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245. How to Build a Teacher Wardrobe That Fits Your Life
16th February 2026 • Teacher Approved: Elementary Teacher Tips & Strategies • Heidi and Emily, Elementary School Teacher and Resource Designer
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In this episode, we’re joined by Lindsey from Fashion Fix to rethink the teacher wardrobe from the ground up. We talk about why traditional fashion advice falls flat for educators, how overspending and underbuying leads to closet frustration, and why understanding your body shape and personal style matters more than chasing trends. Lindsey shares a confidence-centered, practical approach to building a wardrobe that works for real teacher life.

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Heidi:

This is episode 245 of Teacher Approved.

Heidi:

You're listening to Teacher Approved, the podcast helping

Heidi:

educators elevate what matters and simplify the rest. I'm

Heidi:

Heidi.

Emily:

And I'm Emily. We're the creators behind Second Story

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Window, where we give research based and teacher approved

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strategies that make teaching less stressful and more

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effective. You can check out the show notes and resources from

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each episode at secondstorywindow.net.

Heidi:

We're so glad you're tuning in today. Let's get to

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the show.

Emily:

Hey there. Thanks for joining us today. In today's

Emily:

episode, we're joined by our friend Lindsey, the owner and

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senior stylist at Fashion Fix, to talk about a fresh way for

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teachers to approach their wardrobes, and we've got a

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teacher approved tip for looking good on school spirit days.

Heidi:

But first, let's start with try it tomorrow, where we

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share a quick win that you can try right away. Emily, what do

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we have for this week?

Emily:

This week, give each student a couple of sticky notes

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and ask them to write down what they'd like to hear on a hard

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day. Maybe it's, you can do hard things, or I believe in myself.

Emily:

Once they're done, collect all the notes and tuck them away.

Emily:

Then when you notice a student having a rough moment or just

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needing a boost, you can pull out their own words and hand

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them back.

Heidi:

I love this because there's just something really

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powerful about getting encouragement in your own words.

Heidi:

And if you want to try this, I promise you can eliminate a lot

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of blank stares and the I don't know what to write comments, if

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you spend a minute having class brainstorm message ideas first.

Heidi:

Maybe you even want to write them on the whiteboard, and that

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way you're helping them put some actual thought into what they

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write, instead of just writing down whatever.

Emily:

I love when you can find a win that's so powerful but so

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simple to implement. In about five minutes, you've got a whole

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stash of personalized pick me ups ready to go whenever you

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need them. Just double check that everyone remembered to

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write their name on their notes.

Heidi:

Yeah, the eternal struggle. If you like this idea

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or anything else we share here on the podcast, would you take a

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second and give us a five star rating? Ratings and reviews are

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one way that new listeners find us, so every rating and review

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really is a huge help to us.

Emily:

Today, we're so excited because we are joined by our

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friend Lindsey, who is the owner and senior stylist at Fashion

Emily:

Fix to talk about a fresh way for teachers to approach their

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wardrobes. And as a mom of three, Lindsey's body, weight,

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and lifestyle have all changed many times over the years. She

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knows that style has no size and confidence comes in all shapes.

Heidi:

Lindsey has helped women of every age, stage, shape and

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size, build a versatile and functional wardrobe that they

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love. You don't need a lot of clothes to have a lot of wear.

Heidi:

You just need the right tools and planning to have a closet

Heidi:

full of clothes that make you feel comfortable and confident.

Emily:

Lindsay, we're so happy to have you with us today.

Emily:

Welcome.

Lindsey:

Yay. I'm so excited that I get to have like, an act

Lindsey:

two after getting to participate in the Teacher Winter Talks. I

Lindsey:

was like, oh my gosh, this is such, like a bonus. Like, I get

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to come back again!

Heidi:

And your session was so powerful and inspiring, like,

Heidi:

it's, I've approached my closet in such a different way in those

Heidi:

two weeks since you taught. Like, it's totally shifted.

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I genuinely had, like, takeaways of like, wow, I had

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never thought about that before.

Lindsey:

Good, well, you know, I really try, you know, especially

Lindsey:

when I'm presenting, which is just all the time, because I'm

Lindsey:

always talking to people from all over the world, right,

Lindsey:

whether it's on Instagram or we're doing, you know, when I

Lindsey:

talk to your teacher group, you know, nobody is living the same

Lindsey:

life. Nobody's going to have the same wardrobe.

Lindsey:

And so when we're talking about these ideas on how to build a

Lindsey:

wardrobe that feels good, that is fun, that is authentic to

Lindsey:

you, you just, you can't have the advice of everybody should

Lindsey:

have this thing. Everybody should have that thing. Because

Lindsey:

this thing and that thing, like, is, it might not make sense for

Lindsey:

certain people. So really like being able to approach the idea

Lindsey:

of like, what are the practices that you want to put into place

Lindsey:

with your wardrobe, and what is sort of the tools to build a

Lindsey:

wardrobe that is good, specifically for you. So that

Lindsey:

everyone, no matter where you're living, no matter what your

Lindsey:

lifestyle looks like, you walk away with application.

Heidi:

That is such an empowering reframe of how we're

Heidi:

normally taught to consume fashion. Like, I am not a little

Heidi:

black dress person. Like, that's not my lifestyle. But I've

Heidi:

always felt like, well, fashion doesn't apply to my life,

Heidi:

because I'm not that way.

Lindsey:

Oh my gosh. I wish, I mean, like, I'm gonna have to,

Lindsey:

like, steal that audio clip from you, because I just feel like

Lindsey:

that is 100% one of the biggest, I would say, drivers behind

Lindsey:

Fashion Fix, is there's been so many barriers for women, whether

Lindsey:

they are real or they make up and manifest themselves. Right?

Lindsey:

Or they're the barriers are put upon them by other people,

Lindsey:

right? Like social narratives or, you know, things like that,

Lindsey:

that make women feel that's not for me. I can't be cute. I can't

Lindsey:

dress cute, you know, like, I just don't get it. I must not be

Lindsey:

fashionable.

Lindsey:

And it's because we are looking at and comparing ourselves to a

Lindsey:

standard or to an example that isn't meant for us, that's not,

Lindsey:

you know, that's not relatable for us. And so then we

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automatically just take ourselves out of the

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conversation. And then that goes down the path of women feeling

Lindsey:

invalidated, feeling, you know, they don't, like they should

Lindsey:

just kind of, they don't take care of themselves because they

Lindsey:

don't feel like, well, if I can't fit into this exact

Lindsey:

picture of what it should look like then I'm not gonna do

Lindsey:

anything at all. It just goes into a whole thing. I could go

Lindsey:

on my soapbox forever, just a whole thing of like, you know,

Lindsey:

again, how we value ourselves, how we value what we do, who we

Lindsey:

are. It just, the whole thing, the whole thing.

Heidi:

Yes, we're spending so much money trying to, like, fit

Heidi:

this mold you're taught, and you're like, this doesn't work

Heidi:

with my life, it doesn't work with my body, like, and then now

Heidi:

I have nothing to wear, but I'm also broke.

Lindsey:

Yes, yes, exactly. I mean, we talk, we call it

Lindsey:

overspending and under buying. That's kind of the frame, the

Lindsey:

phrase that I use with clients is like helping you not like,

Lindsey:

when you overspend. So you you've spent so much time and

Lindsey:

money on these things in your wardrobe, but you actually under

Lindsey:

bought, because the things that you purchased aren't adding the

Lindsey:

value to your wardrobe that you hope them to. And so that's what

Lindsey:

we call that. We call it overspending and under buying.

Heidi:

Yeah, I've lived that.

Emily:

I mean, I think all women can can relate to this to an

Emily:

extent, but especially our teacher audience. I feel like

Emily:

this is such a relatable problem to hear about of like, I just

Emily:

don't even know what to wear every day. And you default to

Emily:

whatever's easy, and you and you and you may not feel comfortable

Emily:

in it, but it's just, it's whatever is easy. And that's why

Emily:

I love your approach so much. So do you want to tell us a little

Emily:

bit more about Fashion Fix and how you started?

Lindsey:

Yeah, I know we kind of just jumped into the deep end.

Lindsey:

So for anybody that's unfamiliar with Fashion Fix, we'll try to

Lindsey:

catch you up here, because we, like, already, like went into

Lindsey:

it. But Fashion Fix was started 12, 13 years ago, something like

Lindsey:

that, and it came after a long career that I had working with

Lindsey:

national retail brands. So you know, for about a decade, I

Lindsey:

worked for many different companies and stores as a

Lindsey:

personal shopper or in like management positions teaching

Lindsey:

other people how to work with clients, and how to do personal

Lindsey:

shopping and styling and all of this kind of stuff.

Lindsey:

So I did that for a long time, and I kind of sort of had a

Lindsey:

pinnacle moment where it wasn't fitting for me anymore, like the

Lindsey:

dots weren't connecting, and I was not thriving in the position

Lindsey:

that I had. And I had all of this experience with clients,

Lindsey:

and looking at this idea that, you know, we were working with

Lindsey:

them in the store, and then we were sending them home, but they

Lindsey:

were kind of coming back every time with the same struggles and

Lindsey:

the same, I would say, roadblocks or barriers in the

Lindsey:

wardrobe, and being able to feel like they really had a complete

Lindsey:

wardrobe, or a wardrobe that was functional or versatile for

Lindsey:

them. And it's Like, well, we're sending you home with stuff

Lindsey:

every month, like, what's going on?

Lindsey:

And so just really kind of starting to think about, like,

Lindsey:

what's that disconnect that's happening between women shopping

Lindsey:

in stores or shopping online, then getting home to their

Lindsey:

closet, and what's happening there? Like, in between, where

Lindsey:

is that disconnect? And that is where Fashion Fix was really

Lindsey:

born out of, was that idea of like, okay, let's let's bridge

Lindsey:

that gap. Let's create some tools, some resources, some help

Lindsey:

and support, so that women are more empowered with their

Lindsey:

wardrobe when they go home with it, rather than feeling defeated

Lindsey:

or again, they've overspent, under bought, like they're still

Lindsey:

not hitting the target.

Lindsey:

And that's kind of where Fashion Fix really came out of, right,

Lindsey:

is like, let's give more empowerment in that in between

Lindsey:

space between shopping and getting home with your wardrobe.

Lindsey:

So it's gone through many iterations over the years. You

Lindsey:

know, just even as like, the landscape of shopping and

Lindsey:

fashion and and influencing and you know, all like, things going

Lindsey:

virtual and digital, and the way that we can connect with

Lindsey:

customers from all over the, you know, world now, rather than

Lindsey:

just like local, which is really where it started. I only worked

Lindsey:

in person with people, and now it's quite the opposite. Like we

Lindsey:

pretty much only virtually work with clients. And rarely am I,

Lindsey:

you know, working with somebody in person.

Lindsey:

I live, like, I can look out my window and I can see the Mall of

Lindsey:

America out my window, and so I used to do personal shopping

Lindsey:

appointments at the Mall of America. And like, you know,

Lindsey:

that's just like such a thing in the past, because we're

Lindsey:

servicing people literally from all over the world.

Lindsey:

So it's taken a lot of different iterations, but the one thing

Lindsey:

that has maintained and stayed the same since day. One is the

Lindsey:

mission I remember sitting on my couch in my cute little

Lindsey:

bachelorette apartment in the Twin Cities where I live, and

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like, you know, pen and paper and writing it out, and I wrote

Lindsey:

down this mission statement, and not a single word of it has

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changed since day one, which is to empower women and build

Lindsey:

confidence through a productive and style wardrobe.

Lindsey:

And so even though we've gone through a lot of iterations of

Lindsey:

services, we offer, products, we offer, how we work with clients,

Lindsey:

everything has continued to be filtered through that mission

Lindsey:

statement, so that we know that we're still aligning what we're

Lindsey:

doing with what we believe in. And that goes from everything

Lindsey:

from, again, what we offer, how we price things, the language we

Lindsey:

use inside of our products and on our website, and, you know,

Lindsey:

on our different social media platforms. Like, how is that

Lindsey:

mission being accomplished through this? And that's

Lindsey:

something that has just stayed strong this whole time.

Lindsey:

So, you know, that's kind of how we got to where we are, and now

Lindsey:

we're even going on like another segment of the journey. You

Lindsey:

know, this year, we're really focusing a lot on not only

Lindsey:

helping women with, you know, what's in their closet, but

Lindsey:

their relationship with what's in their closet too, and really

Lindsey:

taking, you know, even more of that holistic approach to how

Lindsey:

we're helping women with their wardrobes.

Emily:

Well, and I imagine that was informed by your personal

Emily:

journey with your body and your wardrobe, which is what really

Emily:

drew me to you, what you've shared about that, because I

Emily:

find it so relatable. Do you want to tell us a little bit

Emily:

about that?

Lindsey:

Yeah. So, like I said, I had this really long, you

Lindsey:

know, this career working in retail, which means I had access

Lindsey:

to a lot of fashion and shopping and at a discount, which was

Lindsey:

great. So, you know, I loved to shop. I loved to have fun with

Lindsey:

my wardrobe. Also, at this time in my life, I was single, you

Lindsey:

know, hadn't had any kids yet at this point. So it's like, your

Lindsey:

girl was like, living the dream, right, living the dream.

Lindsey:

And my life has taken so many different turns, and I've been

Lindsey:

put into so many different positions over, you know, the

Lindsey:

past 12, 15 years, from going to being, you know, single, no

Lindsey:

kids, working in retail, having access to a lot of things, to

Lindsey:

getting married and getting pregnant and not working full

Lindsey:

time anymore, and having my budget change and having my

Lindsey:

access change, and having my body change and having my

Lindsey:

lifestyle change. You know, my wardrobe looked one way, and it

Lindsey:

was so fun and it was so whimsical, because I was going

Lindsey:

out to work every day, and I was doing all these things and that.

Lindsey:

And then my life changed to staying home every day, full

Lindsey:

time. And then it kind of went to, you know, like 50/50, and

Lindsey:

that, you know, like it just sort of has taken so many

Lindsey:

different turns.

Lindsey:

And not only in the past 10 or 15 years, all the different

Lindsey:

turns my life has taken, there was also that life beforehand,

Lindsey:

of navigating, you know, messaging about what my body

Lindsey:

should look like versus what it does look like, and messaging

Lindsey:

about what I should be wearing because it's trendy or because

Lindsey:

it's this, or because of whatever, versus like what I

Lindsey:

could afford to wear or want to wear, or what I had access to

Lindsey:

wear. So it was like there was also that whole pre-experience.

Lindsey:

And so looking at that full scope of what I've gone through,

Lindsey:

you know, even from a teenager to a 45 year old woman, is part

Lindsey:

of what has helped me shape Fashion Fix, my experiences,

Lindsey:

what I've gone through. And what also has been really neat about

Lindsey:

that is we've created this sort of niche space that is a nice

Lindsey:

soft landing space for women that find themselves struggling

Lindsey:

with their wardrobe, struggling with their clothes, or their

Lindsey:

body because of difficult things like body dysmorphia or

Lindsey:

disordered eating or medical experience that has changed

Lindsey:

their bodies, all of those different things.

Lindsey:

There is nothing any fashion fix client could come to us and

Lindsey:

share with us about what they have or our experience that

Lindsey:

would, you know, make us be like, Oh, I don't know. Can we,

Lindsey:

you know, I don't know how to approach this or handle this, or

Lindsey:

kind of feel taken off, off guard by it, or taken aback by

Lindsey:

it. Like, we have seen it all. We've worked with so many women

Lindsey:

with different walks of life, and it's, it is something that

Lindsey:

I'm really proud of. Because of my experience, I've been able to

Lindsey:

train and coach my team on that, and then we are able to work

Lindsey:

with clients really well in that space, too.

Emily:

And I think teachers have gone through a lot of those

Emily:

different, those same body changes you were talking about.

Emily:

But also I know in my experience, and then the

Emily:

teachers that I know, a lot of them, go through those body

Emily:

changes because of teaching, because you're stressed out,

Emily:

you're at school, you're not able to eat as healthy. And, you

Emily:

know, just all these things.

Heidi:

And you're so tired that like going to the gym.

Emily:

Yes, yes, all these ways that impact your body. So I know

Emily:

our teacher audience will relate to those experiences that you've

Emily:

had.

Lindsey:

Yeah.

Heidi:

So I one thing I really like about your approach is that

Heidi:

you, the first step with you is not to jump in and buy more.

Heidi:

Like you're not pushing people to suddenly buy a lot of new

Heidi:

stuff, but you're also like helping them figure out what

Heidi:

they do need to get that's like a counter cultural messaging.

Heidi:

Can you tell us more about that approach?

Lindsey:

Yes. Okay, so oftentimes, when there is an

Lindsey:

approach to revamping your wardrobe, make you know, New

Lindsey:

Year, New You, better wardrobe. It always starts with like,

Lindsey:

let's get out your closet and get rid of all these things and

Lindsey:

buy all these new things. We're actually like, editing at your

Lindsey:

closet and shopping in our process does not come till step

Lindsey:

like, three or four, like it is way down the line. We don't even

Lindsey:

start there. Because my hope is not just to put a band aid over

Lindsey:

something or give you like a quick fix with your wardrobe,

Lindsey:

but really help you feel educated and empowered with what

Lindsey:

is going to be best in your wardrobe. Because this is

Lindsey:

really, like, the counter, like, cultural thing with fashion and

Lindsey:

styling that I say, and that's there are better things to spend

Lindsey:

your time and money on than clothes.

Heidi:

Yes.

Emily:

Yeah.

Lindsey:

How can you say that as a stylist and, like, all this

Lindsey:

stuff? And I was like, Well, let me explain this. This is kind of

Lindsey:

the goal. So we actually start in the process with a body shape

Lindsey:

analysis, and then after that, step two would be a style

Lindsey:

analysis. Because I don't want a client or anyone listening to be

Lindsey:

like, Okay, I'm going to start dressing better. I'm going to

Lindsey:

start, like, wearing clothes that are more fun and feel more

Lindsey:

trendy, so that I'm not frumpy. So then you just, you know, look

Lindsey:

at whatever's on the mannequin, or what people are wearing on

Lindsey:

Instagram or on Pinterest, and you go and, like, buy all that

Lindsey:

stuff, right? You think, like, yes, this is gonna be, I'm gonna

Lindsey:

do this, so this is gonna be so great.

Lindsey:

And then you bring that stuff home, and it does not fit you

Lindsey:

the same way that it fit that person on social media.

Emily:

Oh, yeah.

Lindsey:

Or that outfit that you saw completely put together on a

Lindsey:

mannequin, when you put it on, it feels like a costume, like it

Lindsey:

feels like you're dressing up as somebody else. So that's why

Lindsey:

going out and just buying a bunch of stuff that feels fun

Lindsey:

and new and trendy, and you're gonna, you're gonna just, you

Lindsey:

know, start dressing that way, that is not going to get you to

Lindsey:

a place of feeling comfortable and confident in your clothes.

Lindsey:

So we start with, Okay, now this piece that you see, the shirt

Lindsey:

that you see on that person on Instagram, right? It fits them

Lindsey:

well, because this is their body shape, and this is the way that

Lindsey:

that shirt is cut. Your body shape is not that. Your body

Lindsey:

shape is this, so you want to wear shirts that are cut this

Lindsey:

way instead.

Lindsey:

So we teach women, okay, you know, you're seeing these things

Lindsey:

on social media, on mannequins, you know, in stores or wherever

Lindsey:

it might be, in magazines, and giving them the tool to say,

Lindsey:

okay, that's not going to work for me. So I'm, I'm not going to

Lindsey:

chase that one, right? I'm not going to go after buying that

Lindsey:

shirt. We start to teach them, these are the cuts, these are

Lindsey:

the fits that are going to be the most complimentary on your

Lindsey:

body shape and feel the most comfortable to wear. So we start

Lindsey:

with that education piece.

Lindsey:

Then the second education piece is the style. So understanding

Lindsey:

what each individual's personal style profile is, and really

Lindsey:

helping them navigate and understand that. Like, you know,

Lindsey:

these are words we would use to describe your style, and these

Lindsey:

are examples of what those words mean, like picture examples of

Lindsey:

that, giving them different ideas. Because that's what

Lindsey:

happened, we want you to feel really empowered with that,

Lindsey:

because it's when you buy that whole outfit as it's put

Lindsey:

together on a you know, mannequin, and you wear it, it

Lindsey:

feels like a costume, right? Instead of something that's

Lindsey:

like, that's because it's not your style. Maybe that pattern,

Lindsey:

that print, that way of mixing and matching things together,

Lindsey:

isn't authentic for your style so it just feels like you're

Lindsey:

playing dress up.

Lindsey:

So we want you to be able to say, oh, okay, oh, I'm seeing

Lindsey:

this outfit on here, and oh, those patterns really work for

Lindsey:

my style profile, or those details really work for my style

Lindsey:

profile. That is great. Now we're getting more value driven

Lindsey:

purchases for your wardrobe. So we start with a body shape, we

Lindsey:

start with a personal style, because we want you to show up

Lindsey:

as your authentic self. We want to make sure that what you're

Lindsey:

wearing feels like a true reflection of who you are on the

Lindsey:

inside, on the outside. And we don't want you to change your

Lindsey:

body to fit into certain clothes. We want to change your

Lindsey:

clothes so that they fit your body.

Lindsey:

So we really want to start with those two things, and then after

Lindsey:

we do that, we're still not shopping. Still not, we're still

Lindsey:

not. There's two more things we got to do, because again, I

Lindsey:

don't want you buying stuff you don't need. I don't want clients

Lindsey:

buying more of what they already have in their wardrobe. So we

Lindsey:

are still not shopping.

Lindsey:

So actually, the next step then is to edit and audit your

Lindsey:

wardrobe. So we have a methodology that we use at

Lindsey:

Fashion Fix where it walks women through the different steps of

Lindsey:

editing, auditing and organizing their wardrobe so they can have

Lindsey:

a really good, full, complete understanding of what it is they

Lindsey:

already have in their closet, what they need to get rid of

Lindsey:

that now does not reflect their style or fit well for their body

Lindsey:

shape. Right? And then identifying, okay, where do I

Lindsey:

need to make some additions, where do I need to make some

Lindsey:

swaps for my wardrobe? So we really need to do that stuff

Lindsey:

before we shop.

Lindsey:

So after you know your body shape, after you know your

Lindsey:

style, then when you've done the closet clean out, now we can

Lindsey:

shop. So we've got a few things we want to go through, because I

Lindsey:

want you to, I want you to spend your time and money wisely,

Lindsey:

because there's other things that I'm sure you'd rather spend

Lindsey:

it on, then on clothes that you don't like and never wear, and

Lindsey:

that aren't going to get you any further to your goal of having a

Lindsey:

really value driven wardrobe. So then we shop.

Lindsey:

But even then, I have parameters for clients when they shop. So

Lindsey:

this is too where it gets a little of that counterculture

Lindsey:

when we talk about fashion and styling, you know, I'm not just

Lindsey:

saying, Oh yeah, go buy all this and go buy all of that. You

Lindsey:

know, we really look at a strong method of what do you need to

Lindsey:

add, update or replace? So coaching clients through, what

Lindsey:

are the gaps and holes in your wardrobe? What are some of the

Lindsey:

updates we want to make that better reflect you know, your

Lindsey:

style, fit your shape better? And then what do we want to

Lindsey:

replace of like, your ride or die essential pieces?

Lindsey:

So we walk them through, like a coaching strategy of, here is a

Lindsey:

great way to shop. And we really, you know, the shopping

Lindsey:

strategy was really born out of one of the biggest things we

Lindsey:

hear all the time from clients, is shopping feels so paralyzing.

Lindsey:

I'm sure you can relate to that.

Heidi:

Been there!

Lindsey:

Right, right. Like, where you walk into a store, and

Lindsey:

you're just like, I don't even know where to turn, like, what

Lindsey:

department do I look at? What am I looking for? You go to a

Lindsey:

website and you're just doom scrolling, like, like, what,

Lindsey:

what category should I be shopping in? What should I be

Lindsey:

looking for? So it really helps, again, where you feel paralyzed,

Lindsey:

you don't know what decisions to make, you don't you should be

Lindsey:

looking for. And when you have the strategy of add, update,

Lindsey:

replace, it gives you focus when you go shopping, so it feels a

Lindsey:

less intimidating and less overwhelming. So, yeah, we don't

Lindsey:

shop till quite a bit further down, and even then, you know, I

Lindsey:

really try to coach people on having some good boundaries on

Lindsey:

what it is that they're shopping for.

Emily:

And this process is actually going to save you a lot

Emily:

of money and time because you're not wasting time hunting because

Emily:

you don't know what you're looking for, but it's also going

Emily:

to save your money because you're going to stop buying

Emily:

things that aren't right for you, that you're never going to

Emily:

wear. Because you talked about that, having things in your

Emily:

closet that then you never want to wear because they don't feel

Emily:

like you. I have half a closet full of things like that because

Emily:

I don't want to wear things that don't feel comfortable, that I

Emily:

don't feel comfortable in.

Lindsey:

100%. And that's when we, you know, what I say is like

Lindsey:

women, you know, if you find yourself standing in front of

Lindsey:

closet full of clothes, there is plenty hanging in there, but you

Lindsey:

look in your closet and it's full of clothes, and you say to

Lindsey:

yourself, I don't have anything to wear it, you know, it's

Lindsey:

because we don't have the right pieces for you. Whether it's

Lindsey:

pieces that fit you well or pieces that even like work

Lindsey:

together.

Lindsey:

Because part of the idea, also of understanding your personal

Lindsey:

style and having a value driven wardrobe, is being able to mix

Lindsey:

and match your pieces together really easily and really

Lindsey:

effortlessly, because they all complement each other, and they

Lindsey:

all go together. And if you have things in your closet that are,

Lindsey:

you know, multiple different styles or not, in the same color

Lindsey:

palette for you, then again, you're going to be looking at a

Lindsey:

lot of stuff in your closet but struggling to wear a lot of it

Lindsey:

together. So that's also something we really coach our

Lindsey:

clients on is building your best wardrobe. Also it's giving you

Lindsey:

value, but also versatility in your wardrobe.

Lindsey:

And going back to the idea of like, where it's going to save

Lindsey:

you money in the long run, is the other thing we coach clients

Lindsey:

on is you don't need to have a lot of clothes in order to have

Lindsey:

a lot to wear, right? So it's not like a badge of honor if you

Lindsey:

have a closet bursting at the seams, or never enough hangers

Lindsey:

to hang your stuff up on, right? Because we say you don't need a

Lindsey:

lot of clothes in order to have a lot to wear. So when we really

Lindsey:

focus, you know, on these steps of building your best wardrobe,

Lindsey:

it gets you to a place too, where you're not really having

Lindsey:

to buy a lot on all the time, and that's saving you a lot of,

Lindsey:

you know, energy and money as well.

Heidi:

I loved your outfit formulas in your Teacher Winter

Heidi:

Talk session. It was such a fun reframe. It made me think of the

Heidi:

real life version of, okay, Clueless.

Emily:

Yes!

Heidi:

You know, she like mixed and matched all her outfits, and

Heidi:

as a 90s girl, that was like a seamless dream. But this is like

Heidi:

a real life way to make that work with you know, the things

Heidi:

that I have, I don't have a cute little plaid mini, but being

Heidi:

able to look at my clothes and feeling like I have power over

Heidi:

them instead of them controlling me.

Lindsey:

Oh my gosh. I wish people could see my face right

Lindsey:

now, when you said that. I love that. They don't have clothes,

Lindsey:

I'm gonna steal that, another audio clip I'm stealing from

Lindsey:

you. Yeah, where you're like, the clothes don't have power

Lindsey:

over you. You have power over them and how they're used. Oh my

Lindsey:

gosh, I have goosebumps. That's so good.

Lindsey:

You know, and when one of the other things that happens when

Lindsey:

we walk clients through the build your best wardrobe system,

Lindsey:

these steps that I'm laying out here, is they actually find that

Lindsey:

they have a lot more to work with in their closet than they

Lindsey:

thought they did. You have no idea how many times I've heard

Lindsey:

women say, oh girl, you're gonna just like laugh when I show you

Lindsey:

my closet, because I barely have anything in there. I don't

Lindsey:

really have a lot. And when I teach them that the outfit

Lindsey:

building blocks and the outfit formulas that you're talking

Lindsey:

about, they actually start to see that there's a lot more for

Lindsey:

them to work with in their closet than they thought. They

Lindsey:

just never looked at it that way.

Lindsey:

A lot of the pieces in their closet were really like siloed,

Lindsey:

or really like structured. I only wear it this way, or only

Lindsey:

wear it that way, or save this piece for that. And when I

Lindsey:

introduced them to that outfit building blocks and the style

Lindsey:

formulas, it is just like, you know, mind blown. Wow, I can do

Lindsey:

a lot more with what I have than I thought I did.

Lindsey:

And that's the final step, and build your best wardrobe. So we

Lindsey:

talked about body shape analysis, style analysis, the

Lindsey:

closet clean out, then strategic shopping. The final step is

Lindsey:

styling, and that's where we play and have fun and do dress

Lindsey:

up. And we do like mixing and matching pieces together. And

Lindsey:

when all of it comes together, when all five of those steps

Lindsey:

come together, you just really get to this place where, like,

Lindsey:

your shoulders are like, they relax, because you're like,

Lindsey:

Okay, I get this now I see how this all works together.

Lindsey:

Because in that styling piece, then when you start to learn how

Lindsey:

many different ways you can wear the items in your closet, or how

Lindsey:

to use them differently, it also relieves that stress or that

Lindsey:

pressure where you feel like you need more. Well, I need more. I

Lindsey:

need more to be able to wear more. I need more to be able to

Lindsey:

do more. I need more to have more variety.

Lindsey:

You know, one of the things that I say, is a volume does not

Lindsey:

equal variety. Just because you have a lot of clothes in your

Lindsey:

closet doesn't mean you have a lot of variety of clothes in

Lindsey:

your closet, because often it can end up being a lot of just

Lindsey:

the same thing. And that's why you feel like you're wearing the

Lindsey:

same thing all the time. Because you know, my perfect example

Lindsey:

that I've been using for 100 years is, you might have 50

Lindsey:

cardigans in your closet, but if, you know, 35 of them are

Lindsey:

gray and five of them are black, and then 10 of them don't fit

Lindsey:

you, you have like two.

Emily:

Yeah.

Heidi:

I feel called out.

Lindsey:

So that's like, you know, when we, that styling

Lindsey:

piece, when you learn those style formulas, outfit building

Lindsey:

blocks, that's where you really start to learn, you know, you

Lindsey:

don't need a lot of clothes in order to have a lot to wear. And

Lindsey:

that's why the styling pieces last too.

Lindsey:

So going back to the idea of how it's kind of counterculture, or

Lindsey:

counterintuitive, how we coach clients through. It doesn't just

Lindsey:

jump in right away to, okay, wear these colors this way, or

Lindsey:

mix these patterns this way, or, you know, wear your cardigan

Lindsey:

three different ways, this way. Because if the patterns you have

Lindsey:

in your closet are not your style, you're not going to wear

Lindsey:

them. If the cardigans aren't cut right for you, or the shirts

Lindsey:

are cut, you're not going to wear them. So, so doing outfit

Lindsey:

formulas, you know, doing the style formulas, doing the

Lindsey:

building blocks, you're not going to be able to do that

Lindsey:

unless your clothes fit you well. If your clothes do not fit

Lindsey:

you comfortably and fit you well, if your clothes are not

Lindsey:

your style, nothing else is going to work.

Lindsey:

So that's why that even, like that kind of, quote, unquote,

Lindsey:

fun part of doing all the different outfits, that doesn't

Lindsey:

even come till last, because I want to make sure that your

Lindsey:

clothes fit you well, that you're comfortable in them, that

Lindsey:

you're confident wearing them, because then we can do all these

Lindsey:

different outfits with them. So that's why that really comes

Lindsey:

last in the process.

Emily:

Oh, I love that, and it makes so much sense. It's such a

Emily:

carefully thought out process, you can tell that you have

Emily:

perfected this over the years. But tell us, what is your hope

Emily:

for Fashion Fix in 2026, and how can our teacher audience be a

Emily:

part of it?

Lindsey:

Well, I would say that our big hope now and for the

Lindsey:

future is just to introduce more people to the idea of building

Lindsey:

their best wardrobe in the method and using the process

Lindsey:

that Fashion Fix has, because we have really found that it has,

Lindsey:

like, really freed a lot of women from some of the toxic or

Lindsey:

negative thoughts or pressure or ideas or constructs or all of

Lindsey:

that stuff that, again, has been put on them from social

Lindsey:

narratives, from inner thoughts. It is really providing them with

Lindsey:

a way to free themselves from that and have fun with their

Lindsey:

wardrobe and feel good in their clothes.

Lindsey:

And so we really, this year, just want more people to get

Lindsey:

introduced to fashion fix and that this place exists, that

Lindsey:

this is a soft landing spot for women that maybe previously have

Lindsey:

really struggled to find a place that can help them with their

Lindsey:

wardrobe in a way that feels, that feels good, that feels

Lindsey:

supportive, that feels empowering, and is giving them

Lindsey:

real life, practical, tactical tools and actions.

Lindsey:

I think a lot too, in like the styling and fashion world, it

Lindsey:

can be a lot of these big ideas, big like aspirations, but not

Lindsey:

actualizations. And I will give you like, no, literally do this,

Lindsey:

like do step A, B, C, D, this is how you're going to do it, so

Lindsey:

that the math adds up in the end, and you're, you know, not

Lindsey:

left feeling more confused, or did you even get anything done.

Lindsey:

And so the more people that we can bring into Fashion Fix, we

Lindsey:

just feel, the more women are going to be empowered, you know,

Lindsey:

the more women that are going to be healed and helped, and that's

Lindsey:

really what we want to be here to do. So spreading the word of

Lindsey:

Fashion Fix is just a really big dream of ours for this year.

Heidi:

That is such a beautiful mission, and we're so excited

Heidi:

that you've been here to share it with us today.

Emily:

And do you have a special offer for our listeners?

Lindsey:

Yes, of course. Okay, so we have, if you want to get

Lindsey:

started, if you listen to all of this and you're just like,

Lindsey:

chomping at the bit, you're like, Okay, ladies, would you

Lindsey:

quit talking so I can just go to fashion fix and get started? Let

Lindsey:

me tell you where you're going to go. You are going to go to

Lindsey:

fashionfixmn.com/secondstorywindow. And we have a page there for

Lindsey:

your audience, for your listeners, that will tap them in

Lindsey:

to a exclusive promo pricing on packaging together the body

Lindsey:

shape analysis and the style quiz, because you have to start

Lindsey:

there. You know, I know that sometimes it's hard and you want

Lindsey:

to just like, race to the finish line or do the fun stuff first,

Lindsey:

but starting with the body shape analysis and this style

Lindsey:

analysis.

Lindsey:

And then we're doing a gift with purchase, because, like, I want

Lindsey:

you to also be able to get some traction, so we're including the

Lindsey:

closet clean out when you purchase that bundle. So

Lindsey:

typically, that's like a standalone, you know, workbook

Lindsey:

that you have to purchase and download. But we're going to

Lindsey:

give your audience a gift with purchase of a copy of that

Lindsey:

closet clean out. So when they get their body shape results and

Lindsey:

they get their style analysis results, they can kind of hit

Lindsey:

the ground running with the next step without having to wait. So

Lindsey:

they'll have access to that.

Lindsey:

So fashionfixmn.com/secondstorywindow

Lindsey:

is where you're going to find access to that exclusive deal.

Lindsey:

And I'm sure you ladies will put it in the show notes and email

Lindsey:

it out, because it's a very secret deal, because you won't

Lindsey:

be able to find that page. You won't be able to find it

Lindsey:

anywhere else on the website. So you want to make sure that you

Lindsey:

save that link that that you get, because this is just for

Lindsey:

your listeners.

Emily:

Insiders only. And our team member Melanie went through

Emily:

these exercises with you a couple weeks ago, and she had

Emily:

such a good experience. She said that she was surprised at the

Emily:

results. She thought she knew what her body shape was, and she

Emily:

was surprised at what she got. And our she already found it so

Emily:

enlightening. And I just am excited for our audience to get

Emily:

to have that experience with you as well.

Lindsey:

Yes, and you'll have to have Melanie share with the

Lindsey:

audience that it's not scary.

Heidi:

Yes.

Lindsey:

Because that's, you know, which I get. That's

Lindsey:

another thing I, you know, my entire team, we are all very

Lindsey:

sensitive to. You know, especially when I was doing

Lindsey:

in-person personal shopping appointments, I was like, okay,

Lindsey:

these women are meeting a stranger at the Mall of America,

Lindsey:

inviting that stranger to go into a fitting room with them,

Lindsey:

to look at clothes that they're trying on and tell them what's

Lindsey:

wrong with the clothes. Like that is a super intimate and

Lindsey:

intimidating experience, and it is not lost on me. So you know,

Lindsey:

just the idea that you're going to be sending in full body

Lindsey:

pictures of yourself, like in leggings and a tank top. It's

Lindsey:

not lost on us that that can feel like a little bit

Lindsey:

intimidating. So I want you to know, like anybody out there,

Lindsey:

like, it's not as scary as you think it's gonna be, and we are

Lindsey:

so sensitive with what you're sending to us.

Emily:

Yes, yes. That's pretty much what Melanie said. At

Emily:

first, she was like, she said she wanted to do it, we asked if

Emily:

she wanted to. And then she was like, wait, I have to send

Emily:

pictures? But then she said, like, no, it was fine. It was no

Emily:

big deal. And like, it was like, it was totally comfortable. She

Emily:

wasn't even worried about it.

Emily:

Yeah.

Emily:

And Lindsey, we like to end our episodes with a Teacher Approved

Emily:

tip. So do you have a quick, actionable tip that you could

Emily:

share with our audience?

Lindsey:

Oh, I sure do. Because do you know what I get from

Lindsey:

teachers all the time? School spirit days and having to wear

Lindsey:

school logoed apparel, and it may or may not be apparel that

Lindsey:

is like unisex cut, so the t-shirts are super long, or the

Lindsey:

sleeves are really long and boxy. Or the colors maybe aren't

Lindsey:

ones that we love to wear for ourselves the most. So many

Lindsey:

times I've helped teachers navigate this, and let me give

Lindsey:

you my Teacher Approved tip for wearing your school spirit wear.

Lindsey:

Number one, do not be afraid to cut or alter some of those

Lindsey:

t-shirts or sweatshirts, whether it's cutting open the neckline

Lindsey:

or cutting a t-shirt shorter, you know, something like that.

Lindsey:

Because even if it has like a raw, that ends up having like an

Lindsey:

exposed or raw edge when you cut the shirt, you could do like a

Lindsey:

cute little front tuck in or something like that to make, you

Lindsey:

know, make it look different.

Lindsey:

And then as far as colors, if your school offers, you know,

Lindsey:

obviously you have like your school colors, but if they offer

Lindsey:

any of the spirit apparel in like a neutral option, so

Lindsey:

sometimes they'll do like a black and white or gray and

Lindsey:

white, or, you know, something kind of in a neutral option,

Lindsey:

like whatever that third neutral color is sometimes, for your

Lindsey:

your school, you know, opt into that. And then get, like, a fun

Lindsey:

pair of sneakers in one of the bolder colors, or like a fun

Lindsey:

pair of shorts or jeans. So that's not like up against your

Lindsey:

face, but you're still feeling very spirit-filled by wearing

Lindsey:

the team colors. Or do it in like a headband or hair

Lindsey:

accessory, like tie like a bandana around your ponytail, or

Lindsey:

a top knot, or something like that.

Lindsey:

But if that's not an option, and you still got to wear, like that

Lindsey:

royal blue t-shirt that isn't quite great for your complexion,

Lindsey:

do a neutral layer over it that will tame it down, like a denim

Lindsey:

jacket, or any of your dark, like a dark neutral in your

Lindsey:

color palette that might work with that, like, I'm thinking

Lindsey:

royal blue. So if you do, like a gray or a black, or, you know,

Lindsey:

something like that, that might, you know, tone it down. So do a

Lindsey:

layer over it in one of your neutrals that might be more

Lindsey:

complimentary towards you.

Emily:

Oh, I love that.

Heidi:

So good.

Emily:

Perfect. Lindsey, it was a pleasure having you, and we

Emily:

will have the link to learn more about you and your special offer

Emily:

for our audience in our show notes. And where else can they

Emily:

connect with you?

Lindsey:

You can find us, all of our socials are at fashionfixmn,

Lindsey:

because I am based in Minnesota, so fashionfixmn, that's going to

Lindsey:

be all of our social channels, and it's going to be our website

Lindsey:

too. So if you look that up, you can find us anywhere.

Emily:

Perfect. Thanks so much, Lindsey, it was great chatting

Emily:

with you.

Lindsey:

Thanks for having me again, ladies.

Heidi:

To wrap up the show, we are sharing what we're giving

Heidi:

extra credit to this week. Emily, what get your extra

Heidi:

credit?

Emily:

I'm giving extra credit to my new favorite mascara. So I

Emily:

prefer a tubing mascara, and the one I'm loving right now is the

Emily:

tartlet tubing mascara from Tarte, and I like the XL one,

Emily:

and I have been wearing brown, which I find looks nice with my

Emily:

eye color. So looks great, it doesn't flake, and it washes off

Emily:

really easily. So it's a win all around.

Heidi:

Well it's so funny that you're saying this because,

Heidi:

like, a half hour ago, I was just thinking, I have got to

Heidi:

find a new mascara, because I don't wear mascara every day

Heidi:

because I work from home. But when we were doing Teacher

Heidi:

Winter Talks, we were on camera every day for like, four days,

Heidi:

and by the fourth day, my eyes were so irritated.

Emily:

I remember.

Heidi:

So I was looking up, like, best hypoallergenic

Heidi:

mascara, and that was the one that came up. I was like, oh,

Heidi:

I'm ordering that.

Emily:

I love it. I love it. And I also try not to get, like, too

Emily:

close to my actual eyelid, too if, like, I find that I feel

Emily:

itchy, then I try to keep it more to the ends of the lashes,

Emily:

so that might help you, too.

Heidi:

It's too hard. It's too hard.

Emily:

What gets your extra credit, Heidi?

Heidi:

Okay, well, my extra credit goes to the brain game

Heidi:

sticker by number books.

Emily:

Oh.

Heidi:

This is not something I've ever considered doing

Heidi:

because I just thought it was like something for kids, but I

Heidi:

saw their Valentine book and it was so cute, so I just ordered

Heidi:

it for myself, like the grown up I am, and I think of a fan. If

Heidi:

you're not familiar, it's just like paint by number, but you're

Heidi:

putting stickers in little numbered boxes. It doesn't take

Heidi:

any skill, it's minimal clutter, and unlike, you know, a hobby

Heidi:

like crocheting, you know, I'm not left with some item at the

Heidi:

end of it that's like, well, everyone in my family already

Heidi:

has hats. What am I doing with this one? You know, this can

Heidi:

just get tossed or recycled or, you know, out of my hair.

Heidi:

And the pictures are cute. I love that. It's spiral bound so

Heidi:

it stays open. And I noticed, you know, as someone who's

Heidi:

taught a lot of preschool over the years, I've become a

Heidi:

connoisseur of stickers. These peel off really easily, and if I

Heidi:

have to move them on the page, I can move them without them

Heidi:

tearing. Like it's really nice. And I've just loved having

Heidi:

something to do in the evening instead of scrolling my phone.

Heidi:

And as I guess, a bonus extra credit. So I have really bad

Heidi:

arthritis in my thumbs, and so holding small things like

Heidi:

stickers can be really painful.

Emily:

Yeah.

Heidi:

So I knew I needed something, and I found something

Heidi:

called reverse tweezers. Now, normally tweezers, you have to

Heidi:

pinch to close them and then you have to hold them shut, but

Heidi:

these are the opposite. You pinch to open and then they hold

Heidi:

themselves shut. It's been a game changer for my poor thumbs.

Heidi:

So I will link to the book and the tweezers in the show notes.

Heidi:

It's just been a really nice little side hobby.

Emily:

I love it. I'm going to give it a try.

Heidi:

That is it for today's episode. Remember Lindsey's tips

Heidi:

for reclaiming your closet, and if you want to check out that

Heidi:

special offer she has for our listeners, head to

Heidi:

www.fashionfixmn.com/secondstorywindow, or follow the link in the show

Heidi:

notes.

Heidi:

We hope you enjoyed this episode of Teacher Approved. I'm Heidi.

Emily:

And I'm Emily. Thank you for listening. Be sure to follow

Emily:

or subscribe in your podcast app so that you never miss an

Emily:

episode.

Heidi:

You can connect with us and other teachers in the

Heidi:

Teacher Approved Facebook group. We'll see you here next week.

Heidi:

Bye for now.

Emily:

Bye.

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