unknown:tumultuous time right now, I think we've talked about this a
Unknown:little bit on the podcast before that, you know, it seems looking
Unknown:ahead. And what you and I sort of tap into, it's gonna be a
Unknown:bumpy ride for a little bit here still, like, yeah, you know,
Unknown:there
Jen Lang:is gonna be an acceleration. And there is an
Jen Lang:expansion. But I feel like this time, if we base some of that on
Jen Lang:what Lee Harris has shared it this time is about exploring
Jen Lang:that inner verse, feeling into what, what you can let go of and
Jen Lang:leave behind, and what stays and what becomes carried forward
Jen Lang:into this new aspects of self that then can be expanded and
Jen Lang:shown to the world.
Unknown:Yeah, and I think one of those and what I'm being
Unknown:really called to, and have had show up a number of times for me
Unknown:recently, his self care and self care is that yeah, he did, too,
Unknown:didn't he? Like self care is not a luxury, not a luxury. It's not
Unknown:traditional? No, like we and we need to increase it a lot right
Unknown:now. And I think that goes hand in hand with this message of
Unknown:going inward. It's truly about like, nourishing the self and
Unknown:connecting with our inner self. So again, we're Yes, the baths
Unknown:and yes, the exercise and things like that, but even more so
Unknown:that, you know, what do you need to do to reduce your stress?
Unknown:What do you need to you know, what do you need to look at that
Unknown:you're not looking at? What do you say you need to say no to,
Jen Lang:you know, all the way all the stuff we've talked about
Jen Lang:with terms of following the energy. So I've noticed myself,
Jen Lang:it's like, when do I feel like I want to push through on the
Jen Lang:screen time? And when is my body going, Hey, take a break, go sit
Jen Lang:in your reading chair, and just read a book for a few minutes,
Jen Lang:or just sit there for seven minutes with your eyes closed?
Jen Lang:Yeah, that that's an aspect of self care that people don't
Jen Lang:really talk about, but that's almost doubling that it's like,
Jen Lang:almost Okay, well, I'm going to set my silent meditation time
Jen Lang:now to 14 minutes instead of seven minutes. And it's, I
Jen Lang:think, that self care piece, it's not a luxury, it's a non
Jen Lang:negotiable is what he called it. It's non negotiable. And so what
Jen Lang:do you have to do in your life? To prioritize one aspect of self
Jen Lang:care? One simple step?
Unknown:Yeah. And I mean, exactly right. And it comes
Unknown:down. And I think we all know right now health is, is so
Unknown:forefront and there's multiple levels and facets of health that
Unknown:we can, you know, that we're talking about here, but, you
Unknown:know, it plays into that too, like, we need to be mentally
Unknown:strong, we need to be physically strong. And self care is the way
Unknown:we do that. Right? We we know this, I know, it's not you know,
Unknown:we're not sharing anything, any big new revelation here, but
Unknown:it's, it seems to, I find, like, it's that gentle reminder again
Unknown:and again. And, you know, that's again, that's what I feel like
Unknown:I'm getting right now, like health and self care, I need to
Unknown:look after myself. Right now, you know,
Jen Lang:what a great example you're setting for your kids by
Jen Lang:prioritizing yourself care. And I like without going into
Jen Lang:details. You know, you felt a lot of pressure this week from
Jen Lang:one of your kids. And you held a firm boundary and basically was
Jen Lang:like, Absolutely not. And you know, my answer is no, and I you
Jen Lang:know, Sony I am not a human parent. I have two dog parents
Jen Lang:like boundaries, except for dogs to like, my dog is getting old
Jen Lang:and she's like asking to go out early in the morning. I was
Jen Lang:like, you can wait 10 minutes because I know you can that she
Jen Lang:just wants to go out and sniff or sniffer the raccoons, we're
Jen Lang:in the yard or something like that. I'm like, no, no, no, no,
Jen Lang:no, like, you know, you don't want to that. Exactly. And so
Jen Lang:it's I mean obviously that's a such a minor small example.
Jen Lang:However, it's still a boundary is self care. Yeah. So if you
Jen Lang:didn't have to hear that before, and you didn't make that
Jen Lang:connection until now, putting a boundary in place either in your
Jen Lang:workplace or in the home or with yourself or with your loved ones
Jen Lang:a boundary is self care.
Unknown:So yeah, no, definitely yeah, it's been it's been
Unknown:tricky, right? Like, you know, getting getting sick with
Unknown:something that's not COVID When COVID is rampant has been also
Unknown:been a real. The term I want to use them on To put explicit on
Unknown:this episode now is mine shock. Because you know it everywhere I
Unknown:turn people are, you know, getting sick with COVID. And now
Unknown:I'm kind of sat here and going, Kay, my immune system has just
Unknown:taken a huge hit. And COVID is out there everywhere. And I
Unknown:can't afford to get to, you know, to get hit again right
Unknown:now, I shouldn't say that I'm going to take that back, I will
Unknown:be okay. My belief is that I would be okay. I do not want to
Unknown:get hit twice like that. And so I've had to put, like Jen was
Unknown:sharing a lot more boundaries in at home recently to kind of say,
Unknown:Hey, I'm not comfortable with that right now. Like, you know,
Unknown:that might have been something that yeah, two weeks ago, you
Unknown:know, I know that, like, you know, you would expect it two
Unknown:weeks ago, I would have said yes to that. But right now, the
Unknown:information has changed or having that boundary because I
Unknown:literally had to just sit down and be like, listen, like my
Unknown:health is my number one priority. And right now I'm
Unknown:going to do everything I can to protect that. So yeah,
Unknown:boundaries, that by all means, are, are definitely self care.
Unknown:And I think, you know, just taking another look at like,
Unknown:yes, there's getting healthy from a, you know, I'm sick, got
Unknown:a virus thing. And then there's just, there's our overall health
Unknown:as well, our mental health, like, you know, is a big one
Unknown:that plays into all of this, too. And so what do we need to
Unknown:do? Because I mean, we're all at the end of our ropes, you know,
Unknown:right. And so that's what
Jen Lang:2021 was in EPS, particularly in our province of
Jen Lang:British Columbia, there was was quite a year tumultuous year,
Jen Lang:climate wise with extreme heat, and then flooding, and then snow
Jen Lang:and cold temperatures. And there's deep freezing. There's a
Jen Lang:lot of variables flying around right now. And so I think,
Jen Lang:ultimately, I think the message of this is, be prepared for
Jen Lang:things that you haven't, you know, necessarily accounted for.
Jen Lang:And that might be something as simple as like putting an
Jen Lang:earthquake kit together and emergency kit together. But also
Jen Lang:for your own health. It might be like, where do you need to stock
Jen Lang:up on self care? Whether it's, you know, essential oils, or
Jen Lang:like Tylenol, cold and flu? Where do you need to stock up on
Jen Lang:those items in your house? So that if you do get sick, you
Jen Lang:don't have to go anywhere? That's of preparation to
Unknown:and what boundaries you need to put in pen. Do you need
Unknown:to wear do you need to carve out more time for yourself? Yeah,
Jen Lang:exactly.
Unknown:Yeah, I mean, I think the overall message we're kind
Unknown:of know in here is that it's gonna continue to be a bit of a
Unknown:bumpy time for the next. I don't know, we're not we're not
Unknown:psychics, we can't predict for how long but it feels like for
Unknown:the next little bit. I keep getting interesting, like from
Unknown:intuitive guides and people we follow in that realm, but also
Unknown:just conversations in the more like 3d world around
Unknown:conversations that are happening at government levels and things
Unknown:like that, that it sounds to me and just tapping in and feeling
Unknown:in for myself that spring. You know, we're gonna start to feel
Unknown:like we can take a breath. I really strongly feel that I
Unknown:don't know, again, like I can't predict, but that's definitely
Unknown:the feeling I'm getting. And then it's kind of between now
Unknown:and you know, spring that is just,
Jen Lang:I think we have we absolutely have the collective
Jen Lang:ability to rise above where we are right now. And to, if you
Jen Lang:want to call in that perspective now and calling that feeling
Jen Lang:that's a great fit, what do you call it an intention setting,
Jen Lang:whatever you want to call them? That feeling of like, what a
Jen Lang:breath of fresh air? above what we have just experienced feel
Jen Lang:like for you, and how does it feel and then cultivate that
Jen Lang:feeling? What other activities cultivate that feeling? I think
Jen Lang:it's probably a really practical tip while it's so how would a
Jen Lang:breath of fresh air in the spring where restrictions are
Jen Lang:lifted, you don't have to wear a mask anymore. Imagine that,
Unknown:that feel into that, step into that meal.
Jen Lang:And then what other activities provide an expensive
Jen Lang:feeling for you. So whether it's like listening to your favorite
Jen Lang:music, or maybe it's a favorite smell or favorite scent, or
Jen Lang:maybe it's walking out in nature and going into like going to the
Jen Lang:ocean and looking at the expansiveness of the ocean or
Jen Lang:the expansiveness of the prairies if you're inland. Yeah.
Jen Lang:So how can you cultivate those feelings and be more prepared
Jen Lang:for the good as well as the as well as the less good friend?
Jen Lang:What do you have on it?
Unknown:Yeah, I guess right. And to circle back to kind of
Unknown:just close it up with what we opened with. What do you need to
Unknown:let go off? Yeah, I think we're still in this space of letting
Unknown:go and that's what feels like sort of the alignment of
Unknown:January. It feels different this year. Like, you know, I think I
Unknown:agree, I'll be honest, this January feels different than a
Unknown:lot of past January's. And this feels like we're still in this
Unknown:collective shedding. We're still in this what do we need to let
Unknown:go of? And, you know, that's it's interesting because we
Unknown:launched our 321 countdown offer just at the very end of 2021.
Unknown:And that was originally going to be a limited time offer. Yeah.
Unknown:And that that offer is all about, it's three sessions with
Unknown:Jen and I, and where we go into that healing, you know, that
Unknown:okay, what needs to be let go of what can we go in and sort of
Unknown:identify and heal and remove to help you get that little bit
Unknown:closer? And because of where that energy is, and what we felt
Unknown:into? And like Jen said, we plan kind of by quarter now. We're
Unknown:like, let's just keep that running. Yeah, because we're
Unknown:getting uptake on it. You know, people are wanting it, people
Unknown:are needing it. And so, you know, if you interesting
Jen Lang:as a listener are feeling like you want a bit of a
Jen Lang:support. This is one way you can work with us. And this 321
Jen Lang:countdown offer is that three sessions in a four week period.
Jen Lang:It's short, it's sweet. There's definitely results in
Jen Lang:transformations, you're feeling a bit lost, and you kind of
Jen Lang:don't know what to shed or how to shed it.
Unknown:Yeah, this is a really, we can really help powerful.
Unknown:Yeah, I'm,
Jen Lang:I'm totally proud to say that Jane and I are a
Jen Lang:powerful team together. And, you know, where real, real look real
Jen Lang:are so ready to support any of you in this next stage of growth
Jen Lang:and expansion. And the inward inner verse exploratory work.
Jen Lang:Yeah, I think on that note, we can round some things up. So you
Jen Lang:got some practical steps. If you are feelings stuck in that
Jen Lang:sense, you're not alone. If you have been grounded by illness
Jen Lang:for the past few weeks, a lot alone. If you were feeling
Jen Lang:upbeat and ready for the year like me, you are not alone. They
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Unknown:and sign up for our love letters. Oh, yes, that was
Unknown:so you can find that in our link in our bio on Instagram or
Unknown:Facebook, the link to sign up for that is there and all the
Unknown:information will be in there. Yeah,
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Jen Lang:So without further ado, much love for 2020 to
Unknown:health and happiness, health
Jen Lang:and happiness, healthy boundaries, self care, all that
Jen Lang:good stuff. All right, we'll stop. We'll see you next week on
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