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Embracing Pacing Transforming Passion into Sustainable Success
Episode 764th December 2025 • The One Small Change Podcast • Yvonne McCoy
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In this episode of One Small Change, Yvonne McCoy sits down with certified business coach Debra Russell to dive into the powerful impact of small, intentional changes on both health and entrepreneurship. Debra Russell shares her journey from a high-powered film and TV career to building a business that helps passionate individuals turn their craft into thriving, sustainable ventures. Through her personal story of overcoming illness, Debra Russell introduces the concept of “pacing” as a key to both healing and business growth, breaking the myth that more hustle always leads to success. Together, they unpack the importance of self-leadership, smart delegation, and developing systems that honor creativity without sacrificing profitability. Tune in for actionable insights—and a refreshing reminder that slow, steady, and strategic steps can create monumental transformation.

Guest Bio:

Debra Russell is a certified business coach, MBA, and expert in NLP and hypnosis. With a background in film and television production, Debra Russell transitioned into coaching after a serious illness, discovering her calling in helping creators, athletes, and passion-driven entrepreneurs build sustainable, profitable businesses. Raised with business savvy by a CPA parent and a lifelong entrepreneur herself, she brings a blend of practical business structure and heart-centered guidance to her clients.

Chapters:

00:00 "Surrendering to Heal"

04:52 "Pilates and Self-Acceptance"

09:41 Creativity Through Structure

12:35 Delegation and Workflow Simplified

16:47 "Join, Share, Grow, Transform"

17:37 "One Small Change Strategy"


Quote from the Guest:

“One small change at a time…if you try to change too much too fast, you will rebel against it or things will happen that throw you off and you will revert to your default. So one small change.”


Link:

Click here to get your free “Overwhelm into Action” workbook: https://tinyurl.com/TheOneSmallChange

Connect with Debra at: debra@debrarussellcoaching.com or https://www.debrarussellcoaching.com/

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Welcome to the One Small Change. I can't believe it's another week. And I am

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thrilled to embark on this journey of exploration and

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transformation with you. I'm your host, Yvonne McCoy, and I bring almost

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30 years of entrepreneurial experience. And I have a passion

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for discovering growth through the power of seemingly small change.

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So I'm glad you came. With me this week we have another wonderful guest

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who's going to share how a small, unexpected or significant,

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insignificant decision sparked a

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transformation in either their personal or their professional

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or both. So today I am happy to

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share with you, introduce you to Debra Russell. Debra,

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thank you for being here. Thank you for having me, Yvonne. I'm

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thrilled to be here. So tell us what you do

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and what was it that made you start to do it and makes

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you really good at what you do? Okay, so I

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am a certified business coach. I'm an mba,

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and I also am certified in

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NLP and hypnosis. What

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got me into coaching was a very long,

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winding road, so I won't bore you with that. But I

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was very, very sick and knew I could not go back to

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my previous life, which was in film and television

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production. And I just kept saying, well, what am I supposed

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to do next? And coaching sort of found

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me. So I decided to investigate it. I

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hired a coach, and then I went ahead and

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did my coach training and opened my coaching business because it

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was the most perfect match

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for who I am, for my core competencies.

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Like, I never even. Like, coaching didn't exist back

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then. That was, you know, the early aughts. No one had ever heard of

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coaching. When I told people I was a coach, they would say Lamaze

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and I'd say, no.

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Right? No. So

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that, you know, just kind of following, just kept asking what

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was supposed to be next and then following wherever that led

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me took me to coaching through a lot of

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very interesting serendipities, which of course, you don't see

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while they're happening, but in hindsight become

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very clear. But I will say that when I was

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very ill, the one small change

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that changed everything for me, that I got a lot of

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pushback, frankly, for my family about. So I was very

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ill. I was bedridden. I was working with a

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therapist because I had lost everything.

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And something she said to me, which was, you chose

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an illness that you could not

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fight against, that the more you fight it, the

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sicker you get. You chose an illness

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that you have to surrender to.

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And she was right. And I'm a fighter,

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Yvonne. I am. I'm an a Type. Go get them.

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Hustle and grind fighter. That's my personality.

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And I couldn't fight this. The more I fought, the sicker

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I got. So I surrendered

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and I learned a key skill. Skill

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called pacing.

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Pacing. I know, I know.

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Pacing basically means you stop before you get

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tired. You don't do more than.

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Than you can. And if you. You're tired, it's

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already too late. You've done too much. Yeah, right.

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And so I kept having to do less and then do less

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until I found my baseline for what

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I could do on any given day and not get sicker.

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And that's where I started, and I built from there.

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I'm laughing because this sounds so

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familiar. I mean, you know, I can think about different points

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in my life when I just was like,

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I'm pushing, I'm pushing. And they're like, you know,

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this doesn't work. You know, you. You know, I. There was a time when

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my daughter was very sick, and I was like a

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maniac. And the therapist said

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to me, the child that you knew is no longer

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there. And I was. I was ready to physically assault her.

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I was like, how dare you say that to me? Right?

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You know, and. And I was not willing to accept her the way

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that she was. I mean, it was like, this is, you know, and, you

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know, and I. And I think back also, I just started Pilates,

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and the first session went really well. And the second session I was like, I

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can do more, right? And she was like. She was

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like, no. And the next day,

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I said to my husband, even my lips hurt. I. I mean, I.

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I almost couldn't get out of bed. I was like, so, yes, I

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absolutely do understand what you're talking about. And, And

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I think that one of the things that.

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That you said that, That I found

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interesting is you said you bring business savvy,

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you know, so tell me about that a little bit. Tell me about,

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you know, what it is that you actually do and, And. And where

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the pacing comes in. Right. So I

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specialize in working with people who are pursuing their

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passion as a business. So that started

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with working in the arts and entertainment industry. That's my

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background, working with artists, with musicians.

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I also work with athletes who are

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absolutely pursuing their passion, and it's a business.

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And I also work with people like you and me that. On. Who are

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doing what we do because we love it. The

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common through line is that we spend all this time, energy

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and money learning our craft, our skill, our game.

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But for most people, and yeah, there are exceptions to

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this Rule. But for most people, no time learning

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business. And so I

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was raised by a cpa. I've been in business

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for myself since I was a kid. I've always run my

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own business. Business is kind of a core part of who

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I am. And so. And I love

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the arts and I love hanging out with artists, I love hanging out with

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athletes. I love hanging out with people who are passionate

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because I should not be more passionate about your goals than

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you are. Right. That's boring to me.

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I could get you successful, but I'm not having fun. So.

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So I help you who

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love what you do, who know about what you do.

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I help you create the foundation of a business

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to support it. I help you create the systems, the

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strategies, build the team, understand,

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like what experts do you need on your team, what

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assistance do you need, how to hire and fire, how to

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describe the job, and how to

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delegate and give away the things you're doing

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yourself that you should not be doing yourself.

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And so that's how I bring the business savvy.

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So that you don't just have a passion, you have a business

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that is sustainable, that is profitable, that you

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can take a vacation from, and that at

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some point you might even be able to sell.

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So one of the things that I love about what you say is

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most people start their business from their passion. And

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so one of the things that I find is interesting is.

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In terms of the levels of leadership, it's kind of like

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self leadership, Leadership of a project,

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leadership of a team, the leadership of an organization.

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Many people are very good at leadership of the

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project, but they are not good at self leadership.

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And so it makes it really difficult for them to scale their business.

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And you know, one of the things that I say all the time is the

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two things. The first one is.

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Entrepreneurs are really good at spotting talent. And then they

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micromanage them to mediocrity because.

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Because they won't do it their way. It's so true.

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You know, but the thing is, you hired them because you saw something

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in them that was like exciting and now you totally

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squelched it. Right? Well, people

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micromanage because they don't know how to delegate. Right.

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Delegation is a skill. But also because they have not

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built out their system. Right. It's very hard to delegate

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something that lives inside your head. Yes. That is

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not documented and does not have an operations

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manual. And I would think that for the people that you work that are in

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the creative thing, it's like, you know, it just, it comes to

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me. It just, you Know, it just oozes from my course

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and they think that it will make them less creative. But actually

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it's very freeing. I mean, I have a thing called, you know,

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I have lots of acronyms and systems. But one is, you

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know, when you're in a situation, first you want to look at the

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procedural. Is there, you know, if somebody's not doing something right,

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is there, you know, did they follow the procedure or is

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there not a procedure or does the procedure need to be updated?

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Then you look at the personal. Because where we start is, oh, Susie never does

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this right. Or Bob is always, you know, whatever. But if

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you haven't told them what it is you want them to do

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in a way that they can duplicate, how can they get it right most of

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the time? So, you know, and then the issue is, have you

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actually trained them to do what it is that you want them to do?

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And probably even before that is, did you

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hire them for the role that you really needed them for? I mean, I had,

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I had, I used to coach women executives of non profits.

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And I cannot tell you how many times I heard this, this statement,

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the universe brought me this person.

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Oh dear. Yes. I would say, you know, how about

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we try you ask the universe for what you need so

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that when you, it brings you this person, it's the right person

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instead of you being affixed to this person and now trying to

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find a job for them. People find people

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are attracted to other people because of their energetic

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connection. That does not necessarily mean they have the skill

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set that they need. And I love what you were saying

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about understanding what you know, what is

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the job? Have you documented the job? Have you

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trained them on that documentation? But also

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have you then let them use their core

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genius to make your system

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so much better? Yes, but. And here's the most important

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piece. And then documented those changes. Yes. Because

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if they don't document those changes, they're going to move on to

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another job because people do. Right. And then

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you're screwed and because all the things that they're doing,

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gone. Yes, Right. And I have to say one other thing

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about delegation, because this is like a hot button with me. You

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know, typically people say you delegate, you automate, you eliminate. Right,

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Right. And I would say that you do it just in reverse.

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First of all, you have to have. My system is called Productivity

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ahead. So first of all, not everything works in every situation.

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So you have to be aware of what situation you're in and what it is

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that you're trying to accomplish. Then you put things on hold,

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then you eliminate stuff, then you automate, which is

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not necessarily a system. It doesn't have to be a technology

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thing. You know, it can just be, you know, you're the last person that drank

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the last cup of coffee, you make the next pot, right? Or, you know, you

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order the copy paper or whatever, right? And then

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you delegate the stuff that's important that's going to grow your

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business. Delegation is actually training. You are

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actually training people to do important parts of your business.

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If you start with delegation first, you are giving them the junk that's

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on the top of your pile, right? And there is a place for that.

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But what I. I have to leap on what you just said because

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it's so important. Especially with small business

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owners or solopreneurs, what happens is

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that they market, they market, they market, they market. They get busy, they get busy,

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they get busy. They're no longer busy because they stopped

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marketing. And then they. Because they're too busy to market. So then they market, they

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market to market. That is a roller coaster. That's the

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feast. That is not growth. The growth line for

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that business is flat, right? That.

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That is not growth. So what you've got to do

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is before you're too busy, you need to build out

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the marketing system and have someone

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else trained to do it because you're

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doing the thing that is your core genius,

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right? And you're too busy to market because you're doing

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your core genius. So you need someone else doing that.

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I. I hate to cut you off because I would love to keep

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talking, but we. I say this on every podcast,

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but we are running out of time. So tell me if, if you

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have a gift for us, tell me what it is and you know

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how people can get the most out of it. So let's start with that before

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we run out of time. You bet. You bet. So I have an

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ebook. I already sent you the short link for it.

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It's called Move from Overwhelm into Action. A Guide

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to Shift from Procrastination into Productivity.

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Productivity is one of my core areas of focus

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with clients. The first couple of chapters

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are absolutely the foundation from where you should

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start to deal with the basic

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mindset issues around productivity. And there

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are exercises in every chapter, so there's stuff for you to

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do to really start to shift that for yourself. If

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you. If you grab that, you are going to be in my

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circle of influence. And

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you can also reach me my email. If you can spell my name,

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you can email me. My email is

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deborah@deborahrussellcoaching.com

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and so, Debra, no extra letters. Russell, two

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S's, two L's. Okay, so, so here's the

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trick question. You bet. When was the last time you did something new for the

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first time? Gosh.

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Well, actually I. I am

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embarking on something new as we speak, which is

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really using Instagram to

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market my business. I am Insta stupid and

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I really don't understand Instagram. I don't know how it

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works. So I am delving into

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how to use, like, how Instagram really works. Like, I don't even

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know how to comment on people. Like, I'm so lost when it comes

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to Instagram. So I'm learning Instagram, I'm learning how to use

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it for my business and I'm a little terrified,

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but I'm doing it anyway, so. So stay tuned. I am

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@bizcoachdebra on Instagram, so you'll

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get to watch my growth. And my

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screw ups. Well, you know, that just makes you more

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relatable. So. So here's the commercial, guys.

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I hope you'll take the time to subscribe and share

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and engage on social media. And the reason I did this is so

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I wanted to be able to expose other people to some of the fabulous people

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that I'm meeting and help grow this vibrant community

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and fuel your quest for growth and impact. And so I hope you will continue

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to join me for the one small change and find things that you

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can sm, the smallest shifts that can, you know, yield really

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monumental transformations for you. And you may want to take a minute and

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listen to the first episode, why I where I explain why I'm

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doing what I'm doing. And also I do a quarterly clarity

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check in so that at the beginning of each quarter you can take a look.

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So, Debra, what are your last words of wisdom for people?

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What do you want them to remember? The one small change

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is a critical concept for everything you

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do in your business, what you do with your time management and

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productivity. One small change at a time.

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You know, slow and steady wins the race, as we all learned

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as kids. And if you try to change too much

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too fast, you will rebel against it or things will happen

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that throw you off and you will revert to your default.

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So one small change. All right then.

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All right. So what I want to say is, remember, change

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can be simple, but it's not always easy. And it requires

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courage, resilience, and a willingness to step out of your comfort zone. If

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you are comfortable, you are not growing. And in

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fact, you're probably stagnating, because if you

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think you're standing still, the world is moving past you. So I

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want to make sure that you. Have a mindset

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where you're curious and you want to embark on these changes to grow your

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business and have the impact and the profit that you really deserve.

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So if you will join me again for the one small change,

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we can together build bold visions and innovative

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possibilities. And so I'm going to say to you,

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until we meet again, stay very curious. And, Debra, thank

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you so much for being here today. Absolutely. Thank you for having

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me. This was great.

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