An identity crisis driven by low self-esteem can turn a neurotic into a perfectionist. This intolerance drive us blindly making us willfully demand that others supply us with more satisfactions or pleasures than are possible or due us. Step out of the circus for a moment with Toby C. and get ready to give yourself a break. Come to a point in your insecurities, with the help of others, where you can recognize the perfection of God and be able to raise your eyes to, and be able to walk, in that direction. Give yourself a break and stop playing God.