Host: Nathan Dunleavy
Guest: Sally Gutteridge, bestselling dog writer, advocate, and rescue dog handler
In this heartwarming episode, Nathan Dunleavy sits down with Sally Gutteridge, a bestselling author, ethical dog trainer, and former military dog handler. Sally opens up about her incredible journey from working with military dogs to rescuing and rehabilitating traumatised dogs, including ex-puppy farm survivors.
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Welcome to the Yappy Hour powered by
Yappily, the podcast for dog lovers
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:who want to better understand and
connect with their four legged friends.
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:I'm your host Nathan Dunleavy, and
today I'm joined by an incredibly
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:special guest, Sally Gutteridge.
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:Sally is a best selling dog writer,
an advocate for ethical dog training,
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:a mentor, has a background in the
military, and is a rescue dog handler.
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:In this episode, we talk about
everything from positive dog guardianship
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:to rehabilitating rescue dogs,
including ex puppy farm survivors.
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:We also dive into Sally's
fascinating journey with working
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:dogs and how her writing is
shaping the future of dog advocacy.
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:Whether you're a long time dog guardian or
just starting your journey, this episode
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:is packed with wisdom and inspiration.
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:So grab a cup of tea, settle
in, and let's get started.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Welcome
back to the Yappy Hour powered by Yappily.
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:I'm your host, Nathan Dunleavy,
and I'm so excited to bring
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:you another episode today.
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:Even more excited because we've got
an amazing guest for this episode,
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:Sally Gutteridge, a friend and
a colleague and a mentor to me.
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:I'm so excited to have Sally.
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:On the show today Sally has an incredible
journey, which we're going to be
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:talking about today as a dog writer
an advocate a mentor a former hearing
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:dog trainer And also has a background
in the military and is a rescue dog
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:handler So we're going to be delving
into rescue dogs puppy farm survivors
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:as well as positive Dog guardianship.
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:So I'm super excited that
Sally's joined us today.
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:Sally, welcome to the Yappy Hour.
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:I'm so excited to chat with you today.
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:How are you?
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:Sally: for inviting me.
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:Yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
It's great to have you here.
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:Have you had a bit of a cold, haven't you?
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:So I'm just, that's both of us.
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:We're both in the war.
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:So I'm sure we'll get through it together.
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:Sally you have sat such a fascinating
journey from being in the military,
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:working as a trainer for hearing dogs,
to behaviourist, writer, and mentor.
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:What led you to dedicate
your life to dogs?
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:Sally: I think it was probably the same
story as most dog people, weren't it?
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:We, from the moment that we start to
walk, we start to be drawn to these
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:beautiful animals and tend to gravitate
back to them over and over and over
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:again and that's how it happened for me.
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:I grew up in the West Midlands
and there was no, it was
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:very, it was a very poor area.
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:And there was no university
or anything like that for me.
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:And I
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.
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:Sally: playing with the dog,
getting her over jumps and things.
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:And bit by bit I joined the army and
then Learned a little bit more and
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:learned a bit more, did lots of study.
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:But, do we really need
to ask why we chose dogs?
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:Dogs chose us, didn't they?
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:Really?
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I knew you were going to say that.
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:Dogs choose us.
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:Sally: Yeah, they
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
that's lovely.
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:You've got such an interesting story.
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:So when you were in the military,
did you work with dogs then?
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:Sally: Yeah, yeah.
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:I actually joined as a healthcare
assistant in the military because
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:I had no idea that you could become
an army dog trainer at the time.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.
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:Sally: Army careers and they
give me a list of things
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:that I would be suitable for.
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:was, one was health care assistant.
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:So I said, okay, I'll give that a go.
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:then while I was working at a hospital
in Catrick Garrison, found out
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:you could be an army dog trainer.
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:And so I was like,
okay, I want to do that.
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:And I went off, joined
the veterinary corps.
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:then the first The first day I got there,
we had to do a basic fitness test which
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:was run a mile and a half in 15 minutes
and then a mile and a half in 11 minutes.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, bloody hell.
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:Sally: completely failed it.
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:And then they were going
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
would, I would have found it.
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:Oh, wow.
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:Sally: I ended up saying, please don't
send me back, I really want to work.
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:Here, I really want to work with dogs.
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:And the regimental sergeant major took
me running every morning that I could
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:pass this fitness test so that I could
carry on working with dogs, yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, that's amazing.
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:Sally: Yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
that he was invested and helped
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:you, helped you through it as well.
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:Sally: Yeah, he was a lovely guy.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: So you
obviously got through it in the end then.
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:Sally: Yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I love, I don't know some of this
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:stuff, so I'm loving hearing a
little bit about your history.
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:I think it's fascinating.
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:Thank you, Sally.
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:You've written so many books,
books that have helped dog
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:parents, dog guardians worldwide.
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:What inspired you to start writing
about dogs and their people?
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:Sally: Oh, it was, I'd
always wanted to write.
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:I always wanted to be a writer.
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:And I did it was not that
long ago, when I went back to
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:writing, it was about 15 years.
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:And I'd been in the army, and
I'd worked for hearing dogs, and
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:I'd done lots of rescue stuff.
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:So I had all the dog knowledge, but
I, I wanted to write but I never
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:met the connection between all
the dog knowledge and the writing.
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:I was like a dog person, a person who
loved dogs who wanted to write novels
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:and so I did, I did a writing course
and the first part of the writing
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:course was writing non fiction.
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:And of course I went to dogs,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.
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:Sally: it for them, I might
as well write it for me.
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:So I started writing courses for, and
and my husband created Canine Principles,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:Sally: taking it in and then putting
it down on the page in a more
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:accessible way as it passed through
my, through me, onto the page.
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:So.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Brilliant.
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:And you're also a better dog
behaviourist as well, aren't you?
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:Sally: yeah, yeah, I don't practice I,
I generally teach and write, but, yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, brilliant.
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:Such a let's say such an inspiring
story and I love hearing about it.
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:Thank you, Sally.
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:So we're going to be moving on to our
next section, which is the power of
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:ethical dog training and guardianship.
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:You're a huge advocate
for ethical dog training.
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:Why do you believe that positive
science based methods are so important?
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:Sally: Oh, they are, because we
should be kind, shouldn't we?
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
We should.
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:Yeah, yeah.
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:Sally: why shouldn't you hit children?
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:You know, why shouldn't you, it, it, it's
something that is so straightforward, we
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:should be kind, if we love dogs we should
look into understanding them, giving
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:them their head, letting them be who
they are, helping them to live with us.
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:There's It, it surprises me that there
are still people pushing dogs around.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Heartbreaking.
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:Sally: Yeah, even, even things
like picking them up or, or
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:blaming them for their behaviour.
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:It's so archaic.
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:It's so, we know so much about
ourselves, how our minds work,
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:how our nervous systems work.
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:We know so much about how the dog's brain
works and the dog's nervous system works.
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:We know how sensitive and gentle they are.
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:If we push our will onto dogs and force
them, to me it's like taking a beautiful
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:flower and crushing it up in your
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, oh, wow.
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:God, what a comparison.
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:Yeah.
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:Sally: Yeah, it's, it's how it should be.
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:We should be kind.
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:We
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely.
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:It's definitely the way we should
go and the way we should be.
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:It's actually like you say, we're
kind to each other and we need to be
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:kind to dogs, the scent, you know,
central beings kindness to all animals.
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:So that takes us nicely
onto our next question.
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:So many pet parents and pet guardians
still hear outdated advice about
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:being the alpha and inverted commas.
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:How do you think we can
change this narrative?
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:Sally: I think we need to
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:become inspiring ourselves.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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:Sally: need to light up a
flame in ourselves for the
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:kindness and for the educated
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:services and become the best
that we can be in order to
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:touch as many lives as possible.
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:Because if we put in our energy on someone
that's harming, giving bad advice, putting
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:all of our special precious resources
onto something, and it will only grow.
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:But if we can bring our special resources
back to ourselves and say, I am going
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:to be the best that I can be, I'm
going to shine on everything around me.
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:We're going to reach more people.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, yeah, definitely.
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:Sally: and,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Love that.
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:Sally: really believe in a lot of the
people that harm dogs or hurt dogs in the
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:name of training have actually be harmed
or hurt themselves in some way, and to
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Absolutely.
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:Sally: them with criticism is going to
create a defensive response from them.
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:And that's not going to hurt.
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:That's not going to help anyone.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No,
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:Sally: so, I believe
that we need to consider
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:helping through education, but also
through kindness and awareness.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
yeah, I was going to say it comes
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:back down to education, doesn't it?
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:And, and bringing it back to
your, your center, your heart and
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:obviously doing it for your heart.
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:So yeah, I, I get what you're, what you're
saying is that people that are doing those
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:type of methods, they've got some sort of
trauma or hurt themselves, unfortunately.
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:So if a dog guardian is feeling
frustrated, what's one mindset,
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:mindset shift that could help them
connect better with their dog?
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:Sally: I think a lot of frustration
comes from expectations, I think a
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
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:Sally: expectations are unreasonable.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,
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:Sally: So I think that if someone
is triggered by the way that their
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:dog's behaving, they need to turn
back in and say, Why am I triggered?
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:What am I expecting?
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:What are they going through?
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
yeah, yeah, definitely.
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:Sally: they're giving me a hard time
here, they know what they're doing.
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:All of these myths and ideas that
dogs know what they're doing.
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:They can be naughty, they're
doing this, they're doing that.
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:Actually, our expectations
of dogs are very, very high.
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:Our threshold for embarrassment
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
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:Sally: low.
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:And that
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,
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:Sally: I think, to cause
frustration with dogs, but if we
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:can say, why am I embarrassed?
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:This is about me, not my dog.
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:I need to look inwards.
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:And also, what am I expecting?
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:And are they actually
capable of delivering that?
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:Have I
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,
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:Sally: that they can
succeed by delivering that?
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,
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:Sally: I think that's the thing.
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:It's very much, am I expecting too much?
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
yeah, I think but there are an
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:unrealistic expectations in life now.
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:You know, everyone sort of wants a quick
fix and we, we, you know, we compare
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:ourselves to others, unfortunately,
and we're not necessarily prepared to.
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:Be consistent and put in the work.
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:We just want, you know,
we want that quick fix.
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:We, we, you know, we're,
we're our own worst critics.
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:So like you say, it's about
sort of looking in more.
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:Yeah.
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:Sally: I remember when I worked for
hearing dogs and, and a kind of a little
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:bit of a culture in hearing dogs for the
person that could have the dog the most
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:robotic and clearly they needed to be like
that because they were going out to people
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:who weren't dog handlers or trainers.
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:So they needed to have a good standard
of like obedience and things so they
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:could walk around the shops and stuff.
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:And.
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:I remember thinking while I was
doing it, I am not invested in this.
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:I'm not invested in having this,
this, this of obedience from dogs.
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:And so, even back then, I started to
to myself, well, back then I would
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:say to myself, I'm not good enough
because I'm not invested and I'm not
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:making this dog do exactly what, and
it was all very much, I was wrong.
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:Because I wasn't creating these obedient
dogs, although I was because I had to
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:because it was my job, but I was wrong
because it, I wasn't that invested in it.
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:And I
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Silence.
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:Silence.
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:Silence.
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:Sally: didn't matter.
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:So you had all the men like, Heel,
heel, and we were like, Our dogs
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:are being exactly as they please.
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:And we loved it.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, that's the way it should be.
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:Sally: But it's never
mattered to me, not really.
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:These dogs should be seen and
not heard and all of that stuff.
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:And to a point in my life where
I started to say actually, I'm
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:not wrong and they're all right.
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:That's not how it is.
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:I just
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mmm.
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:Sally: a different angle and I don't
think obedience is important and I'm
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:seeing more and more people saying
now dogs get to be who they are.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.
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:Yeah.
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:Sally: and that's amazing.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, yeah.
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:No, it's nice that we're, more people
come around to that way of thinking.
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:You know, why have a, that whole mantra
like children you should be seen and
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:not heard and dogs, you know, to me
it's, it's rubbish because why have a
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:companion or A friend if you if you're
of that if you've got that mindset.
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:Sally: And it's fun, it's fun seeing
dogs doing like climbing all over you,
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:like two hours climbing all over you.
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:It's quite, it's quite nice.
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:Yeah,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: you
know, you're preaching to the converted
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:of being, you know Having my free two
hours and I know you've got your two hours
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:Now as well which we can touch on later.
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:But yeah the two hours are so spirited
and full of character and they're
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:just, they're just being dogs.
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:Let them be.
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:Sally: And it's beautiful, it's beautiful.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It is.
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:Thank you, Sally.
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:Moving on to our next section, which is
all about rescuing and rehabilitating
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:dogs, including puppy farm.
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:survivors.
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:You've rescued a lot
of dogs over the years.
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:You've rescued two even recently,
which I, which I love including
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:some ex puppy farm survivors.
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:What would you say are some of
the biggest challenges they face?
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:Yeah, yeah,
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:Sally: little dogs, think.
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:A lot of them, my little Holly,
she came into my life when she was
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:six, but they say they're all six,
and she came through many tears,
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:and she was completely shut down.
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:I think that's what people find hard,
if they don't understand these kind of
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:dogs, and what they've been through,
and how they've probably never had the
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:human relationship that they should have.
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:I think that they come, they want to
rescue them, and they want to love them.
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:And for these little dogs,
that's the hardest thing.
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:They just need to be left alone,
that they can join in, in their
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:own time, in their own way.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
yeah, yeah.
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:Sally: We, we humans, we
just, we want to comfort.
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:Come on, give me a hug, I'll comfort
you, I'll make you feel better.
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:And there's nothing wrong with that,
that's a beautiful human trait.
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:It's just not right trait for dogs who
are carrying trauma, have been traumatised
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:or are shut down in this frozen state.
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:Even eye contact with
those dogs is too much.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, I mean even a normal rescue dog.
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:Oh go on my love.
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:Sally: But the beauty of these little
dogs is you start to see their eyes
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:shine and it happens overnight.
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:You've got these little blank eyes
and then you look at them one day
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:and the tail's going and they're
shining and you go there it is
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:you're shining and it's beautiful.
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:Yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: God
Like because rescue dogs can take up
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:to six months to fully decompress, but
obviously these ex puppy farm dogs I
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:mean, like you say they've been through
this trauma So it could take even longer.
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:And I picked up on your point.
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:You said they're all six, so I guess they
get to the age of six and then they're of
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:no use to the puppy farms, which is awful,
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:Sally: Yeah.
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:And
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: awful.
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:Sally: I think Holly was a
generational puppy farmer.
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:Puppy farm dog as well.
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:'cause I think she was born there
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.
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:Oh, oh,
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:Sally: not really been outdoors.
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:Hearing hadn't developed properly.
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:She couldn't, directional sound,
nothing like that that hadn't developed.
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:She'd had, she had like half a tail,
so I think she probably chewed that
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: oh,
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:Sally: at some point,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
in stress.
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:Yeah, self mutilation.
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:Sally: she was absolutely
allergic to anything green.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Grain?
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:Really?
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:Sally: the plants, she couldn't,
she couldn't go on any and I, I
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:believe it's because she'd never
built up a, a tolerance to it.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh my gosh.
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:Sally: And it's
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, oh,
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:Sally: when the come out of a puppy farm.
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:was scratching all the time
and she was 6 when she came
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:and she was 13 when she died.
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:she was still showing new
sparkles, new behaviours.
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:Even like a week before she died,
she was still getting braver.
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:So, yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I guess obviously they would have
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:missed so They would have missed so
much key socialization, habituation
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:times, you know, a chance to, like
you say, to experience all that.
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:But Holly, Holly did inspire you a
lot, didn't she, in your journey?
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:Sally: Yeah, yeah, she well
there's her book that's out there.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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:Sally: me a lot because just doing
things like problem solving in the
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:house she went from a little worried
dog to this wild cardboard box ripper.
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:She was into everything and that
helped her confidence wonderfully.
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:You know, she's like,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh.
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:Sally: this, so I can do this.
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:Yeah.
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:You'd see her,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
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:Sally: of her in all sorts.
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:You'd get a delivery from Amazon and
she was in there with her three teeth.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
free tea!
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:Oh, bless her heart.
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:Oh, what a legacy.
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:And so glad that she landed
on her paws with you.
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:What would you say is the most
important thing people should understand
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:before adopting a rescue dog, Sally?
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:Sally: I think maybe that they are
potentially, depending on their
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:history, not going to expect them not
to fall in love with you immediately.
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:They've
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Hmm.
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:Sally: let down in one way or another.
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:gonna be scared, they're gonna be anxious,
and it's gonna be hard for them to trust.
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:But when they do
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Hmm.
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:Sally: in love with you, it's
gonna be love of a lifetime.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh.
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:Yeah.
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:Sally: Yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
think as humans, as humans
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:we don't deserve dogs, do we?
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:Yeah.
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:But no, like,
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:with rescue dogs, like I say, it
does take that time for them to,
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:you know, to sort of Trust, trust
you and build that bond and stuff.
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:So,
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:Sally: Yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: do
you have a particular, I mean, it might
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:be one of your own, but do you have
a particular rescue story that has
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:stuck with you over the years at all?
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:Sally: You know, I think it's got to be
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, Chips!
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:Yeah, I know Mr.
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:Chips.
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:Sally: because of
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Chips is still around.
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:Sally: Everything that is done through
me over the years is, is amazing.
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:'cause it, it was, the reason that I
studied to be a behaviourist was chips.
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:The
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
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:Sally: I started all of the businesses.
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:wrote, wrote all of my books was because
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:Pips did it through me,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
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:Sally: He, I, I
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
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:Sally: he, he's this huge dog soul.
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:that came here to create support for dogs.
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:And he came and showed me what I
needed to do because he was so complex.
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:I had to learn so much about him.
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:And he literally changed my life.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: oh wow,
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:Sally: So I think
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: aww,
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:Sally: to be Chips.
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:I
427
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
cheers, lovely, that's brilliant.
428
:So moving on to our, our next section,
which is, we've touched on a little
429
:bit, obviously life in the military and
a rescue, being a rescue dog handler.
430
:Your background in the military
is so fascinating, but what was
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:that experience like for you?
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:Sally: would never not have done
it, but there were some stuff that,
433
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: oh,
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:Sally: there
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,
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:Sally: stuff.
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:But yeah, I started off
training protection dogs.
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:So it was German Shepherds and
Rottweilers for apprehending criminals and
439
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: wow.
440
:Sally: them down.
441
:And then I After I'd done that for
a while, I went onto arms explosive
442
:search, I had a beautiful black
Labrador called Jude, and I trained her.
443
:She was handed over to the military
because her person had cancer, she
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:handed her Jude and her brother Max over
to the military, and I trained her as
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:an arms explosive search dog as I was
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Wow.
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:Sally: to be a trainer.
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:And then we went to Kosovo together.
449
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Really?
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:Sally: Yeah, it was amazing.
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:We
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I didn't know that.
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:Sally: yeah.
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:We, we spent six months in Kosovo and we
just looking at that chi hour we spent
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:six months in Kosovo in 99 to 2000.
456
:So it was when it was all over the
news and everything, and I remember
457
:landing and thinking I could die here.
458
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, my word.
459
:What was that feeling like?
460
:Wow.
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:That feeling that you could die.
462
:Sally: and we got given all our stuff
because they give you morphine and
463
:things to carry about in case you need
it and they give you these dog tags.
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:I am not a soldier.
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:I was never any good as being a soldier.
466
:At one point, at one point, they
gave me these dog tags and they're
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:like a big chain and a short chain.
468
:And I asked what a short chain
with a dog tag was for, and they
469
:said, it's for your big toe.
470
:Like, like, you know, if you come
home you're not, no longer alive.
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:yeah, I
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
on your big toe to,
473
:Sally: And I, I said, naively,
does it not, is it not
474
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
oh, my right.
475
:Sally: So I was under the
impression that you had to wear
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:it on your big toe all the time.
477
:But anyway, back to dogs.
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:It
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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:Sally: going out and finding
weapons and explosives and
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
482
:Sally: in Kosovo with
the dog that I trained.
483
:And then I came away from there,
but I had to leave her behind.
484
:So
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
486
:Sally: over to the next handler,
who was actually my friend.
487
:So she
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.
489
:Sally: And then I went
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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:Sally: Ireland as a drugs dog handler.
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:And
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.
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:Wow.
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:Sally: in Northern Ireland
and then protection as well.
496
:So,
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:But the arms explosive search was
good because you could, you did
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:spend a lot of time in helicopters.
499
:So they come, you get on the helicopter,
they take you out somewhere, you drop, and
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:then what happens with that kind of search
dog is the dog goes then the trainer, then
501
:you have a cover man with a rifle, and
then the engineers come up behind you.
502
:So it's very frontline,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Climate.
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:Sally: a great experience.
505
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Wow.
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:God, what an experience.
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:And what a life.
508
:So, where, where are you positioned or
based anywhere after Northern Ireland
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:or did you come back to the UK or
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:Sally: Ireland.
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:Yeah,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
the army?
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:Yeah.
514
:Oh, wow.
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:So I didn't realize that I didn't
like helicopters . So I went in
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:the helicopter for the first time,
like 10 years ago in in Las Vegas.
517
:And you, you go in the he helicopter to
land at the bottom of the Grand Canyon.
518
:And I didn't realize I, I thought I
was gonna love the helicopter, but
519
:no, I wasn't a fan of this helicopter.
520
:God, it was going up
and it was all shaking.
521
:I was, I was crapping myself.
522
:My husband was laughing, my
husband was sat next to me.
523
:He was laughing his ass off because
he just couldn't believe it.
524
:But no, I wasn't a fan of the
helicopter, unfortunately.
525
:A bit different to your
helicopter, I bet, but,
526
:Sally: Yeah, it would have
527
:Because, yeah.
528
:Oh, I'm sorry you didn't
enjoy that, Nathan.
529
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh no, I don't really want to go
530
:on one again, that's for sure.
531
:So, what makes working dogs different from
pet dogs, and how do their needs compare?
532
:Sally: Oh, that's an
interesting one, isn't it?
533
:Because let's face it, working
534
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, that's what they're bred for.
535
:Yeah.
536
:Yes.
537
:Sally: And so these people that work
with working dogs, and I've done both.
538
:Working dogs for military and
companion dogs for hearing dogs.
539
:And I can tell you that you
need more skill to train a
540
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
541
:Sally: got a companion dog
that's bred to be a companion.
542
:They don't really, you know,
they'll have a bit of fun but
543
:it's all on their terms really.
544
:It's not,
545
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
546
:Yeah.
547
:Yeah.
548
:Yeah.
549
:How are you?
550
:Sally: dog, Bichon Frises Shih Tzus
those dogs actually being trained to go
551
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.
552
:Okay.
553
:Excuse me.
554
:This is the.
555
:This is the.
556
:Sally: in my opinion, are so much
more skilled than the people who can
557
:rein in a German Shepherd with the
use of a crappy collar or a threat.
558
:Yeah.
559
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, fascinating.
560
:Sally: Yes,
561
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
562
:That's sad, isn't it?
563
:Yeah.
564
:Yeah.
565
:Sally: we're only coming now into
the point where we starting to
566
:recognize and meet their needs.
567
:It's not that, not that unusual to
go out and see a dog who has behavior
568
:issues, who's never done enrichment.
569
:You know, it's getting less unusual,
but things like a snuffle rug, and
570
:a treat ball, and some basic kind
of interaction and engagement,
571
:lot of dogs haven't even ever had.
572
:And people find that when
they do that, their behaviours
573
:start to settle down naturally.
574
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: They do.
575
:But, and again, I think that, and
that's not really always at the fault
576
:of the pet parent or the guardian
because they don't know no better
577
:and it comes back to education.
578
:You wouldn't know that that's
what you class as enrichment.
579
:Sally: Yeah, and, and it's so, it's
kind of rewarding and it's also quite
580
:sad to have someone get in touch with
you and say, I'm doing this, this and
581
:this with her she's a different dog.
582
:And that person's actually been to four
or five different trainers and have never
583
:been told they can use a snuffer rug.
584
:And,
585
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh my goodness.
586
:Sally: They'll kind of say to
you, if only I'd met you first.
587
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
588
:Sally: sad that that's the
589
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It is.
590
:Sally: are.
591
:a lot of this, you've got to be the
boss, is still so prolific, that people
592
:are that they are experts and a lot
of the people aren't even educated.
593
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No,
it's almost like he can shout the loudest.
594
:Sally: Yeah,
595
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
the time, take the time and
596
:observe what's going on.
597
:Yeah brilliant.
598
:Are there any lessons from
working dogs that pet parents can
599
:apply to their everyday lives?
600
:Good
601
:Sally: I think so, yeah.
602
:the job, give the dog a job,
603
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: job.
604
:Sally: yeah.
605
:Give them something to do, help
them to even use their mealtimes
606
:a way to forage or search and I
think hands off and up to earth.
607
:a little bit of dog body language and then
start to observe how the dog's responding,
608
:both to them approaching them and also
to things around in the environment.
609
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
610
:Sally: of observation because the
dog will tell you how they're feeling
611
:and also help them to be busy.
612
:Do what, their natural
needs, do what dogs do.
613
:They need, they're needed to find food.
614
:If we give them a bowl and they can just
eat it, that's a wasted opportunity.
615
:They're needed to play, yet so
many dogs don't get to play.
616
:And it doesn't
617
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No.
618
:Yeah.
619
:Definitely.
620
:Yeah.
621
:Yeah.
622
:Sally: going to happen next, you,
you've maybe come from an unpredictable
623
:background, and you're in a new
house, so everything's unpredictable.
624
:Be predictable.
625
:Create little patterns that show the dog
that they can, they can see what's going
626
:to come next, what's going to come after
that, what's going to come after that.
627
:Let them make little choices
because little choices will
628
:help them to grow in confidence.
629
:So create safety in that way
because that will help too.
630
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, definitely.
631
:Yeah.
632
:And it comes back to sort of you know,
understanding canine body language.
633
:Again, I'm a big advocate on, you
know, educating pet parents, you
634
:know, just, you know, taking a moment,
observing, understand, trying to, like,
635
:learning about their body language
so you can, you know, work out what
636
:the dog's trying to, to tell you.
637
:Sally: Yeah,
638
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
important, isn't it?
639
:Brilliant.
640
:Sally: free resources to teach
you how to watch your dog now.
641
:It's just, be absolutely careful about who
you choose because there are as many wrong
642
:on what a dog's doing
as there are good ones.
643
:So,
644
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
645
:Sally: touch and ask where you can look.
646
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, absolutely.
647
:Definitely.
648
:I think that's where sort of Yappily
comes into play because it's a online
649
:directory which is connecting pet
parents with ethical, kind, qualified,
650
:you know, vetted pet professionals.
651
:So always seek out someone like that.
652
:Brilliant, thank you so much.
653
:We're going to be moving on to our
next section, which is the role of
654
:writing in DOD, in DOD, in dog advocacy.
655
:We mentioned Sally, you've
written multiple books on
656
:dog behaviour and training.
657
:What impact do you hope your writing
has on pet parents and dog guardians?
658
:Sally: just want people to understand
what their dogs need, and I also
659
:want, in a, in a, a way that's
straightforward, and I also want people
660
:to go easier on themselves, because
661
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mmm.
662
:Sally: a lot of pressure on themselves
to have a well behaved dog, actually,
663
:It's unnecessary pressure,
664
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
665
:Yeah, definitely.
666
:Sally: I'm not, I have written dog
training books, and I have written step
667
:by step dog training books, because people
need to have a dog that they can handle.
668
:But I've written much, much more
about what's going on inside
669
:the dog, because I think it's so
670
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mmm.
671
:Sally: that people understand
that the dog's trying their best.
672
:All the time they're
trying their best with what
673
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
674
:Sally: what they've inherited genetically.
675
:also I want people to understand that
they are doing their best as well.
676
:That they're
677
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
678
:Sally: best.
679
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
yeah, definitely.
680
:Sally: so I want the bond to be great.
681
:I don't want dogs to be
blamed for their behavior.
682
:And I don't want people to feel
like they are under pressure to
683
:have a perfectly behaved dog.
684
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, definitely, that's so important.
685
:If someone is new to your work,
Sally, which book or books do
686
:you recommend they start with
687
:Sally: I think probably the first
one, Inspiring Resilience I've
688
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
in Spoke?
689
:Sally: that and it's being
formatted at the moment.
690
:So, I think probably by the time
that this, this podcast goes
691
:out, the new one will be up.
692
:But definitely that for General
Resilience and the Puppy
693
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
694
:Sally: if you have a scared dog.
695
:Yeah, so that's
696
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
it's, it's,
697
:Sally: Sorry, Bob.
698
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: no,
no, so that's called Holly, is it?
699
:The puppy farm one.
700
:Sally: Folly's one is fearful dog
rehabilitation, life with a puppy
701
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: That's,
702
:Sally: And the other one is inspiring
resilience in fearful and reactive dogs.
703
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Lovely,
704
:Sally: yeah.
705
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
brilliant.
706
:I know you said that you're not a
practicing behaviourist anymore, but
707
:how do you balance your different roles
as a mentor, a writer, and a writer?
708
:Does each role influence the other?
709
:Sally: Does it?
710
:I don't think so.
711
:I don't think it does.
712
:I what I tend to do is I'll
either do Mentoring or webinars
713
:full on and just focus on that
or I'll do a book full on because
714
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right,
715
:Sally: between the two.
716
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I say.
717
:Sally: writing tends to bring
out a bit of a flow in me.
718
:It's like something else
is writing through me.
719
:And then when I see what's on the
page, then I bring that into my
720
:mentoring, but more the fundamental
being of it as opposed to Perhaps
721
:the fact, does that make sense?
722
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, definitely.
723
:Sally: sometimes I write something
and go, Whoa, I read that.
724
:I didn't really write that.
725
:Something wrote that through me.
726
:And then that will come up when I'm
with a person that I'm mentoring with.
727
:So,
728
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
So, do you mentor people to be able
729
:to start writing for themselves, or?
730
:I mean, I wish I could write, but I
just don't feel I'm that creative.
731
:Sally: you, you probably caught,
I think everybody can write,
732
:but it's hard to get going.
733
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I know you've inspired a
734
:lot of people to get going.
735
:Sally: Yeah, I did a couple of writing
courses when I had Canine Principals,
736
:and that was, I did a 30 day dog writing
course dog book writing course, and
737
:that put a lot of books out there.
738
:They're actually out there, still
out there and doing well now.
739
:So.
740
:Yeah, I think everybody's
got a book in them.
741
:You could write a book Nathan.
742
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Do you reckon?
743
:Sally: Yeah, you could
write a book for dog walkers
744
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Could write a book for dog
745
:walkers or some sort of memoir.
746
:Because I've got an interest in life.
747
:I've had an interest in life.
748
:Do you, do you have like a, because your
life is interesting, do you, have you done
749
:a memoir or an autobiography or anything?
750
:Sally: No, I've got one I want to write
one about chips which is kind of loosely
751
:about me as well And I have started
752
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.
753
:Sally: But you know what?
754
:It's like is something else comes
up and something else comes up.
755
:I'm actually On the screen behind
here, there's, there's a novel that
756
:I started that I've just got back
into now, which is a crime novel,
757
:so I'm going to have a go at that.
758
:I've another go
759
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: You mean
you're, you're writing, you're writing
760
:a crime novel or you're reading one?
761
:Sally: I'm having a go at writing one.
762
:Yeah.
763
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh wow!
764
:Well that's different from dogs.
765
:Sally: Yeah.
766
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
made you want, what's made you do
767
:that or do you just wanted a change?
768
:Sally: You know when you read a good
book, a really good book, and it makes you
769
:feel kind of warm inside, and, and they
770
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Warm and fuzzy.
771
:Sally: the end, so there's a bit of
like engagement between the characters.
772
:And I, when I've finished reading a
book like that, I go, feel really nice.
773
:I want to do that for other people.
774
:And so I want to tell a story, even
if I only do one that people can read
775
:and escape into and just have a nice
day sitting with their dogs, reading
776
:a book, and that's what I want to do.
777
:I want to give them that feeling.
778
:So, yeah.
779
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I love that.
780
:And I was thinking you were saying
obviously like having the time,
781
:but you know, you've got two new
additions recently as well, so they're
782
:definitely probably keeping you busy,
783
:Sally: Oh, great.
784
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
785
:So yeah, I mean to just tell our
listeners you've recently rescued
786
:Darcy, who is a Chihuahua mix.
787
:And then not so long later
'cause I was trying to tap you
788
:up for one of my chihuahuas.
789
:You.
790
:You, oh yeah, I might still, yeah.
791
:And and then all of a
sudden Miss Foxy appears.
792
:Another Chihuahua.
793
:Because you said to me for a while you
wanted a Chihuahua and now you've got two.
794
:Sally: Yeah, I shoot, David, I,
what happened was because we've
795
:got two 15 year old terriers and
they're proper old men And they
796
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh boys, and I did one of
797
:Sally: Didn't want to play.
798
:And really played in her foster home So I
was like, do I get another one now so that
799
:Darcy's got a playmate that then I've just
got the two Moving forward when the boys
800
:get and I got in touch with the rescue
that Darcy came from and she said we have
801
:a very, very nervous chihuahua they didn't
advertise because they said she's so tiny
802
:that if If we advertise her, everybody's
going to want her, but not everybody's
803
:going to have the skill to deal with her.
804
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes,
805
:Sally: and so I ummed and I ah'd,
and I ummed and I ah'd, and I
806
:was like, should I, shouldn't I?
807
:And they kept getting back in touch with
me and saying, Foxy started playing,
808
:Foxy started playing with the other dog.
809
:And you know what, Nathan, I believe very
much in things happening for a reason.
810
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: same.
811
:Sally: in Carlisle and
812
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right,
813
:Sally: my dad used to be married
to a lady who lived in Carlisle
814
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.
815
:Sally: My dad died and she married
again and she was a very close friend
816
:and she was my step mom for a while.
817
:And She died recently, Helen did,
I went up, I said, where's Fox?
818
:I was going up to see Paul, her husband,
and give support, I said, where is Foxy?
819
:And she was like 15
minutes away from Paul,
820
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
821
:Sally: but four hours away from me.
822
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
823
:Sally: Yeah,
824
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: had
you have not been going to see, had
825
:you have not been going to see Paul,
you wouldn't have got, you wouldn't
826
:have been able to see Foxy then.
827
:So everything happens for a reason.
828
:Sally: Yeah, I think it was almost
like the universe said, Okay, you've
829
:got two reasons to go up here.
830
:Two are equally important.
831
:Two means you've got to go.
832
:So I went.
833
:Yeah.
834
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Hmm.
835
:Sally: So.
836
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.
837
:So you've got Foxy who's like a
long haired Chihuahua and then
838
:Darcy here is a Chihuahua cross.
839
:Sally: Yeah.
840
:But the moment I walked into the
foster home and saw Foxy, because
841
:I wasn't going to bring her home.
842
:I was like I was still not sure, I just
was gonna meet her, see, you know, whether
843
:I ought to bring her home and I took
Chips and Darcy with me and I walked
844
:in and I saw this thing about that big
under the dining table going like that
845
:I went, you're coming home with me.
846
:And she did.
847
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, really?
848
:You took her home?
849
:Sally: Yeah.
850
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I
love that and what a great name as I
851
:mean, like you say, they said she was
a bit nervous but Foxy to me is quite
852
:a, a bold, brave name so I'd imagine
from what I'm seeing she's starting to
853
:find her feet and settle, isn't she?
854
:Sally: she is.
855
:I wake up in the morning and
she's stood on my chest looking
856
:in my face wagging her tail.
857
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, I love it and I just love that.
858
:I love you've got your chai's finally.
859
:Sally God, we've sailed through this
episode, so we're gonna, for the last
860
:sort of five to seven minutes, we're
gonna sort of sort of wrap up and just
861
:go over some final questions and points.
862
:But yeah, what an amazing
story and, you know, you're an
863
:inspiration, Sally, you really are.
864
:If there's one thing that you wish all
dog guardians knew, what would it be?
865
:Sally: What other people
think doesn't matter.
866
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm hmm.
867
:Absolutely.
868
:Sally: because I always
say I have no shame if
869
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
870
:Sally: dog and my dog's reacting or.
871
:People are looking on,
they're none of my business.
872
:My dog's my
873
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No.
874
:Sally: And,
875
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
876
:Sally: that's, if you have to walk
away from someone to help your
877
:dog feel better, then do that.
878
:doesn't matter what people think
of you, doesn't matter what people
879
:think of your dog's behaviour, the
only thing that's your business is
880
:your wellness and their wellness.
881
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
882
:So don't, don't worry about anyone else.
883
:Isn't there a saying that those
that mind matter or those that
884
:don't mind don't, I don't know, I've
probably got it completely wrong.
885
:But no yeah, just concentrate on,
you know, your, you and your, your
886
:dog and, you know, your world and
don't worry about anyone else.
887
:Cause.
888
:You know, they're on their journey,
you're on yours, so just, well
889
:yeah, like you say, don't worry
about what other people think.
890
:Sally: No.
891
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
for someone, for someone who has just
892
:rescued a dog and feels overwhelmed,
what would you say to them?
893
:Sally: I would say that I've felt
overwhelmed with every single dog
894
:that I've rescued initially, and
never regretted seeing it through.
895
:You get, you get the dog that
you get for a reason, that dog
896
:will teach you something so very
important as part of your journey.
897
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Brilliant,
898
:Sally: And so, stick with it, and
just try to stay aware, it does,
899
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
900
:Sally: is hard at the beginning.
901
:Foxy peed on my bed about six times
and, and, I mean, I'm sure, you know,
902
:it is hard at the beginning, but what
you're dealing with is a little animal
903
:who doesn't know where they're at, may
have been let down, may have had their
904
:heart broken, and they will get better.
905
:Yeah.
906
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
907
:Time.
908
:Time's a healer.
909
:Sally: Yeah,
910
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Just takes time.
911
:Sally: and they don't live long
enough, and so even the hard times, at
912
:least there are times with your dog.
913
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
914
:Yeah.
915
:Brilliant.
916
:And what would you say is the
most rewarding part of working
917
:with and writing about dogs?
918
:Sally: It's when people come to
you and say, your book changed
919
:my relationship with my dog.
920
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.
921
:That's so powerful.
922
:Sally: Because
923
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
924
:Sally: because I'm like most
other people in the dog world.
925
:In the dog world, the people that
are educated and do continue to work,
926
:I don't have much, a great deal of
self belief in myself or my work.
927
:And so, it always surprises always
really nice when somebody says,
928
:Your, your book really helped me
get through those first few months.
929
:And, and it, it's beautiful.
930
:Yeah.
931
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, that's weird.
932
:Makes it really, really rewarding
and makes it all worth it.
933
:And yeah so Sally, I'm going
to put you on the spot.
934
:Here's a question.
935
:I've not prepared you for,
but we've got lots of amazing.
936
:Well, we've got lots of amazing
guests lined up for the yappy hour.
937
:We've got behaviors.
938
:dog trainers vets, groomers lots of
different people that we've got coming
939
:on over the next couple of months.
940
:But if there was one person that
you think that we should invite on
941
:the yappy hour within our canine
industry, who would that be and why?
942
:Sally: Ah, I think you've already had him.
943
:The the
944
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: that's,
945
:Sally: the person who I've
seen speak that's had the most
946
:impact for me is Andrew Hale.
947
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yes,
948
:Sally: He's, he's the most amazing man.
949
:and I did a, a retreat,
a holiday and he came and
950
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: You,
951
:Sally: on
952
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
you, you did.
953
:Yes, I remember seeing
something about that.
954
:Sally: Yeah, he had mean
955
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
956
:Sally: He had the ruby tears.
957
:He's just, he's,
958
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: really?
959
:Sally: people that is just like a heart.
960
:He's a heart in the world.
961
:So, yeah,
962
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: He is.
963
:No, so Andy Howe was, was, was
my first guest on the Yappy Hour.
964
:And to the point where, obviously,
I had to record the first episode.
965
:And I, and I, and I nearly chickened out.
966
:So, not a lot of people will
know this, but the first
967
:episode, I had a bloody cold.
968
:Like I have got again now.
969
:It was December.
970
:So I rearranged him between
Christmas and New Year.
971
:And it was coming up and I was
talking myself out of doing this
972
:recording of this first episode and
Andy, he is, he was just amazing.
973
:He was so understanding and
supportive and he was like, look,
974
:I'll help you get through it.
975
:Like I was like, oh, can we meet a
little bit later than we planned?
976
:And he said, that's fine.
977
:But if you can't do
today, I'm free tomorrow.
978
:And he was just amazing.
979
:He was my first guest and, like I
said, I nearly, I nearly pulled out.
980
:I didn't think I could go through with
it and he was just really helpful and
981
:supportive and yeah, he's just one
of life's gems or just everyone that
982
:meets him says the same and what a.
983
:What a space to be, to be in, to
be, you know, to be that person.
984
:So Andy will be coming back on as well.
985
:So he was my first guest, but
we will be getting him back on.
986
:So that's great.
987
:So I'm glad you've said Andy.
988
:Sally, how can our listeners find
out more about you or if they
989
:want to get in contact with you?
990
:Let us know your email address,
your website, your social handles.
991
:Sally: Okay, so it's just sally That's my
992
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Nice.
993
:Sally: My
994
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Lovely.
995
:Sally: is Sally Gutridge writer.
996
:And my email is sally@sallygutridge.com.
997
:So, that,
998
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Nice, nice and easy.
999
:Sally: Yeah,
:
00:55:40,955 --> 00:55:42,825
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
And your, your book, your books
:
00:55:42,825 --> 00:55:46,955
are on Amazon and I'm sure other
bookstores, but there's lots of
:
00:55:46,955 --> 00:55:49,725
books on Amazon and Kindle versions.
:
00:55:49,735 --> 00:55:51,325
So yeah,
:
00:55:51,678 --> 00:55:54,548
Sally: I do try to answer
every email that I get.
:
00:55:55,108 --> 00:55:59,148
If I miss any, if I miss an email,
just send another one because it
:
00:55:59,178 --> 00:56:03,298
doesn't mean that I've ignored it,
just means that I've, I've missed it.
:
00:56:03,968 --> 00:56:04,288
So,
:
00:56:04,475 --> 00:56:06,085
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
life, life gets in the way.
:
00:56:06,838 --> 00:56:07,848
Sally: for looking like a corpse.
:
00:56:11,755 --> 00:56:12,005
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: You,
:
00:56:12,940 --> 00:56:15,945
Sally: my skin looks
:
00:56:16,435 --> 00:56:16,785
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: no,
:
00:56:16,947 --> 00:56:17,948
Sally: bad.
:
00:56:18,175 --> 00:56:21,635
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: to me
earlier today, was it a video podcast?
:
00:56:21,635 --> 00:56:25,455
And I was like, yeah, sorry,
it's going on YouTube.
:
00:56:25,635 --> 00:56:27,250
And I was like, you were like, oh, don't.
:
00:56:27,460 --> 00:56:31,990
I don't feel well, you know, and I was
like, oh bless you, like, I've got my,
:
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:37,250
I'm full of cold and cough, you're full of
cold and cough, and we're both, and we're
:
00:56:37,250 --> 00:56:42,690
both still here, and you know, we're,
we're both still here, but no, thank you.
:
00:56:43,490 --> 00:56:47,830
for taking the time to be with me
today, Sally, on the Yappy Hour.
:
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:51,290
You've got such a, an amazing story.
:
00:56:51,290 --> 00:56:55,070
And I just wanted to, you know,
hear and learn more about it.
:
00:56:55,070 --> 00:56:59,030
I know our listeners will
take so much away from this.
:
00:56:59,100 --> 00:57:01,140
Sally, I love the bones of you.
:
00:57:01,140 --> 00:57:03,420
You're, you're an inspiration.
:
00:57:03,705 --> 00:57:08,365
You know, I'm so glad that, you know,
that dogs brought you into my life
:
00:57:08,365 --> 00:57:12,775
and that you, you know, that you've
helped many other dog parents dog
:
00:57:12,805 --> 00:57:16,385
professionals and, and the little
dogs, you know, you are amazing.
:
00:57:16,385 --> 00:57:20,895
And you, you definitely should believe
in yourself because I think you're one of
:
00:57:20,895 --> 00:57:23,295
life's amazing people, like Andy as well.
:
00:57:23,305 --> 00:57:24,795
So, Sally.
:
00:57:25,090 --> 00:57:31,630
Thank you Yappy Hour today, powered by
Yappily, and I'll see you again soon.
:
00:57:32,333 --> 00:57:34,023
Sally: Yeah, thank you for inviting me.
:
00:57:34,403 --> 00:57:38,690
And yeah, been lovely
speaking up with you.
:
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:40,650
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Sally.