This week, Gillian and Jenny discuss the significance of Halloween and National Coming Out Day, particularly for the LGBTQ+ community, and the challenges faced by non-binary individuals in expressing their gender identity. They also explored the evolution of language and terminology, the role of online communities, and the importance of giving recognition to those doing something different.

They discuss the significance of Halloween and National Coming Out Day, both of which occur in October. They noted that Halloween parties and events can serve as a platform for people, particularly those in the LGBTQ+ community, to experiment with their identities and gain confidence in expressing themselves. Jenny mentioned that she had seen examples of trans people using Halloween as an opportunity to try out different presentations. They also touched upon the idea that coming out is a significant part of the transition process, and that events like Halloween and National Coming Out Day can serve as catalysts for people to take this step.

They also discuss the challenges faced by non-binary individuals in expressing their gender identity. They note that non-binary people often have to assert their identity more frequently than binary trans individuals, as their gender expression may not be as obvious.

Jenny shares her observations from working with non-binary colleagues, highlighting the exhaustion they experience in constantly reminding people of their preferred pronouns and gender identity. They both acknowledged the difficulty non-binary individuals face in navigating their identity, especially when it differs from the more obvious expressions of binary trans individuals. Jenny highlights that these identities are often misunderstood as being synonymous with trans men and women, but in reality, they represent a more diverse and growing community. The conversation also touches on the potential limitations of the term "non-binary" and the need for more inclusive language.

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