What is the secret of becoming more attractive to women? Bigger biceps? Being flush with cash? Washboard abs? All of these may get you attention but if you want a deep meaningful relationship they won’t be the most attractive thing to a woman of quality. The most important thing you can do to become more attractive is to be AUTHENTIC.
Authenticity is one of the most attractive things to women. In this week’s episode, we talk through why authenticity is so important and give you three things you can do to be a more authentic man.
1 - Leave the Acting to Professionals
- Too many of us play parts and act instead of just being ourselves
- We want to focus on living authentically and not act the way we think we “should”
- Too often men role-play in their life
- They get so used to playing a part, they never really figure themselves out
- Many men are so busy trying to win or keep a girl that they never really figure out who they are in their core
2 - Don’t Run from Reflection
- Being yourself means you have to know yourself
- Self-examination is a foreign concept to many men
- A lot of men, were never given an example of what being an authentic man looks like growing up
- We are talking about really knowing yourself and being confident in who you really are as a person
- You grow authentically and people around you help you in that process because they know the real you
3 - Don’t Grow Alone
- Knowing yourself doesn't mean you don't grow and change
- The best way to intentionally know how to grow and change is to know yourself authentically
- Invite her on the journey.
- When you open up the real you and help her to see how you think and feel about life and everything, you will become much more attractive to her
- Being emotionally connected and making each other better? Now THAT’s attractive.
Rejoice: You don’t have to have a six-pack or be a millionaire to attract and keep a great woman. You just have to be the best version of yourself.
CHALLENGE:
- Some questions to help you:
- What are your passions?
- What are your beliefs about life?
- What foundations do you have in your life
- These are important because they are your core
Watch and Enjoy!
David & Reese Maxwell
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