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46. If You're Doing All the "Right" Things to Get Clients…and Still Feeling Stuck
Episode 46 • Bonus Episode • 6th January 2026 • Marketing Therapy • Anna Walker
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You can be doing a lot in your marketing and still feel stuck. Posting. Tweaking. Learning. Trying. And wondering why none of it seems to add up.

In this episode, I’m unpacking why effort alone isn’t what creates results in private practice anymore. Most therapists I work with are already showing up and putting energy into their marketing—but that energy isn’t compounding. Instead, it’s leaking out through unclear direction and high resistance.

We’re talking about momentum: what actually creates it, why pushing harder often makes things worse, and how small shifts in direction can make your marketing feel steadier, lighter, and far more effective this year. If you want 2026 to feel less exhausting and more predictable, this episode will help you see exactly where to focus.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

1️⃣ Why doing more isn’t creating results—and how energy “leaks” out of unclear systems

2️⃣ How direction and resistance determine whether your marketing compounds or drains you

3️⃣ What to prioritize early in the year if you want the rest of 2026 to feel calmer and more predictable

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  2. https://walkerstrategyco.com/waitlist
  3. Apply to work with us: walkerstrategyco.com/apply
  4. Episode 45 show notes: Your Intentions Aren’t Enough: What Actually Leads to Practice Growth
  5. https://walkerstrategyco.com/show-notes/45
  6. Episode 43 show notes: The Unsexy Work That Actually Fills a Therapy Caseload
  7. https://walkerstrategyco.com/show-notes/43
  8. The Walker Strategy Co website:
  9. https://walkerstrategyco.com

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About Marketing Therapy

Marketing Therapy is the podcast where therapists learn how to market their private practices without burnout, self-doubt, or sleazy tactics. Hosted by Anna Walker—marketing coach, strategist, and founder of Walker Strategy Co—each episode brings you clear, grounded advice to help you attract the right-fit, full-fee clients and grow a practice you feel proud of.

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Anna Walker:

Hey everyone.

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Happy New Year.

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Happy 2026.

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Welcome back to Marketing Therapy, episode

46 to get us started for the new year.

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I mentioned in our previous

episodes that I was taking

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some time off for the holiday.

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I took about 10 days away from work,

which outside of my maternity leave is

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the most I've ever been offline, and I

am returning to the office so restored,

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so energized, so clearheaded, and I hope

you're getting a little bit of that same

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feeling too, whether you took a day off.

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Maybe a couple of weeks,

whatever that was for you.

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I hope you're entering into the

season feeling that January renewal.

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I'm super excited about this episode.

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I prepared the outline for it before

leaving the office in December, but

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it is now informed by some additional

insights I've been able to gather

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since our state of the industry survey.

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Ended and I've started

analyzing that data.

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So I'm just extra excited about this one.

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I can almost guarantee, regardless

of where you find yourself in your

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practice today, that you can get

something from today's episode.

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Okay, now, our last episode, if you ended

2025 with us, was all about intentions

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and how intentions are a good thing.

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But they're not good enough.

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They're not good enough on their own.

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We talked about how planting the seed

is the most powerful thing you can do,

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and then what you do after determines

whether or not you bear the fruit.

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So this episode is a

follow up to that one.

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This episode is for the people

who say, okay, Anna, I set the

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intention and I'm doing the thing.

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This episode is for people who

say, Anna, I'm already trying.

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I'm already doing the things I

feel like I should be, but I'm not

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getting the results that I want.

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If that is you, buckle up.

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This is going to be a good one.

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Okay?

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If you listen to that episode and

you thought, I'm doing the things,

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but why is it still so hard?

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That's why I've put together this episode.

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This one is for you.

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Now, this is the frustration, right?

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You've set the intentions.

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Maybe you set your

resolution last year in 2025.

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Maybe you've been at this private

practice thing for a long time.

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You know what you wanna do and

you're someone who's gonna do it.

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You've taken the steps.

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You haven't just sat around passively

and expected clients to come find you.

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You recognize that's not realistic,

and that's because most therapists

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that I work with, they're not lazy

in order to be successful today.

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They recognize effort is required.

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They recognize they need

to prioritize marketing.

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They are thoughtful and they are putting

in effort, but that effort just isn't

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resulting in what they're hoping for.

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Now, if effort alone worked, most

therapists would already be full, right?

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If all it took was trying, you would

all have a full caseload at the

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perfect premium fee that you want.

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That's not reality.

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So that means something else is at

play here beyond just effort, right?

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So this episode today is not about

motivation, it's not about commitment.

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It's not really about mindset.

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That's more last episode.

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Go back and listen to that one if

you need some support in those areas.

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This episode is about direction.

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It's about resistance and it's

about where your energy is actually

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going as you move into the new year.

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All right?

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Now most therapists are already expending

energy on their marketing, right?

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That's what we're talking about.

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You're trying things.

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You purchased a website template, you

sign up for site Today, maybe you are

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paneled with a service like Alma or Grow.

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You might have a social media presence.

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You take trainings, both CEUs

and trainings on marketing.

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You listen to podcasts like this one.

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You download free guides, you talk

to chat GBT, you're doing things.

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This is costing you energy

in some regard, right?

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But that energy isn't compounding,

it's not going anywhere.

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It's not building on itself.

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So I wanna introduce you to

this idea of energy leakage.

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Could the energy you're putting in

actually not really be going anywhere?

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That's work that doesn't

actually reduce future effort.

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Is what you're doing right now

reducing future effort for you?

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It's actions that make

the next step easier.

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Is what you've been doing,

making what you do next, simpler,

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more efficient, more effective?

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Are you jumping in and tweaking your

website without fundamentally knowing

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who it is that you're trying to talk to?

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What it is that you need to be doing or

sharing about yourself or your niche?

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Are you focusing on just

increasing visibility?

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Everyone knowing you exist, but then

not really having a follow-up plan

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When they do learn who you are and why

you're good at what you do, are you just

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consuming and consuming and consuming

more and more information instead of

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simplifying the decisions in front of you?

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If you're doing a lot and you still

feel stuck, then it's often because

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energy is leaving the system.

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Instead of building momentum within it.

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A few episodes back, I'll

link it in the show notes.

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We talked about this idea of

the client conversion engine.

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How if you don't have that engine, you're

not gonna go anywhere in your practice.

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And so when we think about fueling that

engine, which is the ongoing part of

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growing a private practice, we have to

think about the energy used to do that.

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So I want to help you in this

episode, focus on building momentum.

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This isn't a failure.

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This isn't you doing things

wrong, it's just a systems issue.

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Okay?

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So I wanna talk a little bit about

physics here, which is hilarious

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because physics is not my cup of tea.

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I took AP physics my

junior year of high school.

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Shout out to you, Mr.

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Kent.

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And I was a good school girl.

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I got good grades and I did

okay in AP physics, but man,

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it took everything out of me.

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My brain just didn't quite get

there in some of those more complex.

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Concepts, but this one I'm

gonna walk you through today.

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You do not need to be a physics expert,

but I do think it's going to land.

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Okay.

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So in physics, movement of

something, movement depends on force.

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Okay?

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Whether or not anything's being applied.

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To that object direction, the

direction in which that force

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is applied and resistance.

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What is fighting against that object?

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Okay.

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If we think about pushing a ball

along a surface, we need force.

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We need to actually apply something.

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We need direction to move in the

direction that we want, and we

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have to think about the resistance.

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It's gonna go A lot smoother over

a wood surface than a carpet one.

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Right?

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Okay.

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You've got that right.

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Simple physics here, but powerful

if we apply it to this concept

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we're talking about here today.

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'cause the thing is you

can apply a lot of force.

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Force.

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Your effort force is the things

you've been doing and doing

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and doing in your marketing.

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You can apply a lot of force

against friction against gravity

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against the wrong surface.

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And not actually get anywhere.

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So it doesn't mean you're

not doing anything.

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It means that your energy

has been misplaced.

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So I wanna think about that.

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If you are applying force in

your marketing, okay, put on your

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physics hat, you're applying force.

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I wanna talk about direction and

I wanna talk about resistance.

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Okay?

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Direction.

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Direction determines whether

your effort compounds.

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Gets bigger, stronger, more

efficient over time, or dissipates

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just leaves that system.

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Alright, so here's an example.

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A therapist spends hours tweaking

the wording and the colors and

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the images on their website

homepage, they're doing things.

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If they had to look themselves

in the mirror at the end of

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the day, they would say yes.

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I spent five and a half hours

on Squarespace today, tinkering.

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Energy was spent, but the site

still doesn't clearly say who

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they help, why they're different.

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It doesn't connect with the reasons

that their client would ultimately

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choose them over the 10 other therapists

we know that they're considering.

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So the result, each tweak, each tinker

that they did is living in isolation.

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Nothing's compounding.

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They're gonna have to get back on

and do it all over again tomorrow.

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On the flip side, if they knew who they

were talking to, why they were different,

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how to empathize with their clients,

then every future page of their website,

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every bio they had to write, every

directory profile, every social media

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post would build on that same clarity.

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It would be simpler, it would be

easier, it'd be more cohesive, and

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it'd probably be more effective.

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So effort compounds when it's

building on something stable.

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Here's another example,

and one I see happen a lot.

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A therapist thinks they need to

be on Instagram, which if you

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wanna be on Instagram, you can

be very, very successful there.

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You don't have to,

that's beside the point.

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A therapist thinks that they need

to be on Instagram, so they say,

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all right, I'm going to be there

consistently, which is critical to

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being successful on social media.

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So they get on there and

they post consistently.

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They're making reels,

they're making carousels.

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They're making.

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Static posts, whatever they get likes.

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They love the likes.

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They love when the likes come in.

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Maybe they even get some comments,

but the inquiries aren't increasing.

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There's no tangible ROI on all the

effort they've been putting in.

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Now going viral, getting

results from social media.

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There's lots of factors at play,

but often one of the things that

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I see happen is the content isn't

pointing toward anything clear.

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Every single time they sit down

to post, they're asking people

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to do something different.

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They're talking about

a different specialty.

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There's nothing consistent about what

it is that they're putting out there.

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They essentially show up as a brand

new therapist every single time, and

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so the effort they're putting into

their Instagram while meaningful.

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And well-intentioned is dissipating.

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'cause it's not actually

funneling anywhere.

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People might see the reel and think,

oh, that's cool, but it sends them

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somewhere different than yesterday's

post and different than tomorrow's post.

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And nothing ever happens.

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It's not compounding.

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So even looking at the idea of

visibility in your marketing, making

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sure people know you exist, it's

only gonna compound when it's pointed

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in a direction and consistently so.

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All right, here's another one.

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Maybe you're guilty of this.

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It's one of the mistakes of some

of the best intentioned therapists

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out there, especially those who

are early on in their practice and

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that know they wanna do it right?

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Then maybe this is you, you're

attending the webinars and the

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free workshops, you're listening

to the podcast just like this one.

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You're downloading the guides,

you're consuming all the helpful

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information, but all you do is consume.

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So it feels like you're

doing something, Anna.

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I'm downloading the things.

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I'm reading the guides.

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I'm asking chat, GT I'm

asking the questions, but you

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haven't chosen a direction.

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And so every single new idea that you're

introduced to the one where one person

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tells you you should do Google ads,

and another says you have to post on

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Instagram, and another says, if you're

not doing CEO, you're not living.

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Every single new idea just

competes with the last one.

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So learning.

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If learning is your thing, if that's where

your effort has been, it's only going to

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compound when it actually narrows your

path clarifies it straightens the path.

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That effort is dissipating

when it only adds options.

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'cause then you just stay stuck

in analysis paralysis, right?

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Okay, so that's the idea of direction.

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When direction is right.

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When you are applying force in the

correct direction, everything gets

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simpler, your language gets reused, and

it becomes consistent in your marketing.

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Your decisions stop

reopening every single time.

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The systems compound,

they build on themselves.

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That's what we wanna see happen

When your direction is clear.

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Now let's talk about

the idea of resistance.

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That's the other thing, right?

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Resistance determines whether the effort

you're putting in feels sustainable or

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flat out exhausting, because sometimes

our effort does feel that way, doesn't it?

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It answers a different

question than direction.

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How much energy does this

take to maintain over time?

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So we got started, we're

going in the right direction.

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Can we do it forever?

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That's what resistance tells us.

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So here's an example.

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You find yourself explaining

yourself on every single consult,

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so you hop on a consult, really

happy that you got there, right?

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You have a client who's interested

and then you spend the whole

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time trying to land that plane.

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You're explaining your

approach, who you're best for,

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you're justifying your fee.

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It feels like every single

consult starts from scratch.

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That's high resistance because

there's not a system supporting you.

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People aren't coming in pre-qualified.

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It's all on you every single time.

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If we contrast that with a website

that did some of that heavy lifting

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for you, people are showing up,

knowing your specialties, knowing

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and acknowledging your fees,

you're getting fewer objections.

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There's less emotional labor on those

consults, so resistance is that invisible

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tax on your energy, which is so precious.

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Another one.

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That person posting on Instagram,

they're posting and posting and posting.

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It feels draining because every

single post requires new thinking.

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They feel like they have to reinvent

the wheel and reinvent who they

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are and reinvent what it is that

they're saying over and over and

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over, and nothing's carrying over.

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That's an incredibly

high resistance system.

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And a lot less fun.

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But if you know exactly what it

is that you do, if you're clear on

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your specialties, your focus areas,

what it is that you bring to the

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table, content's so easy to write.

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You know exactly what to

say and who to say it to.

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It gives you a filter for what to say

yes to, who to say yes to, who to turn

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away, and it lowers the ongoing effort.

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So sustainable effort, whether

or not you can do something over

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time is rarely about doing less.

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It's not that you're gonna never have to

market again because spoiler alert you

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will, but it's about removing friction,

making it simpler, more effective,

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more efficient as you move forward.

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Another super high resistance

example, having a website that

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doesn't do anything for you.

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I see it all the time.

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I opened up one today.

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I received an application from a clinician

who's interested in working together,

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and if you submit an application on our

website, walker strategy code.com/apply,

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I'll review your site, review what you

tell us about your practice, then make

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some recommendations on whether one of our

programs or services could be a good fit.

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Maybe something else if you're

better served by another

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professional of some kind.

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But I opened up her website

and it was this exact thing.

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It's a website that's just there.

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But wasn't doing anything for her.

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Maybe your site looks fine, but

you don't get clients from it.

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This is one of the most shocking

insights from our SOI data, our state

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of the industry survey data that I

mentioned earlier, the conversion

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gap that has opened up in 2025.

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The absolute spotlight on the

requirement to get right fit

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clients from your website as.

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An indicator of whether or not your

practice is going to be full is wild.

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To me.

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There's always been a correlation

there, but it's stronger than ever.

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If you have a website out there

that doesn't actually do anything

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for you, it requires you to do more

outreach, more explaining, more

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follow-up, more hoping and praying.

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That is also a high resistance

system because here's the thing,

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when one part of that client

conversion engine underperforms.

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It could be the confident

identity, the confident presence,

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the confident connection.

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When one of those parts underperforms,

then the rest has to work over time

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and over time ain't sustainable.

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Right.

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Alright, so we've talked about force and

how that's what you're applying right now.

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You've got force.

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But what do you do with the direction

and what do you do with the resistance?

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Direction determines whether

your effort is stacking right?

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Whether we're compounding

resistance determines how heavy

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that effort feels over time.

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Now, when efforts compounding

and resistance is dropping,

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guess what happens.

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And Mr.

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Kent, correct me if I'm wrong, on the

physics side, momentum, momentum happens.

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When you apply force in the correct

direction and you lower resistance,

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momentum builds, and momentum is what I

want for you in your practice, momentum

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is when things are working, so it

isn't necessarily about pushing harder.

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Are you seeing that this isn't just about

more force, it's about pushing in the

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direction where resistance is lowest.

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Now, when this happens, when

your effort is aligned correctly,

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small actions actually create

visible movement in your practice.

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Like I mentioned, decisions

stop reopening themselves.

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Every single time you sit down to

quote unquote work on your marketing.

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You're not starting from scratch.

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It changes how often you second guess

yourself, how much explaining you have

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to do, how heavy your marketing feels.

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And again, this isn't because

we're not applying force.

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This is one of the biggest wake up

calls I had to deliver to my audience

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in the last, I would say three years.

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We came outta the pandemic,

and the pandemic was obviously

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horrible in many ways.

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It was quote unquote, easy marketing wise.

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It was simpler to market

yourself during the pandemic.

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If you opened your practice in the

pandemic or you were open through

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it, you can probably attest to that.

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Then we came into the post pandemic

times and all of a sudden I had to be

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the deliverer of bad news to say, Hey,

what was working then doesn't necessarily

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work now, and in order to be successful,

because success is still out there,

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I have gobs of evidence and proof.

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You have to be more involved in your

marketing than you've ever been.

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So again, this is not the fact

that your effort is going away.

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It's not that you stop applying force,

but it does mean that you get to

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apply force that you know is gonna

work, that you trust is gonna work.

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That does, in many ways, become

easier and simpler over time.

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This is the reason why

I want momentum for you.

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It's the reason why when you have

momentum in your marketing, it feels

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so dang calming, not because it's easy.

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Not because you're getting

to Coast, but because it's

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efficient, because it's working.

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The feeling of being able to sign off

on a Friday and know your marketing

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is doing what it needs to do and jump

back into your clinical work on Monday

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is a beautiful gift to yourself.

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And that comes from the momentum.

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I love when I get to hear from people

that that is what is happening for them.

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They say things like.

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Oh, things finally feel like they're

working and sometimes they can't

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even pinpoint what it is, but I'll

often hear from confident copy

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students, something's just working.

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That wasn't before.

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Or I'm not necessarily doing

more, but it does feel easier.

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My marketing feels easier.

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Now, if we contrast that with the

hustle of high, high, high output,

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high force, high resistance.

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Persistent fatigue.

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No one wants that.

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I don't want that for you.

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I don't want that for

you in 2026 and beyond.

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Now we find ourselves here in January,

starting a new year, and I wanna offer

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a little bit of a reframe on how we

generally think about resolutions and

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getting started with the new year.

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It's really easy to jump in and to

just be intense about your goals.

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You've set your intentions, you

know what you wanna do this year.

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The number of you planning to depa this

year compared to last year from a state

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of the industry survey mind blowing.

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So maybe this is the year you depa,

you're gonna do the dang thing.

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So you show up in January, you're

intense about it, you're excited.

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That's great.

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I wanna offer that January is less

about intensity and more about

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trajectory one aligned move this month.

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Can change your entire

year's effort profile.

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So rather than just jumping in intensely

with your intentions, what if you jump

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in looking for alignment, looking for

trajectory in the correct direction first.

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So many January goals

are focusing on output.

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More content, more visibility,

more clients, more X, y, Z.

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But momentum building wins.

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They're focusing on reducing

friction, clarifying direction,

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strengthening the foundation for

that long term sustainable growth.

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It's about a website that clearly

communicates who you help, why you're

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different, what working with you feels

like language that is helping those right

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fit clients recognize themselves faster.

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We know they're shopping around, we know

they're looking at other therapists.

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How can they resonate

with you more deeply?

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Systems that reduce ongoing effort,

getting on those consults where

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people already know you're the

therapist they wanna work with,

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they understand your specialties,

they value the work that you do.

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I wanna offer that the best January

wins are the ones that are making

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February easier, not harder.

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How could you be doing that?

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As you start this month,

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remember, effort isn't the issue.

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That's the point of this

episode effort force.

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You've got it.

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You're gold there.

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You recognize it's needed.

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It's about direction and

resistance if you're not getting

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the results that you want.

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I hate seeing talented clinicians

exhausting themselves with their

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marketing feeling so wildly discouraged,

not because they're doing nothing.

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But because they're pushing

in all of the wrong places,

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I want to invite you into marketing that

doesn't have the goal of just adding

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more to your plate for the sake of it,

but instead of helping you identify

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where resistance is highest and what

effort could actually create the momentum

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you need to do this for the long haul.

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To get premium fee clients for

years to come, to be fulfilled in

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the work that you do and to be able

to enjoy the life outside of it.

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Now, you likely know if you've been

hanging around here that we reopen the

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doors to confident copy twice every

year at a reduced price and with some

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incredible extra bonuses, and the next one

is weeks away, two weeks from Thursday.

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In fact,

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confident copy is the number one

place I would recommend for you if

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you're someone realizing, holy cow,

I am applying all this force and I'm

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not getting the results that I want.

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We have a wait list, and by

joining that wait list, you're

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not committing to anything.

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There's no obligation, but you do

qualify for an extra discount on top

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of what we're offering publicly as

well as early access to the program,

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so you can dive in even sooner.

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But if we think about this

idea of force of direction of

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resistance, jump on the wait list.

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Let's start you in the right direction.

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This is a way to aim your first

push this year in a place that's

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going to make February and March

and April and beyond easier.

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Is there work involved?

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Of course there is.

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There's work involved no matter what.

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But if you could be doing work that you

know is going to compound that you know,

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has the ability to translate into momentum

for years to come, wouldn't you do it?

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That's what I wanna leave you with.

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If that sounds like something

that you need, again, there's

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no obligation by signing up.

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I encourage you to jump onto our

confident copy waitlist walker

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strategy code.com/waitlist.

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Again, there's no obligation, but it is

a step in the correct direction and it

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does set you up for some extra savings.

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If you do decide that you're

ready to jump in later this month.

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Later this week, we're also gonna be

announcing the details for our free

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workshop, clear website, full caseload.

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This is one of our most popular live

workshops we've ever offered, and I

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have completely overhauled it for 2026.

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That's where I'm gonna be sharing a

lot of the state of the industry survey

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data and our learnings on what's changed

between 2025 and 2026 in order to equip

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you with the clarity and the action plan.

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To start doing something, creating a

momentum in your practice moving forward.

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So do keep an eye on your inbox if

you are a member of our email list,

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and certainly on this podcast as well

as I'll be sharing the details there.

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But remember that if starting is the

hardest part, you've already done that,

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you've already started, the smartest

thing you can do now is to make sure

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you're aimed in the right direction.

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That's what this podcast is here for.

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That's what Confident Copy can

equip you to do, and it's what I

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want to see happen for you in 2026.

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All right.

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Thanks for being here today, y'all.

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I will see you in our next episode.

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