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Compassionate canine connections: Sally Gutteridge on ethical dog training, rescue dogs & advocacy
Episode 1213th May 2025 • The Yappy Hour • Yappily
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Host: Nathan Dunleavy

Guest: Sally Gutteridge, bestselling dog writer, advocate, and rescue dog handler

In this heartwarming episode, Nathan Dunleavy sits down with Sally Gutteridge, a bestselling author, ethical dog trainer, and former military dog handler. Sally opens up about her incredible journey from working with military dogs to rescuing and rehabilitating traumatised dogs, including ex-puppy farm survivors.

What You’ll Learn:

  • The importance of positive, science-based dog training
  • How to help rescue dogs decompress and build trust
  • Why understanding canine body language is crucial
  • The impact of trauma on a dog's behaviour and how to respond
  • How to create a predictable, safe environment for anxious dogs
  • Writing as a tool for dog advocacy and education

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Welcome to the Yappy Hour powered by

Yappily, the podcast for dog lovers

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who want to better understand and

connect with their four legged friends.

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I'm your host Nathan Dunleavy, and

today I'm joined by an incredibly

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special guest, Sally Gutteridge.

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Sally is a best selling dog writer,

an advocate for ethical dog training,

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a mentor, has a background in the

military, and is a rescue dog handler.

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In this episode, we talk about

everything from positive dog guardianship

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to rehabilitating rescue dogs,

including ex puppy farm survivors.

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We also dive into Sally's

fascinating journey with working

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dogs and how her writing is

shaping the future of dog advocacy.

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Whether you're a long time dog guardian or

just starting your journey, this episode

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is packed with wisdom and inspiration.

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So grab a cup of tea, settle

in, and let's get started.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Welcome

back to the Yappy Hour powered by Yappily.

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I'm your host, Nathan Dunleavy,

and I'm so excited to bring

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you another episode today.

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Even more excited because we've got

an amazing guest for this episode,

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Sally Gutteridge, a friend and

a colleague and a mentor to me.

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I'm so excited to have Sally.

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On the show today Sally has an incredible

journey, which we're going to be

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talking about today as a dog writer

an advocate a mentor a former hearing

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dog trainer And also has a background

in the military and is a rescue dog

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handler So we're going to be delving

into rescue dogs puppy farm survivors

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as well as positive Dog guardianship.

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So I'm super excited that

Sally's joined us today.

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Sally, welcome to the Yappy Hour.

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I'm so excited to chat with you today.

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How are you?

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Sally: for inviting me.

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Yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

It's great to have you here.

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Have you had a bit of a cold, haven't you?

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So I'm just, that's both of us.

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We're both in the war.

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So I'm sure we'll get through it together.

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Sally you have sat such a fascinating

journey from being in the military,

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working as a trainer for hearing dogs,

to behaviourist, writer, and mentor.

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What led you to dedicate

your life to dogs?

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Sally: I think it was probably the same

story as most dog people, weren't it?

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We, from the moment that we start to

walk, we start to be drawn to these

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beautiful animals and tend to gravitate

back to them over and over and over

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again and that's how it happened for me.

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I grew up in the West Midlands

and there was no, it was

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very, it was a very poor area.

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And there was no university

or anything like that for me.

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And I

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.

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Sally: playing with the dog,

getting her over jumps and things.

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And bit by bit I joined the army and

then Learned a little bit more and

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learned a bit more, did lots of study.

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But, do we really need

to ask why we chose dogs?

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Dogs chose us, didn't they?

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Really?

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I knew you were going to say that.

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Dogs choose us.

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Sally: Yeah, they

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

that's lovely.

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You've got such an interesting story.

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So when you were in the military,

did you work with dogs then?

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Sally: Yeah, yeah.

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I actually joined as a healthcare

assistant in the military because

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I had no idea that you could become

an army dog trainer at the time.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.

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Sally: Army careers and they

give me a list of things

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that I would be suitable for.

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was, one was health care assistant.

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So I said, okay, I'll give that a go.

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then while I was working at a hospital

in Catrick Garrison, found out

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you could be an army dog trainer.

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And so I was like,

okay, I want to do that.

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And I went off, joined

the veterinary corps.

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then the first The first day I got there,

we had to do a basic fitness test which

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was run a mile and a half in 15 minutes

and then a mile and a half in 11 minutes.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, bloody hell.

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Sally: completely failed it.

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And then they were going

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

would, I would have found it.

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Oh, wow.

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Sally: I ended up saying, please don't

send me back, I really want to work.

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Here, I really want to work with dogs.

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And the regimental sergeant major took

me running every morning that I could

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pass this fitness test so that I could

carry on working with dogs, yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, that's amazing.

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Sally: Yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

that he was invested and helped

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you, helped you through it as well.

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Sally: Yeah, he was a lovely guy.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: So you

obviously got through it in the end then.

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Sally: Yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I love, I don't know some of this

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stuff, so I'm loving hearing a

little bit about your history.

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I think it's fascinating.

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Thank you, Sally.

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You've written so many books,

books that have helped dog

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parents, dog guardians worldwide.

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What inspired you to start writing

about dogs and their people?

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Sally: Oh, it was, I'd

always wanted to write.

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I always wanted to be a writer.

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And I did it was not that

long ago, when I went back to

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writing, it was about 15 years.

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And I'd been in the army, and

I'd worked for hearing dogs, and

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I'd done lots of rescue stuff.

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So I had all the dog knowledge, but

I, I wanted to write but I never

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met the connection between all

the dog knowledge and the writing.

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I was like a dog person, a person who

loved dogs who wanted to write novels

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and so I did, I did a writing course

and the first part of the writing

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course was writing non fiction.

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And of course I went to dogs,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.

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Sally: it for them, I might

as well write it for me.

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So I started writing courses for, and

and my husband created Canine Principles,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Sally: taking it in and then putting

it down on the page in a more

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accessible way as it passed through

my, through me, onto the page.

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So.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Brilliant.

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And you're also a better dog

behaviourist as well, aren't you?

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Sally: yeah, yeah, I don't practice I,

I generally teach and write, but, yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, brilliant.

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Such a let's say such an inspiring

story and I love hearing about it.

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Thank you, Sally.

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So we're going to be moving on to our

next section, which is the power of

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ethical dog training and guardianship.

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You're a huge advocate

for ethical dog training.

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Why do you believe that positive

science based methods are so important?

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Sally: Oh, they are, because we

should be kind, shouldn't we?

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

We should.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Sally: why shouldn't you hit children?

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You know, why shouldn't you, it, it, it's

something that is so straightforward, we

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should be kind, if we love dogs we should

look into understanding them, giving

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them their head, letting them be who

they are, helping them to live with us.

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There's It, it surprises me that there

are still people pushing dogs around.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Heartbreaking.

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Sally: Yeah, even, even things

like picking them up or, or

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blaming them for their behaviour.

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It's so archaic.

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It's so, we know so much about

ourselves, how our minds work,

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how our nervous systems work.

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We know so much about how the dog's brain

works and the dog's nervous system works.

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We know how sensitive and gentle they are.

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If we push our will onto dogs and force

them, to me it's like taking a beautiful

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flower and crushing it up in your

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, oh, wow.

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God, what a comparison.

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Yeah.

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Sally: Yeah, it's, it's how it should be.

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We should be kind.

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We

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely.

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It's definitely the way we should

go and the way we should be.

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It's actually like you say, we're

kind to each other and we need to be

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kind to dogs, the scent, you know,

central beings kindness to all animals.

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So that takes us nicely

onto our next question.

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So many pet parents and pet guardians

still hear outdated advice about

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being the alpha and inverted commas.

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How do you think we can

change this narrative?

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Sally: I think we need to

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become inspiring ourselves.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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Sally: need to light up a

flame in ourselves for the

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kindness and for the educated

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services and become the best

that we can be in order to

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touch as many lives as possible.

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Because if we put in our energy on someone

that's harming, giving bad advice, putting

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all of our special precious resources

onto something, and it will only grow.

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But if we can bring our special resources

back to ourselves and say, I am going

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to be the best that I can be, I'm

going to shine on everything around me.

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We're going to reach more people.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, yeah, definitely.

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Sally: and,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Love that.

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Sally: really believe in a lot of the

people that harm dogs or hurt dogs in the

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name of training have actually be harmed

or hurt themselves in some way, and to

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Absolutely.

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Sally: them with criticism is going to

create a defensive response from them.

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And that's not going to hurt.

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That's not going to help anyone.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No,

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Sally: so, I believe

that we need to consider

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helping through education, but also

through kindness and awareness.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

yeah, I was going to say it comes

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back down to education, doesn't it?

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And, and bringing it back to

your, your center, your heart and

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obviously doing it for your heart.

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So yeah, I, I get what you're, what you're

saying is that people that are doing those

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type of methods, they've got some sort of

trauma or hurt themselves, unfortunately.

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So if a dog guardian is feeling

frustrated, what's one mindset,

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mindset shift that could help them

connect better with their dog?

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Sally: I think a lot of frustration

comes from expectations, I think a

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

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Sally: expectations are unreasonable.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,

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Sally: So I think that if someone

is triggered by the way that their

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dog's behaving, they need to turn

back in and say, Why am I triggered?

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What am I expecting?

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What are they going through?

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

yeah, yeah, definitely.

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Sally: they're giving me a hard time

here, they know what they're doing.

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All of these myths and ideas that

dogs know what they're doing.

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They can be naughty, they're

doing this, they're doing that.

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Actually, our expectations

of dogs are very, very high.

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Our threshold for embarrassment

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

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Sally: low.

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And that

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,

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Sally: I think, to cause

frustration with dogs, but if we

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can say, why am I embarrassed?

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This is about me, not my dog.

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I need to look inwards.

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And also, what am I expecting?

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And are they actually

capable of delivering that?

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Have I

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,

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Sally: that they can

succeed by delivering that?

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,

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Sally: I think that's the thing.

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It's very much, am I expecting too much?

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

yeah, I think but there are an

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unrealistic expectations in life now.

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You know, everyone sort of wants a quick

fix and we, we, you know, we compare

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ourselves to others, unfortunately,

and we're not necessarily prepared to.

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Be consistent and put in the work.

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We just want, you know,

we want that quick fix.

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We, we, you know, we're,

we're our own worst critics.

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So like you say, it's about

sort of looking in more.

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Sally: I remember when I worked for

hearing dogs and, and a kind of a little

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bit of a culture in hearing dogs for the

person that could have the dog the most

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robotic and clearly they needed to be like

that because they were going out to people

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who weren't dog handlers or trainers.

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So they needed to have a good standard

of like obedience and things so they

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could walk around the shops and stuff.

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And.

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I remember thinking while I was

doing it, I am not invested in this.

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I'm not invested in having this,

this, this of obedience from dogs.

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And so, even back then, I started to

to myself, well, back then I would

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say to myself, I'm not good enough

because I'm not invested and I'm not

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making this dog do exactly what, and

it was all very much, I was wrong.

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Because I wasn't creating these obedient

dogs, although I was because I had to

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because it was my job, but I was wrong

because it, I wasn't that invested in it.

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And I

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Silence.

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Silence.

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Silence.

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Sally: didn't matter.

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So you had all the men like, Heel,

heel, and we were like, Our dogs

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are being exactly as they please.

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And we loved it.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, that's the way it should be.

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Sally: But it's never

mattered to me, not really.

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These dogs should be seen and

not heard and all of that stuff.

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And to a point in my life where

I started to say actually, I'm

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not wrong and they're all right.

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That's not how it is.

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I just

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mmm.

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Sally: a different angle and I don't

think obedience is important and I'm

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seeing more and more people saying

now dogs get to be who they are.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.

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Sally: and that's amazing.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, yeah.

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No, it's nice that we're, more people

come around to that way of thinking.

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You know, why have a, that whole mantra

like children you should be seen and

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not heard and dogs, you know, to me

it's, it's rubbish because why have a

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companion or A friend if you if you're

of that if you've got that mindset.

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Sally: And it's fun, it's fun seeing

dogs doing like climbing all over you,

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like two hours climbing all over you.

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It's quite, it's quite nice.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: you

know, you're preaching to the converted

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of being, you know Having my free two

hours and I know you've got your two hours

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Now as well which we can touch on later.

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But yeah the two hours are so spirited

and full of character and they're

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just, they're just being dogs.

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Let them be.

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Sally: And it's beautiful, it's beautiful.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It is.

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Thank you, Sally.

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Moving on to our next section, which is

all about rescuing and rehabilitating

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dogs, including puppy farm.

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survivors.

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You've rescued a lot

of dogs over the years.

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You've rescued two even recently,

which I, which I love including

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some ex puppy farm survivors.

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What would you say are some of

the biggest challenges they face?

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Yeah, yeah,

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Sally: little dogs, think.

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A lot of them, my little Holly,

she came into my life when she was

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six, but they say they're all six,

and she came through many tears,

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and she was completely shut down.

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I think that's what people find hard,

if they don't understand these kind of

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dogs, and what they've been through,

and how they've probably never had the

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human relationship that they should have.

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I think that they come, they want to

rescue them, and they want to love them.

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And for these little dogs,

that's the hardest thing.

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They just need to be left alone,

that they can join in, in their

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own time, in their own way.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

yeah, yeah.

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Sally: We, we humans, we

just, we want to comfort.

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Come on, give me a hug, I'll comfort

you, I'll make you feel better.

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And there's nothing wrong with that,

that's a beautiful human trait.

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It's just not right trait for dogs who

are carrying trauma, have been traumatised

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or are shut down in this frozen state.

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Even eye contact with

those dogs is too much.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, I mean even a normal rescue dog.

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Oh go on my love.

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Sally: But the beauty of these little

dogs is you start to see their eyes

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shine and it happens overnight.

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You've got these little blank eyes

and then you look at them one day

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and the tail's going and they're

shining and you go there it is

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you're shining and it's beautiful.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: God

Like because rescue dogs can take up

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to six months to fully decompress, but

obviously these ex puppy farm dogs I

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mean, like you say they've been through

this trauma So it could take even longer.

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And I picked up on your point.

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You said they're all six, so I guess they

get to the age of six and then they're of

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no use to the puppy farms, which is awful,

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Sally: Yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: awful.

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Sally: I think Holly was a

generational puppy farmer.

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Puppy farm dog as well.

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'cause I think she was born there

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.

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Oh, oh,

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Sally: not really been outdoors.

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Hearing hadn't developed properly.

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She couldn't, directional sound,

nothing like that that hadn't developed.

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She'd had, she had like half a tail,

so I think she probably chewed that

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: oh,

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Sally: at some point,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

in stress.

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Yeah, self mutilation.

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Sally: she was absolutely

allergic to anything green.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Grain?

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Really?

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Sally: the plants, she couldn't,

she couldn't go on any and I, I

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believe it's because she'd never

built up a, a tolerance to it.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh my gosh.

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Sally: And it's

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, oh,

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Sally: when the come out of a puppy farm.

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was scratching all the time

and she was 6 when she came

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and she was 13 when she died.

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she was still showing new

sparkles, new behaviours.

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Even like a week before she died,

she was still getting braver.

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So, yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I guess obviously they would have

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missed so They would have missed so

much key socialization, habituation

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times, you know, a chance to, like

you say, to experience all that.

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But Holly, Holly did inspire you a

lot, didn't she, in your journey?

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Sally: Yeah, yeah, she well

there's her book that's out there.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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Sally: me a lot because just doing

things like problem solving in the

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house she went from a little worried

dog to this wild cardboard box ripper.

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She was into everything and that

helped her confidence wonderfully.

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You know, she's like,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh.

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Sally: this, so I can do this.

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Yeah.

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You'd see her,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,

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Sally: of her in all sorts.

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You'd get a delivery from Amazon and

she was in there with her three teeth.

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Yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

free tea!

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Oh, bless her heart.

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Oh, what a legacy.

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And so glad that she landed

on her paws with you.

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What would you say is the most

important thing people should understand

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before adopting a rescue dog, Sally?

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Sally: I think maybe that they are

potentially, depending on their

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history, not going to expect them not

to fall in love with you immediately.

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They've

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Hmm.

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Sally: let down in one way or another.

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gonna be scared, they're gonna be anxious,

and it's gonna be hard for them to trust.

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But when they do

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Hmm.

386

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Sally: in love with you, it's

gonna be love of a lifetime.

387

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh.

388

:

Yeah.

389

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Sally: Yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

think as humans, as humans

391

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we don't deserve dogs, do we?

392

:

Yeah.

393

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But no, like,

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with rescue dogs, like I say, it

does take that time for them to,

395

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you know, to sort of Trust, trust

you and build that bond and stuff.

396

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So,

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Sally: Yeah.

398

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: do

you have a particular, I mean, it might

399

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be one of your own, but do you have

a particular rescue story that has

400

:

stuck with you over the years at all?

401

:

Sally: You know, I think it's got to be

402

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, Chips!

403

:

Yeah, I know Mr.

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:

Chips.

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Sally: because of

406

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Chips is still around.

407

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Sally: Everything that is done through

me over the years is, is amazing.

408

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'cause it, it was, the reason that I

studied to be a behaviourist was chips.

409

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The

410

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, okay.

411

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Sally: I started all of the businesses.

412

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wrote, wrote all of my books was because

413

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Pips did it through me,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

415

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Sally: He, I, I

416

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.

417

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Sally: he, he's this huge dog soul.

418

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that came here to create support for dogs.

419

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And he came and showed me what I

needed to do because he was so complex.

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I had to learn so much about him.

421

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And he literally changed my life.

422

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: oh wow,

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Sally: So I think

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: aww,

425

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Sally: to be Chips.

426

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I

427

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

cheers, lovely, that's brilliant.

428

:

So moving on to our, our next section,

which is, we've touched on a little

429

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bit, obviously life in the military and

a rescue, being a rescue dog handler.

430

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Your background in the military

is so fascinating, but what was

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that experience like for you?

432

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Sally: would never not have done

it, but there were some stuff that,

433

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: oh,

434

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Sally: there

435

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,

436

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Sally: stuff.

437

:

But yeah, I started off

training protection dogs.

438

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So it was German Shepherds and

Rottweilers for apprehending criminals and

439

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: wow.

440

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Sally: them down.

441

:

And then I After I'd done that for

a while, I went onto arms explosive

442

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search, I had a beautiful black

Labrador called Jude, and I trained her.

443

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She was handed over to the military

because her person had cancer, she

444

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handed her Jude and her brother Max over

to the military, and I trained her as

445

:

an arms explosive search dog as I was

446

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Wow.

447

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Sally: to be a trainer.

448

:

And then we went to Kosovo together.

449

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Really?

450

:

Sally: Yeah, it was amazing.

451

:

We

452

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I didn't know that.

453

:

Sally: yeah.

454

:

We, we spent six months in Kosovo and we

just looking at that chi hour we spent

455

:

six months in Kosovo in 99 to 2000.

456

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So it was when it was all over the

news and everything, and I remember

457

:

landing and thinking I could die here.

458

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, my word.

459

:

What was that feeling like?

460

:

Wow.

461

:

That feeling that you could die.

462

:

Sally: and we got given all our stuff

because they give you morphine and

463

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things to carry about in case you need

it and they give you these dog tags.

464

:

I am not a soldier.

465

:

I was never any good as being a soldier.

466

:

At one point, at one point, they

gave me these dog tags and they're

467

:

like a big chain and a short chain.

468

:

And I asked what a short chain

with a dog tag was for, and they

469

:

said, it's for your big toe.

470

:

Like, like, you know, if you come

home you're not, no longer alive.

471

:

yeah, I

472

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

on your big toe to,

473

:

Sally: And I, I said, naively,

does it not, is it not

474

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

oh, my right.

475

:

Sally: So I was under the

impression that you had to wear

476

:

it on your big toe all the time.

477

:

But anyway, back to dogs.

478

:

It

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

480

:

Sally: going out and finding

weapons and explosives and

481

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, okay.

482

:

Sally: in Kosovo with

the dog that I trained.

483

:

And then I came away from there,

but I had to leave her behind.

484

:

So

485

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,

486

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Sally: over to the next handler,

who was actually my friend.

487

:

So she

488

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.

489

:

Sally: And then I went

490

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

491

:

Sally: Ireland as a drugs dog handler.

492

:

And

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.

494

:

Wow.

495

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Sally: in Northern Ireland

and then protection as well.

496

:

So,

497

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But the arms explosive search was

good because you could, you did

498

:

spend a lot of time in helicopters.

499

:

So they come, you get on the helicopter,

they take you out somewhere, you drop, and

500

:

then what happens with that kind of search

dog is the dog goes then the trainer, then

501

:

you have a cover man with a rifle, and

then the engineers come up behind you.

502

:

So it's very frontline,

503

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Climate.

504

:

Sally: a great experience.

505

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Wow.

506

:

God, what an experience.

507

:

And what a life.

508

:

So, where, where are you positioned or

based anywhere after Northern Ireland

509

:

or did you come back to the UK or

510

:

Sally: Ireland.

511

:

Yeah,

512

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

the army?

513

:

Yeah.

514

:

Oh, wow.

515

:

So I didn't realize that I didn't

like helicopters . So I went in

516

:

the helicopter for the first time,

like 10 years ago in in Las Vegas.

517

:

And you, you go in the he helicopter to

land at the bottom of the Grand Canyon.

518

:

And I didn't realize I, I thought I

was gonna love the helicopter, but

519

:

no, I wasn't a fan of this helicopter.

520

:

God, it was going up

and it was all shaking.

521

:

I was, I was crapping myself.

522

:

My husband was laughing, my

husband was sat next to me.

523

:

He was laughing his ass off because

he just couldn't believe it.

524

:

But no, I wasn't a fan of the

helicopter, unfortunately.

525

:

A bit different to your

helicopter, I bet, but,

526

:

Sally: Yeah, it would have

527

:

Because, yeah.

528

:

Oh, I'm sorry you didn't

enjoy that, Nathan.

529

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh no, I don't really want to go

530

:

on one again, that's for sure.

531

:

So, what makes working dogs different from

pet dogs, and how do their needs compare?

532

:

Sally: Oh, that's an

interesting one, isn't it?

533

:

Because let's face it, working

534

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, that's what they're bred for.

535

:

Yeah.

536

:

Yes.

537

:

Sally: And so these people that work

with working dogs, and I've done both.

538

:

Working dogs for military and

companion dogs for hearing dogs.

539

:

And I can tell you that you

need more skill to train a

540

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

541

:

Sally: got a companion dog

that's bred to be a companion.

542

:

They don't really, you know,

they'll have a bit of fun but

543

:

it's all on their terms really.

544

:

It's not,

545

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

546

:

Yeah.

547

:

Yeah.

548

:

Yeah.

549

:

How are you?

550

:

Sally: dog, Bichon Frises Shih Tzus

those dogs actually being trained to go

551

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.

552

:

Okay.

553

:

Excuse me.

554

:

This is the.

555

:

This is the.

556

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Sally: in my opinion, are so much

more skilled than the people who can

557

:

rein in a German Shepherd with the

use of a crappy collar or a threat.

558

:

Yeah.

559

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, fascinating.

560

:

Sally: Yes,

561

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

562

:

That's sad, isn't it?

563

:

Yeah.

564

:

Yeah.

565

:

Sally: we're only coming now into

the point where we starting to

566

:

recognize and meet their needs.

567

:

It's not that, not that unusual to

go out and see a dog who has behavior

568

:

issues, who's never done enrichment.

569

:

You know, it's getting less unusual,

but things like a snuffle rug, and

570

:

a treat ball, and some basic kind

of interaction and engagement,

571

:

lot of dogs haven't even ever had.

572

:

And people find that when

they do that, their behaviours

573

:

start to settle down naturally.

574

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: They do.

575

:

But, and again, I think that, and

that's not really always at the fault

576

:

of the pet parent or the guardian

because they don't know no better

577

:

and it comes back to education.

578

:

You wouldn't know that that's

what you class as enrichment.

579

:

Sally: Yeah, and, and it's so, it's

kind of rewarding and it's also quite

580

:

sad to have someone get in touch with

you and say, I'm doing this, this and

581

:

this with her she's a different dog.

582

:

And that person's actually been to four

or five different trainers and have never

583

:

been told they can use a snuffer rug.

584

:

And,

585

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh my goodness.

586

:

Sally: They'll kind of say to

you, if only I'd met you first.

587

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

588

:

Sally: sad that that's the

589

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It is.

590

:

Sally: are.

591

:

a lot of this, you've got to be the

boss, is still so prolific, that people

592

:

are that they are experts and a lot

of the people aren't even educated.

593

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No,

it's almost like he can shout the loudest.

594

:

Sally: Yeah,

595

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

the time, take the time and

596

:

observe what's going on.

597

:

Yeah brilliant.

598

:

Are there any lessons from

working dogs that pet parents can

599

:

apply to their everyday lives?

600

:

Good

601

:

Sally: I think so, yeah.

602

:

the job, give the dog a job,

603

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: job.

604

:

Sally: yeah.

605

:

Give them something to do, help

them to even use their mealtimes

606

:

a way to forage or search and I

think hands off and up to earth.

607

:

a little bit of dog body language and then

start to observe how the dog's responding,

608

:

both to them approaching them and also

to things around in the environment.

609

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.

610

:

Sally: of observation because the

dog will tell you how they're feeling

611

:

and also help them to be busy.

612

:

Do what, their natural

needs, do what dogs do.

613

:

They need, they're needed to find food.

614

:

If we give them a bowl and they can just

eat it, that's a wasted opportunity.

615

:

They're needed to play, yet so

many dogs don't get to play.

616

:

And it doesn't

617

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No.

618

:

Yeah.

619

:

Definitely.

620

:

Yeah.

621

:

Yeah.

622

:

Sally: going to happen next, you,

you've maybe come from an unpredictable

623

:

background, and you're in a new

house, so everything's unpredictable.

624

:

Be predictable.

625

:

Create little patterns that show the dog

that they can, they can see what's going

626

:

to come next, what's going to come after

that, what's going to come after that.

627

:

Let them make little choices

because little choices will

628

:

help them to grow in confidence.

629

:

So create safety in that way

because that will help too.

630

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, definitely.

631

:

Yeah.

632

:

And it comes back to sort of you know,

understanding canine body language.

633

:

Again, I'm a big advocate on, you

know, educating pet parents, you

634

:

know, just, you know, taking a moment,

observing, understand, trying to, like,

635

:

learning about their body language

so you can, you know, work out what

636

:

the dog's trying to, to tell you.

637

:

Sally: Yeah,

638

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

important, isn't it?

639

:

Brilliant.

640

:

Sally: free resources to teach

you how to watch your dog now.

641

:

It's just, be absolutely careful about who

you choose because there are as many wrong

642

:

on what a dog's doing

as there are good ones.

643

:

So,

644

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

645

:

Sally: touch and ask where you can look.

646

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, absolutely.

647

:

Definitely.

648

:

I think that's where sort of Yappily

comes into play because it's a online

649

:

directory which is connecting pet

parents with ethical, kind, qualified,

650

:

you know, vetted pet professionals.

651

:

So always seek out someone like that.

652

:

Brilliant, thank you so much.

653

:

We're going to be moving on to our

next section, which is the role of

654

:

writing in DOD, in DOD, in dog advocacy.

655

:

We mentioned Sally, you've

written multiple books on

656

:

dog behaviour and training.

657

:

What impact do you hope your writing

has on pet parents and dog guardians?

658

:

Sally: just want people to understand

what their dogs need, and I also

659

:

want, in a, in a, a way that's

straightforward, and I also want people

660

:

to go easier on themselves, because

661

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mmm.

662

:

Sally: a lot of pressure on themselves

to have a well behaved dog, actually,

663

:

It's unnecessary pressure,

664

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

665

:

Yeah, definitely.

666

:

Sally: I'm not, I have written dog

training books, and I have written step

667

:

by step dog training books, because people

need to have a dog that they can handle.

668

:

But I've written much, much more

about what's going on inside

669

:

the dog, because I think it's so

670

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mmm.

671

:

Sally: that people understand

that the dog's trying their best.

672

:

All the time they're

trying their best with what

673

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

674

:

Sally: what they've inherited genetically.

675

:

also I want people to understand that

they are doing their best as well.

676

:

That they're

677

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

678

:

Sally: best.

679

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

yeah, definitely.

680

:

Sally: so I want the bond to be great.

681

:

I don't want dogs to be

blamed for their behavior.

682

:

And I don't want people to feel

like they are under pressure to

683

:

have a perfectly behaved dog.

684

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, definitely, that's so important.

685

:

If someone is new to your work,

Sally, which book or books do

686

:

you recommend they start with

687

:

Sally: I think probably the first

one, Inspiring Resilience I've

688

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

in Spoke?

689

:

Sally: that and it's being

formatted at the moment.

690

:

So, I think probably by the time

that this, this podcast goes

691

:

out, the new one will be up.

692

:

But definitely that for General

Resilience and the Puppy

693

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

694

:

Sally: if you have a scared dog.

695

:

Yeah, so that's

696

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

it's, it's,

697

:

Sally: Sorry, Bob.

698

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: no,

no, so that's called Holly, is it?

699

:

The puppy farm one.

700

:

Sally: Folly's one is fearful dog

rehabilitation, life with a puppy

701

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: That's,

702

:

Sally: And the other one is inspiring

resilience in fearful and reactive dogs.

703

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Lovely,

704

:

Sally: yeah.

705

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

brilliant.

706

:

I know you said that you're not a

practicing behaviourist anymore, but

707

:

how do you balance your different roles

as a mentor, a writer, and a writer?

708

:

Does each role influence the other?

709

:

Sally: Does it?

710

:

I don't think so.

711

:

I don't think it does.

712

:

I what I tend to do is I'll

either do Mentoring or webinars

713

:

full on and just focus on that

or I'll do a book full on because

714

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right,

715

:

Sally: between the two.

716

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I say.

717

:

Sally: writing tends to bring

out a bit of a flow in me.

718

:

It's like something else

is writing through me.

719

:

And then when I see what's on the

page, then I bring that into my

720

:

mentoring, but more the fundamental

being of it as opposed to Perhaps

721

:

the fact, does that make sense?

722

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, definitely.

723

:

Sally: sometimes I write something

and go, Whoa, I read that.

724

:

I didn't really write that.

725

:

Something wrote that through me.

726

:

And then that will come up when I'm

with a person that I'm mentoring with.

727

:

So,

728

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

So, do you mentor people to be able

729

:

to start writing for themselves, or?

730

:

I mean, I wish I could write, but I

just don't feel I'm that creative.

731

:

Sally: you, you probably caught,

I think everybody can write,

732

:

but it's hard to get going.

733

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I know you've inspired a

734

:

lot of people to get going.

735

:

Sally: Yeah, I did a couple of writing

courses when I had Canine Principals,

736

:

and that was, I did a 30 day dog writing

course dog book writing course, and

737

:

that put a lot of books out there.

738

:

They're actually out there, still

out there and doing well now.

739

:

So.

740

:

Yeah, I think everybody's

got a book in them.

741

:

You could write a book Nathan.

742

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Do you reckon?

743

:

Sally: Yeah, you could

write a book for dog walkers

744

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Could write a book for dog

745

:

walkers or some sort of memoir.

746

:

Because I've got an interest in life.

747

:

I've had an interest in life.

748

:

Do you, do you have like a, because your

life is interesting, do you, have you done

749

:

a memoir or an autobiography or anything?

750

:

Sally: No, I've got one I want to write

one about chips which is kind of loosely

751

:

about me as well And I have started

752

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.

753

:

Sally: But you know what?

754

:

It's like is something else comes

up and something else comes up.

755

:

I'm actually On the screen behind

here, there's, there's a novel that

756

:

I started that I've just got back

into now, which is a crime novel,

757

:

so I'm going to have a go at that.

758

:

I've another go

759

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: You mean

you're, you're writing, you're writing

760

:

a crime novel or you're reading one?

761

:

Sally: I'm having a go at writing one.

762

:

Yeah.

763

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh wow!

764

:

Well that's different from dogs.

765

:

Sally: Yeah.

766

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

made you want, what's made you do

767

:

that or do you just wanted a change?

768

:

Sally: You know when you read a good

book, a really good book, and it makes you

769

:

feel kind of warm inside, and, and they

770

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Warm and fuzzy.

771

:

Sally: the end, so there's a bit of

like engagement between the characters.

772

:

And I, when I've finished reading a

book like that, I go, feel really nice.

773

:

I want to do that for other people.

774

:

And so I want to tell a story, even

if I only do one that people can read

775

:

and escape into and just have a nice

day sitting with their dogs, reading

776

:

a book, and that's what I want to do.

777

:

I want to give them that feeling.

778

:

So, yeah.

779

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I love that.

780

:

And I was thinking you were saying

obviously like having the time,

781

:

but you know, you've got two new

additions recently as well, so they're

782

:

definitely probably keeping you busy,

783

:

Sally: Oh, great.

784

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

785

:

So yeah, I mean to just tell our

listeners you've recently rescued

786

:

Darcy, who is a Chihuahua mix.

787

:

And then not so long later

'cause I was trying to tap you

788

:

up for one of my chihuahuas.

789

:

You.

790

:

You, oh yeah, I might still, yeah.

791

:

And and then all of a

sudden Miss Foxy appears.

792

:

Another Chihuahua.

793

:

Because you said to me for a while you

wanted a Chihuahua and now you've got two.

794

:

Sally: Yeah, I shoot, David, I,

what happened was because we've

795

:

got two 15 year old terriers and

they're proper old men And they

796

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh boys, and I did one of

797

:

Sally: Didn't want to play.

798

:

And really played in her foster home So I

was like, do I get another one now so that

799

:

Darcy's got a playmate that then I've just

got the two Moving forward when the boys

800

:

get and I got in touch with the rescue

that Darcy came from and she said we have

801

:

a very, very nervous chihuahua they didn't

advertise because they said she's so tiny

802

:

that if If we advertise her, everybody's

going to want her, but not everybody's

803

:

going to have the skill to deal with her.

804

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes,

805

:

Sally: and so I ummed and I ah'd,

and I ummed and I ah'd, and I

806

:

was like, should I, shouldn't I?

807

:

And they kept getting back in touch with

me and saying, Foxy started playing,

808

:

Foxy started playing with the other dog.

809

:

And you know what, Nathan, I believe very

much in things happening for a reason.

810

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: same.

811

:

Sally: in Carlisle and

812

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right,

813

:

Sally: my dad used to be married

to a lady who lived in Carlisle

814

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.

815

:

Sally: My dad died and she married

again and she was a very close friend

816

:

and she was my step mom for a while.

817

:

And She died recently, Helen did,

I went up, I said, where's Fox?

818

:

I was going up to see Paul, her husband,

and give support, I said, where is Foxy?

819

:

And she was like 15

minutes away from Paul,

820

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, okay.

821

:

Sally: but four hours away from me.

822

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, okay.

823

:

Sally: Yeah,

824

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: had

you have not been going to see, had

825

:

you have not been going to see Paul,

you wouldn't have got, you wouldn't

826

:

have been able to see Foxy then.

827

:

So everything happens for a reason.

828

:

Sally: Yeah, I think it was almost

like the universe said, Okay, you've

829

:

got two reasons to go up here.

830

:

Two are equally important.

831

:

Two means you've got to go.

832

:

So I went.

833

:

Yeah.

834

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Hmm.

835

:

Sally: So.

836

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.

837

:

So you've got Foxy who's like a

long haired Chihuahua and then

838

:

Darcy here is a Chihuahua cross.

839

:

Sally: Yeah.

840

:

But the moment I walked into the

foster home and saw Foxy, because

841

:

I wasn't going to bring her home.

842

:

I was like I was still not sure, I just

was gonna meet her, see, you know, whether

843

:

I ought to bring her home and I took

Chips and Darcy with me and I walked

844

:

in and I saw this thing about that big

under the dining table going like that

845

:

I went, you're coming home with me.

846

:

And she did.

847

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, really?

848

:

You took her home?

849

:

Sally: Yeah.

850

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I

love that and what a great name as I

851

:

mean, like you say, they said she was

a bit nervous but Foxy to me is quite

852

:

a, a bold, brave name so I'd imagine

from what I'm seeing she's starting to

853

:

find her feet and settle, isn't she?

854

:

Sally: she is.

855

:

I wake up in the morning and

she's stood on my chest looking

856

:

in my face wagging her tail.

857

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, I love it and I just love that.

858

:

I love you've got your chai's finally.

859

:

Sally God, we've sailed through this

episode, so we're gonna, for the last

860

:

sort of five to seven minutes, we're

gonna sort of sort of wrap up and just

861

:

go over some final questions and points.

862

:

But yeah, what an amazing

story and, you know, you're an

863

:

inspiration, Sally, you really are.

864

:

If there's one thing that you wish all

dog guardians knew, what would it be?

865

:

Sally: What other people

think doesn't matter.

866

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm hmm.

867

:

Absolutely.

868

:

Sally: because I always

say I have no shame if

869

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.

870

:

Sally: dog and my dog's reacting or.

871

:

People are looking on,

they're none of my business.

872

:

My dog's my

873

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No.

874

:

Sally: And,

875

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

876

:

Sally: that's, if you have to walk

away from someone to help your

877

:

dog feel better, then do that.

878

:

doesn't matter what people think

of you, doesn't matter what people

879

:

think of your dog's behaviour, the

only thing that's your business is

880

:

your wellness and their wellness.

881

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

882

:

So don't, don't worry about anyone else.

883

:

Isn't there a saying that those

that mind matter or those that

884

:

don't mind don't, I don't know, I've

probably got it completely wrong.

885

:

But no yeah, just concentrate on,

you know, your, you and your, your

886

:

dog and, you know, your world and

don't worry about anyone else.

887

:

Cause.

888

:

You know, they're on their journey,

you're on yours, so just, well

889

:

yeah, like you say, don't worry

about what other people think.

890

:

Sally: No.

891

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

for someone, for someone who has just

892

:

rescued a dog and feels overwhelmed,

what would you say to them?

893

:

Sally: I would say that I've felt

overwhelmed with every single dog

894

:

that I've rescued initially, and

never regretted seeing it through.

895

:

You get, you get the dog that

you get for a reason, that dog

896

:

will teach you something so very

important as part of your journey.

897

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Brilliant,

898

:

Sally: And so, stick with it, and

just try to stay aware, it does,

899

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.

900

:

Sally: is hard at the beginning.

901

:

Foxy peed on my bed about six times

and, and, I mean, I'm sure, you know,

902

:

it is hard at the beginning, but what

you're dealing with is a little animal

903

:

who doesn't know where they're at, may

have been let down, may have had their

904

:

heart broken, and they will get better.

905

:

Yeah.

906

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

907

:

Time.

908

:

Time's a healer.

909

:

Sally: Yeah,

910

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Just takes time.

911

:

Sally: and they don't live long

enough, and so even the hard times, at

912

:

least there are times with your dog.

913

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

914

:

Yeah.

915

:

Brilliant.

916

:

And what would you say is the

most rewarding part of working

917

:

with and writing about dogs?

918

:

Sally: It's when people come to

you and say, your book changed

919

:

my relationship with my dog.

920

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.

921

:

That's so powerful.

922

:

Sally: Because

923

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

924

:

Sally: because I'm like most

other people in the dog world.

925

:

In the dog world, the people that

are educated and do continue to work,

926

:

I don't have much, a great deal of

self belief in myself or my work.

927

:

And so, it always surprises always

really nice when somebody says,

928

:

Your, your book really helped me

get through those first few months.

929

:

And, and it, it's beautiful.

930

:

Yeah.

931

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, that's weird.

932

:

Makes it really, really rewarding

and makes it all worth it.

933

:

And yeah so Sally, I'm going

to put you on the spot.

934

:

Here's a question.

935

:

I've not prepared you for,

but we've got lots of amazing.

936

:

Well, we've got lots of amazing

guests lined up for the yappy hour.

937

:

We've got behaviors.

938

:

dog trainers vets, groomers lots of

different people that we've got coming

939

:

on over the next couple of months.

940

:

But if there was one person that

you think that we should invite on

941

:

the yappy hour within our canine

industry, who would that be and why?

942

:

Sally: Ah, I think you've already had him.

943

:

The the

944

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: that's,

945

:

Sally: the person who I've

seen speak that's had the most

946

:

impact for me is Andrew Hale.

947

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yes,

948

:

Sally: He's, he's the most amazing man.

949

:

and I did a, a retreat,

a holiday and he came and

950

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: You,

951

:

Sally: on

952

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

you, you did.

953

:

Yes, I remember seeing

something about that.

954

:

Sally: Yeah, he had mean

955

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,

956

:

Sally: He had the ruby tears.

957

:

He's just, he's,

958

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: really?

959

:

Sally: people that is just like a heart.

960

:

He's a heart in the world.

961

:

So, yeah,

962

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: He is.

963

:

No, so Andy Howe was, was, was

my first guest on the Yappy Hour.

964

:

And to the point where, obviously,

I had to record the first episode.

965

:

And I, and I, and I nearly chickened out.

966

:

So, not a lot of people will

know this, but the first

967

:

episode, I had a bloody cold.

968

:

Like I have got again now.

969

:

It was December.

970

:

So I rearranged him between

Christmas and New Year.

971

:

And it was coming up and I was

talking myself out of doing this

972

:

recording of this first episode and

Andy, he is, he was just amazing.

973

:

He was so understanding and

supportive and he was like, look,

974

:

I'll help you get through it.

975

:

Like I was like, oh, can we meet a

little bit later than we planned?

976

:

And he said, that's fine.

977

:

But if you can't do

today, I'm free tomorrow.

978

:

And he was just amazing.

979

:

He was my first guest and, like I

said, I nearly, I nearly pulled out.

980

:

I didn't think I could go through with

it and he was just really helpful and

981

:

supportive and yeah, he's just one

of life's gems or just everyone that

982

:

meets him says the same and what a.

983

:

What a space to be, to be in, to

be, you know, to be that person.

984

:

So Andy will be coming back on as well.

985

:

So he was my first guest, but

we will be getting him back on.

986

:

So that's great.

987

:

So I'm glad you've said Andy.

988

:

Sally, how can our listeners find

out more about you or if they

989

:

want to get in contact with you?

990

:

Let us know your email address,

your website, your social handles.

991

:

Sally: Okay, so it's just sally That's my

992

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Nice.

993

:

Sally: My

994

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Lovely.

995

:

Sally: is Sally Gutridge writer.

996

:

And my email is sally@sallygutridge.com.

997

:

So, that,

998

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Nice, nice and easy.

999

:

Sally: Yeah,

:

00:55:40,955 --> 00:55:42,825

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

And your, your book, your books

:

00:55:42,825 --> 00:55:46,955

are on Amazon and I'm sure other

bookstores, but there's lots of

:

00:55:46,955 --> 00:55:49,725

books on Amazon and Kindle versions.

:

00:55:49,735 --> 00:55:51,325

So yeah,

:

00:55:51,678 --> 00:55:54,548

Sally: I do try to answer

every email that I get.

:

00:55:55,108 --> 00:55:59,148

If I miss any, if I miss an email,

just send another one because it

:

00:55:59,178 --> 00:56:03,298

doesn't mean that I've ignored it,

just means that I've, I've missed it.

:

00:56:03,968 --> 00:56:04,288

So,

:

00:56:04,475 --> 00:56:06,085

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

life, life gets in the way.

:

00:56:06,838 --> 00:56:07,848

Sally: for looking like a corpse.

:

00:56:11,755 --> 00:56:12,005

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: You,

:

00:56:12,940 --> 00:56:15,945

Sally: my skin looks

:

00:56:16,435 --> 00:56:16,785

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: no,

:

00:56:16,947 --> 00:56:17,948

Sally: bad.

:

00:56:18,175 --> 00:56:21,635

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: to me

earlier today, was it a video podcast?

:

00:56:21,635 --> 00:56:25,455

And I was like, yeah, sorry,

it's going on YouTube.

:

00:56:25,635 --> 00:56:27,250

And I was like, you were like, oh, don't.

:

00:56:27,460 --> 00:56:31,990

I don't feel well, you know, and I was

like, oh bless you, like, I've got my,

:

00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:37,250

I'm full of cold and cough, you're full of

cold and cough, and we're both, and we're

:

00:56:37,250 --> 00:56:42,690

both still here, and you know, we're,

we're both still here, but no, thank you.

:

00:56:43,490 --> 00:56:47,830

for taking the time to be with me

today, Sally, on the Yappy Hour.

:

00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:51,290

You've got such a, an amazing story.

:

00:56:51,290 --> 00:56:55,070

And I just wanted to, you know,

hear and learn more about it.

:

00:56:55,070 --> 00:56:59,030

I know our listeners will

take so much away from this.

:

00:56:59,100 --> 00:57:01,140

Sally, I love the bones of you.

:

00:57:01,140 --> 00:57:03,420

You're, you're an inspiration.

:

00:57:03,705 --> 00:57:08,365

You know, I'm so glad that, you know,

that dogs brought you into my life

:

00:57:08,365 --> 00:57:12,775

and that you, you know, that you've

helped many other dog parents dog

:

00:57:12,805 --> 00:57:16,385

professionals and, and the little

dogs, you know, you are amazing.

:

00:57:16,385 --> 00:57:20,895

And you, you definitely should believe

in yourself because I think you're one of

:

00:57:20,895 --> 00:57:23,295

life's amazing people, like Andy as well.

:

00:57:23,305 --> 00:57:24,795

So, Sally.

:

00:57:25,090 --> 00:57:31,630

Thank you Yappy Hour today, powered by

Yappily, and I'll see you again soon.

:

00:57:32,333 --> 00:57:34,023

Sally: Yeah, thank you for inviting me.

:

00:57:34,403 --> 00:57:38,690

And yeah, been lovely

speaking up with you.

:

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