In our last UC episode, we talked about our relationships with our mothers and how we learn from those relationships to treat our partners as adults. We wrap it up with what kind of legacy of love we want to leave for our black kids - a legacy of shame, of forgiveness, of silence, of belief in our ability to be unique and fully express ourselves. 

This episode will go a little further and explore our language of love as black men, and how we effectively communicate it. Culturally speaking there is a disconnect between  what we think love is and what women perceive as love, not always romantic love but respect. Are we speaking clearly? And in a way they can hear us?