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Season 1 Wrap Up: Not idealizing consistency & honoring cycles of energy
Episode 164th July 2023 • Empowered Introvert • Heidi Jandel Weiland
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Hi friend, this short episode wraps up Season 1. I’m taking time off to enjoy travels and be present with all the summer activities, as well as reflecting on the direction I want to take this podcast. 

Today, I talk about the pressure of being being consistent and deciding to stay present with cycles of the seasons. I also share what I’ve learned about showing up to record episodes every week and what the process has looked like to find my authentic way of doing things.

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Hello, my beautiful introvert friend and anyone

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else joining the empowered.

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Introvert podcast.

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I'm your host, Heidi.

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And this is our season one wrap up.

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I have decided to do a season, a wrap up to kind of put an end

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to the season because I've got a lot of stuff happening in July.

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I'm going to be traveling and

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I had thought originally about prerecording sessions, but as I'll talk

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more about later, that just didn't seem like the right decision, not just for,

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for me and my energy, but also for the example that I am endeavoring to set.

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So this episode, I'm going to talk about some reflections on the season on what

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I've learned from a personal perspective and what's next for the podcast.

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So why do you seasons for a podcast?

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Originally I had planned to do seasons without thinking too much about

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when they would be how long a season would be and just trusting that I

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would figure it out along the way.

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And along the way, I pretty much forgot about it.

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You know, you get into this idea that consistency is key.

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You hear this message all of the time in the marketing space that you

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got to show up, you got to always be there when people are expecting.

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And what I found is not just for myself, but for my clients too,

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like this idea of consistency.

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It is like while consistency is important for professionalism and

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getting some things done, oftentimes like everyone is different.

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Some people it's very easy to be consistent for some people that's

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not the best way that they work.

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And so when you try to push yourself into being quote unquote

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consistent, it creates not only a lot of pressure, but a lot of shame.

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I have seen this so often in my clients where they want to do

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something regularly in their business or in their life, in their habits.

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And because they don't do it regularly, like every day, they then feel really bad

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about it and they go into a shame spiral.

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And from that place, it becomes even more difficult to do the

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thing that they wanted to do.

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And it's just not effective.

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Right.

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And so I am in a point in my life and my business where I'm really searching,

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exploring, finding the best ways to work that helped me not just manage my energy,

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but to show up in a more powerful way.

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And having seasons is a way to help do that.

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And there's also this natural energy of, of summertime that's happening,

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where we refocus and we're, we're using our energy for other purposes

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and I'm going on a couple trips.

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It's going to be like, I could continue to do the podcast and I'm sure I could

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find fun ways to do it, but I also want to be really, really present in, in.

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In the adventures that I'm having, because I think that is

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like, not only does that yes.

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Feel better personally, but again, that is a better example.

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Like that is how.

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I want to, how I do encourage my clients and friends and

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everyone to live their lives.

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So I need to do that too.

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So this podcast, though, it has been so fun and it, I we've got 15

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episodes that are packed with so much great coaching insight for introverts

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and really anyone else who lives a bit more of an unconventional life.

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And, you know, for me, I started when I first started, I was doing the podcast

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I had, I was following some guidelines.

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I had very kind of rigid ideas of what the flow should look like and preparing

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my notes, preparing the topics, how far in advance I should do that.

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And as I got more comfortable with the process with the, all the software

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involved, I really just wanted to have fun with it and allow what

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I felt was important in the most.

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The moment to come forth versus planning out.

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You know, all of the episodes.

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And so that, especially in the last five episodes has really

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been how I've been approaching it.

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And so not only does it feel.

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Easier to do, but it takes less time and it just feels more natural.

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Like I'm just trying to be myself as authentically as I can be versus being a

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professional podcaster who puts her makeup on and like follow checks, all of the.

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The things off of the list.

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And yes, and I think that's going to be the way that I will do it moving forward.

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And maybe trying to get away from the.

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The office to an out, into the world a bit more to really

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share thoughts that are coming.

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From from a, like, from nature, from an inspired place, even though

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I think about the, the topics.

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Pretty quite a lot before.

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Before I do record.

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In terms of what is next for the podcast?

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I am not sure.

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I am in, I am really open to experimentation and maybe

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opening up the conversation.

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A bit right now in my own world, I'm really getting into human design.

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I'm a projector and exploring what that means.

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And there's some really amazing.

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Amazing ideas that I would I can see myself exploring more.

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And also like not just being introverted, but being a person who is living an

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unconventional life in terms of like your energy, the way that you communicate.

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And how that affects different areas that you show up, like,

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like having your own business.

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Your relationships A job.

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So there's so much to explore there and I'm really, I'm going to be doing

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a lot of journaling and reflecting and so, both see what comes of it.

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I'm super.

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Yeah, I'm super curious and excited.

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In terms of when we'll restart, I'm imagining sometime in

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August, maybe mid August.

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So.

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We will, we will see as that time.

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I'll be traveling I think until maybe the first week of August.

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So yeah.

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Yeah.

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And I really want to thank you for being here for listening.

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If you are actually listening to my words right now, that is so amazing.

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Like the miracle of technology and podcasting.

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It's so cool.

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And really like this podcast is for you.

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Knowing that you are listening is so huge for me.

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It's what keeps me motivated.

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And I'm also curious about your thoughts about your questions.

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And would love to hear from you, especially.

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Especially before I'm, as I'm like planning this next quote, unquote

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planning, but thinking about what this next season we'll, we'll cover, I'd love

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to know what interests you so you can reach out to me on any of the social

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media is if you're on my email list.

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You can respond there if you're not on my email list, I'd love to have you there.

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I'll put links for my website, for my contact form.

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Just like you can go from this podcast right over there and send me a question

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or whatever you've been thinking about.

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I would love to hear from you.

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All right friends, have a beautiful July.

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Enjoy your summer.

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I encourage you to, you know, Let's think about ways that you

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too can also shift your shift.

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Shift your schedule, a sift this idea of perfect consistency and

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really allow yourself to too.

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Fully explore and experience what this time in your life.

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Is is bringing up for you whether that is the S you know rare sunny days in

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alaska or something else so take care and i will see you in season two Bye for now

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