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Your Kryptonite
Episode 3418th April 2021 • The Becoming the Big Me Podcast • Djemilah Birnie
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Every single one of us have a very unique, energetic blueprint. Nobody else has the exact same energetic blueprint as you so the way that you do things, the way that you convey your message, the way that you help people... that is your super power!

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Hi! I am your host Djemilah Birnie of www.becomingthebigme.com . I have been building businesses online since the age of 17. When I discovered the power that we hold within our own minds my world truly began to change.

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You already have a personal brand. Everyone has a personal

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brand, whether they know it or not. Is yours going to be by

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design? Or is it going to be by default?

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Hello, fellow

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Earthlings. Welcome to the becoming the big me podcast. I'm

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your host, Djemilah, Birnie. And together, we will be stepping

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into our highest potential, exploring all things mind, body,

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and soul. With justice, major business, your spiritual badass

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solopreneur and a warrior for change, you're ready to expand

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your impact and leave your old self behind in order to raise

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your vibration so that you can positively influence your

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business, your community, and ultimately, the world. Without

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further ado, let's dive right into it. This episode was

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originally recorded as an online training. So if you hear any

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clicks, or you hear me refer to homework, that is why don't

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worry, there's no homework that you miss. But the information is

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extremely powerful. So I decided to pop it on to the podcast, and

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I know that you will receive value from this episode. Your

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message and your core values along with your story is your

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kryptonite. This is what weakens the competition. This is what

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connects you greater to your clients and allows you to

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influence them on a deeper level. Your story is essentially

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your own superpower. It allows you to stand out from the crowd.

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There are a million real estate agents out there, there are a

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million, you know, business coaches out there, there are a

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million photographers out there, there are so many other people

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already in your space doing what you are doing as well. But

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nobody else is doing it the exact same way as you nobody

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else has the same story as you Your story is completely unique

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to you. Your story is like your fingerprint, nobody else in the

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entire world has the exact same one. You are the only person

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with that this is your superpower. So when you can get

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crystal clear on your messaging when you can get crystal clear

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on your purpose and your values and what you bring to the table

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and your story and how you have gotten to where you are now.

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Then you are now able to stand out from the crowd. You are not

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just like every other financial advisor out there. You are

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unique. You are your business. We've all heard this before you

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are your business people don't buy from businesses they buy

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from people they know like and trust. Crap crafting your

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messaging and crafting your story is what is going to allow

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you to connect and build that know like and trust factor with

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your audience so that their guards are now being let down

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your story is your kryptonite just how kryptonite weakens

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super man's powers. Your story allows people's guards to let

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you let down and connect with you on a much deeper level. Your

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story, your messaging your core values. It allows you to be you

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It allows you to be your authentic self. It allows you to

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be who you truly

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are.

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Every single one of us have have a very unique, energetic

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blueprint. Nobody else has the exact same energetic blueprint

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as you so the way that you do things, the way that you convey

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your message, the way that you help people. The way that you

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interact with your customers is unique to you. I could share

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this slide with somebody else and this presentation it with

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someone else and they can present to you the exact same

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information that I have presented to you over the course

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of this course. But because of their energetic blueprint,

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because of their core values because of what they have been

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through in their story, they're going to present it in a

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different way than I am. And now there are people out there who

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are going to resonate more with the way that they share the

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information than the way that I share the information. The exact

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same information is being portrayed the exact same

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knowledge is being given. But because we have different

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values, because we have a different energetic blueprint,

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you are going to receive the message in a different way. When

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you have created this bond, when you have crafted your story and

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defined your messaging, you now get to be yourself in your

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business

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again,

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as you can tell, in this course, I have done silly things where

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like, my thing wasn't clicking, I've made weird faces. And that

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is okay, because that is who I am, I am Goofy, I make mistakes.

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I do weird things sometimes. But that is who I am. And because I

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am connecting with my audience, my audience doesn't care when I

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make silly mistakes like that. I don't have the best spelling.

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Spelling has always been one of my weaknesses, I have sent out

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things that have spelling errors in that. But my core audience,

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my quantum clients, they don't care about

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that.

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Because they are connected to me and where I am taking them. And

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they understand that I have different strengths that are

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going to help them in the areas that they are looking for my

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spelling doesn't necessarily matter for what they are trying

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to get what obstacle they are trying to get

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over.

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When you are living in your own true story, when your business

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is truly you and your being your authentic self, it allows you to

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fall back in love with your business. Because you are able

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to take off the mask of what it is supposed to look like. And

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able to just be you. How many of you have gone to

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a job

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where you're expected to show up in a certain way you're expected

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to act a certain way. And you literally have a work

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personality and a home personality. You might even have

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a different voice that you use when you speak with clients.

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Back in my sales days, when I was working out for ryzen, I

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completely had my work self and I had my at home self. When a

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client would come in, I would change my voice, I would change

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the way that I spoke, I would change everything about me to

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fit into the mold of what I was supposed to be a manager of a

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wireless retail store. But when you create your business in such

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a way that you can just be yourself, you're going to allow

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yourself to

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just be Do you

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know how much energy you're gonna sit? how exhausting is it

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to put on that mask every day, and to show up as a person that

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you aren't. So when you have defined your story and your

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messaging and you're taking your customers on a journey with you,

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and you know what your core values are, and you're living in

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your authentic self, you're able to fall back in love with your

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business. You already have a personal brand. Everyone has a

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personal brand, whether they know it or not. Is yours going

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to be by design? Or is it going to be by default? Is it just

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going to happen? And you're not going to be the one directing

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it. You're not actually in the driver's seat of your personal

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brand of your core messaging, of your values of your journey.

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Thank you for tuning in to today's episode of The becoming

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that Big me podcasts. If you found value in today's episode,

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make sure to leave us a review and share this episode with

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someone who needs to hear this message. That's how our podcast

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grows. Are you curious about learning more about harnessing

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the power of your subconscious mind? then join the free rewire

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challenge, where we dive deep into the subconscious mind how

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it works and give you some tangible action steps to begin

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rewiring it to serve you go to bit.li slash rewire challenge

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that bit.li slash rewire challenge. Until next time, I'm

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your host Djemilah Birnie, signing out

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