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Ep.7 The open mind and open heart that leads you to where you want to be
Episode 710th February 2023 • The Borealis Experience • Aurora Eggert
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Hello there dear friend,

I'm so happy to connect with you through this podcast here.

Today enjoy an episode recorded on a black sandy beach in Mexico.

Learn why it is so important for your mental and emotional well-being to re-open your heart.

We can get so crazy busy in our daily life that we don't even realize how closed up we have become.


with love and much respect

Aurora






I’m very excited to guide you closer to your real, authentic self. My vision is to support your growth.

This is a place where you can recharge your batteries, reconnect to yourself, 

really get to know yourself and find out what steps you can take to untangle

yourself from a situation you don’t wish to be in. I invite you to get to know yourself better in order for you to make the right choices for yourself in the future.


Learn more at

www.auroraeggertcoaching.com


Free yourself from the ongoing destructive inner chatter become the strongest most authentic version of yourself.





Let’s dive in and find out more about this juicy topic that will most likely affect you in one way or another. 



In this episode and many other episodes I touch on topics that I usually work on with my clients. Here in my podcast it will be targeted to a broad spectrum of people. If you'd like to go more into depth with a topic I address, reach out to me.


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Aurora




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Hello, hello and welcome to the Borealis

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experience is the see in the background. I'm in Mexico, San

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Jose, on the Baja I saw for the first episode of 2023. I want to

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make it really special. I really hope that the waves in the

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background now not too loud. I guess I'll see. Once I finished

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recording

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I hope you're doing well. I hope you feel safe and connected.

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Content it's been quite an interesting couple of weeks,

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those first couple of weeks of 2023.

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Maybe you entered this New Year with fresh eyes, expectations,

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resolutions, full of energy. Maybe it took you a little while

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to get into the groove of the new year.

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Today I want to talk about keeping an open mind while I'm

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traveling, and slowly getting to know a new culture, I realized

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how closed up my heart and my mind was for the last couple

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months may maybe even yours. You know such things we don't even

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realize until we are faced with situations where we have to have

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an open mind and open heart otherwise we're not going to get

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through it. That is when you realize, Oh man, I'm so rigid.

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I'm so closed minded. I'm so and so much pain and suffering. For

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so long now that I didn't even realize that I was so tensed up,

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closed up and in pain. When the pain and yours stays long

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enough, you just make it a part of yourself. And for me

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traveling always helps me to open up my heart again and my

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mind. You see how people live a life similar to yours with very

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different tools and approaches and opinions. Very different

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faith, maybe sometimes even different struggles. At the same

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time, if you keep your heart open and your mind open or if

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you start to open it up again you see that people really just

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want to be seen and feel connected. feel understood and

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respected. No matter where we go. It is the same thing all

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over the world

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right now you might be in a situation leading a life where

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you can't really travel. So what do you do then? With my

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information that I'm sharing here, well, fortunately we don't

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have to leave our daily life. To open up our heart again. We can

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change our attitude we can open up our mind our heart. We can

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change assumptions that we made conclusions that we made about

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people and ourselves and our past. Maybe a future you by

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making space and time to see what's going on. And that's a

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necessary evil. That's the only thing that you need to invest

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into yourself is time and making space to reflect, to question to

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untangle yourself, to get back to your true self. When we go

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through pain and discomfort, our psyche, our mind, starts to

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build a fortress around our heart, we start to engage in

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little habits first, to protect us from future pain, who then

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can become part of ourselves. So the pain becomes part of you.

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And you change your character changes the way you move and

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behave, relate to people changes, bit by bit, it consumes

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you and you don't even realize it. Maybe the odd comment and

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people, you know, maybe starting to avoid you reject you more

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often, or making comments mocking you. That sometimes can

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be their problem. But it can also be a sign of you.

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distancing yourself from your core being, if it is people that

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truly know you.

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You can't run away from your pain, you can't avoid it. Yet

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your mind and your psyche will always be there with the mission

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to protect you. And all too often, we also give it

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intentionally the mission to protect us by behaving different

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ways by speaking differently, clothing ourselves differently,

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relating to people differently, right smiling when we don't

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really feel like smiling. But what you're doing by doing that

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is that you give your mind a task that it's not fit to

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accomplish. You can't predict life, you can't predict pain.

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You can't avoid pain. Yet you tell your mind subconsciously

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that you don't want to experience that pain again. And

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then you come to see me for coaching and wonder why you're

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still single, why you still haven't found a job that gives

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you satisfaction. Or whatever pain you're struggling with. All

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along, though, your mind is trying to protect you to be

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vulnerable again. And to explore what an open heart is, because

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that's where you got hurt the last time right. So it's a whole

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mess. It's a mess. It's a big mess, but it's so beautiful to

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realize and to see where you're at. So also deeply humbling. To

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notice what's disturbing you what's holding you back, what is

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the pain you're trying to avoid? Maybe you forgot, you're just

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dealing with the coping mechanisms now and the little

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addictions or maybe even big addictions. But to go and sit

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down and explore yourself again, be it by yourself or with a

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coach doesn't have to be me it can be any person out there who

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is offering coaching and as trustworthy to you to to peel

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the layers back from that shell from that fortress that was

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built around your heart. Because life is short and I don't want

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you to pass away crossover to the other side and regret that

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you haven't really experienced life. You lived a life behind

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Wilds in fear. Scared to be yourself again, because that's

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where you got hurt the last time so keeping an open mind and open

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heart is really Everything I want to remind yourself of today

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because I know, you know, it's valuable and good. But sometimes

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we forget. I'm also very excited to have built a physical

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location for you. Or anybody who wants to come and explore. Make

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sense of their mind experience deep, calm, relaxation from the

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inside out for body and mind. And, yeah, I'm very, very

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excited to have that set up. And to share this with people, not

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only through my podcasts that I love so much, but also in, in

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real life. I crave deep connection with people I crave

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seeing people and having people take their masks down and just

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be themselves. That's the greatest gift that we can offer

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to each other. And I'm all all in to encourage that and you and

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to see you grow and untangle yourself. All right. I'm gonna

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leave you with that My dear listener, I'm so happy to

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connect with you again through this beautiful way of

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communication and being out there in the world through

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podcasting. And I will be out there with you for you very soon

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again. With Love from Mexico. Aurora

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