If you've ever brought home a rescue dog and felt like you were failing — this episode is for you.
Rachel Rodgers is a registered clinical animal behaviourist, founder of Nose to Trail, and a specialist in separation anxiety with a background spanning over 15 years in UK rescue centres including Dogs Trust and the RSPCA. In this episode, she and host Nathan Dunleavy have an honest, warm, and deeply practical conversation about why rescue dogs are more prone to SA, what the early signs really look like, and why so many cases go unrecognised or get made worse with the wrong approach. If you're navigating separation anxiety with a rescue dog, this is the episode to share.
In this episode:
✅ Why rescue dogs are more vulnerable to separation anxiety and what's really going on emotionally when a dog has been rehomed
✅ The early warning signs of SA that most new adopters miss (including one that looks like a toilet training problem)
✅ How pain and underlying health issues can masquerade as separation anxiety and why a vet referral matters more than you think
✅ What the settling-in period should actually look like, and why "just leave them to cry it out" can make things significantly worse
✅ How to gently build independence without causing stress from day one
✅ Why working with a certified separation anxiety professional or clinical animal behaviourist is so important, and how to tell the difference
✅ How to manage caregiver fatigue and find real support when you're struggling
Key takeaways:
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Welcome to the Yappy Hour, powered by
Yappily, the podcast for dog lovers
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:who want to better understand and
connect with their canine companions.
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:I'm your host Nathan Dunleavy,
and today's episode is all about
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:rescue dogs and separation anxiety.
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:A topic close to my heart, both
personally and professionally.
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:Joining me is Rachel Rodgers, founder
of Nose to Trail, an experienced
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:trainer behaviourist who works closely
with rescue dogs and their humans to
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:rebuild trust, confidence, and calm.
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:If you've ever brought home a rescue
dog who couldn't settle when you've
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:left the room, or you are supporting
one now, this conversation will help
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:you feel less alone and more empowered.
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:So grab a cup of tea.
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:Settle in and let's get started.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Back
to the Yappy Hour, powered by Yappily.
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:I'm your host, Nathan Dunleavy,
and I'm so excited to bring you
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:another episode of The Yappy Hour.
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:Today joining me, we have Rachel
Rodgers from Nose to Trail.
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:Rachel, so excited to have you here.
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:Welcome to the Yappy Hour.
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:How are you doing?
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: I'm great.
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:Thank you.
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:Thanks so much for having me on.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
You are most welcome.
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:So we are gonna be diving into separation
anxiety and rescue dogs today and how
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like sa and this is really exciting
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on talking about sa but this is our
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about SA because I was due to have
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:one the other day, but fortunately the
lady her dog was being put to sleep.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Oh.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
So this is our first.
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love sa, I've got my own SA dog and I'm a
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with one of Julie Na Smith's cohort.
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subject because like I said, like
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I used to do some essay work and I
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really interesting, rewarding work.
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:So, Rachel, enough about me.
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:Could you start by sharing a bit
about your work with rescue dogs
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became such a key focus for you?
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,
so my kind of entire working
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:So I spent the first 10 years, I'm sure
how old I am now, working for some of
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:So I was working for Dogs Trust,
I was working for the RSPC,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: background
is very much kind of rescue based.
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:Thanks to Boris, I kind of had to adapt
very quickly because I actually went
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put into the first covid lockdown.
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to leave a employed job in rescue
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kind of a deep dive into using
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really, we had the kind of pandemic puppy
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exposed to other people and were never
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to be dogs who had separation issues.
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became naturally a thing.
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did the Julie Naismith course as well.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yes.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Another one of
hers who's kind of flying the flag for
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: love
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail:
It's, it's odd, isn't it?
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almost in a way got shoehorned to it
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area will not touch separation cases.
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burning desire to dogs and that's what
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
aggression cases.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail:
it's weird, isn't it?
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to me going, I've got a dog who can't be
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It is
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
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workload and I, other than pet
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Oh, PET training.
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because I dunno much about that,
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I thought I was busy before lockdown.
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and the pandemic, and then I had
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and I was like, oh my God, because
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for all these courses and signed
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thing because all these people
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gonna start going back to work
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time to train as an essay.
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like essay tendencies and my husband
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for so long and obviously he was
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training and then essay specifically.
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had a lot to answer for.
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used to be part of quite a lot of
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in there going, oh, you must pivot,
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bloody dogs online, but I could do some
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'cause Julie's method's all done online.
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online, so I can't pivot in that sense.
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trainers and behaviourists around here.
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like doing sa because I think
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there's, it's not a quick fix.
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it's not the same as most dog training.
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spent, you know, over 15 years training
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behaviourist, it's not the same methods.
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day as you are with a reactivity case and.
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off and I do think the tech
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behaviourists doing it as well.
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and before I did Julie's stuff, I did
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producing graphs for my clients of
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behind the door and here's how long
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it and I numbers in and create equations
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Oh, me and Excel do not get on.
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December actually, and she went
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but the app is fan fascinating.
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like a lot, a lot of 'em around here,
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SA but then they were happy to take
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I was like, I don't like that stuff.
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involved, but I like helping
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is so prevalent in rescue dogs?
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It's difficult, isn't it?
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more prevalent in every dog if
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a whole than perhaps we realize.
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of that now because we're all better
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dog cameras or ring doorbells or
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isn't coping when we're not there.
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and egg thing, isn't it?
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because they're a rescue dog or is the
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place because they couldn't be left And
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get that information.
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cynical, but I don't think
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manager and I've run rescue kennels.
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honest when they give a dog up.
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that is 'cause the stigma isn't there
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this dog anymore, and you've reached
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family, it's a horrible position to be in.
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element of, it's easier to say the dog
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stay in the house anymore or something
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with the fact my life is being impacted
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with the girls anymore.
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it comes across more selfish.
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but I do think there's an aspect of,
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won't, like, you only get told
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pet parent, guardian owner tells you.
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forthcoming with information.
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environment 'cause you, you are limited
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don't, I, I dunno like.
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but I mean, in the early days with
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we weren't in the right home for him.
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able to go to like a normal home that
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experience and the, you know, the,
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and I know a bit about it, that
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got a Multid dog household as well.
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it's a whole control management.
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I said, oh God, maybe he would be
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way I could part part of him now.
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special little boy in that.
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no judgment on my end of, if someone
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cope with a dog who has separation
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well be that the kindest thing to do
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someone perhaps can be around a bit more.
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just plays a huge part in that.
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question of like, is a rescue dog, is
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prevalent in that population?
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fact that those previous bonds, and
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attachments styles the way humans do,
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center for whatever.
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whether it's human, whether it's dog
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like that, that's traumatic for the dog.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: so they are
gonna struggle more when they now
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most secure attachment, is it?
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you know, potentially in
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trauma sort of sticks with them as well.
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I'm gonna get abandoned again.
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while to decompress as well.
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are more prone to sa So we might, you
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little bit here, but what make, what
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to developing separation related issues?
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so I mean, we've touched on
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this is no disrespect to rescue
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environment as being in a loving home.
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about the number of dogs in a kennels
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they have and the amount of human
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that stay, it's limited, isn't it?
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each day 'cause they physically can't be.
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team go home, the dogs stay in the kennel.
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nine o'clock the following morning.
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that can play a big role in those.
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to, then when they do get back to
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they don't want to go back to that.
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you know, I think of the local kennels
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as people who work on separation
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with a separation anxiety problem.
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dogs, at least a companion there,
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no, I didn't really know that about
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goes home at five, is there no one
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on a night shift with the dogs at like
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a pet on the head and say night, night.
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say night, see you in the morning and
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you're with, there's no one there,
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do you have you seen there's a
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by separation related behaviours?
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It's interesting, isn't it?
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previously and so like the research
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the 12 years I've seen separation cases.
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was cock beagles and sausage dogs.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,
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it's interesting, isn't it?
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genetic aspect and we don't have
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there's just an awful lot of those
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we are near a, a cockapoo breeder,
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail:
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: but also
I get a lot of sausage dogs and I
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I work, like I do the, I'm the head
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see that.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: a sausage
dog, and so they obviously have a
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it's one of those things.
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clients or is it just there is more
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center near you is quite for,
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but there obviously I keep seeing like
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and people fostering them and stuff.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
rescue centers very full
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: certainly the ones
near us are and I don't, it's difficult
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that is to do with finances at the minute,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
people are finding it tough?
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, I, I mean,
as someone who's self-employed, but it is,
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terms of like uptake of services.
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separation cases recently are turning
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like, you know the podcast episodes
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and, and things like that because they
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consult and maybe they don't even have
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the pet insurance and things now.
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one of the first things where people,
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gonna cut money back on it if they can.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: I do think,
unfortunately that is, you know,
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for the dogs, like sadly financial
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: So I'm on the
shop for Cheshire border, so I'm gonna.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Chop right.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: so I'm weird.
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:I've got a structure postcode, but I pay
council tax to Cheshire, so it's very odd.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Well
we used to live up in Manchester for a
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south, like we've obviously got and stuff.
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more, you know, in rescue up that,
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to where we are, but, brilliant.
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should look for even in the early
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: I think there is,
yeah, I think it's difficult, isn't it?
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you work with separation cases all the
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potentially has a separation problem.
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:But actually I had a message on TikTok
just yesterday and I thought this is
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:exactly what we're gonna be talking about.
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:So I've been doing videos
about toilet training.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.
383
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: I've
got a 12 week old puppy, so
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: week.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: right in my mind
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: What
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: toilet train.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I meant to ask you what breed.
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Oh,
she's a little border terrier,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
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:I love,
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: so
she's full of personality.
393
:But she maybe is struggling a little
bit on the toilet training front.
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:So it is, it is something that,
like I, I'm going through, so I
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:was posting a lot about that, you
know, and it's, it's not enjoyable.
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:It's not, and it, when you get
a rescue dog, regardless of age,
397
:some of them potentially aren't
gonna be clean in the house.
398
:But it was interesting.
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:So this lady said, I don't understand.
400
:I've had my dog for two years and
I can go out and be fine, could be
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:upstairs having a shower for 40 minutes,
but I come down every morning and
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:overnight he's gone to the toilet.
403
:And I thought, but if your dog can
do it in the day when you are there.
404
:I'm not convinced this is
purely a toilet training issue.
405
:I think we've actually got a
separation issue that actually, you
406
:know, this person's gonna bed at
say 10 o'clock at night, getting
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:up at eight o'clock in the morning.
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:That dog's on, its on its own.
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:Albeit you're in the same
house for quite a long time.
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:So actually I think if the dog is
doing toilet training fine in the
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:daytime, but then is going to the
toilet when you're upstairs at night
412
:and you're away from them and you're
not in the same room, then that can
413
:be a bit of a red flag that actually
we've got a separation issue already.
414
:And it's not all, you know, because
it's not that they can't physically
415
:hold their bladder that long.
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:'cause if they can do it in the daytime,
I, you know, and that, yes, okay,
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:there can be rare cases where there's
something medically going on, but I
418
:do think if when you are separated and
you are upstairs or you've gone for a
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:shower and you come back and they've gone
to the toilet, that's an being apart.
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:So I think toileting can sometimes
be one that we maybe don't think
421
:of particularly with a rescue dog,
but we can chalk it up as a little
422
:red flag as one to keep an eye on.
423
:The other one I think is, is the
vocalization side of things as well.
424
:Like if you close a door and they're
starting to cry, potentially even
425
:scratch, we've gotta be aware of that
426
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm
427
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: I think
there's so much bad advice online,
428
:isn't there where people will go,
oh, you just gotta leave them.
429
:Just leave them and they'll be quiet.
430
:Leave them to try it out.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
So old school.
432
:That is so outta
433
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: It's,
but people have said it to me,
434
:even knowing what I do for a job.
435
:I'm getting people telling me to do
it with a puff and I'm like, I've
436
:absolutely not going to take that advice.
437
:Thank you.
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:I will be going downstairs
and dealing with the puppy,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
You wouldn't let
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: but
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
you wouldn't let your kid
442
:quiet out there with you.
443
:I don't have kids, but I
444
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: I
dunno, I don't have kids either,
445
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
but I just don't
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:Rachel - Nose to Trail: so,
447
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
a kid quiet out, so.
448
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: no, I, I wouldn't
have thought so now, but you know, it's,
449
:I think vocalizations are, again, it's.
450
:One we need to be aware
of and we need to be.
451
:For me, the first thing I did when I
got a dog, whether it was my rescue or
452
:whether it was the new puppy, 'cause
she's the first puppy I've had in a
453
:very long time, I've always rescued
454
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
455
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Is, yeah.
456
:Is get a camera and
have the camera on them.
457
:And even when, when I first got pebbles
and I was going upstairs to come in the
458
:office to do something like this, I'm
there on the ring camera watching her.
459
:Is she all right?
460
:Is she okay?
461
:Check in to see, because I'm just so
conscious that I didn't want her sat
462
:in her little crate in the kitchen
463
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
464
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: upset and
started to do things that might
465
:eventually become a bigger problem.
466
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
467
:You forget how hard work it
is of a puppy, don't you?
468
:I know I
469
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: It's horrible.
470
:It's absolutely horrible.
471
:I'm deep within my puppy blues, Nathan.
472
:Deep within,
473
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
but I love that you've rescued and so
474
:what was the rationale behind a puppy?
475
:Now Rachel?
476
:Sorry I've
477
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah.
478
:So I know.
479
:Sorry.
480
:Take you off on a tangent.
481
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I, no, I love her
482
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: My business
name nose to Trail is because I do
483
:this pet trailing and the man trailing.
484
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
business name.
485
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
486
:So it's, it's a, you know, play on nose
to tail, but it's trail because we do
487
:pet trailing and I do pet trailing or
have been for the last kind of six years
488
:with my rescue dog from Portugal who
was a street dog in the stray pound who
489
:had two days left to live, who came over
and ended up is, you know, it's magic.
490
:He's actually been nominated for
a BBC award for like, is making
491
:a difference, which is lovely.
492
:We found that out this morning.
493
:So I'm very proud dog mom at the
minute because he has reunited missing
494
:dogs with their families again.
495
:So he goes off and follows the trail
and, and find these missing dogs.
496
:So he is 10, he needs to retire and I've
been looking for the last kind of two
497
:years for another dog, a third dog to
be that crazy dog lady and have three to
498
:come into our family and become my next.
499
:Potential working dog.
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:But because I'm a woman of a
certain age, there's a lot of rescue
501
:centers who wouldn't rehome to me
because quote, you might change your
502
:mind and you might have a child,
503
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
504
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: I'll not
be changing my mind and will not
505
:be having a child anytime soon.
506
:But that was a reason they
wouldn't give me a dog.
507
:There was actually a border terrier
puppy that had separation issues.
508
:They wanted it to go to a home with
another small dog and someone who
509
:had experience of separation issues.
510
:So I was like, ideal.
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:Perfect.
512
:Applied.
513
:They wouldn't let me have
her because I won't raw feed.
514
:And so I hit this wall so many times
trying to rehome and it, you know,
515
:it's been a really hard decision
for me 'cause it's going against
516
:all my ethics, getting a puppy.
517
:But in the end I came across 'cause
one of my clients was getting
518
:one of them this lovely litter.
519
:Mom and dad, a brilliant
temperament are both healthy.
520
:They were raised in a lovely environment.
521
:And I thought, you know what?
522
:It's gonna be the right size to fit in
with my two small dogs that I've got.
523
:It's gonna weigh about the same.
524
:I've had Border Terriers before.
525
:It's clearly just meant to be.
526
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
527
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: here we are, four
weeks in with Pebbles, the border Territ.
528
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: pebbles.
529
:Oh, I love it.
530
:And yeah, border Terror is,
they're full of character, aren't
531
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
532
:Yeah.
533
:Maybe a bit too much character.
534
:The 13 and the 10-year-old.
535
:Seem to think.
536
:But
537
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
538
:I love that though.
539
:Brilliant.
540
:So moving on to our next question then.
541
:So we've sort of touched on it a little
bit, but what role does the dog's previous
542
:history play and what doesn't it tell us?
543
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah, I think
it varies massively from dog to dog.
544
:But when we're specifically thinking
about rescue dogs, we probably just
545
:don't know the full history of the dog.
546
:I wish they could tell us.
547
:I really do.
548
:But sadly we just don't know.
549
:And actually I've had rescue dogs.
550
:Who've had separation issues that I've
worked with where we've been able to
551
:find, like triggering incidents that
have caused their separation issues.
552
:So one of them actually was a colleague
who was given up, working colleague,
553
:who was in a family home who actually
went into the Rehoming Center because
554
:he was rounding up the children.
555
:So not separation related,
was herding the kids.
556
:We shouldn't laugh, but genuinely did
herd them up into the garden shed.
557
:So they, I know you shouldn't laugh,
but he blessed his little soul.
558
:He needed a working job.
559
:He needed to the right home.
560
:Yeah.
561
:And he was from a farm, you know, he
wasn't, you know, from a pet family.
562
:He was from a working farm in Wales.
563
:And he ended up in the kennels.
564
:And really sadly, while he was in
the kennels, we had a massive storm
565
:the other year, a huge storm, and
the roof of the kennels collapsed
566
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, bloody,
567
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: he was
in there on his own at night.
568
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: oh,
569
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: that seems
to have been for him this isolated
570
:incident where now when he is left,
he's panicking and I do think it's
571
:because he's had that horrific
experience whilst he was on his own.
572
:And normally we don't have such
detailed history of the dog, we
573
:don't know what's happened like that.
574
:But for him we can pin
it right back to that.
575
:And sadly for him, he's now got
phobias for like storm weather as
576
:well because it was all interlinked.
577
:So like really heavy rain
that also triggers him.
578
:And there's a lot, bless
him, a lot to work on.
579
:But we, history is gonna play a role,
but what we can't change the past.
580
:So actually as much as it would sometimes
be helpful to know, we've just gotta
581
:focus on, on the future and how we
work with that dog moving forward.
582
:And I think you'll be well aware
of this, you know, as someone who's
583
:worked on separation cases that.
584
:The most important thing
really is for those dogs.
585
:They're not left again for any
longer than they spoke with,
586
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
587
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: that is what makes
them such hard cases to work through.
588
:'cause the level investment from
the guardian or the owner or the
589
:adopter, whoever's taken this pet
on whatever you wanna call them,
590
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
591
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: but high
like they have to be willing to not
592
:leave that dog if the dog can't cope
593
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
594
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: being left.
595
:And that's a lot to ask of someone,
596
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
597
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: is why both
of us enjoy them so much as a case
598
:because you're helping not only
the dog but the human aren't you?
599
:And the
600
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I, I,
601
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: back and the
dog is then a confident, happy dog
602
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,
603
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: So
604
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I
605
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: like for
us it's really rewarding, isn't it?
606
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
you just get so invested, don't you?
607
:I feel,
608
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
609
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: right.
610
:Okay.
611
:And I just want to quickly touch back
on your point where you've, just going
612
:back to the previous where we said about
that they wouldn't let you have the
613
:dog because you may have children and I
don't wanna speak Ill health of UK risk,
614
:but do you think that's why loads of
people are adopting from abroad because
615
:it's so hard to get adopt in the uk?
616
:That's what I'm
617
:Rachel - Nose to Trail:
Yeah, hundred percent.
618
:Because I, the local kennels
to me is an overseas rescue.
619
:They try primarily take Romanian
rescues and Bosnian rescues
620
:and bring them into the uk.
621
:And when I speak to people who adopt
dogs from there, they tell me time
622
:and time again that the main rescues
in the UK wouldn't give them a dog.
623
:So they took a dog from overseas
when it wouldn't necessarily
624
:have been their first choice.
625
:For some people it is, they
really want to help an overseas
626
:rescue, but for some people it's
because they really want a rescue.
627
:They don't wanna buy a
dog or go to a breeder.
628
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm.
629
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: the only
rescues they can get to are these
630
:little less known rescues that
maybe don't have as much red tape
631
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
632
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: who
they will let adopt a dog.
633
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
And just your point on Romanians,
634
:they come with a whole raft of.
635
:Issues.
636
:Sometimes we work with a lot of, 'cause
with the dog walk inside the business.
637
:Like one of the girls that works
with me, her, she, she does a lot of
638
:work with like the Romanian rescues,
building up like that trust and bond.
639
:But are absolutely fine.
640
:But then some they do
come with a lot of, like,
641
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,
642
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I,
a lot of trauma, a lot of, I don't
643
:wanna say like issues, but they do
come with a lot of stuff to unpack.
644
:Rachel - Nose to Trail:
very different type of dog.
645
:Typically, I think, to an, A dog
who's been born in the UK is from
646
:the uk, has lived in a home and then
ended up in a rescue, a dog from
647
:the streets in an environment, which
is so completely different to ours.
648
:And what they've gone through
is so completely different.
649
:I think to a lot of the UK rescues,
they are, it is very, very different.
650
:It is, and I, I, I think
sadly, there's quite a lot of
651
:judgment and prejudice against.
652
:Those rescues, and a lot of people have
very strong beliefs as to whether or
653
:not we should have adopted from abroad
and should we be allowing these dogs
654
:in the country and all of these things,
which I think, you know, you could have
655
:a whole other podcast episode on those.
656
:But I think at the end of the day, to me,
the way I see it, and you know, I have an
657
:overseas street dog, so I'd be very hypo
hypocritical to judge anybody, but they're
658
:in this country, they're in a home.
659
:There is absolutely no point in
being unpleasant or judgmental
660
:towards the people who've adopted
those dogs, particularly if they've
661
:reached out to you to help for help.
662
:Like the dogs that deserve help.
663
:Oh yeah, because I've got a couple of
Romanian rescues who we're actually
664
:seeing for reactivity cases, and
they actually only applied for one.
665
:But when the dog appeared,
they dropped two dogs off.
666
:And this is just in case anybody
works out which rescue is near me.
667
:It's not that rescue, it's
a totally different rescue.
668
:I can't even remember the name of
the rescue, but they just dropped
669
:two off and they were like, oh,
these two get on really well, so
670
:actually you're gonna have two.
671
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
672
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: so they
left, they left this couple with
673
:two adolescent shepherd type big
dogs and said, oh yeah, but you
674
:can't take them out for three weeks.
675
:Just leave them in their crates.
676
:They'll be fine.
677
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh
678
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Lo and
behold, they have a whole heap
679
:of behavioural issues and these
poor people are really struggling
680
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I'm
681
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: and
there's no rescue backup, there's
682
:no support for these dogs.
683
:And so they took them to the vets
because they were like, we're struggling.
684
:We need help.
685
:And the first vet that they went
to said, well, you shouldn't have
686
:adopted from abroad should you.
687
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, bloody.
688
:How?
689
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: And so I get
this phone call last Christmas from these
690
:people, you know, in floods of tears
because even the vet won't help them.
691
:We don't know who to turn to.
692
:We dunno what to do.
693
:We're scared in our own home.
694
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh.
695
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: And you just,
how would that help anybody, even if
696
:that's your personal opinion, that we
shouldn't be bringing dogs into the uk?
697
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh
698
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: It is awful.
699
:It didn't help anybody.
700
:It really like, you know, it's so
sad and I think that's one of the
701
:things that myself and I, you know,
I've got a team now of four rehab
702
:trainers who work with me on cases
703
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh wow.
704
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: all of them.
705
:One of the things I'm so like,
it is our core thing is you
706
:absolutely do not judge people.
707
:You don't judge people for the problems
they are having with their dogs.
708
:We are there to support,
we are there to listen.
709
:We are there to help.
710
:We are not there to make anybody feel
rubbish about what they're doing.
711
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
712
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: not, just not.
713
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I don't, I don't think people are
714
:really prepared how much work's
involved are they Sometimes.
715
:'cause you just don't
know what you're getting.
716
:Like that couple and it can be full on.
717
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Absolutely.
718
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.
719
:Lovely.
720
:Moving on to our next section,
which is all about the settling in
721
:period in early days in a new home.
722
:What
723
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
724
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: be,
Rachel, your top recommendations for
725
:helping a newly adopted dog settle
in those first few weeks, please?
726
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
727
:So I think we need to be
prepared to do very little.
728
:So all the things you normally do in your
life, you need to be prepared that you
729
:are not doing those for a good few weeks.
730
:And I'm not gonna lie, I have been
bored out of my mind the last few
731
:weeks because I haven't been able to
go out and see clients face to face.
732
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right?
733
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: been trapped in
the house with the puppy because I don't
734
:want it to develop separation issues.
735
:And actually, I feel like I
should start a petition online
736
:for us to get like puppy leave
737
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.
738
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: dog leave
because you wouldn't have a new baby
739
:and bring it home or adopt a child
and bring them home and then just
740
:carry on as normal the next day.
741
:But people seem to with dogs, so
they get a dog that they've maybe
742
:seen two or three times and they
come home with it on the Saturday.
743
:'cause they've driven to the
rescue center, brought it back,
744
:had Saturday night to settle it in
Sunday to be with it, and then they
745
:go to work for eight hours on the
Monday and think it's gonna be okay.
746
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: no.
747
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: I really
think the best thing you can do is use
748
:some of your annual leave and be off
749
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: take a
750
:Rachel - Nose to Trail:
and be off with the job.
751
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, I've said that
752
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Not only you
know, for their sake, but also for yours.
753
:Bond with them, you know, you just
made this commitment for 10, 15
754
:years potentially with this living
thing that has come to depend on
755
:you and it is dependent on you.
756
:So enjoy it.
757
:Get to bond with them,
758
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
759
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: that time
with them and actually forming
760
:that secure attachment with them.
761
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
762
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: to prevent some
separation issues in most cases, you
763
:know, with some dogs, unfortunately,
they're gonna have issues even if you
764
:take that time off and it's gonna be
harder to go back to a normal life.
765
:But I do think don't be
planning to go at the cinema.
766
:You're not gonna be going necessarily to
the gym at six o'clock the next morning
767
:like you've always used to, unless
there's multiple people in the house.
768
:You know, if there's multiple people,
I do think it is on the whole easier,
769
:unless the dog suddenly develops a hyper
attachment issue to one primary caregiver.
770
:But that's rare, isn't it?
771
:I mean, most of the time the dog
is scared of being on its own.
772
:So if there's you and a partner, or you
and a housemate or whoever in this day and
773
:age that you live with, then you can kind
of share the love and share the duties
774
:and you can pop out and it's easier.
775
:But I spend 90% of my time on my own, and
so I'm stuck and it's me and the dogs.
776
:And so, you know, yesterday was
actually the first time I left
777
:my puppy and went to the shops.
778
:I've had her four weeks.
779
:I finally built up last
night 'cause it's too hot.
780
:I couldn't take her and
leave her in the car.
781
:It's far too
782
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
783
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: hot.
784
:And I finally, I'm just, I've,
I've been flitting, we've been
785
:doing lots of micro absences.
786
:I've been spending time up here
in my office and going out into
787
:the garden and doing stuff.
788
:But finally drove away from the house
789
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
790
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: I was there.
791
:I got to the bottom of, before
you go onto like the main road,
792
:'cause I've got a driveway.
793
:I went down the driveway and I'm
like, yeah, a hundred percent.
794
:Get to Sainsbury's, check the camera.
795
:Or she's okay walking around Sainsbury's.
796
:But fairly paying any
attention to what I'm buying.
797
:Just checking the camera the whole time.
798
:She was absolutely fine.
799
:Didn't even notice when I got home.
800
:Yeah, yeah.
801
:Until I opened the door into the
kitchen where she was fast asleep.
802
:Then I got her head up and, oh
yeah, hello, where have you been?
803
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.
804
:Rachel - Nose to Trail:
And I was so happy.
805
:I was like, proud dog mom moment.
806
:Really proud.
807
:'cause she's absolutely fine.
808
:But I have, for best part of
four weeks, she's gone everywhere
809
:with me or I've not gone.
810
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.
811
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: and I think
people need, I know that probably sounds
812
:unrealistic to most people, but it will
potentially make your life much easier
813
:from a separation viewpoint if you can
prepare to be off during that time period.
814
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, I agree.
815
:And I feel I've seen like now there's
adoption leave for humans, so we do need
816
:something similar to if we adopt or a
817
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,
when I'm so, be self-employed.
818
:It's all right though, isn't it?
819
:I just blocked off in my calendar and said
to people, I'll be working on Zoom only.
820
:That's all I can do
until the puppy's ready.
821
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
822
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: that's it.
823
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, brilliant.
824
:It's exciting though.
825
:So we've, we have spoke touches
just now, but should guardians leave
826
:them to settle or be more hands-on,
what would be the balance there?
827
:Rachel - Nose to Trail:
It is a balance, isn't it?
828
:Because you can't micromanage
and watch them all the time.
829
:You do need to start to develop a little
bit of kind of self settling and the
830
:ability for them not to depend on you
all the time, but I also think we can
831
:proactively be doing that as a choice.
832
:So in terms of the training that we do, so
like I put my bin outside from day dot, so
833
:every time I had a bit of rubbish in the
kitchen, I had to go outta the house to
834
:put it in the bin, which meant I was gone.
835
:But I was gone for like, what, 20 seconds
836
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
837
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: back.
838
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
839
:Rachel - Nose to Trail:
actually that flitting in and
840
:out, in and out, in and out.
841
:Whilst it may just seem
like a little thing.
842
:Is a good thing and has probably
really helped and then you
843
:can build that up for longer.
844
:'cause I could go and faff in the garage
and then come back and it was fine.
845
:Little things like that.
846
:And also proactively teaching a settle.
847
:So teaching them to be able
to relax and be with you but
848
:not need attention from you
849
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
850
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: is
letting themselves settle.
851
:But equally, you are making that choice
to teach the dog that independent skill.
852
:And I think we do need to do that, but I'm
certainly not buying into the old school.
853
:Just leave them to cry out.
854
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No.
855
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: not.
856
:No.
857
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
more harm than good.
858
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
859
:Yeah.
860
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm,
861
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Definitely.
862
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: How
can we introduce a gentle independence
863
:building without causing stress?
864
:Is this like this fl in
stuff that you're talking
865
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, I
think that can be really helpful.
866
:But I think other things that we
can do from a training viewpoint can
867
:also help build confidence in dogs.
868
:And actually that's partly why I use
the pet trailing and the man trailing
869
:techniques with all of my behaviour
cases, whether they're reactivity or
870
:their separation because they we're
allowing a dog to be a dog, but we're
871
:also doing something that's enjoyable.
872
:So it has loads of benefits, but
it teaches them to have confidence
873
:and build that self-confidence.
874
:'cause a lot of the dogs we are seeing
with separation issues are lacking in
875
:confidence in every area, aren't they?
876
:They're nervous dogs.
877
:I mean, you mentioned
with dog has other issues.
878
:There's a pain, we've got resource
guarding, you know, we've got
879
:other things at play and quite a
lot of time there is, isn't there?
880
:It's not purely separation.
881
:The dog will be displaying other.
882
:Anxious or worried behaviours.
883
:So if we can start to make them
more confident and have that belief
884
:that everything is okay and have a
more positive, optimistic outlook
885
:of the world, they're gonna cope
better when they're left as well.
886
:Yeah.
887
:So I, for me it's pet.
888
:That's just my bag.
889
:That's why I like to teach.
890
:But like Mel, who works with
me, she teaches hoopers.
891
:And again, that's like
moving away from the owner.
892
:So building and they're not,
I think sometimes my clients
893
:look at me like, what?
894
:'cause they expect me to be like,
put your coat on and off, coat
895
:on and off, shoes on and off.
896
:Pick up your car keys,
up and down, up and down.
897
:And they think that's the type of training
you've gotta do for separation issues.
898
:And I'm there like, right, we're gonna
teach your dog to find missing dogs.
899
:And they're like, what?
900
:And actually I find it's really
nice because it's different.
901
:'cause separation training
can be boring, can't it?
902
:I know we've not gone into a huge deal
of it, but it can be boring, it can be
903
:repetitive, it can take a long time.
904
:So doing something where actually
they go out and they see their dog.
905
:Thrive and they do brilliantly at it and
they see their dog having fun can help.
906
:I think the owner, the human end of
the leash, fall back in love with
907
:their dog again and have a nice bonding
moment because actually as much as you
908
:know, they might not wanna admit it.
909
:And it's not a nice thing to say.
910
:You can start to resent your dog
if they've got a separation issue.
911
:I like, I, you know, a lot of
people who come to me are really
912
:at the end of their tether.
913
:Like they're really finding life hard.
914
:They feel really trapped and in a lot
of cases are regretting getting the dog,
915
:if it's a, a rescue dog and thinking,
you know, or even I see people really
916
:starting to be annoyed at the kennels.
917
:Like they didn't disclose this to me.
918
:They didn't tell me, they didn't
tell me how hard it was gonna be.
919
:And so having an activity where they
have fun together I think can be really
920
:helpful in getting through those cases.
921
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,
922
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
923
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Just quickly, I've heard of
924
:man trailing before, but is
925
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
926
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
What's pet train?
927
:Is that finding dogs then?
928
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,
so basically, so finding pets.
929
:So it is exactly the same as
man trailing, but rather than
930
:finding a human, we find a pet.
931
:Typically it's dogs because
in terms of the training, most
932
:people just do it for fun.
933
:And so you're not gonna have most
people, some people will, but most
934
:people are not gonna have their cat or
their ferret or Guinea pig on a lead.
935
:So most of the time it's a, a, a quote,
stewed lost dog that we're hiding.
936
:So another person in the class and
then the dog will sniff something of
937
:that dog's, maybe some fur, maybe a
poo, and they will then follow the
938
:cent trail to find the missing dog.
939
:But it doesn't have to be a dog.
940
:My boy actually went out to find
Cinnamon, the missing Capy Barra.
941
:I dunno if you ever saw that on the news.
942
:In September, she escaped from
the zoo at Telford, and Rico
943
:went out looking for cinnamon.
944
:The Capy Barra the weirdest Wednesday
I've ever had, but it was certainly fun.
945
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
It does sound brilliant.
946
:Alright, let's move on
then to essay in practice.
947
:So what it looks like and what works.
948
:What are some of the most
common signs that a rescue dog
949
:is struggling with being left?
950
:What's the same for any dog?
951
:Isn't it really?
952
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, I think so.
953
:I think probably the ones that
people recognize the most are
954
:like destruction and the toileting
that we talked about before.
955
:Or your neighbor coming rounded,
saying, your dog's vocalized and
956
:barked and shouted or screamed
the entire time you were out.
957
:Or a passive aggressive Facebook
post saying somebody's dog has
958
:been barking the entire time.
959
:If anybody, oh, every Facebook group,
isn't it such and such local community
960
:group, could somebody shut that dog up
961
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
And they're
962
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: and
963
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
normally, they're
964
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: this dog.
965
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
they're normally pasted anonymous,
966
:and then they're like, oh, oh my
967
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: Because they
don't want their neighbor to realize
968
:it's them instead of just going
round and being like, I'm genuinely
969
:concerned that your dog is unhappy.
970
:We'll, just, it's often a
human based problem, isn't it?
971
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
The, the thing is, if they don't have
972
:a camera, they may not know either.
973
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: yes, and I
like that is the thing for me that
974
:I think so many people miss the more
subtle signs because bless them,
975
:there's so many dogs suffering in
silence or people don't realize.
976
:So they're like, oh, he gets so excited
to see me goes and eats the Kong
977
:that I left for him in the morning.
978
:And I think the fact he couldn't
eat the entire time you were at
979
:work is a huge red flag for me.
980
:That he felt so uncomfortable and so
stressed he couldn't eat dinging problem
981
:because actually most dogs in the daytime
are gonna have a snack if it's there.
982
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.
983
:Rachel - Nose to Trail: my three
would have no problem eating
984
:a stuffed cold when I was out.
985
:Quite happy to eat that.
986
:So I think not eating,
pacing, lip licking, yawning.
987
:Not gonna sleep because, you
know, dogs should be asleep.
988
:So if they're just staring at a
door for eight hours whilst you're
989
:at work, not good, not good at all.
990
:But you wouldn't know, would you, if you
didn't have a camera, you wouldn't know.
991
:And I, I do wonder if that's why we're
seeing more cases, because as you
992
:know, as a nation, maybe worldwide
as well, we're just a bit more dog
993
:obsessed than we were 15 years ago.
994
:Like everywhere with us,
everywhere is dog friendly.
995
:They're at the coffee shop.
996
:Mine goes to the nail bar with me.
997
:Like they go everywhere.
998
:She actually came to the
hairdressers, the puppy.
999
:And so I think now we want
to see them, don't we?
:
00:43:10,171 --> 00:43:13,471
But when I had my first two
border Terriers, what, 20 years
:
00:43:13,471 --> 00:43:15,091
ago, we didn't have a camera.
:
00:43:15,091 --> 00:43:16,261
Nobody had a camera.
:
00:43:17,401 --> 00:43:17,881
You, we.
:
00:43:17,959 --> 00:43:20,779
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
didn't have I iPhones on Yeah.
:
00:43:22,429 --> 00:43:23,884
The May Dems and the wires
:
00:43:24,571 --> 00:43:28,051
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, so
I think now we just, we know more,
:
00:43:28,171 --> 00:43:31,051
and so maybe that's why we're
seeing a higher percentage of dogs
:
00:43:31,051 --> 00:43:34,741
that have it or we're reporting a
higher number of dogs who have it.
:
00:43:34,771 --> 00:43:35,131
But
:
00:43:35,154 --> 00:43:35,539
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm mm
:
00:43:35,851 --> 00:43:36,241
Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah.
:
00:43:36,331 --> 00:43:39,301
So many signs that perhaps
we're just not aware of.
:
00:43:39,524 --> 00:43:39,944
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm-hmm.
:
00:43:41,209 --> 00:43:44,389
you do as, do you know if
many bts have had it before?
:
00:43:45,361 --> 00:43:47,431
Rachel - Nose to Trail: I'm
gonna say no, I've never had one.
:
00:43:48,384 --> 00:43:49,744
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I just wondered because you had
:
00:43:50,041 --> 00:43:51,421
Rachel - Nose to Trail:
No, I, I've not had one.
:
00:43:51,421 --> 00:43:52,051
Have you had one?
:
00:43:52,219 --> 00:43:53,224
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I haven't come across, no.
:
00:43:54,361 --> 00:43:56,941
Rachel - Nose to Trail: I I mean,
I, obviously, I'm very biased,
:
00:43:57,211 --> 00:44:03,391
but I find Border Terriers to be
quite a robust hardy little dog.
:
00:44:03,841 --> 00:44:07,501
And other than the nickname of
border terrorists, and they can be
:
00:44:07,501 --> 00:44:09,751
a little bit dog reactive and spicy,
:
00:44:10,194 --> 00:44:10,414
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yes.
:
00:44:10,441 --> 00:44:13,801
Rachel - Nose to Trail: don't see them
for many other behavioural issues.
:
00:44:13,981 --> 00:44:17,021
Like, I don't, I've not had
any with repetitive behaviours.
:
00:44:17,251 --> 00:44:21,211
I also don't see many with a
huge number of like genetically
:
00:44:21,211 --> 00:44:22,921
predisposed health problems.
:
00:44:23,311 --> 00:44:26,971
There is a bit of Cushings
going on, but on the whole touch
:
00:44:26,971 --> 00:44:28,981
wood, they're quite a, a breed.
:
00:44:28,981 --> 00:44:31,291
We haven't messed with too much just yet.
:
00:44:31,501 --> 00:44:32,491
And along may it last?
:
00:44:32,689 --> 00:44:33,229
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
:
00:44:33,409 --> 00:44:33,829
Long.
:
00:44:35,009 --> 00:44:35,429
Brilliant.
:
00:44:35,429 --> 00:44:40,769
So how do you begin building a plan
with clients once SA is suspected?
:
00:44:40,769 --> 00:44:41,309
Rachel?
:
00:44:42,071 --> 00:44:42,491
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
:
00:44:42,491 --> 00:44:45,401
So I am a registered
clinical animal behaviourist.
:
00:44:45,401 --> 00:44:45,791
So
:
00:44:46,049 --> 00:44:46,799
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
That's, yeah.
:
00:44:47,039 --> 00:44:48,779
Just tell our list is what that might mean
:
00:44:48,821 --> 00:44:52,931
Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah, so I, I'm
accredited through the A BTC, the Animal
:
00:44:52,931 --> 00:44:58,361
behaviour Training Council and the A
PBC, 'cause we love an acronym, so the
:
00:44:58,361 --> 00:45:03,792
Association of Pet behaviour Counselors as
a registered clinical animal behaviourist.
:
00:45:03,792 --> 00:45:05,861
So a bit like doctor, dentist.
:
00:45:05,861 --> 00:45:10,331
Lawyer, the term behaviourist
isn't protected, so anybody
:
00:45:10,331 --> 00:45:12,872
can claim to be a behaviourist.
:
00:45:13,242 --> 00:45:15,622
So if you go on Google and
you type in behaviourist.
:
00:45:15,971 --> 00:45:20,451
You won't necessarily get someone
who's a clinical animal behaviourist,
:
00:45:20,862 --> 00:45:24,521
whereas a clinical animal behaviourist
has to have kind of a higher
:
00:45:24,521 --> 00:45:26,741
level of knowledge in theory.
:
00:45:26,871 --> 00:45:29,691
So, you know, we've all been assessed,
like I have a master's degree in
:
00:45:29,691 --> 00:45:31,611
animal behaviour, so level seven.
:
00:45:31,854 --> 00:45:32,334
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
:
00:45:32,511 --> 00:45:34,191
Rachel - Nose to Trail: but
the main thing is that we have
:
00:45:34,191 --> 00:45:36,171
to work with our local vet.
:
00:45:36,621 --> 00:45:37,101
So I.
:
00:45:37,194 --> 00:45:38,129
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
The vets, yes.
:
00:45:38,541 --> 00:45:41,451
Rachel - Nose to Trail: so I
work under vet referral only.
:
00:45:41,661 --> 00:45:45,681
So the first thing for me is if someone
approaches me and says kind of, I've got
:
00:45:45,681 --> 00:45:49,851
a dog with a separation issue, unless
it's a puppy, which is different because
:
00:45:49,851 --> 00:45:53,811
that's normal, that's puppy distress,
and we're typically teaching that dog,
:
00:45:53,811 --> 00:45:57,711
it's okay to be alone, rather than
dealing with a dog who has a full blown
:
00:45:57,711 --> 00:46:00,621
fear of being left, which is different.
:
00:46:01,071 --> 00:46:04,011
Then they have to go to their
vet and get a vet referral.
:
00:46:04,011 --> 00:46:05,601
For me, I have to do that.
:
00:46:05,601 --> 00:46:07,161
It's part of my code of conduct.
:
00:46:07,491 --> 00:46:10,941
But also it's really helpful
because a lot of the dogs, and I do
:
00:46:10,941 --> 00:46:12,411
think the rescue dogs actually, I.
:
00:46:13,086 --> 00:46:17,976
Potentially have an underlying medical
cause linking to their separation problem
:
00:46:18,186 --> 00:46:20,046
that may not have been identified.
:
00:46:20,406 --> 00:46:24,876
And we can do as many repetitions
of activities like door is a ball
:
00:46:25,056 --> 00:46:27,426
or gradual desensitization programs.
:
00:46:27,546 --> 00:46:29,496
We could do as many of those as we want.
:
00:46:29,946 --> 00:46:34,266
But if, like in the case of Salem, the
Husky that I worked with, the reason
:
00:46:34,266 --> 00:46:37,596
the dog can't be left is because
they've got horrific hip dysplasia
:
00:46:37,596 --> 00:46:39,726
and arthritis and are in daily pain.
:
00:46:40,356 --> 00:46:41,496
We are not gonna get anywhere.
:
00:46:41,744 --> 00:46:41,964
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: And
:
00:46:42,006 --> 00:46:42,726
Rachel - Nose to Trail: And so actually.
:
00:46:42,764 --> 00:46:43,644
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
hiding that pain.
:
00:46:44,511 --> 00:46:44,871
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
:
00:46:45,071 --> 00:46:46,031
They had no idea.
:
00:46:46,031 --> 00:46:50,381
So this husky that I was working with,
actually I, it was referred to me.
:
00:46:50,381 --> 00:46:53,201
Nothing was flagged on the vet
referral, perfectly healthy dog.
:
00:46:53,491 --> 00:46:55,651
We'd worked through normal
separation stuff for ages.
:
00:46:55,651 --> 00:46:57,391
We were getting nowhere.
:
00:46:57,571 --> 00:46:59,281
I was hitting my head off a brick wall.
:
00:46:59,281 --> 00:47:01,621
Like I just was like, I,
this just isn't working.
:
00:47:01,621 --> 00:47:02,701
They couldn't get anything.
:
00:47:03,181 --> 00:47:06,391
And I actually went to see 'em and
I don't normally, for separation
:
00:47:06,391 --> 00:47:10,141
cases, I take cases from the UK
and abroad and work virtually.
:
00:47:10,531 --> 00:47:12,121
And they were about an
hour and a half's drive.
:
00:47:12,121 --> 00:47:13,081
And I just thought, you know what?
:
00:47:13,081 --> 00:47:14,311
There's something I'm missing.
:
00:47:14,341 --> 00:47:15,871
I'm gonna go see this dog.
:
00:47:15,871 --> 00:47:16,951
Like there's something else.
:
00:47:16,999 --> 00:47:17,359
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: to.
:
00:47:17,926 --> 00:47:19,516
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,
and I went out and we went for a
:
00:47:19,516 --> 00:47:24,526
walk actually, and I noticed that
he was only weeing on one leg.
:
00:47:24,526 --> 00:47:26,956
So like he would only ever
lift his right leg up and have
:
00:47:26,956 --> 00:47:28,066
his weight on his left leg.
:
00:47:28,276 --> 00:47:32,296
So if you are walking along, he would
turn 180 degrees round to cock his
:
00:47:32,296 --> 00:47:33,976
leg and wee, and that's not normal.
:
00:47:33,976 --> 00:47:36,136
Most dogs will lift either
left or right, won't they?
:
00:47:36,166 --> 00:47:39,856
Whichever next to the vertical
surface, they'll cock their leg up.
:
00:47:39,856 --> 00:47:42,176
And we and I said, does he always do that?
:
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And they were like, well, I
dunno, I've never noticed.
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh.
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00:47:44,846 --> 00:47:46,976
Rachel - Nose to Trail: And so I
said, look, let's just watch that.
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00:47:47,516 --> 00:47:51,146
And he would never weight
bear on the other leg.
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Never.
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00:47:52,496 --> 00:47:56,156
And because he was a big fluffy
husky, you couldn't see much else
:
00:47:56,156 --> 00:47:57,686
in terms of how he was walking.
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00:47:57,686 --> 00:47:59,966
Like there wasn't much going
on, like, you know, a Labrador.
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00:47:59,966 --> 00:48:02,516
You could see the skin and the muscles
and see what else was happening.
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00:48:02,546 --> 00:48:03,836
There was nothing else I could see.
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00:48:04,286 --> 00:48:06,476
So I flagged it with the vets
and they were kind of like,
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00:48:06,506 --> 00:48:07,856
well, you know, he's healthy.
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00:48:07,946 --> 00:48:08,876
There's nothing wrong with him.
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Bless the couple.
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00:48:10,826 --> 00:48:14,036
They trusted me 'cause they'd been
working with me for a long time.
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00:48:14,336 --> 00:48:17,636
And I said, look, I, if it was my dog,
I'd be going and seeing another vet.
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00:48:17,819 --> 00:48:18,089
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
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00:48:18,206 --> 00:48:18,656
Rachel - Nose to Trail: the other vet
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00:48:18,659 --> 00:48:19,049
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: second
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00:48:19,076 --> 00:48:22,496
Rachel - Nose to Trail: look at him
said, yeah, horrific hip dysplasia.
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00:48:22,526 --> 00:48:23,666
We need to X-ray him.
:
00:48:23,996 --> 00:48:27,566
X-rayed him one of the worst cases
of hip dysplasia they'd ever seen.
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00:48:27,566 --> 00:48:29,756
His bone was basically
entirely out of his hip.
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00:48:30,026 --> 00:48:33,776
He needed to have a huge operation
and on pain relief straight away.
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00:48:34,166 --> 00:48:38,426
And actually they sent me the most lovely
video of, after he'd had the surgery,
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00:48:38,426 --> 00:48:41,906
he'd recovered, he'd had sleeping
fine during the day, not a problem.
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00:48:42,056 --> 00:48:45,746
And so for him, that separation
issue was being caused by the
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00:48:45,746 --> 00:48:47,216
fact that he was panicking.
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00:48:47,246 --> 00:48:48,836
'cause he's in pain when they're there.
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00:48:48,836 --> 00:48:50,546
He was, they were like a comfort blanket.
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00:48:50,726 --> 00:48:52,586
He was fine when they were there.
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00:48:52,826 --> 00:48:54,176
When they left, he couldn't cope.
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00:48:54,536 --> 00:48:59,066
And so actually we could have potentially
wrongly, as a lot of people do, gone,
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00:48:59,396 --> 00:49:00,776
oh dog can't be left home alone.
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00:49:00,806 --> 00:49:02,696
It must be anxiety.
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00:49:02,846 --> 00:49:07,016
Therefore it must have
fluoxetine and actually.
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00:49:07,931 --> 00:49:11,231
We can't prescribe, I can't prescribe
as a clinical animal behaviourist, as a
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00:49:11,231 --> 00:49:13,331
separation coach, you can't prescribe.
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00:49:13,691 --> 00:49:18,731
But people will just, dogs will get put
on anti-anxiety medication, assuming that
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00:49:18,731 --> 00:49:20,921
is the cause of their separation issue.
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00:49:21,161 --> 00:49:23,171
When in this dog's case, what
you needed was pain relief.
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00:49:23,471 --> 00:49:28,781
And so for me, that that element of like
working closely with the vets is really
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00:49:28,781 --> 00:49:31,961
important to how I treat separation cases.
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00:49:31,994 --> 00:49:32,594
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
:
00:49:32,741 --> 00:49:35,141
Rachel - Nose to Trail: sometimes it
takes a bit of digging and sometimes we
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00:49:35,141 --> 00:49:39,131
just, we don't know because there's no
bump, there's no break, there's no limp.
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00:49:39,431 --> 00:49:42,491
And it can be quite hard to find out
if there is a health thing going on.
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00:49:42,491 --> 00:49:43,571
But sometimes there is.
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00:49:43,901 --> 00:49:47,441
And so we've, we've gotta be mindful,
and that's always a red flag for me if
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00:49:47,441 --> 00:49:52,001
someone's dog has been fine for years
and then develops separation anxiety
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00:49:52,001 --> 00:49:56,591
around age eight when we know 80% of
dogs at that age have got arthritis.
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00:49:56,801 --> 00:49:58,091
So I start to be like.
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00:49:58,691 --> 00:49:59,591
This is a bit weird.
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00:49:59,591 --> 00:50:02,831
Why have all of a sudden we've got an
issue, oh and now he doesn't like puppies.
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00:50:03,041 --> 00:50:07,211
Now we won't get in the car and you start
to piece together all of these issues.
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00:50:07,421 --> 00:50:10,391
But the one they've come to us for
help with is separation issues.
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00:50:10,391 --> 00:50:12,041
'cause it impacts the human's life.
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00:50:12,254 --> 00:50:12,434
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It
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00:50:12,551 --> 00:50:13,631
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Whereas
the others, they're just like,
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00:50:13,631 --> 00:50:15,551
oh, he is getting annoying
on walks, but he's managed.
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00:50:15,551 --> 00:50:16,481
But I can deal with it.
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00:50:16,751 --> 00:50:18,461
Actually, that's the
dog going, I need help.
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00:50:18,464 --> 00:50:18,644
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I
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00:50:18,731 --> 00:50:19,241
Rachel - Nose to Trail: I'm in pain.
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00:50:19,811 --> 00:50:20,741
Help me.
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00:50:21,081 --> 00:50:25,041
So yeah, for me I always start with
that like full health check, really
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00:50:25,041 --> 00:50:29,091
digging deep with the vet before I do
any kind of separation plan at all.
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00:50:29,184 --> 00:50:29,754
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm.
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00:50:29,904 --> 00:50:30,294
Yeah.
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00:50:30,574 --> 00:50:33,089
And it's good that you said
'cause it's mad how the first
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00:50:33,089 --> 00:50:34,529
vet said there was nothing wrong.
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00:50:35,009 --> 00:50:37,949
So I always do say to one of
my, someone when I, where people
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00:50:37,949 --> 00:50:39,839
get a second opinion, you know,
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00:50:39,956 --> 00:50:40,436
Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah,
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00:50:40,439 --> 00:50:42,179
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
that with Bailey because of his back,
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00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:46,649
his chronic back pain, two specialist
places had to get a second opinion.
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00:50:46,869 --> 00:50:51,614
And it's also worth noting, isn't it,
that you, the pet parent may be able to
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00:50:51,614 --> 00:50:54,104
claim on their insurance for CAB stuff.
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00:50:54,104 --> 00:50:54,344
So it's
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00:50:54,521 --> 00:50:54,881
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
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00:50:55,004 --> 00:50:56,204
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
looking into your insurance, isn't it?
:
00:50:56,891 --> 00:50:58,781
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, if
you've got a fully comprehensive
:
00:50:58,781 --> 00:51:02,741
pet insurance, most of them will
cover complimentary therapies.
:
00:51:02,741 --> 00:51:06,431
So maybe behaviour, maybe hydrotherapy
or physiotherapy and things like that.
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00:51:06,431 --> 00:51:08,231
So definitely worth people checking.
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00:51:08,451 --> 00:51:12,651
And because I am on that A BTC
register, that is the accreditations
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00:51:12,651 --> 00:51:14,331
you need for a pet insurance.
:
00:51:14,331 --> 00:51:18,411
If they can cover behaviour with a group
of people, they're going to pay out for,
:
00:51:18,621 --> 00:51:23,061
because we are rigorously assessed and
they know we are not going to stick any
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00:51:23,061 --> 00:51:26,841
horrible aversive methods on a dog to
get them over their separation issue.
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00:51:27,084 --> 00:51:27,684
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
that's it.
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00:51:27,774 --> 00:51:28,224
Brilliant.
:
00:51:28,504 --> 00:51:31,974
Why, this is a good point actually
talking about I always get confused.
:
00:51:31,974 --> 00:51:33,114
A BTC or
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00:51:33,441 --> 00:51:33,921
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Oh, I know.
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00:51:33,921 --> 00:51:34,131
Yeah.
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00:51:34,131 --> 00:51:37,256
If we can't remember them, how, how
is general public ever gonna know?
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00:51:37,539 --> 00:51:39,474
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
there's just so many, like, you know.
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00:51:39,724 --> 00:51:45,484
So why is it so important to
work with a certified separation
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00:51:45,484 --> 00:51:50,164
anxiety professional or a, a, a
cab, a clinical animal behaviours?
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00:51:50,164 --> 00:51:50,704
Rachel.
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00:51:52,126 --> 00:51:54,721
Rachel - Nose to Trail: I think the
first thing is the myths, isn't it?
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00:51:54,751 --> 00:51:57,571
There's so much misinformation online.
:
00:51:57,921 --> 00:52:01,821
That will potentially be detrimental
to a dog who has separation issues.
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00:52:01,821 --> 00:52:06,681
So you need to be working with someone who
knows about separation issues properly,
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00:52:06,771 --> 00:52:08,571
not just something they found online.
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00:52:08,801 --> 00:52:13,271
And knows that it is different to most
dog training because for a dog with
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00:52:13,271 --> 00:52:17,646
separation issues, we are not looking
at the same type of training as we
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00:52:17,646 --> 00:52:21,971
are when we're asking a dog to do
training, like sit down, stand, stay.
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00:52:22,241 --> 00:52:23,981
We are not using operant conditioning.
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00:52:23,981 --> 00:52:27,791
We're typically not using
food at all as a food reward.
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00:52:28,001 --> 00:52:31,091
Whereas, and I think that's where
maybe some trainers, and I could be
:
00:52:31,091 --> 00:52:34,991
doing people a disservice here, but
that I think is sometimes where people
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00:52:35,021 --> 00:52:37,271
can struggle with helping a client.
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00:52:37,561 --> 00:52:41,431
Separation issue because what you
would do for any other problem
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00:52:41,551 --> 00:52:43,141
doesn't work with separation.
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00:52:43,231 --> 00:52:46,981
'cause you are not there to reward,
you are not there to go Yes.
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00:52:46,981 --> 00:52:48,001
And have a biscuit.
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00:52:48,211 --> 00:52:50,731
Like you can't do that
in a separation case.
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00:52:51,121 --> 00:52:54,811
And also we have to work at that
threshold of the individual dog.
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00:52:54,811 --> 00:52:56,611
So we do need tech.
:
00:52:56,821 --> 00:52:57,931
We do need cameras.
:
00:52:57,931 --> 00:53:01,531
We need to be able to see what that
dog is doing when we are not there.
:
00:53:01,981 --> 00:53:04,861
And again, tech for some
people just isn't their thing.
:
00:53:04,861 --> 00:53:08,221
They want to be out with a dog on a
lead with toys and treats in a field and
:
00:53:08,221 --> 00:53:11,881
doing training like that, which is great,
you know, and it's not for everybody.
:
00:53:12,281 --> 00:53:16,991
But the other thing for me is you
wanna be working with someone who is
:
00:53:16,991 --> 00:53:20,012
appropriately trained, whether it's
a clinical animal behaviourist, a vet
:
00:53:20,072 --> 00:53:24,431
behaviourist, or one of Julie's team
who's been trained in separation because.
:
00:53:25,021 --> 00:53:28,771
If we look at trainers, if we just
go on Google and we type in dog
:
00:53:28,771 --> 00:53:33,331
trainer to help a separation issue,
what I find in my local area, 'cause
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00:53:33,331 --> 00:53:37,681
a lot of my clients have been to
these trainers before they come to me
:
00:53:37,904 --> 00:53:38,194
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
:
00:53:38,341 --> 00:53:40,561
Rachel - Nose to Trail: because they
do great advertising and they, they
:
00:53:40,561 --> 00:53:43,681
pay for their position on Google to be
higher ranked and all of these things
:
00:53:43,681 --> 00:53:47,551
that you paid for marketing and they
look great and they've got millions of
:
00:53:47,551 --> 00:53:52,141
followers on social media and they look
fantastic, but they will use aversive
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00:53:52,141 --> 00:53:57,391
methods and they treat the symptom.
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00:53:57,451 --> 00:54:01,741
So the problem the dog is displaying,
let's go with vocalization
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00:54:01,801 --> 00:54:02,636
because I have an example.
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00:54:03,466 --> 00:54:04,696
Of where this has happened.
:
00:54:05,206 --> 00:54:07,216
So they will come in and
go, what's the problem?
:
00:54:07,336 --> 00:54:09,706
Oh, the problem is the dog
barks when I'm outta the house.
:
00:54:10,006 --> 00:54:12,976
So they go, right, well, your neighbors
are complaining you don't like it.
:
00:54:12,976 --> 00:54:14,476
Let's stop the dog barking.
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00:54:14,926 --> 00:54:19,096
And how they might do that is
they'll stick an eco on the dog.
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00:54:19,396 --> 00:54:22,666
They'll go out the house with the
owner or the pet guardian, however
:
00:54:22,666 --> 00:54:23,806
you wanna refer to yourself.
:
00:54:24,016 --> 00:54:27,166
And as soon as the dog barks, they
electrocute the dog and they zap it.
:
00:54:27,856 --> 00:54:28,276
Okay?
:
00:54:28,546 --> 00:54:32,876
And I don't know what terminology
they might be using, a correction,
:
00:54:33,086 --> 00:54:34,256
whatever they want to call it.
:
00:54:34,286 --> 00:54:35,366
Oh, it's not that bad.
:
00:54:35,366 --> 00:54:36,416
It's not that awful.
:
00:54:37,166 --> 00:54:42,146
It works in a sense of, it stops the
dog barking because the dog goes, when
:
00:54:42,146 --> 00:54:44,066
I bark, this horrible thing happens.
:
00:54:44,186 --> 00:54:44,456
Okay?
:
00:54:44,456 --> 00:54:47,336
That's the whole reason punishment
works, is because it's unpleasant.
:
00:54:47,336 --> 00:54:50,036
So yes, it's unpleasant for the dog,
otherwise it wouldn't be working.
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00:54:50,496 --> 00:54:53,106
But then what happens typically is.
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00:54:53,436 --> 00:54:55,956
The owner can't do that,
so it's not consistent.
:
00:54:55,956 --> 00:54:58,626
'cause if they're at work, they're
not hearing the dog bark, so
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00:54:58,626 --> 00:55:02,676
they're not using the eco and it
gets worse and worse and worse.
:
00:55:02,946 --> 00:55:07,896
Or the dog then actually still hates
being alone, is still afraid of being
:
00:55:07,896 --> 00:55:11,706
on its own, but is now even more
afraid because actually gets hurt
:
00:55:11,706 --> 00:55:13,206
every time the owner leaves the house.
:
00:55:13,446 --> 00:55:18,696
And so our separation problem gets
worse and now we'll destroy the couch
:
00:55:18,696 --> 00:55:21,276
or we'll rip the skirt and board
off, or I've chewed through the door.
:
00:55:21,906 --> 00:55:25,626
Or in one of the cases that I worked with,
the dog started blocking the humans from
:
00:55:25,626 --> 00:55:28,746
leaving in the morning and biting them
when they tried to go over the threshold
:
00:55:28,956 --> 00:55:30,666
because he was so scared of being left.
:
00:55:30,666 --> 00:55:32,826
He was jumping up and, and
physically biting them.
:
00:55:33,846 --> 00:55:39,156
So for me, like we have to understand
that a dog who doesn't like being left is
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00:55:39,156 --> 00:55:41,856
struggling typically with anxiety or fear.
:
00:55:42,066 --> 00:55:44,586
Some cases me and you know, are
frustration based, but either
:
00:55:44,586 --> 00:55:45,756
way it's not a good emotion.
:
00:55:45,936 --> 00:55:48,696
The dog isn't feeling
nice about being left.
:
00:55:48,696 --> 00:55:50,916
If they were, we wouldn't have an issue.
:
00:55:51,096 --> 00:55:53,076
If they were happy to be left,
we wouldn't have an issue.
:
00:55:53,076 --> 00:55:55,716
So they're not happy about being left.
:
00:55:55,956 --> 00:56:01,236
So adding something unpleasant into
that situation is only going to
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00:56:01,236 --> 00:56:03,006
make that a million times worse.
:
00:56:03,066 --> 00:56:06,576
So a very long answer, Nathan, sorry.
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00:56:06,876 --> 00:56:09,966
As to why you need to do it with a
professional, but ultimately because
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00:56:09,966 --> 00:56:12,846
if you are not working with someone who
knows what they're doing on separation,
:
00:56:12,876 --> 00:56:14,406
you could just be making it worse.
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00:56:15,234 --> 00:56:15,534
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
:
00:56:15,594 --> 00:56:16,374
No, I love that.
:
00:56:16,626 --> 00:56:17,436
Rachel - Nose to Trail:
It's gonna take longer.
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00:56:18,264 --> 00:56:18,864
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It is.
:
00:56:18,864 --> 00:56:19,104
Yeah.
:
00:56:19,104 --> 00:56:22,954
And it, it's quite a lengthy
thing anyway, so no, I love that.
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00:56:22,954 --> 00:56:23,284
Thank you.
:
00:56:23,284 --> 00:56:27,824
So just moving on to our final section
now which is just about the guardian
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00:56:27,824 --> 00:56:30,314
emotions and the rescue realities.
:
00:56:30,494 --> 00:56:34,004
So many rescue dog guardians
feel overwhelmed or like they're
:
00:56:34,004 --> 00:56:38,114
failing, but how can we help them
reframe that experience, Rachel?
:
00:56:38,841 --> 00:56:41,751
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,
I think peer support is really
:
00:56:41,811 --> 00:56:43,281
helpful in those situations.
:
00:56:43,281 --> 00:56:48,091
So I know the Julie Naismith way of
training that she's got great Facebook
:
00:56:48,091 --> 00:56:51,211
groups with thousands of dog owners
who've struggled with separation,
:
00:56:51,211 --> 00:56:55,831
and I think that's really important
because while they're free for one, but
:
00:56:55,831 --> 00:56:59,011
you can go in there, you can see that
other people have been through what
:
00:56:59,011 --> 00:57:00,391
you've been through and got over it.
:
00:57:00,639 --> 00:57:00,929
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
:
00:57:01,351 --> 00:57:02,551
Rachel - Nose to Trail:
but also smaller groups.
:
00:57:02,551 --> 00:57:03,751
So like I have a membership.
:
00:57:04,276 --> 00:57:07,696
For nose to trail and we have
like our own Facebook page and,
:
00:57:07,701 --> 00:57:08,806
and WhatsApp group and stuff.
:
00:57:08,806 --> 00:57:12,046
It's a little community and they
rally around and they help each other.
:
00:57:12,256 --> 00:57:15,886
But you can also like potentially
find another person who's got a dog
:
00:57:15,886 --> 00:57:19,036
with separation in your area and you
can help each other out because it
:
00:57:19,036 --> 00:57:21,136
can end up being expensive as well.
:
00:57:21,556 --> 00:57:25,516
You know, hiring a dog sitter and stuff if
you don't have family and friends nearby.
:
00:57:25,516 --> 00:57:29,536
And a lot of people don't, where I
live, like we're, we are really rural,
:
00:57:29,536 --> 00:57:32,206
so a lot of people are here, are
here for work for whatever reason.
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00:57:32,576 --> 00:57:35,756
And they may be all, you know, on
their own doing this, but if you can
:
00:57:35,756 --> 00:57:39,026
pair them up and if the dogs are okay
with each other, you can take it in
:
00:57:39,026 --> 00:57:40,856
turns, you can have some time off.
:
00:57:41,126 --> 00:57:43,466
And I think that's
really important because.
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00:57:43,816 --> 00:57:47,656
Caregiver fatigue is strong in
separation anxiety cases, and you
:
00:57:47,656 --> 00:57:49,186
need to give yourself a break.
:
00:57:49,456 --> 00:57:52,396
I'm actually going to a spa tomorrow
and having a break from the puppy.
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00:57:52,396 --> 00:57:53,026
Can't wait.
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00:57:53,416 --> 00:57:56,386
But the, you need, you need that support.
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So I think peer support's really
important and success stories are
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really important because I think it
can feel like you're getting nowhere
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
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00:58:04,546 --> 00:58:06,766
Rachel - Nose to Trail: that you're
gonna be stuck in this rut forever.
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So seeing people who've been through it
and come out the other side, I think can
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be that little bit of ray of hope that
we sometimes need in a separation case.
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Brilliant.
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What would be your advice to someone who's
adopted a dog and is now realizing it's
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a more complex case than they expected?
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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
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Get help from someone.
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Do not do it on your own.
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Okay.
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And definitely give yourself
those breaks, like find ways,
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get dog sitters paid for or not.
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And the more kind of.
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Babysitters or whoever it is that
you have on board, the less you
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are gonna feel like you are asking
too much of one individual person.
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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Rachel - Nose to Trail: you've got
only like two people you ask, you're
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gonna feel like, oh, I can't ask them.
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I asked them last week, I can't ask them.
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They were only here the other night.
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But if you've got a bigger group
of people who your dog can bond
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with and who can sit with your dog,
and that's so important, isn't it?
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Because actually if your dog
doesn't enjoy their company,
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they may as well be on their own.
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'cause they're still gonna go
above threshold when they're left.
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So they need to be people
that you can form bonds with,
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm-hmm.
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00:59:10,178 --> 00:59:12,428
Rachel - Nose to Trail: you need to
get those people in place because
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you need to have that time off and
to yourself, however you find that.
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And don't feel guilty for needing
that because it is so important.
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
You need that support network.
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And I think you said obviously you've
got your communities, but I think
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Julie's got some as well where you
can like and meet up with someone
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at house that's got an sa dog if you
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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: cover.
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00:59:33,271 --> 00:59:37,141
And so it's important to get
your, your support network.
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Isn't
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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
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I'm actually in touch with one of the
people who got Pebbles, his brother.
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, cute.
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00:59:43,963 --> 00:59:46,933
Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah, Hector,
he is really chunky compared to Pebbles.
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00:59:47,083 --> 00:59:47,413
Yeah.
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00:59:47,563 --> 00:59:48,373
Hector and Pebbles.
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00:59:48,523 --> 00:59:52,783
And so we've already said that like,
you know, when she needs a break, I will
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have both the gremlins and when I need
a break, she will have both the gremlins
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and we'll just do little play dates, you
know, even if it's only once a month,
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: That's
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01:00:00,823 --> 01:00:03,163
Rachel - Nose to Trail: of us
will just take both for a day
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01:00:03,308 --> 01:00:04,723
and, and give the other a break.
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So
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: that's
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01:00:05,563 --> 01:00:07,903
Rachel - Nose to Trail: like
that can be, can be really nice.
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01:00:07,903 --> 01:00:10,243
Yeah, I'm looking forward to, I'm
looking forward to having both of them
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though, just seeing them riot together.
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01:00:12,631 --> 01:00:14,041
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Hector, I've gotta say that.
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01:00:14,231 --> 01:00:17,561
How can we better prepare or
support people adopting rescue
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dogs with potential SA issues?
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Rachel?
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01:00:20,933 --> 01:00:24,023
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, I think,
and I, I feel bad for saying this because
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01:00:24,023 --> 01:00:28,103
I don't want to come across like I'm SLA
in vets and SLA in rescue centers, but I
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01:00:28,103 --> 01:00:33,203
think people need to be more honest and
transparent about how difficult it is.
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01:00:33,773 --> 01:00:38,633
I know that the people working in rescue
have so many pressures and demands on them
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01:00:38,633 --> 01:00:40,823
that they need to get these dogs home.
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01:00:41,153 --> 01:00:44,663
They have numbers, they and quotas
they need to hit, and there's a lot
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01:00:44,663 --> 01:00:47,723
of pressure on, well, you know, until
that dog gets a home, there's another
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01:00:47,723 --> 01:00:49,283
dog can't go in, and all of that.
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01:00:49,823 --> 01:00:54,383
But actually a dog with a separation
issue, one of the worst things we
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01:00:54,383 --> 01:00:58,613
can do is to place that dog in a home
that then they come back within 24
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01:00:58,613 --> 01:01:04,193
hours or 48 hours or a week later,
and having 7, 8, 9, 10 homes before
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01:01:04,193 --> 01:01:09,293
it finds a home that are dedicated to
keeping them and working with them is,
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01:01:09,353 --> 01:01:10,973
is only gonna be to their detriment.
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01:01:11,243 --> 01:01:17,153
So I think it, it's horrible and it's
sad, but we need to keep explaining
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01:01:17,153 --> 01:01:18,383
to people how hard it's gonna be.
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01:01:18,383 --> 01:01:22,763
And we need people to realize the harsh
reality of having a separation dog, that
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01:01:22,763 --> 01:01:24,833
you can't just carry on life as normal.
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01:01:24,833 --> 01:01:26,003
You can't leave them.
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01:01:26,303 --> 01:01:30,023
And I think if you've not had
a separation case and a dog who
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01:01:30,023 --> 01:01:34,703
struggles with being left, like those
blase comments of just leave them,
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01:01:34,733 --> 01:01:36,563
they'll get over it, they'll be fine.
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01:01:36,563 --> 01:01:37,523
It's only a dog.
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01:01:37,631 --> 01:01:38,311
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
can make it worse.
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01:01:39,293 --> 01:01:39,773
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
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01:01:39,773 --> 01:01:41,363
And you don't understand.
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01:01:41,363 --> 01:01:45,953
And you don't, and I think people need
to realize it isn't as easy as that.
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01:01:45,953 --> 01:01:49,673
If it was, we wouldn't have all of
these people around the world who are
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01:01:49,673 --> 01:01:52,793
desperate for help and are working
so hard to get their dogs to cope.
:
01:01:53,006 --> 01:01:53,096
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm
:
01:01:53,483 --> 01:01:54,743
Rachel - Nose to Trail:
But actually it's not.
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01:01:54,743 --> 01:01:56,783
And you can't, and we've gotta be honest.
:
01:01:56,783 --> 01:01:59,843
We really need to be honest with people
and let them know what they're taking on.
:
01:01:59,963 --> 01:02:00,563
Definitely.
:
01:02:00,896 --> 01:02:01,316
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
definitely.
:
01:02:02,336 --> 01:02:03,266
thank you so much.
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01:02:03,266 --> 01:02:05,666
We're just gonna spend the
last few minutes wrapping up.
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01:02:05,666 --> 01:02:06,116
It's been a
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01:02:06,478 --> 01:02:06,768
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
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01:02:07,406 --> 01:02:08,006
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: episode.
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01:02:08,006 --> 01:02:11,431
I know you've gotta get back to Peles, but
I think we're gonna have to get you on.
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01:02:11,511 --> 01:02:12,456
I feel back on.
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01:02:12,456 --> 01:02:15,786
I feel like we've just scratched
the surface and there's so much more
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01:02:15,786 --> 01:02:19,506
we could talk about with the pet
trail, the man trail, and you, you
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01:02:19,506 --> 01:02:21,156
know, rescue work and behaviour.
:
01:02:21,156 --> 01:02:24,066
I just, yeah, I would love to get
you back on again in the future.
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01:02:24,466 --> 01:02:30,146
But Rachel if you could share one
truth with every rescue dog, guardian
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01:02:30,146 --> 01:02:32,606
facing essay, what would it be?
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01:02:32,606 --> 01:02:33,146
Please?
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01:02:35,058 --> 01:02:36,053
Rachel - Nose to Trail: That it is hard
:
01:02:36,566 --> 01:02:37,016
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Hmm.
:
01:02:37,163 --> 01:02:41,033
Rachel - Nose to Trail: don't need
to feel ashamed or embarrassed to
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01:02:41,033 --> 01:02:45,563
admit that they're struggling with it
because it, it really is hard work.
:
01:02:45,683 --> 01:02:46,733
It is exhausting.
:
01:02:46,823 --> 01:02:51,533
It is mentally draining and you
know, it, there's no shame in that.
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01:02:51,533 --> 01:02:53,378
And I think sometimes
people can feel like.
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01:02:54,083 --> 01:02:58,253
Maybe guilt or embarrassment
and that they're not coping.
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01:02:58,613 --> 01:03:02,063
But actually I don't, honestly, I
don't think many people would cope.
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01:03:02,333 --> 01:03:03,173
I really don't.
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01:03:03,393 --> 01:03:06,873
You know, given a dog where they're
really struggling and you're coming back
:
01:03:06,873 --> 01:03:10,653
and you could tell they're struggling
and that guilt that you feel, and then
:
01:03:10,653 --> 01:03:14,703
so you don't go out and the the impact
it has on your life, like it is hard.
:
01:03:14,763 --> 01:03:18,903
And so people should just like know
they're not alone and they need to
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01:03:18,903 --> 01:03:20,733
get some help and support with it.
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01:03:21,096 --> 01:03:21,516
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Brilliant.
:
01:03:21,516 --> 01:03:23,611
Thank you Rachel Rodgers.
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01:03:23,726 --> 01:03:25,856
Where can people find out about you now?
:
01:03:26,066 --> 01:03:27,446
I've, I'm really worried now.
:
01:03:27,446 --> 01:03:29,666
I've been thinking this whole
episode that I might have said your
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01:03:29,666 --> 01:03:34,166
business name wrong, but it's nose
to Trail and I'm really worried that
:
01:03:34,166 --> 01:03:36,056
I said nose to tail so I apologize
:
01:03:36,058 --> 01:03:38,783
Rachel - Nose to Trail: mean, I
didn't wanna call you out on it.
:
01:03:40,491 --> 01:03:42,476
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: And,
and then I'm frantically going through
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01:03:42,476 --> 01:03:44,126
my notes and think,, I've said the wrong
:
01:03:44,176 --> 01:03:46,281
Rachel - Nose to Trail: have
been many a podcast episode where
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01:03:46,281 --> 01:03:50,391
I have said it's actually nose
to trail because we do trail.
:
01:03:50,394 --> 01:03:50,604
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: You
:
01:03:50,691 --> 01:03:50,871
Rachel - Nose to Trail: I
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01:03:51,009 --> 01:03:51,209
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: have,
:
01:03:52,576 --> 01:03:53,146
Rachel - Nose to Trail: just, I
:
01:03:53,844 --> 01:03:54,804
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
you should have, you
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01:03:54,804 --> 01:03:55,794
should have called me out.
:
01:03:55,824 --> 01:03:59,394
'cause literally, I've literally
just like, I'm dying inside.
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01:03:59,874 --> 01:04:00,354
But
:
01:04:00,621 --> 01:04:01,251
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Everyone does.
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01:04:01,551 --> 01:04:02,511
Everyone does it.
:
01:04:02,754 --> 01:04:04,674
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Rachel, where can people find you?
:
01:04:04,674 --> 01:04:06,174
Follow your work, get support.
:
01:04:06,174 --> 01:04:08,604
If they're navigating this
with their own dog, please.
:
01:04:08,901 --> 01:04:09,291
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
:
01:04:09,291 --> 01:04:12,951
So we're on all socials,
basically on nose to trail.
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01:04:13,051 --> 01:04:15,391
Sometimes it's nose to trail
pet behaviour services.
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01:04:15,421 --> 01:04:18,241
'cause somebody stole the
handle I think on Facebook.
:
01:04:18,288 --> 01:04:18,569
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: very
:
01:04:18,621 --> 01:04:20,541
Rachel - Nose to Trail: And even
though I've got trade marked, I'm still
:
01:04:20,541 --> 01:04:22,251
fighting with meta to get it back.
:
01:04:22,491 --> 01:04:25,371
But yeah, you just get nose
to trail in, you'll find us.
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01:04:25,651 --> 01:04:26,731
Particularly on TikTok.
:
01:04:26,731 --> 01:04:30,271
I'm much more active on TikTok
than I am on other socials.
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01:04:30,459 --> 01:04:30,749
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay,
:
01:04:31,141 --> 01:04:31,201
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.
:
01:04:31,804 --> 01:04:34,834
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Rachel,
thank you so much for joining me on
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01:04:34,834 --> 01:04:37,594
the Yappy Hour, powered by Yappy today.
:
01:04:37,924 --> 01:04:40,234
I've absolutely loved this conversation.
:
01:04:40,444 --> 01:04:43,354
Like I said, we'll have to get
you back in the future, but I've
:
01:04:43,354 --> 01:04:44,794
really enjoyed this conversation.
:
01:04:44,794 --> 01:04:45,964
Thank you for coming on.
:
01:04:46,906 --> 01:04:48,136
Rachel - Nose to Trail: Thank
you so much for having me.
:
01:04:48,136 --> 01:04:49,006
It's been great fun.
:
01:04:49,174 --> 01:04:50,224
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
You are most welcome.
:
01:04:50,224 --> 01:04:50,284
You.
:
01:04:55,018 --> 01:04:58,438
That was such a grounding and
compassionate conversation
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01:04:58,438 --> 01:04:59,698
with Rachel Rodgers.
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01:04:59,968 --> 01:05:03,118
Here are a few key takeaways
from today's episode.
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01:05:03,538 --> 01:05:07,318
Number one, separation anxiety
is common in rescue dogs,
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01:05:07,318 --> 01:05:09,178
but it's not a life sentence.
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01:05:09,478 --> 01:05:14,098
With support, structure and patience,
progress is always possible.
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01:05:14,698 --> 01:05:18,958
Number two, early routines and
gradual independence are crucial.
:
01:05:20,158 --> 01:05:24,958
SA support starts from day one, not
once the behaviours have escalated.
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01:05:25,438 --> 01:05:29,878
Number three, and most
importantly, it is not your fault.
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01:05:30,328 --> 01:05:36,028
SA is a complex, emotional, and
deeply rooted in a dog's past.
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01:05:36,993 --> 01:05:41,013
Number four, the human
experience matters too.
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01:05:41,403 --> 01:05:44,673
You deserve support just
as much as your dog does.
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01:05:45,093 --> 01:05:50,163
Rachel, thank you so much for your
empathy and your wisdom today.
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01:05:50,583 --> 01:05:54,543
For anyone wanting to learn more
or work with Rachel Head to.
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01:05:54,543 --> 01:05:54,553
nosetotrail.co.uk
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01:05:58,868 --> 01:06:03,318
to follow her or follow her
on Facebook at Nose to Trail.
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This has been the yappy hour,
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