This week on Podcaster Stories, I sit down with Michael Levitt of the Breakfast Leadership Network Show.
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I think a lot of it boils down to we
Speaker:as humans don't have proper boundaries and how we live
Speaker:and the boundaries of what we consume, not just food,
Speaker:but the information that we consume. Eh, right now it's
Speaker:a stressful time. And if we're watching the news several
Speaker:hours a day were consuming a lot of negative information
Speaker:in that stresses people out. It concerns us as governments,
Speaker:open things up and then close things back down again,
Speaker:that stressful for many people, because they're worried they have
Speaker:fear that they could lose their job. There could be
Speaker:an income drop in their household. They won't be able
Speaker:to do the things that they like doing, you know,
Speaker:with the holiday's coming up.
Speaker:There's a lot of concern of will I be able
Speaker:to go home for Christmas or see loved ones for
Speaker:the holidays or whatever holiday you observe. It's really, really
Speaker:problematic. And you know, that story,
Speaker:Hi and welcome to Podcaster Stories each week we will
Speaker:have a conversation with podcasters across all mediums and share
Speaker:their story. What motivates them, why they started a Hill
Speaker:as a group. And More what was the talk about
Speaker:her personal life and some of the things that have
Speaker:happened that made them the person they are today. And
Speaker:now here's your host. Danny Brown hi, and welcome to
Speaker:another episode of Podcaster Stories this week, I have Mike
Speaker:Levitt host of the Breakfast Leadership show in which it
Speaker:looks to help lead it, to reduce stress and prevent
Speaker:burnout and focus on what really matters the most. So,
Speaker:Michael, welcome to the show. I really appreciate you being
Speaker:here. How about you introduce yourself and a bunch of
Speaker:background about your show.
Speaker:Thank you so much. Danny glad to be here. So
Speaker:again, Michael, Levitt the host of the The Breakfast Leadership
Speaker:show in, I launched the Breakfast Leadership Network several years
Speaker:ago to address burnout. And I started off working with
Speaker:C suite executives, but I have expanded that to working
Speaker:with organizations that want to improve the mental and physical
Speaker:well-being of their employees, because burn out, it takes a
Speaker:huge toll on every organization with lost productivity, absenteeism, maybe
Speaker:even lost employees, because they don't have to go out
Speaker:on mental or sick leave or potentially save your organization
Speaker:altogether and not right.
Speaker:Definitely is something that we'll be speaking about and the
Speaker:shore, I think it's important as well with 2d, be
Speaker:in the world, mental health day, that as you mentioned,
Speaker:you know, we can lose employees and colleagues, you know,
Speaker:through stress and burnout, not just on a sort of
Speaker:take time off of work, which I think everybody tends
Speaker:to think over the, the stress can have some time
Speaker:off of it. All of a sudden it causes a
Speaker:lot more issues than just to take them off work.
Speaker:Oh, definitely. In a thank you for acknowledging the mental
Speaker:health day. I'm, it's a, it's a big challenge. And
Speaker:we're seeing a lot of issues, especially during this pandemic
Speaker:where a lot of people are struggling with work and
Speaker:life and everything in between. And it's, it's not a
Speaker:good time for a lot of people, but it doesn't
Speaker:to be that way. There are some things that we
Speaker:all can do to help ease the stress and, and
Speaker:keep our, our mental wellness a top priority.
Speaker:Now, you mentioned that I was in the pandemic and
Speaker:my wife long enough sent out a newsletter up this
Speaker:morning, where she mentioned the, the mental health effects of
Speaker:the pandemic and you know, and people in general, how
Speaker:much of our, obviously the pandemic has had a huge
Speaker:impact on people globally. How much do you think is
Speaker:actually being recognized by C workplaces? I know a lot
Speaker:of work places that are moving to a remote only
Speaker:option. Microsoft just announced. It there'll be, feel a little
Speaker:more, you know, if people wish to do that, how
Speaker:much do you feel that there is a workplace is
Speaker:still need to get up to speed with what's happened
Speaker:in when it comes to, you know, a stress on
Speaker:our own mental health. We have this pandemic, I guess,
Speaker:You know, there was a couple stats that I would
Speaker:like to share. One monster.com did a study earlier in
Speaker:the summer. And they indicated that 69% of those surveyed
Speaker:employees are identifying as being burned out. So that's roughly
Speaker:seven out of 10 employees are dealing with some type
Speaker:of burnout right now, much of it due to working
Speaker:remotely in working from home and trying to juggle all
Speaker:the things that we're doing and not spending the time
Speaker:to separate work from home. Because before, for many of
Speaker:us, if we weren't working from our home, there was
Speaker:basically segment's in our day, we would get up in
Speaker:the morning, we would go to work commute, whether driving
Speaker:or taking a subway or something like that, working, you
Speaker:know, and then taking a break at lunch and whatever
Speaker:coffee breaks and what not leaving, going home.
Speaker:And then you'd have the separation. Well, now everything's in
Speaker:one spot in so many people are just getting up
Speaker:for singing in the morning and they just start working
Speaker:and they work late into the evening every day because
Speaker:of zoom calls and everything else is going on. And
Speaker:congratulations. So many people became full-time school teachers as well
Speaker:because their kids were home because the schools were closed
Speaker:and its really created a lot of challenges. Another study
Speaker:indicated that 54% of employees feel that the HR department
Speaker:are not doing enough to address their mental needs. Now
Speaker:some organizations are starting to look into this, but they
Speaker:need to get ahead of it because for the longest
Speaker:time in burnout was around before this pandemic has been
Speaker:talking about burnout for years.
Speaker:And I have a book that was written and published
Speaker:in 1980 called burnout. So its been around a long
Speaker:time, but it's getting attention now. And the challenge that
Speaker:we're seeing is so many people are, are dealing with
Speaker:his burnout in organizations, ignored it for the longest time
Speaker:because they didn't see a direct impact on the bottom
Speaker:line that they didn't see it in the financial statements,
Speaker:but I guarantee you, they will because this year alone
Speaker:in talking with a colleague of mine, who's in the
Speaker:insurance industry, the mental health claims and the insurance claims
Speaker:for mental health related matters are skyrocketing. So what that
Speaker:means is the claims are going to exceed, you know,
Speaker:basically what your benefits package was set up as so
Speaker:next year when it comes to renewal time, many employers
Speaker:are going to be paying much higher insurance premiums because
Speaker:the claims went so far up on the mental health
Speaker:side of things.
Speaker:That's going to impact the bottom line in that can
Speaker:be prevented by organizations. If they take a more proactive
Speaker:approach in addressing the stress and wellbeing that so many
Speaker:of their employees are facing and not just handing them
Speaker:an EAP brochure and say, here you can call somebody
Speaker:toll free and you have a chat with them. We've
Speaker:got to go beyond that. There's more investment that employers
Speaker:need to do for the wellbeing of their employees.
Speaker:And I think that that ties in really nicely to,
Speaker:you had mentioned that you bought a book back in
Speaker:1980, it was in 1982, 20 years ago. Sorry. Thank
Speaker:you.
Speaker:In 1980, I hate to do the math. It was
Speaker:40 years ago
Speaker:Or two years ago. I, it, it, it feels
Speaker:Like about five years ago because I remember in 1980
Speaker:pretty clearly, but I had hair back then too. So
Speaker:I'm a completely different world, but not really a So.
Speaker:Yeah, it's it it's, it's been around a long time,
Speaker:but it's definitely more it's more talked about because I
Speaker:think mental health is being more talked about ah, the
Speaker:stigma while it still there is easing up. And I
Speaker:think, you know, in Canada, for example, ballots talk that
Speaker:is brought on a ton of awareness and there's key
Speaker:people in the world that have publicly indicated that they've
Speaker:had some mental health challenges and they are strong advocates
Speaker:to say, it's okay to say that you're not okay
Speaker:and get the help that you need.
Speaker:And because you want to be the healthiest version of
Speaker:yourself, we have no problem going to a doctor. If
Speaker:we have an ailment or indigestion or some type of
Speaker:physical ailment, it shouldn't be the same way if there's
Speaker:something going on, as far as how we're feeling and
Speaker:what's on our mind and our thoughts and behaviors and
Speaker:getting those address to make sure that we're the best
Speaker:version of ourselves is critical and crucial and everyone should
Speaker:encourage it.
Speaker:Now I know your background is in healthcare. Umm, and
Speaker:it was written it on your site where, when you
Speaker:were mentioning in the States from one store, ah, elsewhere
Speaker:earlier in on your, on your website, you've got to
Speaker:start from, that really stood out for me from the
Speaker:world health organization about occupational burnout and the number's from
Speaker:your own time in health care. And the, the numbers
Speaker:coming out from the Who is 75% to 75% of
Speaker:patients that use are, say it's stress as the reason
Speaker:they were there. And that that's a pretty scary number.
Speaker:I mean you mentioned 710, that's even higher, like seven
Speaker:and a half out of 10, you know, occupational burnout.
Speaker:Or do you think are some of the key factors
Speaker:in a sport from your time in health care and
Speaker:the people that you speak to it on your show
Speaker:and how do we take that back under control?
Speaker:Or do you think,
Speaker:I think a lot of it boils down to we
Speaker:as humans don't have proper boundaries and how we live
Speaker:and the boundaries of what we consume, not just food,
Speaker:but the information that we consume right now, it's a
Speaker:stressful time. And if we're watching the news several hours
Speaker:a day were consuming a lot of negative information. Okay.
Speaker:And that stresses people out. It concerns us as, as
Speaker:governments open things up and then close things back down
Speaker:again, that stressful for many people because they're worried they
Speaker:have fear that they could lose their job. There could
Speaker:be an income drop in their household. They won't be
Speaker:able to do the things that they liked doing, you
Speaker:know, with the holidays coming up.
Speaker:There's a lot of concern of will I be able
Speaker:to go home for Christmas or see loved ones for
Speaker:the holidays or whatever holiday you observe. It it's a
Speaker:lot really, really problematic. And you know, that stress builds
Speaker:up. But as far as the cases of what we
Speaker:saw when we saw it, when I was in health
Speaker:care and the primary care with all of the stress,
Speaker:again, it's in proper nutrition and not getting enough rest
Speaker:if you eat better and I'm not telling people just
Speaker:to eat kale salads all day and night, that's not
Speaker:what I mean. I highly recommend everybody find a nutritionist
Speaker:or a dietitian in work with them to figure out
Speaker:the right foods for you because each of us have
Speaker:some type of food and tolerance.
Speaker:So if you can find the right foods for you
Speaker:to provide you the natural energy that you need to
Speaker:have a sustainable energy level throughout your day. So you
Speaker:don't have to hit that 2:00 PM red bull or
Speaker:cup of coffee that will make you feel better because
Speaker:your body won't need all the extra stimulants, which creates
Speaker:the imbalance rises and crashes and all of that stuff,
Speaker:which does cause physical stress on our bodies. Couple that
Speaker:with sleep so many of us have horrible sleep. And
Speaker:when we get deep sleep, that's when our body repairs,
Speaker:all the damage that we do to ourselves on a
Speaker:daily basis. And if we're not sleeping well, then today's
Speaker:damage gets piled on to tomorrow's damage and it just
Speaker:continues.
Speaker:And then you started seeing physical ailments or, you know,
Speaker:gut bacteria. For example, if you're not eating properly can
Speaker:create problems. You know, the diabetic population continues to increase
Speaker:and I just saw literally about a half an hour
Speaker:before we jumped on that, the Metformin it's a heavily
Speaker:prescribed drugs for diabetes has been recalled because there are
Speaker:cancer causing agents in that medication. So here's a medication
Speaker:and trying to help people and Oh congratulations. Yeah, we're
Speaker:keeping your diabetes under control, but now we've just introduced
Speaker:the possibility that you're going to have cancer. So welcome
Speaker:to chemo and radiation in it.
Speaker:And a lot of that is driven by how we
Speaker:take care of ourselves, our activity in what weed. Now,
Speaker:some people in working in health care, there are some
Speaker:cultures that unfortunately are programmed to get type two diabetes.
Speaker:They can be healthy, have all of the right indicators,
Speaker:but unfortunately just their, you know, their DNA makeup and
Speaker:the culture where they came from can create those situations.
Speaker:So that's always concerning when I see majorly prescribed a
Speaker:medication being recalled because I'm thinking how many millions and
Speaker:millions of people are taking that. And again, that causes
Speaker:stress. So if you've got a chronic disease you're stressed
Speaker:and actually the key thing about stress is there are,
Speaker:I believe the number is 26 chronic diseases.
Speaker:That stress is actually an element as a potential cause
Speaker:for that chronic disease, hypertension, high blood pressure, all of
Speaker:these things. So if you don't control your stress, you're
Speaker:creating scenarios where you can end up with several other
Speaker:chronic diseases. Unfortunately, you know, again, primary care or, you
Speaker:know, we saw people that had four or five different
Speaker:chronic diseases. And at which means, you know, as a
Speaker:physician, there's all kinds of prescriptions that are being written
Speaker:for these people instead of gravitating them to a better
Speaker:nutrition, more activities and things like that. And I know
Speaker:that they can get off of those medications. I'm a
Speaker:perfect example. You know, I have my cardiac event back
Speaker:in 2009 with my burn-out and all of that stuff.
Speaker:And I'm off all of my heart medications. So don't
Speaker:take them any more because I'm taking nutrients that I've
Speaker:worked with, the nutritionist and natural pet food doctors and
Speaker:all of that and getting a proper exercise and eating
Speaker:vegetables, you know, here's a pro tip at the grocery
Speaker:store or shop the perimeter trying to limit don't. I
Speaker:mean, I'll, by all means, there's things in there are
Speaker:spices and things like that you would want to cook
Speaker:with. That is great. But trying not to make sure
Speaker:that the majority of your food comes in a cardboard
Speaker:box that's that's not good for you. Yeah.
Speaker:It's interesting. You mentioned about the food and nutrition. There
Speaker:was a meme on Facebook a while back and it
Speaker:did, did their own quite a bit. And it was
Speaker:comparing the price of, as you mentioned, by in healthy
Speaker:foods of vegetables, you know, the proper about carbohydrates of
Speaker:proper proteins, etc. And you compare that to like a
Speaker:bottle of pop or a fast food joint McDonald's meal.
Speaker:And you can see a McDonald's meal for three bucks
Speaker:and for the equivalent amount of protein, et cetera, obviously
Speaker:you'd have McDonald's in a healthy protein by the night,
Speaker:but it costs a lot of 20, 25 bucks and
Speaker:to get the same amount of C thresh verge, you
Speaker:know, good, good milk and stuff like that. So I
Speaker:know a lot of governments are, especially with the pandemic
Speaker:that is, you know, they are the real looking at
Speaker:with the serve there at the community is the, you
Speaker:know, the people that put them into power.
Speaker:And one of the things is universal basic income, for
Speaker:example, but, and that's a great start, but do you
Speaker:think that needs to be a and come back to
Speaker:your point and how you get off your medication through
Speaker:a proper nutrition exercise, you know, and, and really looking
Speaker:after yourself due, we need to put as much emphasis
Speaker:on making junk food more expensive than the healthy food,
Speaker:especially for the Lord. And can families, were they switched
Speaker:to the junk food coz that's all that they can
Speaker:basically afford?
Speaker:Yeah. I think there's definitely ways to look at that
Speaker:because, but I have noticed, and I'll, I'll, I'll pick
Speaker:on the golden arches for a minute. They do have
Speaker:a healthy food options. You just have to know what
Speaker:to order, but you know, one of their meals, for
Speaker:example, if you order the number three with a Coke,
Speaker:for example, you know, that's gonna run you, you know,
Speaker:in, in Canada 12, maybe $13, I used to be
Speaker:four or five and now it's 12 or 13. And
Speaker:I have found that you can shop by, I went
Speaker:to the grocery store this morning and hit up the
Speaker:veggie aisle, fresh meats, lean meats, all of that kinda
Speaker:good stuff.
Speaker:And, you know, dividing that by the number of meals
Speaker:that I will get out of that food is considerably
Speaker:cheaper than ordering a number three with a Coke or
Speaker:anything like that. So it's just understanding how to prepare
Speaker:meals and things like that in the end of the
Speaker:internet. And the beautiful thing is, and even there are
Speaker:so many of these meal box systems that are out
Speaker:there as well, that can help you kind of guide
Speaker:yourself to preparing meals that are healthier, fresh ingredients, finding
Speaker:the nutrients that work for you. And I know some
Speaker:people say they don't have time, but here's what they'll
Speaker:do. They'll get home from work and they'll use a
Speaker:food ordering app and have somebody deliver the food for
Speaker:them.
Speaker:I cook dinner last night and I had the veggies.
Speaker:I had starches, I have a lean meats. It was
Speaker:done in 22 minutes and ordering a food app. You're
Speaker:waiting 30 to 45. So they say, well, it's quicker
Speaker:to order may be if you're driving to there from
Speaker:work and picking it up or even, you know, leaving
Speaker:your house and going in there and coming back. And
Speaker:I find that its actually a ch quicker too, make
Speaker:your own meals on top of that. It's one of
Speaker:those things. And this is one of the things that
Speaker:I think a lot of people get in trouble with
Speaker:stress is they multitask. They try to do too many
Speaker:things when you're preparing a meal. And I'll be honest
Speaker:with you. I have not been someone to cook meals
Speaker:up until probably the last four or five years.
Speaker:Actually I'd say probably closer to three years. I find
Speaker:it very therapeutic to be cutting up the vegetables, getting
Speaker:them prepared, whether I'm going to grill them or eat
Speaker:them raw or whatever the case may be preparing the
Speaker:meats Proterra, or if I'm having potatoes or rice taking
Speaker:care of all of those things, it's very therapeutic because
Speaker:you need to pay attention what you're doing, especially if
Speaker:you're using a knife. Okay. And I still have all
Speaker:of my digits. I haven't cut them yet. Knock on
Speaker:wood. But if there's something about that, its it's a,
Speaker:I would almost a, a, a, a self care type
Speaker:of thing for me where it's like, I enjoy cooking.
Speaker:I enjoy preparing things. So I like experimenting with some
Speaker:things and yeah,
Speaker:And I like tasting food and you can't, you can't
Speaker:really taste fast food.
Speaker:I mean, it's got flavor of course, but any more
Speaker:you eat it. And Chuck, how you're feeling, how is
Speaker:your energy levels? How is your gut and all of
Speaker:those things. And again, I, a big component of stress
Speaker:that, and we're starting to see more and more studies
Speaker:about this is your gut activity or a gut bacteria.
Speaker:M w for many of us, you know, in our
Speaker:generation, we were over prescribed antibiotics. And there are studies
Speaker:showing that that has impacted our ability to have a
Speaker:clean digestive systems. So that's why you start seeing the
Speaker:need for antacids and all of those types of things.
Speaker:Because the gut bacteria that we need to break down
Speaker:the foods in properly, you know, divvy the things up
Speaker:to what their supposed to do inside of our bodies
Speaker:has been eaten away a little bit. So your body's
Speaker:is going, I don't know what to do with this
Speaker:stuff. So it sends it back up and you get
Speaker:acid reflux. And it's a, it's a fun thing to
Speaker:have. But again, all of these things like acid reflux,
Speaker:for example, sometimes that flares up at night and it
Speaker:could flare up while you're sleeping, wakes you up. If
Speaker:you have it, well, guess what, you've been interrupted with
Speaker:your sleep. So you're not repairing the damage to your
Speaker:body cause you're not getting good sleep. So that's why
Speaker:nutrition is such an important thing. And well, again, why
Speaker:highly recommended people to work with a nutritionist or dietician
Speaker:to figure out what are the right foods for you?
Speaker:So you can live a better, healthier life and have
Speaker:more natural energy. Instead of the other stimulants that we
Speaker:know we all use and choose,
Speaker:You know, you're a Breakfast Leadership shop that's been going
Speaker:on since 2017. Now I believe crept w has experienced
Speaker:lift up to your expectations and what's been different from
Speaker:what you might've expected here or when you first started
Speaker:to show up.
Speaker:Yeah. And when I launched the show, my original content
Speaker:or in my original intent for the show was I
Speaker:was, I didn't really have a plan to interview anybody.
Speaker:I was just going to have basically a little five
Speaker:to 10 minute snippets on ideas on how to reduce
Speaker:stress and reduce your burnout and things like that. And
Speaker:then, and the first, you know, 50 or 60 episodes
Speaker:of the show, what it was just that. But then
Speaker:I was encouraged by a good colleague of mine to
Speaker:say, you know, you should interview guests. So I started
Speaker:and it, it it's blown me away. The, the fun
Speaker:conversations that I get to have with people across the
Speaker:globe on a variety of different things. So yes, burn
Speaker:out as one of them. But the show is kind
Speaker:of taken on a direction of these are successful.
Speaker:Entrepreneurs are successful people in life. They're doing great things
Speaker:in their share their story as to how they got
Speaker:there because so many people want to do something different
Speaker:in their life than they are doing right now. So
Speaker:it, it provides them some insights behind the curtain scenes
Speaker:of how individuals were able to adjust and pivot and
Speaker:grow in their organizations to get the growth that they
Speaker:want to be, where they want to be. Some of
Speaker:them are not where they want to be up, but
Speaker:they're still growing on doing some great things. And it,
Speaker:it, it has amazing, you know, the reaction. And I
Speaker:get some of the feedback that I get, you know,
Speaker:to get international rankings. I scratch my head and say,
Speaker:why, why, why am I so popular in the UK?
Speaker:I've I've I I'm here. I am a dual citizen.
Speaker:I split time between the United States and Canada. I'm
Speaker:like, well, why is the UK listening to me? And
Speaker:you know, I'm thankful. Believe me, I'm, I'm thrilled that,
Speaker:you know, anybody listens to my show. It's a, it's
Speaker:a good thing, but it's entertaining. It's fun because I've
Speaker:gained so much professional and personal growth from the conversations
Speaker:I've had, having interviews, you know, that our, you know,
Speaker:I'm being interviewed. And obviously the ones that I've held
Speaker:myself, he just gained so much knowledge. And, and I,
Speaker:when people are in, I know a lot of people
Speaker:are familiar with podcasts and now more so than they
Speaker:were even three years ago.
Speaker:And when I explained to people that have never listened
Speaker:before, they said, the beautiful thing that I like about
Speaker:podcasts is if you love to talk radio, imagine just
Speaker:being able to listen to a station or several stations
Speaker:on the exact content you want. Cause if we listened
Speaker:to talk radio in and out, or they may be
Speaker:for segments may be five, six segments, and there is
Speaker:going to be maybe one or two of those segments
Speaker:that are interesting to us. And then the other is
Speaker:for Lincoln. I'm not going to pay any attention, but
Speaker:with this, you can pick and choose and say, I
Speaker:want to listen to this type of content. And again,
Speaker:it's for growth. And, and then of course there's comedy
Speaker:and entertainment shows and things like that. And I know
Speaker:a lot of people listened to those things to, you
Speaker:know, make a, a good harmonious, balanced with things because
Speaker:a lot of the world, we definitely need to laugh
Speaker:more, especially during the pandemic, but long story short, I
Speaker:love the medium.
Speaker:I know it's got a lot of growth coming because
Speaker:there's so many new players that are coming into it,
Speaker:which is going to drive people into it. And it's
Speaker:a great creative, a way to do it in a
Speaker:w what I find best about it is, you know,
Speaker:and just to kinda behind the curtain thing for me
Speaker:is it took me a while to get my feet
Speaker:around when I should do interviews, because it was doing
Speaker:them every day. It was kind of scattered and all
Speaker:of that. And then one of the things that I
Speaker:do for my own stress reduction and prevention is I've
Speaker:themes for every day of my week. So on Mondays,
Speaker:I do, I am a public speaker. So I do
Speaker:a lot of public speaking engagements, all of that virtual
Speaker:now in my luggage, he misses me, but they are
Speaker:all virtual, but Monday is, are the days that I
Speaker:do research on that and reach out to your event
Speaker:planners and a lineup.
Speaker:Some speaking events Tuesdays I use for intro
Speaker:Calls or followup calls. Wednesdays
Speaker:Are my podcast show recording days. That's usually the day
Speaker:I record and less someone can't do it on a
Speaker:Wednesday. Then I've got some flexibility in the Thursdays and
Speaker:Fridays. I don't schedule anything. I leave those open for
Speaker:those last minute. Hey, can we jump on a call
Speaker:this week? Typically I can say, how was your Thursday
Speaker:or Friday? Look, I keep those open. I'm thankful that,
Speaker:and it's taken time for me to figure that out,
Speaker:but I know by having themes for every day of
Speaker:the week, I don't have to think about really anything
Speaker:differently than, okay. Today is Monday. And my focus is
Speaker:on speaking Tuesdays, let's have some calls and learn some
Speaker:new things about people, Wednesdays, I'm wearing this thing and
Speaker:doing what we're doing right now and on Thursdays and
Speaker:Fridays can be a little bit more, I don't want
Speaker:to say chaotic, but they have a lot of different
Speaker:flavors to them based on what is come up from,
Speaker:from the week.
Speaker:And by doing that, I don't have to shift gears
Speaker:and do different things all the time. And I think
Speaker:that's something that most people can do that even if
Speaker:they're working for an organization, I think it's a good
Speaker:idea to sort out and figure out, you know, where,
Speaker:you know, the world makes sense. So during your week
Speaker:in, you work with your manager and say, Hey, I
Speaker:got an idea. I'm going to try this and what
Speaker:will happen as you know, okay, Wednesdays, I work on
Speaker:the financials or Thursdays, I work on follow up calls
Speaker:or whatever it makes sense for you by doing that,
Speaker:your brain is working on likeminded tasks. So its not
Speaker:so hard to shift gears into doing different things that
Speaker:just makes it a little bit more organized.
Speaker:And I think by doing that, it helps reduce a
Speaker:lot of the stress of switching gears and multitasking. And
Speaker:all of it
Speaker:Is that they speak in of stress. And I know
Speaker:you'd alluded to it earlier, your medical event, back in
Speaker:2009, you had quite an adventure from, for want of
Speaker:a better description. And obviously you had a heart attack,
Speaker:but you also had some personal stuff that happened at
Speaker:the same time. Yep. And I can only imagine how
Speaker:all of that combined, you know, it would have affected
Speaker:you So so what happened there are and how did
Speaker:you react? I guess?
Speaker:Yeah. Yeah. So, you know, real quickly and in 2009,
Speaker:after being a healthcare executive at a start-up health care
Speaker:organization for a couple of years, over a period of
Speaker:a year, 369 days from May, 2009 to May, 2010,
Speaker:I had a heart attack that should have killed me.
Speaker:I lost my job during the great recession. My car
Speaker:was repossessed in my home was foreclosed all in a
Speaker:year. I'm in why did those things happened? Because I
Speaker:was burned out. I was so burned out. I wasn't
Speaker:taking care of myself. My nutrition plan was breakfast, lunch
Speaker:and dinner talking into a Microphone driving around the corner
Speaker:painting and getting handed a Brown back though.
Speaker:That was my meal plan because I was working so
Speaker:many hours in this ironically health care organization. I wasn't
Speaker:taking care of myself. You know, health care organizations tell
Speaker:people how to live their lives, but here I was
Speaker:not walking the walk. And then when, after you lose
Speaker:your job during the great recession, there wasn't a lot
Speaker:of jobs available. And that area that I was in
Speaker:and Oh, congratulations. Now you're on all of these heart
Speaker:medications. So it was costing me a thousand dollars a
Speaker:month because I didn't have any drug insurance coverage. And
Speaker:I was on unemployment, which means lot less income coming
Speaker:in. You have to pay for food for your family
Speaker:in all of a sudden, a a thousand dollars a
Speaker:month for drugs and not the fun kind of drugs,
Speaker:but the stuff that keeps you alive, maybe I should
Speaker:have taken those instead of probably would have felt better.
Speaker:I don't know. I'm not judging, you know, that they
Speaker:were saying, Oh yes or no butt end of the
Speaker:day, when you do that, it impacts your ability to
Speaker:pay other bills. And of course I worked with all
Speaker:of our creditors and they all gave us grace, you
Speaker:know, for a period of time. But unfortunately that grace
Speaker:period ran out in the bank, they exercise their right
Speaker:to take back to the vehicle in foreclosure to the
Speaker:home. And I don't blame them. You know, it, the
Speaker:was we had an agreement. I didn't live up to
Speaker:the agreement of course have circumstances. But at the end
Speaker:of the day, I couldn't pay bills. And if you
Speaker:can't pay bills, you know, they have a right to
Speaker:take that step back and they did. And, but all
Speaker:of those things happened because I was burned out and
Speaker:I wasn't taking care of myself. So after surviving all
Speaker:of those things, I, you know, had a choice.
Speaker:So it was like, well, I survived them. I get
Speaker:my must be Superman. I'm not going to change a
Speaker:thing. Or I realize I never want to go through
Speaker:a year like that ever again. What do I need
Speaker:to do to make sure that doesn't happen? And I
Speaker:did a lot of deep work and a lot of
Speaker:reflection, an intro. It was kind of looking in and
Speaker:I did it in a caring, loving way. Some very
Speaker:thankful that some people very close to me told me
Speaker:its like, you know, look within, but don't judge just
Speaker:observe, you know, the choices and the behaviors and thoughts
Speaker:that you did. The, that led up to that year
Speaker:of worst case scenario. And then from there I see
Speaker:what areas you can make adjustments and to prevent that
Speaker:from happening again.
Speaker:And that's what I did, you know, for me, you
Speaker:know, I, I made the choice to completely reinvent myself.
Speaker:Now for most people that are burned out, I don't
Speaker:want to scare them. No, you don't have to re-invent
Speaker:yourself. Or the majority of people don't they have to
Speaker:make some adjustments in their lives and a couple of
Speaker:things and that can make a big difference and even
Speaker:stopping burnout. Doesn't take a lot to stop it, get
Speaker:good sleep, eat better, get active control your inputs of
Speaker:what your watching and consuming rest to be thankful for
Speaker:things that you're thankful for a, especially on the Canadian
Speaker:Thanksgiving weekend, be thankful even though, or in the middle
Speaker:of a pandemic, there's still a ton of things to
Speaker:be thankful for and, and focus on that and that
Speaker:can stop the burnout.
Speaker:But then the deeper work people need to do is
Speaker:to determine what led up to the burnout in the
Speaker:first place. What were my thoughts, my beliefs, my habits,
Speaker:those things. And that takes a bit more work because
Speaker:you have to look within. And a lot of people
Speaker:are very afraid to do that. But if you do
Speaker:do it with love, love yourself because you're never with
Speaker:anybody than yourself ever. Even if you have a sidekick,
Speaker:that's always at your side, you're still, you know, you
Speaker:live with yourself everyday your life. So you've got to
Speaker:love yourself and look and see why those things happen.
Speaker:And I recommend if, if, if you're having difficulties with
Speaker:that to work with the therapist to, to guide you
Speaker:through that, I didn't in those early days, I did
Speaker:the work for myself.
Speaker:I think it would've been beneficial for me to work
Speaker:with the therapist earlier. I think it would have expedited
Speaker:some things and probably provide a little bit more clarity
Speaker:on some things that took a little bit longer for
Speaker:me to figure out. But at the end of the
Speaker:day, I'm living the ideal life now and I'm happy
Speaker:to be alive obviously and help others, you know, navigate
Speaker:their burnout journey as well.
Speaker:And where are you ever concerned? Or if you're like,
Speaker:because obviously as you mentioned, you had to reinvent yourself,
Speaker:there was certain decisions you had to make too to
Speaker:really avoid or what had happened and the run-up to
Speaker:your, your event, your, your health issues, or were you
Speaker:ever concerned to, as you were gone through the rebuilding
Speaker:process that you may be taking on more stress or
Speaker:more burnout because you know, you don't want to start
Speaker:from scratch. You've got bills to pay, you've got responsibilities,
Speaker:but you've also got a new life again for want
Speaker:of a better description to build. And were you concerned
Speaker:that you may end up back to square one because
Speaker:of what you will know taken on
Speaker:Early on? Yes. I was concerned that burnout would creep
Speaker:back in, but thankfully I knew the signs of burnout
Speaker:at that point. I certainly didn't know them before, although
Speaker:they were all there and loved ones and friends and
Speaker:family tried to warn me, but I wouldn't listen to
Speaker:them. And I think that was a big, big mistake
Speaker:on my part. I could have potentially had it off.
Speaker:So many of those losses, if I would have caught
Speaker:it and started doing things differently, who knows about the
Speaker:cardiac event, you know, that that could have been something
Speaker:that could have come up, but at least they could
Speaker:have potentially been put on some medications to unblock the
Speaker:arteries and things like that. So I wouldn't of had
Speaker:to have a heart attack, but it's hard to say,
Speaker:but once, you know, starting a new and rebuilding, I
Speaker:looked at it and, and this was a mindset thing
Speaker:that I looked at it from a point of curiosity
Speaker:and I was intentional about choices and thoughts.
Speaker:And literally, I mean, of course that slows things down
Speaker:a bit, which I think is a good thing for
Speaker:many of us is when I made a decision or
Speaker:if I reacted to something I would pause and say,
Speaker:okay, why am I either happy about this? Or why
Speaker:am I upset about this particular moment? And now even,
Speaker:I'll be honest with you. I even had this conversation
Speaker:with my better half and myself earlier today, you know,
Speaker:regarding this pandemic and governments closing things down and, you
Speaker:know, really impacting businesses and families and, you know, wondering,
Speaker:okay, is a blanket approach to close everything down the
Speaker:right thing to do, or should they be more pin-point
Speaker:on the problem areas instead of just doing a blanket
Speaker:closing of everything and really struggled with that and was
Speaker:borderline upset about the situation.
Speaker:And, but upon reflection, looking at it going, okay, I
Speaker:think as a society and everybody should look to whatever
Speaker:decisions are being made by others as their intent is
Speaker:to do the best that they think that they can
Speaker:do at this moment with the information that they have
Speaker:and go at it in a non-judgemental way. And its
Speaker:easy for us, especially with social media and everything else
Speaker:and S presidential elections. It's just, there's all kinds of
Speaker:stress going on all over the place. And we're very
Speaker:quick to judge and say, they shouldn't do this, you
Speaker:know, and to get on our soap box and start
Speaker:pointing and yelling, it doesn't help anything.
Speaker:It doesn't make things better. All it does is it
Speaker:builds up or stress and you know, thankfully we caught
Speaker:it. You know, I took me a little bit, cause
Speaker:sometimes I'm slow when it comes to things like that.
Speaker:I got a history for that, but at the end
Speaker:of the day, you know, I realize, okay, what can
Speaker:I do? What are the things that I can do
Speaker:to tell with the situation? Okay. So if I'm concerned
Speaker:about will pick on restaurants, cause a lot of In
Speaker:in Toronto with all of the restaurants or are being
Speaker:closer to it, to our dining room as of today.
Speaker:So in that situation, I can still order food from
Speaker:my favorite restaurants. There are still open for takeout, obviously
Speaker:pick a nutrition foods and all of that.
Speaker:But again, it's one of those things were for me,
Speaker:it was being empathetic for the potential losses that that
Speaker:business has and the people that work for it and
Speaker:the ripple effect. And again, it goes back to then
Speaker:I'll be honest with it. It's a trigger because it
Speaker:brings me back to my experience of losing everything. And
Speaker:I don't want people to go through that. That's why
Speaker:I do the work that I do. I don't want
Speaker:people to have burnout, create those scenarios where they could
Speaker:lose their job, their car, their house had to relocate
Speaker:to a brand new community and leave friends and family
Speaker:behind it. It's not, that's not a pleasant and I
Speaker:don't want people to go through that experience. That's why
Speaker:I stand on my soap box and say burn-out is
Speaker:dangerous.
Speaker:You don't want to mess with it.
Speaker:Oh no, you sure you had mentioned earlier, you show
Speaker:a three years old or if it's a little over
Speaker:three years old and obviously you mentioned you got listers
Speaker:in the UK and let me know how to get
Speaker:in touch with you. And that's a really growing the
Speaker:way you want it to. What are your goals for
Speaker:the future of the show? I know you've you mentioned
Speaker:it came from just being yourself, talking about some topics.
Speaker:Now it's the The Breakfast Leadership show. We have talking
Speaker:to people every, you know, every episode, what your goals,
Speaker:you know, for show and its direction.
Speaker:I think for the next few years, especially with what's
Speaker:going on in this pandemic is, eh, there's a lot
Speaker:of potential that I probably need to have either some
Speaker:spinoffs of the show, that to focus on more specific
Speaker:on a separate items, you know, health obviously is a
Speaker:big concern of mine for people, maybe doing a focal
Speaker:point on that small business, you know, the, the heart
Speaker:and soul of so many countries. That's why I bring
Speaker:in a lot of people to help small business leaders
Speaker:and to grow their businesses and do things that will
Speaker:learn from experiences of others. And then obviously the burnout
Speaker:side of things and making sure that there's, you know,
Speaker:tips that people that are hearing again and again on
Speaker:how to quickly stop burnout and then started doing the
Speaker:deeper work to figure out why you burned out in
Speaker:the first place.
Speaker:That's why I'm a certified CBT cognitive behavioral therapy and
Speaker:neuro linguistic programming NLP therapist. I went out and got
Speaker:those certificates because what I was finding in working with
Speaker:people in teams is a lot of the situations that
Speaker:led to their burnout, including myself, it was their thoughts
Speaker:are beliefs or behaviors. And that's why, you know, getting
Speaker:certified in those two practices has been really helpful for
Speaker:me to be able to guide people, to look within
Speaker:and see, okay, why do you think you burned out?
Speaker:Okay, what were the ingredients? What were your choices?
Speaker:Why did you react that way and get them thinking
Speaker:about some things? So they recognize, okay, my thoughts on
Speaker:this lead me to make these choices, which turned into
Speaker:this situation, which created this situation, which led me to
Speaker:have prolonged stress and prolonged stress turns into burnout. And
Speaker:it's been really helpful for insights to me is why
Speaker:people burn out and more importantly, what they can do
Speaker:to get out of it and, and crucially prevent it
Speaker:from happening again,
Speaker:The spinoff, Sandra cool, as a sound like I'm a
Speaker:light on the first episode of the season, I was
Speaker:speaking to a couple of ladies and gentlemen, Rachel, and
Speaker:they have like a, a spin off of their show
Speaker:where they concentrate on share and, and Tokyo is of
Speaker:black indigenous. And, you know, people of color's a Stories,
Speaker:which I think is real cool to see Podcaster move
Speaker:away. As you mention to your own podcasts, to move
Speaker:over from, see at the core, not really to move
Speaker:away, but that still the core message, but still have
Speaker:these little offshoots. And when you see on TV all
Speaker:the time, you have, you know, main episodes on say
Speaker:Amazon or Netflix, and then you have a little spinoff.
Speaker:So the star Wars movie, you got like the Solo
Speaker:movie on the road one or whatever.
Speaker:And I think it's interesting to see podcasts as to
Speaker:how to think about, you know, yourself, a lot of
Speaker:the time podcasts, I just don't get taken seriously. I
Speaker:have a lot of geeks on our basement. So in
Speaker:our bedrooms can, you can leave the video game quarters
Speaker:back in the eighties. So its really cool to see
Speaker:you move to that direction as well. And if so,
Speaker:what, what did you go with that? Or are you
Speaker:looking to launch that next year or is it like
Speaker:a three or five year plan or
Speaker:Let's start looking into it for 2021 for sure. Because
Speaker:I've got a backload of interviews that are coming up
Speaker:over the next a month or so I tend to
Speaker:take the entire month of December off. So I don't
Speaker:do hardly anything. I, I dabble in a little things,
Speaker:but I started doing that a couple of years ago
Speaker:just for my own well being and self care its
Speaker:like I've had a, it's a good way for me
Speaker:to reflect on the year and look and do some,
Speaker:you know, business planning and what not, you know, its
Speaker:not like I just sit on the couch and, and
Speaker:stare at the television and watch college football bowl games
Speaker:all the time, which I will do. Although I don't
Speaker:know how the bowl games are going to be this
Speaker:year because they started so late I and who knows?
Speaker:I haven't looked at as far ahead, but I anticipate
Speaker:there'll be something for me to consume, but when you
Speaker:take a break and get away from your normal work
Speaker:pace, that's when clarity can come in. And even if
Speaker:you have a, you know, a really structured work day
Speaker:and things like that and giving yourself a ton of
Speaker:self-care time and whatnot is going to allow me to
Speaker:start thinking about that. And you know, he was like
Speaker:the, the spinning off of the Show has been back
Speaker:of my mind for several months now and with the
Speaker:organization, you know the name of it being The Breakfast
Speaker:Leadership Network that tells you it's an Network that means
Speaker:that there's other things to it. And I, I have
Speaker:the media arts, I've got the speaking from the podcast,
Speaker:the, the writing and content creation on all of that
Speaker:is kind of the umbrella on it.
Speaker:But I think other shows go into it and you
Speaker:know, there's, you know, a distinct possibility that it can
Speaker:bring on additional host to host something along one of
Speaker:those channels and say, okay, this is part of the
Speaker:Breakfast Leadership network. They talk about this subject and they
Speaker:Nisha to niche down, depending on how you say the
Speaker:word in that particular, you know, row or column I
Speaker:should say, and you can spit out. So those were
Speaker:things that have been on top of mind for a
Speaker:while and then it kind of hash it out. And
Speaker:as with anything that I tend to do, I try
Speaker:to have it go organically. Yes. I kind of guide
Speaker:it on certain things, but I think that there's opportunities
Speaker:here for me to say, okay, let's, let's start focusing
Speaker:on this and you can still do the interviews that
Speaker:I do.
Speaker:And when I see, you know, someone coming at a,
Speaker:okay, it's an author, they are writing about employee wellness
Speaker:and this and this it's like, okay, that could go
Speaker:into the health segment or they could go into a
Speaker:business segment again, depending on how the conversation goes, but
Speaker:segue it into those things. And I just tell my
Speaker:podcast editor, okay, you use this intro and outro for
Speaker:this one and, and were good. But I, I think
Speaker:that's, that's probably the, the direction I think the show
Speaker:is going to take, you know, I'm very fortunate. I
Speaker:get to talk to amazing human beings globally, all over
Speaker:the world. And from former orchestra directors to people that
Speaker:worked at NASA to incredible business thought leaders to billionaires,
Speaker:to you name it in its wonderful.
Speaker:And you know this from, you know, being a host
Speaker:and anybody who's listening that ever wants to launch their
Speaker:own show is you can get access to people that
Speaker:would be very difficult in the quote unquote old days.
Speaker:You need to talk with them. All of a sudden
Speaker:you get them on your show. You're having a one-on-one
Speaker:conversation. And I've had some conversations with people that I've
Speaker:had their books for over a decade and I'm interviewing
Speaker:them, I'm talking to them and I'm picking their brain
Speaker:and I'm asking them, what about this? What about this?
Speaker:And there are all gracious with their time and they
Speaker:tell you here's this and this and this and those
Speaker:little nuggets that we can all give each other. And
Speaker:our experiences makes it such a huge difference in moving
Speaker:people forward to the next level that they want to
Speaker:get too.
Speaker:And I'm a big fan of the pie is so
Speaker:big. Not any of us can eat all of it.
Speaker:There's so much of it. Let's bring everybody there and,
Speaker:and eat the pie and, and enjoy it. And hopefully,
Speaker:and there's different flavors too. So if you hate pumpkin
Speaker:pie and you love Apple pie, there's that too. There's
Speaker:plenty of it. So, you know, I, I made it
Speaker:a point to whenever I can help people with anything
Speaker:that I know something about or know somebody that doesn't
Speaker:know something more than happy to help them out because
Speaker:it just makes the world better.
Speaker:Yeah. Which I think we definitely, as you mentioned that
Speaker:at this time, especially with the pandemic in people being
Speaker:either on the roll and because of isolation are not
Speaker:being able to connect with other people in the normal
Speaker:a bit it's as like you said, it's so key
Speaker:to us to look out for each other. Now you
Speaker:mentioned, obviously you speak to a lot of different people
Speaker:and a lot of different leaders across multiple industries and,
Speaker:and expertise, et cetera. And not only have a question
Speaker:that ask him to show up for my favorite episode,
Speaker:stuff like that, but I'm going to, I want to
Speaker:spend that a little bit differently. Okay. So who, and
Speaker:it doesn't necessarily have to be your, your show, but
Speaker:who is your favorite leaders? An example of a leader
Speaker:are a great little ship and who is your hero
Speaker:of all the time and why?
Speaker:Okay. It probably, and I have interviewed this individual. I
Speaker:would love the opportunity, but I have spoken with him
Speaker:before. And it's a Alan Malali, he's the former CEO
Speaker:of Ford motor company. And also the former CEO of
Speaker:Boeing before they had the airplane issue that they are
Speaker:dealing with right now. And it was, it was several
Speaker:years ago, had the opportunity to meet him a couple
Speaker:of years ago at a Leadership event and had a,
Speaker:you know, brief couple of minute conversation with him. One-on-one
Speaker:after his talk. Now I was familiar with him because
Speaker:I grew up in the Detroit area. I know all
Speaker:about Ford motor company in my grandfather worked for them.
Speaker:My, my, my, my family three generations worked for general
Speaker:motors had uncles that work for Chrysler.
Speaker:So I, I know the auto sector really, really well.
Speaker:And you know, so he was the keynote for this
Speaker:event and I'd never heard him. I was familiar with
Speaker:him, but I never heard him speak. And I never
Speaker:really knew some of the backdrop and how he was
Speaker:able to turn Ford motor company around at the time
Speaker:that he led the organization. Because when he took over,
Speaker:you know, they were bleeding really badly and all kinds
Speaker:of different things and his approach to leadership and how
Speaker:he gave permission for his employees to bring him the
Speaker:bad news without repercussion was amazing because so many people
Speaker:are afraid to go to their boss and say, I
Speaker:think we're going to lose a billion dollars in Q3.
Speaker:Well, previous administrations, a Ford, they would never report that.
Speaker:They'd hide it in, of course the numbers would come
Speaker:out and never, it would be shocked. Like how did
Speaker:this happen? Well, he created a scenario that I want
Speaker:people to come in and give me the bad news
Speaker:so we can all talk about it and figure out
Speaker:ways to fix it. And then finally, one of the
Speaker:directors or VPs presented something to them and it was
Speaker:a loss position and he stood up and he clapped.
Speaker:And of course that's not the reaction. A lot of
Speaker:people that think of what happened, but he stood up
Speaker:and clapped. Cause he said, thank you for being open
Speaker:and transparent, honest with what's really going on. Of course,
Speaker:the next week. And everybody else was open and transparent
Speaker:and it was a sea of red and that's when
Speaker:things started to change because then everything was out in
Speaker:the open, they knew it was going on.
Speaker:And then they started making the adjustments to turn things
Speaker:around and, and, and make Ford successful. Again, at that
Speaker:time, as again, growing up in the auto sector, it's
Speaker:a roller coaster. There are some great times there's some
Speaker:bed up down. Of course the great recession was really
Speaker:bad, but you know, and we're seeing now all kinds
Speaker:of adjustments in the auto sector as well, but Malala
Speaker:is definitely, probably somewhat, I would love to interview and
Speaker:I, and I've heard him talk and he, he gives
Speaker:a great, great talk as far as my favorite leader
Speaker:of all time, a hands down Winston Churchill and the
Speaker:reason being in, you know, I saw the darkest hour
Speaker:and I have followed Churchill and studied him.
Speaker:I mean, I look at him sometimes as the accidental
Speaker:leader and, or the reluctant leader, there's all kinds of
Speaker:different things that I kind of associate with him and
Speaker:what he had to do with pretty much the zero
Speaker:by-in to navigate, you know, the UK
Speaker:Through the war, you know, world war II, right
Speaker:In the decision's in the things that had to happen
Speaker:exactly the way that they did in working with the
Speaker:allies and everything else, it again with no one believing
Speaker:in him. 'cause, you know, when he finally got it
Speaker:and everyone pretty much saying it because he tried to
Speaker:be that role for years and it didn't even get
Speaker:close. And all of a sudden here he is, and
Speaker:how we navigated through that and, you know, stood up
Speaker:for what he thought was right, is inspiring. And sometimes,
Speaker:and we know this in leadership, it can be lonely
Speaker:at the top. And the reason they say that is
Speaker:because a lot of people don't buy into you, your
Speaker:vision and the direction that you want to take an
Speaker:organization or government or a country, but the resolve that
Speaker:he had that was inspiring.
Speaker:And, you know, it's, you know,