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What is femininity ?

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Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm

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your host Aurora, and I'm very happy to be spending some time

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with you today. It is Sunday. And yeah, the last couple weeks

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the last episodes I interviewed, hard driven man who are very

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inspiring and motivational and they share their story and give

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us hope, on how we can find our purpose and our power one day,

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even if we don't really see it right now. It is possible. And

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I'm very proud and happy to be meeting with those people who

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recklessly not recklessly sorry but fearlessly and fiercely

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follow their passion and what is true to themselves and always in

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mind to serve other people and support other people, I find it

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incredibly inspiring and awesome. To know that there's so

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many people out there who are on this path already, and there

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will be more and more in the future.

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Today, I felt the need to talk about the feminine again, I want

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to make space for the feminine, too many of us are at war with

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the feminine, the feminine is too loud, too wild untameable.

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Unpredictable, the feminine can destroy, manipulate, hurt.

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And it's a very powerful energy to be in.

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And when

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the feminine was hurt in the past and has not healed, then it

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exhibits very toxic behavior.

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And we have to be aware of this in order to heal in order to

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understand why some of our relationships failed, because it

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is not always the other person's fault. That a fall out has

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happened.

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The feminine, can nurture and create and give birth, the

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feminine is the source of all creativity. And I feel at the

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moment, the feminine has not much space in our society, it

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doesn't really fit in. It is not convenient for us women to be on

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our periods and our body telling us that we want to rest and

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recharge No, we push through. We keep competing with man, we keep

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being ego driven, and trying to prove to the world that we can

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be so strong and

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not distracted

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by anything.

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And I feel a lot of women live in that reactive state, we are

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reacting to past disappointment and hurts. And it is not serving

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us it is certainly not serving society, and men who want to

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connect with us. But most importantly, it is not serving

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ourselves we have to learn to embrace our femininity again.

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And same goes for men. You know we talk a lot about how we all

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have to be more vulnerable and show feelings and everything and

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kind of getting a little bit tired of that word vulnerable

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because yeah, it is true. We have to get back to our feelings

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and emotions again. But I'd like to talk more about fierce

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compassion and fierce self compassion. Especially, we have

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to take our body serious. The signals that it sends us when we

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feel tired when we feel we need to rest. We have to take it

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serious and if we are too tired too often than half we have to

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be little detectives and we have to find out what the cause is,

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instead of just throwing medication and pills added and

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hoping that it will pass. You know the feminine is very

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connected and intuitive to the body and to nature. And I feel

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we

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have to learn to reconnect to our body to listen to our body

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more attentively again. And to connect with nature, again.

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People are so intimidated and fear driven by the news, the

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media, and especially social media. We're like paradise,

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little bunnies in front of screens, reacting to everything

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having to have an opinion to everything, wanting to do our

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research and being right and

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ego driven. And it is not serving us, It tires us out, it

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drains us, it doesn't make a sleep, safe and sound at night,

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we push

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Red Bull and coffee down our throat in order to be

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functioning in society because we're just too tired, and then

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we're over caffeinated, and try to pursue goals that are not

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really awesome to pursue. So we have to come back, we have to

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come back to silence, we have to come back to a very soft and

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quiet way of living a way of living, where we are selective

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of what goes in and out of our body. And I'm not talking only

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about water and food. I'm talking about all the content

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that we are consuming. Is it serving us what we consume on a

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daily daily basis? I would just watching it, listening to it,

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because we're waiting for the next argument have to be right,

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and to have an opinion, when another person raises a concern,

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or asks a question.

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I feel we're shooting at each other with answers and opinions

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and everybody wants to be right. Everybody wants to have

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certainty. But the feminine is not scared of uncertainty, the

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feminine embrace uncertainty, because she's very unpredictable

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herself. She's very confident with her mood swings. And she's

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okay. When things change. It is the masculine that is kind of

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like a container and that gives structure. And that is very,

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extremely important too. We need structure and life we need law

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and order. But what I want to say here tonight is that we need

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both. We need the wild untameable fear less people out

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there who express themselves who express their creativity, who

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are not in reactivity, all the time, but who dig deep inside of

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themselves and let their creativity out. That is serving

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people that is healing people that is making this planet a

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better world

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the feminine, I was at war with my feminine for so long for so

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long. I hated her unpredictability, I hated her

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loudness, her quietness, her mood swings her madness until I

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started embracing her and healing the parts that got hurt

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along the way, by men, by women.

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And now I'm more and more myself. I'm more and more fierce

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lessly compassionate with myself.

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And I'm inviting you to do the same. I'm inviting you to come

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onto this journey with me and to UNdeC your feminine creative

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side. And I think and I hope and I know you understand me right

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this is not a message to women only this is a message to men.

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When you look at Keith Richards when you look at the Rolling

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Stones when you look at

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all the masculine artists out there who are successful, they

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are able to tap into their femininity and into their

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masculinity when ever they wish to.

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And you can do the same you can start with

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From today on, to embrace your creative side, to embrace your

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expression of self, without fear of rejection, because you're

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going to reject the people that are not meant to be in your life

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anyways. And you're going to attract the people who are meant

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to be in your life, and who will support your mission, and who

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will lift you up, and you will do the same for them.

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Thank you for listening to this episode. Very passionate, very

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mad, very feminine. Feminine is not about not being able to

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throw a ball or to cry in a corner. When something doesn't

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go away. Right? We all have very set visions on what femininity

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looks like. All I can say is feminine, as wild as mad as

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creative is giving birth is destroying when things are meant

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to be destroyed. But she's never resentful. She's never hurting

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people in order to feel power. She's never making people feel

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inferior. That is the toxic femininity that we have to

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slowly become aware of and call people out

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in order for us to heal in order for us to become more resilient

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and stronger as a society.

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I will be out there very soon again. Thanks for listening