Today on Daily Bible Refresh, Dr. Brad Miller reflects on our all‑too‑human habit of “keeping score” in relationships, using a simple hiking story to illuminate Jesus’ powerful parable in Matthew 18:21–35. As he contrasts a servant’s enormous forgiven debt with the petty, unforgiven “10 dollars” owed by another, Dr. Brad unpacks the radical, even “absurd,” nature of God’s grace and challenges us to stop treating forgiveness like a spreadsheet. Along the way, he explores how our forgetfulness of the mercy we’ve received fuels resentment, how community plays a role in calling out injustice, and offers a practical action step to help us release small grudges in light of the immeasurable forgiveness God has already given.

Key Takeaways

1. Keeping score quietly poisons relationships – We often build mental “ledgers” of small slights and inconveniences, even when no real wrong has been done.
2. Grace is intentionally “unfair” in our favor – The massive difference between the two debts in Matthew 18 is designed to show that God’s grace doesn’t balance books; it erases them.
3. We are the unmerciful servant – The parable is less about a cruel villain and more a mirror of us when we receive mercy but refuse to extend it to others.
4. Unforgiveness is usually forgetfulness – We tend to withhold grace not out of calculated cruelty, but because we forget how deeply and freely we’ve already been forgiven.
5. Community is part of God’s accountability system – In the story, it’s the fellow servants who first notice the injustice and bring it to the king, showing how loving community calls out “that’s not okay.”

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