If love is the meaning of creation, then how exactly does that play out in our individual lives? What is MY purpose? What will my future life be like?
That is what we tackle in this episode.
Hello, Daniel, Nathan.
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:Good to see you again.
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:Good to see you again as well.
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:Excited to continue on our
conversation from last time.
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:Yeah.
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:We were talking about how love is what
preceded the universe because God has
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:existed and in an eternal community that
we call Trinity and how the purpose of
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:the creation, the why behind the creation
is, is God's expansive, self giving love
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:for the good of others So it's been a lot.
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:It's good to continue to unpack it today.
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:We want to talk about something
that's uniquely Christian, which
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:is the Christ event, right?
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:The incarnation, the arrival of Jesus.
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:We could put it in technical
terms or general terms.
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:So anyway, so let's talk about the
incarnation, how that fits into our
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:understanding of God's love and God's
purposes for humanity and creation.
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:Yeah, let's do that.
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:Just as a reminder from the last episode.
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:We said that the reason God created all
things was an act of love, love being
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:defined as giving of oneself to meet
the ultimate needs of the other person.
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:And then we kind of fleshed that out.
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:We looked at John 17 and Ephesians
1 that talked about this.
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:And we talked about the love
that existed before creation.
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:And one of the things I was going
to mention there that I didn't, I
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:was looking at my aquarium today,
and I was thinking through some of
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:the things we were talking about.
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:And I'm like, why did
I create this aquarium?
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:And part of it was the same
reason that we create anything.
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:So whenever you've written
a few songs before, right?
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:So you write a song,
your wife writes a poems.
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:Now that I know, why do we do that?
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:It's an expression of who we are.
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:It's an expression of who we are.
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:So I didn't have to create that.
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:Uh, I could have had someone else create
that aquarium and put it in my office.
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:If all I wanted was a
pretty scene to look at.
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:But no, I wanted to do it myself
because it was an expression of
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:Some beauty that I wanted to see.
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:I mean, it's, it's anytime we design a
room or we shop for clothes or anything.
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:I mean, a lot of those are ways in
which we kind of express ourselves.
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:The brands we choose.
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:I mean, everything is, is an,
is an expression of the self.
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:Right.
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:And that's a fundamentally human thing.
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:Yeah, if we're made in the image
of God, then it probably makes
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:sense that when God creates, it's
also an expression of who he is.
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:Oh, that's, that's a neat thought.
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:Yeah, that's cool.
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:Yeah, but he is love.
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:It just, I mean, just thinking
looking outside and seeing the
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:color, especially around springtime.
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:Yeah, the, the beauty of the birds singing
and vibrant colors and all that stuff.
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:That's, that's pretty neat to think of
that as an expression of God's heart.
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:Well today, I want to go a little
bit further and we're going to talk
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:about How Christianity gives an
answer for that, that also tells
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:us a little bit in broad outline.
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:We may not understand everything, but
in broad outline, how God does that.
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:How does God bring this
love into this creation?
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:And then how does that love
interact with us as humans?
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:Sounds good.
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:Let's do it.
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:Okay.
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:Well, the place to start here,
I think is in John chapter one.
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:So John chapter one is fairly well known.
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:I think it's also the philosophically
deepest chapter in the entire Bible.
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:That, wow, that's a bold statement.
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:It is.
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:Maybe Genesis 1 would rival that,
but I think this even goes beyond
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:that, because it's based upon Genesis
1, but it goes, in a sense, deeper.
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:Okay, so how much am I reading here?
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:Well, why don't you start
just by reading verse 1.
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:In the beginning was the Word, And the
word was with God and the word was God.
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:And you probably know what
the word, translated word is.
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:That's an uppercase W.
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:Right.
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:It's going to talk here in a second
about the word being made flesh.
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:So that's the, that's the logos.
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:Right.
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:So the Greek word is logos.
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:Now there has been a lot of things
written about what logos means, but
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:primarily if you look and you research
all of that, There are two primary things
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:that this word means, and John is tying
them both together here because this
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:logos, this Jesus fulfills them both.
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:So in the Old Testament, this
word would be used, in the Greek
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:translation of the Old Testament,
for just the word of the Lord.
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:So think of how many times God said, Thus
saith the Lord, or the Lord says this.
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:Mm.
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:And all those times, the idea is
that God is revealing to humanity
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:something about himself, his
plan, his purpose for humanity.
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:He's revealing something about him
to them that they need to know.
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:Yeah, that's a lot of times.
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:And especially his heart
about who he is, right?
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:So that is one strand.
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:That's one part of this, that
when John chooses this word, he's
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:very consciously choosing a word.
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:It harkens back to that.
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:But the other strand of that is
that this word is also very key
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:in Greek philosophy and thought.
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:Remember, he's writing
in the Greek language.
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:Many of his audience members are
going to be those who are thoroughly
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:formed in, in the Greek culture.
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:Well, pretty much all of them.
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:Mm hmm.
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:Yeah.
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:So they're living under Roman rule,
but it's really Greek culture.
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:So it's, it's deeply Hellenized.
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:Yes.
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:It's a deeply Hellenistic culture.
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:And because of that, there is
this tradition within intellectual
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:thought, which has influenced,
you know, pretty much everybody.
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:That the Logos here means something
like the first principle or the
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:rational essence of all that there is.
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:First principle of rationality, the first
principle of creation or the world, the
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:ultimate rational principle by which all
things kind of hold together or consist.
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:So different Greek philosophers
would put it different ways.
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:I believe it goes all the
way back to Heraclitus.
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:I think he was the first one to use this.
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:The word Logos in a philosophical
sense, and that was a long
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:time even before Plato.
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:So it has all that weight on it, that
this is the, the rational principle,
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:the underlying essence of the universe.
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:That's why, by the way, the
word logic is based on Logos.
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:So you see that right away.
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:And that's why, because it has
that idea within Greek thought.
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:John's taking those two together, and
he's saying the ultimate rational purpose
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:or meaning of the universe, and the
word of the Lord by which he expresses
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:himself, and who he is, and what he is
saying to all mankind, is all wrapped up.
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:In this person, Jesus of Nazareth,
that's an amazing statement.
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:Can I read that one more time?
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:With, with that in mind.
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:It says, in the beginning
was the word and the word was
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:So that's, I mean, that's even, you
get the, the union there, the oneness,
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:So he's combining both these,
but also saying that this in some
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:way is identified with God, even
though it's also distinct from God.
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of the foundational verses for
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him as it goes on in the next verses.
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:So he's further described as
being the light in this passage.
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:So why don't you go ahead and read
verses 9 through 14 of John chapter 1.
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:Okay, so it says, The true light
that gives light to everyone
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:was coming into the world.
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:He was in the world, and though
the world was made through him,
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:the world did not recognize him.
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:He came to that which was his own,
but his own did not receive him.
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:Yet to all who did receive him, to
those who believed in his name, he gave
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:the right to become children of God.
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:Not out of natural descent,
nor of human decision, or of a
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:husband's will, but born of God.
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:The Word, again, uppercase
W, the Word became flesh and
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:made His dwelling among us.
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:We have seen His glory, the glory of
the one and only Son, who came from
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:the Father, full of grace and truth.
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:This is an amazing, amazing claim.
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:What John is saying here is that Distinct
from God and yet equal with God is
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:someone he calls the Logos and the Light.
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:And that this One existed eternally
with God, through Him all things
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:were made, and yet, He is able
to step into this creation.
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:So, by Himself, in His nature, this
Logos person does not have a body,
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:but He is able to take on this
physical body like that we have.
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:And the word he uses there,
the word became flesh.
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:Greek word is sark, which just means
flesh, just like you and I would
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:have, and that's why it's called
the incarnation because if you go
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:to, uh, to Latin, carne is flesh.
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:Just like in many of the romance
languages, chili, carn, carne is Mm-Hmm.
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:Carne asada.
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:That's the same idea.
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:So incarnation means in flesh of
something that was of a person
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:That Christ was with God and
was God in the beginning, before
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:So that's, that's why we talk about
Jesus as being God in the flesh.
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:Yes.
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:So, so Christ did not exist, did not come
into existence when he was conceived.
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:And the orthodox formulation, very simple,
is there was never a time when he was not.
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us to understand how that works, but
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:So I was reading this lately, and I
pulled out my Greek New Testament,
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because, hey, I know Greek.
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word where it says in one place,
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talked about how those who receive
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on childhood, I think, in this
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:passage, is that we become united
with God, but also are like him.
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:So we become like God and he
became flesh, and I looked it
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I'm thinking, wait, so John is self
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:consciously putting that same verb
together right next to each other.
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:He became flesh and because
he has done that, we're able
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:So obviously in my mind, he linking
those two up and you know, we talked
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:before about how, in one sense, we would
not say, The God is in this universe
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:of becoming, he's in the existence
of being, and yet here he enters into
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:this world of becoming so that we
can become something that we weren't.
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:That he wasn't, in a sense, so
that we could become something
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:Uh, St.
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:Irenaeus says he became what we
are so we might become like, or
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:And you can misread that.
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:Like I said, God has an ontological status
as the creator distinct from this universe
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:But in the sense that we become
spiritual beings in connection with him.
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think and do, that is what I think is
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:That's what's the, what's the
technical term deification.
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:But again, I think that you
don't want to get it mixed up.
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:That says too much to me that
word really, but we increasingly
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take on his attributes that we've
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:talked about in the past, right?
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:So we don't become the God but
we become in a sense God like.
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:Yeah, that's really neat I could see
that as we increasingly grow in knowledge
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:of certain spiritual realities Mm hmm
as we take on the divine characteristic
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:of love as we go and participate in
the realization of his kingdom Yeah.
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:On earth as it is in heaven.
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:It makes sense, but like you said,
you got to not take it too far.
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the oneness like an Eastern thought.
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and always lesser than him.
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but this idea of union and
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:And I think that's why he chooses the
phrase children of God, because children
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:are close emotionally united with their,
with their parent, with their father.
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:And also, especially in the ancient
world, the idea was that the child
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your father was a fisherman,
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character, likeness of action, and,
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at the heart of being children of God.
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is to think through the two words that
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to human life, one potentially
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zoos, we get zoology from that,
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we've attached study to them.
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distinction between biology and
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two words as it's used here.
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specifically to talk about a natural
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:kind of life that we're born with.
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those who have placed their trust in
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to anyone who will receive that in you,
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we share with the animals in
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we seek our own desires, and we live
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is the same goal as the animals.
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translated as life in our English Bibles,
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life is a gift that we can receive.
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in John 3, 16, for God so loved the world
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whoever believes in him, whoever places
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zoe, not bios, we already have that, but
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just primarily mean duration, it's a,
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will even translate it that way.
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age to come is the idea that there will be
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kingdom of God who comes, new creation.
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creatures made in the image of God
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though we don't receive that gift in
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:So, uh, that's John's thought.
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:So this is the weird language that we
use as Christians about being born again.
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:That's kind of what's going on here.
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:So you're born into a new kind of life.
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:So Nicodemus was correctly confused when
when Jesus said you got to be born again.
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fit back up there and then yeah, right
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okay so so you're born physically and
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receive the, the ZOE gift of life.
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through how that relates to the BIOS life.
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to eat and drink, and to what degree
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of the main problems we have thinking
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:about what Christianity is all about
is that we think when we hear the
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:word eternal life that's opportunist.
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:We're thinking a bios life that
just extends a long time, right?
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be honest We're just gonna go in heaven
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existence and I'd do anything forever It's
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reasons to understand God's purpose.
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talking about extending this
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universe that God has created.
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at least as physical, if not
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Corinthians 15, It says, imagine
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:I'm going to use a tree, he uses weed, but
say if you want to plant, uh, an, you want
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property that has an oak tree and
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a huge equipment, dig this gigantic
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life, but it doesn't disintegrate.
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the continuity is because of that.
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thing, an oak tree is to have an acorn.
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of what that is and what that can become.
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:So that's the illustration
to we are, we are the seed.
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the zoe life will be like the oak tree.
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:And the oak tree is just as physical.
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:So Paul does not envision that
we won't have a physical body,
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different kind of physical body.
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:Um, and that, again, that's
in 1 Corinthians 15 if someone
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I've kind of used before, it's almost
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:like through the offer of Christ,
because of what He has done, we who
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go into the ground and be buried
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:And a seed goes in the ground, it's
buried, it dies as a seed, but it's
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different and larger and more beautiful.
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physical body, to answer your question.
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sense that we participate in those
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of Revelation talks about the tree
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that literal and metaphorical?
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metaphor for flourishing and not
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:Lewis had a couple good
illustrations that I think are
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this new life that Christ has, as this
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he is the penalty for sin.
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more of an organic sense?
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is that we err in thinking that we
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that don't affect each other.
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pennies sitting on a table that
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the others necessarily, but instead.
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:He says, think of us as points
or branches, or leaves on a
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:Or think of us like a human body
where we are all interconnected.
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:So two pennies sitting on a
table look exactly alike, almost.
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:They're not connected.
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:My nose and my lungs don't look
alike, but they are connected.
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:If you had a good infection, if you
had an antibiotic to some disease that
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:was affecting you and that started in
one place but eventually worked its way
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:through this whole body, that's what
the incarnation, he says, is doing.
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:So it's caffeine.
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:Now you've got to read my illustration,
or his illustration in this case.
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heim line tree, this tree that
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:He even says that the
effects can work backwards.
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:And we talked about causation
working backwards a little bit.
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:That's hard for us to picture.
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it, but it's an interesting
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:It is.
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:And so I think that idea, there's
something to that, that what happens
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:when the Logos takes on Sark is that
Sark itself is changed, Sark being
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:again flesh, human flesh is changed.
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:It has now the potential to be and to do
something that it did not have before.
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:And I don't know if I can explain
that, but to me, there's something that
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:happens to the nature of humanity itself.
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:Um, when Christ becomes man.
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:one other illustration
he gives is toy soldiers.
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:did you ever play with army men as a kid?
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:Oh yeah.
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:That was my favorite toy.
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:G.
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:I.
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:Joe's.
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:Yeah, but I had They've been
around for a while, haven't they?
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:Yeah.
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:I had the little ones.
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:Well, let's go with the G.
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:I.
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:Joe.
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:So you've got a G.
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:I.
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:Joe doll.
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:him Action.
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:Action figure.
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:Please come on.
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:Not dolls.
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:So imagine if you've got your 12 inch G.
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:I.
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:Joe action figure.
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:Thank you.
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:Yeah.
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:And what if you had the power
to turn him into a real human?
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:So, not only a 12 inch human,
but a regular sized human.
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:And he does a thought experiment.
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:He says, You know, if someone outside
that person had that power to make them,
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:and maybe they could exercise that power
You could see why some might not want to
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:give their consent to that, or why some
in the middle of that process would feel
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:like they were being ruined instead.
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:Mm.
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:All their plastic is being spoiled.
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:Everything that they know.
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:Everything that they know.
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:Their plastic is being spoiled
because it's no longer going to be
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:plastic, it's going to be change.
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:the world that they're adapted to with
their, tanks and boats and motorcycles,
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:Are no longer going to be adequate
because now they're, different.
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:and, and the very materials that
they're made of, like we talked
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:about, are going to be changed.
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:You can see that from one perspective,
that's a loss of who they were, but in
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:another perspective, it's culmination of
something better than they were, better
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:than what they could have imagined.
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:But if you only look at what is
lost and what's spoiled, then you
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:understand why then you understand
why sometimes the good news It doesn't
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:seem as good as it should to us.
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:Yeah, because it's, outside
of our natural framework.
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:Yes, and we can't really conceptualize
the goodness that it will be.
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:Hmm, yeah, other than,
through certain metaphors.
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:Best we can do.
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:Yeah, which is scary.
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:Yeah, so C.
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:S.
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:Lewis said toy soldiers.
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:Walt Disney said Pinocchio.
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:Yeah, there you go.
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:Wow, that's equal parts beautiful and.
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:Also kind of, scary because there
is a transformation process, um,
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:a metamorphosis, so to speak.
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:you know, there's fear of
unknown there for sure.
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:So there is now last time we
talked about how God's ultimate
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:purpose in the universe was love.
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:And that's I want to come back to you
as we kind of begin to wrap this up.
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:All this is an act of God by which
he offers our ultimate good to be
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:more than we could ever imagine.
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:We don't see that yet, so we have
to trust him, but because he's
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:created us with free wills and not
automatons that just have to do his
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:bidding, it is still a choice to us.
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:But ultimately the goal of that is not
to create a bunch of good people, not to
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:create a bunch of religious adherents.
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:It's to create a new race of humanity
that has a different kind of life, a zoe
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:life, united with Christ Jesus himself,
who is the image of all the heart and
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:the wisdom of God within this universe.
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:It's taking that hereditary circle
of love and expanding it outward.
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:to include us in that way.
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:I heard a good illustration
of what this looks like.
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:I don't know if it's a true story or not.
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:It's one of those where, if
it's not true, it should be.
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:these soldiers were fighting in France.
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:These American soldiers were fighting
in France during World War II and
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:one of their buddies was killed.
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:And they went to the nearest
church that they could find.
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:to try to bury him.
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:they went to the priest there
because it was a Catholic church,
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:like most churches in France are.
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:And they wanted to bury him in the church
graveyard, because very often in, in
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:the old world, their graveyard's right
there as part of the church grounds.
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:And the priest said, you know, I'm sorry,
but I can't because we have rules that
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:only those who are Catholics can be
buried within this Catholic churchyard.
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:and your friend was not a Catholic
and they're disappointed, but
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:they go outside the gate, they go
outside the fence of the graveyard.
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:And they find a place
and they bury him there.
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:Some years later, they
come back after the war.
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:Four or five years later, they come back.
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:To revisit and process some of
their emotions to honor the grave
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:of their friend that they lost.
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:And they come back, well, church
is still there, fence is still
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:there, graveyard is still there.
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:But the stone they put up to mark
their buddy's grave is, gone.
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:There's no indication that
there's any grave at all.
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:And they're really confused.
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:And they go back to the church then
and they ask the priest about it.
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:And he said, you know what?
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:Uh, here's what happened, guys.
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:After you left, I began realizing
how unjust our rule was, especially
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:in circumstances like these.
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:So what I did was, I expanded the fence.
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:I expanded the fence to
include, your buddy there.
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:I think of that story when I think
of God, kind of expanding the circle
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:of predatory love to include us.
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:in the life of God, as it
were, in the love of God.
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:it's an amazing thing to me.
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:That's beautiful.
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:And it's just so helpful to think through,
God's not going to force it on us.
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:It is our choice and it can be a fearful
choice because there's a different kind
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:of love and life that we're invited to.
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:But, you sharing how it's a
different quality of life.
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:God knows what's best for us and
he can give us what's best for us.
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:In fact, he wants to give us what's
best for us and he's given up himself
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:in order to give what's best for us.
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:But we have to, choose to
surrender to that process.
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:Just let the caterpillar
choose it to surrender to the
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:process by which it's given up.
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:He or she becomes a butterfly.
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:Yeah.
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:Of course they do it instinctually.
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:We have to make the
choice, but yes, the idea.
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:it's a different quality of life.
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:Again, just going back to the
beginning here the definition, love
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:giving of itself for the good of
another person, trusting that God is
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:the one who can really define that
for us is really important here.
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:especially in light of the other.
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:A lot of times we've talked about this,
like, God who has created us, who exists
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:fundamentally differently than us.
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:Just categorically different, infinite
qualitative difference, trusting
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:that God knows what's best for us and
surrendering to His plan and His process.
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:Um, is, is the key here.
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:Thankfully, he's revealed himself,
his word, Jesus Christ, to, to show
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:his plan and his process and his
goodwill and good pleasures toward us.
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:it's a, it's a beautiful thing.
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:It is.
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:And can you imagine, a humanity, can
you imagine a humanity where instead of
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:seeking our own way to meet our own needs
and our own powers, and for the most
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:part, using other people in light of that?
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:Where my needs are met by you,
and your needs are met by mine,
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:and this is true of all humanity.
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:That we are fundamentally
oriented to meet the other
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:person's need instead of our own.
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:But we trust that they are able to
meet our need, because they're also
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:fundamentally oriented that way.
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:That's a different vision of
what human life can be like.
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:Yeah.
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:It's not just this life
extended eternally.
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:It's a butterfly existence as
opposed to a caterpillar existence,
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:it's that radical of a change.
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:Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:Anyway, that's all I have for today.
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:Wow.
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:It's good stuff.
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:Thank you so much.
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:I hope people think through that a
little bit and, meditate on, its meaning.
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:Yep.
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:I know I will be.
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:So thank you.
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:Yep.
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:Bye.