In this episode, we’re joined by Lindsey from Fashion Fix to rethink the teacher wardrobe from the ground up. We talk about why traditional fashion advice falls flat for educators, how overspending and underbuying leads to closet frustration, and why understanding your body shape and personal style matters more than chasing trends. Lindsey shares a confidence-centered, practical approach to building a wardrobe that works for real teacher life.
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Heidi:We're so glad you're tuning in today. Let's get to
Heidi:the show.
Emily:Hey there. Thanks for joining us today. In today's
Emily:episode, we're joined by our friend Lindsey, the owner and
Emily:senior stylist at Fashion Fix, to talk about a fresh way for
Emily:teachers to approach their wardrobes, and we've got a
Emily:teacher approved tip for looking good on school spirit days.
Heidi:But first, let's start with try it tomorrow, where we
Heidi:share a quick win that you can try right away. Emily, what do
Heidi:we have for this week?
Emily:This week, give each student a couple of sticky notes
Emily:and ask them to write down what they'd like to hear on a hard
Emily:day. Maybe it's, you can do hard things, or I believe in myself.
Emily:Once they're done, collect all the notes and tuck them away.
Emily:Then when you notice a student having a rough moment or just
Emily:needing a boost, you can pull out their own words and hand
Emily:them back.
Heidi:I love this because there's just something really
Heidi:powerful about getting encouragement in your own words.
Heidi:And if you want to try this, I promise you can eliminate a lot
Heidi:of blank stares and the I don't know what to write comments, if
Heidi:you spend a minute having class brainstorm message ideas first.
Heidi:Maybe you even want to write them on the whiteboard, and that
Heidi:way you're helping them put some actual thought into what they
Heidi:write, instead of just writing down whatever.
Emily:I love when you can find a win that's so powerful but so
Emily:simple to implement. In about five minutes, you've got a whole
Emily:stash of personalized pick me ups ready to go whenever you
Emily:need them. Just double check that everyone remembered to
Emily:write their name on their notes.
Heidi:Yeah, the eternal struggle. If you like this idea
Heidi:or anything else we share here on the podcast, would you take a
Heidi:second and give us a five star rating? Ratings and reviews are
Heidi:one way that new listeners find us, so every rating and review
Heidi:really is a huge help to us.
Emily:Today, we're so excited because we are joined by our
Emily:friend Lindsey, who is the owner and senior stylist at Fashion
Emily:Fix to talk about a fresh way for teachers to approach their
Emily:wardrobes. And as a mom of three, Lindsey's body, weight,
Emily:and lifestyle have all changed many times over the years. She
Emily:knows that style has no size and confidence comes in all shapes.
Heidi:Lindsey has helped women of every age, stage, shape and
Heidi:size, build a versatile and functional wardrobe that they
Heidi:love. You don't need a lot of clothes to have a lot of wear.
Heidi:You just need the right tools and planning to have a closet
Heidi:full of clothes that make you feel comfortable and confident.
Emily:Lindsay, we're so happy to have you with us today.
Emily:Welcome.
Lindsey:Yay. I'm so excited that I get to have like, an act
Lindsey:two after getting to participate in the Teacher Winter Talks. I
Lindsey:was like, oh my gosh, this is such, like a bonus. Like, I get
Lindsey:to come back again!
Heidi:And your session was so powerful and inspiring, like,
Heidi:it's, I've approached my closet in such a different way in those
Heidi:two weeks since you taught. Like, it's totally shifted.
Unknown:I genuinely had, like, takeaways of like, wow, I had
Unknown:never thought about that before.
Lindsey:Good, well, you know, I really try, you know, especially
Lindsey:when I'm presenting, which is just all the time, because I'm
Lindsey:always talking to people from all over the world, right,
Lindsey:whether it's on Instagram or we're doing, you know, when I
Lindsey:talk to your teacher group, you know, nobody is living the same
Lindsey:life. Nobody's going to have the same wardrobe.
Lindsey:And so when we're talking about these ideas on how to build a
Lindsey:wardrobe that feels good, that is fun, that is authentic to
Lindsey:you, you just, you can't have the advice of everybody should
Lindsey:have this thing. Everybody should have that thing. Because
Lindsey:this thing and that thing, like, is, it might not make sense for
Lindsey:certain people. So really like being able to approach the idea
Lindsey:of like, what are the practices that you want to put into place
Lindsey:with your wardrobe, and what is sort of the tools to build a
Lindsey:wardrobe that is good, specifically for you. So that
Lindsey:everyone, no matter where you're living, no matter what your
Lindsey:lifestyle looks like, you walk away with application.
Heidi:That is such an empowering reframe of how we're
Heidi:normally taught to consume fashion. Like, I am not a little
Heidi:black dress person. Like, that's not my lifestyle. But I've
Heidi:always felt like, well, fashion doesn't apply to my life,
Heidi:because I'm not that way.
Lindsey:Oh my gosh. I wish, I mean, like, I'm gonna have to,
Lindsey:like, steal that audio clip from you, because I just feel like
Lindsey:that is 100% one of the biggest, I would say, drivers behind
Lindsey:Fashion Fix, is there's been so many barriers for women, whether
Lindsey:they are real or they make up and manifest themselves. Right?
Lindsey:Or they're the barriers are put upon them by other people,
Lindsey:right? Like social narratives or, you know, things like that,
Lindsey:that make women feel that's not for me. I can't be cute. I can't
Lindsey:dress cute, you know, like, I just don't get it. I must not be
Lindsey:fashionable.
Lindsey:And it's because we are looking at and comparing ourselves to a
Lindsey:standard or to an example that isn't meant for us, that's not,
Lindsey:you know, that's not relatable for us. And so then we
Lindsey:automatically just take ourselves out of the
Lindsey:conversation. And then that goes down the path of women feeling
Lindsey:invalidated, feeling, you know, they don't, like they should
Lindsey:just kind of, they don't take care of themselves because they
Lindsey:don't feel like, well, if I can't fit into this exact
Lindsey:picture of what it should look like then I'm not gonna do
Lindsey:anything at all. It just goes into a whole thing. I could go
Lindsey:on my soapbox forever, just a whole thing of like, you know,
Lindsey:again, how we value ourselves, how we value what we do, who we
Lindsey:are. It just, the whole thing, the whole thing.
Heidi:Yes, we're spending so much money trying to, like, fit
Heidi:this mold you're taught, and you're like, this doesn't work
Heidi:with my life, it doesn't work with my body, like, and then now
Heidi:I have nothing to wear, but I'm also broke.
Lindsey:Yes, yes, exactly. I mean, we talk, we call it
Lindsey:overspending and under buying. That's kind of the frame, the
Lindsey:phrase that I use with clients is like helping you not like,
Lindsey:when you overspend. So you you've spent so much time and
Lindsey:money on these things in your wardrobe, but you actually under
Lindsey:bought, because the things that you purchased aren't adding the
Lindsey:value to your wardrobe that you hope them to. And so that's what
Lindsey:we call that. We call it overspending and under buying.
Heidi:Yeah, I've lived that.
Emily:I mean, I think all women can can relate to this to an
Emily:extent, but especially our teacher audience. I feel like
Emily:this is such a relatable problem to hear about of like, I just
Emily:don't even know what to wear every day. And you default to
Emily:whatever's easy, and you and you and you may not feel comfortable
Emily:in it, but it's just, it's whatever is easy. And that's why
Emily:I love your approach so much. So do you want to tell us a little
Emily:bit more about Fashion Fix and how you started?
Lindsey:Yeah, I know we kind of just jumped into the deep end.
Lindsey:So for anybody that's unfamiliar with Fashion Fix, we'll try to
Lindsey:catch you up here, because we, like, already, like went into
Lindsey:it. But Fashion Fix was started 12, 13 years ago, something like
Lindsey:that, and it came after a long career that I had working with
Lindsey:national retail brands. So you know, for about a decade, I
Lindsey:worked for many different companies and stores as a
Lindsey:personal shopper or in like management positions teaching
Lindsey:other people how to work with clients, and how to do personal
Lindsey:shopping and styling and all of this kind of stuff.
Lindsey:So I did that for a long time, and I kind of sort of had a
Lindsey:pinnacle moment where it wasn't fitting for me anymore, like the
Lindsey:dots weren't connecting, and I was not thriving in the position
Lindsey:that I had. And I had all of this experience with clients,
Lindsey:and looking at this idea that, you know, we were working with
Lindsey:them in the store, and then we were sending them home, but they
Lindsey:were kind of coming back every time with the same struggles and
Lindsey:the same, I would say, roadblocks or barriers in the
Lindsey:wardrobe, and being able to feel like they really had a complete
Lindsey:wardrobe, or a wardrobe that was functional or versatile for
Lindsey:them. And it's Like, well, we're sending you home with stuff
Lindsey:every month, like, what's going on?
Lindsey:And so just really kind of starting to think about, like,
Lindsey:what's that disconnect that's happening between women shopping
Lindsey:in stores or shopping online, then getting home to their
Lindsey:closet, and what's happening there? Like, in between, where
Lindsey:is that disconnect? And that is where Fashion Fix was really
Lindsey:born out of, was that idea of like, okay, let's let's bridge
Lindsey:that gap. Let's create some tools, some resources, some help
Lindsey:and support, so that women are more empowered with their
Lindsey:wardrobe when they go home with it, rather than feeling defeated
Lindsey:or again, they've overspent, under bought, like they're still
Lindsey:not hitting the target.
Lindsey:And that's kind of where Fashion Fix really came out of, right,
Lindsey:is like, let's give more empowerment in that in between
Lindsey:space between shopping and getting home with your wardrobe.
Lindsey:So it's gone through many iterations over the years. You
Lindsey:know, just even as like, the landscape of shopping and
Lindsey:fashion and and influencing and you know, all like, things going
Lindsey:virtual and digital, and the way that we can connect with
Lindsey:customers from all over the, you know, world now, rather than
Lindsey:just like local, which is really where it started. I only worked
Lindsey:in person with people, and now it's quite the opposite. Like we
Lindsey:pretty much only virtually work with clients. And rarely am I,
Lindsey:you know, working with somebody in person.
Lindsey:I live, like, I can look out my window and I can see the Mall of
Lindsey:America out my window, and so I used to do personal shopping
Lindsey:appointments at the Mall of America. And like, you know,
Lindsey:that's just like such a thing in the past, because we're
Lindsey:servicing people literally from all over the world.
Lindsey:So it's taken a lot of different iterations, but the one thing
Lindsey:that has maintained and stayed the same since day. One is the
Lindsey:mission I remember sitting on my couch in my cute little
Lindsey:bachelorette apartment in the Twin Cities where I live, and
Lindsey:like, you know, pen and paper and writing it out, and I wrote
Lindsey:down this mission statement, and not a single word of it has
Lindsey:changed since day one, which is to empower women and build
Lindsey:confidence through a productive and style wardrobe.
Lindsey:And so even though we've gone through a lot of iterations of
Lindsey:services, we offer, products, we offer, how we work with clients,
Lindsey:everything has continued to be filtered through that mission
Lindsey:statement, so that we know that we're still aligning what we're
Lindsey:doing with what we believe in. And that goes from everything
Lindsey:from, again, what we offer, how we price things, the language we
Lindsey:use inside of our products and on our website, and, you know,
Lindsey:on our different social media platforms. Like, how is that
Lindsey:mission being accomplished through this? And that's
Lindsey:something that has just stayed strong this whole time.
Lindsey:So, you know, that's kind of how we got to where we are, and now
Lindsey:we're even going on like another segment of the journey. You
Lindsey:know, this year, we're really focusing a lot on not only
Lindsey:helping women with, you know, what's in their closet, but
Lindsey:their relationship with what's in their closet too, and really
Lindsey:taking, you know, even more of that holistic approach to how
Lindsey:we're helping women with their wardrobes.
Emily:Well, and I imagine that was informed by your personal
Emily:journey with your body and your wardrobe, which is what really
Emily:drew me to you, what you've shared about that, because I
Emily:find it so relatable. Do you want to tell us a little bit
Emily:about that?
Lindsey:Yeah. So, like I said, I had this really long, you
Lindsey:know, this career working in retail, which means I had access
Lindsey:to a lot of fashion and shopping and at a discount, which was
Lindsey:great. So, you know, I loved to shop. I loved to have fun with
Lindsey:my wardrobe. Also, at this time in my life, I was single, you
Lindsey:know, hadn't had any kids yet at this point. So it's like, your
Lindsey:girl was like, living the dream, right, living the dream.
Lindsey:And my life has taken so many different turns, and I've been
Lindsey:put into so many different positions over, you know, the
Lindsey:past 12, 15 years, from going to being, you know, single, no
Lindsey:kids, working in retail, having access to a lot of things, to
Lindsey:getting married and getting pregnant and not working full
Lindsey:time anymore, and having my budget change and having my
Lindsey:access change, and having my body change and having my
Lindsey:lifestyle change. You know, my wardrobe looked one way, and it
Lindsey:was so fun and it was so whimsical, because I was going
Lindsey:out to work every day, and I was doing all these things and that.
Lindsey:And then my life changed to staying home every day, full
Lindsey:time. And then it kind of went to, you know, like 50/50, and
Lindsey:that, you know, like it just sort of has taken so many
Lindsey:different turns.
Lindsey:And not only in the past 10 or 15 years, all the different
Lindsey:turns my life has taken, there was also that life beforehand,
Lindsey:of navigating, you know, messaging about what my body
Lindsey:should look like versus what it does look like, and messaging
Lindsey:about what I should be wearing because it's trendy or because
Lindsey:it's this, or because of whatever, versus like what I
Lindsey:could afford to wear or want to wear, or what I had access to
Lindsey:wear. So it was like there was also that whole pre-experience.
Lindsey:And so looking at that full scope of what I've gone through,
Lindsey:you know, even from a teenager to a 45 year old woman, is part
Lindsey:of what has helped me shape Fashion Fix, my experiences,
Lindsey:what I've gone through. And what also has been really neat about
Lindsey:that is we've created this sort of niche space that is a nice
Lindsey:soft landing space for women that find themselves struggling
Lindsey:with their wardrobe, struggling with their clothes, or their
Lindsey:body because of difficult things like body dysmorphia or
Lindsey:disordered eating or medical experience that has changed
Lindsey:their bodies, all of those different things.
Lindsey:There is nothing any fashion fix client could come to us and
Lindsey:share with us about what they have or our experience that
Lindsey:would, you know, make us be like, Oh, I don't know. Can we,
Lindsey:you know, I don't know how to approach this or handle this, or
Lindsey:kind of feel taken off, off guard by it, or taken aback by
Lindsey:it. Like, we have seen it all. We've worked with so many women
Lindsey:with different walks of life, and it's, it is something that
Lindsey:I'm really proud of. Because of my experience, I've been able to
Lindsey:train and coach my team on that, and then we are able to work
Lindsey:with clients really well in that space, too.
Emily:And I think teachers have gone through a lot of those
Emily:different, those same body changes you were talking about.
Emily:But also I know in my experience, and then the
Emily:teachers that I know, a lot of them, go through those body
Emily:changes because of teaching, because you're stressed out,
Emily:you're at school, you're not able to eat as healthy. And, you
Emily:know, just all these things.
Heidi:And you're so tired that like going to the gym.
Emily:Yes, yes, all these ways that impact your body. So I know
Emily:our teacher audience will relate to those experiences that you've
Emily:had.
Lindsey:Yeah.
Heidi:So I one thing I really like about your approach is that
Heidi:you, the first step with you is not to jump in and buy more.
Heidi:Like you're not pushing people to suddenly buy a lot of new
Heidi:stuff, but you're also like helping them figure out what
Heidi:they do need to get that's like a counter cultural messaging.
Heidi:Can you tell us more about that approach?
Lindsey:Yes. Okay, so oftentimes, when there is an
Lindsey:approach to revamping your wardrobe, make you know, New
Lindsey:Year, New You, better wardrobe. It always starts with like,
Lindsey:let's get out your closet and get rid of all these things and
Lindsey:buy all these new things. We're actually like, editing at your
Lindsey:closet and shopping in our process does not come till step
Lindsey:like, three or four, like it is way down the line. We don't even
Lindsey:start there. Because my hope is not just to put a band aid over
Lindsey:something or give you like a quick fix with your wardrobe,
Lindsey:but really help you feel educated and empowered with what
Lindsey:is going to be best in your wardrobe. Because this is
Lindsey:really, like, the counter, like, cultural thing with fashion and
Lindsey:styling that I say, and that's there are better things to spend
Lindsey:your time and money on than clothes.
Heidi:Yes.
Emily:Yeah.
Lindsey:How can you say that as a stylist and, like, all this
Lindsey:stuff? And I was like, Well, let me explain this. This is kind of
Lindsey:the goal. So we actually start in the process with a body shape
Lindsey:analysis, and then after that, step two would be a style
Lindsey:analysis. Because I don't want a client or anyone listening to be
Lindsey:like, Okay, I'm going to start dressing better. I'm going to
Lindsey:start, like, wearing clothes that are more fun and feel more
Lindsey:trendy, so that I'm not frumpy. So then you just, you know, look
Lindsey:at whatever's on the mannequin, or what people are wearing on
Lindsey:Instagram or on Pinterest, and you go and, like, buy all that
Lindsey:stuff, right? You think, like, yes, this is gonna be, I'm gonna
Lindsey:do this, so this is gonna be so great.
Lindsey:And then you bring that stuff home, and it does not fit you
Lindsey:the same way that it fit that person on social media.
Emily:Oh, yeah.
Lindsey:Or that outfit that you saw completely put together on a
Lindsey:mannequin, when you put it on, it feels like a costume, like it
Lindsey:feels like you're dressing up as somebody else. So that's why
Lindsey:going out and just buying a bunch of stuff that feels fun
Lindsey:and new and trendy, and you're gonna, you're gonna just, you
Lindsey:know, start dressing that way, that is not going to get you to
Lindsey:a place of feeling comfortable and confident in your clothes.
Lindsey:So we start with, Okay, now this piece that you see, the shirt
Lindsey:that you see on that person on Instagram, right? It fits them
Lindsey:well, because this is their body shape, and this is the way that
Lindsey:that shirt is cut. Your body shape is not that. Your body
Lindsey:shape is this, so you want to wear shirts that are cut this
Lindsey:way instead.
Lindsey:So we teach women, okay, you know, you're seeing these things
Lindsey:on social media, on mannequins, you know, in stores or wherever
Lindsey:it might be, in magazines, and giving them the tool to say,
Lindsey:okay, that's not going to work for me. So I'm, I'm not going to
Lindsey:chase that one, right? I'm not going to go after buying that
Lindsey:shirt. We start to teach them, these are the cuts, these are
Lindsey:the fits that are going to be the most complimentary on your
Lindsey:body shape and feel the most comfortable to wear. So we start
Lindsey:with that education piece.
Lindsey:Then the second education piece is the style. So understanding
Lindsey:what each individual's personal style profile is, and really
Lindsey:helping them navigate and understand that. Like, you know,
Lindsey:these are words we would use to describe your style, and these
Lindsey:are examples of what those words mean, like picture examples of
Lindsey:that, giving them different ideas. Because that's what
Lindsey:happened, we want you to feel really empowered with that,
Lindsey:because it's when you buy that whole outfit as it's put
Lindsey:together on a you know, mannequin, and you wear it, it
Lindsey:feels like a costume, right? Instead of something that's
Lindsey:like, that's because it's not your style. Maybe that pattern,
Lindsey:that print, that way of mixing and matching things together,
Lindsey:isn't authentic for your style so it just feels like you're
Lindsey:playing dress up.
Lindsey:So we want you to be able to say, oh, okay, oh, I'm seeing
Lindsey:this outfit on here, and oh, those patterns really work for
Lindsey:my style profile, or those details really work for my style
Lindsey:profile. That is great. Now we're getting more value driven
Lindsey:purchases for your wardrobe. So we start with a body shape, we
Lindsey:start with a personal style, because we want you to show up
Lindsey:as your authentic self. We want to make sure that what you're
Lindsey:wearing feels like a true reflection of who you are on the
Lindsey:inside, on the outside. And we don't want you to change your
Lindsey:body to fit into certain clothes. We want to change your
Lindsey:clothes so that they fit your body.
Lindsey:So we really want to start with those two things, and then after
Lindsey:we do that, we're still not shopping. Still not, we're still
Lindsey:not. There's two more things we got to do, because again, I
Lindsey:don't want you buying stuff you don't need. I don't want clients
Lindsey:buying more of what they already have in their wardrobe. So we
Lindsey:are still not shopping.
Lindsey:So actually, the next step then is to edit and audit your
Lindsey:wardrobe. So we have a methodology that we use at
Lindsey:Fashion Fix where it walks women through the different steps of
Lindsey:editing, auditing and organizing their wardrobe so they can have
Lindsey:a really good, full, complete understanding of what it is they
Lindsey:already have in their closet, what they need to get rid of
Lindsey:that now does not reflect their style or fit well for their body
Lindsey:shape. Right? And then identifying, okay, where do I
Lindsey:need to make some additions, where do I need to make some
Lindsey:swaps for my wardrobe? So we really need to do that stuff
Lindsey:before we shop.
Lindsey:So after you know your body shape, after you know your
Lindsey:style, then when you've done the closet clean out, now we can
Lindsey:shop. So we've got a few things we want to go through, because I
Lindsey:want you to, I want you to spend your time and money wisely,
Lindsey:because there's other things that I'm sure you'd rather spend
Lindsey:it on, then on clothes that you don't like and never wear, and
Lindsey:that aren't going to get you any further to your goal of having a
Lindsey:really value driven wardrobe. So then we shop.
Lindsey:But even then, I have parameters for clients when they shop. So
Lindsey:this is too where it gets a little of that counterculture
Lindsey:when we talk about fashion and styling, you know, I'm not just
Lindsey:saying, Oh yeah, go buy all this and go buy all of that. You
Lindsey:know, we really look at a strong method of what do you need to
Lindsey:add, update or replace? So coaching clients through, what
Lindsey:are the gaps and holes in your wardrobe? What are some of the
Lindsey:updates we want to make that better reflect you know, your
Lindsey:style, fit your shape better? And then what do we want to
Lindsey:replace of like, your ride or die essential pieces?
Lindsey:So we walk them through, like a coaching strategy of, here is a
Lindsey:great way to shop. And we really, you know, the shopping
Lindsey:strategy was really born out of one of the biggest things we
Lindsey:hear all the time from clients, is shopping feels so paralyzing.
Lindsey:I'm sure you can relate to that.
Heidi:Been there!
Lindsey:Right, right. Like, where you walk into a store, and
Lindsey:you're just like, I don't even know where to turn, like, what
Lindsey:department do I look at? What am I looking for? You go to a
Lindsey:website and you're just doom scrolling, like, like, what,
Lindsey:what category should I be shopping in? What should I be
Lindsey:looking for? So it really helps, again, where you feel paralyzed,
Lindsey:you don't know what decisions to make, you don't you should be
Lindsey:looking for. And when you have the strategy of add, update,
Lindsey:replace, it gives you focus when you go shopping, so it feels a
Lindsey:less intimidating and less overwhelming. So, yeah, we don't
Lindsey:shop till quite a bit further down, and even then, you know, I
Lindsey:really try to coach people on having some good boundaries on
Lindsey:what it is that they're shopping for.
Emily:And this process is actually going to save you a lot
Emily:of money and time because you're not wasting time hunting because
Emily:you don't know what you're looking for, but it's also going
Emily:to save your money because you're going to stop buying
Emily:things that aren't right for you, that you're never going to
Emily:wear. Because you talked about that, having things in your
Emily:closet that then you never want to wear because they don't feel
Emily:like you. I have half a closet full of things like that because
Emily:I don't want to wear things that don't feel comfortable, that I
Emily:don't feel comfortable in.
Lindsey:100%. And that's when we, you know, what I say is like
Lindsey:women, you know, if you find yourself standing in front of
Lindsey:closet full of clothes, there is plenty hanging in there, but you
Lindsey:look in your closet and it's full of clothes, and you say to
Lindsey:yourself, I don't have anything to wear it, you know, it's
Lindsey:because we don't have the right pieces for you. Whether it's
Lindsey:pieces that fit you well or pieces that even like work
Lindsey:together.
Lindsey:Because part of the idea, also of understanding your personal
Lindsey:style and having a value driven wardrobe, is being able to mix
Lindsey:and match your pieces together really easily and really
Lindsey:effortlessly, because they all complement each other, and they
Lindsey:all go together. And if you have things in your closet that are,
Lindsey:you know, multiple different styles or not, in the same color
Lindsey:palette for you, then again, you're going to be looking at a
Lindsey:lot of stuff in your closet but struggling to wear a lot of it
Lindsey:together. So that's also something we really coach our
Lindsey:clients on is building your best wardrobe. Also it's giving you
Lindsey:value, but also versatility in your wardrobe.
Lindsey:And going back to the idea of like, where it's going to save
Lindsey:you money in the long run, is the other thing we coach clients
Lindsey:on is you don't need to have a lot of clothes in order to have
Lindsey:a lot to wear, right? So it's not like a badge of honor if you
Lindsey:have a closet bursting at the seams, or never enough hangers
Lindsey:to hang your stuff up on, right? Because we say you don't need a
Lindsey:lot of clothes in order to have a lot to wear. So when we really
Lindsey:focus, you know, on these steps of building your best wardrobe,
Lindsey:it gets you to a place too, where you're not really having
Lindsey:to buy a lot on all the time, and that's saving you a lot of,
Lindsey:you know, energy and money as well.
Heidi:I loved your outfit formulas in your Teacher Winter
Heidi:Talk session. It was such a fun reframe. It made me think of the
Heidi:real life version of, okay, Clueless.
Emily:Yes!
Heidi:You know, she like mixed and matched all her outfits, and
Heidi:as a 90s girl, that was like a seamless dream. But this is like
Heidi:a real life way to make that work with you know, the things
Heidi:that I have, I don't have a cute little plaid mini, but being
Heidi:able to look at my clothes and feeling like I have power over
Heidi:them instead of them controlling me.
Lindsey:Oh my gosh. I wish people could see my face right
Lindsey:now, when you said that. I love that. They don't have clothes,
Lindsey:I'm gonna steal that, another audio clip I'm stealing from
Lindsey:you. Yeah, where you're like, the clothes don't have power
Lindsey:over you. You have power over them and how they're used. Oh my
Lindsey:gosh, I have goosebumps. That's so good.
Lindsey:You know, and when one of the other things that happens when
Lindsey:we walk clients through the build your best wardrobe system,
Lindsey:these steps that I'm laying out here, is they actually find that
Lindsey:they have a lot more to work with in their closet than they
Lindsey:thought they did. You have no idea how many times I've heard
Lindsey:women say, oh girl, you're gonna just like laugh when I show you
Lindsey:my closet, because I barely have anything in there. I don't
Lindsey:really have a lot. And when I teach them that the outfit
Lindsey:building blocks and the outfit formulas that you're talking
Lindsey:about, they actually start to see that there's a lot more for
Lindsey:them to work with in their closet than they thought. They
Lindsey:just never looked at it that way.
Lindsey:A lot of the pieces in their closet were really like siloed,
Lindsey:or really like structured. I only wear it this way, or only
Lindsey:wear it that way, or save this piece for that. And when I
Lindsey:introduced them to that outfit building blocks and the style
Lindsey:formulas, it is just like, you know, mind blown. Wow, I can do
Lindsey:a lot more with what I have than I thought I did.
Lindsey:And that's the final step, and build your best wardrobe. So we
Lindsey:talked about body shape analysis, style analysis, the
Lindsey:closet clean out, then strategic shopping. The final step is
Lindsey:styling, and that's where we play and have fun and do dress
Lindsey:up. And we do like mixing and matching pieces together. And
Lindsey:when all of it comes together, when all five of those steps
Lindsey:come together, you just really get to this place where, like,
Lindsey:your shoulders are like, they relax, because you're like,
Lindsey:Okay, I get this now I see how this all works together.
Lindsey:Because in that styling piece, then when you start to learn how
Lindsey:many different ways you can wear the items in your closet, or how
Lindsey:to use them differently, it also relieves that stress or that
Lindsey:pressure where you feel like you need more. Well, I need more. I
Lindsey:need more to be able to wear more. I need more to be able to
Lindsey:do more. I need more to have more variety.
Lindsey:You know, one of the things that I say, is a volume does not
Lindsey:equal variety. Just because you have a lot of clothes in your
Lindsey:closet doesn't mean you have a lot of variety of clothes in
Lindsey:your closet, because often it can end up being a lot of just
Lindsey:the same thing. And that's why you feel like you're wearing the
Lindsey:same thing all the time. Because you know, my perfect example
Lindsey:that I've been using for 100 years is, you might have 50
Lindsey:cardigans in your closet, but if, you know, 35 of them are
Lindsey:gray and five of them are black, and then 10 of them don't fit
Lindsey:you, you have like two.
Emily:Yeah.
Heidi:I feel called out.
Lindsey:So that's like, you know, when we, that styling
Lindsey:piece, when you learn those style formulas, outfit building
Lindsey:blocks, that's where you really start to learn, you know, you
Lindsey:don't need a lot of clothes in order to have a lot to wear. And
Lindsey:that's why the styling pieces last too.
Lindsey:So going back to the idea of how it's kind of counterculture, or
Lindsey:counterintuitive, how we coach clients through. It doesn't just
Lindsey:jump in right away to, okay, wear these colors this way, or
Lindsey:mix these patterns this way, or, you know, wear your cardigan
Lindsey:three different ways, this way. Because if the patterns you have
Lindsey:in your closet are not your style, you're not going to wear
Lindsey:them. If the cardigans aren't cut right for you, or the shirts
Lindsey:are cut, you're not going to wear them. So, so doing outfit
Lindsey:formulas, you know, doing the style formulas, doing the
Lindsey:building blocks, you're not going to be able to do that
Lindsey:unless your clothes fit you well. If your clothes do not fit
Lindsey:you comfortably and fit you well, if your clothes are not
Lindsey:your style, nothing else is going to work.
Lindsey:So that's why that even, like that kind of, quote, unquote,
Lindsey:fun part of doing all the different outfits, that doesn't
Lindsey:even come till last, because I want to make sure that your
Lindsey:clothes fit you well, that you're comfortable in them, that
Lindsey:you're confident wearing them, because then we can do all these
Lindsey:different outfits with them. So that's why that really comes
Lindsey:last in the process.
Emily:Oh, I love that, and it makes so much sense. It's such a
Emily:carefully thought out process, you can tell that you have
Emily:perfected this over the years. But tell us, what is your hope
Emily:for Fashion Fix in 2026, and how can our teacher audience be a
Emily:part of it?
Lindsey:Well, I would say that our big hope now and for the
Lindsey:future is just to introduce more people to the idea of building
Lindsey:their best wardrobe in the method and using the process
Lindsey:that Fashion Fix has, because we have really found that it has,
Lindsey:like, really freed a lot of women from some of the toxic or
Lindsey:negative thoughts or pressure or ideas or constructs or all of
Lindsey:that stuff that, again, has been put on them from social
Lindsey:narratives, from inner thoughts. It is really providing them with
Lindsey:a way to free themselves from that and have fun with their
Lindsey:wardrobe and feel good in their clothes.
Lindsey:And so we really, this year, just want more people to get
Lindsey:introduced to fashion fix and that this place exists, that
Lindsey:this is a soft landing spot for women that maybe previously have
Lindsey:really struggled to find a place that can help them with their
Lindsey:wardrobe in a way that feels, that feels good, that feels
Lindsey:supportive, that feels empowering, and is giving them
Lindsey:real life, practical, tactical tools and actions.
Lindsey:I think a lot too, in like the styling and fashion world, it
Lindsey:can be a lot of these big ideas, big like aspirations, but not
Lindsey:actualizations. And I will give you like, no, literally do this,
Lindsey:like do step A, B, C, D, this is how you're going to do it, so
Lindsey:that the math adds up in the end, and you're, you know, not
Lindsey:left feeling more confused, or did you even get anything done.
Lindsey:And so the more people that we can bring into Fashion Fix, we
Lindsey:just feel, the more women are going to be empowered, you know,
Lindsey:the more women that are going to be healed and helped, and that's
Lindsey:really what we want to be here to do. So spreading the word of
Lindsey:Fashion Fix is just a really big dream of ours for this year.
Heidi:That is such a beautiful mission, and we're so excited
Heidi:that you've been here to share it with us today.
Emily:And do you have a special offer for our listeners?
Lindsey:Yes, of course. Okay, so we have, if you want to get
Lindsey:started, if you listen to all of this and you're just like,
Lindsey:chomping at the bit, you're like, Okay, ladies, would you
Lindsey:quit talking so I can just go to fashion fix and get started? Let
Lindsey:me tell you where you're going to go. You are going to go to
Lindsey:fashionfixmn.com/secondstorywindow. And we have a page there for
Lindsey:your audience, for your listeners, that will tap them in
Lindsey:to a exclusive promo pricing on packaging together the body
Lindsey:shape analysis and the style quiz, because you have to start
Lindsey:there. You know, I know that sometimes it's hard and you want
Lindsey:to just like, race to the finish line or do the fun stuff first,
Lindsey:but starting with the body shape analysis and this style
Lindsey:analysis.
Lindsey:And then we're doing a gift with purchase, because, like, I want
Lindsey:you to also be able to get some traction, so we're including the
Lindsey:closet clean out when you purchase that bundle. So
Lindsey:typically, that's like a standalone, you know, workbook
Lindsey:that you have to purchase and download. But we're going to
Lindsey:give your audience a gift with purchase of a copy of that
Lindsey:closet clean out. So when they get their body shape results and
Lindsey:they get their style analysis results, they can kind of hit
Lindsey:the ground running with the next step without having to wait. So
Lindsey:they'll have access to that.
Lindsey:So fashionfixmn.com/secondstorywindow
Lindsey:is where you're going to find access to that exclusive deal.
Lindsey:And I'm sure you ladies will put it in the show notes and email
Lindsey:it out, because it's a very secret deal, because you won't
Lindsey:be able to find that page. You won't be able to find it
Lindsey:anywhere else on the website. So you want to make sure that you
Lindsey:save that link that that you get, because this is just for
Lindsey:your listeners.
Emily:Insiders only. And our team member Melanie went through
Emily:these exercises with you a couple weeks ago, and she had
Emily:such a good experience. She said that she was surprised at the
Emily:results. She thought she knew what her body shape was, and she
Emily:was surprised at what she got. And our she already found it so
Emily:enlightening. And I just am excited for our audience to get
Emily:to have that experience with you as well.
Lindsey:Yes, and you'll have to have Melanie share with the
Lindsey:audience that it's not scary.
Heidi:Yes.
Lindsey:Because that's, you know, which I get. That's
Lindsey:another thing I, you know, my entire team, we are all very
Lindsey:sensitive to. You know, especially when I was doing
Lindsey:in-person personal shopping appointments, I was like, okay,
Lindsey:these women are meeting a stranger at the Mall of America,
Lindsey:inviting that stranger to go into a fitting room with them,
Lindsey:to look at clothes that they're trying on and tell them what's
Lindsey:wrong with the clothes. Like that is a super intimate and
Lindsey:intimidating experience, and it is not lost on me. So you know,
Lindsey:just the idea that you're going to be sending in full body
Lindsey:pictures of yourself, like in leggings and a tank top. It's
Lindsey:not lost on us that that can feel like a little bit
Lindsey:intimidating. So I want you to know, like anybody out there,
Lindsey:like, it's not as scary as you think it's gonna be, and we are
Lindsey:so sensitive with what you're sending to us.
Emily:Yes, yes. That's pretty much what Melanie said. At
Emily:first, she was like, she said she wanted to do it, we asked if
Emily:she wanted to. And then she was like, wait, I have to send
Emily:pictures? But then she said, like, no, it was fine. It was no
Emily:big deal. And like, it was like, it was totally comfortable. She
Emily:wasn't even worried about it.
Emily:Yeah.
Emily:And Lindsey, we like to end our episodes with a Teacher Approved
Emily:tip. So do you have a quick, actionable tip that you could
Emily:share with our audience?
Lindsey:Oh, I sure do. Because do you know what I get from
Lindsey:teachers all the time? School spirit days and having to wear
Lindsey:school logoed apparel, and it may or may not be apparel that
Lindsey:is like unisex cut, so the t-shirts are super long, or the
Lindsey:sleeves are really long and boxy. Or the colors maybe aren't
Lindsey:ones that we love to wear for ourselves the most. So many
Lindsey:times I've helped teachers navigate this, and let me give
Lindsey:you my Teacher Approved tip for wearing your school spirit wear.
Lindsey:Number one, do not be afraid to cut or alter some of those
Lindsey:t-shirts or sweatshirts, whether it's cutting open the neckline
Lindsey:or cutting a t-shirt shorter, you know, something like that.
Lindsey:Because even if it has like a raw, that ends up having like an
Lindsey:exposed or raw edge when you cut the shirt, you could do like a
Lindsey:cute little front tuck in or something like that to make, you
Lindsey:know, make it look different.
Lindsey:And then as far as colors, if your school offers, you know,
Lindsey:obviously you have like your school colors, but if they offer
Lindsey:any of the spirit apparel in like a neutral option, so
Lindsey:sometimes they'll do like a black and white or gray and
Lindsey:white, or, you know, something kind of in a neutral option,
Lindsey:like whatever that third neutral color is sometimes, for your
Lindsey:your school, you know, opt into that. And then get, like, a fun
Lindsey:pair of sneakers in one of the bolder colors, or like a fun
Lindsey:pair of shorts or jeans. So that's not like up against your
Lindsey:face, but you're still feeling very spirit-filled by wearing
Lindsey:the team colors. Or do it in like a headband or hair
Lindsey:accessory, like tie like a bandana around your ponytail, or
Lindsey:a top knot, or something like that.
Lindsey:But if that's not an option, and you still got to wear, like that
Lindsey:royal blue t-shirt that isn't quite great for your complexion,
Lindsey:do a neutral layer over it that will tame it down, like a denim
Lindsey:jacket, or any of your dark, like a dark neutral in your
Lindsey:color palette that might work with that, like, I'm thinking
Lindsey:royal blue. So if you do, like a gray or a black, or, you know,
Lindsey:something like that, that might, you know, tone it down. So do a
Lindsey:layer over it in one of your neutrals that might be more
Lindsey:complimentary towards you.
Emily:Oh, I love that.
Heidi:So good.
Emily:Perfect. Lindsey, it was a pleasure having you, and we
Emily:will have the link to learn more about you and your special offer
Emily:for our audience in our show notes. And where else can they
Emily:connect with you?
Lindsey:You can find us, all of our socials are at fashionfixmn,
Lindsey:because I am based in Minnesota, so fashionfixmn, that's going to
Lindsey:be all of our social channels, and it's going to be our website
Lindsey:too. So if you look that up, you can find us anywhere.
Emily:Perfect. Thanks so much, Lindsey, it was great chatting
Emily:with you.
Lindsey:Thanks for having me again, ladies.
Heidi:To wrap up the show, we are sharing what we're giving
Heidi:extra credit to this week. Emily, what get your extra
Heidi:credit?
Emily:I'm giving extra credit to my new favorite mascara. So I
Emily:prefer a tubing mascara, and the one I'm loving right now is the
Emily:tartlet tubing mascara from Tarte, and I like the XL one,
Emily:and I have been wearing brown, which I find looks nice with my
Emily:eye color. So looks great, it doesn't flake, and it washes off
Emily:really easily. So it's a win all around.
Heidi:Well it's so funny that you're saying this because,
Heidi:like, a half hour ago, I was just thinking, I have got to
Heidi:find a new mascara, because I don't wear mascara every day
Heidi:because I work from home. But when we were doing Teacher
Heidi:Winter Talks, we were on camera every day for like, four days,
Heidi:and by the fourth day, my eyes were so irritated.
Emily:I remember.
Heidi:So I was looking up, like, best hypoallergenic
Heidi:mascara, and that was the one that came up. I was like, oh,
Heidi:I'm ordering that.
Emily:I love it. I love it. And I also try not to get, like, too
Emily:close to my actual eyelid, too if, like, I find that I feel
Emily:itchy, then I try to keep it more to the ends of the lashes,
Emily:so that might help you, too.
Heidi:It's too hard. It's too hard.
Emily:What gets your extra credit, Heidi?
Heidi:Okay, well, my extra credit goes to the brain game
Heidi:sticker by number books.
Emily:Oh.
Heidi:This is not something I've ever considered doing
Heidi:because I just thought it was like something for kids, but I
Heidi:saw their Valentine book and it was so cute, so I just ordered
Heidi:it for myself, like the grown up I am, and I think of a fan. If
Heidi:you're not familiar, it's just like paint by number, but you're
Heidi:putting stickers in little numbered boxes. It doesn't take
Heidi:any skill, it's minimal clutter, and unlike, you know, a hobby
Heidi:like crocheting, you know, I'm not left with some item at the
Heidi:end of it that's like, well, everyone in my family already
Heidi:has hats. What am I doing with this one? You know, this can
Heidi:just get tossed or recycled or, you know, out of my hair.
Heidi:And the pictures are cute. I love that. It's spiral bound so
Heidi:it stays open. And I noticed, you know, as someone who's
Heidi:taught a lot of preschool over the years, I've become a
Heidi:connoisseur of stickers. These peel off really easily, and if I
Heidi:have to move them on the page, I can move them without them
Heidi:tearing. Like it's really nice. And I've just loved having
Heidi:something to do in the evening instead of scrolling my phone.
Heidi:And as I guess, a bonus extra credit. So I have really bad
Heidi:arthritis in my thumbs, and so holding small things like
Heidi:stickers can be really painful.
Emily:Yeah.
Heidi:So I knew I needed something, and I found something
Heidi:called reverse tweezers. Now, normally tweezers, you have to
Heidi:pinch to close them and then you have to hold them shut, but
Heidi:these are the opposite. You pinch to open and then they hold
Heidi:themselves shut. It's been a game changer for my poor thumbs.
Heidi:So I will link to the book and the tweezers in the show notes.
Heidi:It's just been a really nice little side hobby.
Emily:I love it. I'm going to give it a try.
Heidi:That is it for today's episode. Remember Lindsey's tips
Heidi:for reclaiming your closet, and if you want to check out that
Heidi:special offer she has for our listeners, head to
Heidi:www.fashionfixmn.com/secondstorywindow, or follow the link in the show
Heidi:notes.
Heidi:We hope you enjoyed this episode of Teacher Approved. I'm Heidi.
Emily:And I'm Emily. Thank you for listening. Be sure to follow
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Heidi:You can connect with us and other teachers in the
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Heidi:Bye for now.
Emily:Bye.