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Rachel Rodgers on Separation Anxiety and Rescue Dogs. Essential listening if you're adopting a dog.
Episode 3520th April 2026 • The Yappy Hour • Yappily
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If you've ever brought home a rescue dog and felt like you were failing — this episode is for you.

Rachel Rodgers is a registered clinical animal behaviourist, founder of Nose to Trail, and a specialist in separation anxiety with a background spanning over 15 years in UK rescue centres including Dogs Trust and the RSPCA. In this episode, she and host Nathan Dunleavy have an honest, warm, and deeply practical conversation about why rescue dogs are more prone to SA, what the early signs really look like, and why so many cases go unrecognised or get made worse with the wrong approach. If you're navigating separation anxiety with a rescue dog, this is the episode to share.

In this episode:

✅ Why rescue dogs are more vulnerable to separation anxiety and what's really going on emotionally when a dog has been rehomed

✅ The early warning signs of SA that most new adopters miss (including one that looks like a toilet training problem)

✅ How pain and underlying health issues can masquerade as separation anxiety and why a vet referral matters more than you think

✅ What the settling-in period should actually look like, and why "just leave them to cry it out" can make things significantly worse

✅ How to gently build independence without causing stress from day one

✅ Why working with a certified separation anxiety professional or clinical animal behaviourist is so important, and how to tell the difference

✅ How to manage caregiver fatigue and find real support when you're struggling

Key takeaways:

  • Separation anxiety in rescue dogs often has roots in broken attachment, kennel stress, and unknown history. It's not a training failure; it's an emotional response
  • Subtle signs like not eating, pacing, or toileting only when you're apart can be easy to miss without a camera, but they matter
  • Before starting any separation programme, a thorough vet check is essential; pain is a common and overlooked driver of SA
  • Caregiver fatigue is real. Building a support network of people your dog trusts isn't a luxury, it's part of the treatment plan

🐾 Subscribe to The Yappy Hour for more conversations that help you understand, connect with, and care for your dog.

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Transcripts

Speaker:

Welcome to the Yappy Hour, powered by

Yappily, the podcast for dog lovers

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who want to better understand and

connect with their canine companions.

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I'm your host Nathan Dunleavy,

and today's episode is all about

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rescue dogs and separation anxiety.

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A topic close to my heart, both

personally and professionally.

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Joining me is Rachel Rodgers, founder

of Nose to Trail, an experienced

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trainer behaviourist who works closely

with rescue dogs and their humans to

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rebuild trust, confidence, and calm.

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If you've ever brought home a rescue

dog who couldn't settle when you've

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left the room, or you are supporting

one now, this conversation will help

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you feel less alone and more empowered.

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So grab a cup of tea.

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Settle in and let's get started.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Back

to the Yappy Hour, powered by Yappily.

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I'm your host, Nathan Dunleavy,

and I'm so excited to bring you

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another episode of The Yappy Hour.

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Today joining me, we have Rachel

Rodgers from Nose to Trail.

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Rachel, so excited to have you here.

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Welcome to the Yappy Hour.

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How are you doing?

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: I'm great.

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Thank you.

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Thanks so much for having me on.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

You are most welcome.

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So we are gonna be diving into separation

anxiety and rescue dogs today and how

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it specifically affects rescue dogs.

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We're gonna be looking into sort of

like sa and this is really exciting

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because we do have a few people coming

on talking about sa but this is our

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first conversation and episode today

about SA because I was due to have

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one the other day, but fortunately the

lady her dog was being put to sleep.

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So we've

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Oh.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

So this is our first.

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Like, I've been doing these since January.

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This is our first episode about sa and I

love sa, I've got my own SA dog and I'm a

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certified SA pro, pro behaviour consultant

with one of Julie Na Smith's cohort.

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And so yeah, it's a really interesting

subject because like I said, like

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my own essay dog and I just, and

I used to do some essay work and I

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just found it, you know, I found it

really interesting, rewarding work.

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So, Rachel, enough about me.

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Could you start by sharing a bit

about your work with rescue dogs

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and how SA separation anxiety

became such a key focus for you?

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,

so my kind of entire working

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career really started in rescue.

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So I spent the first 10 years, I'm sure

how old I am now, working for some of

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the largest rehome in centers in the uk.

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So I was working for Dogs Trust,

I was working for the RSPC,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: background

is very much kind of rescue based.

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Thanks to Boris, I kind of had to adapt

very quickly because I actually went

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self-employed 10 days before we were

put into the first covid lockdown.

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Not in hindsight the greatest timing

to leave a employed job in rescue

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and decide to set up on my own.

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But it meant that I had to

kind of a deep dive into using

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technology because we all had to.

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And then just like everybody else

really, we had the kind of pandemic puppy

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boom, and all these dogs weren't really

exposed to other people and were never

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left, 'cause none of us could leave.

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And so more of my client base started

to be dogs who had separation issues.

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So it just kind of

became naturally a thing.

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I ended up niching down into, and I

did the Julie Naismith course as well.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yes.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Another one of

hers who's kind of flying the flag for

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the be right back kind of way of training.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: love

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Rachel - Nose to Trail:

It's, it's odd, isn't it?

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And the other thing that kind of, I

almost in a way got shoehorned to it

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because loads of trainers in my local

area will not touch separation cases.

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I dunno why everyone's got this

burning desire to dogs and that's what

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they want is the aggression cases.

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But the amount,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

aggression cases.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail:

it's weird, isn't it?

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And then I've got all these clients coming

to me going, I've got a dog who can't be

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left home alone, but no one will help me.

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Bizarre.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It is

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

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So I, that is most of my

workload and I, other than pet

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trailing is now separation stuff.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, PET training.

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So we might have to touch on that

because I dunno much about that,

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but yeah, that's similar to me.

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So I had a dog walking business and

I thought I was busy before lockdown.

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And then obviously bars happened

and the pandemic, and then I had

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to shut my business for two weeks

and I was like, oh my God, because

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I've got a really strong work ethic.

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I'm always working.

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I'm like, God, what do I do?

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So then I started signing up

for all these courses and signed

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up for Julie Na Smith's course.

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And I thought, oh, this is a good

thing because all these people

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are getting dogs, which is great.

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They're home, but then they're

gonna start going back to work

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and these dogs are not gonna cope.

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So I thought, right now's the

time to train as an essay.

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Trainer, my own dog started exhibiting

like essay tendencies and my husband

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blames like the fact that he was

for so long and obviously he was

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at home and he was quite young.

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So yeah.

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And then I had to slowly rebuild my dog

walking business again and we were allowed

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to work for key workers and the elderly.

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And then I started branching out into

training and then essay specifically.

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But yeah, the pandemic

had a lot to answer for.

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Do you know, the funny thing was I

used to be part of quite a lot of

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networking groups and they were all

in there going, oh, you must pivot,

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you must take your business online.

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And I was like, well, I can't walk

bloody dogs online, but I could do some

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dog training essay work, obviously,

'cause Julie's method's all done online.

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I can do sa but I can't bloody walk dogs

online, so I can't pivot in that sense.

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So I had to retrain.

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And you are right, like a lot of the

trainers and behaviourists around here.

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Just didn't want to do, don't

like doing sa because I think

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like it's a lot involved and

there's, it's not a quick fix.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Think as well,

it's not the same as most dog training.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yes.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: someone who's

spent, you know, over 15 years training

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dogs and being a clinical animal

behaviourist, it's not the same methods.

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Like we're not doing the same stuff day to

day as you are with a reactivity case and.

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I think that puts a lot of people

off and I do think the tech

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side puts a lot of trainers and

behaviourists doing it as well.

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Whereas I'm maybe a bit of a geek

and before I did Julie's stuff, I did

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everything on Excel and I used to love

producing graphs for my clients of

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like, here's how long your dog's been

behind the door and here's how long

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you've been out the house in total.

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And I love doing it manually.

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The fact now we have an app that does

it and I numbers in and create equations

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on to make it do it for me is lovely.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, me and Excel do not get on.

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But no, the, the app is great.

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I last worked with a client in

December actually, and she went

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on to then use the app herself,

but the app is fan fascinating.

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You know, and and like I was saying,

like a lot, a lot of 'em around here,

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the trainers and rs didn't want to do

SA but then they were happy to take

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the reactivity and aggression stuff and

I was like, I don't like that stuff.

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You can take it.

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So yeah, I find sa fascinating.

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I, I like, there's a lot of work

involved, but I like helping

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the owners and, and their dogs.

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So.

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so moving on to our next question.

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So why do you think separation anxiety

is so prevalent in rescue dogs?

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Rachel.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail:

It's difficult, isn't it?

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Because I think it's probably

more prevalent in every dog if

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we look at the dog population as

a whole than perhaps we realize.

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And I think maybe we're seeing more

of that now because we're all better

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with tech and loads more of us have

dog cameras or ring doorbells or

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whatever to find out that our dog

isn't coping when we're not there.

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But it's that kind of chicken

and egg thing, isn't it?

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Is have they got separation issues

because they're a rescue dog or is the

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reason they were rehomed in the first

place because they couldn't be left And

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actually that's why they were given up.

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And while sometimes we

get that information.

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I don't, and this sounds really

cynical, but I don't think

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perhaps everybody is honest.

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And I have been an animal center

manager and I've run rescue kennels.

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I don't think people are always

honest when they give a dog up.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: think a lot of

that is 'cause the stigma isn't there

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if, like, if you are saying I can't keep

this dog anymore, and you've reached

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that decision as a household or as a

family, it's a horrible position to be in.

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But I think it's.

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I wonder if perhaps there is an

element of, it's easier to say the dog

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has done something particularly bad.

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For example, it bit our cat, so it can't

stay in the house anymore or something

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like that than to go, I just can't cope

with the fact my life is being impacted

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and I can't go to my friend's wedding.

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I can't go to the gym.

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I can't go to the cinema

with the girls anymore.

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I can't do it.

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Like, I think that's more,

it comes across more selfish.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: maybe don't

admit that separation is a part

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of the reason they re-home a dog.

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It's obviously not always the case,

but I do think there's an aspect of,

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we're not necessarily always told.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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And that's like, 'cause you

won't, like, you only get told

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certain things, don't you?

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Like, you know, you are led by what the

pet parent, guardian owner tells you.

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So they're not always

forthcoming with information.

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So it must be even harder from a rescue

environment 'cause you, you are limited

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to what information you may be given.

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And it, I mean, I, I

don't, I, I dunno like.

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I feel sad admitting this sometimes,

but I mean, in the early days with

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Bailey, my SA dog, I, we did think maybe

we weren't in the right home for him.

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But he's got chronic back pain as well.

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So there's, that's kind of in, in the mix.

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And he resource guards.

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But I said like he wouldn't have been

able to go to like a normal home that

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weren't sort of dog savvy like me.

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Least I've got the, the, the

experience and the, you know, the,

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the, the certifications behind me

and I know a bit about it, that

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he's probably in the best home we've

got a Multid dog household as well.

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It made it, it makes it, you know,

it's a whole control management.

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So there was a fleeting moment where

I said, oh God, maybe he would be

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better someone else, but there's no

way I could part part of him now.

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Like he's, he's like our

special little boy in that.

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And, but yeah, like, it is tough.

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It is really tough.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: It is.

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And I think there's no, there's absolutely

no judgment on my end of, if someone

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comes to the decision that they can't

cope with a dog who has separation

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issues, and in some cases it, it may

well be that the kindest thing to do

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for that dog is to look for a home where

someone perhaps can be around a bit more.

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'cause like lifestyle just,

just plays a huge part in that.

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But in terms of kind of your original

question of like, is a rescue dog, is

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there a reason they've got it more?

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You know, is it more

prevalent in that population?

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Perhaps an aspect of it is the

fact that those previous bonds, and

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we know they form attachments and

attachments styles the way humans do,

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like that is disrupted and broken.

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If you end up in a rehoming

center for whatever.

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Reason, you know, whatever reason,

whether it's human, whether it's dog

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related, that they've ended up there

like that, that's traumatic for the dog.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: so they are

gonna struggle more when they now

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form a new attachment with someone.

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It's probably not gonna be the

most secure attachment, is it?

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When they've been in their,

you know, potentially in

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their mind, abandoned before.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: difficult.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: that

trauma sort of sticks with them as well.

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And they could be thinking, oh,

I'm gonna get abandoned again.

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And obviously they can take a

while to decompress as well.

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So there's a lot at play.

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Brilliant.

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So moving on to our next section.

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So it's all around why rescue dogs are,

are more prone to sa So we might, you

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know, we've probably touched on it a

little bit here, but what make, what

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might make a rescue dog more vulnerable

to developing separation related issues?

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Rachel?

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,

so I mean, we've touched on

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the first one, haven't we?

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That kind of, the bonds have already

been broken and they've been left and

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had that traumatic experience before.

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The other thing I think is, and

this is no disrespect to rescue

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centers whatsoever, but I.

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It is never gonna be the same

environment as being in a loving home.

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It's just not like, and if we think

about the number of dogs in a kennels

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compared to the number of staff that

they have and the amount of human

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interaction that they get during

that stay, it's limited, isn't it?

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The staff aren't there 24 7.

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They're not with the dogs for very long

each day 'cause they physically can't be.

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And then at, let's say five o'clock, the

team go home, the dogs stay in the kennel.

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They don't see anyone else till eight,

nine o'clock the following morning.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: actually,

that can play a big role in those.

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Those cases, can't it?

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Because those dogs, they start

to, then when they do get back to

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having interaction with the human,

they don't want to go back to that.

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I don't want to be left for 10, 15 hours.

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I can't cope with that.

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I need, I need some social companionship.

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And maybe in kennels they might have,

you know, I think of the local kennels

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near me, they quite often, the number

of dogs they have is just so high at

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the minute the dogs are sharing kennels.

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So you know, me and you both though,

as people who work on separation

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cases, a second dog doesn't fix a dog

with a separation anxiety problem.

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But there is, for some of those

dogs, at least a companion there,

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they're not entirely on their own.

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They're not socially isolated.

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There is another dog with them,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm-hmm.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: then if

they go to a house, another solo

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dog in the home, they don't even

have another dog for a company.

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There is potentially nothing and

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm-hmm.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: really isolated.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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I didn't, do you know what I'm a bit,

no, I didn't really know that about

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in rescue places that once everyone

goes home at five, is there no one

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there in the evening to check on

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: It depends.

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Yeah, it depends on the kennels.

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So most places will have, you have

to have someone on site, you know,

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from like a security viewpoint.

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There's no one going into the kennels

on a night shift with the dogs at like

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eight o'clock to give them a bone and

a pet on the head and say night, night.

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You know?

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Like it isn't like at home where you would

say night, see you in the morning and

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give them a little biscuit before bed.

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No, just staff to go home, don't they?

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They've probably got their

own dogs to walk, their own

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families to go and look after.

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And so other than the manager

or whoever's on the night shift,

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depending on which, you know, rescue

you're with, there's no one there,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: no one else.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

do you have you seen there's a

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certain breed that are more affected

by separation related behaviours?

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Rachel - Nose to Trail:

It's interesting, isn't it?

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Because I know like I got asked this

previously and so like the research

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suggests golden retrievers, but then in

the 12 years I've seen separation cases.

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I've never seen a golden retriever

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I,

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: touch point.

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I'm probably gonna get an influx of them

now, but I've never had one as a client.

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Now I see.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mine

was cock beagles and sausage dogs.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: and

it's interesting, isn't it?

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'cause perhaps there is a

genetic aspect and we don't have

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enough scientific research yet.

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But I see an awful lot of them.

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But then I also do wonder if

there's just an awful lot of those

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in my local area anyway, because

we are near a, a cockapoo breeder,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

All right.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail:

So I get a lot of them.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: but also

I get a lot of sausage dogs and I

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think that in part could be because

I work, like I do the, I'm the head

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of training for Napa Pet Insurance

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yes,

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: then

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

see that.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: a sausage

dog, and so they obviously have a

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lot of sausage dogs on the books.

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it's one of those things.

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Is it, is it that I attract them as

clients or is it just there is more

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of them with a separation issue?

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I don't know.

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I don't think we can prove it yet.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: And

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Mentioned obviously the risky

center near you is quite for,

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is, is that what we're seeing?

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I mean, again, I'm a bit naive to it,

but there obviously I keep seeing like

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all these rescues coming from abroad

and people fostering them and stuff.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

rescue centers very full

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: certainly the ones

near us are and I don't, it's difficult

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because I, my gut feeling is that a lot of

that is to do with finances at the minute,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: and

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: so.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

people are finding it tough?

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, I, I mean,

as someone who's self-employed, but it is,

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isn't it, it's hard going at the minute.

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And we're seeing that a lot in

terms of like uptake of services.

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I think a lot more people in terms of

separation cases recently are turning

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to like free support, like the app,

like, you know the podcast episodes

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Julie's done or the Facebook group

and, and things like that because they

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can't afford to have a full behaviour

consult and maybe they don't even have

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pet insurance 'cause they can't afford

the pet insurance and things now.

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So I think I, I do think sadly dogs are

one of the first things where people,

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if they have to cut money back, they're

gonna cut money back on it if they can.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: I do think,

unfortunately that is, you know,

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I know looking at the intake forms

for the dogs, like sadly financial

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reasons are, is becoming very apparent.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.

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And sorry, I didn't check.

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Where are you based then?

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Rachel?

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You

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: So I'm on the

shop for Cheshire border, so I'm gonna.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Chop right.

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Okay.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: so I'm weird.

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I've got a structure postcode, but I pay

council tax to Cheshire, so it's very odd.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Well

we used to live up in Manchester for a

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bit and in Lancaster that way, but yeah.

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God, that's interesting.

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I wondered whether it's like a, like down

south, like we've obviously got and stuff.

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I just wondered whether there was

more, you know, in rescue up that,

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you know, where you are compared

to where we are, but, brilliant.

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So there red flags, new adopters

should look for even in the early

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inverted commas honeymoon period.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: I think there is,

yeah, I think it's difficult, isn't it?

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Because there are things that if when

you work with separation cases all the

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time, you know that they mean the dog

potentially has a separation problem.

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But actually I had a message on TikTok

just yesterday and I thought this is

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exactly what we're gonna be talking about.

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So I've been doing videos

about toilet training.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: I've

got a 12 week old puppy, so

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: week.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: right in my mind

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: What

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: toilet train.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I meant to ask you what breed.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Oh,

she's a little border terrier,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, okay.

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I love,

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: so

she's full of personality.

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But she maybe is struggling a little

bit on the toilet training front.

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So it is, it is something that,

like I, I'm going through, so I

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was posting a lot about that, you

know, and it's, it's not enjoyable.

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It's not, and it, when you get

a rescue dog, regardless of age,

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some of them potentially aren't

gonna be clean in the house.

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But it was interesting.

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So this lady said, I don't understand.

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I've had my dog for two years and

I can go out and be fine, could be

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upstairs having a shower for 40 minutes,

but I come down every morning and

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overnight he's gone to the toilet.

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And I thought, but if your dog can

do it in the day when you are there.

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I'm not convinced this is

purely a toilet training issue.

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I think we've actually got a

separation issue that actually, you

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know, this person's gonna bed at

say 10 o'clock at night, getting

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up at eight o'clock in the morning.

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That dog's on, its on its own.

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Albeit you're in the same

house for quite a long time.

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So actually I think if the dog is

doing toilet training fine in the

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daytime, but then is going to the

toilet when you're upstairs at night

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and you're away from them and you're

not in the same room, then that can

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be a bit of a red flag that actually

we've got a separation issue already.

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And it's not all, you know, because

it's not that they can't physically

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hold their bladder that long.

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'cause if they can do it in the daytime,

I, you know, and that, yes, okay,

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there can be rare cases where there's

something medically going on, but I

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do think if when you are separated and

you are upstairs or you've gone for a

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shower and you come back and they've gone

to the toilet, that's an being apart.

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So I think toileting can sometimes

be one that we maybe don't think

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of particularly with a rescue dog,

but we can chalk it up as a little

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red flag as one to keep an eye on.

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The other one I think is, is the

vocalization side of things as well.

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Like if you close a door and they're

starting to cry, potentially even

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scratch, we've gotta be aware of that

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: I think

there's so much bad advice online,

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isn't there where people will go,

oh, you just gotta leave them.

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Just leave them and they'll be quiet.

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Leave them to try it out.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

So old school.

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That is so outta

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: It's,

but people have said it to me,

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even knowing what I do for a job.

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I'm getting people telling me to do

it with a puff and I'm like, I've

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absolutely not going to take that advice.

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Thank you.

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I will be going downstairs

and dealing with the puppy,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

You wouldn't let

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: but

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

you wouldn't let your kid

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quiet out there with you.

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I don't have kids, but I

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: I

dunno, I don't have kids either,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

but I just don't

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: so,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

a kid quiet out, so.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: no, I, I wouldn't

have thought so now, but you know, it's,

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I think vocalizations are, again, it's.

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One we need to be aware

of and we need to be.

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For me, the first thing I did when I

got a dog, whether it was my rescue or

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whether it was the new puppy, 'cause

she's the first puppy I've had in a

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very long time, I've always rescued

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Is, yeah.

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Is get a camera and

have the camera on them.

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And even when, when I first got pebbles

and I was going upstairs to come in the

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office to do something like this, I'm

there on the ring camera watching her.

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Is she all right?

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Is she okay?

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Check in to see, because I'm just so

conscious that I didn't want her sat

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in her little crate in the kitchen

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: upset and

started to do things that might

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eventually become a bigger problem.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.

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You forget how hard work it

is of a puppy, don't you?

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I know I

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: It's horrible.

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It's absolutely horrible.

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I'm deep within my puppy blues, Nathan.

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Deep within,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

but I love that you've rescued and so

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what was the rationale behind a puppy?

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Now Rachel?

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Sorry I've

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah.

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So I know.

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Sorry.

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:

Take you off on a tangent.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I, no, I love her

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: My business

name nose to Trail is because I do

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this pet trailing and the man trailing.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

business name.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

486

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So it's, it's a, you know, play on nose

to tail, but it's trail because we do

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pet trailing and I do pet trailing or

have been for the last kind of six years

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with my rescue dog from Portugal who

was a street dog in the stray pound who

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had two days left to live, who came over

and ended up is, you know, it's magic.

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He's actually been nominated for

a BBC award for like, is making

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a difference, which is lovely.

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We found that out this morning.

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So I'm very proud dog mom at the

minute because he has reunited missing

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dogs with their families again.

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So he goes off and follows the trail

and, and find these missing dogs.

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So he is 10, he needs to retire and I've

been looking for the last kind of two

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years for another dog, a third dog to

be that crazy dog lady and have three to

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come into our family and become my next.

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Potential working dog.

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But because I'm a woman of a

certain age, there's a lot of rescue

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centers who wouldn't rehome to me

because quote, you might change your

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mind and you might have a child,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, okay.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: I'll not

be changing my mind and will not

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be having a child anytime soon.

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But that was a reason they

wouldn't give me a dog.

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There was actually a border terrier

puppy that had separation issues.

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They wanted it to go to a home with

another small dog and someone who

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had experience of separation issues.

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So I was like, ideal.

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Perfect.

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Applied.

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They wouldn't let me have

her because I won't raw feed.

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And so I hit this wall so many times

trying to rehome and it, you know,

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it's been a really hard decision

for me 'cause it's going against

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all my ethics, getting a puppy.

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But in the end I came across 'cause

one of my clients was getting

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one of them this lovely litter.

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Mom and dad, a brilliant

temperament are both healthy.

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They were raised in a lovely environment.

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And I thought, you know what?

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It's gonna be the right size to fit in

with my two small dogs that I've got.

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It's gonna weigh about the same.

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I've had Border Terriers before.

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It's clearly just meant to be.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: here we are, four

weeks in with Pebbles, the border Territ.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: pebbles.

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Oh, I love it.

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And yeah, border Terror is,

they're full of character, aren't

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Maybe a bit too much character.

534

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The 13 and the 10-year-old.

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Seem to think.

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But

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, okay.

538

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I love that though.

539

:

Brilliant.

540

:

So moving on to our next question then.

541

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So we've sort of touched on it a little

bit, but what role does the dog's previous

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history play and what doesn't it tell us?

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah, I think

it varies massively from dog to dog.

544

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But when we're specifically thinking

about rescue dogs, we probably just

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don't know the full history of the dog.

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I wish they could tell us.

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I really do.

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But sadly we just don't know.

549

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And actually I've had rescue dogs.

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Who've had separation issues that I've

worked with where we've been able to

551

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find, like triggering incidents that

have caused their separation issues.

552

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So one of them actually was a colleague

who was given up, working colleague,

553

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who was in a family home who actually

went into the Rehoming Center because

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he was rounding up the children.

555

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So not separation related,

was herding the kids.

556

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We shouldn't laugh, but genuinely did

herd them up into the garden shed.

557

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So they, I know you shouldn't laugh,

but he blessed his little soul.

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He needed a working job.

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He needed to the right home.

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Yeah.

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And he was from a farm, you know, he

wasn't, you know, from a pet family.

562

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He was from a working farm in Wales.

563

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And he ended up in the kennels.

564

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And really sadly, while he was in

the kennels, we had a massive storm

565

:

the other year, a huge storm, and

the roof of the kennels collapsed

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, bloody,

567

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: he was

in there on his own at night.

568

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: oh,

569

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: that seems

to have been for him this isolated

570

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incident where now when he is left,

he's panicking and I do think it's

571

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because he's had that horrific

experience whilst he was on his own.

572

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And normally we don't have such

detailed history of the dog, we

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don't know what's happened like that.

574

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But for him we can pin

it right back to that.

575

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And sadly for him, he's now got

phobias for like storm weather as

576

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well because it was all interlinked.

577

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So like really heavy rain

that also triggers him.

578

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And there's a lot, bless

him, a lot to work on.

579

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But we, history is gonna play a role,

but what we can't change the past.

580

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So actually as much as it would sometimes

be helpful to know, we've just gotta

581

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focus on, on the future and how we

work with that dog moving forward.

582

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And I think you'll be well aware

of this, you know, as someone who's

583

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worked on separation cases that.

584

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The most important thing

really is for those dogs.

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They're not left again for any

longer than they spoke with,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

587

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: that is what makes

them such hard cases to work through.

588

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'cause the level investment from

the guardian or the owner or the

589

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adopter, whoever's taken this pet

on whatever you wanna call them,

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.

591

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: but high

like they have to be willing to not

592

:

leave that dog if the dog can't cope

593

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.

594

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: being left.

595

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And that's a lot to ask of someone,

596

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

597

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: is why both

of us enjoy them so much as a case

598

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because you're helping not only

the dog but the human aren't you?

599

:

And the

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I, I,

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: back and the

dog is then a confident, happy dog

602

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: So

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I

605

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: like for

us it's really rewarding, isn't it?

606

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

you just get so invested, don't you?

607

:

I feel,

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: right.

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:

Okay.

611

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And I just want to quickly touch back

on your point where you've, just going

612

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back to the previous where we said about

that they wouldn't let you have the

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dog because you may have children and I

don't wanna speak Ill health of UK risk,

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but do you think that's why loads of

people are adopting from abroad because

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it's so hard to get adopt in the uk?

616

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That's what I'm

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Rachel - Nose to Trail:

Yeah, hundred percent.

618

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Because I, the local kennels

to me is an overseas rescue.

619

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They try primarily take Romanian

rescues and Bosnian rescues

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and bring them into the uk.

621

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And when I speak to people who adopt

dogs from there, they tell me time

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and time again that the main rescues

in the UK wouldn't give them a dog.

623

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So they took a dog from overseas

when it wouldn't necessarily

624

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have been their first choice.

625

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For some people it is, they

really want to help an overseas

626

:

rescue, but for some people it's

because they really want a rescue.

627

:

They don't wanna buy a

dog or go to a breeder.

628

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm.

629

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: the only

rescues they can get to are these

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:

little less known rescues that

maybe don't have as much red tape

631

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

632

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: who

they will let adopt a dog.

633

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

And just your point on Romanians,

634

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they come with a whole raft of.

635

:

Issues.

636

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Sometimes we work with a lot of, 'cause

with the dog walk inside the business.

637

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Like one of the girls that works

with me, her, she, she does a lot of

638

:

work with like the Romanian rescues,

building up like that trust and bond.

639

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But are absolutely fine.

640

:

But then some they do

come with a lot of, like,

641

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,

642

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I,

a lot of trauma, a lot of, I don't

643

:

wanna say like issues, but they do

come with a lot of stuff to unpack.

644

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail:

very different type of dog.

645

:

Typically, I think, to an, A dog

who's been born in the UK is from

646

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the uk, has lived in a home and then

ended up in a rescue, a dog from

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the streets in an environment, which

is so completely different to ours.

648

:

And what they've gone through

is so completely different.

649

:

I think to a lot of the UK rescues,

they are, it is very, very different.

650

:

It is, and I, I, I think

sadly, there's quite a lot of

651

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judgment and prejudice against.

652

:

Those rescues, and a lot of people have

very strong beliefs as to whether or

653

:

not we should have adopted from abroad

and should we be allowing these dogs

654

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in the country and all of these things,

which I think, you know, you could have

655

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a whole other podcast episode on those.

656

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But I think at the end of the day, to me,

the way I see it, and you know, I have an

657

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overseas street dog, so I'd be very hypo

hypocritical to judge anybody, but they're

658

:

in this country, they're in a home.

659

:

There is absolutely no point in

being unpleasant or judgmental

660

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towards the people who've adopted

those dogs, particularly if they've

661

:

reached out to you to help for help.

662

:

Like the dogs that deserve help.

663

:

Oh yeah, because I've got a couple of

Romanian rescues who we're actually

664

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seeing for reactivity cases, and

they actually only applied for one.

665

:

But when the dog appeared,

they dropped two dogs off.

666

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And this is just in case anybody

works out which rescue is near me.

667

:

It's not that rescue, it's

a totally different rescue.

668

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I can't even remember the name of

the rescue, but they just dropped

669

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two off and they were like, oh,

these two get on really well, so

670

:

actually you're gonna have two.

671

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,

672

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: so they

left, they left this couple with

673

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two adolescent shepherd type big

dogs and said, oh yeah, but you

674

:

can't take them out for three weeks.

675

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Just leave them in their crates.

676

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They'll be fine.

677

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Lo and

behold, they have a whole heap

679

:

of behavioural issues and these

poor people are really struggling

680

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I'm

681

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: and

there's no rescue backup, there's

682

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no support for these dogs.

683

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And so they took them to the vets

because they were like, we're struggling.

684

:

We need help.

685

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And the first vet that they went

to said, well, you shouldn't have

686

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adopted from abroad should you.

687

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, bloody.

688

:

How?

689

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: And so I get

this phone call last Christmas from these

690

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people, you know, in floods of tears

because even the vet won't help them.

691

:

We don't know who to turn to.

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We dunno what to do.

693

:

We're scared in our own home.

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:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh.

695

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: And you just,

how would that help anybody, even if

696

:

that's your personal opinion, that we

shouldn't be bringing dogs into the uk?

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:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh

698

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: It is awful.

699

:

It didn't help anybody.

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It really like, you know, it's so

sad and I think that's one of the

701

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things that myself and I, you know,

I've got a team now of four rehab

702

:

trainers who work with me on cases

703

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh wow.

704

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: all of them.

705

:

One of the things I'm so like,

it is our core thing is you

706

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absolutely do not judge people.

707

:

You don't judge people for the problems

they are having with their dogs.

708

:

We are there to support,

we are there to listen.

709

:

We are there to help.

710

:

We are not there to make anybody feel

rubbish about what they're doing.

711

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.

712

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: not, just not.

713

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I don't, I don't think people are

714

:

really prepared how much work's

involved are they Sometimes.

715

:

'cause you just don't

know what you're getting.

716

:

Like that couple and it can be full on.

717

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Absolutely.

718

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.

719

:

Lovely.

720

:

Moving on to our next section,

which is all about the settling in

721

:

period in early days in a new home.

722

:

What

723

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

724

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: be,

Rachel, your top recommendations for

725

:

helping a newly adopted dog settle

in those first few weeks, please?

726

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

727

:

So I think we need to be

prepared to do very little.

728

:

So all the things you normally do in your

life, you need to be prepared that you

729

:

are not doing those for a good few weeks.

730

:

And I'm not gonna lie, I have been

bored out of my mind the last few

731

:

weeks because I haven't been able to

go out and see clients face to face.

732

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right?

733

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: been trapped in

the house with the puppy because I don't

734

:

want it to develop separation issues.

735

:

And actually, I feel like I

should start a petition online

736

:

for us to get like puppy leave

737

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.

738

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: dog leave

because you wouldn't have a new baby

739

:

and bring it home or adopt a child

and bring them home and then just

740

:

carry on as normal the next day.

741

:

But people seem to with dogs, so

they get a dog that they've maybe

742

:

seen two or three times and they

come home with it on the Saturday.

743

:

'cause they've driven to the

rescue center, brought it back,

744

:

had Saturday night to settle it in

Sunday to be with it, and then they

745

:

go to work for eight hours on the

Monday and think it's gonna be okay.

746

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: no.

747

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: I really

think the best thing you can do is use

748

:

some of your annual leave and be off

749

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: take a

750

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail:

and be off with the job.

751

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, I've said that

752

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Not only you

know, for their sake, but also for yours.

753

:

Bond with them, you know, you just

made this commitment for 10, 15

754

:

years potentially with this living

thing that has come to depend on

755

:

you and it is dependent on you.

756

:

So enjoy it.

757

:

Get to bond with them,

758

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

759

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: that time

with them and actually forming

760

:

that secure attachment with them.

761

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

762

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: to prevent some

separation issues in most cases, you

763

:

know, with some dogs, unfortunately,

they're gonna have issues even if you

764

:

take that time off and it's gonna be

harder to go back to a normal life.

765

:

But I do think don't be

planning to go at the cinema.

766

:

You're not gonna be going necessarily to

the gym at six o'clock the next morning

767

:

like you've always used to, unless

there's multiple people in the house.

768

:

You know, if there's multiple people,

I do think it is on the whole easier,

769

:

unless the dog suddenly develops a hyper

attachment issue to one primary caregiver.

770

:

But that's rare, isn't it?

771

:

I mean, most of the time the dog

is scared of being on its own.

772

:

So if there's you and a partner, or you

and a housemate or whoever in this day and

773

:

age that you live with, then you can kind

of share the love and share the duties

774

:

and you can pop out and it's easier.

775

:

But I spend 90% of my time on my own, and

so I'm stuck and it's me and the dogs.

776

:

And so, you know, yesterday was

actually the first time I left

777

:

my puppy and went to the shops.

778

:

I've had her four weeks.

779

:

I finally built up last

night 'cause it's too hot.

780

:

I couldn't take her and

leave her in the car.

781

:

It's far too

782

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.

783

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: hot.

784

:

And I finally, I'm just, I've,

I've been flitting, we've been

785

:

doing lots of micro absences.

786

:

I've been spending time up here

in my office and going out into

787

:

the garden and doing stuff.

788

:

But finally drove away from the house

789

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,

790

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: I was there.

791

:

I got to the bottom of, before

you go onto like the main road,

792

:

'cause I've got a driveway.

793

:

I went down the driveway and I'm

like, yeah, a hundred percent.

794

:

Get to Sainsbury's, check the camera.

795

:

Or she's okay walking around Sainsbury's.

796

:

But fairly paying any

attention to what I'm buying.

797

:

Just checking the camera the whole time.

798

:

She was absolutely fine.

799

:

Didn't even notice when I got home.

800

:

Yeah, yeah.

801

:

Until I opened the door into the

kitchen where she was fast asleep.

802

:

Then I got her head up and, oh

yeah, hello, where have you been?

803

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.

804

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail:

And I was so happy.

805

:

I was like, proud dog mom moment.

806

:

Really proud.

807

:

'cause she's absolutely fine.

808

:

But I have, for best part of

four weeks, she's gone everywhere

809

:

with me or I've not gone.

810

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.

811

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: and I think

people need, I know that probably sounds

812

:

unrealistic to most people, but it will

potentially make your life much easier

813

:

from a separation viewpoint if you can

prepare to be off during that time period.

814

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Yeah, I agree.

815

:

And I feel I've seen like now there's

adoption leave for humans, so we do need

816

:

something similar to if we adopt or a

817

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,

when I'm so, be self-employed.

818

:

It's all right though, isn't it?

819

:

I just blocked off in my calendar and said

to people, I'll be working on Zoom only.

820

:

That's all I can do

until the puppy's ready.

821

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

822

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: that's it.

823

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, brilliant.

824

:

It's exciting though.

825

:

So we've, we have spoke touches

just now, but should guardians leave

826

:

them to settle or be more hands-on,

what would be the balance there?

827

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail:

It is a balance, isn't it?

828

:

Because you can't micromanage

and watch them all the time.

829

:

You do need to start to develop a little

bit of kind of self settling and the

830

:

ability for them not to depend on you

all the time, but I also think we can

831

:

proactively be doing that as a choice.

832

:

So in terms of the training that we do, so

like I put my bin outside from day dot, so

833

:

every time I had a bit of rubbish in the

kitchen, I had to go outta the house to

834

:

put it in the bin, which meant I was gone.

835

:

But I was gone for like, what, 20 seconds

836

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

837

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: back.

838

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

839

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail:

actually that flitting in and

840

:

out, in and out, in and out.

841

:

Whilst it may just seem

like a little thing.

842

:

Is a good thing and has probably

really helped and then you

843

:

can build that up for longer.

844

:

'cause I could go and faff in the garage

and then come back and it was fine.

845

:

Little things like that.

846

:

And also proactively teaching a settle.

847

:

So teaching them to be able

to relax and be with you but

848

:

not need attention from you

849

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.

850

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: is

letting themselves settle.

851

:

But equally, you are making that choice

to teach the dog that independent skill.

852

:

And I think we do need to do that, but I'm

certainly not buying into the old school.

853

:

Just leave them to cry out.

854

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No.

855

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: not.

856

:

No.

857

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

more harm than good.

858

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

859

:

Yeah.

860

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm,

861

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Definitely.

862

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: How

can we introduce a gentle independence

863

:

building without causing stress?

864

:

Is this like this fl in

stuff that you're talking

865

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, I

think that can be really helpful.

866

:

But I think other things that we

can do from a training viewpoint can

867

:

also help build confidence in dogs.

868

:

And actually that's partly why I use

the pet trailing and the man trailing

869

:

techniques with all of my behaviour

cases, whether they're reactivity or

870

:

their separation because they we're

allowing a dog to be a dog, but we're

871

:

also doing something that's enjoyable.

872

:

So it has loads of benefits, but

it teaches them to have confidence

873

:

and build that self-confidence.

874

:

'cause a lot of the dogs we are seeing

with separation issues are lacking in

875

:

confidence in every area, aren't they?

876

:

They're nervous dogs.

877

:

I mean, you mentioned

with dog has other issues.

878

:

There's a pain, we've got resource

guarding, you know, we've got

879

:

other things at play and quite a

lot of time there is, isn't there?

880

:

It's not purely separation.

881

:

The dog will be displaying other.

882

:

Anxious or worried behaviours.

883

:

So if we can start to make them

more confident and have that belief

884

:

that everything is okay and have a

more positive, optimistic outlook

885

:

of the world, they're gonna cope

better when they're left as well.

886

:

Yeah.

887

:

So I, for me it's pet.

888

:

That's just my bag.

889

:

That's why I like to teach.

890

:

But like Mel, who works with

me, she teaches hoopers.

891

:

And again, that's like

moving away from the owner.

892

:

So building and they're not,

I think sometimes my clients

893

:

look at me like, what?

894

:

'cause they expect me to be like,

put your coat on and off, coat

895

:

on and off, shoes on and off.

896

:

Pick up your car keys,

up and down, up and down.

897

:

And they think that's the type of training

you've gotta do for separation issues.

898

:

And I'm there like, right, we're gonna

teach your dog to find missing dogs.

899

:

And they're like, what?

900

:

And actually I find it's really

nice because it's different.

901

:

'cause separation training

can be boring, can't it?

902

:

I know we've not gone into a huge deal

of it, but it can be boring, it can be

903

:

repetitive, it can take a long time.

904

:

So doing something where actually

they go out and they see their dog.

905

:

Thrive and they do brilliantly at it and

they see their dog having fun can help.

906

:

I think the owner, the human end of

the leash, fall back in love with

907

:

their dog again and have a nice bonding

moment because actually as much as you

908

:

know, they might not wanna admit it.

909

:

And it's not a nice thing to say.

910

:

You can start to resent your dog

if they've got a separation issue.

911

:

I like, I, you know, a lot of

people who come to me are really

912

:

at the end of their tether.

913

:

Like they're really finding life hard.

914

:

They feel really trapped and in a lot

of cases are regretting getting the dog,

915

:

if it's a, a rescue dog and thinking,

you know, or even I see people really

916

:

starting to be annoyed at the kennels.

917

:

Like they didn't disclose this to me.

918

:

They didn't tell me, they didn't

tell me how hard it was gonna be.

919

:

And so having an activity where they

have fun together I think can be really

920

:

helpful in getting through those cases.

921

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah,

922

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

923

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Just quickly, I've heard of

924

:

man trailing before, but is

925

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

926

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

What's pet train?

927

:

Is that finding dogs then?

928

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,

so basically, so finding pets.

929

:

So it is exactly the same as

man trailing, but rather than

930

:

finding a human, we find a pet.

931

:

Typically it's dogs because

in terms of the training, most

932

:

people just do it for fun.

933

:

And so you're not gonna have most

people, some people will, but most

934

:

people are not gonna have their cat or

their ferret or Guinea pig on a lead.

935

:

So most of the time it's a, a, a quote,

stewed lost dog that we're hiding.

936

:

So another person in the class and

then the dog will sniff something of

937

:

that dog's, maybe some fur, maybe a

poo, and they will then follow the

938

:

cent trail to find the missing dog.

939

:

But it doesn't have to be a dog.

940

:

My boy actually went out to find

Cinnamon, the missing Capy Barra.

941

:

I dunno if you ever saw that on the news.

942

:

In September, she escaped from

the zoo at Telford, and Rico

943

:

went out looking for cinnamon.

944

:

The Capy Barra the weirdest Wednesday

I've ever had, but it was certainly fun.

945

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

It does sound brilliant.

946

:

Alright, let's move on

then to essay in practice.

947

:

So what it looks like and what works.

948

:

What are some of the most

common signs that a rescue dog

949

:

is struggling with being left?

950

:

What's the same for any dog?

951

:

Isn't it really?

952

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, I think so.

953

:

I think probably the ones that

people recognize the most are

954

:

like destruction and the toileting

that we talked about before.

955

:

Or your neighbor coming rounded,

saying, your dog's vocalized and

956

:

barked and shouted or screamed

the entire time you were out.

957

:

Or a passive aggressive Facebook

post saying somebody's dog has

958

:

been barking the entire time.

959

:

If anybody, oh, every Facebook group,

isn't it such and such local community

960

:

group, could somebody shut that dog up

961

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

And they're

962

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: and

963

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

normally, they're

964

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: this dog.

965

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

they're normally pasted anonymous,

966

:

and then they're like, oh, oh my

967

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Because they

don't want their neighbor to realize

968

:

it's them instead of just going

round and being like, I'm genuinely

969

:

concerned that your dog is unhappy.

970

:

We'll, just, it's often a

human based problem, isn't it?

971

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

The, the thing is, if they don't have

972

:

a camera, they may not know either.

973

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: yes, and I

like that is the thing for me that

974

:

I think so many people miss the more

subtle signs because bless them,

975

:

there's so many dogs suffering in

silence or people don't realize.

976

:

So they're like, oh, he gets so excited

to see me goes and eats the Kong

977

:

that I left for him in the morning.

978

:

And I think the fact he couldn't

eat the entire time you were at

979

:

work is a huge red flag for me.

980

:

That he felt so uncomfortable and so

stressed he couldn't eat dinging problem

981

:

because actually most dogs in the daytime

are gonna have a snack if it's there.

982

:

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.

983

:

Rachel - Nose to Trail: my three

would have no problem eating

984

:

a stuffed cold when I was out.

985

:

Quite happy to eat that.

986

:

So I think not eating,

pacing, lip licking, yawning.

987

:

Not gonna sleep because, you

know, dogs should be asleep.

988

:

So if they're just staring at a

door for eight hours whilst you're

989

:

at work, not good, not good at all.

990

:

But you wouldn't know, would you, if you

didn't have a camera, you wouldn't know.

991

:

And I, I do wonder if that's why we're

seeing more cases, because as you

992

:

know, as a nation, maybe worldwide

as well, we're just a bit more dog

993

:

obsessed than we were 15 years ago.

994

:

Like everywhere with us,

everywhere is dog friendly.

995

:

They're at the coffee shop.

996

:

Mine goes to the nail bar with me.

997

:

Like they go everywhere.

998

:

She actually came to the

hairdressers, the puppy.

999

:

And so I think now we want

to see them, don't we?

:

00:43:10,171 --> 00:43:13,471

But when I had my first two

border Terriers, what, 20 years

:

00:43:13,471 --> 00:43:15,091

ago, we didn't have a camera.

:

00:43:15,091 --> 00:43:16,261

Nobody had a camera.

:

00:43:17,401 --> 00:43:17,881

You, we.

:

00:43:17,959 --> 00:43:20,779

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

didn't have I iPhones on Yeah.

:

00:43:22,429 --> 00:43:23,884

The May Dems and the wires

:

00:43:24,571 --> 00:43:28,051

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, so

I think now we just, we know more,

:

00:43:28,171 --> 00:43:31,051

and so maybe that's why we're

seeing a higher percentage of dogs

:

00:43:31,051 --> 00:43:34,741

that have it or we're reporting a

higher number of dogs who have it.

:

00:43:34,771 --> 00:43:35,131

But

:

00:43:35,154 --> 00:43:35,539

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm mm

:

00:43:35,851 --> 00:43:36,241

Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah.

:

00:43:36,331 --> 00:43:39,301

So many signs that perhaps

we're just not aware of.

:

00:43:39,524 --> 00:43:39,944

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm-hmm.

:

00:43:41,209 --> 00:43:44,389

you do as, do you know if

many bts have had it before?

:

00:43:45,361 --> 00:43:47,431

Rachel - Nose to Trail: I'm

gonna say no, I've never had one.

:

00:43:48,384 --> 00:43:49,744

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I just wondered because you had

:

00:43:50,041 --> 00:43:51,421

Rachel - Nose to Trail:

No, I, I've not had one.

:

00:43:51,421 --> 00:43:52,051

Have you had one?

:

00:43:52,219 --> 00:43:53,224

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

I haven't come across, no.

:

00:43:54,361 --> 00:43:56,941

Rachel - Nose to Trail: I I mean,

I, obviously, I'm very biased,

:

00:43:57,211 --> 00:44:03,391

but I find Border Terriers to be

quite a robust hardy little dog.

:

00:44:03,841 --> 00:44:07,501

And other than the nickname of

border terrorists, and they can be

:

00:44:07,501 --> 00:44:09,751

a little bit dog reactive and spicy,

:

00:44:10,194 --> 00:44:10,414

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yes.

:

00:44:10,441 --> 00:44:13,801

Rachel - Nose to Trail: don't see them

for many other behavioural issues.

:

00:44:13,981 --> 00:44:17,021

Like, I don't, I've not had

any with repetitive behaviours.

:

00:44:17,251 --> 00:44:21,211

I also don't see many with a

huge number of like genetically

:

00:44:21,211 --> 00:44:22,921

predisposed health problems.

:

00:44:23,311 --> 00:44:26,971

There is a bit of Cushings

going on, but on the whole touch

:

00:44:26,971 --> 00:44:28,981

wood, they're quite a, a breed.

:

00:44:28,981 --> 00:44:31,291

We haven't messed with too much just yet.

:

00:44:31,501 --> 00:44:32,491

And along may it last?

:

00:44:32,689 --> 00:44:33,229

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

:

00:44:33,409 --> 00:44:33,829

Long.

:

00:44:35,009 --> 00:44:35,429

Brilliant.

:

00:44:35,429 --> 00:44:40,769

So how do you begin building a plan

with clients once SA is suspected?

:

00:44:40,769 --> 00:44:41,309

Rachel?

:

00:44:42,071 --> 00:44:42,491

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

:

00:44:42,491 --> 00:44:45,401

So I am a registered

clinical animal behaviourist.

:

00:44:45,401 --> 00:44:45,791

So

:

00:44:46,049 --> 00:44:46,799

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

That's, yeah.

:

00:44:47,039 --> 00:44:48,779

Just tell our list is what that might mean

:

00:44:48,821 --> 00:44:52,931

Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah, so I, I'm

accredited through the A BTC, the Animal

:

00:44:52,931 --> 00:44:58,361

behaviour Training Council and the A

PBC, 'cause we love an acronym, so the

:

00:44:58,361 --> 00:45:03,792

Association of Pet behaviour Counselors as

a registered clinical animal behaviourist.

:

00:45:03,792 --> 00:45:05,861

So a bit like doctor, dentist.

:

00:45:05,861 --> 00:45:10,331

Lawyer, the term behaviourist

isn't protected, so anybody

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00:45:10,331 --> 00:45:12,872

can claim to be a behaviourist.

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00:45:13,242 --> 00:45:15,622

So if you go on Google and

you type in behaviourist.

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00:45:15,971 --> 00:45:20,451

You won't necessarily get someone

who's a clinical animal behaviourist,

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00:45:20,862 --> 00:45:24,521

whereas a clinical animal behaviourist

has to have kind of a higher

:

00:45:24,521 --> 00:45:26,741

level of knowledge in theory.

:

00:45:26,871 --> 00:45:29,691

So, you know, we've all been assessed,

like I have a master's degree in

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00:45:29,691 --> 00:45:31,611

animal behaviour, so level seven.

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00:45:31,854 --> 00:45:32,334

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

:

00:45:32,511 --> 00:45:34,191

Rachel - Nose to Trail: but

the main thing is that we have

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00:45:34,191 --> 00:45:36,171

to work with our local vet.

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00:45:36,621 --> 00:45:37,101

So I.

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00:45:37,194 --> 00:45:38,129

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

The vets, yes.

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00:45:38,541 --> 00:45:41,451

Rachel - Nose to Trail: so I

work under vet referral only.

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00:45:41,661 --> 00:45:45,681

So the first thing for me is if someone

approaches me and says kind of, I've got

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00:45:45,681 --> 00:45:49,851

a dog with a separation issue, unless

it's a puppy, which is different because

:

00:45:49,851 --> 00:45:53,811

that's normal, that's puppy distress,

and we're typically teaching that dog,

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00:45:53,811 --> 00:45:57,711

it's okay to be alone, rather than

dealing with a dog who has a full blown

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00:45:57,711 --> 00:46:00,621

fear of being left, which is different.

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00:46:01,071 --> 00:46:04,011

Then they have to go to their

vet and get a vet referral.

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00:46:04,011 --> 00:46:05,601

For me, I have to do that.

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00:46:05,601 --> 00:46:07,161

It's part of my code of conduct.

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00:46:07,491 --> 00:46:10,941

But also it's really helpful

because a lot of the dogs, and I do

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00:46:10,941 --> 00:46:12,411

think the rescue dogs actually, I.

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00:46:13,086 --> 00:46:17,976

Potentially have an underlying medical

cause linking to their separation problem

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00:46:18,186 --> 00:46:20,046

that may not have been identified.

:

00:46:20,406 --> 00:46:24,876

And we can do as many repetitions

of activities like door is a ball

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00:46:25,056 --> 00:46:27,426

or gradual desensitization programs.

:

00:46:27,546 --> 00:46:29,496

We could do as many of those as we want.

:

00:46:29,946 --> 00:46:34,266

But if, like in the case of Salem, the

Husky that I worked with, the reason

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00:46:34,266 --> 00:46:37,596

the dog can't be left is because

they've got horrific hip dysplasia

:

00:46:37,596 --> 00:46:39,726

and arthritis and are in daily pain.

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00:46:40,356 --> 00:46:41,496

We are not gonna get anywhere.

:

00:46:41,744 --> 00:46:41,964

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: And

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00:46:42,006 --> 00:46:42,726

Rachel - Nose to Trail: And so actually.

:

00:46:42,764 --> 00:46:43,644

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

hiding that pain.

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00:46:44,511 --> 00:46:44,871

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

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00:46:45,071 --> 00:46:46,031

They had no idea.

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00:46:46,031 --> 00:46:50,381

So this husky that I was working with,

actually I, it was referred to me.

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00:46:50,381 --> 00:46:53,201

Nothing was flagged on the vet

referral, perfectly healthy dog.

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00:46:53,491 --> 00:46:55,651

We'd worked through normal

separation stuff for ages.

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00:46:55,651 --> 00:46:57,391

We were getting nowhere.

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00:46:57,571 --> 00:46:59,281

I was hitting my head off a brick wall.

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00:46:59,281 --> 00:47:01,621

Like I just was like, I,

this just isn't working.

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00:47:01,621 --> 00:47:02,701

They couldn't get anything.

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00:47:03,181 --> 00:47:06,391

And I actually went to see 'em and

I don't normally, for separation

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00:47:06,391 --> 00:47:10,141

cases, I take cases from the UK

and abroad and work virtually.

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00:47:10,531 --> 00:47:12,121

And they were about an

hour and a half's drive.

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00:47:12,121 --> 00:47:13,081

And I just thought, you know what?

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00:47:13,081 --> 00:47:14,311

There's something I'm missing.

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00:47:14,341 --> 00:47:15,871

I'm gonna go see this dog.

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00:47:15,871 --> 00:47:16,951

Like there's something else.

:

00:47:16,999 --> 00:47:17,359

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: to.

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00:47:17,926 --> 00:47:19,516

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,

and I went out and we went for a

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00:47:19,516 --> 00:47:24,526

walk actually, and I noticed that

he was only weeing on one leg.

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00:47:24,526 --> 00:47:26,956

So like he would only ever

lift his right leg up and have

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00:47:26,956 --> 00:47:28,066

his weight on his left leg.

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00:47:28,276 --> 00:47:32,296

So if you are walking along, he would

turn 180 degrees round to cock his

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00:47:32,296 --> 00:47:33,976

leg and wee, and that's not normal.

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00:47:33,976 --> 00:47:36,136

Most dogs will lift either

left or right, won't they?

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00:47:36,166 --> 00:47:39,856

Whichever next to the vertical

surface, they'll cock their leg up.

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00:47:39,856 --> 00:47:42,176

And we and I said, does he always do that?

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00:47:42,176 --> 00:47:44,516

And they were like, well, I

dunno, I've never noticed.

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00:47:44,544 --> 00:47:44,764

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh.

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00:47:44,846 --> 00:47:46,976

Rachel - Nose to Trail: And so I

said, look, let's just watch that.

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00:47:47,516 --> 00:47:51,146

And he would never weight

bear on the other leg.

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00:47:51,386 --> 00:47:51,986

Never.

:

00:47:52,496 --> 00:47:56,156

And because he was a big fluffy

husky, you couldn't see much else

:

00:47:56,156 --> 00:47:57,686

in terms of how he was walking.

:

00:47:57,686 --> 00:47:59,966

Like there wasn't much going

on, like, you know, a Labrador.

:

00:47:59,966 --> 00:48:02,516

You could see the skin and the muscles

and see what else was happening.

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00:48:02,546 --> 00:48:03,836

There was nothing else I could see.

:

00:48:04,286 --> 00:48:06,476

So I flagged it with the vets

and they were kind of like,

:

00:48:06,506 --> 00:48:07,856

well, you know, he's healthy.

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00:48:07,946 --> 00:48:08,876

There's nothing wrong with him.

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00:48:09,416 --> 00:48:10,766

Bless the couple.

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00:48:10,826 --> 00:48:14,036

They trusted me 'cause they'd been

working with me for a long time.

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00:48:14,336 --> 00:48:17,636

And I said, look, I, if it was my dog,

I'd be going and seeing another vet.

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00:48:17,819 --> 00:48:18,089

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,

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00:48:18,206 --> 00:48:18,656

Rachel - Nose to Trail: the other vet

:

00:48:18,659 --> 00:48:19,049

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: second

:

00:48:19,076 --> 00:48:22,496

Rachel - Nose to Trail: look at him

said, yeah, horrific hip dysplasia.

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00:48:22,526 --> 00:48:23,666

We need to X-ray him.

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00:48:23,996 --> 00:48:27,566

X-rayed him one of the worst cases

of hip dysplasia they'd ever seen.

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00:48:27,566 --> 00:48:29,756

His bone was basically

entirely out of his hip.

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00:48:30,026 --> 00:48:33,776

He needed to have a huge operation

and on pain relief straight away.

:

00:48:34,166 --> 00:48:38,426

And actually they sent me the most lovely

video of, after he'd had the surgery,

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00:48:38,426 --> 00:48:41,906

he'd recovered, he'd had sleeping

fine during the day, not a problem.

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00:48:42,056 --> 00:48:45,746

And so for him, that separation

issue was being caused by the

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00:48:45,746 --> 00:48:47,216

fact that he was panicking.

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00:48:47,246 --> 00:48:48,836

'cause he's in pain when they're there.

:

00:48:48,836 --> 00:48:50,546

He was, they were like a comfort blanket.

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00:48:50,726 --> 00:48:52,586

He was fine when they were there.

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00:48:52,826 --> 00:48:54,176

When they left, he couldn't cope.

:

00:48:54,536 --> 00:48:59,066

And so actually we could have potentially

wrongly, as a lot of people do, gone,

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00:48:59,396 --> 00:49:00,776

oh dog can't be left home alone.

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00:49:00,806 --> 00:49:02,696

It must be anxiety.

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00:49:02,846 --> 00:49:07,016

Therefore it must have

fluoxetine and actually.

:

00:49:07,931 --> 00:49:11,231

We can't prescribe, I can't prescribe

as a clinical animal behaviourist, as a

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00:49:11,231 --> 00:49:13,331

separation coach, you can't prescribe.

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00:49:13,691 --> 00:49:18,731

But people will just, dogs will get put

on anti-anxiety medication, assuming that

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00:49:18,731 --> 00:49:20,921

is the cause of their separation issue.

:

00:49:21,161 --> 00:49:23,171

When in this dog's case, what

you needed was pain relief.

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00:49:23,471 --> 00:49:28,781

And so for me, that that element of like

working closely with the vets is really

:

00:49:28,781 --> 00:49:31,961

important to how I treat separation cases.

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00:49:31,994 --> 00:49:32,594

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

:

00:49:32,741 --> 00:49:35,141

Rachel - Nose to Trail: sometimes it

takes a bit of digging and sometimes we

:

00:49:35,141 --> 00:49:39,131

just, we don't know because there's no

bump, there's no break, there's no limp.

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00:49:39,431 --> 00:49:42,491

And it can be quite hard to find out

if there is a health thing going on.

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00:49:42,491 --> 00:49:43,571

But sometimes there is.

:

00:49:43,901 --> 00:49:47,441

And so we've, we've gotta be mindful,

and that's always a red flag for me if

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00:49:47,441 --> 00:49:52,001

someone's dog has been fine for years

and then develops separation anxiety

:

00:49:52,001 --> 00:49:56,591

around age eight when we know 80% of

dogs at that age have got arthritis.

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00:49:56,801 --> 00:49:58,091

So I start to be like.

:

00:49:58,691 --> 00:49:59,591

This is a bit weird.

:

00:49:59,591 --> 00:50:02,831

Why have all of a sudden we've got an

issue, oh and now he doesn't like puppies.

:

00:50:03,041 --> 00:50:07,211

Now we won't get in the car and you start

to piece together all of these issues.

:

00:50:07,421 --> 00:50:10,391

But the one they've come to us for

help with is separation issues.

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00:50:10,391 --> 00:50:12,041

'cause it impacts the human's life.

:

00:50:12,254 --> 00:50:12,434

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It

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00:50:12,551 --> 00:50:13,631

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Whereas

the others, they're just like,

:

00:50:13,631 --> 00:50:15,551

oh, he is getting annoying

on walks, but he's managed.

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00:50:15,551 --> 00:50:16,481

But I can deal with it.

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00:50:16,751 --> 00:50:18,461

Actually, that's the

dog going, I need help.

:

00:50:18,464 --> 00:50:18,644

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I

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00:50:18,731 --> 00:50:19,241

Rachel - Nose to Trail: I'm in pain.

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00:50:19,811 --> 00:50:20,741

Help me.

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00:50:21,081 --> 00:50:25,041

So yeah, for me I always start with

that like full health check, really

:

00:50:25,041 --> 00:50:29,091

digging deep with the vet before I do

any kind of separation plan at all.

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00:50:29,184 --> 00:50:29,754

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm.

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00:50:29,904 --> 00:50:30,294

Yeah.

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00:50:30,574 --> 00:50:33,089

And it's good that you said

'cause it's mad how the first

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00:50:33,089 --> 00:50:34,529

vet said there was nothing wrong.

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00:50:35,009 --> 00:50:37,949

So I always do say to one of

my, someone when I, where people

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00:50:37,949 --> 00:50:39,839

get a second opinion, you know,

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00:50:39,956 --> 00:50:40,436

Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah,

:

00:50:40,439 --> 00:50:42,179

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

that with Bailey because of his back,

:

00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:46,649

his chronic back pain, two specialist

places had to get a second opinion.

:

00:50:46,869 --> 00:50:51,614

And it's also worth noting, isn't it,

that you, the pet parent may be able to

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00:50:51,614 --> 00:50:54,104

claim on their insurance for CAB stuff.

:

00:50:54,104 --> 00:50:54,344

So it's

:

00:50:54,521 --> 00:50:54,881

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

:

00:50:55,004 --> 00:50:56,204

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

looking into your insurance, isn't it?

:

00:50:56,891 --> 00:50:58,781

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, if

you've got a fully comprehensive

:

00:50:58,781 --> 00:51:02,741

pet insurance, most of them will

cover complimentary therapies.

:

00:51:02,741 --> 00:51:06,431

So maybe behaviour, maybe hydrotherapy

or physiotherapy and things like that.

:

00:51:06,431 --> 00:51:08,231

So definitely worth people checking.

:

00:51:08,451 --> 00:51:12,651

And because I am on that A BTC

register, that is the accreditations

:

00:51:12,651 --> 00:51:14,331

you need for a pet insurance.

:

00:51:14,331 --> 00:51:18,411

If they can cover behaviour with a group

of people, they're going to pay out for,

:

00:51:18,621 --> 00:51:23,061

because we are rigorously assessed and

they know we are not going to stick any

:

00:51:23,061 --> 00:51:26,841

horrible aversive methods on a dog to

get them over their separation issue.

:

00:51:27,084 --> 00:51:27,684

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

that's it.

:

00:51:27,774 --> 00:51:28,224

Brilliant.

:

00:51:28,504 --> 00:51:31,974

Why, this is a good point actually

talking about I always get confused.

:

00:51:31,974 --> 00:51:33,114

A BTC or

:

00:51:33,441 --> 00:51:33,921

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Oh, I know.

:

00:51:33,921 --> 00:51:34,131

Yeah.

:

00:51:34,131 --> 00:51:37,256

If we can't remember them, how, how

is general public ever gonna know?

:

00:51:37,539 --> 00:51:39,474

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

there's just so many, like, you know.

:

00:51:39,724 --> 00:51:45,484

So why is it so important to

work with a certified separation

:

00:51:45,484 --> 00:51:50,164

anxiety professional or a, a, a

cab, a clinical animal behaviours?

:

00:51:50,164 --> 00:51:50,704

Rachel.

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00:51:52,126 --> 00:51:54,721

Rachel - Nose to Trail: I think the

first thing is the myths, isn't it?

:

00:51:54,751 --> 00:51:57,571

There's so much misinformation online.

:

00:51:57,921 --> 00:52:01,821

That will potentially be detrimental

to a dog who has separation issues.

:

00:52:01,821 --> 00:52:06,681

So you need to be working with someone who

knows about separation issues properly,

:

00:52:06,771 --> 00:52:08,571

not just something they found online.

:

00:52:08,801 --> 00:52:13,271

And knows that it is different to most

dog training because for a dog with

:

00:52:13,271 --> 00:52:17,646

separation issues, we are not looking

at the same type of training as we

:

00:52:17,646 --> 00:52:21,971

are when we're asking a dog to do

training, like sit down, stand, stay.

:

00:52:22,241 --> 00:52:23,981

We are not using operant conditioning.

:

00:52:23,981 --> 00:52:27,791

We're typically not using

food at all as a food reward.

:

00:52:28,001 --> 00:52:31,091

Whereas, and I think that's where

maybe some trainers, and I could be

:

00:52:31,091 --> 00:52:34,991

doing people a disservice here, but

that I think is sometimes where people

:

00:52:35,021 --> 00:52:37,271

can struggle with helping a client.

:

00:52:37,561 --> 00:52:41,431

Separation issue because what you

would do for any other problem

:

00:52:41,551 --> 00:52:43,141

doesn't work with separation.

:

00:52:43,231 --> 00:52:46,981

'cause you are not there to reward,

you are not there to go Yes.

:

00:52:46,981 --> 00:52:48,001

And have a biscuit.

:

00:52:48,211 --> 00:52:50,731

Like you can't do that

in a separation case.

:

00:52:51,121 --> 00:52:54,811

And also we have to work at that

threshold of the individual dog.

:

00:52:54,811 --> 00:52:56,611

So we do need tech.

:

00:52:56,821 --> 00:52:57,931

We do need cameras.

:

00:52:57,931 --> 00:53:01,531

We need to be able to see what that

dog is doing when we are not there.

:

00:53:01,981 --> 00:53:04,861

And again, tech for some

people just isn't their thing.

:

00:53:04,861 --> 00:53:08,221

They want to be out with a dog on a

lead with toys and treats in a field and

:

00:53:08,221 --> 00:53:11,881

doing training like that, which is great,

you know, and it's not for everybody.

:

00:53:12,281 --> 00:53:16,991

But the other thing for me is you

wanna be working with someone who is

:

00:53:16,991 --> 00:53:20,012

appropriately trained, whether it's

a clinical animal behaviourist, a vet

:

00:53:20,072 --> 00:53:24,431

behaviourist, or one of Julie's team

who's been trained in separation because.

:

00:53:25,021 --> 00:53:28,771

If we look at trainers, if we just

go on Google and we type in dog

:

00:53:28,771 --> 00:53:33,331

trainer to help a separation issue,

what I find in my local area, 'cause

:

00:53:33,331 --> 00:53:37,681

a lot of my clients have been to

these trainers before they come to me

:

00:53:37,904 --> 00:53:38,194

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

:

00:53:38,341 --> 00:53:40,561

Rachel - Nose to Trail: because they

do great advertising and they, they

:

00:53:40,561 --> 00:53:43,681

pay for their position on Google to be

higher ranked and all of these things

:

00:53:43,681 --> 00:53:47,551

that you paid for marketing and they

look great and they've got millions of

:

00:53:47,551 --> 00:53:52,141

followers on social media and they look

fantastic, but they will use aversive

:

00:53:52,141 --> 00:53:57,391

methods and they treat the symptom.

:

00:53:57,451 --> 00:54:01,741

So the problem the dog is displaying,

let's go with vocalization

:

00:54:01,801 --> 00:54:02,636

because I have an example.

:

00:54:03,466 --> 00:54:04,696

Of where this has happened.

:

00:54:05,206 --> 00:54:07,216

So they will come in and

go, what's the problem?

:

00:54:07,336 --> 00:54:09,706

Oh, the problem is the dog

barks when I'm outta the house.

:

00:54:10,006 --> 00:54:12,976

So they go, right, well, your neighbors

are complaining you don't like it.

:

00:54:12,976 --> 00:54:14,476

Let's stop the dog barking.

:

00:54:14,926 --> 00:54:19,096

And how they might do that is

they'll stick an eco on the dog.

:

00:54:19,396 --> 00:54:22,666

They'll go out the house with the

owner or the pet guardian, however

:

00:54:22,666 --> 00:54:23,806

you wanna refer to yourself.

:

00:54:24,016 --> 00:54:27,166

And as soon as the dog barks, they

electrocute the dog and they zap it.

:

00:54:27,856 --> 00:54:28,276

Okay?

:

00:54:28,546 --> 00:54:32,876

And I don't know what terminology

they might be using, a correction,

:

00:54:33,086 --> 00:54:34,256

whatever they want to call it.

:

00:54:34,286 --> 00:54:35,366

Oh, it's not that bad.

:

00:54:35,366 --> 00:54:36,416

It's not that awful.

:

00:54:37,166 --> 00:54:42,146

It works in a sense of, it stops the

dog barking because the dog goes, when

:

00:54:42,146 --> 00:54:44,066

I bark, this horrible thing happens.

:

00:54:44,186 --> 00:54:44,456

Okay?

:

00:54:44,456 --> 00:54:47,336

That's the whole reason punishment

works, is because it's unpleasant.

:

00:54:47,336 --> 00:54:50,036

So yes, it's unpleasant for the dog,

otherwise it wouldn't be working.

:

00:54:50,496 --> 00:54:53,106

But then what happens typically is.

:

00:54:53,436 --> 00:54:55,956

The owner can't do that,

so it's not consistent.

:

00:54:55,956 --> 00:54:58,626

'cause if they're at work, they're

not hearing the dog bark, so

:

00:54:58,626 --> 00:55:02,676

they're not using the eco and it

gets worse and worse and worse.

:

00:55:02,946 --> 00:55:07,896

Or the dog then actually still hates

being alone, is still afraid of being

:

00:55:07,896 --> 00:55:11,706

on its own, but is now even more

afraid because actually gets hurt

:

00:55:11,706 --> 00:55:13,206

every time the owner leaves the house.

:

00:55:13,446 --> 00:55:18,696

And so our separation problem gets

worse and now we'll destroy the couch

:

00:55:18,696 --> 00:55:21,276

or we'll rip the skirt and board

off, or I've chewed through the door.

:

00:55:21,906 --> 00:55:25,626

Or in one of the cases that I worked with,

the dog started blocking the humans from

:

00:55:25,626 --> 00:55:28,746

leaving in the morning and biting them

when they tried to go over the threshold

:

00:55:28,956 --> 00:55:30,666

because he was so scared of being left.

:

00:55:30,666 --> 00:55:32,826

He was jumping up and, and

physically biting them.

:

00:55:33,846 --> 00:55:39,156

So for me, like we have to understand

that a dog who doesn't like being left is

:

00:55:39,156 --> 00:55:41,856

struggling typically with anxiety or fear.

:

00:55:42,066 --> 00:55:44,586

Some cases me and you know, are

frustration based, but either

:

00:55:44,586 --> 00:55:45,756

way it's not a good emotion.

:

00:55:45,936 --> 00:55:48,696

The dog isn't feeling

nice about being left.

:

00:55:48,696 --> 00:55:50,916

If they were, we wouldn't have an issue.

:

00:55:51,096 --> 00:55:53,076

If they were happy to be left,

we wouldn't have an issue.

:

00:55:53,076 --> 00:55:55,716

So they're not happy about being left.

:

00:55:55,956 --> 00:56:01,236

So adding something unpleasant into

that situation is only going to

:

00:56:01,236 --> 00:56:03,006

make that a million times worse.

:

00:56:03,066 --> 00:56:06,576

So a very long answer, Nathan, sorry.

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00:56:06,876 --> 00:56:09,966

As to why you need to do it with a

professional, but ultimately because

:

00:56:09,966 --> 00:56:12,846

if you are not working with someone who

knows what they're doing on separation,

:

00:56:12,876 --> 00:56:14,406

you could just be making it worse.

:

00:56:15,234 --> 00:56:15,534

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.

:

00:56:15,594 --> 00:56:16,374

No, I love that.

:

00:56:16,626 --> 00:56:17,436

Rachel - Nose to Trail:

It's gonna take longer.

:

00:56:18,264 --> 00:56:18,864

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It is.

:

00:56:18,864 --> 00:56:19,104

Yeah.

:

00:56:19,104 --> 00:56:22,954

And it, it's quite a lengthy

thing anyway, so no, I love that.

:

00:56:22,954 --> 00:56:23,284

Thank you.

:

00:56:23,284 --> 00:56:27,824

So just moving on to our final section

now which is just about the guardian

:

00:56:27,824 --> 00:56:30,314

emotions and the rescue realities.

:

00:56:30,494 --> 00:56:34,004

So many rescue dog guardians

feel overwhelmed or like they're

:

00:56:34,004 --> 00:56:38,114

failing, but how can we help them

reframe that experience, Rachel?

:

00:56:38,841 --> 00:56:41,751

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah,

I think peer support is really

:

00:56:41,811 --> 00:56:43,281

helpful in those situations.

:

00:56:43,281 --> 00:56:48,091

So I know the Julie Naismith way of

training that she's got great Facebook

:

00:56:48,091 --> 00:56:51,211

groups with thousands of dog owners

who've struggled with separation,

:

00:56:51,211 --> 00:56:55,831

and I think that's really important

because while they're free for one, but

:

00:56:55,831 --> 00:56:59,011

you can go in there, you can see that

other people have been through what

:

00:56:59,011 --> 00:57:00,391

you've been through and got over it.

:

00:57:00,639 --> 00:57:00,929

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

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00:57:01,351 --> 00:57:02,551

Rachel - Nose to Trail:

but also smaller groups.

:

00:57:02,551 --> 00:57:03,751

So like I have a membership.

:

00:57:04,276 --> 00:57:07,696

For nose to trail and we have

like our own Facebook page and,

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00:57:07,701 --> 00:57:08,806

and WhatsApp group and stuff.

:

00:57:08,806 --> 00:57:12,046

It's a little community and they

rally around and they help each other.

:

00:57:12,256 --> 00:57:15,886

But you can also like potentially

find another person who's got a dog

:

00:57:15,886 --> 00:57:19,036

with separation in your area and you

can help each other out because it

:

00:57:19,036 --> 00:57:21,136

can end up being expensive as well.

:

00:57:21,556 --> 00:57:25,516

You know, hiring a dog sitter and stuff if

you don't have family and friends nearby.

:

00:57:25,516 --> 00:57:29,536

And a lot of people don't, where I

live, like we're, we are really rural,

:

00:57:29,536 --> 00:57:32,206

so a lot of people are here, are

here for work for whatever reason.

:

00:57:32,576 --> 00:57:35,756

And they may be all, you know, on

their own doing this, but if you can

:

00:57:35,756 --> 00:57:39,026

pair them up and if the dogs are okay

with each other, you can take it in

:

00:57:39,026 --> 00:57:40,856

turns, you can have some time off.

:

00:57:41,126 --> 00:57:43,466

And I think that's

really important because.

:

00:57:43,816 --> 00:57:47,656

Caregiver fatigue is strong in

separation anxiety cases, and you

:

00:57:47,656 --> 00:57:49,186

need to give yourself a break.

:

00:57:49,456 --> 00:57:52,396

I'm actually going to a spa tomorrow

and having a break from the puppy.

:

00:57:52,396 --> 00:57:53,026

Can't wait.

:

00:57:53,416 --> 00:57:56,386

But the, you need, you need that support.

:

00:57:56,386 --> 00:57:59,566

So I think peer support's really

important and success stories are

:

00:57:59,566 --> 00:58:03,736

really important because I think it

can feel like you're getting nowhere

:

00:58:03,799 --> 00:58:04,279

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.

:

00:58:04,546 --> 00:58:06,766

Rachel - Nose to Trail: that you're

gonna be stuck in this rut forever.

:

00:58:06,976 --> 00:58:09,976

So seeing people who've been through it

and come out the other side, I think can

:

00:58:09,976 --> 00:58:14,506

be that little bit of ray of hope that

we sometimes need in a separation case.

:

00:58:14,794 --> 00:58:15,304

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Brilliant.

:

00:58:15,554 --> 00:58:19,604

What would be your advice to someone who's

adopted a dog and is now realizing it's

:

00:58:19,604 --> 00:58:21,944

a more complex case than they expected?

:

00:58:22,856 --> 00:58:23,186

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

:

00:58:23,516 --> 00:58:25,046

Get help from someone.

:

00:58:25,106 --> 00:58:26,696

Do not do it on your own.

:

00:58:26,966 --> 00:58:27,206

Okay.

:

00:58:27,236 --> 00:58:30,446

And definitely give yourself

those breaks, like find ways,

:

00:58:30,476 --> 00:58:33,176

get dog sitters paid for or not.

:

00:58:33,416 --> 00:58:34,676

And the more kind of.

:

00:58:35,096 --> 00:58:39,206

Babysitters or whoever it is that

you have on board, the less you

:

00:58:39,206 --> 00:58:43,166

are gonna feel like you are asking

too much of one individual person.

:

00:58:43,399 --> 00:58:43,689

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.

:

00:58:43,796 --> 00:58:45,836

Rachel - Nose to Trail: you've got

only like two people you ask, you're

:

00:58:45,836 --> 00:58:47,066

gonna feel like, oh, I can't ask them.

:

00:58:47,066 --> 00:58:48,896

I asked them last week, I can't ask them.

:

00:58:48,986 --> 00:58:50,096

They were only here the other night.

:

00:58:50,396 --> 00:58:55,316

But if you've got a bigger group

of people who your dog can bond

:

00:58:55,316 --> 00:58:58,256

with and who can sit with your dog,

and that's so important, isn't it?

:

00:58:58,256 --> 00:59:01,916

Because actually if your dog

doesn't enjoy their company,

:

00:59:02,186 --> 00:59:03,836

they may as well be on their own.

:

00:59:03,986 --> 00:59:06,326

'cause they're still gonna go

above threshold when they're left.

:

00:59:06,326 --> 00:59:09,536

So they need to be people

that you can form bonds with,

:

00:59:09,726 --> 00:59:10,146

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm-hmm.

:

00:59:10,178 --> 00:59:12,428

Rachel - Nose to Trail: you need to

get those people in place because

:

00:59:12,428 --> 00:59:16,778

you need to have that time off and

to yourself, however you find that.

:

00:59:16,778 --> 00:59:21,693

And don't feel guilty for needing

that because it is so important.

:

00:59:22,421 --> 00:59:23,651

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

You need that support network.

:

00:59:23,651 --> 00:59:26,411

And I think you said obviously you've

got your communities, but I think

:

00:59:26,411 --> 00:59:30,031

Julie's got some as well where you

can like and meet up with someone

:

00:59:30,031 --> 00:59:31,741

at house that's got an sa dog if you

:

00:59:32,053 --> 00:59:32,443

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

:

00:59:32,851 --> 00:59:33,271

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: cover.

:

00:59:33,271 --> 00:59:37,141

And so it's important to get

your, your support network.

:

00:59:37,141 --> 00:59:37,321

Isn't

:

00:59:37,393 --> 00:59:37,693

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

:

00:59:38,113 --> 00:59:41,773

I'm actually in touch with one of the

people who got Pebbles, his brother.

:

00:59:42,271 --> 00:59:43,111

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Oh, cute.

:

00:59:43,963 --> 00:59:46,933

Rachel - Nose to Trail: yeah, Hector,

he is really chunky compared to Pebbles.

:

00:59:47,083 --> 00:59:47,413

Yeah.

:

00:59:47,563 --> 00:59:48,373

Hector and Pebbles.

:

00:59:48,523 --> 00:59:52,783

And so we've already said that like,

you know, when she needs a break, I will

:

00:59:52,783 --> 00:59:57,193

have both the gremlins and when I need

a break, she will have both the gremlins

:

00:59:57,193 --> 01:00:00,193

and we'll just do little play dates, you

know, even if it's only once a month,

:

01:00:00,306 --> 01:00:00,726

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: That's

:

01:00:00,823 --> 01:00:03,163

Rachel - Nose to Trail: of us

will just take both for a day

:

01:00:03,308 --> 01:00:04,723

and, and give the other a break.

:

01:00:04,723 --> 01:00:05,023

So

:

01:00:05,086 --> 01:00:05,506

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: that's

:

01:00:05,563 --> 01:00:07,903

Rachel - Nose to Trail: like

that can be, can be really nice.

:

01:00:07,903 --> 01:00:10,243

Yeah, I'm looking forward to, I'm

looking forward to having both of them

:

01:00:10,243 --> 01:00:12,283

though, just seeing them riot together.

:

01:00:12,631 --> 01:00:14,041

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Hector, I've gotta say that.

:

01:00:14,231 --> 01:00:17,561

How can we better prepare or

support people adopting rescue

:

01:00:17,561 --> 01:00:19,781

dogs with potential SA issues?

:

01:00:19,781 --> 01:00:20,321

Rachel?

:

01:00:20,933 --> 01:00:24,023

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah, I think,

and I, I feel bad for saying this because

:

01:00:24,023 --> 01:00:28,103

I don't want to come across like I'm SLA

in vets and SLA in rescue centers, but I

:

01:00:28,103 --> 01:00:33,203

think people need to be more honest and

transparent about how difficult it is.

:

01:00:33,773 --> 01:00:38,633

I know that the people working in rescue

have so many pressures and demands on them

:

01:00:38,633 --> 01:00:40,823

that they need to get these dogs home.

:

01:00:41,153 --> 01:00:44,663

They have numbers, they and quotas

they need to hit, and there's a lot

:

01:00:44,663 --> 01:00:47,723

of pressure on, well, you know, until

that dog gets a home, there's another

:

01:00:47,723 --> 01:00:49,283

dog can't go in, and all of that.

:

01:00:49,823 --> 01:00:54,383

But actually a dog with a separation

issue, one of the worst things we

:

01:00:54,383 --> 01:00:58,613

can do is to place that dog in a home

that then they come back within 24

:

01:00:58,613 --> 01:01:04,193

hours or 48 hours or a week later,

and having 7, 8, 9, 10 homes before

:

01:01:04,193 --> 01:01:09,293

it finds a home that are dedicated to

keeping them and working with them is,

:

01:01:09,353 --> 01:01:10,973

is only gonna be to their detriment.

:

01:01:11,243 --> 01:01:17,153

So I think it, it's horrible and it's

sad, but we need to keep explaining

:

01:01:17,153 --> 01:01:18,383

to people how hard it's gonna be.

:

01:01:18,383 --> 01:01:22,763

And we need people to realize the harsh

reality of having a separation dog, that

:

01:01:22,763 --> 01:01:24,833

you can't just carry on life as normal.

:

01:01:24,833 --> 01:01:26,003

You can't leave them.

:

01:01:26,303 --> 01:01:30,023

And I think if you've not had

a separation case and a dog who

:

01:01:30,023 --> 01:01:34,703

struggles with being left, like those

blase comments of just leave them,

:

01:01:34,733 --> 01:01:36,563

they'll get over it, they'll be fine.

:

01:01:36,563 --> 01:01:37,523

It's only a dog.

:

01:01:37,631 --> 01:01:38,311

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

can make it worse.

:

01:01:39,293 --> 01:01:39,773

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

:

01:01:39,773 --> 01:01:41,363

And you don't understand.

:

01:01:41,363 --> 01:01:45,953

And you don't, and I think people need

to realize it isn't as easy as that.

:

01:01:45,953 --> 01:01:49,673

If it was, we wouldn't have all of

these people around the world who are

:

01:01:49,673 --> 01:01:52,793

desperate for help and are working

so hard to get their dogs to cope.

:

01:01:53,006 --> 01:01:53,096

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: mm

:

01:01:53,483 --> 01:01:54,743

Rachel - Nose to Trail:

But actually it's not.

:

01:01:54,743 --> 01:01:56,783

And you can't, and we've gotta be honest.

:

01:01:56,783 --> 01:01:59,843

We really need to be honest with people

and let them know what they're taking on.

:

01:01:59,963 --> 01:02:00,563

Definitely.

:

01:02:00,896 --> 01:02:01,316

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

definitely.

:

01:02:02,336 --> 01:02:03,266

thank you so much.

:

01:02:03,266 --> 01:02:05,666

We're just gonna spend the

last few minutes wrapping up.

:

01:02:05,666 --> 01:02:06,116

It's been a

:

01:02:06,478 --> 01:02:06,768

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

:

01:02:07,406 --> 01:02:08,006

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: episode.

:

01:02:08,006 --> 01:02:11,431

I know you've gotta get back to Peles, but

I think we're gonna have to get you on.

:

01:02:11,511 --> 01:02:12,456

I feel back on.

:

01:02:12,456 --> 01:02:15,786

I feel like we've just scratched

the surface and there's so much more

:

01:02:15,786 --> 01:02:19,506

we could talk about with the pet

trail, the man trail, and you, you

:

01:02:19,506 --> 01:02:21,156

know, rescue work and behaviour.

:

01:02:21,156 --> 01:02:24,066

I just, yeah, I would love to get

you back on again in the future.

:

01:02:24,466 --> 01:02:30,146

But Rachel if you could share one

truth with every rescue dog, guardian

:

01:02:30,146 --> 01:02:32,606

facing essay, what would it be?

:

01:02:32,606 --> 01:02:33,146

Please?

:

01:02:35,058 --> 01:02:36,053

Rachel - Nose to Trail: That it is hard

:

01:02:36,566 --> 01:02:37,016

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Hmm.

:

01:02:37,163 --> 01:02:41,033

Rachel - Nose to Trail: don't need

to feel ashamed or embarrassed to

:

01:02:41,033 --> 01:02:45,563

admit that they're struggling with it

because it, it really is hard work.

:

01:02:45,683 --> 01:02:46,733

It is exhausting.

:

01:02:46,823 --> 01:02:51,533

It is mentally draining and you

know, it, there's no shame in that.

:

01:02:51,533 --> 01:02:53,378

And I think sometimes

people can feel like.

:

01:02:54,083 --> 01:02:58,253

Maybe guilt or embarrassment

and that they're not coping.

:

01:02:58,613 --> 01:03:02,063

But actually I don't, honestly, I

don't think many people would cope.

:

01:03:02,333 --> 01:03:03,173

I really don't.

:

01:03:03,393 --> 01:03:06,873

You know, given a dog where they're

really struggling and you're coming back

:

01:03:06,873 --> 01:03:10,653

and you could tell they're struggling

and that guilt that you feel, and then

:

01:03:10,653 --> 01:03:14,703

so you don't go out and the the impact

it has on your life, like it is hard.

:

01:03:14,763 --> 01:03:18,903

And so people should just like know

they're not alone and they need to

:

01:03:18,903 --> 01:03:20,733

get some help and support with it.

:

01:03:21,096 --> 01:03:21,516

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Brilliant.

:

01:03:21,516 --> 01:03:23,611

Thank you Rachel Rodgers.

:

01:03:23,726 --> 01:03:25,856

Where can people find out about you now?

:

01:03:26,066 --> 01:03:27,446

I've, I'm really worried now.

:

01:03:27,446 --> 01:03:29,666

I've been thinking this whole

episode that I might have said your

:

01:03:29,666 --> 01:03:34,166

business name wrong, but it's nose

to Trail and I'm really worried that

:

01:03:34,166 --> 01:03:36,056

I said nose to tail so I apologize

:

01:03:36,058 --> 01:03:38,783

Rachel - Nose to Trail: mean, I

didn't wanna call you out on it.

:

01:03:40,491 --> 01:03:42,476

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: And,

and then I'm frantically going through

:

01:03:42,476 --> 01:03:44,126

my notes and think,, I've said the wrong

:

01:03:44,176 --> 01:03:46,281

Rachel - Nose to Trail: have

been many a podcast episode where

:

01:03:46,281 --> 01:03:50,391

I have said it's actually nose

to trail because we do trail.

:

01:03:50,394 --> 01:03:50,604

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: You

:

01:03:50,691 --> 01:03:50,871

Rachel - Nose to Trail: I

:

01:03:51,009 --> 01:03:51,209

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: have,

:

01:03:52,576 --> 01:03:53,146

Rachel - Nose to Trail: just, I

:

01:03:53,844 --> 01:03:54,804

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

you should have, you

:

01:03:54,804 --> 01:03:55,794

should have called me out.

:

01:03:55,824 --> 01:03:59,394

'cause literally, I've literally

just like, I'm dying inside.

:

01:03:59,874 --> 01:04:00,354

But

:

01:04:00,621 --> 01:04:01,251

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Everyone does.

:

01:04:01,551 --> 01:04:02,511

Everyone does it.

:

01:04:02,754 --> 01:04:04,674

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

Rachel, where can people find you?

:

01:04:04,674 --> 01:04:06,174

Follow your work, get support.

:

01:04:06,174 --> 01:04:08,604

If they're navigating this

with their own dog, please.

:

01:04:08,901 --> 01:04:09,291

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

:

01:04:09,291 --> 01:04:12,951

So we're on all socials,

basically on nose to trail.

:

01:04:13,051 --> 01:04:15,391

Sometimes it's nose to trail

pet behaviour services.

:

01:04:15,421 --> 01:04:18,241

'cause somebody stole the

handle I think on Facebook.

:

01:04:18,288 --> 01:04:18,569

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: very

:

01:04:18,621 --> 01:04:20,541

Rachel - Nose to Trail: And even

though I've got trade marked, I'm still

:

01:04:20,541 --> 01:04:22,251

fighting with meta to get it back.

:

01:04:22,491 --> 01:04:25,371

But yeah, you just get nose

to trail in, you'll find us.

:

01:04:25,651 --> 01:04:26,731

Particularly on TikTok.

:

01:04:26,731 --> 01:04:30,271

I'm much more active on TikTok

than I am on other socials.

:

01:04:30,459 --> 01:04:30,749

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay,

:

01:04:31,141 --> 01:04:31,201

Rachel - Nose to Trail: Yeah.

:

01:04:31,804 --> 01:04:34,834

Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Rachel,

thank you so much for joining me on

:

01:04:34,834 --> 01:04:37,594

the Yappy Hour, powered by Yappy today.

:

01:04:37,924 --> 01:04:40,234

I've absolutely loved this conversation.

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Like I said, we'll have to get

you back in the future, but I've

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really enjoyed this conversation.

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Thank you for coming on.

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Rachel - Nose to Trail: Thank

you so much for having me.

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It's been great fun.

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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:

You are most welcome.

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You.

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That was such a grounding and

compassionate conversation

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with Rachel Rodgers.

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Here are a few key takeaways

from today's episode.

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Number one, separation anxiety

is common in rescue dogs,

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but it's not a life sentence.

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With support, structure and patience,

progress is always possible.

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Number two, early routines and

gradual independence are crucial.

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SA support starts from day one, not

once the behaviours have escalated.

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Number three, and most

importantly, it is not your fault.

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SA is a complex, emotional, and

deeply rooted in a dog's past.

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Number four, the human

experience matters too.

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You deserve support just

as much as your dog does.

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Rachel, thank you so much for your

empathy and your wisdom today.

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For anyone wanting to learn more

or work with Rachel Head to.

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nosetotrail.co.uk

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to follow her or follow her

on Facebook at Nose to Trail.

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And if you found this episode helpful,

please subscribe, leave a review,

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and share it with someone who's

supporting a rescue dog through essay.

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This has been the yappy hour,

and I'll see you next time.

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