All or nothing is it? Either lay down and submit OR you’re King Kong for the moment. This dysfunctional unbalanced relationship with others is not helping you. Maybe your self-centered survival skills have finally place you “beyond human aid?”  Don’t worry, Toby C. is here to help explain why your unaided will cannot summon the courage to do battle or retreat with dignity. Listen for hidden principles, spiritual in their nature, when discovered and practiced as a way of life, can bring us to a mid-point, a resolution, and a solution. It’s called healthy confrontation, mindfulness, harmony, and sobriety