You, yes you! Here’s your business wake up call.
It’s not the warm and fuzzy 2024 “New Year's Resolutions” or goal setting conversation you were hoping for, but it’s the conversation you need, especially if you have big goals for 2024 and beyond.
In this episode, we go through all the ways you’re playing it safe in your business (some might surprise you), and how to turn that around.
Head over to iwannacollaborate.com and let us know what you took away from this conversation.
Music credit: The Funkster by Sweet Spot
A Subito Media production
Hello, and welcome back to the eavesdrop on us podcast.
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:I'm
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:Susan: Jessica.
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:I'm Susan.
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:Jessica T: And as we wrap up, this is
our last episode for:
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:said 2024 because my mind's already
thinking about next year, but this
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:is our last episode for the year.
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:And as we were tossing
ideas around the table.
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:You know, Susan, you, you brought
something that was really interesting.
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:It has, which really has nothing to
do with resolutions or goal setting
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:or all of the other kind of, I think,
cliche important things entrepreneurs
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:have to do, but I really liked this
topic that you brought to the table
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:because I think it's something that
as business owners are thinking
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:about 2024 and what they want to do.
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:I don't think this is a question
they're using to evaluate their
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:decision making, their progress.
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:So I'm going to toss it over
to you to give some context.
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:Susan: Well, there were a couple
of items that we talked about, and
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:the one that I'm really interested
in is what questions are you asking
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:yourself at the end of the year?
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:You know, where do you want to go?
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:How do you want to get there?
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:And more importantly, are you committed
to doing anything And I do mean
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:anything different fascinated by this
dynamic of we're going to do the same
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:thing but hope for pray for wish for
something different as an outcome.
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:And, you know, the reality of the
situation is it just doesn't happen.
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:Right.
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:So, it's a dynamic I'm seeing often.
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:And I'm actually even seeing
folks double down on it.
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:And it's, it's a lesson that
we learn in, in primary school.
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:If you want something different, you need
to commit to doing something or thinking
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:something or saying something different.
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:Jessica T: you had an instance
come up this week that I
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:think showcases that point.
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:So, so what was it that you were
like, we've got to talk about this.
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:Like this has to be a conversation.
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:Susan: prominent board of directorship
reached out to us and asked if
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:we would come in and provide some
support guidance and leadership in
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:developing what their priorities should
be, or could be in the year:
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:so it's really an offsite, right?
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:It's an opportunity where all
stakeholders get in 1 room and
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:basically we try to figure out Or
triage and a technical term here triage.
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:What competing priorities should in
fact be 1, 2, and 3, and the reality
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:of the situation is once this.
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:Senior leadership team member reached out
to me and said, Hey, would you consider?
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:And of course I, yeah,
it'd be great for everyone.
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:And, was actually quite excited about it.
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:That aside, this person believed.
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:They had the votes lined
up for them to go forward.
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:So this person leaned a little above tip
of the skis, if you will, on this one.
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:And we had a lovely soft agreement.
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:Okay, we'll go do this and
you go before you board and
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:present it, yada, yada, yada.
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:This person believed they had the
15 votes required, and yet when they
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:got into the room, what happened?
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:Ooh, the archetypes show
up in group dynamics.
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:The sniper, the one that's quiet, attends
everything, goes along, gets along,
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:but does nothing new or different.
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:In fact, they like
things just as they are.
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:Whether it's good, bad, happy,
sad, they don't want to change.
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:They absolutely want
things to stay the same.
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:Well, this person prevails.
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:And how did they prevail?
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:Well, they got the ears, they got
the attention, and they got the
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:emotionality of the room, they
got the momentum, and they turned
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:the vote around to knock forward.
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:Now, as you might imagine, I was
disappointed, sure, but I was
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:more disappointed On their behalf,
because what a missed opportunity.
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:We're going into 24.
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:You have a new board.
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:You have committed individuals.
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:And oh, yeah, let's keep
doing the same thing.
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:So we're going to get along, go along.
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:And meanwhile.
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:Everybody is going to keep passing
them by, including opportunity,
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:including needs, including potential.
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:Everything will continue to pass them by.
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:Why?
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:They're voting on staying
in a place of inertia.
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:We're going to stay put.
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:But here's the sick part, and it is
sick, and it is a really ugly actually
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:necrosis that sets up in a board.
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:We're going to push this off
to everybody else around us.
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:We're not going to do what we're
supposed to be doing, leading,
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:nurturing, supporting the
membership or the senior leadership.
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:We're just going to go
along and play along.
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:And not do a thing.
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:And what that does is basically it shirks
the responsibility down line, and it
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:creates terrific frustration, I mean,
to the of where people get really angry
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:and dispassionate and check out and.
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:Basically leave an organization because
they don't see the evolving momentum.
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:They don't see the
opportunities being seen.
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:They don't see, a leadership
team doing exactly that.
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:Leading.
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:They're just treading water.
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:Jessica T: What a heartbreak.
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:Now I think it was the first
point that really stood out to me.
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:If we think about, deciding.
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:What you need to do differently next
year to kind of get where you want to go.
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:And so I have, I have more of a
strategic question for you, Susan,
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:which is so often we hear from a
business strategy standpoint, when you
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:own a business, you have a strategy
that works, simplify it, do those
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:things until you get bored, right?
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:Because you're going to really
master them, perfect them,
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:dial things in all of that.
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:What's the fine line between doing those
things that work and saying I'm going to
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:keep doing these things because they work,
I'm not going to reinvent the wheel, I'm
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:not going to second guess things, and then
the line between I can keep doing those
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:things, but I'm not going to get anywhere.
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:Do you see what I'm asking?
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:Like, I think there's a place of inertia.
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:Susan: And played it safe, won't this?
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:Yeah.
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:Okay.
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:So let me define inertia,
lack of movement and vision.
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:Jessica T: Oh, okay.
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:So I think it's a, it's a matter of,
you could be doing certain things in
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:your business and getting results.
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:And it's like, well, why
would you change that?
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:Because it's silly because it
works every single time versus you
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:could be doing things in your work.
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:Well, work, meaning you're finding
clients and customers, it's, you know,
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:you're able to grow the business in
terms of team, revenue, et cetera, versus
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:you're doing things and things feel
busy and it kind of looks like you're
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:getting things done, but you're not.
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:So I think that's an important distinction
for listeners, which is we are not
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:suggesting throwing your strategy out
the window because no, it's the opposite.
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:Yeah, it's, if you are, if you found
yourself in:
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:year critically and honestly, and you
say, I really, we didn't get to where we
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:wanted to get, we didn't get the results
we wanted to get, and your plan is to do
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:the same thing in 2024, that just seems
so, it's a tough word about that, Susan.
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:Well, yeah, it
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:Susan: seems silly, doesn't it, from
the outside, and that is the value of
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:bringing in an outsider, not to say, well,
that was stupid, or that's silly, it's
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:to bring in the lack of emotional bias.
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:an advisor and a consultant at that
level, we come in dispassionately.
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:We don't have serfs and
turfs to fight over.
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:We're about creating collaboratives,
coalitions towards the outcome, right?
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:So I bring in voice for the
organization, not the individuals.
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:That make it up more to the point if the
goal is to grow membership an intention is
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:to grow membership to such an extent that
we can hire full time front office staff.
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:I'm going to do a damn new thing.
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:We're not going to pivot we're
not going to change we're going
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:to keep things going, as it is.
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:Yikes.
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:that's malfeasance.
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:That's a malpractice as a leader and
your your responsibility is to what if
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:we want that as an outcome, then we have
to put things in place towards that.
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:Now, we could say, well, wait a
second if they lock themselves
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:into a boardroom and hash it out.
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:Okay.
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:Well, they just save
themselves some money.
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:Great.
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:They lost a day or so.
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:Not so great.
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:But now you have to ask yourselves, are
we asking of the that particular board?
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:Are we still going to the workhorses?
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:And you know what?
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:Anybody listening that's been on a board
of directorship knows who I'm speaking up.
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:The ones that like to be, you
know, active and present and
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:accounted for and do the work.
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:But you know what?
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:You can only ask them so
many times to do more.
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:Jessica T: So I think it's
the it's the matter of yeah.
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:We bring this to a typical
business owner right now.
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:There's no board.
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:There's no big group.
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:It's usually them or a small,
you know, one or two people.
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:Yeah, it's a small leadership team.
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:Susan: I want to double my business.
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:Well, of course you do.
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:Okay.
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:What have you committed to get that?
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:And if you haven't thought that
through to the last step, that's unfair
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:of you as a leader, your role and
responsibility as a servant leader is to
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:soften the ground, clear the way, make
possible, those goals and achievements.
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:That you want to achieve, make
it happen, but you have to
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:clear the way for your team.
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:It's not enough to say, hey, team, we're
going to go grow our business by double.
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:Yay.
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:Teams is great.
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:Okay.
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:How?
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:I don't know.
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:Just do more.
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:Do
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:Jessica T: more of what?
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:Do more of what?
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:I know we hear that all the time.
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:It's like, I want to, you know,
increase my revenue or I want,
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:you know, I want to go big.
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:And we're like, okay, so first
of all, what does that mean?
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:And second of all, what's
your plan to get there?
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:You know, what actions are you taking?
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:And in many cases, but I think what we're
uncovering here is in crafting that, Okay.
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:The biggest mistakes that we see are
people either not even thinking of that in
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:the first place, and they're like, we're
just going to keep doing what we're doing.
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:And if I give myself some space over the
next couple weeks before January starts,
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:I'll be able to like, figure it out.
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:I'll just figure out what I want to do.
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:And And it's
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:Susan: that.
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:That's the insidious,
harmful, toxic behavior.
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:We'll just just in time figure it out.
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:Well, hold on.
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:You may work that way as the
business owner, founder, visionary,
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:but your team doesn't do that.
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:And that's grossly unfair to ask of
your downline team members to do that.
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:Their W 2s in most instances,
meaning their employees,
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:that's not in the contract.
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:They're there to go do their job, do
it exceptionally well, and go home.
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:Not to do it after hours, not to
stress over it over the weekend.
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:That's not their role and responsibility.
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:It's yours.
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:So if you're doing your job, you
actually wouldn't be doing that on
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:the weekend or after hours either.
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:But let's face it, that's what we do.
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:So if we say we don't want it,
well, it just takes discipline.
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:It takes commitment.
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:It takes ringing.
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:So ultimately, Jessica, it comes
down to how do our business leaders,
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:owners, founders, visionaries,
how do they check themselves?
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:How do they protect themselves
from their personal bias?
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:I will forever, ever.
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:Obviously, I'm expressing my bias.
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:You need an advisor to hold and
teach and help support you to be
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:more comfortable, to be a better
servant leader to you and your team.
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:Honestly, it's the personal bias
that robs us of those moments.
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:I have one, you have one.
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:I mean, we walk the talk.
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:So ultimately, you know, I, after
that call today and after having that
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:experience, it was wow, you know,
what a missed opportunity and such.
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:And that's what I mourned most
was the opportunity of that
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:potential could be actualized.
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:Almost effortlessly, to be honest
with you, and that's a part that
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:I'm having a hard time with.
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:But that's my thing.
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:That's, you know, I think what we can
all learn from that is, how can we
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:protect ourselves from not having that
event happen, not being robbed of the
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:benefit and potential of what could be.
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:Well, just playing it safe.
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:Jessica T: Yeah, that's really I think
where I wanted to go with this is is I
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:think that certainly there's the I have
to be aware as I grow my business that I'm
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:going to have my own personal biases and
I'm going to not be able to see certain
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:things and I need someone to help help me
see those help me uncover what those are.
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:But really, I think what
we're also getting into is
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:this idea of playing it safe.
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:And I wondered if we could just for the
benefit of the listeners, As they're
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:thinking about their business, talk
about some signs that they may be playing
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:it a bit too safe in their business.
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:Especially when they're thinking of
what I want to do in:
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:how I want to reach my goals and
if I want to grow bigger and all
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:of that, how are they playing it?
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:Susan: I just say, what a great question.
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:Jessica T: Well, I'll just say
this, Susan, if you know that Vogue
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:on YouTube, this is a side, side
note, you know that 73 questions?
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:Like that would be, that's like I missed
my dream job opportunity because I just
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:want to go ask people questions all day.
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:Susan: Well, and this is, well,
that was a terrific question.
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:So how do they know what, what's
the tangible evidence in their day
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:to day that they should be a quote
unquote, what are the signs that
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:you might be in a place of inertia?
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:Well, because here's
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:Jessica T: the thing.
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:I think the people we're speaking
to generally, these are not.
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:These are people who
they've been in business.
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:They're doing things.
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:I'm talking to
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:Susan: the advanced
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:Jessica T: kids.
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:Yeah, they're making things happen.
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:So I don't know if they're
necessarily even aware.
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:Like, we see it that, like,
you are playing it safe.
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:Like, you say this is what you want
to do and you've gotten this far.
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:Like, but, but you're playing it safe.
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:And this is how you're playing it safe.
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:Because I don't think there's an
awareness necessarily that they are.
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:Susan: There isn't.
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:If you feel like you're trusting, and
understand I'm using air quotes around
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:the trusting and trusting or trusting
your team to deliver your vision
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:It's almost like here's your sign.
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:if you're in a place where, you know, your
prices have not gone up in the past year.
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Oh, we can't afford that.
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for you're in a place of inertia.
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down any opportunities.
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:Yeah, you're eyeballs
deep and inertia inertia
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:Jessica T: being.
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think that, well, that inertia could
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happening in the business,
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game here for a while, guess what?
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:Things have increased in prices.
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on, you're losing, losing ground,
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:If, you defer decisions, well,
let me take that on next month.
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:You're in a place of Now, this
is meant to be provocative.
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:Jessica T: I also think, you know,
something that I personally use
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:Am I playing it too safe?
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is if I don't have like the butterflies
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if I don't have that, whether it's You
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I'm about to position something new, or
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to say something a little bit different
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I'm about to go speak to an audience
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whatever I've adjusted it or something.
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in my stomach, that's how I
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:Take
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:Susan: a look at your group
too, who you hang with.
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:Oh, let's talk more about that.
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:It's one of my favorites.
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:you know the old adage, tell me your top
three friends or five friends, and I'll
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:Jessica T: No, because we see this
a lot too, in the example of joining
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entrepreneurs or networking groups,
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:you know, you're part of these like
tight knit kind of communities.
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hung around or stayed too long,
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plus years in the same BNI group?
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:I love those groups.
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really knew my passion and advocacy
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:of those particular groups, you,
you'd just be scratching the surface
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also a huge believer in evolving.
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wins the day, you know, because
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there for a morning clutch group.
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the point when you and that's why
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:I brought up take a look at the
people around you if they're not.
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folks, I'm not talking about, you
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service in my marketplace.
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:That's what I'm speaking
of when I say hustling.
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the folks around you aren't
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:You should be in a room
where, quite frankly, you're
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:You're not the richest person.
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:You know, go for vanilla.
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:In this instance, you want to take
a look at your friends if they're
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kicking it back into neutral.
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:Well, then you know what they
say you are who you're with, and
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:This is not the time
to be on the sidelines.
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those that are on the sideline right
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:now, you're at risk of losing your
business within 12 to 24 months.
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:This is not the time to phone it in, get
up, dust yourself off and get in the game,
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the honest opportunities are, try like
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personal bias or narrative that you may
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:Now everyone's focused on what am I
going to be when I grow up in January?
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you have every Monday with your
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:Jessica T: Well, I, I think, I think
it's a time in which, and I say
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word of:
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don't work, but I think what we see,
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business owners every single day, we
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networking and, you know, various.
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:I think this is a time where that kind
of feel good stuff has to be get a puppy.
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:Well, I think it has to be matched
with the hard conversations
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and just being satisfied?
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If we think about the groups that you're
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you're doing, if it's just phoning it
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settling for that in your
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they're in that place, by the way.
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awareness of like, have you been
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for the last like couple years?
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by the same people?
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:And it's just like, you wake up, you
do things it's wrote at this point.
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wake up call for like, wait a second.
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:That's what
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:Susan: happened to me with, I
was in a terrifically performing.
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:BNI group and then in 2 years, I noticed
half the group was using it as a coffee
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:I needed a rich learning environment
where, you know, hey, we're all in
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more lucrative, productive place
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:Jessica T: know what,
that happened to me too.
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example of, of BNI, right, just as an
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I think it's the behaviors of the group,
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second, I've got to temper the emotions
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well, it's a level of, I feel comfortable.
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scenarios in a business, right?
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conversation with you.
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we renew and keep going with this?
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little bit different?
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in let's look at the data.
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referrals we have received.
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referrals we have passed.
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months from this particular group
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we ended up making that decision.
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we asked a really important question.
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first started sharing our thoughts
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podcast, we also brought it funds
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encouraged, nurtured, supported,
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components, and it just wasn't there.
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like part of fun is, yes, there's
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think fun also means that you're being
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the butterfly pit in your stomach
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where like, it's not always about like,
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challenged creatively, like
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way that I wasn't before.
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think an important question.
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what's so fun about us being in business
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have those conversations and like, wait a
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or really looking at what we've done.
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of:
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stagnating for us and also what
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I think there's that in a, in
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predictable, however,
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this, even if I don't really like it.
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it's getting me something.
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contributes to the inertia.
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have what I have than not have.
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work with our clients, I tell them
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you created this opportunity, it
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and have it grow with you, and that
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to do on a singleton journey.
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put 10 entrepreneurs in front of me,
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maybe, and I'm giving it two, but those
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no, that's not getting done on their own.
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I'll just yeah, that's I think
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is with the best of intentions.
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sort this out and figure this out.
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taken the courses and I can just
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this on Thursday afternoon at 2 p.
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it's like six weeks later and
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it's, it's looking at time.
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could spend a lot of time and it can
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I think be more confusing because
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could just sit down with somebody.
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two, three different businesses that we're
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Why didn't we do this earlier?
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the conversation with him, because
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questions, I asked them questions
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we had the money for it.
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and yes, you did have it.
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other side of that mountain
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will tell us, no, no, no, don't do it, you
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have what you have than lose what you've
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to play smaller, or be smaller.
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you're probably doing is creating a double
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the world will fly past you right now.
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safe and sit on the bench, just as a.
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reasonably sounding the alarm, not for
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year, I think what you just said, this,
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tolerating, I'm just going to keep doing
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coast, you know, not make waves.
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I'm doing because it's working.
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wrap up on that point is you're not
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or more importantly, yourself, if
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:Jessica T: I know you're today.
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know, from the bottom of our hearts,
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business and you want to see your business
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time to, you know, pick up your head,
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problems so you can, you know, avoid the
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out of your business and, and your life.
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the person that may be hearing
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great reason and intention.
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and what's going on around you?
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may be in a place of inertia
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that place, just give us a call.
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ultimately to partner with, well,
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that we could happily connect you with
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productive to keep moving forward.
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:Jessica T: thank you so much
for a very honest, heartfelt
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:Susan: Thank you for
creating space for it.
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:Jessica T: Yeah.
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