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Speaker:hello there boyfriend
Speaker:how are you this fine day
Speaker:I'm really good
Speaker:is it working
Speaker:yes excellent
Speaker:let's not touch shit
Speaker:I'm afraid to ask
Speaker:but I have a great question
Speaker:I don't even know what I was gonna say
Speaker:I'm so disturbed right now
Speaker:I got two questions coming in
Speaker:and both of them
Speaker:are from people I know that pose this question to me
Speaker:and then said
Speaker:could you ask Doctor Erica
Speaker:they said could you ask your girlfriend
Speaker:and the first question is
Speaker:what is the normal amount of a masturbating
Speaker:which brings me to a follow up question
Speaker:this friend of mine
Speaker:isn't it weird that I have friends like this guy
Speaker:did you just get that random text
Speaker:it was an audio message Wanna meet
Speaker:Wanna meet for lunch
Speaker:and by the way
Speaker:how many times should I jerk off
Speaker:yeah I get more now that I'm dating you
Speaker:because they know I could ask you the question really
Speaker:but there's certain friends that
Speaker:there are certain friends
Speaker:I got one friend
Speaker:one of my best friends
Speaker:I'll bet he wouldn't say the word masturbate to me
Speaker:he would never bring it up
Speaker:this other guy
Speaker:he goes hey
Speaker:how often you do it
Speaker:and then he asked also
Speaker:within the relationship
Speaker:what do you think is appropriate
Speaker:because you and I a little bit different
Speaker:I'm traveling sometimes
Speaker:what if you were home all of the time
Speaker:I'm these are all things this man asked me
Speaker:I'm not even um
Speaker:I'm not even expanding on his question
Speaker:these are all questions he had
Speaker:he said like
Speaker:what's a normal amount
Speaker:and then he said
Speaker:is it weird that sometimes
Speaker:even though I live in the set
Speaker:you know me and my wife are here
Speaker:is it a weird thing that I
Speaker:sometimes masturbate
Speaker:and instead of
Speaker:can I give you my thought
Speaker:you're the professional
Speaker:and I'm not a doctor
Speaker:can I give you my
Speaker:yeah Raymond's thought
Speaker:yes my thought would be
Speaker:if you masturbate instead
Speaker:of having sex with your wife bad
Speaker:yeah if you masturbate because all your wife's working
Speaker:she's exhausted
Speaker:she doesn't feel like it
Speaker:I think nothing wrong with that
Speaker:I think once you're choosing porn
Speaker:especially like porn
Speaker:masturbation
Speaker:and that choosing that over sex
Speaker:I think we start to have intimacy problems
Speaker:you're right
Speaker:you're absolutely right so um
Speaker:you will not find a physician
Speaker:out there who will tell you
Speaker:you shouldn't masturbate right
Speaker:unless it's for their religious reasons
Speaker:but for health perspective
Speaker:it is wonderful for everyone to masturbate
Speaker:I encourage it across the board
Speaker:yeah you've told me that you I do
Speaker:cause you have some women that don't right yeah
Speaker:and you told them
Speaker:you gotta get in there
Speaker:statistically speaking
Speaker:women who masturbate actually usually
Speaker:achieve higher levels of recurrent orgasms
Speaker:climaxing because they know what their body wants
Speaker:and then they're more comfortable in their own skin
Speaker:to then convey that to their partner to say hey
Speaker:you know what
Speaker:this is actually what helps me achieve an orgasm
Speaker:so it just blew my mind
Speaker:it helps strengthen relationships
Speaker:because a woman knows what she needs to achieve
Speaker:sexual satisfaction and fulfillment
Speaker:and usually
Speaker:if you're comfortable
Speaker:conveying to your partner that you do masturbate
Speaker:you have to get over that her first
Speaker:a lot of people are scared to even talk about that word
Speaker:yeah you made a great point
Speaker:not to interrupt you
Speaker:but just to clarify
Speaker:you're not saying
Speaker:women that masturbate a lot
Speaker:are able to achieve this higher
Speaker:um level of orgasm
Speaker:more pleasure
Speaker:by themselves
Speaker:you're saying
Speaker:by doing it by themselves
Speaker:they're bringing it to their partner
Speaker:yeah and making the whole thing better
Speaker:well it's very difficult
Speaker:when I have a patient who says
Speaker:what should an orgasm feel like
Speaker:right when they're in their 30s
Speaker:yeah their 40s
Speaker:how do you answer that
Speaker:you just make a bunch of noises
Speaker:what do you say to them
Speaker:do you know how sad that is
Speaker:though yeah
Speaker:to say like
Speaker:you've never had one
Speaker:right and they honestly mean that
Speaker:in their forties
Speaker:so I always recommend clitoral stimulators
Speaker:like the suction ones
Speaker:they're the easiest for women to get off on
Speaker:external stimulation far outweighs internal stimulation
Speaker:on success rates of achieving orgasm okay
Speaker:well a lot of women pulled
Speaker:will even say they've never had an internal orgasm ever
Speaker:not even with masturbations
Speaker:it's difficult for a lot of women
Speaker:but if you've never had an orgasm
Speaker:the best way is to try an external one
Speaker:and I love sex toys
Speaker:I really do
Speaker:because if you're by yourself
Speaker:it's sometimes intimidating to touch yourself
Speaker:and when you have a device that helps
Speaker:and can go faster harder
Speaker:do different things that maybe you couldn't do yourself
Speaker:it kind of takes the shame away for it for some people
Speaker:because they consider it to be like
Speaker:a device that's helping
Speaker:now flip side though
Speaker:a lot of people have shame associated with masturbating
Speaker:and I think that's a big problem
Speaker:yeah I think um
Speaker:people afraid to tell me yeah
Speaker:I think a lot of guys listening just now
Speaker:lost their erections when you got to the shame part
Speaker:it's a big problem though
Speaker:are you well
Speaker:society doesn't want us to talk about masturbating
Speaker:you should be out there having sex with somebody
Speaker:religion there's so many different religions that
Speaker:talk about how you cannot touch yourself
Speaker:and it's a healthy part of our bodies
Speaker:I mean humans were meant to procreate right
Speaker:if you strip part of that away
Speaker:and make it this big taboo
Speaker:this horrible thing
Speaker:it takes the joy and the love
Speaker:and the fun and the excitement out of it
Speaker:sex is gonna suck
Speaker:so I told everyone to masturbate
Speaker:the frequency
Speaker:I mean do it every day
Speaker:can I say I can't say something
Speaker:were you expecting that
Speaker:no I so every day
Speaker:well again physicians love it
Speaker:because there are so many positive
Speaker:benefits to masturbating
Speaker:um do you know what I didn't know
Speaker:you said two things that I think
Speaker:I'm embarrassed
Speaker:I didn't know what
Speaker:well I know now
Speaker:I didn't know a year ago
Speaker:met you about a year ago
Speaker:that's why I'm saying it that way
Speaker:I didn't know that a woman
Speaker:you ready for this uh oh
Speaker:I did not know
Speaker:and I would be willing to bet
Speaker:there's gotta be more men that don't know that
Speaker:I know this for a fact
Speaker:because one friend of mine
Speaker:I talked to him about making women orgasm
Speaker:he's like what is it
Speaker:what happens
Speaker:and he was he's like a 50 year old man
Speaker:and he was like confused
Speaker:that women orgasm was very bizarre
Speaker:but I'll admit to you right now Erica
Speaker:but you didn't think they did
Speaker:he was not aware of what
Speaker:how it how it sounded or what happened
Speaker:he was like oh
Speaker:I think she likes it when I do my thing wow
Speaker:I know he's older than me too
Speaker:well that's an intimacy thing mm hmm
Speaker:do you know what I didn't know
Speaker:do you have a guess
Speaker:I didn't know that women can have orgasms on the inside
Speaker:and the outside
Speaker:no idea I don't think
Speaker:oh really I would say
Speaker:I don't know
Speaker:I don't know
Speaker:how many men know that
Speaker:you can have a double orgasm too
Speaker:you can have both at the same time wow
Speaker:we talked about this before
Speaker:but you and you said to me
Speaker:I think if I were to invent any kind of pill
Speaker:it would be
Speaker:it would be either um
Speaker:I'd like a superpower
Speaker:it would either be invisibility
Speaker:or being able to make anyone shit their pants
Speaker:you have told me that if you had a pill made
Speaker:it would be to lessen the refractory
Speaker:is that the right word
Speaker:refractory period of a guy being able to go again
Speaker:cause that is not
Speaker:it's I mean no
Speaker:it's a cliche
Speaker:but guy not go again
Speaker:not having erection again
Speaker:ejaculate a second time
Speaker:oh yeah for women
Speaker:sex is so much
Speaker:and I shouldn't say women
Speaker:for any partner
Speaker:receiving penetration by a male partner
Speaker:or a person with a penis
Speaker:right I like to think about women with it
Speaker:but you're right
Speaker:there's an element of satisfaction
Speaker:that goes along with it right
Speaker:like I enjoy having sex with you
Speaker:I love it when you actually orgasm wow
Speaker:so if then you're like having sex with me a second time
Speaker:like right after just to make me feel good
Speaker:it's kind of a guilty thing like okay
Speaker:you're doing it for me but like
Speaker:it really turns me on when I know that you're satisfied
Speaker:so I would have loved like
Speaker:if I can have multiple orgasms
Speaker:I would love it if my partner could as well
Speaker:it's a weird design flaw
Speaker:um is it not a design flaw
Speaker:is it not an engineering fail
Speaker:that guy does one and the women has multiple
Speaker:maybe not
Speaker:maybe not I don't know
Speaker:but it seems a little
Speaker:I think for bonding it's nice
Speaker:I think it's interesting how
Speaker:women can have sex for quite a while
Speaker:and want to continue
Speaker:and once a man has ejaculated it's done
Speaker:once I've had an orgasm
Speaker:yeah I do want to keep going yeah
Speaker:there's such a disparity between like
Speaker:it's so fun
Speaker:like it like yeah
Speaker:for a woman
Speaker:I feel like sometimes it's like sex orgasm
Speaker:we're just getting the party started
Speaker:and for me it's like sex orgasm
Speaker:you go wash your hands
Speaker:you come back
Speaker:I have a sleep mask on
Speaker:there's there's an
Speaker:I'll be a noise machine playing
Speaker:like it's over
Speaker:we're done for the day
Speaker:well I think you have to look at um
Speaker:what an orgasm does too yeah right
Speaker:so when you climax
Speaker:your body releases neurotransmitters
Speaker:one of them dopamine
Speaker:the happy hormone right
Speaker:and um semen
Speaker:my body doesn't do that
Speaker:uh but oxytocin
Speaker:and that's the love bonding horse
Speaker:love oxytocin big fan
Speaker:well for women
Speaker:it's really
Speaker:that one is like
Speaker:our driving force of why we want to be intimate
Speaker:a lot of women can't even have sex with their partner
Speaker:until they feel love
Speaker:and they need physical touch
Speaker:they need a hug
Speaker:a hand held
Speaker:yeah sometimes even
Speaker:doing something positive for someone else can release
Speaker:oxytocin so when you're like
Speaker:setting up the romantic date for your partner right
Speaker:she gets turned on
Speaker:the biggest sex organ for a woman is her brain
Speaker:hmm so with sex
Speaker:it's like let's keep going
Speaker:because I now feel bonded to you right
Speaker:and the release of oxytocin really helps
Speaker:relax everything
Speaker:and that's why you feel so amazing afterwards
Speaker:like you feel this connection with the person
Speaker:you feel this powerful bond
Speaker:that maybe you didn't have right before
Speaker:like it heightens it a little bit
Speaker:definitely when there's so many positives of
Speaker:of masturbating
Speaker:because you can achieve oxytocin by yourself by the way
Speaker:it doesn't have to be with somebody
Speaker:isn't that fascinating right
Speaker:that is fascinating
Speaker:so it's not just that bonding hormone
Speaker:but it still conjures this feeling of like yes
Speaker:really good
Speaker:also masturbating
Speaker:a lot cheaper
Speaker:right there's no dinner
Speaker:there's not it's a lot
Speaker:there's less
Speaker:it's less complicated
Speaker:I know what you're saying
Speaker:I'm just saying it's a
Speaker:I don't even know where to go
Speaker:do you think some guys masturbate
Speaker:and they should
Speaker:because it is an easier simpler
Speaker:I'm not totally joking here
Speaker:I know guys that have been
Speaker:almost about to get a prostitute
Speaker:and what they do is
Speaker:they masturbate to avoid having to get the prostitute
Speaker:saving that money
Speaker:and then do you know that when get
Speaker:I've what I'm afraid to ask
Speaker:but I have a great question
Speaker:ah do women
Speaker:so when you're a guy
Speaker:you're almost two different people
Speaker:before and after um
Speaker:you finish right
Speaker:so like there are things you
Speaker:cause you get excited
Speaker:there are things you might say or do that
Speaker:and maybe guilt plays into this
Speaker:maybe like a religious guilt
Speaker:but there are moments when
Speaker:right when after it happens
Speaker:like there's like
Speaker:kind of like a guilt like
Speaker:oh my God like
Speaker:I feel like
Speaker:I feel like back in the day I
Speaker:I wished that the perfect orgasm would be
Speaker:it happened right
Speaker:right as the girl was leaving
Speaker:door closes
Speaker:oh my gosh that's terrible to say
Speaker:just in the sense of like a
Speaker:like a shame thing
Speaker:oh and I'll be honest with you
Speaker:I didn't get the whole connection thing until I met you
Speaker:I guess it takes a minute
Speaker:I guess it takes a minute until you meet somebody
Speaker:but um yeah
Speaker:all the questions gonna ask you is
Speaker:I think guys feel very
Speaker:it changes their mental state a ton before and after
Speaker:not just taking a nap
Speaker:it's time to go to sleep
Speaker:is that true for women or not so much
Speaker:right I mean yes
Speaker:a lot of the physiological manifestations of sex
Speaker:orgasm and what you feel afterwards
Speaker:are similar in both genders
Speaker:I think you have to take into account context
Speaker:more than anything
Speaker:I think what you're asking is like
Speaker:do do women have like those same feelings
Speaker:yeah I mean
Speaker:sometimes if I'm in a good mood though
Speaker:I'm in a better mood
Speaker:if I'm in a bad mood and we have makeup sex
Speaker:I'm in a great mood right
Speaker:um uh huh yeah
Speaker:I don't know I I
Speaker:I love to circle back to your question of the frequency
Speaker:though because I think oh yes
Speaker:please well
Speaker:I think the problem is
Speaker:so many people think that they're gonna break it
Speaker:I get that question a lot from guys like
Speaker:if I if I masturbate too much
Speaker:am I gonna have a problem
Speaker:right uh huh
Speaker:not only can having orgasms
Speaker:like really reduce your stress level
Speaker:it actually combats cortisol
Speaker:your stress
Speaker:your fight or flight hormone
Speaker:it helps your body relax yeah
Speaker:it can have cardiovascular health benefits too
Speaker:you're getting a workout
Speaker:depending on what you're doing
Speaker:especially if you're intimate with a partner
Speaker:and moving around
Speaker:you're getting your blood flowing
Speaker:your oxygen is circulating quicker
Speaker:you're having all of those health
Speaker:benefits through your body and your bloodstream
Speaker:so you're helping yourself
Speaker:but the problem is
Speaker:when is it too much yeah
Speaker:I don't think there's a problem with that
Speaker:because it's not like
Speaker:another advice where you could get into trouble
Speaker:if you drink too much or smoke too much
Speaker:the problem is when it becomes
Speaker:why you're masturbating hmm
Speaker:if you're masturbating
Speaker:because you only like something a certain way
Speaker:and your partner cannot fulfill that
Speaker:then you won't be able to orgasm with your partner
Speaker:and it's going to create a huge disparity and
Speaker:conflicts in your relationship
Speaker:and it could actually
Speaker:damage or even break up the relationship
Speaker:sure and then similarly
Speaker:what do you do when you masturbate right
Speaker:do you fantasize about someone
Speaker:do you fantasize about your partner so like
Speaker:you've told me that you think about me when you're
Speaker:across the country and we can't have sex
Speaker:and if that's true
Speaker:that's super nice it is true
Speaker:it's absolutely true
Speaker:but you know what
Speaker:you know what
Speaker:to compliment even further
Speaker:not to be not to be super romantic
Speaker:but I thought about that stuff
Speaker:even before we started dating
Speaker:gross
Speaker:I was like it was like
Speaker:oh my God you don't have any Olympics
Speaker:what they kind of like rehearse they run through it
Speaker:that's all I was doing was training javelin right now
Speaker:so there you said they're afraid they're gonna break it
Speaker:can I tell you something
Speaker:yeah if you do it too much
Speaker:I fucking tried
Speaker:I have tried
Speaker:you tried to break your penis
Speaker:I mean as a young adult
Speaker:there were times when
Speaker:it gets a little so you can't do it the next day
Speaker:cause there's there's some issues too much
Speaker:yeah well absolutely
Speaker:well I will tell you um
Speaker:the only negative that I have had with
Speaker:frequent masturbation is come everywhere
Speaker:oh you mean yourself sorry
Speaker:I don't I apologize
Speaker:I'm trying to be professional here
Speaker:and it's kind of impossible
Speaker:you're saying
Speaker:I misunderstood
Speaker:you're saying with a woman yourself
Speaker:the only problem
Speaker:is that what you're saying
Speaker:you're saying I'm still hung up on like
Speaker:the seam in Olympics coming out of your mouth
Speaker:yeah just it's
Speaker:it's called visualization
Speaker:when you're trying to get pregnant
Speaker:because you can overuse your semen reserves
Speaker:and males need time to regenerate
Speaker:so if you're having sex or masturbating too frequently
Speaker:you're not going to have enough sperm right
Speaker:so sometimes we'll recommend like in every other day
Speaker:for example
Speaker:when you're trying to conceive
Speaker:that's the only negative
Speaker:really right
Speaker:again though
Speaker:relationship wise
Speaker:if you're masturbating
Speaker:because you have to watch porn to get in the mood
Speaker:this can be a very big problem
Speaker:there's actually a huge
Speaker:huge problem right now in
Speaker:society that we don't really talk about
Speaker:about the dangers of porn
Speaker:I don't have a problem with porn
Speaker:I don't have a problem
Speaker:no if you came
Speaker:if you came home from work
Speaker:and I'm in here and you walk in
Speaker:whoops and I'm watching something on my phone
Speaker:I just give you a hard time
Speaker:yeah cause you'd be busted
Speaker:I know you'd have that look of like
Speaker:yeah oh yeah
Speaker:absolutely yeah
Speaker:your sound effect
Speaker:it seemed like I finished as you were coming in
Speaker:oh gross would you
Speaker:be upset depending on the the content
Speaker:the type of porn
Speaker:the type of porn absolutely
Speaker:what if it was some like a gang bang
Speaker:wouldn't you be like
Speaker:what is this shit
Speaker:because then it makes you wonder like
Speaker:what is this person into
Speaker:right totally
Speaker:give me one second while I erase my history
Speaker:okay continue
Speaker:underage girls
Speaker:that's a big one though
Speaker:that's a huge red flag
Speaker:that a lot of women need to look into
Speaker:instead of normalizing well
Speaker:they're 18 right
Speaker:if you're a 40 year old man
Speaker:and you're watching 18 year olds
Speaker:that are dressed up to look like school aged
Speaker:girls in high school
Speaker:yeah that's where the partner needs to have some
Speaker:really strong
Speaker:discussions with you
Speaker:to see if this is something that you can change or not
Speaker:so the type of porn absolutely matters by the way
Speaker:what if by the way
Speaker:I saw you watching like guy on guy
Speaker:then I would have a ton of questions
Speaker:tons of questions right
Speaker:so types of porn absolutely matter
Speaker:and also by the way not likely
Speaker:guy and guy
Speaker:but I'm sure that there's been
Speaker:incidences where that's happened
Speaker:and then the other partners left to wonder
Speaker:while they're the opposite gender
Speaker:are they fulfilling their partners needs
Speaker:can I tell you something honestly
Speaker:and I feel slightly guilty about this
Speaker:I one time I've never watched
Speaker:I've never searched out guy and guy pornography
Speaker:but one time when I was younger
Speaker:I had a magazine with naked women on it
Speaker:and I went to turn the page and by mistake
Speaker:I finished on a Cologne ad with a guy
Speaker:wait a minute
Speaker:as you're jerking off
Speaker:you're turning the pages
Speaker:yeah before you could focus on one page
Speaker:no there's so many different options
Speaker:this is like uh
Speaker:how we used to
Speaker:this is like our TikTok
Speaker:like our you'd switch it back and forth the page
Speaker:you go from one scene to another
Speaker:there's pages
Speaker:and one time it ended as
Speaker:and I was on the wrong
Speaker:it was like a guy in a horse
Speaker:you came to uh
Speaker:with a Cologne
Speaker:an equestrian
Speaker:I did photograph
Speaker:I swear to god
Speaker:that's a true story
Speaker:and I'm probably
Speaker:I was like oh god
Speaker:that feels weird
Speaker:was it like the Marlboro man might yeah
Speaker:it was like similar to that
Speaker:like a tough man selling a Cologne
Speaker:I totally interrupted you
Speaker:I just wanted to tell you that
Speaker:so if I ever asked
Speaker:you what the worst orgasm of your life was
Speaker:could we go to that one
Speaker:yeah yeah it's just
Speaker:that was most confusing
Speaker:because it was so good just my
Speaker:just the feelings I had
Speaker:yeah you know what's weird
Speaker:next day to him
Speaker:and wipe off his mustache after oh my God
Speaker:let me tell you something
Speaker:next day I bought that Cologne
Speaker:that shit works
Speaker:advertising works
Speaker:talk about successful marketing
Speaker:so you were saying
Speaker:I'm sorry advertising
Speaker:I was saying
Speaker:I think the type of porn can be very
Speaker:detrimental to a relationship or very telling
Speaker:sure and also
Speaker:it becomes extremely difficult in society when you have
Speaker:these supermodel looking women
Speaker:with a lot of plastic surgery
Speaker:which I'm not knocking
Speaker:I've had plastic surgery
Speaker:I'm open about it
Speaker:but what they're setting it up for
Speaker:is this perfect supermodel with this average guy
Speaker:yeah he is an average guy
Speaker:isn't it always
Speaker:an average guy with a belly
Speaker:yeah just happens to have a huge penis
Speaker:sometimes not even a huge penis
Speaker:but also the women the
Speaker:the angles are usually made to look at the
Speaker:the man's perspective
Speaker:and treating the woman
Speaker:yeah the woman is moaning
Speaker:I'll search it that way
Speaker:right acting as if she's extremely into it
Speaker:or faking orgasm
Speaker:several times
Speaker:they must be faking it
Speaker:is the professional
Speaker:so the the man or woman watching this pornography
Speaker:has this super inflated idea
Speaker:that all of sex has to be this glamorous person
Speaker:yes this fake
Speaker:perfect body
Speaker:who orgasms really easily
Speaker:several times
Speaker:and you're right
Speaker:it gets it's too
Speaker:it's too high of an ideal
Speaker:and in order to have an orgasm
Speaker:even as a guy
Speaker:you're a guy going like okay
Speaker:let's bring all the other girls in
Speaker:everybody put their glasses on
Speaker:it really does make it
Speaker:difficult for an average couple to be intimate
Speaker:when the expectation is that
Speaker:and that's the only way
Speaker:if you have a recurrent pornographic watcher
Speaker:and that's all they watch in reality
Speaker:they can't achieve it
Speaker:and often times they cannot ejaculate
Speaker:or orgasm uh
Speaker:depending on the gender
Speaker:cause they're used to that
Speaker:and then the partner has this really big problem of
Speaker:I can't do what these fake people can do sure
Speaker:that's where pornography addiction happens
Speaker:where you cannot anymore have good sex in real life
Speaker:can I be honest
Speaker:that's problematic
Speaker:that is problematic
Speaker:I do I barely watch pornography
Speaker:I told you that right
Speaker:yeah and I probably watched more than you
Speaker:to be quite honest
Speaker:you think I don't watch a lot of it but I mean
Speaker:yeah me neither
Speaker:when I watch it
Speaker:I only watch it for like 2 to 3 minutes haha
Speaker:alright oh my God do you guys watch the whole thing
Speaker:do women do the same thing
Speaker:that's weird right
Speaker:back in the day we had VHS tapes for pornography
Speaker:I gotta stop doing this aging myself thing
Speaker:but you would never find a VHS tape
Speaker:all the way to the end or all the way around
Speaker:it was always stopped right there
Speaker:cause you you know what I mean I
Speaker:I think most women
Speaker:and again I'm speaking because of myself
Speaker:find the best porn for us to watch
Speaker:that's focused on the woman receiving action
Speaker:so if a man is performing oral sex to the woman
Speaker:and the angle is at which I can see it
Speaker:it turns me on okay
Speaker:watching a man just slam into a woman
Speaker:with penetrative sex doesn't do it for me
Speaker:because it's the angle of
Speaker:the way that the guy is positioned usually
Speaker:porn is shot in a way that's appealing for a man hmm
Speaker:yeah you know what I don't like in porn
Speaker:what it's my least favorite thing in any instance
Speaker:I don't like when there's a guy and he's like
Speaker:making too many noises
Speaker:I prefer the guy to be very quiet
Speaker:I don't like when he's like
Speaker:I always think to myself
Speaker:what emotions were you just doing
Speaker:please don't no
Speaker:don't do I don't wanna see
Speaker:let's stop that
Speaker:that's right
Speaker:indefinitely
Speaker:bring it you know
Speaker:I don't like it I go
Speaker:did you just film your own porn just now
Speaker:but I don't like when they make all those noises
Speaker:cause I wanna go hey buddy
Speaker:you're a you're a porn star
Speaker:act like you've been there
Speaker:to me that's like you just scored a touchdown
Speaker:you're a professional football player now
Speaker:you're dancing all around
Speaker:she's like eh
Speaker:come on buddy
Speaker:just give it a nod
Speaker:drop the football
Speaker:right couple of high fives
Speaker:you know
Speaker:I don't even know what I was gonna say
Speaker:I'm so disturbed right now
Speaker:I have a situation
Speaker:a friend of mine's in that I could tell you
Speaker:that involves pornography
Speaker:I have a friend of mine who is in very
Speaker:good relationship
Speaker:very loving relationship and um he
Speaker:recently kind of invited me about the situation he's in
Speaker:and he said that everything's going great with his um
Speaker:relationship
Speaker:but the other day the
Speaker:there's so much to this
Speaker:there's so much to this
Speaker:the other day his wife picked up his phone
Speaker:and the way he described it to me
Speaker:you and I are very open with our phones
Speaker:I don't have a phone that like
Speaker:I'll go ahead take a picture of my phone
Speaker:there's no like protectiveness or like
Speaker:I'm afraid someone's gonna text me yeah
Speaker:you the same with me the other day
Speaker:you're going to therapy
Speaker:and I was like
Speaker:I forgot my phone and you go take mine for an hour
Speaker:we don't have a phone thing
Speaker:we have no phone thing
Speaker:he it sounded like she was looking through his phone
Speaker:oh like it didn't seem like oh
Speaker:something popped up
Speaker:and she went to his search history
Speaker:well there's problems right there right
Speaker:if you feel like you have to look in the first place
Speaker:there's probably problems with the relationship
Speaker:but go ahead
Speaker:she goes into the search history
Speaker:oh she finds
Speaker:now it's not pornography
Speaker:it's not hey
Speaker:18 year old girl
Speaker:it's not oh
Speaker:step that you know
Speaker:yeah my stepdad likes me better than you mom
Speaker:nothing like that oh
Speaker:I don't know what that is
Speaker:that that just
Speaker:that whole genre disturbs me
Speaker:yeah um okay
Speaker:yeah I'm gonna still
Speaker:continue to watch it till I get to the bottom of it
Speaker:stop so she says that she finds in his history
Speaker:on on only fans thing
Speaker:where he has
Speaker:do you know my
Speaker:my onlyfans story
Speaker:maybe I'll tell you
Speaker:so where he has subscribed
Speaker:not just advertisements
Speaker:coming up for a girl with an Onlyfans thing
Speaker:he's paying the girl $5
Speaker:$10 a month
Speaker:you know onlyfans right
Speaker:like it's basically
Speaker:it's not necessarily porn stars
Speaker:naked people
Speaker:I don't know
Speaker:this probably was
Speaker:and it's like
Speaker:oh little videos
Speaker:it's not live
Speaker:it's not it's not a chat room no
Speaker:I don't like it but um
Speaker:so she kicked him out of the house really
Speaker:I wouldn't I didn't
Speaker:but you said
Speaker:if you walked in
Speaker:you saw my thing
Speaker:you would be
Speaker:you'd be like
Speaker:laugh about it
Speaker:so why the difference in
Speaker:because that's a real person
Speaker:and a lot of the time with fantasies yeah
Speaker:you watch a pornographic movie
Speaker:hopefully you're not watching the same exact movie
Speaker:1,000 times over
Speaker:because you have a thing for the woman that's
Speaker:having sex in the video
Speaker:I did that once
Speaker:but as long as I couldn't forget to download it
Speaker:and I was on airplanes
Speaker:it's but it had nothing to do with well
Speaker:if you pay for an expensive movie
Speaker:you wanna get your money's worth
Speaker:you wanna watch it more than once
Speaker:I won't judge you there
Speaker:but that's where
Speaker:I think it differs
Speaker:the only fancy thing is it's a lie
Speaker:it's a real person who's like
Speaker:wanting you to keep returning and watch more of them
Speaker:so you're not worried about
Speaker:all the time
Speaker:I'm worried about
Speaker:you're not worried about
Speaker:exploitation
Speaker:cause you're saying like
Speaker:this person is
Speaker:obviously making some money
Speaker:this is something they chosen to do
Speaker:you're more worried about
Speaker:some sort of connection or intimacy problem between
Speaker:this guy and his wife
Speaker:because he's
Speaker:I'm worried about your friend
Speaker:watching a woman
Speaker:who he clearly has a thing for
Speaker:you think see
Speaker:I don't I don't think he does
Speaker:I think he I think
Speaker:his wife doesn't have a lot of time for them to be
Speaker:intimate right now
Speaker:he should just be
Speaker:watching porns
Speaker:random porns
Speaker:regular porns
Speaker:I think so if that's what really does it for him
Speaker:if it's one person
Speaker:over and over and over again
Speaker:why wouldn't you think
Speaker:that there's something there
Speaker:that has to be like hmm
Speaker:they have a thing for this
Speaker:obviously has a thing for wow
Speaker:I wanted to
Speaker:disagree with you so badly
Speaker:and you've almost totally
Speaker:convinced me well
Speaker:I don't think
Speaker:maybe it's not like
Speaker:I wanna go leave my wife for this woman right
Speaker:but certainly
Speaker:now you wonder
Speaker:when you're having sex with me
Speaker:are you thinking about me
Speaker:or you thinking about this one other girl right
Speaker:versus like
Speaker:okay sometimes you watch porn
Speaker:you like to
Speaker:watch a guy and a girl having sex
Speaker:and then the next
Speaker:week or month
Speaker:or whenever you do it
Speaker:you're gonna watch a different one
Speaker:it's not an intimacy level hmm
Speaker:it would drive me crazy
Speaker:if you watch one girl
Speaker:over and over
Speaker:and over again wow
Speaker:that's so interesting
Speaker:but it makes perfect sense
Speaker:it feels like a form of cheating
Speaker:to be quite honest
Speaker:I get it I get it
Speaker:I didn't get it
Speaker:cause also when you're
Speaker:when you're having an orgasm
Speaker:and you're watching this woman
Speaker:yep you're thinking of that woman
Speaker:you're not thinking of me
Speaker:that's true
Speaker:when you're watching a porn
Speaker:you're watching
Speaker:multiple people have sex
Speaker:to me it's very like
Speaker:you're kind of
Speaker:like the observer
Speaker:in a bigger picture
Speaker:doesn't bug me
Speaker:that's another good point
Speaker:that I think
Speaker:all onlyfans
Speaker:I'd honestly
Speaker:don't know much about it
Speaker:but I know all onlyfans
Speaker:I think are
Speaker:usually a girl
Speaker:just the one person right
Speaker:I don't know
Speaker:I've never seen an onlyfans sing
Speaker:I've seen a couple
Speaker:but only because
Speaker:oh really did I tell you this story
Speaker:did I ever tell you that
Speaker:no I'm in Lowell Arkansas
Speaker:home of Walmart
Speaker:where Walmart was created
Speaker:so there's a comedy club there
Speaker:and you get a great crowd
Speaker:smart people
Speaker:a beautiful area
Speaker:well Arkansas
Speaker:at the end of the show
Speaker:I'm selling t shirts
Speaker:this look you're giving me is uh
Speaker:it's making me nervous
Speaker:but I also like that you care
Speaker:so I'm I'm just gonna say the whole truth
Speaker:I didn't know you at the time by the way
Speaker:this was years ago and I was also single
Speaker:this girl comes up
Speaker:then I don't have a problem with it by the way
Speaker:okay but listen
Speaker:oh there's more great oh yeah
Speaker:this girl comes up to my table and at first glance
Speaker:I had I feel like gotta be a an exotic dancer
Speaker:stripper prostitute something
Speaker:there's something about her just gigantic like I mean
Speaker:I mean like a cart almost like a like a circus level
Speaker:you nothing like a normal
Speaker:woman would have that would walk around and be a doctor
Speaker:or a banker or anything
Speaker:these were like gigantic displayed breasts okay
Speaker:and she came off my table and she was she was like
Speaker:there was a guy
Speaker:but he wasn't standing right next to her
Speaker:when she starts saying
Speaker:a lot of nice things about my comedy Erica
Speaker:oh my God you're so funny
Speaker:blah blah blah right
Speaker:and then she goes what um
Speaker:where do you guys stay at
Speaker:whenever a girl after a show ask you where you stay at
Speaker:it usually means like they wanna sleep with you right
Speaker:like what hotel are you at type of thing
Speaker:or do you think you don't think so
Speaker:probably it's getting there
Speaker:there's some kind of yeah
Speaker:there's something
Speaker:so to be honest
Speaker:so I don't I usually have I usually don't
Speaker:I don't tell the truth on that
Speaker:and I said oh
Speaker:I'm just it
Speaker:I said that Hilton
Speaker:I said a made up thing or whatever and um
Speaker:I didn't find her attractive
Speaker:she definitely looked like a someone in the industry
Speaker:but I wasn't like
Speaker:oh this girl's hot
Speaker:it was more like okay
Speaker:like she looks like she could be in a in a
Speaker:exotic film or something
Speaker:she says to me
Speaker:I don't know what you're doing after
Speaker:but me and my husband
Speaker:husband husband
Speaker:he's right behind her now
Speaker:he comes up
Speaker:she goes we have a
Speaker:she gives me a business card
Speaker:that says her name
Speaker:and then it says onlyfans on this business card
Speaker:and then it says we
Speaker:we have this thing this big
Speaker:basically like a mansion
Speaker:this big big
Speaker:a bunch of land
Speaker:and there's a bunch of hot tubs and a pool
Speaker:and we're just gonna go back and just like relax
Speaker:and there's like it's fun
Speaker:we have video games and stuff and um
Speaker:would you wanna
Speaker:would you wanna maybe come over
Speaker:sounds like the Playboy Mansion parties
Speaker:it was like a like
Speaker:that's the picture I'm getting
Speaker:do you know you know
Speaker:I said it was a little Arkansas
Speaker:it's the Walmart version of the Playboy Mansion
Speaker:like this is gonna be like a lower end
Speaker:and so he did try to hook you with video games so yeah
Speaker:my expectations aren't too high
Speaker:so I was single
Speaker:I had nothing to do that
Speaker:right you went
Speaker:I went home and ordered a rotisserie chicken from a
Speaker:food place and just ate it by myself and didn't go
Speaker:oh I was like ready for a story
Speaker:the next day on Twitter
Speaker:I get a message that says
Speaker:hey sorry it didn't work out
Speaker:and you didn't want to come over
Speaker:you're not gonna believe what I'm gonna tell you
Speaker:she goes I'm sorry you didn't wanna come over like
Speaker:sorry if we offended you
Speaker:like that was definitely not the intention
Speaker:and then it says
Speaker:you probably don't even want this
Speaker:but here's a free
Speaker:subscription to my only fans for a year
Speaker:I don't wanna offend you
Speaker:but this is like my business is what we do
Speaker:I'm not trying to be weird
Speaker:obviously you weren't interested
Speaker:and she sends me a link oh
Speaker:alright well I mean
Speaker:you gotta check it out
Speaker:I would have checked it out
Speaker:I clicked the link
Speaker:yeah no judgement
Speaker:don't look at me like I'm gonna get mad at you
Speaker:it's fine it opens up
Speaker:is it just it's just her
Speaker:and she says
Speaker:hey guys it's time for um
Speaker:it's a subscriber appreciation uh Friday
Speaker:this would happen on a Thursday
Speaker:the the night that she came up to the merch table
Speaker:it was a Thursday
Speaker:oh it's time for subscriber appreciation Thursday
Speaker:we filmed a special video only for subscribers
Speaker:and we want to show it to you guys and whatever
Speaker:and it was a video of the palatial estate
Speaker:they had spoken of hot tubs
Speaker:and then on screen comes um
Speaker:one of the person that opened for me getting blown what
Speaker:by this girl what
Speaker:in front of her husband
Speaker:what you saw someone you worked with penis
Speaker:yeah and she
Speaker:in someone else's mouth
Speaker:yeah and it offended me at first because I was like
Speaker:I am the headliner
Speaker:I thought she came up to me because I was really funny
Speaker:and that's all
Speaker:it doesn't matter who it was
Speaker:you just gonna go right from headliner to feature
Speaker:to opener if you don't get me to come back
Speaker:wow so if I'd gone back
Speaker:so you would have been in your own pornographic movie
Speaker:yeah and that would have been a hard story for me to
Speaker:I don't know
Speaker:I don't think anything I I
Speaker:I would have
Speaker:I didn't go and that lives forever on the internet
Speaker:yeah and I'm sure he gave permission
Speaker:cause this was on his
Speaker:on the only fans this man
Speaker:his face his penis
Speaker:everything was there damn
Speaker:so if I had gone
Speaker:that's what they were
Speaker:that's what I thought
Speaker:that's what they wanted was gonna happen
Speaker:and that's what they wanted
Speaker:is that crazy
Speaker:but I didn't look at it anymore
Speaker:I mean I didn't look at the
Speaker:the free only fans anymore
Speaker:I love free stuff
Speaker:so it's really tempting
Speaker:I felt like it was wasting it
Speaker:but isn't that kind of wild
Speaker:you know what
Speaker:I had a little bit of jealousy
Speaker:you did oh does that make you happy
Speaker:it does cause I said so much
Speaker:well no so it doesn't bother me that you watched
Speaker:it doesn't bother me
Speaker:we weren't even together
Speaker:what I was thinking is
Speaker:if you had gone and you got filmed
Speaker:how upset I would be that
Speaker:like anybody could have seen your naked body hmm
Speaker:now and that's mine
Speaker:yeah that's all I thought
Speaker:that makes perfect sense
Speaker:I like that type of jealousy
Speaker:I think but like
Speaker:it doesn't bother me
Speaker:even if you had gone
Speaker:that was just like
Speaker:I wouldn't want anyone to see you now
Speaker:that wouldn't bother you
Speaker:even if there's no video cameras running
Speaker:or they film it and then I go no
Speaker:I'm not giving you permission
Speaker:that wouldn't bother you
Speaker:if I had a story where yeah
Speaker:I went back
Speaker:it was weird
Speaker:this lady gave me oral sex
Speaker:her husband watched
Speaker:the husband watching to me is the crazy part
Speaker:I mean I think the whole thing is fucked
Speaker:hahaha yeah
Speaker:if you wanna know
Speaker:I mean that's messed up
Speaker:I I feel like
Speaker:at least for me
Speaker:I like to practice monogamy
Speaker:but to each their own
Speaker:they were both consenting
Speaker:so it gets not fun
Speaker:but for me it is in a relationship absolute
Speaker:I do not in any way understand
Speaker:the whole I wanna see my girl with some other guy
Speaker:oh my God like when I was um
Speaker:any people arrange that
Speaker:they pay for it if um
Speaker:if I ever wanted to see something like that
Speaker:back when I was in a relationship
Speaker:I would have
Speaker:I would have come home early from work
Speaker:what I was like back when you were in a relationship
Speaker:such a bit I apologize
Speaker:um I said that I got fooled once
Speaker:oh well well
Speaker:you said back when you were in a relationship
Speaker:it kind of threw me
Speaker:oh I'm sorry
Speaker:did you forget you have one
Speaker:I was trying not to talk about an exact person
Speaker:that's why I mumbled
Speaker:jumbled there a little bit
Speaker:I think that you
Speaker:you know what
Speaker:I think this is the most important point
Speaker:and I get this a lot
Speaker:I do a lot of therapy in my practice
Speaker:believe it or not
Speaker:you mean you come in as a doctor yeah
Speaker:I have a lot of women come in and ask me and men too
Speaker:um about sexual concerns and intimacy
Speaker:relationship questions
Speaker:about how to get turned on
Speaker:and how to be better in bed with their partner
Speaker:cause they feel like there's an emotional disconnect
Speaker:yeah I think the most important thing
Speaker:regardless of this story or any others
Speaker:is open communication with your partner
Speaker:yeah could I
Speaker:I don't wanna interrupt you
Speaker:but if you ever had a guy that's like
Speaker:I'm having trouble getting an erection
Speaker:and then you walk and he goes
Speaker:oh it's fixed
Speaker:thanks for I'm good
Speaker:cause you're huh
Speaker:um I'm sorry
Speaker:you continue
Speaker:I tried to it's kind of happened it has
Speaker:it probably has
Speaker:fuck well should've asked
Speaker:so you're saying a guy came in
Speaker:I don't wanna interrupt your thought
Speaker:cause you go back to your
Speaker:and then we'll put a pin in that
Speaker:you were just saying
Speaker:sometimes take their own
Speaker:if a couple is totally fine with that
Speaker:and they get turned on by watching each other
Speaker:have sex with other people
Speaker:as long as it's consenting adults
Speaker:and they're doing what they wanna do
Speaker:I have no judgment for other people
Speaker:I have judgment for myself and my relationship with you
Speaker:yeah so you know what I expect and what rules I have
Speaker:and I know what you expect and what rules you have
Speaker:and therefore
Speaker:we can have fun and
Speaker:explore and do a ton of stuff together
Speaker:without disrespecting the other person yeah
Speaker:I got jealous of a guy
Speaker:you were with
Speaker:I think 25 years ago
Speaker:with a quick sex tape
Speaker:oh so that's
Speaker:that was nothing
Speaker:god but I'm
Speaker:I'm I'm not proud of this
Speaker:oh no I just meant like
Speaker:I would like you to know like yeah
Speaker:sex with you is better
Speaker:so like if it ever makes you feel bad again
Speaker:just think about that
Speaker:I'm staying with you and I'm not with him
Speaker:that's nice
Speaker:um thank you for that right
Speaker:but that makes sense
Speaker:one of my very best friends is a swinger
Speaker:who guy or girl
Speaker:both oh it's a couple
Speaker:wow they're married
Speaker:are swingers good at
Speaker:not trying to
Speaker:like you know
Speaker:Jehovah's witnesses
Speaker:are not good at letting you kind of do your own thing
Speaker:religiously
Speaker:they'll knock on your door
Speaker:they'll give you pamphlets
Speaker:are swingers
Speaker:live and let live
Speaker:or do they try to
Speaker:you know what's the word I'm looking for
Speaker:not coerced
Speaker:but did they try to
Speaker:you know what the army
Speaker:did they try to
Speaker:well I mean
Speaker:this is my best friend I've known since I was like
Speaker:22 so I mean
Speaker:I think she was very respectful and like
Speaker:what she wanted to do versus me
Speaker:she was really nervous to tell me
Speaker:it was a very interesting conversation
Speaker:and then when she finally said it
Speaker:I was like oh fuck
Speaker:tell me more
Speaker:and she was like
Speaker:oh I'll tell you more
Speaker:and he was like
Speaker:hours of her describing
Speaker:like what they did
Speaker:and I was like holy shit
Speaker:were they hot
Speaker:was she hot
Speaker:I guess she's beautiful
Speaker:but what I think is interesting is
Speaker:she was really embarrassed to tell me
Speaker:and I'm her best friend wow
Speaker:and I think it was a judgment right
Speaker:and once she realized like
Speaker:I was open minded to what works for her and her partner
Speaker:right then it
Speaker:was like oh okay
Speaker:I can tell her everything
Speaker:cause she's not gonna judge me
Speaker:right up until that moment
Speaker:she said it was a very close
Speaker:thing with just a few people
Speaker:they told because most people
Speaker:don't approve of an orgy of
Speaker:20 people or
Speaker:going over to another couple's house and just
Speaker:swapping partners in front of each other
Speaker:I would be worried that I would be into it
Speaker:until after I finished
Speaker:and I was like
Speaker:we shouldn't have done that
Speaker:I just and then what are we gonna do
Speaker:eat dinner yeah
Speaker:they actually dated a couple once for a while
Speaker:like they were like
Speaker:for some like dated
Speaker:dated for months
Speaker:like they were
Speaker:monogamous with another couple
Speaker:and they would go on dates
Speaker:they would celebrate
Speaker:anniversaries
Speaker:I don't I don't need another anniversary
Speaker:polyamorous
Speaker:relationships in like a compound
Speaker:always have struck me as interesting too
Speaker:where you can just like swap in and out
Speaker:because again
Speaker:for the average human
Speaker:men women both
Speaker:the average person
Speaker:does still find an emotional
Speaker:connection to some degree yeah
Speaker:so things very interesting when you can have
Speaker:a whole group living together
Speaker:and just pick a sexual partner
Speaker:and there aren't jealous feelings
Speaker:sister wives
Speaker:what the fuck is that
Speaker:I'd be a terrible sister wife
Speaker:I'd be like
Speaker:get the fuck out
Speaker:it's my turn
Speaker:I don't know what that is
Speaker:I don't know
Speaker:first first of all
Speaker:it's a it's a show
Speaker:it's like oh
Speaker:it is it's polygamists
Speaker:it's based on like
Speaker:real show not
Speaker:not fake show no
Speaker:it's real polygamists
Speaker:and Utah of all places yeah
Speaker:they still have certain
Speaker:they love that community yeah
Speaker:yep and it's not
Speaker:by the way it's never
Speaker:a woman with multiple husbands
Speaker:you imagine
Speaker:having to get
Speaker:fucking badass
Speaker:that would be
Speaker:I would just
Speaker:multiple wives
Speaker:can you imagine having to get
Speaker:permission from 10
Speaker:women to go out with the guys
Speaker:I would be the wife
Speaker:with the 10 wives
Speaker:you'd be the
Speaker:the wife with the
Speaker:10 husbands no
Speaker:I don't want fucking 10 husbands
Speaker:I decided that would be terrible
Speaker:you would be a wife
Speaker:with 10 wives
Speaker:nothing would get done
Speaker:I'd be the wife
Speaker:and I could have left 10 other wives
Speaker:around me you're the
Speaker:you're the lead wife
Speaker:with one husband
Speaker:you're saying
Speaker:no husbands
Speaker:do you have a shit
Speaker:I would get done in a day
Speaker:oh I'm sure
Speaker:with 10 wives
Speaker:here's my problem
Speaker:one day with 10 wives in a year
Speaker:with 10 husbands
Speaker:of course and
Speaker:I have a problem
Speaker:here's my problem
Speaker:with plague me
Speaker:don't you feel like
Speaker:we love each other
Speaker:I think we love
Speaker:spending time together
Speaker:but there are times when you want
Speaker:space right
Speaker:you want your
Speaker:we've all talked about like
Speaker:once we're apart
Speaker:we try to think of ways to make it easier
Speaker:to be a park
Speaker:you go I get my
Speaker:bed to myself
Speaker:yeah I get what
Speaker:no one's fucking
Speaker:asshole snoring it
Speaker:whatever it
Speaker:whatever it is
Speaker:but can you imagine if
Speaker:when you left
Speaker:a relationship
Speaker:you wanna cross the street to another
Speaker:wife like fuck
Speaker:that's what they do
Speaker:and they each get a day
Speaker:depend on how many wives there are
Speaker:she'll be like
Speaker:oh this is my weekend with him right
Speaker:and the rest of them
Speaker:they have children together
Speaker:so there's like
Speaker:10 kids 20 kids
Speaker:or whatever
Speaker:and they're raising
Speaker:the other women's kids
Speaker:when that woman has
Speaker:three nights in bed with him
Speaker:yeah and then
Speaker:they just switch yeah
Speaker:I'm still thinking about earlier
Speaker:when you said
Speaker:but that also has a lot of
Speaker:religious connotations
Speaker:and I think a lot of
Speaker:women probably don't want that
Speaker:relationship
Speaker:but they do it out of
Speaker:religious obligation
Speaker:sure 48 or 49
Speaker:minutes ago
Speaker:you said that
Speaker:your sex number
Speaker:oh would be so different
Speaker:if we kind of
Speaker:oral sex and
Speaker:it's all I've been thinking about
Speaker:um well like
Speaker:hand jobs too
Speaker:or like any touching
Speaker:this is not helping
Speaker:um well that
Speaker:your number would go up also
Speaker:I presume well
Speaker:just a little bit
Speaker:what I would ask you
Speaker:but I'm afraid to ask
Speaker:honestly I don't
Speaker:what for reals
Speaker:it would only go up
Speaker:a tiny bit nah
Speaker:I guess it would
Speaker:I guess you're right
Speaker:you're right
Speaker:double standard
Speaker:well let's eliminate that then okay
Speaker:coming up on the next episode of afraid to ask
Speaker:you know what
Speaker:my friend asked me what to ask you
Speaker:what he goes
Speaker:how do I know I'm good and better not
Speaker:I don't know if I'm good or bad in bed why
Speaker:does your friend want your girlfriend to answer that
Speaker:because you're a doctor
Speaker:not well how am I
Speaker:I'm not a in bed sex person
Speaker:wait you're right yeah
Speaker:he asked if you haha no
Speaker:I don't even
Speaker:I mean sometimes when I
Speaker:back in the day
Speaker:I would like to listen to you
Speaker:I feel like I'm not horrible in bed
Speaker:but I feel like there was a time
Speaker:especially when we're younger
Speaker:like I remember a time where
Speaker:I remember a time where the girl wouldn't even come
Speaker:and by that I mean show up
Speaker:ha ha ha ha ha
Speaker:like I was all alone ha ha
