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The 3 C's; Clarity, Contribution, and Confidence
Episode 3014th April 2021 • The Becoming the Big Me Podcast • Djemilah Birnie
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In today's episode of the Becoming the Big Me Podcast Djemilah dives into the three C's. The three most important factors when it comes to attracting your ideal quantum clients. Tune in to find out!

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Hi! I am your host Djemilah Birnie of www.becomingthebigme.com . I have been building businesses online since the age of 17. When I discovered the power that we hold within our own minds my world truly began to change.

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universe needs you to be clear on what you want, how you are

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going to solve the problem for these perfect clients so that it

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can help you so they can help you find them so you can

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actually use this quantum force in your process.

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Hello, fellow

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Earthlings. Welcome to the becoming the big me podcast. I'm

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your host, Djemilah, Birnie. And together, we will be stepping

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into our highest potential, exploring all things mind, body,

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and soul. With justice, major business, your spiritual badass

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solopreneur, and a warrior for change, you're ready to expand

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your impact and leave your old self behind in order to raise

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your vibration so that you can positively influence your

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business, your community, and ultimately, the world. Without

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further ado, let's dive right into it.

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This episode was originally recorded as an online training.

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So if you hear any clicks, or you hear me refer to homework,

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that is why don't worry, there's no homework that you miss. But

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the information is extremely powerful. So I decided to pop it

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on to the podcast, and I know that you will receive value from

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this episode.

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All right, let's talk about the three C's. These are what I

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believe to be the most important concept in attracting your ideal

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client avatar. This is what it is all about.

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cool. Number one, clarity, number two, contribution. And

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last but not least, confidence. clarity. We've talked about

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clarity before in this course, in fact, that's what all of your

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worksheets have been about is so that you can get crystal clear

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on your money mindset on your perfect client avatar, and your

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story, your journey. How are you going to attract your ideal

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clients? How are you going to show up as your authentic self

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putting your energy out there into the universe so that the

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people who need you can find you? What problem do you solve?

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What is it that you do? How do you solve this problem for your

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clients? With your product or service? What makes you stand

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out? How are you different? How do you come at things with your

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own authentic twist? How are you going above and beyond for your

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clients to add value to their lives? And to solve the problem

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that they need you to solve? And who are you solving it for? Who

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is your ideal client? Who is that customer? Who is that

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perfect client avatar, these are things that you need to be able

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to build out all of your content that is going to attract these

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people to you. You need crystal clarity, the universe needs you

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to be clear on what you want, how you are going to solve the

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problem for these perfect clients. so that it can help you

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so that he can help you find them. So you can actually use

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this quantum force in your process. Your subconscious mind

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is like a child every single time you give it a command it is

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going to listen not like a child I that is a bad bad analogy.

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Children don't listen, but your subconscious mind is like a

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child in other ways. However, your subconscious mind is like a

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genie. He does Going to listen, when you say, I want this, it's

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going to say, okay, and it's going to start working towards

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this. The problem is you keep changing your mind. And now,

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you're confusing it. So you're never actually getting anywhere.

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This is why you need the clarity. So you know, what steps

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are you taking your client through on their journey, so you

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know what methods you're going to use to find, to cast that

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nets where your ideal clients can find you. So you know, where

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you have been, where you're going, and what your goals are,

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and so that you are aware of your money mindset, so that you

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can make the necessary changes that you need to to increase

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your net

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worth.

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Number two, contribution, how do you add value to the world? What

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are you doing that has a greater purpose than just money than

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just yourself? What is your purpose behind your own needs?

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and wants? How are you going to leave this world a better place?

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And I'm not just talking about for your paying customers? I'm

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talking about for everyone, all of your entire audience,

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everyone that you interact with the community, how are you

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contributing to the world so that you can have a greater

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purpose, when you have a purpose beyond yourself, that energy can

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be felt people know, when you actually who want to help. And

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when you actually want to improve the world, it's going to

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show through, because it's going to make you do the right thing.

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I mean, when you're playing with the quantum field, you need to

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understand that this is an energetic game, your energy and

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your intention is important. When you are contributing to the

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world. Good things are gonna happen back. So let's talk about

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the law of compensation. If you have not read the 12 universal

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laws, download that I have it the end of this course, I do go

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dive into all 12 of the universal laws that govern this

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universe. And the law of compensation is the one that

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applies right now. Value always receives value in return,

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there's a universal skill that needs to be balanced, when you

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are out there providing value with the intention of making

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this world a better place, you are going to receive value in

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return. This also relates to the law of cause and effect, which

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is directly correlated to the law of compensation. But every

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action has an equal and opposite reaction, right. So every, every

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single action that you have, is going to have another reaction,

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the scale must be balanced, you are always rewarded for what you

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put out. Now I need to just make a quick clarification here.

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Because I don't want you to get it confused, because this is a

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mistake I have made in the past. But sometimes I feel that value

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needs to come from the person who you provided value to have

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you ever spent so much time and energy invested in conversation,

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trying to help someone and giving them all of your energy

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and love. And then there's nothing ever in return. There's

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no monetary exchange, there's no other help. There's no

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testimonial, whatever, there's not a value that you see come

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back from them. And sometimes we can be a little bit frustrated

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and, and feel upset about those moments. But what I need you to

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understand is that you will always receive value back the

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universe is always watching your energy that you are putting out

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matters. And so when you are providing value with the

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intentions of helping with the intentions of good value will

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find its way back to you. The universe will find a way for

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that scale to be balanced again. It's probably going to come from

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a different source, you don't

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know

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what how that source is going to come and manifest itself into

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reality. But the law of compensation states that value

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always receives value. Confidence. Number three,

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confidence is key. Are you confident in your product or

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service? If you're not confident in your product or service, how

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can you expect to go out and sell it? clarity and

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contribution, build your confidence, when you are crystal

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clear on how you can solve someone's problem, when you are

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crystal clear on the value that you provide to the people that

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you provide it to? That is going to build your confidence,

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because you're going to know that you're actually providing

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something that will improve this person's life. And when you are

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doing things that help others that help the universal

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consciousness, your confidence will be built. Business is an

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energetic game, mixed with a little bit of strategy. Having

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the right intentions do matter. What you are doing, and how

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you're going about doing them is going to affect the energetic

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frequency that you are radiating into the world. This is what is

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going to attract the right people, or the wrong people. By

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doing what we did earlier in this course, you have begun to

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shift your energy towards what you want. And then as long as

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you have the customers, your clients best interest at heart,

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your frequency is going to be shifting to attract the right

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people, the people who want and love and are excited to work

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with you. My mentor Ed by let is always talking about this, the

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most certain person always influences the less certain

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person. If you don't have more confidence than your client,

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then why should they have confidence in you. If you aren't

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confident in your product or service, I would anyone else be

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confident, you have to build confidence first. And confidence

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doesn't come from nothing. You have to build that confidence by

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being aligned with your core values. And by being aligned

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with

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having a purpose to actually help by being aligned with

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raising a universal consciousness by raising the

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vibration of this planet. When you are doing things that is

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truly truly helping people you are contributing to the world

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and you are crystal clear on how you are providing value, then

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your confidence is going to go through the roof. Now these are

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the three C's that I want you to remember in everything that you

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do in your business in all of your marketing and your organic

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outreach. Remember, the three C's clarity, contribution, and

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confidence. Thank you for tuning in to today's episode of The

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becoming the big me podcast. If you found value in today's

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